An Imperfectly Perfect Life with Shari Leid

This is An Imperfectly Perfect Life… and we’re just getting started. Big things are coming. A new brand. A bigger mission. And even more ways to help you flip the box in your own life. So stay tuned. If you’re feeling called to go deeper, I’d love to work with you. You can find everything at ShariLeid.com. And if retreat has been on your heart… this is your moment. We only have 8 private rooms… and 3 are already gone, and we haven’t even started advertising yet. So if you’re thinking about it… don’t wait. And if you’re looking for a speaker who will truly move your audience from disconnection to real connection… let’s talk. Season 3 -- launches at the end of June .... get ready for a few announcement with exclusive offers leading up to our big launch! New production team and new cover -- ready, set, go! #flipthebox #connectionexpert #retreatsforwomen

What if fear isn’t something to overcome… but something to use? In this episode of An Imperfectly Perfect Life with Shari Leid, I sit down with Janice Burt to explore a powerful reframe: fear is not the enemy. It is information. It is direction. And when you learn how to work with it, it becomes one of your greatest advantages. We begin with a question that makes you pause:If today were your last day, would you be doing what you are doing right now? From there, this conversation opens up what fear really means in your life, your relationships, your career, and your next chapter. Instead of avoiding it, what if you learned how to use fear as a tool for clarity, confidence, and forward movement? If you have ever felt stuck, uncertain, or held back, this episode will help you shift how you see fear and how you move through it. In this episode, we discuss: How to turn fear into an advantage in life and business Why fear often signals growth, not danger The role fear plays in leadership and decision making How to move forward even when you feel uncertain A simple mindset shift that changes how you take action This is not about eliminating fear. It is about learning how to move with it. Because the people who learn to use fear are the ones who create what others only think about. https://www.janiceburt.com/ https://www.spanishjanice.com/ https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/ #OvercomingFear #PersonalGrowth #MindsetShift #WomenInBusiness #PodcastLife

In this insightful conversation, Shari Leid sits down with her long-time publicist Kourtney Jason of Pacific & Court to pull back the curtain on what it really takes to build visibility in today’s crowded media landscape. From crafting a powerful personal narrative to pitching stories that resonate, Kourtney shares practical strategies for authors, speakers, and entrepreneurs who want to expand their reach and elevate their impact. This episode explores the intersection of storytelling, credibility, and connection, offering listeners actionable guidance on how to position themselves for meaningful media opportunities. Kourtney also breaks down the difference between earned media and marketing! To reach Kourtney, visit Pacific and Court's website at https://pacificandcourt.com/ To reach Shari, (for speaking, books, coaching, and retreats) visit An Imperfectly Perfect Life's website at www.animperfectlyperfectlife.com #keynotespeaker #speakerpro #retreatsforwomen #flipthebox #connectionexpert #publicity #prfirm @authorlife

In this episode of An Imperfectly Perfect Life –with Shari Leid - Shari sits down with speaker and resilience expert Tiran Jackson for a conversation about the true nature of resilience. Many people believe resilience is something you either have or you do not. Tiran shares why that belief is a myth. Through his personal journey and the lessons he has learned along the way, he explains how resilience is actually a skill that can be developed, strengthened, and practiced over time. Shari and Tiran explore how the challenges we face can become the very experiences that build our strength. They discuss the mindset shifts that help people move forward after adversity and how the stories we tell ourselves can shape our ability to rise again. This conversation is an honest look at growth, perseverance, and the power we all have to build resilience one step at a time. To contact Tiran visit: Reborn Resilient https://rebornresilient.com/ For more information about Shari - to book speaking, coaching, and retreat information visit An Imperfectly Perfect Life https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/ #Resilience #BuildingResilience #ResilienceSkills #PersonalGrowth

What really happens after you file for divorce differs for everyone -- and can be incredibly challenging for those who are leaving a toxic partner. Why do custody battles and high-conflict divorces continue long after the relationship ends? In this episode of An Imperfectly Perfect Life, Shari Leid talks with Lisa Johnson, co-founder of Been There. Got Out. Lisa spent years navigating a high-conflict divorce, representing herself against her former, much wealthier, spouse - through the chaos of a complex legal system, Lisa now works with clients around the world who are dealing with toxic relationships, legal abuse, and exhausting custody disputes. This conversation explores what legal abuse looks like, why leaving doesn’t always bring relief, and how people can regain clarity, confidence, and agency when systems feel overwhelming and unfair. It’s an honest, validating discussion for anyone rebuilding their life after divorce, emotional trauma, or long-term conflict. If you’ve ever wondered why getting out didn’t mean it was over, this episode will help you understand why - and what comes next. For more information and to contact Lisa, visit her website www.beentheregotout.com Grab my free 52 Weeks of Connection email series—one weekly challenge to help you feel more connected and build real friendships as an adult. It’s free, simple, and you can unsubscribe anytime. Sign up at:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://zc.vg/ZDPo2⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠ And if you’re ready to go even deeper,  learn more about my Flip the Box® Women's Retreat  at⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/retreat⁠ ⁠⁠⁠ To purchase my latest book, Table For 51, visit: ⁠⁠https://a.co/d/09g7OpMd Let’s dive in—reinvention, real talk, and a whole lot of laughter start NOW! #retreatsforwomen #womensretreat #LifeAfterDivorce #HighConflictDivorce #ToxicRelationships #LegalAbuse #StartingOver

In this episode, I sit down with Daven Michaels—a 10-time author, New York Times bestselling author, serial entrepreneur, and respected business strategist—live from Top Talent Hollywood’s Media Row. Daven is widely known for helping people build wealth and businesses that create real freedom, but at the core of his work is something deeper and more enduring: community. Throughout our conversation, we explore how long-term success isn’t built in isolation—it’s built through intentional relationships, shared experiences, and environments where people truly belong. That philosophy comes to life through Daven’s creation of the San Juan Island Social Club and its accompanying San Juan Island cruise experience—a curated community designed to bring entrepreneurs, leaders, and creatives together not just to network, but to connect, collaborate, and build meaningful relationships in real life. Drawing from decades of entrepreneurial experience, Daven shares why community is not a “nice-to-have,” but a strategic advantage—and why the most successful leaders are those who invest in people as intentionally as they invest in growth. Even in the high-energy environment of Media Row, his clarity, presence, and commitment to connection come through loud and clear. If you’re an entrepreneur, leader, or creator who wants to build wealth, impact, and community—without doing it alone—this conversation will challenge how you think about success, leadership, and what it really means to build something that lasts. For more information and to contact Daven Michaels - check out his website at https://davenmichaels.com/ Grab my free 52 Weeks of Connection email series—one weekly challenge to help you feel more connected and build real friendships as an adult. It’s free, simple, and you can unsubscribe anytime. Sign up at:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://zc.vg/ZDPo2⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠ And if you’re ready to go even deeper,  learn more about my Flip the Box® Women's Retreat  at⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/retreat⁠ ⁠⁠⁠ To purchase my latest book, Table For 51, visit: ⁠⁠https://a.co/d/3vUc9SB⁠⁠ Let’s dive in—reinvention, real talk, and a whole lot of laughter start NOW! #retreatsforwomen #midlifegrowth #Entrepreneurship #BusinessLeadership #SerialEntrepreneur #WealthBuilding #BusinessStrategy #FounderLife #EntrepreneurMindset

In this solo episode, Shari Leid shares how meditation teaches you to become an observer rather than an absorber - using breath and presence as practical tools for everyday life. Fresh off becoming a certified meditation teacher, Shari offers simple meditation gems from her training that help you stay grounded, present, and clear without checking out of real life. This episode focuses on how conscious breathing builds awareness, emotional resilience, and calm leadership in moments that matter Grab my free 52 Weeks of Connection email series—one weekly challenge to help you feel more connected and build real friendships as an adult. It’s free, simple, and you can unsubscribe anytime. Sign up at:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://zc.vg/ZDPo2⁠⁠ ⁠⁠ And if you’re ready to go even deeper,  learn more about my Flip the Box® Women's Retreat  at⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/retreat⁠ ⁠⁠ To purchase my latest book, Table For 51, visit: ⁠https://a.co/d/3vUc9SB⁠ Let’s dive in—reinvention, real talk, and a whole lot of laughter start NOW! #retreatsforwomen #meditationteacher #meditationpractice #flipthebox #midlifegrowth #selfhelppodcast

