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all my friends are queer

by rae (they/them)

Welcome to all my friends are queer. On this podcast, I document my life as I live it, with the goal of sharing my experiences as a fat, disabled, Chicanx, queer person. In a world lacking queer representation, I feel it is important to share my story publicly with no filters, just raw vulnerability. Some recurring themes include queer liberation, fat liberation, mental health, healthcare, and queer culture. Join the discourse on social media by using the hashtags #amfaq and #twcw (that was crazy when...)!

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Episodes

  1. Messy, Grieving Emotions

    How do you let go of people that created you? That became integrally a part of you? Currently, my only strategies are "write," "cry," and "keep building no matter how many times the Legos fall down" and I gotta be honest, I'm kind of sick & tired of the baggage...

  2. 1.21.26: self soothing

    Dear future me: did you start feeling guilty about putting yourself & your needs first? Listen to this time you had tasty dinner at home and felt proud instead.

  3. Alpha Energy is FEMININE

    Reaction to The Originals Season 5, Episode 6. Of course the three stooges of this cursed episode are men. My girl deserved SO MUCH BETTER TREATMENT 😭

  4. Commentary: The Red Pill documentary by Cassie Jaye

    It's like... If I only saw TERFs as my impression of the feminist movement, I would have hated it. Just as I hated the men's rights activism movement for the extremists I saw online in my early 20s. I learned a lot from this documentary, and it has expanded my views in healthy ways. I stopped...

  5. growing pains (hit different when you're transgender)

    it's a lonely feeling to look around at a virtually non-existent support system. EVERYTHING has changed over the past two years. it's hard to know which direction to choose to move forward. discussion about complex and abusive family dynamics. life has really taken my history of fighting against...

  6. The Psychotic Episode

    TW: discussion of rape (if there's any trigger warnings I'm missing, please tell me in the Q&A section and I will update it!) CW: recapping the events that led up to my mortifying psychotic episode last year, and all of the messiness that goes along with it. I recently mass deleted a ton of...

  7. Beus Pond

    My reflections on the difficult mental health situation I've been working through for almost a year. Getting stable again is hard, especially when you're homeless. The tides seem to be changing in my favor, so it's good that I document the positive things in my life right now.

  8. Welcome to the Depressive Episode

    Manic switch is officially off, welcome to the pits of depression hell 😅

  9. DBT Intensive Outpatient Treatment - week 4

    Topics covered: The Dime Game - how ask for something strongly or say no strongly (5:43); willingness, wise mind, and distress tolerance (23:45), nutrition and dialectical stance (40:07), accumulating positives (50:35), emotional regulation, the function of emotions, and boundary setting…

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  10. DBT Intensive Outpatient Treatment - week 3

    Consolidating lessons from my third week in intensive mental health treatment | ➡️CW: GIVE (interpersonal / relationship effectiveness and communication) (8:18), vulnerability factors (PLEASE) (9:37), mindfulness and coping ahead (16:40), checking the facts (18:21), schemas (specific /...

  11. DBT Intensive Outpatient Therapy - week 2

    A long and winding and very stream-of-consciousness summary of my second week in IOP. | "There's no amount of guilt that can change the past, and no amount of anxiety that can change the future." | ➡️CW: distress tolerance (11:55), behavioral change analysis (15:10), TIPP as an emergency lever…

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  12. Life as Therapy / DBT Intensive Outpatient Therapy - week 1

    This week I recap my sister Kristi's visit to Milwaukee and all of our shenanigans, as well as my first week of the DBT IOP (dialectical behavior therapy intensive outpatient program) and my return to work. | "Anger can be the bodyguard for fear or other emotions." | ➡️CW: experiential (art)...

  13. The Manic Episode

    Aside from the usual weekly recap and goal-setting, this week I'm digging into and recounting the events leading up to my mixed manic episode last year and the factors (social, medical, behavioral) that contributed to a psychotic break. Notice that as I speak about these events, at times I start…

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  14. Mama Knows Best

    Reconnecting with my mom has been tough and my brain is messy right now, but there's one thing I know for sure (that she taught me): my faith is rooted in my love for my family. I speak on many topics here, including: how my lack of emotional intelligence/awareness, unstable housing, and…

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  15. Avoidance Queen

    How procrastination and financial anxiety is affecting my safety planning and continuity of mental healthcare. Also, fuck capitalism and fuck our healthcare system. #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #mentalillness #depression #anxiety #CPTSD #bipolardisorder

  16. Asparagus

    CW: CPTSD, how I eliminate my triggers, find closure, and heal TW: abusive ex-boyfriend, sexual abuse, (Please tell me if I need to add other TWs!) #TWCW #CPTSD #PTSD #triggers #trigger #healing #emotionalhealing #emotionalintelligence #mentalhealth #therapy #gototherapy

  17. Introduction

    A little bit about me and my vision for this podcast.

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

Welcome to all my friends are queer. On this podcast, I document my life as I live it, with the goal of sharing my experiences as a fat, disabled, Chicanx, queer person. In a world lacking queer representation, I feel it is important to share my story publicly with no filters, just raw vulnerability. Some recurring themes include queer liberation, fat liberation, mental health, healthcare, and queer culture. Join the discourse on social media by using the hashtags #amfaq and #twcw (that was crazy when...)!

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rae (they/them)

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