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Aligned Attraction

Aligned Attraction is the go-to podcast on intimacy for powerful women. On the podcast, we teach you how to take a stance of 'fierce love' with yourself (and in your relationships) -- the kind of love that cuts through the illusion of unworthiness, and allows you to feel deeply safe to be yourself in dating and love.Each week, you'll hear from us: Lee Noto & Ani Manian, Master Intimacy Coaches and Founders of Aligned Attraction (A modern relationship school for self-aware women who are ready to revolutionize their relationship with themselves and create sexy secure love.) If you're ready to play FULL OUT and have the heart-throbbing love you’ve been craving, this is the podcast for you!

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    Ep. 98: We Broke Every Relationship Rule… And Our Marriage Got Better

    My husband and I have done some things in our relationship that made the people around us genuinely worried about us — and honestly, I get it. From the outside, it probably looked like things were falling apart.But what we were actually doing was throwing out the rulebook and figuring out what actually works for us, even when it went against everything we’d been told a healthy relationship is supposed to look like.In this episode, I’m sharing three specific things we did that most people would consider a red flag — and why each one ended up being one of the best decisions we’ve ever made for our marriage.Ready for your happiest, healthiest love life? Schedule a 1:1 call here to get started: https://linktr.ee/lee.manian

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    Ep. 97: This one quality destroyed AND saved my marriage (are you doing it too?)

    After nearly 10 years of coaching couples and individuals through some of the hardest relationship patterns imaginable, I've discovered one single quality that I've watched silently destroy relationships — including my own marriage — and yet, when finally confronted, become the very thing that saves them. In this video, I'm getting deeply personal about the childhood wounds, unconscious patterns, and self-protective behaviors that I didn't even know were running my relationship into the ground, and exactly what I did to turn it around. If you're struggling with relationship challenges, repeating painful patterns, feeling emotionally disconnected from your partner, or wondering why your love life never seems to change no matter how much personal development work you do — this one is for you.Ready for your happiest, healthiest love life? Schedule a 1:1 call here to get started: https://linktr.ee/lee.manian00:00 Introduction00:53 What Is the Shadow?01:50 Empathy as a Shadow Example02:33 My Personal Story06:42 Owning Your Shadow (The Eminem Method)08:15 Creating Inner Safety11:50 How to Find Your Shadow13:27 Sitting with Discomfort16:01 Building Capacity for Joy

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    Ep. 96: Why Weird Couples Have the Happiest Relationships (And the 3 Traits All Thriving Couples Share)

    After 10 years coaching couples, I started noticing a few surprising patterns in the relationships that didn’t just survive… but genuinely thrived.Not the couples who simply stayed together out of logistics or comfort, but the ones who still deeply liked each other decades later. The ones who made it through betrayal, grief, rupture, and massive life transitions only to come out even more connected.The biggest indicators had very little to do with what most people think...In this video, I’m sharing the unexpected qualities I’ve seen in the happiest long-term relationships, and “being weird together” might matter more than we realize.Ready for your happiest, healthiest love life? Schedule a 1:1 call here to get started: https://linktr.ee/lee.manian#relationships #longtermrelationship #healthyrelationships #relationshipadvice #marriage

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    Ep. 95: How I became trigger proof (and how you can too)

    The other day at the grocery store, my husband said something that used to trigger the living daylights out of me.This time, instead of reacting, I got curious. I asked him what inspired him to say it.What he said back unlocked something so big I had to come tell you about it.In this episode, I'm sharing the framework Ani gave me that morning. A simple way of understanding what's actually happening when our partner says something that stings, and why most of us stay stuck in the same loop without realizing there's another way.I'm not going to spoil the unlock, because I want you to feel it the way I did when he said it out loud. But if you've ever walked away from a conversation with your partner feeling hurt, misread, or unloved, this episode is going to give you a brand new way to think about it.I also share what happened in my own marriage this morning when I tried to actually live this out (spoiler: not smooth, not pretty), and the question I'm sitting with now that I think is going to change how I show up in love.This one is for you if you're tired of the same comments getting under your skin, you've done a lot of inner work, and you're ready for the next unlock.Connect With MeInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lee.manianWork with me: https://linktr.ee/lee.manian

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    Ep. 94: The 1% Rule of Relationships: Why Most Couples Will Never Have What They Say They Want

    What does it actually take to create a relationship that's deeply safe, wildly passionate, and rock solid? Not just on the good days, but in the hard moments too?After almost a decade of coaching women in their relationships, and walking through my own marriage alongside it, I've come to believe there are really only two skills that separate the women who create extraordinary relationships from the ones who stay stuck in painful patterns for years. Just two.In this episode, I walk you through both of them, starting with a raw, unfiltered story from my own marriage earlier that morning. A rupture with my husband Ani, a pattern I inherited from my mother, and the exact moment I had to face the uncomfortable truth that I wasn't quite who I thought I was.This episode is for you if you've ever felt like you keep repeating the same patterns in your relationship, if you've done a lot of "inner work" but still can't seem to shift the dynamic with your partner, or if you've been sold the fantasy of a passionate, secure, adventurous relationship without anyone ever telling you what it actually costs to create one.Reflection Questions (for journaling or voice memos)Where are you currently discharging tension in your relationship instead of holding it?What's one pattern you've been refusing to look at, because looking at it would mean you're not quite who you thought you were?What did you learn about love and partnership from watching your parents, and which of those patterns are still running in your relationship today?If you committed to becoming the woman who could hold what an extraordinary relationship requires, what would change starting today?Connect With MeInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lee.manianWork with me: https://linktr.ee/lee.manianSubscribe & ReviewIf this episode resonated for you, the biggest way you can support the show is to subscribe, rate it, and leave a quick review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. It helps more women in relationships find this work, and I read every single review.

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    Ep. 93: How Shalini Manifested the Love of Her Life (with Boundaries, Vision & a Google Doc)

    A Conscious Love Story with Shalini & Oz | Relationship Goals, Secure Attachment, & Lifestyle DesignWhat happens when a woman becomes the partner she’s always wanted—and then calls in the love of her life?In this heart-melting episode, I sit down with Shalini and her beloved Oz to share their real-life love story—a story that started inside the Aligned Attraction mentorship and blossomed into a deep, secure, playful, and visionary relationship. From celibacy and inner healing to boundary-setting, Google Docs, and future Excel spreadsheets (yes, really)—you’ll hear how two intentional humans created a relationship rooted in soul, structure, and laughter.Whether you’re single and intentional, partnered and growing, or just love a good love story, this episode will soften your heart and remind you what’s possible when you lead with self-love.💡 What You’ll Hear:How Shalini called in her partner through deep self-work and aligned boundariesThe role of the “Date Me Doc” in Oz’s playful, intentional search for loveWhat made both of them say “I’m in” (and take each other off the market)How they navigate conflict, build safety, and come back to connectionTheir approach to future planning, lifestyle design, and conscious parenting visionWhy knowing your inner child’s wounds helps you stop repeating the same patternsWhat it looks like to hold polarity: the King & the Kid, the Sword & the Ocean✨ This is for you if:You’re ready to call in your person from a place of wholeness (not hustle)You want to hear what actually builds safety, attraction, and longevity in loveYou crave a relationship where you can be your full, goofy, glorious selfYou’re done with dating burnout and want a new path forward🔍 If you’ve searched:“how to call in your life partner”“dating with intention"“conscious relationships/conscious relating"“how to create secure attachment in dating”“love after healing journey”This episode is for you!🧠 Mentioned in this Episode:Inside the Sexy Secure Love system (that we teach in our mentorship program for women in relationships)Polarity, secure attachment, emotional rangeThe “Date Me Doc” trend + creative matchmaking strategiesLifestyle planning for couples (travel, kids, community & career)Conflict repair, feminine receptivity, and masculine directnessMonthly relationship check-ins + shared “love lists”💬 The Untamed MomentThe moment Oz says he can be both the King and the Kid in Shalini’s presence… and she lets him.This is what happens when you build safety together.(Spoiler: this is the love we’re all worthy of.)💌 Drop a comment: What part of this love story hit home for you?#consciousrelationship #relationshipgoals #secureattachment #feminineenergy #manifestyourpartner #datingwithintention #relationshipadvice #loveafterhealing #alignedattraction #sexysecurelove #untamedlove

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    Ep. 92: What Ayahuasca taught me about what ALL men want

    In this episode, I’m sharing how ayahuasca taught me what men actually want most in love, and trust me, it’s not what you think.For years, I thought being a great partner meant being impressive. You know… beautiful, productive, healed, spiritual, totally “on it.” But the more I tried to be perfect, the more disconnected I felt, from myself, and from Ani.Then, during a recent ayahuasca ceremony, I had this wild revelation that completely changed how I show up in love.But it didn’t start pretty.It started with emotional mud wrestling, loneliness, restlessness, and that deep ache of not feeling chosen.And somewhere in the middle of all that chaos… the cosmic joke landed.By the end of this episode, I’ll share what I finally realized about love, attraction, and what men truly crave, and how it has nothing to do with what you do, and everything to do with who you are.🔥 What You’ll Hear Me Talk AboutWhat men don’t want (and how I learned this the hard way)The trap of performing in love — trying to prove, perfect, or “earn” your valueHow ayahuasca mirrored my old pattern of hustling for worthThe loneliness that comes from believing your value is externalThe turning point: from wrestling myself to realizing something way simplerThe “no-process process” — why presence is the workThe surprising energy that shifts everything in love and polarityHow I started practicing peace, belonging, and safety in real time💎 Who This Episode Is ForThis one’s for the high-achieving, self-aware woman who’s done all the inner work — but still feels like she has to earn love, control outcomes, or hold it all together.It’s for the woman who’s tired of performing and wants to feel relaxed, desired, and deeply safe in her relationship — without doing more, fixing more, or processing forever.🌹 The Untamed MomentMy Untamed Moment came right in the middle of ceremony, when I stopped trying to “process” my pain and just stood up — started dancing — and realized I could choose peace instead of working my way to it.That moment flipped everything for me.Because I saw that ease, safety, and love aren’t things you earn.They’re states you return to.💬 Reflection QuestionWhat do you want in your love life — and how will you feel when you have it?Can you practice that feeling now?Let me know in the comments — I’d love to hear what state you’re choosing.📲 Stay ConnectedInstagram → @lee.manian#feminineenergy #relationships #ayahuasca #embodiedlove #lovehealing #sexysecurelove #traumarecovery #intimacycoach #untamedintimacy #feminineembodiment