Are you truly stuck—or are you afraid to move forward? In this episode of An Imperfectly Perfect Life, host Shari Leid sits down with Anne Bonney, keynote speaker and leadership consultant, for an honest conversation about fear, growth, and what it really takes to create an incredible year ahead. Together, they explore how to recognize the difference between being stuck and being scared—and why fear is often a sign you’re standing at the edge of growth. Anne shares practical insights on how to bloom where you’re planted, even when life doesn’t look the way you expected it to. This episode invites listeners to reflect on the year behind them with curiosity instead of judgment, let go of what no longer serves them, and intentionally prepare for the year ahead—not through rigid resolutions, but through clarity, courage, and alignment. If you’re navigating change, reinvention, leadership challenges, or personal growth, this conversation offers grounded wisdom, real talk, and actionable perspective to help you move forward with confidence. In this episode, you’ll learn: How to tell if you’re stuck or operating from fear Why fear isn’t a stop sign—but a signal What it means to bloom where you’re planted How to reflect on the past year without regret How to prepare for an incredible year ahead with intention Perfect for listeners interested in personal growth, leadership development, mindset shifts, and meaningful life transitions. Grab my free 52 Weeks of Connection email series—one weekly challenge to help you feel more connected and build real friendships as an adult. It’s free, simple, and you can unsubscribe anytime. Sign up at: ⁠⁠⁠https://zc.vg/ZDPo2⁠⁠ ⁠ And if you’re ready to go even deeper,  learn more about my Flip the Box® Women's Retreat  at⁠ ⁠⁠https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/retreat⁠ ⁠ To purchase my latest book, Table For 51, visit: https://a.co/d/3vUc9SB Let’s dive in—reinvention, real talk, and a whole lot of laughter start NOW! #PersonalGrowth #FearAndGrowth #FeelingStuck #LifeTransitions #MindsetShift #IntentionalLiving #SelfLeadership

What does it mean to create a container for a new year? In this episode, I’m talking about creating a container for 2026 — the emotional, energetic, and practical structure that holds your life so growth can happen without burnout or force. A container isn’t about goals or resolutions. It’s about the environment you’re living inside. The boundaries you set. The rhythms you keep. The support you allow. When the container is strong, clarity and momentum follow naturally. I share how I’m thinking about my own container for 2026, why support matters more than willpower, and how designing the right structure can change how you show up in your work, relationships, and leadership. If you’re entering a new season and want it to feel grounded, intentional, and sustainable, this episode will help you rethink what it means to hold your life well. Grab my free 52 Weeks of Connection email series—one weekly challenge to help you feel more connected and build real friendships as an adult. It’s free, simple, and you can unsubscribe anytime. Sign up at: ⁠⁠https://zc.vg/ZDPo2⁠⁠ And if you’re ready to go even deeper,  learn more about my Flip the Box® Women's Retreat  at ⁠⁠https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/retreat⁠ To purchase my latest book, Table For 51, visit: ⁠⁠https://a.co/d/cL7uYIy⁠⁠ Let’s dive in—reinvention, real talk, and a whole lot of laughter start NOW! #IntentionalLiving #CreatingAContainer #2026Planning #PersonalGrowthPodcast #MidlifeReinvention #FlipTheBox #womensretreat

What does it mean to intentionally rebuild your life—and then actually move forward? In this end-of-year episode of An Imperfectly Perfect Life, I reflect on 2025 as a deliberate rebuilding year and share the top three lessons that shaped how I think about love, work, money, and self-trust. I also offer simple, practical tools—questions, mantras, and reflections—you can use to step into the new year with clarity and confidence. Most of all, I share my excitement about what’s next. My wish for 2026 is simple: to enter this next year together, with intention—moving from a year of rebuilding into a year of implementation. If you’re ready to stop preparing and start living what you’ve learned, this episode is for you. Grab my free 52 Weeks of Connection email series—one weekly challenge to help you feel more connected and build real friendships as an adult. It’s free, simple, and you can unsubscribe anytime. Sign up at: ⁠⁠https://zc.vg/ZDPo2⁠⁠ And if you’re ready to go even deeper,  learn more about my Flip the Box® Women's Retreat  at ⁠⁠https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/retreat⁠ To purchase my latest book, Table For 51, visit: ⁠⁠https://a.co/d/cL7uYIy⁠⁠ Let’s dive in—reinvention, real talk, and a whole lot of laughter start NOW! #EndOfYearReflection #LifeRebuilding #IntentionalLiving #PersonalGrowth #Reinvention #ImplementationYear #FlipTheBox #MidlifeGrowth #WomenRebuilding #PodcastReflection #NewYearIntentions #ChooseYourLife

We talk a lot about bucket lists as someday dreams, but rarely about how our money actually supports the life we want to live right now. In this episode, I’m joined by Lisa Sakai of One Vision Retirement to explore a different approach to financial planning, one that starts with your bucket list and works backward with intention. Lisa shares how aligning your finances with your values can turn vague dreams into realistic plans, without fear, pressure, or perfection. We talk about why clarity matters more than complexity, how to make space for meaningful experiences, and how money can become a tool for freedom rather than stress. This conversation is about living fully, planning wisely, and creating a future that feels intentional, not postponed. To learn more about Lisa, visit https://www.onevisionretire.com/our-team Grab my free 52 Weeks of Connection email series—one weekly challenge to help you feel more connected and build real friendships as an adult. It’s free, simple, and you can unsubscribe anytime. Sign up at: ⁠https://zc.vg/ZDPo2⁠ And if you’re ready to go even deeper,  learn more about my Flip the Box® Women's Retreat  at ⁠https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/retreat To purchase my latest book, Table For 51, visit: ⁠https://a.co/d/cL7uYIy⁠ Let’s dive in—reinvention, real talk, and a whole lot of laughter start NOW! #AnImperfectlyPerfectLife #LifeUnscripted #Onevisionretirement #WealthMindset #FinancialWellness #PurposeDrivenLiving #RewriteYourStory #GenerationalWealth #retirementplanning #divorceandfinances

In this episode of An Imperfectly Perfect Life – with Shari Leid, I sit down with the extraordinary Stoy Hall: financial strategist, founder, speaker, and one of the most refreshingly human voices in the world of wealth-building. Stoy doesn’t just talk numbers. He talks meaning. In this conversation, Stoy shares the story behind his life’s mission is to rid the world of financial illiteracy . From his early experiences that shaped his relationship with money to the powerful moment he realized everyone who has wealth, did not build alone - they had someone(s) who help them. We explore: * How your personal story affects your financial life more than any spreadsheet * The mindset shifts that lead to generational change * Stoy’s deeply personal “aha moment” that transformed the way he leads, gives, and lives This is not a financial episode. It’s a human one. It is an episode about identity, intention, and rewriting the narratives we inherit. If you’ve ever felt disconnected from the traditional messages about money, this conversation will help you breathe deeper and dream bigger. To learn more about Stoy Hall visit :https://www.blackmammoth.com/ Grab my free 52 Weeks of Connection email series—one weekly challenge to help you feel more connected and build real friendships as an adult. It’s free, simple, and you can unsubscribe anytime. Sign up at: https://zc.vg/ZDPo2 And if you’re ready to go even deeper,  learn more about my Flip the Box® LIVE - The Connection Conference and Flip The Box® Women's Retreat  at https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/retreat To purchase my latest book, Table For 51, visit: https://a.co/d/cL7uYIy Let’s dive in—reinvention, real talk, and a whole lot of laughter start NOW! #AnImperfectlyPerfectLife #LifeUnscripted #StoyHall #WealthMindset #FinancialWellness #PurposeDrivenLiving #RewriteYourStory #GenerationalWealth #MoneyMindset #EmpoweredLiving #FlipTheBox #WomenOver50 #ReinventionJourney #PodcastForWomen #ShariLeid

