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Ain’t That Something
by Yve
Welcome to Ain’t That Something, hosted by a passionate mental health professional who’s not afraid to say the things many won’t. This podcast dives into real conversations about self-growth, parenting, dating, relationships, healing, and everyday life lessons—served with humor, honesty, and heart. Whether you’re here for some soul work or just a good unfiltered convo, there’s something here for you.Let’s unpack the stuff we carry and laugh a little along the way.Follow on IG: @aintthatsomething2listen2
Episodes
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You Ain’t Humbling Me
When does “being honest” become an attempt to humble someone? In this episode, Yve-E discusses the difference between giving your partner a reality check and deliberately chipping away at their confidence. If someone has to make you feel smaller to feel secure, that ain’t humility—it’s...
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That Aint It
Episode 50: That Ain’t It We made it to 50 episodes! 🥹🎙️ First, I’m showing some love to everyone who has listened and supported Ain’t That Something? Then we’re getting into the Idaho student murders and an important conversation about preparing our college kids to stay safe and aware. And...
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You Aint Even Like That Boy!
Have you ever found yourself trying to convince yourself to like someone simply because they looked good on paper? In this episode of Ain’t That Something?, we’re talking about why so many women try to make a circle fit into a square when it comes to dating. From settling for potential to…
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You Ain’t Let That Go Yet?
What if the very thing keeping you stuck isn’t what happened to you… but what you’re still carrying? In this episode of Ain’t That Something?, we unpack the process of forgiveness and why letting go is often easier said than done. Together, we’ll explore practical tools that can help you begin...
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It Ain’t That Serious: Move On & Take Accountability
Some situations don’t deserve permanent residence in your mind. In this episode of Ain’t That Something?, we’re talking about the power of accountability, learning when to let things go, and recognizing that healing sometimes begins when we stop waiting for everyone else to change. Growth isn’t...
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It Ain’t My Fault: Parents Not Parenting No More
Why does it seem like accountability has become optional? In this episode of Ain’t That Something?, we dive into modern parenting, responsibility, boundaries, and the growing tendency to excuse behaviors instead of addressing them. From schools to social media, we explore how the shift away from...
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Story Time: That Ain’t In My Plans-But It Worked Out!
Sometimes life completely rewrites your plans and in the moment, it can feel like everything is falling apart. In this episode of Ain’t That Something?, I’m reflecting on one year since my uterine fibroid embolization (UFE) procedure, what recovery has taught me about patience, gratitude, and...
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It Aint What It Aint: Black Hip Hop Artists Are Not Role Models
Should hip hop artists be held responsible for how listeners interpret their music? In this episode, we’re unpacking the latest debate surrounding the viral summer anthem Spend That and the ongoing expectation that entertainers should serve as role models. From rap lyrics and personal...
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Everybody Ain’t Who They Say They Are
What is it about charming people that makes us trust them? From con artists and cult leaders to fake gurus, social media personalities, and people who reinvent themselves at all costs, this episode explores why we’re often captivated by confidence, charisma, and carefully crafted images. Using...
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These Men AIN’T EVEN Balding No More
These men ain’t even balding no more… In this episode, we’re talking about the rise of the “enhanced man” and how modern dating is starting to feel more like marketing than connection. From spray-on hairlines and beard fillers to BlueChews, curated lifestyles, and social media personas… the men…
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I Ain’t Perfect… But I Can Still Be Loved
In this episode of Ain’t That Something?, we get real about a small relationship moment that turned into a much deeper reflection on love, vulnerability, and emotional safety. What happens when you say the wrong thing to someone you truly care about? Do you brace for distance, rejection, or...
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Mothering Aint Stoppin’ When Kids Turn 18
Motherhood doesn’t end when the kids turn 18… it just changes shape. In this episode, we’re talking about the emotional shift that happens when children grow into adulthood — the worrying, the support, the boundaries, the pride, and the realization that parenting never really “turns off.” From...