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    Ep. 91: I Was Pushing My Husband Away Without Knowing It | What Men Really Want

    There's one major lesson I learned the HARD way in my relationship, and that's the difference between what I thought my husband needed, and what he ACTUALLY needs. In this video, I'm breaking down what I call The Masculine Trinity—the three things men want most in relationships. And I'm getting vulnerable about all the ways I used to get this completely wrong with my husband.If you've ever wondered why your man shuts down, withdraws, or seems distant even when you're trying to help... this video is for you.What You'll Learn:Why unsolicited advice damages relationships (even when you mean well)The difference between "being helpful" and what men actually experience as supportHow tiny corrections land as massive disrespect to menWhy trust is the oxygen masculine energy needs to thriveThe simple appreciation practices that refuel your manThe feminine art of discernment: knowing when to share your wisdom vs. when to hold spaceHow managing your internal state creates both sovereignty AND intimacyReflection Question:Where in your relationship could you offer more respect, trust, or appreciation... and less input, control, or correction? What would shift if you did?Drop your answer in the comments—I read every single one.Timestamps:0:00 - The moment I realized I was doing it all wrong2:15 - What men actually need (The Masculine Trinity)4:30 - RESPECT: Why men shut down when they feel disrespected8:45 - My confession: How I used to micromanage Ani11:20 - TRUST: The oxygen men need to rise14:50 - Why "Have you done it yet?" destroys trust17:25 - APPRECIATION: How to refuel your man21:10 - The deeper work: Managing your internal state24:40 - The feminine art of discernment26:30 - Reflection question for youKeywords:relationship advice, what men want, masculine feminine polarity, healthy relationships, relationship communication, marriage advice, understanding men, david deida, alison armstrong, respect in relationships, trust in relationships, relationship tips for women, how to support your man, feminine energy, masculine energy, relationship expert, intimacy in relationships, secure attachment, relationship coaching, women supporting men, emotional maturity in relationshipsHashtags:#RelationshipAdvice #WhatMenWant #MarriageAdvice #HealthyRelationships #FeminineEnergy #MasculineEnergy #RelationshipTips #UnderstandingMen #IntimacyCoach #SecureAttachment #RelationshipGoals #CouplesCommunication #EmotionalIntelligence #LoveAdvice #RelationshipCoach #DatingAdvice #ModernRelationships #ConsciousRelationships #Polarity #PartnershipGoals------------------To learn more about Lee Noto & her work:Email: [email protected]: https://leenoto.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lee.manian/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leemaniancoach/YouTube: https://bit.ly/3bPGFvcLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lee-noto-manian/

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    Ep. 90: This One ‘Unsexy’ Habit Could Totally Transform Your Relationship

    Relationship goals don’t always sound sexy…But you know what is? A partnership that actually thrives.If you’re tired of fighting about the same thing over and over, or wondering where the hell this relationship is even going—this episode is for you. We’re bringing boardroom-level clarity to your love life… minus the boring Q1 spreadsheets (unless you’re into that).In this video, I’ll show you how to turn your relationship into the most powerful and connected team of your life—with clear vision, measurable goals, and check-in rituals that feel like foreplay for the soul.What You’ll Learn:Why not having a shared vision is silently wrecking your connectionHow to set SMART relationship goals (that don’t involve changing your partner)The exact check-in questions I use with my husband every weekWhat most couples are missing (that top-performing organizations already do)How to measure emotional intimacy, communication, and connection—without killing the vibeWhat version of you can actually create the relationship you desire This is for you if:You’ve ever thought: “We love each other… but are we growing?”You’re craving more clarity, intimacy, and direction in your relationshipYou love spreadsheets and soul-level connection (hi, same)You want a relationship that feels as successful and intentional as your careerIf you’ve searched:“how to set relationship goals”“weekly relationship check-in questions”“how to build a thriving relationship”“relationship vision planning for couples“communication tips for couples”…you’re in exactly the right place.Mentioned in this Episode:SMART Goals for CouplesHow to create a shared visionEmotional self-regulation & conflict repairWeekly & daily success metrics (quantitative + qualitative)Embodying the version of you who has the relationship you wantThe Untamed MomentAsk yourself this (and then ask your partner):“If we achieved 3 things by the end of this year… what would make us feel successful in our relationship?”Start there. Build from it. Celebrate like it’s your full-time job.📣 Drop a comment below and let me know your top 3 relationship goals for the rest of the year—bonus points if you share the metrics you’re using to track them!#relationshipgoals #couplescheckin #emotionalintimacy #smartgoals #healthycommunication #romanticrelationships #weeklyrituals #intimacycoach #relationshipvision #untamedlove #sacredsass #sexysecurelove #relationshipadvice------------------To learn more about Lee Noto & her work:Email: [email protected]: https://leenoto.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lee.manian/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leemaniancoach/YouTube: https://bit.ly/3bPGFvcLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lee-noto-manian/

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    Ep. 89: What men REALLY want

    The One Thing Men Actually Need (That Most Women Totally Miss)Relationship Advice for Women | How to Support a Man EmotionallySo your man is going through something. Work is a mess, his brother’s acting out, or he’s just in a funk...And you’re doing all the things to be helpful—offering feedback, giving advice, trying to fix it.But instead of feeling closer…You end up in a weird argument spiral, or he shuts down completely.Girl, been there.And this video is your shortcut out of that cycle.This is your permission slip to not have all the answers.In this episode, I share the ONE thing men are truly craving when life feels uncertain—and why almost every woman misses it (I did, for years).We’re talking real, raw, emotionally intelligent support.This isn't about coddling, fixing, or self-silencing...Instead, I show you how to create containment, polarity, and connection.Here’s what you’ll learn: • What not to do when your man is stressed (even if it seems helpful) • How to stop unconsciously eroding trust and intimacy (oops) • Why your feedback (no matter how loving) might be landing like criticism • The underestimated power of containment and how to practice it • The kind of encouragement that lights a man all the way upThis isn’t a “play small to keep your man” video.This is about emotional mastery, feminine intelligence, and knowing when to speak… and when to hold.Knowing the difference makes ALL the difference....And it’s the foundation of Sexy Secure Love.⸻For the women who are… • Powerful, high-achieving, emotionally aware—and tired of doing it all • Ready to stop mothering or managing their man • Craving polarity, passion, and deep safety in their relationship • Wanting to support their partner without losing themselvesIf you’ve ever searched:“how to support my partner emotionally”“what to do when my boyfriend is stressed”“feminine energy in relationships”“how to connect with a man emotionally”“why men shut down when I try to help”…this one’s for you.⸻ Mentioned in this podcast: • Masculine/feminine polarity • Containment (not suppression!) • The power of recognition, appreciation, and timing • Building trust and intimacy without overgivingThe Untamed Moment:Tell a man in your life something real and encouraging today. Then watch what happens.#relationshipadviceforwomen #feminineenergy #masculinefemininepolarity #emotionalintimacy #supportingyourman #containment #relationshipcommunication #sacredsass #untamedlove #sexysecurelove------------------To learn more about Lee Noto & her work:Email: [email protected]: https://leenoto.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lee.manian/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leemaniancoach/YouTube: https://bit.ly/3bPGFvcLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lee-noto-manian/

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    Ep. 88: Conflict isn't the problem, it's the solution

    In this episode, we take you behind the scenes on of the calls inside our relationship school for women. On this call, we dive into the surprising truth about conflict in relationships—it’s not the problem; it’s the solution. Learn how to decode the deeper needs behind recurring arguments, take radical ownership of your part in relational dynamics, and transform conflict into an opportunity for growth, intimacy, and lasting connection.What We Discussed:- Why conflict often arises in relationships where we feel the most safe.- The dynamic balance between individuality and togetherness in love.- How early attachment patterns shape our relational behaviors.- Understanding how conflict serves as a distance regulator in relationships.- Practical steps to shift from blame to radical ownership in conflict resolution.- The concept of "repetition compulsion" and how it impacts relationships.- Differentiation and individuation as key skills for relational harmony.- The power of leading through feminine embodiment and inspiration.#RelationshipGoals #ConflictResolution #RadicalOwnership #AttachmentStyles #ConsciousRelationships #IntimacyMatters #RelationshipAdvice #LoveAndConnection #SelfAwarenessJourney #PersonalGrowth------------------To learn more about Lee Noto & her work:Email: [email protected]: https://leenoto.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lee.manian/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leemaniancoach/YouTube: https://bit.ly/3bPGFvcLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lee-noto-manian/

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    Ep. 87: Win any argument (and strengthen your relationship in the process)

    Oh the sweet taste of victory after “winning” an argument, having the last word, or being RIGHT! This is like sugary candy for the ego, but a mouthful of cavities for the relationship!In this episode, I’m going to show you how to actually win any argument with your partner (and also how to strengthen your relationship in the process)...Seems paradoxical right? Tune in to learn:The 3 key principles to winning any argumentHow to get your man to meet you in the depth of your emotionsThe way to guarantee a happy ending after an argument------------------To learn more about Lee Noto & her work:Email: [email protected]: https://leenoto.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lee.manian/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leemaniancoach/YouTube: https://bit.ly/3bPGFvcLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lee-noto-manian/

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    ​​Ep. 86: King Worship: Respecting and Admiring Men & The Masculine