I made it to Dallas — and today, you get the first peek inside my brand-new home! This episode is all joy, fresh paint, unpacked dreams, and the feeling of walking into a space that finally feels like mine. After a interstate move, a massive life transition, and a very full moving truck, this house is where my new chapter officially begins. Come with me as I open the door for the very first time and talk about what this home, this city, means for my next season of reinvention, creativity, and connection. If you love new beginnings or stories of starting over - especially in mid-life - with hope and joy -- this episode is for you! Welcome to Dallas. Welcome to my new home. Welcome to the next beautiful chapter. #DallasHome #NewHomeTour #MovingToDallas #DallasLife #HomeReveal #DallasTexas #StartingOverAt50 #EmptyNesterLife #NewBeginnings #HomeJourney #LifeInDallas #FlipTheBox #ReinventionStory #WomenWhoReinvent #HomeVibes #JoyfulLiving #LifestyleVlog #DallasVlog #FreshStart #MidlifeReinvention #retreatforwomen #womensretreats

Happy Thanksgiving, friends. Today’s episode is a gentle reminder rooted in one simple truth: you have always had all you need. This guided Thanksgiving meditation is an invitation to slow down, breathe deeply, and reconnect with the parts of yourself that have carried you through every season - the resilience, wisdom, love, and inner light that were never missing. In this short reflection, I share a spoken-word meditation I wrote for you: a reminder that even in years marked by loss, transitions, new beginnings, and surprise chapters, you were never empty - only unfolding. Together, we’ll revisit the moments that shaped you, honor the strength you revealed along the way, and give thanks not for what arrived, but for what awakened within you. Whether you're celebrating with a full table or a quiet heart this year, this meditation is a grounding space to return to yourself - to gratitude, to truth, and to the reminder that everything you need has always lived inside you. Wishing you a warm and connected Thanksgiving. Let’s flip the box together. 💛 #thanksgivingprayer #thanksgivingmeditation #meditation #thanksgiving2025 #flipthebox #youareenough #selfhelp

In this deeply honest and liberating conversation, I sit down with Nikki Corbett, founder of The Scarlet Edit, to explore what happens when women stop hiding the chapters of their lives they’ve been taught to feel ashamed of - and instead rewrite them with truth, compassion, and power. Nikki shares the story behind The Scarlet Edit: how a moment meant to define her became the catalyst for a movement helping women reclaim their narratives. Together, we talk about the weight of labels, the silence women are conditioned to carry, and the freedom that comes from owning your story rather than being owned by it. This episode is for anyone who has ever felt misunderstood, mislabeled, or muted. It’s for every woman who’s been told who she should be - and is finally ready to decide that for herself. Join us for a conversation that’s raw, revealing, and ultimately redemptive. Because sometimes the most courageous thing we can do is edit the story we were never meant to keep. To learn more about Nikki's work, please visit her website at nikki-corbett.com Grab my free 52 Weeks of Connection email series—one weekly challenge to help you feel more connected and build real friendships as an adult. It’s free, simple, and you can unsubscribe anytime. Sign up at: https://zc.vg/ZDPo2 And if you’re ready to go even deeper,  learn more about my Flip the Box® LIVE - The Connection Conference and Flip The Box® Women's Retreat  at https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/retreat To purchase my latest book, Table For 51, visit: https://a.co/d/cL7uYIy Let’s dive in—reinvention, real talk, and a whole lot of laughter start NOW! #animperfectlyperfectlife #flipthebox #tablefor51 #keynotespeaker #emceepro #personallifecoach #mindsetcoach #connectioncoach #friendshipexpert #retreatsforwomen

What does it really take to live a “next level” life? In this episode, Shari sits down with Alan Lazaros - speaker, coach, and co-founder of Next Level University - to unpack the habits, mindset, and connections that turn vision into reality. Together, Shari and Alan explore what it means to keep showing up when no one’s watching, how to rewrite your story, and how to build a life that aligns with who you’re becoming, not who you’ve been. Whether you’re building a business, striving to level up professionally or personally (or both), or just ready to stop playing small, this episode will leave you inspired to take one small, consistent step toward your next level, today. For more information about Alan, check out https://www.nextleveluniverse.com/ Subscribe on YouTube at youtube.com/sharileid  💌 And don’t forget to grab my free 52 Weeks of Connection email series—one weekly challenge to help you feel more connected and build real friendships as an adult. It’s free, simple, and you can unsubscribe anytime. Sign up at: https://zc.vg/ZDPo2 And if you’re ready to go even deeper,  learn more about the Flip The Box® Women's Retreat  visit https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/retreat To purchase my latest book, Table For 51, visit: https://a.co/d/cL7uYIy Let’s dive in—reinvention, real talk, and a whole lot of laughter start NOW! #animperfectlyperfectlife #flipthebox #tablefor51 #keynotespeaker #emceepro #personallifecoach #mindsetcoach #connectioncoach #friendshipexpert #retreatsforwomen#businesspodcast

What happens when two global connection strategists sit down to talk about what truly drives success? Host Shari Leid, author of Table for 51 and creator of Flip the Box®, joins Lirone Glikman, author of The Super Connector’s Playbook and founder of The Human Factor Method. Together, they unpack the science and soul of human connection - how to move beyond surface networking, flip limiting stories, and build relationships that transform both business and life. If you’re ready to connect with purpose and elevate your impact, this episode is your blueprint. To contact Lirone - please visit her website at: https://lironeglikman.com/ 🎥 Want to watch my journey? Subscribe on YouTube at youtube.com/sharileid  💌 And don’t forget to grab my free 52 Weeks of Connection email series—one weekly challenge to help you feel more connected and build real friendships as an adult. It’s free, simple, and you can unsubscribe anytime. Sign up at: https://zc.vg/ZDPo2 And if you’re ready to go even deeper,  learn more about my Flip the Box® LIVE - The Connection Conference and Flip The Box® Women's Retreat  at https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/retreat To purchase my latest book, Table For 51, visit: https://a.co/d/cL7uYIy Let’s dive in—reinvention, real talk, and a whole lot of laughter start NOW! #animperfectlyperfectlife #flipthebox #tablefor51 #keynotespeaker #emceepro #personallifecoach #mindsetcoach #connectioncoach #friendshipexpert #retreatsforwomen

It’s never too late to wake up to your own life! In this laugh-out-loud, soul-stirring episode, Shari Leid and midlife reinvention queen Wendy Valentine, author of Women Waking Up , dive into what happens when women stop settling and start living. From rediscovering passion to finding purpose - and yes, bringing play back into the mix - this conversation is your permission slip to shake things up and fall in love with your life all over again. To contact Wendy, visit https://wendyvalentine.com/womenwakingup Grab my free 52 Weeks of Connection email series—one weekly challenge to help you feel more connected and build real friendships as an adult. It’s free, simple, and you can unsubscribe anytime. Sign up at: https://zc.vg/ZDPo2 And if you’re ready to go even deeper,  learn more about my Flip the Box® LIVE - The Connection Conference and Flip The Box® Women's Retreat  at https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/retreat To purchase my latest book, Table For 51, visit: https://a.co/d/cL7uYIy Let’s dive in—reinvention, real talk, and a whole lot of laughter start NOW! #animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker #relocation

Hadley Shafer’s Break at the Bend reminds us that sometimes life’s sharp turns are divine detours. In this heartfelt conversation, we talk about the beauty in taking a break at the bend, being proud of the journey, the courage in beginning again, and the peace that comes when we trust the universe’s other plans. #AnImperfectlyPerfectLife #NewBeginnings #MidlifeMagic #EmpoweringWomen #HealingJourney Welcome to An Imperfectly Perfect Life® with Shari Leid, where we Flip the Box® on friendship, reinvention, and starting over. From real talk to inspiring stories, this channel empowers women to embrace change, build authentic connections, and live boldly—no holding back. New city. New life. No holding back. Subscribe for weekly videos on personal growth, mindset shifts, and the Flip the Box® movement. To contact this weeks guest: Hadley can be found at https://www.hadleymschafer.com/ 💌 And don’t forget to grab my free 52 Weeks of Connection email series—one weekly challenge to help you feel more connected and build real friendships as an adult. It’s free, simple, and you can unsubscribe anytime. Sign up at: https://zc.vg/ZDPo2 And if you’re ready to go even deeper, learn more about my Flip the Box® Retreats for women—three unforgettable days designed to bring you home to yourself. While most retreats take you away, these retreats are about helping you reconnect with who you are, what you want, and the life you’re meant to live. Learn more about the retreats at https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/retreat To purchase my latest book, Table For 51, visit: https://a.co/d/cL7uYIy Let’s dive in—reinvention, real talk, and a whole lot of laughter start NOW! Subscribe to the channel and follow along for inspiration, connection, and real-life reinvention: 🔗 Website: www.animperfectlyperfectlife.com 📸 Instagram: @animperfectlyperfectlife 🎙️ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6l3dcs6vtuNBFbKFcub5o7 🎙️ Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/an-imperfectly-perfect-life-life-unscripted/id1719915273

