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Adult Bedtime Stories

by Gigi Raven Wilbur

Welcome to Adult Bedtime Stories – Are you ready to experience Nocturnal Emissions. Join us in a Sex-Positive Awakening adventure to help create a sex-positive world. Become part of a movement and start living a sex-positive lifestyle free of sexual shame and guilt. Adult Bedtime Stories is A Raven’s Lair Production. Adult Bedtime Stories is a show dedicated to bringing sacredness back to our sexuality and to learn about everything sexual. Allow the beautiful sexy creature within you to emerge. Each week the focus of the show will be on different sexual topics designed to enlighten you so you develop more fully as a sexual being. This is the sex education that you didn’t receive in high school, but should have. Imagine for a moment that we could change the world and live a sex-positive lifestyle. In our sex-negative world the process of socialization teaches us to feel shame and guilt around sex. By adopting a new set of attitudes and values around sex, we can view sex with a new un

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Episodes

  1. Edging an Orgasm

    Edging an orgasm is a sexual technique that can be done by women, and men. While it seems simple at the surface, it does take time to train ones body, but the effort is well worth it. Through the process of edging, pre-orgasmic energy is circulated through the entire body. With this technique…

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  2. Sexual Affirmations

    Would you like to remove the shackles from living in the dark ages of sexuality? Do you feel worthy of experiencing new heights of sexual ecstasy without feeling sexual shame or guilt? Which statements do you identify with (pick all that apply): I am sexy and beautiful! I love sex and I have an...

  3. The Erotic Body Map Training Program Part 4 of 4

    In our culture, it is assumed that we will instinctively know how to have sex. This is a myth and a misconception. For sex to be great, we need to learn about our sexual bodies as well as our partner’s sexual responsiveness. The Erotic Body Map Training Program is a great process to improve one’s...

  4. The Erotic Body Map Training Program Part 3 of 4

    In our culture, it is assumed that we will instinctively know how to have sex. This is a myth and a misconception. For sex to be great, we need to learn about our sexual bodies as well as our partner’s sexual responsiveness. The Erotic Body Map Training Program is a great process to improve one’s...

  5. The Erotic Body Map Training Program Part 2

    Tonights video training is on The erotic body map training part 2. To watch the podcast on video go to ravenslairleather.com/podcast. In the video version I include some images of basic sexual anatomy. In the future, I will offer a podcast on detailed sexual anatomy for those who want more in…

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  6. The Erotic Body Map & Raising Erotic Energy

    Join us for an inner journey into sexual enlightenment and discover how sexual energy works within your body. We are each wired differently at a neurological level and sex energy works differently in each of us. Through the training and Action Steps, you will learn about how sex energy works in...

  7. Body Image Healing Training Program Part 5

    How do you feel about your body? Do you feel beautiful & Sexy? If not, it is not your fault. We live in a sex negative culture and are influenced by sex negative social conditioning. In this training session, we cover Passion, Raising Sexual Energy, The Art of Masturbation, and Telling Your…

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  8. Body Image Healing Training Program Part 4 of 5

    How do you feel about your body? Do you feel beautiful & Sexy? If not, it is not your fault. We live in a sex negative culture and are influenced by sex negative social conditioning. Tonight we are covering The Body Image Healing Training Program Part 4 of 5. In this training we will cover...

  9. Body Image Healing Training Program Part 3 of 5

    How do you feel about your body? Do you feel beautiful & Sexy? If not, it is not your fault. We live in a sex negative culture and are influenced by sex negative social conditioning. Tonight we are covering The Body Image Healing Training Program Part 3 of 5. In this training we will cover…

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  10. Body Image Healing Training Program Part 2 of 5

    How do you feel about your body? Do you feel beautiful & Sexy? If not, it is not your fault. We live in a sex negative culture and are influenced by sex negative social conditioning. The Body Image Healing Program Part 2 covers Attitude & Values and External vs. Internal Validation. Learn how…

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  11. Body Image Healing Training Program Part 1 of 5

    How do you feel about your body? Do you feel beautiful & Sexy? If not, it is not your fault. We live in a sex negative culture and are influenced by sex negative social conditioning. The Body Image Healing Program is designed to provide psychosexual healing to restore a positive self image. We…

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  12. Announcement

    We are making changes! In this short episode we have an announcement. Raven’s Lair Free Webinar Training Program Sign up Page: https://www.ravenslairleather.com/videos Check out our new podcast website: https://www.podpage.com/adult-bedtime-stories/ Links for the websites we discussed in the show...