    The other night, I blocked off 6 hours on my partner’s calendar and titled the event: “King Worship.” In this episode, I give you the play-by-play about how I crafted one of the most luxurious, exquisite and intimate night of our lives – tune in to hear all the juicy deets ;)I also share: What relationships used to look like for me (when I was stuck in old thoughts and patterns)How intimacy looks now (hint: It’s SO GOOD ALL. THE. TIME – and it gets to be that way for you too)How I went from lots of conflict and fighting in my relationship to feeling like a giddy little girl who adores her manAction men and women can take to create the most epic, fulfilling relationships------------------Want our help to create your dream love life? 🧲 FREE workshop for single women who are ready for love: The 4 shifts high-achieving women must make to attract their dream partner: https://www.sexysecurelovecourse.com/👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨 Want our step-by-step, DIY system to attract your forever man? Join our membership and get access to all our courses: https://www.skool.com/aligned-attraction/about❣️ Want our mentorship & guidance to attract your forever man ASAP + create your dream relationship? Apply for our mentorship program: https://www.alignedattractionmentorship.com ------------------To learn more about Lee Noto & her work:Email: [email protected]: https://leenoto.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lee.manian/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leemaniancoach/YouTube: https://bit.ly/3bPGFvcLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lee-noto-manian/

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    Ep. 85: Men would rather feel alone & unloved than disrespected & belittled

    In this episode, I talk about the difference between how men and women like to be loved + what some of our natural responses are to not being loved in the way we desire. For many men, respect is the MOST important thing to feel in a relationship, whereas for most women, we want to feel cherished, adored, and unconditionally loved. That’s not to say that women don’t need/want to feel respected and men don’t need/want to feel cherished and adored…But what matters most to each of us is vastly different. The faster we can understand this difference as women, and learn to show our men respect (or continue to do so if we already are), the more we will witness our man’s greatest embodiment…And naturally, we’ll also receive more of the love we desire. (Big love to @embodybyjules on Instagram – Her post is what I was reading from for this episode)------------------Want our help to create your dream love life? 🧲 FREE workshop for single women who are ready for love: The 4 shifts high-achieving women must make to attract their dream partner: https://www.sexysecurelovecourse.com/👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨 Want our step-by-step, DIY system to attract your forever man? Join our membership and get access to all our courses: https://www.skool.com/aligned-attraction/about❣️ Want our mentorship & guidance to attract your forever man ASAP + create your dream relationship? Apply for our mentorship program: https://www.alignedattractionmentorship.com ------------------To learn more about Lee Noto & her work:Email: [email protected]: https://leenoto.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lee.manian/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leemaniancoach/YouTube: https://bit.ly/3bPGFvcLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lee-noto-manian/

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    Ep. 84: Why having him “wrapped around your finger” will destroy your love life

    No woman will ever truly respect a man she has “wrapped around her finger,” or “eating from the palm of her hand…”These expressions indicate a distorted power dynamic where one person – in this case, the woman – has a sense of control over and could easily manipulate the man she’s dating or in a relationship with. And most times, if we want control over something or someone, it’s usually because some part of us doesn’t feel safe, and is trying to engineer a sense of safety by having control. But creating this kind of dynamic doesn’t actually get us closer to the love, intimacy and connection we so deeply crave. So what does? In this episode, I share: Why having control over your man/in the dynamic actually costs you your sense of safetyThe other costs of having “control” (hint: it costs you everything you actually want in love)What action steps to take if you want to create a deeper sense of safety within, so it feels natural for you to open your heart to a man you respect and admire------------------Want our help to create your dream love life? 🧲 FREE workshop for single women who are ready for love: The 4 shifts high-achieving women must make to attract their dream partner: https://www.sexysecurelovecourse.com/👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨 Want our step-by-step, DIY system to attract your forever man? Join our membership and get access to all our courses: https://www.skool.com/aligned-attraction/about❣️ Want our mentorship & guidance to attract your forever man ASAP + create your dream relationship? Apply for our mentorship program: https://www.alignedattractionmentorship.com ------------------To learn more about Lee Noto & her work:Email: [email protected]: https://leenoto.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lee.manian/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leemaniancoach/YouTube: https://bit.ly/3bPGFvcLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lee-noto-manian/

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    Ep. 83: Why I Love AND Hate Being with A Dominant, Masculine Man

    It’s anything but easy to be with a dominant, masculine man…In fact, it’s the hardest thing I’ve ever done…Because I can no longer be inauthentic, hide, or try to get away with not reaching for my highest potential. My partner calls me forth into the highest version of myself – the version of me that’s most joyful, most alive, and most turned ON!Walking the path to embody these things in a world that tells us to turn away, to distract and avoid, and to outsource our power to someone/something else, is NOT for the faint of heart. In this episode I share:Some of the defining characteristics of a dominant, masculine manWhat the pros and cons are of being in a romantic relationship with oneA personal story that illustrates what’s possible for me as a woman because my partner embodies a dominant, masculine energy My takeaways from a recent experience that shook me to my core------------------Want our help to create your dream love life? 🧲 FREE workshop for single women who are ready for love: The 4 shifts high-achieving women must make to attract their dream partner: https://www.sexysecurelovecourse.com/👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨 Want our step-by-step, DIY system to attract your forever man? Join our membership and get access to all our courses: https://www.skool.com/aligned-attraction/about❣️ Want our mentorship & guidance to attract your forever man ASAP + create your dream relationship? Apply for our mentorship program: https://www.alignedattractionmentorship.com ------------------To learn more about Lee Noto & her work:Email: [email protected]: https://leenoto.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lee.manian/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leemaniancoach/YouTube: https://bit.ly/3bPGFvcLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lee-noto-manian/

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    Ep 82: How Dominance and Submission Works in a Romantic Relationship with Two Type A Partners

    In this episode, I share why having a Dominant/submissive or a Leader/follower dynamic works so well for my partner (type A male) and me (type A female). For most of my life, I’ve identified as a high achiever, type A personality woman…While this was great for my career, it wasn’t great for my romantic relationships (with masculine men)…Secretly underneath all of my shining leadership qualities, I actually wanted to be led. I wanted to follow someone I could trust and surrender to…I just didn’t know how to do that in dating and love (until I learned how)…And until I met a man who was trustworthy and worth surrendering to! Taking on a surrendered, feminine role in my relationship has been the most liberating, rewarding thing I could choose for myself as a Type A woman. In this video, I share a piece of er0tica writing that captures the essence of my relationship dynamic with my partner, and what could be possible for you in your relationships. I also give you the 3 ways you can start to feel safe to surrender in your relationship — whether it’s with a man you have yet to meet or your current partner.------------------Want our help to create your dream love life? 🧲 FREE workshop for single women who are ready for love: The 4 shifts high-achieving women must make to attract their dream partner: https://www.sexysecurelovecourse.com/👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨 Want our step-by-step, DIY system to attract your forever man? Join our membership and get access to all our courses: https://www.skool.com/aligned-attraction/about❣️ Want our mentorship & guidance to attract your forever man ASAP + create your dream relationship? Apply for our mentorship program: https://www.alignedattractionmentorship.com ------------------To learn more about Lee Noto & her work:Email: [email protected]: https://leenoto.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lee.manian/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leemaniancoach/YouTube: https://bit.ly/3bPGFvcLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lee-noto-manian/

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    Ep. 81: Why being submissive to my dominant partner works for me as a Type A woman

    For most of my life, I really like having the upper hand, being in control, and having a more dominant energy…It felt like the “independent woman” thing to do and the only way to be, that would actually ensure my safety…Little did I know just how liberating it would be to learn how to surrender and to consciously choose it inside of a relationship dynamic. This has been one of my biggest paths to freedom as a woman – learning how to create enough safety inside of myself, so that I can surrender to the leadership of my masculine partner. Now more than ever, I feel relaxed, at ease, radiant, and like my true self. In this episode, I share why many Type A women struggle with surrender and conscious submission, what it takes to create it, and why you’d want to be in a submissive role at all! ------------------Want our help to create your dream love life? 🧲 FREE workshop for single women who are ready for love: The 4 shifts high-achieving women must make to attract their dream partner: https://www.sexysecurelovecourse.com/👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨 Want our step-by-step, DIY system to attract your forever man? Join our membership and get access to all our courses: https://www.skool.com/aligned-attraction/about❣️ Want our mentorship & guidance to attract your forever man ASAP + create your dream relationship? Apply for our mentorship program: https://www.alignedattractionmentorship.com ------------------To learn more about Lee Noto & her work:Email: [email protected]: https://leenoto.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lee.manian/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leemaniancoach/YouTube: https://bit.ly/3bPGFvcLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lee-noto-manian/

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    Ep. 80: The ONE thing you need to know if you wanna get the guy

    There’s only one guaranteed way to create the love life you want…And that’s exactly what I share in this episode…Plus 4 insanely powerful questions you can ask yourself each day (and before and after each date) that will help you attract men who will cherish and adore you..And get closer to calling in your forever man! (If you know you’re done trying to figure out love on your own, we’re about to open doors to our mentorship program. DM me WAITLIST on Instagram (@LeeNoto_) so you can be notified before everyone else)!------------------Want our help to create your dream love life? 🧲 FREE workshop for single women who are ready for love: The 4 shifts high-achieving women must make to attract their dream partner: https://www.sexysecurelovecourse.com/👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨 Want our step-by-step, DIY system to attract your forever man? Join our membership and get access to all our courses: https://www.skool.com/aligned-attraction/about❣️ Want our mentorship & guidance to attract your forever man ASAP + create your dream relationship? Apply for our mentorship program: https://www.alignedattractionmentorship.com ------------------To learn more about Lee Noto & her work:Website: https://leenoto.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/leenoto_/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/LeeNotoCoach/YouTube: https://bit.ly/3bPGFvcLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lee-noto/

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    Ep. 79: Trying to have control over my love life actually ruined it