In this episode of An Imperfectly Perfect Life – Life Unscripted, Shari opens up about the untold side of Breast Cancer Awareness Month — why October, with all its pink ribbons and celebrations, can also be one of the most difficult months for many survivors. Through personal reflection, Shari explores what happens after the battle - the quiet fears, the pressure to stay positive, and the complicated emotions that resurface each year when the world turns pink. This isn’t a story about illness - it’s a story about identity, resilience, and the ongoing process of healing. Whether you’re a survivor, supporter, or simply someone who wants to understand the human side of awareness, this episode invites you to listen beyond the slogans and honor the full spectrum of survivorship. 🎥 Want to watch my journey? Subscribe on YouTube at youtube.com/sharileid  💌 And don’t forget to grab my free 52 Weeks of Connection email series—one weekly challenge to help you feel more connected and build real friendships as an adult. It’s free, simple, and you can unsubscribe anytime. Sign up at: https://zc.vg/ZDPo2 And if you’re ready to go even deeper,  learn more about my Flip the Box® LIVE - The Connection Conference and Flip The Box® Women's Retreat  at https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/retreat To purchase my latest book, Table For 51, visit: https://a.co/d/cL7uYIy Let’s dive in—reinvention, real talk, and a whole lot of laughter start NOW! #animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker #relocation #breastcancerawareness #breastcancermonth

What happens after the goodbye party? When the boxes are packed and the house is quiet again? In this episode, Shari reflects on leaving Seattle, the friends who shaped her there, and the brave work of building new belonging in Dallas. A story about goodbyes, new beginnings, and learning to create connection wherever you go. 🎥 Want to watch my journey? Subscribe on YouTube at youtube.com/sharileid  💌 And don’t forget to grab my free 52 Weeks of Connection email series—one weekly challenge to help you feel more connected and build real friendships as an adult. It’s free, simple, and you can unsubscribe anytime. Sign up at: https://zc.vg/ZDPo2 And if you’re ready to go even deeper,  learn more about my Flip the Box® LIVE - The Connection Conference and Flip The Box® Women's Retreat  at https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/retreat To purchase my latest book, Table For 51, visit: https://a.co/d/cL7uYIy #animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker #relocation

I thought I had dating all figured out—or at least I had my “approach.” Then I interviewed one of America's top mid-life dating coaches, Jonathon Aslay, who coaches midlife women on love and relationships, sat across from me and completely flipped the script. In this episode, you’ll actually hear him coaching me in real time. Spoiler: he pointed out a few blindspots (ouch) and gave me a peek into how men are really thinking when we show up the way we do. Let’s just say…it changed the way I look at dating from here on out. If you’ve ever wondered why your dating patterns keep repeating—or if you’re curious about what men see that we often miss—you’ll want to listen in. Jonathan doesn’t hold back, and honestly, I needed to hear it. To connect with Jonathon, visit his website, Understand Men Now at Jonathonaslay.com 🎥 Want to watch my journey? Subscribe on YouTube at youtube.com/sharileid  💌 And don’t forget to grab my free 52 Weeks of Connection email series—one weekly challenge to help you feel more connected and build real friendships as an adult. It’s free, simple, and you can unsubscribe anytime. Sign up at: https://zc.vg/sf/e79I2 If you’re ready to go even deeper,  learn more about my Flip the Box® LIVE - The Connection Conference and Flip The Box® Women's Retreat  at https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/retreat To purchase my latest book, Table For 51, visit: https://a.co/d/cL7uYIy Let’s dive in—reinvention, real talk, and a whole lot of laughter start NOW! #animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker #relocation

Dating after 50? The statistics might surprise you. In this episode of An Imperfectly Perfect Life, I share some eye-opening facts about love, relationships, and midlife dating. And yes… spoiler alert: I just went on my very first Dallas date — and I’ve even given him a nickname. From the numbers to the stories, I’m breaking down what dating in your 50s really looks like — with a little humor along the way. 🎥 Want to watch my journey? Subscribe on YouTube at youtube.com/sharileid  💌 And don’t forget to grab my free 52 Weeks of Connection email series—one weekly challenge to help you feel more connected and build real friendships as an adult. It’s free, simple, and you can unsubscribe anytime. Sign up at: https://zc.vg/ZDPo2 And if you’re ready to go even deeper,  learn more about my Flip the Box® LIVE - The Connection Conference and Flip The Box® Women's Retreat  at https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/retreat To purchase my latest book, Table For 51, visit: https://a.co/d/cL7uYIy Let’s dive in—reinvention, real talk, and a whole lot of laughter start NOW! #animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker #relocation

I honestly thought this was the kind of thing I’d left behind in my 20s. You know—that inappropriate, crossing-the-line moment at work that leaves you caught off guard. But here I am in my 50s, back at work, and it happened again. In this episode, I’m opening up about how I handled it (spoiler: not the way I wanted to at first), what I’ve learned since, and the great advice I got from career coach Tammy Gooler Loeb—so if it ever happens to you, you’ll be prepared in a way I wasn’t. Ready to "flip the box" on your own life? Join me on this journey and discover that what seems like the end might actually be the most exciting beginning. Register for my upcoming women's retreat in Frisco, Texas this March—or follow along as I prepare for my first major conference in 2026. Your second act might just be your greatest yet! 🎥 Want to watch my journey? Subscribe on YouTube at youtube.com/sharileid  💌 And don’t forget to grab my free 52 Weeks of Connection email series—one weekly challenge to help you feel more connected and build real friendships as an adult. It’s free, simple, and you can unsubscribe anytime. Sign up at: https://zc.vg/ZDPo2 And if you’re ready to go even deeper,  learn more about my Flip the Box® LIVE - The Connection Conference and Flip The Box® Women's Retreat  at https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/retreat To purchase my latest book, Table For 51, visit: https://a.co/d/cL7uYIy Let’s dive in—reinvention, real talk, and a whole lot of laughter start NOW! #animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker #relocation

Buying a new home is supposed to feel like pure celebration — but when I signed the closing documents on my Dallas house, I was blindsided by emotions I didn’t expect. For the first time, I truly mourned the life I left behind. In this episode of An Imperfectly Perfect Life – Life Unscripted, I peel back the curtain on the grief, anger, and loss that surfaced during what should have been a happy milestone. As a motivational coach, it’s not always easy to show the hard emotions — but this story is about why honoring them matters. Because sometimes, the only way to step into a new chapter is by fully acknowledging the one you’ve closed. Ready to "flip the box" on your own life? Join me on this journey and discover that what seems like the end might actually be the most exciting beginning. Register for my upcoming women's retreat in Frisco, Texas this March—or follow along as I prepare for my first major conference in 2026. Your second act might just be your greatest yet! 🎥 Want to watch my journey? Subscribe on YouTube at youtube.com/sharileid  💌 And don’t forget to grab my free 52 Weeks of Connection email series—one weekly challenge to help you feel more connected and build real friendships as an adult. It’s free, simple, and you can unsubscribe anytime. Sign up at: https://zc.vg/ZDPo2 And if you’re ready to go even deeper,  learn more about my Flip the Box® LIVE - The Connection Conference and Flip The Box® Women's Retreat  at https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/working-together To purchase my latest book, Table For 51, visit: https://a.co/d/cL7uYIy Let’s dive in—reinvention, real talk, and a whole lot of laughter start NOW! #animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker #relocation #womensretreat