  13. Celebrating Pride

    Join Lady Boy Gigi and Paul as they share their experiences with Pride month. In this episode we discuss some of the history of the GLBTQI+ movement. What makes Pride month so Important? Where have we come from as a movement? Listen to the show to learn the answers as we cover these questions and...

  14. Self Love

    Join Lady Boy Gigi and Paul as they share their experiences with self-love. Self-love is not just about masturbation, it is also about self-care and self-confidence which helps us to become better lovers. Raven’s Lair Free Webinar Training Program Sign up Page:...

  15. Aphrodite's Temple At Festivals & Events

    Join Lady Boy Gigi and Paul as they share their experiences at various alternative festivals and events, from Burning Man to pagan gatherings to BDSM festivals. But when they delve into the world of kink, will they encounter unexpected danger or find themselves in a thrilling situation? Find out…

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  16. Informed Consent & Negotiation

    Want to discover the key to unlocking your full potential in BDSM and sexual relationships? Let me guide you through the world of informed consent and negotiation, utilizing stories and examples from my own experiences and those of others who value honest communication. By addressing common pain...

  17. Formation and Importance of Bi Plus Organizing US

    In this episode, we interview Fiona, Mike, and Bren from Bi Plus Organizing US, a new coalition for the Bisexual + Community. Learn how you can get involved and have a voice in bisexual activism. We cover some of the issues that bisexuals face in life and how to help change the world. Raven’s…

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  18. Psychosexual Healing: BDSM Role Play & Sacred Sex

    After years of physical and emotional abuse, a youth who has ADHD and dyslexia finds healing through BDSM role play, sacred sexuality and psychosexual healing. Here's what I cover: 1. Discovering the power of psychosexual healing through BDSM role play and sacred sexuality 2. Exploring the...

  19. Developing Dominant Skills for BDSM Role Play

    When a Dom-in-training dares to experience the other side of the paddle, they learn that mastering the power of communication and empathy is the key to success - and a journey of self-discovery. Here's what Damian and I cover: 1. What qualities do you need to be a good Dom? 2. What are the BDSM...

  20. Exploring Gender Identity: Navigating the Complexities of Sex and Gender

    Learn about sex and gender identity through this episode of Adult Bedtime Stories with Ladyboy Gigi and Paul. Sex is what we are born with and gender is how we feel. Intersex babies show that there is more than two sexes, and gender can be expressed in many ways. Gender expression is how one...

  21. Exploring Your Sexual Desires: Unlocking Erotic Pleasures

    When Lady Boy Gigi and Paul explore the intricate levels of working with sexual desires and abilities, they uncover a powerful journey of self-discovery, revealing the unexpected ways of priming the pump and arousing oneself. Here's what I cover: 1. What techniques can be used to reconnect with…

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  22. Primal Sex: Unleash Your Animalistic Side

    I learned about Primal Sex through an episode of Adult Bedtime Stories with Lady Boy Gigi, Paul, and Damien. Primal Sex is a way to get in touch with one's animalistic side by trusting and being vulnerable with one's partner. It can involve biting, scratching, and other approved forms of play...

  23. BDSM Impact Play

    We have a special guest on this Episode of Adult Bedtime Stories. Damian shares his experiences with Impact Play in BDSM Scenes. Here's what Damian, Paul, and I cover: Learn how to practice safety protocols while engaging in impact play. Discover what techniques Damian uses when playing a scene....

  24. Negotiation Skills for Couples

    In this episode of Adult Bedtime Stories, we are continuing our mini-series on resolving sexual issues. Our topic is on developing better sexual negotiation skills for couples. Learn how to take your sexual relationship to a higher level and experience sexual ecstasy like you have never…

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  25. Performance Skills Issues for Couples

    In this episode of Adult Bedtime Stories, we are continuing our mini-series on resolving sexual issues. Our topic is on Performance Skills Issues for Couples. In this episode we cover a range of sexual performance issues and how to resolve them. Check out our new podcast website:...

  26. Conflicting Values About Monogam

    In this episode of Adult Bedtime Stories, we are continuing our mini-series on resolving sexual issues. Our topic is on conflicting values about monogamy within a relationship and how to resolve cheating. We explore different options to create a more balanced relationship. Links for the websites…

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  27. Uneven Desire in Relationships

    In this episode of Adult Bedtime Stories, we are continuing our mini-series on resolving sexual issues. Our topic is on uneven desire between partners. We explore different options to create a more balanced relationship. Links for the websites we discussed in the show include:...