    Contrary to all the love advice out there that says it’ll help you “gain control over your love life…”That’s not what most women actually want. Sure our ego wants to have “control…” But what we actually want is to feel SAFE…Most of us try to engineer safety by controlling people and things outside of us…But that almost never works, it’s not sustainable, and it’s not what actually causes us to feel truly, deeply safe. Only we can create that experience inside of ourselves…And in this episode, I share with you what it takes to create it, so that you can do what you actually wanna do in dating and love…Which is SURRENDER…Let go…Relax…Be yourself…And not have to figure everything out on your own! Attracting a partner who takes the lead and prioritizes your safety (or inspiring that quality in your current partner) all starts with you creating that inside yourself first! Doors to our mentorship program are about to open. DM me WAITLIST on Instagram (@LeeNoto_) to get first dibs on one of the available spots!------------------Want our help to create your dream love life? 🧲 FREE workshop for single women who are ready for love: The 4 shifts high-achieving women must make to attract their dream partner: https://www.sexysecurelovecourse.com/👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨 Want our step-by-step, DIY system to attract your forever man? Join our membership and get access to all our courses: https://www.skool.com/aligned-attraction/about❣️ Want our mentorship & guidance to attract your forever man ASAP + create your dream relationship? Apply for our mentorship program: https://www.alignedattractionmentorship.com ------------------To learn more about Lee Noto & her work:Email: [email protected]: https://leenoto.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lee.manian/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leemaniancoach/YouTube: https://bit.ly/3bPGFvcLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lee-noto-manian/

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    Ep. 78: The ONLY 3 things you need to attract your dream man ASAP

    Babe, don’t make dating & love harder than it has to be…In this episode, I’m gonna make it super simple to understand, so you can have the love life you desire ASAP! (I REALLY want that for you!)…And I’ll show you the ONLY 3 things you need to attract your dream man and create your dream relationship (as fast and as fun as possible)…The 3 things you MUST have are:You’re doing (the right) inner work for youA clear visionAn effective dating strategyI also share helpful prompts for reflection that will help you:Illuminate your blindspotsHelp you form your visionCome up with fun ways you can create a dating strategy that feels authentic for youWant our help attracting your dream partner and creating your dream love life in the fastest, most fun way possible?Doors to our mentorship program (Aligned Attraction) are open now through Friday Mar 29. There are 3 spots available. DM me ALIGNED on Instagram (@LeeNoto_) or email me [email protected], and I’ll send you the details. <3 Here’s to your dream love life!------------------Want our help to create your dream love life? 🧲 FREE workshop for single women who are ready for love: The 4 shifts high-achieving women must make to attract their dream partner: https://www.sexysecurelovecourse.com/👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨 Want our step-by-step, DIY system to attract your forever man? Join our membership and get access to all our courses: https://www.skool.com/aligned-attraction/about❣️ Want our mentorship & guidance to attract your forever man ASAP + create your dream relationship? Apply for our mentorship program: https://www.alignedattractionmentorship.com ------------------To learn more about Lee Noto & her work:Email: [email protected]: https://leenoto.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lee.manian/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leemaniancoach/YouTube: https://bit.ly/3bPGFvcLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lee-noto-manian/

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    Ep 77: Why you avoid dating (even though you really want a relationship)

    In this episode, you’ll hear me responding to one of the women inside our mentorship program: Aligned Attraction.*She shared that prioritizes pretty much everything else before dating, including work and socializing with friends…Yet, she wants to be in a committed relationship…You probably see the issue here :pTune into this episode to hear how I help her deconstruct what’s standing in her way and the simple two-part approach I advise she follows, so she can meet her dream man ASAP. *Aligned Attraction is our mentorship program for self-aware single women who want to attract their forever man ASAP and create the lasting, committed relationship of their dreams. ------------------Want our help to create your dream love life? 🧲 FREE workshop for single women who are ready for love: The 4 shifts high-achieving women must make to attract their dream partner: https://www.sexysecurelovecourse.com/👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨 Want our step-by-step, DIY system to attract your forever man? Join our membership and get access to all our courses: https://www.skool.com/aligned-attraction/about❣️ Want our mentorship & guidance to attract your forever man ASAP + create your dream relationship? Apply for our mentorship program: https://www.alignedattractionmentorship.com ------------------To learn more about Lee Noto & her work:Email: [email protected]: https://leenoto.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lee.manian/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leemaniancoach/YouTube: https://bit.ly/3bPGFvcLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lee-noto-manian/

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    Ep. 76: How Krista Manifested her Future Hubby

    Girrrrllll, you better put a seat belt on for this episode, because Krista and Johnny take us on the wild, romantic adventure, where they share: How they met + exactly what they did to attract and be ready for each otherThe time she blurted out she wanted a fat diamond ring (+ Johnny’s surprising response)How the Aligned Attraction Mentorship supported Krista in getting clear on and going for what she really desired in loveNot one, but two AMAZING love poems (that Krista and Johnny wrote for each other)How they’re intentionally planning their future togetherThis one is a juicy love story for the ages! This is what happens when you’re willing to show up and fully commit to yourself + when you have the right guidance and support on the journey!To connect w/ Krista & Johnny, find them on Instagram: @largekrista @johnnyronca------------------Want our help to create your dream love life? 🧲 FREE workshop for single women who are ready for love: The 4 shifts high-achieving women must make to attract their dream partner: https://www.sexysecurelovecourse.com/👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨 Want our step-by-step, DIY system to attract your forever man? Join our membership and get access to all our courses: https://www.skool.com/aligned-attraction/about❣️ Want our mentorship & guidance to attract your forever man ASAP + create your dream relationship? Apply for our mentorship program: https://www.alignedattractionmentorship.com ------------------To learn more about Lee Noto & her work:Email: [email protected]: https://leenoto.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lee.manian/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leemaniancoach/YouTube: https://bit.ly/3bPGFvcLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lee-noto-manian/

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    Ep. 75: Feminine Communication that Inspires His Commitment

    Being in our feminine energy is NOT about…Wearing makeup and looking “pretty”Silencing our thoughts, opinions & beliefs Being blindly submissive In fact, being in our feminine energy is one of the MOST powerful places we can be…When we’re here, we:Feel deeply safe in our own bodies Can relax, take a deep breath, and surrenderAre connected to our needs, boundaries & desires Are fully & authentically expressedAre magnetic & irresistible to ourselves (& to high quality men)!In this episode, I share: What masculine & feminine energy is (& how it impacts the kind of man you attract)The difference between a masculine & feminine state of attention (+ how BOTH are needed in dating)How to communicate from masculine & feminine energy Why men can’t resist a woman who knows how to communicate from her feminine energyThese are just one of many deeply spiritual, yet practical teachings we help you embody inside Aligned AttractionOur mentorship program for self-aware women who are ready to attract the love of their life & create a heart throbbing, panty-dropping, soul-expanding relationship that stands the test of time! If you’re the woman who’s already tried alllll the things when it comes to dating & love, yet you’re still not boo’d up with your ride or die (aka the man you wanna do life with), or you’re in a causal dynamic and you want to progress it to committed…DM me ALIGNED ATTRACTION (on Instagram @LeeNoto_ ) and I’ll send you the mentorship program details, which outline exactly how we help you attract your man + create a healthy, thriving relationship. We close enrollment in 3 days and there are just a few spots left. See you inside, babe! ------------------Want our help to create your dream love life? 🧲 FREE workshop for single women who are ready for love: The 4 shifts high-achieving women must make to attract their dream partner: https://www.sexysecurelovecourse.com/👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨 Want our step-by-step, DIY system to attract your forever man? Join our membership and get access to all our courses: https://www.skool.com/aligned-attraction/about❣️ Want our mentorship & guidance to attract your forever man ASAP + create your dream relationship? Apply for our mentorship program: https://www.alignedattractionmentorship.com ------------------To learn more about Lee Noto & her work:Email: [email protected]: https://leenoto.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lee.manian/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leemaniancoach/YouTube: https://bit.ly/3bPGFvcLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lee-noto-manian/

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    Ep. 74: Get rid of ghosters and noncommittal men for good

    Get rid of ghosters & noncommittal men for good (here’s how)…There’s NOTHING that sucks more in dating than being ghosted or being told “I’m not looking for anything serious…” by a man you’re really into…And when that happens, you feel disappointed, powerless, and heart broken, because both these things seem completely out of your control…But what if I told you they weren’t?And that you actually have more control over this than you realize? In this episode, I share: The ONE universal law that helps you completely eliminate men who ghost & who don’t want to commitThe two key principles you MUST know if you want to become insanely magnetic (high quality men only need apply, am I right)?Easy to implement mindsets that will have you feeling unshakably confident in yourself & authentic in datingAnd if you got value from this video & are ready to attract your dream partner/go from casual to committed with a man you’re dating…(And completely eliminate ghosters & noncommittal men from your life for good)…DM me ALIGNED ATTRACTION (on Instagram @LeeNoto_) & I'll send you the juicy details about our mentorship program + a link to apply. ✨Women inside the mentorship program have attracted their partners in as little as 3 weeks to 3 months, just by applying the teachings! We only have a few more spots left and enrollment closes in 4 days! See ya inside, badass woman! ------------------Want our help to create your dream love life? 🧲 FREE workshop for single women who are ready for love: The 4 shifts high-achieving women must make to attract their dream partner: https://www.sexysecurelovecourse.com/👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨 Want our step-by-step, DIY system to attract your forever man? Join our membership and get access to all our courses: https://www.skool.com/aligned-attraction/about❣️ Want our mentorship & guidance to attract your forever man ASAP + create your dream relationship? Apply for our mentorship program: https://www.alignedattractionmentorship.com ------------------To learn more about Lee Noto & her work:Email: [email protected]: https://leenoto.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lee.manian/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leemaniancoach/YouTube: https://bit.ly/3bPGFvcLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lee-noto-manian/

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    Ep. 73: ALWAYS Look for These 5 Green Flags in Dating (if you want a long-term committed relationship)