Send us a text Wondering if 50 is too late to start something new? Let me shatter that myth right now. After decades as a stay-at-home mom, I completely reinvented my career at 50—and the results have exceeded my wildest expectations.My journey began with a simple project: sitting down with 50 women before my 50th birthday to share what I'd learned from them. This experience unexpectedly became my first book, "The 50-50 Friendship Flow." One book led to another, then another, and another—each opening doors I never imagined possible. Soon I found myself on the Today Show, featured in People Magazine and appearing across major networks nationwide.What makes this transformation even more remarkable? I once abandoned my law career because debilitating anxiety made it impossible for me to speak in court. My fear was so extreme that even introducing myself at a PTA meeting would trigger shaking and voice cracking. Yet today, professional speaking has become my "bread and butter." The turning point? A champagne-inspired decision to try stand-up comedy that miraculously cured decades of speaking fear.My story illustrates something powerful: sometimes the doors that close in your life are making room for everything you've ever prayed for. Whether you're returning to work after raising children, navigating post-divorce transitions, or simply craving meaningful change—your age isn't a limitation but your greatest advantage. The wisdom, resilience, and self-knowledge you've gained create the perfect foundation for success.Ready to "flip the box" on your own life? Join me on this journey and discover that what seems like the end might actually be the most exciting beginning. Register for my upcoming women's retreat in Frisco, Texas this March—or follow along as I prepare for my first major conference in 2026. Your second act might just be your greatest yet! 🎥 Want to watch my journey? Subscribe on YouTube at youtube.com/sharileid  💌 And don’t forget to grab my free 52 Weeks of Connection email series—one weekly challenge to help you feel more connected and build real friendships as an adult. It’s free, simple, and you can unsubscribe anytime. Sign up at: https://zc.vg/ZDPo2 And if you’re ready to go even deeper,  learn more about my Flip the Box® LIVE - The Connection Conference and Flip The Box® Women's Retreat  at https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/working-together To purchase my latest book, Table For 51, visit: https://a.co/d/cL7uYIy Let’s dive in—reinvention, real talk, and a whole lot of laughter start NOW! #animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker #relocation

Send us a text What happens when you start dating again after 27 years of marriage? Spoiler: it’s awkward, hilarious, a little cringey… and surprisingly fun. In this episode of An Imperfectly Perfect Life with Shari Leid, I pull back the curtain on what it’s really like to date in midlife — from fish photo profiles 🐟 to first-date experiments and everything in between. Along the way, I share pieces of my own dating journey and bring in wisdom (and laughs) from: ✨ Justina Chen – award-winning YA author, who knows all about the messy magic of love. ✨ Connie Curlette – psychotherapist and relationship coach, with real tools for navigating dating in midlife. Whether you’re single, married, divorced, or just here for the laughs, you’ll walk away with stories, strategies, and maybe even a little hope for your own imperfectly perfect adventures. Grab your coffee or your wine 🍷 (no judgment here) and join me — because dating after divorce? It’s not just about finding someone new. It’s about finding yourself again. 🎥 Want to watch my journey? Subscribe on YouTube at youtube.com/sharileid  💌 And don’t forget to grab my free 52 Weeks of Connection email series—one weekly challenge to help you feel more connected and build real friendships as an adult. It’s free, simple, and you can unsubscribe anytime. Sign up at: https://zc.vg/ZDPo2 And if you’re ready to go even deeper,  learn more about my Flip the Box® LIVE - The Connection Conference and Flip The Box® Women's Retreat  at https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/working-together To purchase my latest book, Table For 51, visit: https://a.co/d/cL7uYIy Let’s dive in—reinvention, real talk, and a whole lot of laughter start NOW! #animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker #relocation

Send us a text Returning to the workforce after years as a stay-at-home parent can feel like jumping into the deep end without knowing how to swim. Where do you even begin? How do you translate your life experience into marketable skills? And most importantly, who are you now compared to who you were when you last collected a paycheck?Executive coach Tammy Gooler Loeb joins us with transformative insights that flip the script on career transitions. Rather than seeing yourself as "starting over," Tammy encourages embracing everything you've done—including raising children—as valuable experience that shapes who you are today. The conversation dives deep into understanding your current values, creating a personal mission statement, and developing a three-tiered approach to job seeking that balances dreams with practical realities.We explore the surprisingly fuzzy boundaries of today's workplace, including navigating unexpected social dynamics that can catch midlife job-seekers off guard. Tammy shares wisdom on establishing clear boundaries while remaining authentic, and how to prepare for uncomfortable situations before they arise. The discussion reveals how the integration of work and personal life represents a significant shift from previous generations, offering opportunities for greater fulfillment when your career aligns with your overall life purpose.Perhaps most powerful is Tammy's reminder that the stories we tell ourselves fundamentally change our experiences. If you view yourself as "too old" or "inexperienced," these narratives will limit your opportunities. Instead, recognizing your unique value allows you to approach transitions with confidence in what you genuinely have to offer.Whether you're contemplating a return to work, facing unexpected life changes, or simply seeking greater alignment between your values and career, this conversation offers practical guidance rooted in self-understanding. Listen now to discover how working "from the inside out" creates the foundation for meaningful work at any life stage. To learn more about Tammy, purchase her book, "Work From The Inside Out" or learn about her podcast visit her website at: Tammygoolerloeb.com 🎥 Want to watch my journey? Subscribe on YouTube at youtube.com/sharileid  💌 And don’t forget to grab my free 52 Weeks of Connection email series—one weekly challenge to help you feel more connected and build real friendships as an adult. It’s free, simple, and you can unsubscribe anytime. Sign up at: https://zc.vg/ZDPo2 And if you’re ready to go even deeper,  learn more about my Flip the Box® LIVE - The Connection Conference and Flip The Box® Women's Retreat  at https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/working-together To purchase my latest book, Table For 51, visit: https://a.co/d/cL7uYIy Let’s dive in—reinvention, real talk, and a whole lot of laughter start NOW! #animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker #relocation

Send us a text What truly prepares us for life's biggest transitions? In this deeply personal episode, I'm sharing audio from my YouTube vlog that follows my journey from Seattle to Dallas – but it's about so much more than a change in location.After nearly 30 years of marriage, I find myself building a completely new life: establishing community in a strange city, launching a career, creating a conference from scratch, and rediscovering who I am as a single woman in my 50s. The experience has shown me that our past challenges actually equip us for current ones in unexpected ways.My childhood as an adopted only child taught me to walk into rooms alone. A devastating car accident at 22 revealed humor as my default stress response. My breast cancer journey transformed my perspective on what truly matters. These experiences weren't just random hardships – they were preparation for this season of reinvention.I take you through my practical city selection process (with some brutally honest observations about dating prospects in different locations), the emotional challenge of decluttering decades of possessions, and the inevitable mishaps that come with any major life change. Through it all runs a thread of finding purpose in transition and embracing the "imperfectly perfect" moments.Whether you're facing your own major life transition or simply appreciate honest storytelling about reinvention later in life, this episode offers both practical insights and emotional resonance. Watch the full video version on my YouTube channel at youtube.com/ShariLeid under the "vlogs" playlist, and join me next week when I tackle dating apps after 27 years of marriage! 🎥 Want to watch my journey? Subscribe on YouTube at youtube.com/sharileid  💌 And don’t forget to grab my free 52 Weeks of Connection email series—one weekly challenge to help you feel more connected and build real friendships as an adult. It’s free, simple, and you can unsubscribe anytime. Sign up at: https://zc.vg/ZDPo2 And if you’re ready to go even deeper,  learn more about my Flip the Box® LIVE - The Connection Conference  Learn more about the conference at https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/working-together To purchase my latest book, Table For 51, visit: https://a.co/d/cL7uYIy Let’s dive in—reinvention, real talk, and a whole lot of laughter start NOW! #animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker #relocation