  28. Touch Aversion for Couples

    In this episode of Adult Bedtime Stories, we are continuing our mini-series on resolving sexual issues. Our topic is on Touch Aversion for couples. Learn about touch aversion, how to resolve the issue, and about the touch continuum. Links for the websites we discussed in the show include:...

  29. Celebrate Bisexuality Day

    In this episode of Adult Bedtime Stories, our topic is on Celebrate Bisexuality Day - CBD. We cover the philosophy and history of CBD and what inspired the creation of CBD. CBD is celebrated on September 23rdeach year all around the world. Links for the websites we discussed in the show include:...

  30. Partner’s Sexual Issues – Sexless Relationships

    In this episode of Adult Bedtime Stories, we are continuing a mini-series on resolving sexual issues. Our topic is on Sexless Relationships / Sexless Marriage. For some couples, sex has diminished for a short time, for others sex has been absent for many years. In this episode we cover the causes...

  31. Female Sexual Issues – Social Skills and Enhanced Pleasure

    In this episode of Adult Bedtime Stories, we are continuing a mini-series on resolving sexual issues. Our topic is female Social & Dating Skills and Enhanced Pleasures for Females. We cover many of the causes and how to resolve the issue. Links for the websites we discussed in the show include:...

  32. Female Sexual Issues – Female Body Dysphoria

    In this episode of Adult Bedtime Stories, we are continuing a mini-series on resolving sexual issues. Our topic is female body dysphoria. We cover many of the causes and how to resolve the issue. Links for the websites we discussed in the show include: https://www.ravenslairleather.com...

  33. Female Sexual Issues – Female Inhibitions

    In this episode of Adult Bedtime Stories, we are continuing a mini-series on resolving sexual issues. Our topic is female inhibitions. We cover many of the causes and how to resolve the issue. Links for the websites we discussed in the show include: https://www.ravenslairleather.com...

  34. Female Sexual Issues – Dyspareunia Issues

    In this episode of Adult Bedtime Stories, we are continuing a mini-series on resolving sexual issues. Our topic is dyspareunia or painful sex. We cover many of the causes and how to resolve the issue. Links for the websites we discussed in the show include: https://www.ravenslairleather.com...

  35. Female Sexual Issues – Inorgasmic Issues

    In this episode of Adult Bedtime Stories, we are continuing a mini-series on resolving sexual issues. Our topic is the issue many females experience. Inorgasmic Primary and Inorgasmic Secondary are issues about having difficulty reaching an orgasm. In this episode we explore the causes and…

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  36. Male Sexual Issues – Male Sexual Trauma

    In this episode of Adult Bedtime Stories, we are continuing a mini-series on resolving sexual issues. Our topic is about male sexual trauma and how to overcome the effects of trauma. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/adult-bedtime-stories/exclusive-content

  37. Enhanced Pleasures for Males

    In this episode of Adult Bedtime Stories, we are continuing a mini-series on resolving sexual issues. Our topic is enhanced pleasures for males. Learn sexual skills to achieve multiple orgasms and full body orgasms. Discover how to enhance male sexual pleasure. Links for the websites we discussed...

  38. Male Sexual Issues – Dating and Social Skills Issues

    In this episode of Adult Bedtime Stories, we are continuing a mini-series on resolving sexual issues. Our topic is the issue many males experience with dating and social skills. Learn the skills to improve your love life and experience improved sexual relationships. Links for the websites we...

  39. Male Sexual Issues – Male Dysphoria and Body Image Healing

    In this episode of Adult Bedtime Stories, we are continuing a mini-series on resolving sexual issues. Our topic is the issue many males experience with body image issues and transforming oneself into a sexy being. Links for the websites we discussed in the show include:...

  40. Male Sexual Issues – Sexual Inhibitions

    In this episode of Adult Bedtime Stories, we are continuing a mini-series on resolving sexual issues. Our topic is the issue many males experience with sexual inhibition, what causes it, and how to become sexually liberated. Learn techniques to overcome sexual inhibition. Links for the websites…

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  41. Interview with a Sex Worker

    In this episode of Adult Bedtime Stories, we talked with Jayy D'Vil who is a costume designer, a sex worker, and a Pro Dom. Discover what it is like to make a living doing what you love to do. Links for the websites we discussed in the show include: https://www.ravenslairleather.com...

