You're too obsessed with your relationship

CW: We chat about bodily fluidy stuff on this episode, if you're a queasy babe - proceed lightly. Do you ever feel like...you're/we are too obsessed with your/our romantic relationships? Phoebe and Jacque discuss the mindfuck that is being a human walking around everyday with other humans, the falsities and let downs of romantic relationships, and if all of these "couples resources" are actually helping or harming us? They discuss the systems and binaries at play in romantic relationships, their own romantic relationship dynamics, queering long term partnership, and the associations of relationships to "hard work" and what we apparently gain from this badge of honor. OTHER FUN TIDBITS: BLOOD! FLOWERS! PISS! SELF LOVE!Thank you for listening to DYEFL! Follow and rate this chaos wherever you get your podcasts!Our artwork is by Simon Peng.DYEFL is produced by Jacqueline Wills and Phoebe Taylor.PATREON Write us: [email protected] USMore PhoebeMore Jacque ~NYM Etiquette after COVIDThe Gottman InstituteEsther PerelCouples TherapyDomestic Work HistoryLove is BlindPamela Anderson DocumentaryWhat Capitalism Has to Do with Falling in Love by Gabes TorresRad FamiliesFlowers by Miley CyrusDiana Adams - Chosen Family Law Center--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/do-you-ever-feel-like/message This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit doyouever.substack.com This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit doyouever.substack.com/subscribe