    In this episode, I share 5 heart-throbbing, panty-dropping green flags to look for in dating…(If you want a long-term committed relationship)It’s not enough to just be aware of red flags (what you don’t want to experience in dating). You MUST know what behaviors qualify as green flags (what you DO want to experience in dating). Because where attention goes, energy flows. So focus on getting clear about what you DO want + what would cause you to feel safe (and turned ON) by a man. Tune into this episode to learn: What the 5 most important green flags are (as an indicator that the man is emotionally healthy and has the capacity to commit for the long term)How you can show up to inspire a man to embody these green flagsWhat stands in the way of you attracting or deepening commitment with a “green flag” manAnd if you received value from this & are ready to attract your dream partner/go from casual to committed with a man you’re dating…(a man with GREEN FLAGS written all over him)…DM me ALIGNED ATTRACTION on Instagram (@LeeNoto_) & I'll send you the juicy details about our mentorship program + a link to apply. ✨Women inside the mentorship program have attracted their partners in as little as 3 weeks to 3 months, just by applying the teachings! We're opening a few spots over the next 5 days (doors close on Jan 26).See ya in my IG DMs! Can't wait to support you, babe! ♥️------------------Want our help to create your dream love life? 🧲 FREE workshop for single women who are ready for love: The 4 shifts high-achieving women must make to attract their dream partner: https://www.sexysecurelovecourse.com/👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨 Want our step-by-step, DIY system to attract your forever man? Join our membership and get access to all our courses: https://www.skool.com/aligned-attraction/about❣️ Want our mentorship & guidance to attract your forever man ASAP + create your dream relationship? Apply for our mentorship program: https://www.alignedattractionmentorship.com ------------------To learn more about Lee Noto & her work:Email: [email protected]: https://leenoto.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lee.manian/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leemaniancoach/YouTube: https://bit.ly/3bPGFvcLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lee-noto-manian/

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    Ep. 72: NEVER Ignore These 3 Red Flags in Dating

    Ain’t nobody got time for red flags when it comes to dating, so why are some of them hard to spot and easy to ignore?In this episode, I talk about the 3 red flags you should NEVER ignore in dating, even if the guy looks perfect on paper, has a great job, is hotter than a steamy shower, has great potential, or is the first guy you’ve dated or liked in a while…I share:What the 3 red flags are & how to spot themWhy we ignore them (even when our gut or intuition tells us something is off)How to ensure you don’t ignore them anymore, so you can date men who cherish you I also give you a super simple, yet powerful activity at the end of the episode that will help you spot red flags and navigate them like a mf boss!------------------Want our help to create your dream love life? 🧲 FREE workshop for single women who are ready for love: The 4 shifts high-achieving women must make to attract their dream partner: https://www.sexysecurelovecourse.com/👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨 Want our step-by-step, DIY system to attract your forever man? Join our membership and get access to all our courses: https://www.skool.com/aligned-attraction/about❣️ Want our mentorship & guidance to attract your forever man ASAP + create your dream relationship? Apply for our mentorship program: https://www.alignedattractionmentorship.com ------------------To learn more about Lee Noto & her work:Email: [email protected]: https://leenoto.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lee.manian/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leemaniancoach/YouTube: https://bit.ly/3bPGFvcLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lee-noto-manian/

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    Ep. 71: How Louisa Attracted Her Man in 3 Months

    Louisa went from believing that there were more ‘good guys’ in LA to attracting her now partner (within 1.5 months of joining Aligned Attraction)!Prior to joining our mentorship program, Louisa already had it all – a great career as a TV writer in LA, amazing friends, and a life she felt truly grateful for. The only thing that felt missing was a partner to ‘do’ this great life with. She shared with me in one of our conversations that she believed that there were no good guys left and that maybe it was too late for her to find love…In her most challenging moments, she wondered if there was something "wrong with her..."Not knowing if things would ever pan out for her romantically, she prioritized work and friendships, so she could avoid feeling hopeless and frustrated in dating & love...Upon joining the program, Louisa shared that she was ready to roll her sleeves up and do whatever it took to get to the root of her challenges, so she could finally have the relationship she'd been longing for..And within the first 2 months of being in Aligned Attraction, she shared that:She started feeling deeply connected to her body & femininityShe started attracting & dating multiple men who she felt excited by (for the first time ever)She felt safe to be vulnerable on her dates (also a new experience) She finally started to enjoy the process of dating and was having so much funShe released the time pressure to find her man (then guess what happened...?)By month 3, she knew that one of the guys she was dating was the one...And they entered into an exclusive, committed relationship!Incredible, right? In this podcast episode​, Louisa shares her story...How being inside Aligned Attraction helped her uncover her blindspots + resolve her challenges in dating, so she could open herself to meeting her manThe ONE mindset that changed everything for her, that made dating go from feeling like a chore to being fun & enjoyableThe single shift Louisa made that caused her to meet her partner (if she didn't make this one shift, she would've never met him)How this relationship is the first one in which she's ever felt truly safe to be vulnerable, to express herself fully, and to trust a man!Louisa's story is truly inspiring...And, it's NOT the odd case...Attracting your person in such a short amount of time is actually very very possible when you're making the right 1-2 simple shifts...And when you have the right guidance and support! In fact, we've seen many women attract great partners within just months (and sometimes weeks) of being in the program...(And I kid you not, once I made the same shift for myself, I attracted Ani within 3 weeks)! This is not magic.It's not rocket science. It's not for "some women," but not others.This wisdom is for EVERY woman...And every woman (should she choose), can apply these teachings and create these results. If you're THAT woman, and you'd like our support, join us inside Aligned Attraction (our mentorship program for single women who are ready to attract the love of their lives): https://www.insidealignedattraction.com/------------------Want our help to create your dream love life? 🧲 FREE workshop for single women who are ready for love: The 4 shifts high-achieving women must make to attract their dream partner: https://www.sexysecurelovecourse.com/👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨 Want our step-by-step, DIY system to attract your forever man? Join our membership and get access to all our courses: https://www.skool.com/aligned-attraction/about❣️ Want our mentorship & guidance to attract your forever man ASAP + create your dream relationship? Apply for our mentorship program: https://www.alignedattractionmentorship.com ------------------To learn more about Lee Noto & her work:Email: [email protected]: https://leenoto.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lee.manian/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leemaniancoach/YouTube: https://bit.ly/3bPGFvcLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lee-noto-manian/

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    Ep. 70: New Year Meditation to Attract Love

    This is a special guided meditation that helps you get clear on and connect to one desire you’d like to fulfill when it comes to dating & love in 2024. I also guide you to get clear on and become intimate with whatever you think is standing in the way of you having that desire fulfilled. At the end, I share a brief teaching on desire, so you can understand the nature of it + be able to hold the feeling of longing for that which you desire. ------------------Want our help to create your dream love life? 🧲 FREE workshop for single women who are ready for love: The 4 shifts high-achieving women must make to attract their dream partner: https://www.sexysecurelovecourse.com/👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨 Want our step-by-step, DIY system to attract your forever man? Join our membership and get access to all our courses: https://www.skool.com/aligned-attraction/about❣️ Want our mentorship & guidance to attract your forever man ASAP + create your dream relationship? Apply for our mentorship program: https://www.alignedattractionmentorship.com ------------------To learn more about Lee Noto & her work:Email: [email protected]: https://leenoto.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lee.manian/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leemaniancoach/YouTube: https://bit.ly/3bPGFvcLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lee-noto-manian/

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    Ep. 69: Inside a Man's Mind

    In this episode, I reveal some of the things that men consider in the dating and relating process — and these are NOT superficial considerations. I dive quite deep into the responsibility that many good men carry, as they strive to be great partners to the women in their lives. And while we as women carry our own unique burdens and considerations in dating and love, this episode will give you deep insight into how a man’s brain works and the truth that most men are just trying to please us. This episode is sure to leave you feeling an extra dose of compassion, empathy and love for men! —You want to attract a man who’s on your level, has a vision for his life, and who’s ready for commitment…But something feels stuck. You’ve tried pretty much everything - reading books, listening to podcasts, maybe even working with a therapist.And you’re ready to figure out the roadblock and resolve it ASAP…Because you’re ready to find your man! ------------------Want our help to create your dream love life? 🧲 FREE workshop for single women who are ready for love: The 4 shifts high-achieving women must make to attract their dream partner: https://www.sexysecurelovecourse.com/👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨 Want our step-by-step, DIY system to attract your forever man? Join our membership and get access to all our courses: https://www.skool.com/aligned-attraction/about❣️ Want our mentorship & guidance to attract your forever man ASAP + create your dream relationship? Apply for our mentorship program: https://www.alignedattractionmentorship.com ------------------To learn more about Lee Noto & her work:Email: [email protected]: https://leenoto.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lee.manian/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leemaniancoach/YouTube: https://bit.ly/3bPGFvcLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lee-noto-manian/

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    Ep 68. Make Dating Sexy Again

    I’ve heard from so many women that dating fuels exhausting, and if they have a hard time meeting men on their level who are emotionally available, emotionally, intelligent, and ready for commitment.But what if dating could feel really fun and sexy?In this episode, I am going to reveal some valuable mindset shifts that will take dating from feeling exhausting and daunting to sexy and fun.And I’m going to show you exactly how to radically reframe the parts of dating that feel exhausting so you can start having fun and really enjoy the process.—Still have blocks in your dating life?Does it feel exhausting?Are you not attracting/keeping the kinds of men you could see a future with?------------------Want our help to create your dream love life? 🧲 FREE workshop for single women who are ready for love: The 4 shifts high-achieving women must make to attract their dream partner: https://www.sexysecurelovecourse.com/👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨 Want our step-by-step, DIY system to attract your forever man? Join our membership and get access to all our courses: https://www.skool.com/aligned-attraction/about❣️ Want our mentorship & guidance to attract your forever man ASAP + create your dream relationship? Apply for our mentorship program: https://www.alignedattractionmentorship.com ------------------To learn more about Lee Noto & her work:Email: [email protected]: https://leenoto.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lee.manian/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leemaniancoach/YouTube: https://bit.ly/3bPGFvcLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lee-noto-manian/

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    Ep 67. How to Stop Unconsciously Sabotaging Love