  42. Resolving Sexual Issues – Male Sexual Issues: Resolving ED Issues

    In this episode of Adult Bedtime Stories, we are starting a mini-series on resolving sexual issues. Our topic is the issue many males experience with Erectile Dysfunction. Discover methods to bring resolution to issues with erectile dysfunction. Links for the websites we discussed in the show...

  43. Resolving Sexual Issues – Male Sexual Issues

    In this episode of Adult Bedtime Stories, we are starting a mini series on resolving sexual issues. Our topic is the issue many males experience with Early Ejaculation, and Delayed Ejaculation. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/adult-bedtime-stories/exclusive-content

  44. Resolving Sexual Issues – Low or No Desire

    In this episode of Adult Bedtime Stories, we are starting a mini series on resolving sexual issues. Our topic is the issue many people experience with low or no sexual desire. We cover techniques to get in touch with sexual desires and raise erotic desire for a fulfilling sex life. Links for the...

  45. Building Deeper Sexual Connection

    In this episode of Adult Bedtime Stories, we discuss building and forming deeper sexual connections with oneself and others. Form a genital - heart connection with another person to discover where it can take you. Links for the websites we discussed in the show include:...

  46. Masturbation

    In this episode of Adult Bedtime Stories, we discuss masturbation and techniques to bring more pleasure to solo sex. Links for the websites we discussed in the show include: https://www.ravenslairleather.com https://www.ladyboytemple.com https://ggwilbur.com Support this podcast at —...

  47. Sexual Confidence

    In this episode of Adult Bedtime Stories, we discuss building sexual confidence and experiencing orgasms at a new level of sexual ecstasy. Links for the websites we discussed in the show include: https://www.ravenslairleather.com https://www.ladyboytemple.com https://ggwilbur.com Support this...

  48. Aphrodite’s Temple

    In this episode of Adult Bedtime Stories, we discuss our recent experiences running Aphrodite’s Temple, a modern-day sex temple. We cover the workshops and rituals we offered. Links for the websites we discussed in the show include: https://www.ravenslairleather.com https://www.ladyboytemple.com...

  49. Intersex

    In this episode of Adult Bedtime Stories, we discuss what it means to be intersex. Kayla shares her perspectives about how intersex is different from other genders. We discuss what it is like being a mixture of female and male. Links for the websites we discussed in the show include:...

  50. Mindful Sex

    In this episode of Adult Bedtime Stories, we examine mindful sex and mindful masturbation. What does it mean to be mindful? We explore how becoming mindful during sex can transform your life and help you discover passion. Check out our websites: https://www.ravenslairleather.com/videos...

About this show

Welcome to Adult Bedtime Stories – Are you ready to experience Nocturnal Emissions. Join us in a Sex-Positive Awakening adventure to help create a sex-positive world. Become part of a movement and start living a sex-positive lifestyle free of sexual shame and guilt. Adult Bedtime Stories is A Raven’s Lair Production. Adult Bedtime Stories is a show dedicated to bringing sacredness back to our sexuality and to learn about everything sexual. Allow the beautiful sexy creature within you to emerge. Each week the focus of the show will be on different sexual topics designed to enlighten you so you develop more fully as a sexual being. This is the sex education that you didn’t receive in high school, but should have. Imagine for a moment that we could change the world and live a sex-positive lifestyle. In our sex-negative world the process of socialization teaches us to feel shame and guilt around sex. By adopting a new set of attitudes and values around sex, we can view sex with a new un

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Frequently asked questions

How many episodes does Adult Bedtime Stories have?

Adult Bedtime Stories has 163 episodes on PodParley. The most recent episode was published on April 19, 2024.

What is Adult Bedtime Stories about?

Welcome to Adult Bedtime Stories – Are you ready to experience Nocturnal Emissions. Join us in a Sex-Positive Awakening adventure to help create a sex-positive world. Become part of a movement and start living a sex-positive lifestyle free of sexual shame and guilt. Adult Bedtime Stories is A...

How often does Adult Bedtime Stories release new episodes?

Adult Bedtime Stories publishes every two weeks, based on its 163 episodes since December 2017.

Who hosts Adult Bedtime Stories?

Adult Bedtime Stories is created and hosted by Gigi Raven Wilbur.
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