Send us a text Starting over is never easy, but it's often where our most profound growth happens. Welcome to Season 3 of "An Imperfectly Perfect Life," where I'm taking you along on my journey of reinvention after divorce, transitioning from stay-at-home motherhood, and relocating to Dallas—a city where I currently have zero established connections.Feeling overwhelmed by change? You're not alone. My secret weapon against paralysis is asking, "What's the easiest next step?" These small, consistent actions don't just change outcomes—they transform how we see ourselves and our possibilities. From practical moving strategies like dedicated daily time blocks and digital organization tools to psychological techniques like mentally placing myself in Dallas before physically arriving, I'm sharing my real-time process of rebuilding from the ground up.Creating community in a new environment is perhaps the greatest challenge of relocation. As someone who professionally advises others on building meaningful connections, I'm now putting my expertise to the personal test. By proactively researching and contacting organizations aligned with my interests—from professional speaking groups to dance communities—I'm laying groundwork for future relationships before even arriving. This season has already brought unexpected opportunities: an invitation to the prestigious Renaissance Weekend think tank, joining a major speakers bureau, and evolving my small retreat concept into "Flip the Box Live: The Connection Conference" scheduled for 2026. Join our waitlist and access the 52-week friendship challenge through the links in our show notes. What's your easiest next step toward the future you're dreaming of? Share your journey with us! 🎥 Want to watch my journey? Subscribe on YouTube at youtube.com/sharileid  💌 And don’t forget to grab my free 52 Weeks of Connection email series—one weekly challenge to help you feel more connected and build real friendships as an adult. It’s free, simple, and you can unsubscribe anytime. Sign up at: https://zc.vg/ZDPo2 And if you’re ready to go even deeper,  learn more about my Flip the Box® LIVE - The Connection Conference  Learn more about the conference at https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/working-together To purchase my latest book, Table For 51, visit: https://a.co/d/cL7uYIy Let’s dive in—reinvention, real talk, and a whole lot of laughter start NOW! #animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker #relocation #animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker #relocation

Send us a text Michael Neece shares his powerful perspective on kindness as a transformative force in both personal relationships and professional environments. He demonstrates how small acts of kindness create ripples of connection, trust, and opportunity in ways we can't always predict.• Defining kindness versus being a pushover – kindness benefits others while recognizing we're fortunate to have each other• How kindness transforms workplace culture by creating psychological safety for innovation and creativity• Personal story of navigating divorce, family crisis, and loss through a practice of kindness• Leadership requires vulnerability – when leaders admit mistakes, they model kindness that inspires team engagement• The importance of being kind to yourself and embracing your unique "weirdness" (from wyrd meaning fate/destiny)• Finding silver linings and practicing gratitude even during life's most challenging momentsThis week's challenge: Practice three acts of kindness – one for yourself, one for a family member or friend, and one for a stranger. These small gestures can transform your perspective and ripple outward to create meaningful change. To learn more about Michael, visit his website at OurFuture is Kind (www.ourfutureiskind.com) 🎥 Want to watch my journey? Subscribe on YouTube at youtube.com/sharileid  💌 And don’t forget to grab my free 52 Weeks of Connection email series—one weekly challenge to help you feel more connected and build real friendships as an adult. It’s free, simple, and you can unsubscribe anytime. Sign up at: https://zc.vg/ZDPo2 And if you’re ready to go even deeper,  learn more about my Flip the Box® LIVE - The Connection Conference  Learn more about the conference at https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/working-together To purchase my latest book, Table For 51, visit: https://a.co/d/cL7uYIy Let’s dive in—reinvention, real talk, and a whole lot of laughter start NOW! #animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker #relocation

Send us a text Reinvention doesn't come with a roadmap. At 55, I'm uprooting my entire life in Seattle – the only city I've ever truly called home – to start fresh in Dallas. This journey of saying goodbye to familiar streets isn't just about changing ZIP codes; it's about honoring who I was so I can fully become who I'm meant to be.Join me as I revisit the landmarks of my life: my childhood home in what was once America's most diverse ZIP code, where my Japanese-American father bought our house for $18,000 in 1967 despite racial covenants limiting where he could live. The elementary school I attended briefly before mandatory busing changed Seattle's educational landscape. The church where I married, which I hadn't visited since my wedding day. Each place holds pieces of my story – some joyful, some painful, all formative.What struck me most was how unplanned detours led me to places of profound transition rather than just happy memories. Standing in front of my childhood home, dramatically changed from when I lived there, I realized how many of my childhood friends didn't make it out – lost to drugs, incarceration, or worse. Yet these reflections weren't just about nostalgia; they revealed how far I've come and reminded me that confidence isn't avoiding challenges but knowing you can handle whatever life throws your way.Whether you're contemplating your own major life change or simply curious about how we navigate transitions, this episode offers both practical wisdom and emotional resonance. I share tools for your own journey of reinvention and invite you to walk alongside me as we learn from each other. After all, we're better together on this twisting, imperfect, perfectly wonderful journey called life. Ready to embrace new beginnings? Subscribe now and let's build something beautiful out of change. 🎥 Want to watch my journey? Subscribe on YouTube at youtube.com/sharileid  💌 And don’t forget to grab my free 52 Weeks of Connection email series—one weekly challenge to help you feel more connected and build real friendships as an adult. It’s free, simple, and you can unsubscribe anytime. Sign up at: https://zc.vg/ZDPo2 And if you’re ready to go even deeper,  learn more about my Flip the Box® Retreats for women—three unforgettable days designed to bring you home to yourself. While most retreats take you away, these retreats are about helping you reconnect with who you are, what you want, and the life you’re meant to live.  Learn more about the retreats at https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/working-together To purchase my latest book, Table For 51, visit: https://a.co/d/cL7uYIy Let’s dive in—reinvention, real talk, and a whole lot of laughter start NOW! #animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker #relocation #animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker #relocation

Send us a text Ever wondered if you're too giving in relationships? That nagging feeling that you're always putting others first might not just be generosity—it could be codependency.The revelation hit me hard. As someone who prided myself on independence—building businesses, attending law school, traveling solo—how could I possibly be codependent? That was for "weak" people, right? Wrong. In this deeply personal episode, I'm joined by licensed psychotherapist Connie Curlett to unpack what codependency actually means and why successful, capable people often struggle with it most.Connie breaks down how codependency manifests as giving too much while receiving too little, driven by an underlying fear of abandonment. We explore the critical difference between genuine support and codependent behavior (hint: it's all about internal versus external motivation), and why setting healthy boundaries feels so terrifying when you've been conditioned to prioritize others' comfort above your own needs.This conversation offers revelatory insights for anyone questioning their relationship patterns. Whether you're recovering from divorce, rebuilding your identity, or simply wondering why your relationships leave you feeling depleted, Connie provides practical strategies for healing—from increasing self-compassion to recognizing when fear is driving your decisions. She explains why others might resist when you begin setting boundaries and offers guidance on staying the course despite pushback.Ready to become the star of your own life rather than perpetually playing supporting roles in others' stories? This episode provides the roadmap for moving from codependency toward authentic connection—with yourself and others. Your journey to healthier relationships starts here. To reach Connie, visit her website at Conniecurlett.com 🎥 Want to watch my journey? Subscribe on YouTube at youtube.com/sharileid  💌 And don’t forget to grab my free 52 Weeks of Connection email series—one weekly challenge to help you feel more connected and build real friendships as an adult. It’s free, simple, and you can unsubscribe anytime. Sign up at: https://zc.vg/ZDPo2 And if you’re ready to go even deeper,  learn more about my Flip the Box® Retreats for women—three unforgettable days designed to bring you home to yourself. While most retreats take you away, these retreats are about helping you reconnect with who you are, what you want, and the life you’re meant to live.  Learn more about the retreats at https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/working-together To purchase my latest book, Table For 51, visit: https://a.co/d/cL7uYIy Let’s dive in—reinvention, real talk, and a whole lot of laughter start NOW! #animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker #relocation

Send us a text Season 3 kicks off with a bang! I’m answering YOUR burning questions about my midlife plot twist—moving from Seattle to Dallas after my divorce, starting over in a brand‑new city, and launching a YouTube series to show you exactly what reinvention really looks like. From the fears and ridiculous mistakes to the lessons I’ve learned (and the pitfalls you should avoid), this Q&A episode is raw, honest, and just a little bit funny—because if we can’t laugh at the messy parts, we’re doing it wrong. 🎥 Want to watch my journey? Subscribe on YouTube at youtube.com/sharileid  💌 And don’t forget to grab my free 52 Weeks of Connection email series—one weekly challenge to help you feel more connected and build real friendships as an adult. It’s free, simple, and you can unsubscribe anytime. Sign up at: https://zc.vg/ZDPo2 And if you’re ready to go even deeper,  learn more about my Flip the Box® Retreats for women—three unforgettable days designed to bring you home to yourself. While most retreats take you away, these retreats are about helping you reconnect with who you are, what you want, and the life you’re meant to live.  Learn more about the retreats at https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/working-together Let’s dive in—reinvention, real talk, and a whole lot of laughter start NOW! #animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker #relocation