    Have you ever really wanted intimacy and closeness, but it felt scary and unsafe – all at the same time?  In this episode, we explore some of the most common fears when it comes to intimacy: Feeling afraid to be vulnerable + open our heartsFear of being seen (because if they really see us, what if they don’t like what they see and they leave)?Fear of losing ourselves, our freedom, our autonomy Plus the ways in which we unconsciously act out these fears (even when we say that what we want most is a relationship)!  Tune in to hear us deconstruct this challenge that so many of us have faced + provide super practical ways to have the love you really want – NOW! ------------------Want our help to create your dream love life? 🧲 FREE workshop for single women who are ready for love: The 4 shifts high-achieving women must make to attract their dream partner: https://www.sexysecurelovecourse.com/👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨 Want our step-by-step, DIY system to attract your forever man? Join our membership and get access to all our courses: https://www.skool.com/aligned-attraction/about❣️ Want our mentorship & guidance to attract your forever man ASAP + create your dream relationship? Apply for our mentorship program: https://www.alignedattractionmentorship.com ------------------To learn more about Lee Noto & her work:Email: [email protected]: https://leenoto.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lee.manian/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leemaniancoach/YouTube: https://bit.ly/3bPGFvcLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lee-noto-manian/

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    Ep 66. Overcoming Fear of Intimacy and Abandonment To Attract Your Dream Partner (Real Coaching Session w/ Ani & Lee)

    The episode is a live coaching session, where we coach Scarlett, a successful entrepreneur who is struggling to meet quality men that are truly ready for love.She wants to to meet a man who will make an incredible partner who's ready to start a family, so they can live their dream life together. Someone who feels like home to her, and whose healthy masculine will allow her healthy feminine to feel safe enough to emerge, and flourish.But right now she struggles to:Feel safe opening her heartAllowing herself to be seenTrusting that her partner will be dedicated to relationship enough to stayNavigate a deep seated fear of intimacy and abandonment Feel safe enough to fully express herself and take space, knowing that her truth is welcome, and it won't drive someone awayBelieve that she is not "too much," or not enoughIf you've wondered, "How can I open up without feeling exposed?" or "How can I trust that they won't leave?"—then this episode is going to hit home.If you're ready to create a relationship that's deeply secure and ridiculously passionate, join us for our upcoming free live virtual retreat Sexy Secure Love: www.sexysecurelove.com------------------Want our help to create your dream love life? 🧲 FREE workshop for single women who are ready for love: The 4 shifts high-achieving women must make to attract their dream partner: https://www.sexysecurelovecourse.com/👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨 Want our step-by-step, DIY system to attract your forever man? Join our membership and get access to all our courses: https://www.skool.com/aligned-attraction/about❣️ Want our mentorship & guidance to attract your forever man ASAP + create your dream relationship? Apply for our mentorship program: https://www.alignedattractionmentorship.com ------------------To learn more about Lee Noto & her work:Email: [email protected]: https://leenoto.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lee.manian/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leemaniancoach/YouTube: https://bit.ly/3bPGFvcLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lee-noto-manian/

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    Ep 65. Fight Well & Connect Deeply (The Relating Languages) w/ Ari Winters

    Have you ever...Gotten stuck in conversation with someone who won’t stop talking?Asked a ton of questions but never got one back?Wished for more silence in connection?Wanted everyone to stop talking and just get things done?If any of the above are true for you, you’ve probably thought “wow, people suck at communication.”But what if all this difference could actually be easy to navigate? What if it isn’t based on complex social rules, but a simple set of languages that we can teach you to start understanding and using today?In this episode, I’m joined by Ari Winters, the creator of the Relating Languages – a radically new way to conceptualize connection and communication. We talk about:What the Relating Languages are + how understanding ours and others’ can helps us create deeper connection How to ‘do’ conflict well (how to have a healthy fight and communicate effectively)How to negotiate w/ a partner to get our needs met + understand our partner’s perspectiveBonus: Ari provides coaching and support to me, as we uncover ways that I can use the Relating Languages and other tools to break a conflict pattern in my relationship! To learn more about Ari’s work:Instagram: @relatinglanguagesFaceBook: @relatinglanguagesTikTok: @relatinglanguagesYouTube: @relatinglanguagesTwitter: @relatinglangMedium: @ari-wintersWebsite: https://www.relatinglanguages.com/ https://www.authrev.com------------------Want our help to create your dream love life? 🧲 FREE workshop for single women who are ready for love: The 4 shifts high-achieving women must make to attract their dream partner: https://www.sexysecurelovecourse.com/👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨 Want our step-by-step, DIY system to attract your forever man? Join our membership and get access to all our courses: https://www.skool.com/aligned-attraction/about❣️ Want our mentorship & guidance to attract your forever man ASAP + create your dream relationship? Apply for our mentorship program: https://www.alignedattractionmentorship.com ------------------To learn more about Lee Noto & her work:Email: [email protected]: https://leenoto.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lee.manian/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leemaniancoach/YouTube: https://bit.ly/3bPGFvcLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lee-noto-manian/

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    Ep 64. Self-Marriage w/ Megan Taylor Morrison

    Marriage to another person is an age-old rite of passage that is celebrated (and even expected) by our society…But what about a self marriage?In this episode, I speak with my friend Meg about what inspired her to host an entire wedding ceremony to marry herself – cake, dress, vows, witnesses and all!She shares the beautiful details about:What self marriage is (and how it can help us cultivate deeper self love)Why she chose to marry herself and gather her friends to witness this ritual How her relationship with herself has been impacted through this processThe vows she spoke to herself when she was standing at the altarI walked away from this episode feeling truly delighted and inspired. I know you’ll feel this way too after you listen!To learn more about Meg’s work:Website: https://www.megantaylormorrison.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/megantaylormorrison/Click here to access her book on self-marriage------------------Want our help to create your dream love life? 🧲 FREE workshop for single women who are ready for love: The 4 shifts high-achieving women must make to attract their dream partner: https://www.sexysecurelovecourse.com/👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨 Want our step-by-step, DIY system to attract your forever man? Join our membership and get access to all our courses: https://www.skool.com/aligned-attraction/about❣️ Want our mentorship & guidance to attract your forever man ASAP + create your dream relationship? Apply for our mentorship program: https://www.alignedattractionmentorship.com ------------------To learn more about Lee Noto & her work:Email: [email protected]: https://leenoto.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lee.manian/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leemaniancoach/YouTube: https://bit.ly/3bPGFvcLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lee-noto-manian/

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    Ep. 63: Penetration as a Transformative Portal

    In this episode, I share a story about a series of breakthroughs that will absolutely blow your mind, expand your heart, and activate a deep desire within you…Our existential yearning as women is to be penetrated...To be so deeply seen and known...That we can no longer hide...From our light and how brightly we shine...As well as from our shadows and how dark we can be...To be known in this way and held with love is the quintessence of intimacy. ♥️Learning how to penetrate ourselves (aka pierce through our own veils of illusion and lovingly call ourselves out on our own bullsh*t is exactly what causes us to trust ourselves and feel unf*ckwithable. In this episode, I share how to do just that and then some ;)------------------Want our help to create your dream love life? 🧲 FREE workshop for single women who are ready for love: The 4 shifts high-achieving women must make to attract their dream partner: https://www.sexysecurelovecourse.com/👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨 Want our step-by-step, DIY system to attract your forever man? Join our membership and get access to all our courses: https://www.skool.com/aligned-attraction/about❣️ Want our mentorship & guidance to attract your forever man ASAP + create your dream relationship? Apply for our mentorship program: https://www.alignedattractionmentorship.com ------------------To learn more about Lee Noto & her work:Email: [email protected]: https://leenoto.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lee.manian/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leemaniancoach/YouTube: https://bit.ly/3bPGFvcLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lee-noto-manian/

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    Ep. 62: How to Trust + Open Your Heart in Dating & Love w/ Danielle Aubrey Smith

    In this special episode, I’m on Instagram Live with Intimacy & Liberation Coach, Danielle Aubrey Smith. In today’s episode, we cover: Questioning the belief: “Love is hard” (but rather exploring how it can be EASY!)How to use ordinary, everyday moments to call in love (instead of waiting for the next ‘spiritual download’) Danielle’s daily practice that helps prime and open her heart to love (even while healing through a breakup)Accepting loss as an inherent part of the experience of love How to navigate opening your heart again after loss + disappointment Approaching our emotions through the lens of a Dominatrix (and why this creates safety and balance)More about The Aligned Attraction Program - an 8 week program for single women who are ready to become magnetic to high quality, emotionally available menFor more information on The Aligned Attraction Program, email me [email protected] or DM me on Instagram @LeeNoto_ —------To learn more about Danielle & her work:Danielle is an Intimacy and Liberation Coach, Business Consultant, and the Founder of Wild Bloom. Danielle aims to create spaces for you to feel seen, loved, and cared for while getting in touch with your true authentic Self. Danielle has been working with couples and singles for over 10+ years. She has a passion to see people truly thriving in all areas of life, but especially in their relationships with themselves and those around them.Website: https://wildbloomhealth.com/Instagram: @danielleaubreysmith and @wildbloom_health------------------Want our help to create your dream love life? 🧲 FREE workshop for single women who are ready for love: The 4 shifts high-achieving women must make to attract their dream partner: https://www.sexysecurelovecourse.com/👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨 Want our step-by-step, DIY system to attract your forever man? Join our membership and get access to all our courses: https://www.skool.com/aligned-attraction/about❣️ Want our mentorship & guidance to attract your forever man ASAP + create your dream relationship? Apply for our mentorship program: https://www.alignedattractionmentorship.com ------------------To learn more about Lee Noto & her work:Email: [email protected]: https://leenoto.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lee.manian/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leemaniancoach/YouTube: https://bit.ly/3bPGFvcLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lee-noto-manian/

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    Ep. 61: From emotionally invulnerable to wildly expressed w/ Heather McClellan