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ATS It Must Be In The Water
Tonight on Ain’t That Something?, we’re getting real about the evolution of women in hip-hop—specifically Black female rappers from the late 90s/early 2000s to now. From icons like Lil’ Kim, Foxy Brown, and Missy Elliott—who balanced sex appeal, talent, and mystique—to today’s era with artists…
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If He Aint A Bread-Winner, I Don’t Want Him
Ain’t That Something? — If He Ain’t A Breadwinner, I Don’t Want Him The conversation around “breadwinners” is everywhere—but what does that actually mean in real life? In this episode of Ain’t That Something?, Yvette breaks down the expectations behind wanting a provider, the reality of modern...
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Aint That Something, Going For It Again
Sometimes life doesn’t work out the first time. Or the second. But something inside you still whispers… try again. In this episode of Ain’t That Something?, talks about what it means to start over, regroup, and give something another shot—even when doubt, fear, or past experiences try to convince...
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It’s Been 1 Year…Aint That Something!
One year of real talk, reflection, and letting life teach the lessons. In this special anniversary episode of Ain’t That Something?, Yvette reflects on the journey of building the podcast over the past year—what it means to keep showing up, even when life is lifing. In honor of Women’s History...
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You Don’t Need a Man… But Do You Know How to Keep One?
We say we don’t need a man. And that’s true. But partnership isn’t about need — it’s about skill. In this episode, we’re talking about relationship intelligence. The kind that goes beyond attraction and independence. The kind that keeps a relationship steady once the excitement fades. We’ll…
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Soft, Strong, & Secure
Black love is beautiful. But it has also carried survival, pride, pressure, and generational wounds. In this episode, we’re talking about what it really means to be soft, strong, and secure — especially within the context of Black relationships. Is hyper-independence protection… or armor? Is...
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Love Ain’t Enough
February makes us believe that if the chemistry is strong enough, the love is real enough, and the feelings are deep enough… that should be enough. But chemistry can start a relationship. It cannot sustain one. In this episode, we’re unpacking the difference between attraction and alignment....
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Off The Record: What Men Don’t Always Say (What Actually Keeps a Man – Featuring Guest
Before we unpack love, softness, and partnership from our perspective… let’s hear from his. In this anonymous prelude to the February mini-series, a man shares his honest thoughts about what actually keeps him committed — and what quietly pushes men away. What makes a woman stand out long-term?...
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That Aint Cute: Keep Yo Hands 2 Yo Self-Part II
Let’s go a step further. Part II digs into why we keep excusing certain behaviors, how the internet blurs the line between humor and harm, and why accountability still matters in grown relationships. We’re talking emotional regulation, self-awareness, and what it really means to move with class...
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That Aint Cute: Keep Yo Hands 2 Yo Self Part I
Let’s clear something up real quick. Being mad doesn’t make violence cute. Being frustrated doesn’t make it funny. And putting your hands on your partner is never a flex — no matter how the internet spins it. In this 2 part episode, we’re talking about emotional regulation, communication, and why...
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You Ain’t Gonna Get a Man Like That
Let’s be honest — some dating advice sounds good online, but doesn’t work in real life. In this episode, we’re talking about the behaviors, mindsets, and habits that feel empowering but quietly sabotage your chances of building a healthy, lasting relationship. From acting emotionally unavailable…
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The Things Nobody Wants to Admit About Keeping a Man
The Things Nobody Wants to Admit About Keeping a Man Getting a man is one thing. Keeping a healthy, fulfilling relationship is another. In this episode, we talk about the uncomfortable truths people avoid when it comes to dating with intention — effort, emotional regulation, generosity, softness,...
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Aint None Of UR Friend’s Business
Not every opinion deserves access to your relationship. In this episode, we talk about friend jealousy, subtle shade, and how some “support” comes with hidden agendas. From unsolicited advice to quiet resentment, we unpack what happens when friends project their insecurities onto your happiness…
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When Respect Leaves the Room
We talk about love all the time… but what happens when respect quietly exits the relationship? In this episode, we’re unpacking: • the subtle signs respect is slipping — before the big blowups • why love without respect feels confusing, draining, and unsafe • how criticism, control, and dismissal...