Send us a text Ready for some big news? I've decided to trade in my lifelong home of Seattle for a brand-new chapter in Dallas, Texas! This isn't just a change of address—it's a complete reinvention at age 55.When I ended my 27-year marriage a few years ago, I wasn't sure if I'd even qualify for a mortgage after decades as a stay-at-home mom with no paycheck history. The thought of not having my own home—a place where I could paint my walls without worry—genuinely scared me. But here I am, not only qualifying for that mortgage but building a new life in a community where my two Labradors will have their own neighborhood dog park and I'll create connections with neighbors all starting fresh together.The journey from stay-at-home mom to appearing on the Today Show, writing for major publications, and launching a meaningful career didn't happen magically. It required connection, curiosity, and courage—three elements that have opened unexpected doors at every turn. And now I want to share what I've learned through my "Flip the Box" three-day retreats for women navigating major life transitions. Whether you're experiencing divorce, becoming an empty nester, pivoting careers, or simply feeling that quiet knowing that you're meant for more—this retreat isn't about escaping your life but coming home to it.Not ready for a retreat? I'm also offering 52 weeks of free connection tools—science-backed actions delivered weekly to help deepen your relationships with others and yourself. And this fall, I'll be taking you along virtually as I make my move, documenting the real-time transformation on YouTube and through more podcast episodes. You'll see the fears, struggles, mistakes, and triumphs as they happen. Because if there's one thing I've learned, it's that sometimes doors have to close to make room for answered prayers. Ready to flip the box with me? Check out the links in the show notes to connect! Sign up to receive retreat information: Fill out this quick form Sign up for 52 free connection tools - a challenge and tool delivered to your email box each week! Sign up here Purchase Shari's latest book, "Table For 51" here To learn more visit: www.animperfectlyperfectlife.com For Media and Event Planners - to book Shari - Please contact her publicist Kourtney Jason at [email protected] #animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker #relocation

Send us a text The journey of selling a home isn't always tied to joyful life milestones. For many, it happens during challenging transitions like divorce, health issues, or major life changes. In this enlightening conversation with Jen Cameron, managing partner at The Agency Seattle, we explore the nuanced process of selling homes during difficult times.Jen brings her wealth of experience working with divorcing couples to the table, sharing how a skilled agent creates strategies tailored to complex situations. "Hope is not a strategy," she emphasizes, revealing that 90% of a successful home sale happens before the property ever hits the market. While many sellers focus on commission rates when interviewing agents, Jen suggests asking instead about their specific strategy for your home and what sets them apart from others.For those navigating divorce while selling property, timing doesn't have to align perfectly with legal proceedings. Jen explains how home sale proceeds can go into trust accounts while other aspects finalize, creating flexibility during an already stressful time. She also addresses the importance of proper staging, noting that personal belongings rarely make effective staging elements, no matter how beloved they might be to the seller.What truly distinguishes exceptional agents is their ability to handle special circumstances with sensitivity. Whether accommodating special needs family members, health concerns, or emotional triggers, Jen describes how customized showing protocols can protect sellers while still maximizing property exposure. Her practice of vetting potential buyers before showings ensures only serious, qualified prospects enter your home.The takeaway is clear: knowledge is power in real estate transactions. Consulting with a professional early—sometimes a year before listing—provides invaluable guidance and removes unnecessary stress from the process. By finding an agent who understands your unique situation and creates a strategy before the sign goes in the yard, you transform what could be an overwhelming experience into a manageable one with optimal results. To connect with Jen, please visit his website The Agency Seattle  and/or contact Jen via email at [email protected] To connect with Shari visit www.animperfectlyperfctlife.com For media and speaking inquiries please contact Shari's publicist, Kourtney Jason, at [email protected] To purchase Shari's latest book, Table For 51 - Lessons Learned While Sharing Meals Across America please visit Simon and Schuster for buying options.  To purchase the transformational online course Flip The Box For Yourself click here and enter code for $20 off To watch the video version of this podcast, please visit our channel at Youtube/sharileid #theagency #theagencyseattle #homesale  #animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker #relocation

Send us a text Have you ever questioned whether alcohol enhances your social connections or simply masks discomfort? When Alysse Bryson first went dancing sober, she had a startling realization: "I don't know why I ever thought I was a good dancer!" This moment of clarity exemplifies the journey many face when exploring life without alcohol.In this compelling conversation, Alysse shares insights from her personal recovery journey and her work as founder of The Sober Curator, an online platform offering resources for alcohol-free living. We dive deep into what codependency really means—not weakness or dependency, but "a pattern of self-defeating, learned behaviors that result in a diminished capacity to initiate or participate in loving relationships." This understanding transforms how we view relationship dynamics when addiction is present.The concept of having "no off button" provides a window into the neurological reality of addiction. As Alysse explains, "Once I start consuming, whatever the substance is, I can't stop. I literally can't stop." This isn't about willpower or moral failing; it's a fundamental neurological difference that those without addiction struggle to comprehend. Her analogy of trying to eat just half a Girl Scout cookie helps bridge this understanding gap.Our discussion explores how alcohol impacts authentic connection, from dating to workplace culture. With the non-alcoholic beverage sector exploding and celebrities openly discussing sobriety, societal attitudes are shifting. Alysse boldly predicts that by 2030, alcohol consumption might carry similar social awareness as cigarette smoking does today—not eliminated, but recognized for its health implications.Whether you're sober, sober-curious, or simply interested in understanding addiction's impact on relationships, this episode offers valuable perspective on creating genuine connections in a culture where alcohol often takes center stage. Try going to your next social event without drinking—you might discover, as many do, that authentic connection actually gets easier with practice. To connect with Alysse, please visit his website The Sober Curator and/or Alyssebryson.com To connect with Shari visit www.animperfectlyperfctlife.com For media and speaking inquiries please contact Shari's publicist, Kourtney Jason, at [email protected] To purchase Shari's latest book, Table For 51 - Lessons Learned While Sharing Meals Across America please visit Simon and Schuster for buying options.  To purchase the transformational online course Flip The Box For Yourself click here and enter code for $20 off To watch the video version of this podcast, please visit our channel at Youtube/sharileid #sobercurious #codependency #alcoholaddiction #animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker #relocation

Send us a text Financial protection after divorce isn't just about dividing assets—it's about creating a secure foundation for your future. Randy Carver, certified divorce financial analyst, joins me to share crucial steps that can make all the difference between post-divorce struggle and prosperity.We begin by exploring six essential financial moves everyone should make after finalizing their divorce. Randy explains why understanding your new financial reality requires first determining what you truly need versus what you want. "People sometimes get so caught up in the money they put the cart before the horse," he cautions, recommending a thoughtful approach similar to planning a meaningful trip—you need to know your destination before choosing transportation.The conversation takes a revealing turn when Randy shares alarming stories of people who overlooked critical details with devastating consequences. One woman lost her deceased husband's life insurance proceeds to his ex-wife because beneficiary designations were never updated. Another faced unexpected tax burdens after accepting pre-tax retirement assets while her ex-spouse received already-taxed cash. These cautionary tales highlight why working with specialists like Certified Divorce Financial Analysts can prevent costly oversights.For those contemplating new relationships, Randy offers five protective strategies for entering second marriages. Beyond prenuptial agreements, he shares surprising insights about maintaining separate assets, updating estate plans to protect children from previous marriages, and navigating the complex healthcare implications of remarriage. His matter-of-fact advice—"Sometimes maintaining a legal separation may be more financially prudent than actually getting married"—challenges conventional thinking about relationships later in life.Perhaps most valuable are the unexpected nuggets of wisdom sprinkled throughout our discussion. Did you know unmarried partners need renter's insurance when moving into a partner's home? Or that remarriage after 60 can eliminate eligibility for a deceased spouse's pension or Social Security benefits? Through practical examples and clear explanations, Randy transforms complex financial concepts into actionable strategies anyone can implement.Whether you're newly divorced, considering remarriage, or simply planning ahead, this episode provides the financial knowledge you didn't know you needed. As Randy wisely notes, "It's never the bus you see coming that hits you"—making preparation your most powerful tool for protecting your financial future. To connect with Randy, please visit his website Carver Financial Services To connect with Shari visit www.animperfectlyperfctlife.com For media and speaking inquiries please contact Shari's publicist, Kourtney Jason, at [email protected] To purchase Shari's latest book, Table For 51 - Lessons Learned While Sharing Meals Across America please visit Simon and Schuster for buying options.  To watch the video version of this podcast, please visit our channel at  youtube.com/sharileid #animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker #relocation