    In this episode, I’m joined by Heather McClellan, an Executive Coach and EQ trainer for a beautifully heartfelt and powerful conversation about what allows relationships (and the people in them) to thrive. We discuss how to go from being emotionally closed to becoming deeply embodied in our emotions + precise in how we communicate them, so we can experience more closeness with our partners.In today’s episode, we cover:The key ingredient that allows both work teams and romantic partners to be the most effective teams/couplesWhy ‘depending’ on your partner is actually healthy (and hyper-independence is not)The ONE question that changed Heather’s life (and how it can change your life too)Heather’s journey from being ‘invulnerable’ and emotionally unexpressed to becoming a master facilitator of emotional intelligence and empathy trainingsHow we can use the body + movement practices to develop relationship skills like expressing vulnerability, deciphering boundaries, and navigating new/challenging conversationsHow to determine what you’re a ‘yes,’ ‘no,’ and ‘maybe’ to in your relationships (aka determining your values)Heather’s declaration for the man/partner she’s calling in <3---------To learn more about Heather & her work:HKM Coaching & Consultingwww.hkmcoaching.comHeather Kumari McClellan does executive coaching and emotional intelligence-related training, facilitation, and conflict mediation for companies ranging from startups to Fortune 100, with clients including Y Combinator startups, Square, Uber, and Siemens. She's also a speaker on EQ topics.Heather's conducted empathy trainings for Fortune 100 executives, and her innovation work with Siemens resulted in endeavors that generated over $200 million for the company. One of her long-term coaching clients is a founder whose private company went from a $40 million to over $1 billion valuation over the course of their coaching. She works with venture funds to clear up leadership team dynamics.Heather is an expert in running events to facilitate group bonding as well as EQ deepening. In the past decade, she's trained and mentored over 300 facilitators, and for five years she ran and co-grew a relational skills training group in Austin to the largest in the world, from 10 to over 2,000 members. Her trainings have sparked over two dozen new EQ training communities globally. Her Austin organization is now an official 501(c)(3) non-profit, for which she is on the board of directors. Heather holds an Advanced Coaching Certification, level two of two, from Columbia University.—------Resources mentioned in this episode:EMDR: Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is a psychotherapy treatment that was originally designed to alleviate the distress associated with traumatic memoriesThe Queen’s Code by Alison ArmstrongThe Keys to the Kingdom by Alison ArmstrongThe Dance of Anger by Harriet LernerOdd Girl Out by Laura James------------------Want our help to create your dream love life? 🧲 FREE workshop for single women who are ready for love: The 4 shifts high-achieving women must make to attract their dream partner: https://www.sexysecurelovecourse.com/👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨 Want our step-by-step, DIY system to attract your forever man? Join our membership and get access to all our courses: https://www.skool.com/aligned-attraction/about❣️ Want our mentorship & guidance to attract your forever man ASAP + create your dream relationship? Apply for our mentorship program: https://www.alignedattractionmentorship.com ------------------To learn more about Lee Noto & her work:Email: [email protected]: https://leenoto.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lee.manian/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leemaniancoach/YouTube: https://bit.ly/3bPGFvcLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lee-noto-manian/

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    Ep. 60: Turning desire into MANifestation fuel

    Ever feel scared to really CLAIM your desires, especially when it comes to defining what you want in a dream partner/relationship? For most of us, we never fully uncover our deepest desires because we want to avoid the potential feeling of disappointment or pain if that desire goes unfulfilled. In this episode, we talk about why it can often feel dangerous to claim our desires + how to shift into using desire as the fuel source to calling in our dream partner. In today’s episode, we cover: - Why desire feels ‘dangerous’ (what we’re actually afraid of)- How to shift into using desire as a fuel source to attract our dream partner- The one practice that changed dating for me and allowed me to attract my partner, Ani- The Commitment Code + Aligned Attraction (The 8-week program for successful single women who are ready to start attracting commitment masculine men)Link to watch The Commitment Code Workshop Replay: https://www.thecommitmentcode.com/replay------------------Want our help to create your dream love life? 🧲 FREE workshop for single women who are ready for love: The 4 shifts high-achieving women must make to attract their dream partner: https://www.sexysecurelovecourse.com/👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨 Want our step-by-step, DIY system to attract your forever man? Join our membership and get access to all our courses: https://www.skool.com/aligned-attraction/about❣️ Want our mentorship & guidance to attract your forever man ASAP + create your dream relationship? Apply for our mentorship program: https://www.alignedattractionmentorship.com ------------------To learn more about Lee Noto & her work:Email: [email protected]: https://leenoto.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lee.manian/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leemaniancoach/YouTube: https://bit.ly/3bPGFvcLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lee-noto-manian/

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    Ep. 59: How to inspire the commitment of a high value man

    While commitment can’t be forced, it can be INSPIRED.In this episode, my partner Ani and I talk about how to inspire the commitment of a high value man. We define who a ‘high value man’ is and what feminine qualities cause this kind of man to want to commit.We dive deep into: What qualities does a ‘high value man’ embody?The 6 traits that attract high value menThe 6 traits that repel high value men Cultivating Potency and Attractiveness in datingThe Commitment Code Workshop: Attract High Quality Men Who Are Doing the Inner Work (details inside the episode) If you’re a woman who’s doing her inner work and is ready to start attracting high value men, join us inside our live virtual experience: The Commitment Code.------------------Want our help to create your dream love life? 🧲 FREE workshop for single women who are ready for love: The 4 shifts high-achieving women must make to attract their dream partner: https://www.sexysecurelovecourse.com/👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨 Want our step-by-step, DIY system to attract your forever man? Join our membership and get access to all our courses: https://www.skool.com/aligned-attraction/about❣️ Want our mentorship & guidance to attract your forever man ASAP + create your dream relationship? Apply for our mentorship program: https://www.alignedattractionmentorship.com ------------------To learn more about Lee Noto & her work:Email: [email protected]: https://leenoto.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lee.manian/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leemaniancoach/YouTube: https://bit.ly/3bPGFvcLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lee-noto-manian/

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    Ep. 58: Why you attract needy, insecure men

    You’re a successful, independent woman who has created a great life for herself… You’re a powerful boss babe at work and just as badass at home…You have great friendships and epic hobbies…To put it simply: You’re a real fkn catch! Yet…you attract men who are needy, clingy, desperate, and insecure. It doesn’t make any sense! Where is your powerful, masculine, committed man?! In this episode, I share: Why you’re attracting men who love bomb you and become infatuated, needy, clingy and desperateHow you’re secretly playing a role in attracting this kind of manWhat shifts to make to start attracting independent, powerful, committed men------------------Want our help to create your dream love life? 🧲 FREE workshop for single women who are ready for love: The 4 shifts high-achieving women must make to attract their dream partner: https://www.sexysecurelovecourse.com/👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨 Want our step-by-step, DIY system to attract your forever man? Join our membership and get access to all our courses: https://www.skool.com/aligned-attraction/about❣️ Want our mentorship & guidance to attract your forever man ASAP + create your dream relationship? Apply for our mentorship program: https://www.alignedattractionmentorship.com ------------------To learn more about Lee Noto & her work:Email: [email protected]: https://leenoto.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lee.manian/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leemaniancoach/YouTube: https://bit.ly/3bPGFvcLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lee-noto-manian/

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    Ep. 57: You’re not attracted to him, but keep dating him

    You’re dating a man (or men)...Who seem great on paper, but there’s no ‘chemistry’Who’s a ‘nice guy,’ but there’s no spark or depthYou don’t vibe with sexually or emotionally Who are kinda ‘meh’ (and you’re definitely not TURNED ON)In this episode, I share: The hidden reasons why you’re attracting this kind of man (and what your ego has to do with it)What this man provides you that keeps you sticking around (even though you’re not attracted to him)The subconscious beliefs you’d need to shift to start attracting men that you’re actually in love with ------------------Want our help to create your dream love life? 🧲 FREE workshop for single women who are ready for love: The 4 shifts high-achieving women must make to attract their dream partner: https://www.sexysecurelovecourse.com/👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨 Want our step-by-step, DIY system to attract your forever man? Join our membership and get access to all our courses: https://www.skool.com/aligned-attraction/about❣️ Want our mentorship & guidance to attract your forever man ASAP + create your dream relationship? Apply for our mentorship program: https://www.alignedattractionmentorship.com ------------------To learn more about Lee Noto & her work:Email: [email protected]: https://leenoto.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lee.manian/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leemaniancoach/YouTube: https://bit.ly/3bPGFvcLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lee-noto-manian/

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    Ep. 56: No More Mr. Nice Guy – Why you attract controlling, misogynistic, or narcissistic men

    If you’ve dated or been in relationships with men where:Your emotions get invalidated (and you’re made to feel like you’re “too much,” “too emotional” or “too needy”)You feel inferior or less than (and he seems ‘superior,’ ‘better than’ or like the ‘authority’)You share your pains, but then he makes it about him (and plays ‘victim’)He blames and points the finger at you (and everyone else) and doesn’t take responsibility for his actions/emotionsHe has sudden outbursts of anger/projects his emotions onto youYou’re playing out a painful pattern of attracting men with emotionally unavailable, narcissistic tendencies…I know these dynamics are challenging as hell, but there is a way through this!In this episode, I share: The hidden reasons why you’re attracting this kind of man (and what your childhood has to do with it)Why this kind of man may actually feel familiar and even ‘safe’ to youHow to stop attracting emotionally men with narcissistic tendencies and start attracting men who value you and appreciate you------------------Want our help to create your dream love life? 🧲 FREE workshop for single women who are ready for love: The 4 shifts high-achieving women must make to attract their dream partner: https://www.sexysecurelovecourse.com/👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨 Want our step-by-step, DIY system to attract your forever man? Join our membership and get access to all our courses: https://www.skool.com/aligned-attraction/about❣️ Want our mentorship & guidance to attract your forever man ASAP + create your dream relationship? Apply for our mentorship program: https://www.alignedattractionmentorship.com ------------------To learn more about Lee Noto & her work:Email: [email protected]: https://leenoto.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lee.manian/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leemaniancoach/YouTube: https://bit.ly/3bPGFvcLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lee-noto-manian/

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    Ep. 55: Emotionally unavailable men – Why you attract ‘players’ and emotionally immature men