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Focused On Myself…Until He Said, “IMY” 😭😭
You ever swear you’re done… focused… healing… and then one text undoes all your growth? Yeah. This episode is for that moment. Tonight we’re talking about: • why “I’m gonna just focus on myself” is easier said than done • the psychology behind going back when someone says just enough • emotional...
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Beware of The Diddy Type Man
Tonight we’re breaking down the behaviors of men who rely on charm, control, and “the lifestyle” to feel powerful… but crumble without a woman to validate them. In this episode we’re talking: • how insecurity can disguise itself as charisma • when attention turns into entitlement • why “different...
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ACCESS EXPIRED Part 2
We unblocked. We slipped. Now we’re back and better — with a stronger spine and a clearer boundary line. 🚫❤️ Part 2 dives into what it looks like to stand firm when someone who does not deserve access tries to re-enter your life. This is your reminder: you can forgive someone and STILL not let...
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You Gave Up The Yamz
Listen… holidays come with temptation — and sometimes that temptation looks real tall, real familiar, and texts “WYD?” right before the yams leave the oven. 👀🍠 In this episode, we’re talking about what happens AFTER you gave in. The feelings, the regrets, the realizations… and the comeback....
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ACCESS EXPIRED… PLEASE STOP RENEWING IT.
Let’s talk about the people who block you, unblock you, disappear, reappear, and somehow think access is a monthly subscription they can just renew whenever they feel like it 😭 Sir… this is not Hulu. Ma’am… this is not Amazon Prime. Access expires for a reason. Tonight we’re getting into: •...
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He Wasn’t Man Enough For Me
He Wasn’t Man Enough for Me 🎙️ Let’s be real — some of us ignored red flags so bright they could’ve lit up the city. 🚩😂 We’ll talk about: 💔 Marrying potential instead of reality 😒 Shady women who chase what’s taken 🗣️ And men who “dirty mack” their way into situationships This one’s raw,...
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Cuffing Season: Who You Gonna Be Boo’d Up With?
CUFFING SEASON IS HERE 💕🔥 Let’s be real—the air’s cooler, the beds are warmer, and suddenly everybody’s looking for a “winter boo.” 👀 But are you cuffing for comfort or connection? In this episode, we break down the do’s, don’ts, and red flags disguised as fuzzy blankets. 🫣
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The World Been Worldn!
From shutdown threats to headlines that sound like movie plots — it feels like the world’s been doing a little too much lately. In this episode, Yve breaks down the chaos of the past few weeks with a mix of real talk, humor, and perspective. From politics to pop culture to the pressure of just...
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Silent Struggles, Urgent Truths: Suicide Awareness Month
September is Suicide Prevention Awareness Month, and in this episode of Ain’t That Something, we’re opening up a vital conversation about the realities here in Texas. Suicide affects Black and Brown communities at alarming rates — about 9 in 100,000 Black Texans and nearly 8 in 100,000 Hispanic...
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Hysterectomy or Bust Part II: No More Suffering In Silence
What happens when hysterectomy keeps being pushed as the only option? In this follow-up, I open up about my UFE (Uterine Fibroid Embolization) journey — from the pain and recovery to the lessons I learned along the way. Too many women, especially women of color, are not told about all the choices...
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Hysterectomy or Bust? When Doctors Gate Keep Our Care
In this powerful episode, Yve-E shares her deeply personal journey through two fibroid procedures — a myomectomy and a UFE (Uterine Fibroid Embolization)— and the frustrating reality of being offered limited options by her doctor. Why are Black and Brown women so often steered toward…
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Let’s Talk Generational Healing & Self-Trust for Women of Color: A Conversation with Dr. Ashley Rodriguez
Yvette Chapman: This episode was born from something real. After listening to my previous episode, Dear Mama, Let’s Be Honest, Dr. Ashley Rodriguez reached out — and what followed was a powerful conversation that needed to happen. Dr. Rodriguez is a psychologist and creator of the Roots to...
