You're Not Confused — You're Being Manipulated | Ep. 004

Send Lisa a question for her to reply in a future episode!In this explosive episode, Lisa and Dr. Peter Salerno drop a truth bomb that will change how you see manipulation forever. They dive deep into the uncomfortable reality that abusers manipulate on purpose, exploring whether manipulators need to be "smart" or just strategic, the real reasons behind their behavior, and why being manipulated leaves you feeling so confused and traumatized. This is a must-listen episode that will validate your experiences and help you see the truth clearly.Key Topics Covered:• The shocking truth: Abusers manipulate intentionally, not accidentally• Intelligence vs. strategy - what it really takes to be a manipulator• The psychology behind why abusers choose to manipulate• Why manipulation creates such deep confusion and trauma• How to recognize when you're being deliberately confused• Breaking free from the "maybe they don't know what they're doing" mindsetResources Mentioned:• Trauma Bond Recovery Group Coaching Program• Unbreakable and Irreplaceable: Rebuilding After The Trauma Bond• "The Nature and Nurture of Narcissism" by Dr. Peter Salerno• "Traumatic Cognitive Dissonance" by Dr. Peter SalernoAbout Dr. Peter Salerno:Dr. Peter Salerno is a licensed therapist with a PsyD and MS in Clinical Psychology. He specializes in personality disorders and trauma, with extensive training in these areas. He's the author of two groundbreaking books on narcissism and trauma.Follow him on Instagram Join Lisa Sonni & Dr. Peter Salerno in Boston, MA November 13-15, 2026 here: https://lisasonni.com/unbreakable-and-irreplaceable/ Support the showThis is the podcast they don't want you listening to.👉 Find me at lisasonni.com Book A Session with LisaJoin my online survivor community called She Rises Collective where we are breaking free, rebuilding and dismantling patriarchy. Follow on IGWatch on YouTubeGet My Books HereNew episodes drop every Tuesday.Subscribe, share it with someone who needs the truth - and remember:You’re stronger than they ever wanted you to believe.