    Do you attract men who:Are never ready to commit (and always have a bunch of excuses why)Want to keep dating/sleeping around (or only see you when s*x is involved)Behave in emotionally immature waysWon’t introduce you to his friends or family Won’t open up or share his emotions (and doesn’t ask about yours)Avoid deep or challenging conversations If so, then you’re a magnet for emotionally unavailable men…But not to fear, my dear! In this episode, I share: The hidden reasons why you’re attracting this kind of man (and what your childhood has to do with it)How this man may be reflecting back your emotional unavailability How to stop attracting emotionally unavailable men and START ATTRACTING men who CHOOSE you and CHERISH you! ------------------Want our help to create your dream love life? 🧲 FREE workshop for single women who are ready for love: The 4 shifts high-achieving women must make to attract their dream partner: https://www.sexysecurelovecourse.com/👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨 Want our step-by-step, DIY system to attract your forever man? Join our membership and get access to all our courses: https://www.skool.com/aligned-attraction/about❣️ Want our mentorship & guidance to attract your forever man ASAP + create your dream relationship? Apply for our mentorship program: https://www.alignedattractionmentorship.com ------------------To learn more about Lee Noto & her work:Email: [email protected]: https://leenoto.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lee.manian/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leemaniancoach/YouTube: https://bit.ly/3bPGFvcLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lee-noto-manian/

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    Ep. 54: Why you attract men who need ‘fixing’ – dating ‘projects’ and ‘potential’

    Do you consistently date guys who are “not on your level,” who feel like “projects” and who need “fixing?”You feel done with playing the role of mom, teacher, or guide to your man…And are ready to start attracting men who are doing their ‘inner work,’ living their purpose, and who contribute to the relationship as much as you do? In this episode, I share: The hidden reasons why you’re attracting this kind of manThe real reasons why you’re actually attracted to this kind of man How to attract men who are “on your level” and doing their inner work------------------Want our help to create your dream love life? 🧲 FREE workshop for single women who are ready for love: The 4 shifts high-achieving women must make to attract their dream partner: https://www.sexysecurelovecourse.com/👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨 Want our step-by-step, DIY system to attract your forever man? Join our membership and get access to all our courses: https://www.skool.com/aligned-attraction/about❣️ Want our mentorship & guidance to attract your forever man ASAP + create your dream relationship? Apply for our mentorship program: https://www.alignedattractionmentorship.com ------------------To learn more about Lee Noto & her work:Email: [email protected]: https://leenoto.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lee.manian/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leemaniancoach/YouTube: https://bit.ly/3bPGFvcLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lee-noto-manian/

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    Ep. 53: Why you attract the WRONG men (and how to attract high quality men)

    No matter how hard you try, you find yourself attracting anything but the kind of man you’d be willing to call “The One.” Maybe you attract the man who’s not ready to commit and wants to keep ‘playing the field…’ Or you attract the man with whom you see a lot of potential, but he’s just not showing up in alignment with that potential. Maybe you attract the man who you have wrapped around your little finger, which strokes your ego, but you don’t actually respect this man…Or you attract the man that looks great on paper, but you’re just not that into…UGH! In this episode, I share: The many faces of Mr. Wrong – the archetypes of the men you no longer wish to attract + why you keep attracting them How to start attracting Mr. Right – the kinds of men who appreciate and prioritize youA powerful exercise for how to start attracting these kinds of men ASAP! ------------------Want our help to create your dream love life? 🧲 FREE workshop for single women who are ready for love: The 4 shifts high-achieving women must make to attract their dream partner: https://www.sexysecurelovecourse.com/👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨 Want our step-by-step, DIY system to attract your forever man? Join our membership and get access to all our courses: https://www.skool.com/aligned-attraction/about❣️ Want our mentorship & guidance to attract your forever man ASAP + create your dream relationship? Apply for our mentorship program: https://www.alignedattractionmentorship.com ------------------To learn more about Lee Noto & her work:Email: [email protected]: https://leenoto.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lee.manian/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leemaniancoach/YouTube: https://bit.ly/3bPGFvcLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lee-noto-manian/

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    Ep. 52: Why Successful Women Struggle to Find Love and Attract Good Men

    Ep. 52: Why Successful Women Struggle to Find Love and Attract Good MenYou’re slayin’ it everywhere else in your life – great job, amazing friends, world travel…so where the hell is your guy?! And why is love the one thing you haven’t felt successful at? In this episode, I share:Why many high-achieving women have a hard time being successful when it comes to loveThe 4 patterns many high-achieving women play out that keep them from finding high-quality men The cause for why many of your romantic relationships fail How to overcome the patterns that are keeping you stuck and OUT of love------------------Want our help to create your dream love life? 🧲 FREE workshop for single women who are ready for love: The 4 shifts high-achieving women must make to attract their dream partner: https://www.sexysecurelovecourse.com/👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨 Want our step-by-step, DIY system to attract your forever man? Join our membership and get access to all our courses: https://www.skool.com/aligned-attraction/about❣️ Want our mentorship & guidance to attract your forever man ASAP + create your dream relationship? Apply for our mentorship program: https://www.alignedattractionmentorship.com ------------------To learn more about Lee Noto & her work:Email: [email protected]: https://leenoto.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lee.manian/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leemaniancoach/YouTube: https://bit.ly/3bPGFvcLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lee-noto-manian/

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    Ep. 51: The Secret to Finding Lasting Love: How to Attract a Committed Man

    Welcome back! You may have noticed that I paused recording for a while. I was off giving birth to the greatest love experience that exists…aka the most powerful love program out there (if you’re a successful single woman who’s ready to start attracting committed masculine men ;) In this episode, I share:Why I changed the podcast name from “The Way of The High Priestess” to “Aligned Attraction” (+ why you should care if you’re a single woman who’s ready for love)My trials and tribulations in dating and relationships: the patterns that kept me from true love + how I overcame them (and how you can too)lThe ONLY THING you have to “do” if you’re ready to find love and create a dream relationshipThe ONE practice that changed my life and brought me from single and hopeless → being in the most powerful and profound relationship with the man of my dreamsHow you can start attracting committed masculine men ASAP – Hint: I made a free workshop for you on exactly how to do this: www.AlignedAttraction.com/workshop ------------------Want our help to create your dream love life? 🧲 FREE workshop for single women who are ready for love: The 4 shifts high-achieving women must make to attract their dream partner: https://www.sexysecurelovecourse.com/👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨 Want our step-by-step, DIY system to attract your forever man? Join our membership and get access to all our courses: https://www.skool.com/aligned-attraction/about❣️ Want our mentorship & guidance to attract your forever man ASAP + create your dream relationship? Apply for our mentorship program: https://www.alignedattractionmentorship.com ------------------To learn more about Lee Noto & her work:Email: [email protected]: https://leenoto.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lee.manian/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leemaniancoach/YouTube: https://bit.ly/3bPGFvcLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lee-noto-manian/

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    Ep. 50: How to LOVE Your Period

    “I love getting my period…” – said no woman ever.But what if you could actually say that? And, what if your partner helped you celebrate the time of the month when you bleed? (Or you could be the kind of partner that helps her celebrate her period). How freakin’ amazing would that be?! In this episode, I’m going to debunk the bullsh*t myths we have around menstruation, provide new and empowering mindsets shifts, and give you a simple 3-step framework to LOVING your period (or helping your partner love hers). *Shoutout to Ani who inspired this recording by throwing me a Period Party Celebration at the start of this last menstrual cycle.*Here’s a link to the book I mentioned in the podcast episode: https://amzn.to/3szVR9w------------------Want our help to create your dream love life? 🧲 FREE workshop for single women who are ready for love: The 4 shifts high-achieving women must make to attract their dream partner: https://www.sexysecurelovecourse.com/👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨 Want our step-by-step, DIY system to attract your forever man? Join our membership and get access to all our courses: https://www.skool.com/aligned-attraction/about❣️ Want our mentorship & guidance to attract your forever man ASAP + create your dream relationship? Apply for our mentorship program: https://www.alignedattractionmentorship.com ------------------To learn more about Lee Noto & her work:Email: [email protected]: https://leenoto.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lee.manian/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leemaniancoach/YouTube: https://bit.ly/3bPGFvcLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lee-noto-manian/

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    Ep. 49: Accept Yourself (& Others) Meditation

    Sometimes it feels like we ARE the anger, sadness, and frustration that we feel (with ourselves and with others)...But what if you could cultivate the ability to see what’s happening, without becoming “the thing” itself? In this meditation, I guide you through a process that helps you see many aspects of yourself and your loved ones with a sense of relaxed objectivity. Wouldn’t it be so nice if the triggers that you thought people activated in you just fell away? Tune in to this mediation (while you’re seated somewhere comfy & quiet…and NOT while driving) to surrender into a state of triggerless peace!------------------Want our help to create your dream love life? 🧲 FREE workshop for single women who are ready for love: The 4 shifts high-achieving women must make to attract their dream partner: https://www.sexysecurelovecourse.com/👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨 Want our step-by-step, DIY system to attract your forever man? Join our membership and get access to all our courses: https://www.skool.com/aligned-attraction/about❣️ Want our mentorship & guidance to attract your forever man ASAP + create your dream relationship? Apply for our mentorship program: https://www.alignedattractionmentorship.com ------------------To learn more about Lee Noto & her work:Email: [email protected]: https://leenoto.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lee.manian/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leemaniancoach/YouTube: https://bit.ly/3bPGFvcLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lee-noto-manian/

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

Aligned Attraction is the go-to podcast on intimacy for powerful women. On the podcast, we teach you how to take a stance of 'fierce love' with yourself (and in your relationships) -- the kind of love that cuts through the illusion of unworthiness, and allows you to feel deeply safe to be yourself in dating and love.Each week, you'll hear from us: Lee Noto & Ani Manian, Master Intimacy Coaches and Founders of Aligned Attraction (A modern relationship school for self-aware women who are ready to revolutionize their relationship with themselves and create sexy secure love.) If you're ready to play FULL OUT and have the heart-throbbing love you’ve been craving, this is the podcast for you!

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Lee Noto

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