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Let’s Talk Generational Healing & Self-Trust for Women of Color: A Conversation with Dr. Ashley Rodriguez
In this episode of Ain’t That Something?, I’m sitting down with Dr. Ashley Rodriguez — psychologist and creator of the Roots to Resilience healing toolkit — for a real conversation about generational healing, self-trust, and what it means to break cycles as women of color. We’re talking about: •...
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Rated Grown: For Mature Audiences Only
Things are getting hot and honest in this week’s episode of Ain’t That Something?! — and trust, it’s strictly Rated Grown. 🔞 Join me and my special guests as we dive into the real about male enhancements, female sexual dysfunction, and all the things they don’t teach you about keeping the fire...
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Delulu Land & The Red Flags I Chose To Ignore
🚩 You saw the red flags… but you were colorblind in love, huh? In this next episode of Ain’t That Something?, we’re getting real about the signs we ignored, the intuition we silenced, and the lessons that had to be learned the hard way. Let’s just say… hindsight is petty, but she’s honest. 👀💔
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Dear Mama...Let's Be Honest
In this powerful and heartfelt episode, we’re diving deep into the layered truths of mother-daughter relationships. From healing the wounds left by toxic parenting to understanding how over-nurturing can feel like emotional suffocation, we’re unpacking it all. We also take a moment to reflect on...
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I'm Tired Sis: The Cost of High Functioning Depression
From the outside, it looks like you have it all together — but on the inside, you’re barely holding it up. In this episode, we unpack the quiet weight of high-functioning depression: the pressure to keep smiling, performing, and supporting everyone while silently drowning. It’s raw, honest, and...
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Stillness...Settling Aint A Plus One
Inspired by Tracee Ellis Ross’ reflections on choosing peace over pressure, this episode explores the power of stillness, the courage to not settle, and the freedom that comes with being whole—no plus one required.
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The Power of Saying Yes-Reloaded!
What happens when you stop overthinking and start saying yes? In this episode, we explore how stepping outside your comfort zone can lead to unexpected blessings, personal growth, and game-changing opportunities. From career moves to life-changing encounters, saying yes at the right moments can...
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Spring Cleaning Part II: Detoxin' In The Work Place
This week, we’re clearing out more than just clutter—we’re calling out toxic work vibes. Join us as we unpack the subtle (and not-so-subtle) toxins that can build up in work environments—think shady coworkers, burnout culture, micromanagers, and more. We talk boundaries, self-preservation, and…
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Spring Cleaning! Detoxing From Toxic People and Breaking Bad
In this episode, Yve-E kicks off a powerful spring cleaning series — not for your closets, but for your soul. We’re talking about recognizing toxic relationships, breaking free from unhealthy habits, and making space for peace, clarity, and growth. Whether it’s a draining friend, a…
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Process Pending...
Process Pending is all about the unpredictable, and transformative moments of life. In this episode, Yve-E unpacks the struggles of waiting, evolving, and figuring things out in real time. With honesty and humor, she explores what it means to be in the process—somewhere between where you were and...
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Undr Cnstrction...w/Grace
While aiming for goals and Going For It! Often times the process is hard to trust and the outcome for success seems as though it will take another lifetime to acheive. Undr Cnstrction w/ Grace is a conversation of reminding the high achievers and goal setters that when the spark of motivation to...
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One Day, or Day One For You?
Ain't That Something episode 2, continues an authentic discussion about taking the first steps at starting new goals. Tips for maintaining the process, shifting to a positive mindset and inspiring others.
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Welcome to Ain’t That Something, hosted by a passionate mental health professional who’s not afraid to say the things many won’t. This podcast dives into real conversations about self-growth, parenting, dating, relationships, healing, and everyday life lessons—served with humor, honesty, and heart. Whether you’re here for some soul work or just a good unfiltered convo, there’s something here for you.Let’s unpack the stuff we carry and laugh a little along the way.Follow on IG: @aintthatsomething2listen2
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