Send us a text Ready for a major life change? That moment when you realize the place you've called home your entire life might not be where you're meant to stay forever can be both terrifying and exhilarating. Today, I'm pulling back the curtain on my months-long journey to find a new city to call home.After traveling across the US in 2023, I discovered something surprising – not only could many places feel like home with intentional effort, but the cost of living throughout the country made Seattle's expenses seem astronomical by comparison. This revelation sparked a methodical search process based on specific criteria: a strong professional speaking community, proximity to a major airport, significantly lower cost of living, and yes, even social opportunities for someone in my stage of life looking for meaningful connections.My quest narrowed to four potential cities: Henderson, Scottsdale, Denver, and Dallas. To help announce my final decision, I've invited my real estate agent Janeil McCandless to help me reveal what city emerged as the perfect fit. We discuss that inexplicable feeling when a place "just feels right" – that gift of discernment many women experience when house-hunting. Janelle reveals her process of watching clients' body language and facial expressions to understand their true preferences, sometimes before they can articulate them themselves.We also dive into practical aspects of relocating that often get overlooked: the importance of early mortgage pre-approval, insurance considerations specific to different regions, and the invaluable "white glove" services that can transform the typically stressful moving experience into something manageable. Janelle shares insider tips about everything from timing inspections to checking neighborhood traffic patterns at different hours.https://animperfectlyperfectlife.com/Whether you're contemplating a move yourself or simply curious about what drives major life transitions, this episode offers both emotional insights and practical wisdom for navigating change. Join me as I embark on this exciting new chapter and discover what happens when you follow your intuition to a place that could become home. To connect with Janeil, please visit her on Instagram at:  https://www.instagram.com/janeilmccandless_realtor/ or via Facebook at: https://www.facebook.com/janeilmrealtor/https://www.facebook.com/janeilmrealtor/ To connect with Shari visit www.animperfectlyperfctlife.com For media and speaking inquiries please contact Shari's publicist, Kourtney Jason, at [email protected] To purchase Shari's latest book, Table For 51 - Lessons Learned While Sharing Meals Across America please visit Simon and Schuster for buying options.  To purchase the transformational online course Flip The Box For Yourself click here and enter code for $20 off To watch the video version of this podcast, please visit our channel at  youtube.com/sharileid #dallasrealator #dallasrealestate #animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker #relocation

Send us a text Dive deep into the fascinating world of mature dating and relationships with our special guest Glen Gilbert, host of "The Glen Gilbert Connection" podcast. Glen brings his opinions on modern relationships among seasoned adults to this candid, entertaining conversation that touches on everything from prenuptial agreements to the reasons many men in their 50s and 60s approach remarriage with caution. Whether you're dating after divorce, considering a serious relationship later in life, or simply curious about relationship dynamics beyond the typical dating advice aimed at younger generations, this episode delivers valuable insights with warmth and humor. If you've ever wondered why relationships seem to get more complex—not less—as we age, or if you're curious about the practical considerations that sometimes overshadow romantic ideals in mature relationships, you'll find this conversation enlightening.  Subscribe, share with friends navigating similar life stages, and join us for more unscripted discussions that embrace the perfectly imperfect nature of relationships and life. To listen to Glen's Podcast, The Glen Gilbert Connection, please visit https://1150kknw.com/podcasts/the-glen-gilbert-connection/ To connect with Shari visit www.animperfectlyperfctlife.com For media and speaking inquiries please contact Shari's publicist, Kourtney Jason, at [email protected] To purchase Shari's latest book, Table For 51 - Lessons Learned While Sharing Meals Across America please visit Simon and Schuster for buying options.  To purchase the transformational online course Flip The Box For Yourself click here and enter code for $20 off To watch the video version of this podcast, please visit our channel at  youtube.com/sharileid #animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker #relocation

Send us a text Fear after divorce is not a warning—it's a sign you're stepping into the life you've been praying for. This heartfelt episode explores the challenging yet transformative journey of rebuilding after a long marriage ends.Standing alone for the first time in decades can feel terrifying. When your support systems have changed and you're solely responsible for crafting your future, that fear often masquerades as love, tempting you to cling to what's familiar rather than what's right. But what if we've misunderstood fear completely? What if that uncomfortable feeling isn't a stop sign but a green light indicating you've leveled up?I share a profound personal moment when I discovered my past self had created a roadmap for my current journey without even knowing it. Reading through my own book of quotes, I realized the wisdom I needed most had been within me all along—like a love letter from my former self to the woman I am becoming. This clarity revealed that the miracles I had been praying for weren't distant wishes but present realities I simply needed to recognize.For everyone sitting in that place of uncertainty after marriage, I offer three powerful reflections: Where are you confusing fear with love? How might fear actually be evidence of your expansion? What miracles are already sitting quietly in your life? These questions help transform what feels like breakdown into breakthrough, revealing that you aren't losing your life—you're stepping into your real one.Ready to reframe your fear and discover the freedom that awaits on the other side? Listen now, and remember: you're not breaking down, you're breaking through, and you're more ready than you think. To work with Shari Leid, visit www.animperfectlyperfctlife.com For media and speaking inquiries please contact Shari's publicist, Kourtney Jason, at [email protected] To purchase Shari's latest book, Table For 51 - Lessons Learned While Sharing Meals Across America please visit Simon and Schuster for buying options.  To purchase Shari's Friendship Series book to journal through , Ask Yourself This, - visit Amazon To purchase the transformational online course Flip The Box For Yourself click here and enter code for $100 off #animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker #relocation

Send us a text Stepping away from a decades-long marriage isn't simply ending a relationship—it's reimagining your entire future during what should be your golden years. In this deeply personal and enlightening conversation, family law attorney and former judge Michelle Locke shares her professional and personal insights into the unique challenges of ending long-term marriages.Michelle brings both legal expertise and firsthand experience to the table, having recently navigated her own divorce. She dismantles the often-intimidating landscape of "gray divorce" (her preferred term: "long-term marriage dissolution") with practical wisdom about financial realities, legal considerations, and emotional transitions that differ significantly from divorces earlier in life.Discover why consulting an attorney months before filing could save you thousands, the crucial importance of developing your "Plan B" financial scenario, and how legal approaches vary dramatically between states. Michelle explains how expert guidance helps navigate complex asset division for retirement accounts, businesses, and even digital properties like iTunes libraries worth thousands. She offers candid advice about attorney selection, communication pitfalls during proceedings, and the often-overlooked post-divorce checklist that many discover too late.Beyond the legalities, Michelle shares the profound personal transformation that awaits on the other side of divorce. "Peace is priceless," she explains, describing how many clients find unexpected happiness and authenticity despite having fewer material possessions. Whether you're contemplating divorce, currently navigating proceedings, or rebuilding post-divorce, you'll find valuable strategies and genuine hope in this conversation.Ready to understand what divorce after decades might mean for your future? In the midst of a gray divorce? On the other end - post divorce? Listen now, and discover why knowledge truly is power during this pivotal life transition. For more information about Michelle Locke, please visit her website, https://www.michelelocke.com/ To work with Shari Leid, visit www.animperfectlyperfctlife.com For media and speaking inquiries please contact Shari's publicist, Kourtney Jason, at [email protected] To purchase Shari's latest book, Table For 51 - Lessons Learned While Sharing Meals Across America please visit Simon and Schuster for buying options. To purchase the transformational online course Flip The Box For Yourself click here and enter code for $100 off To watch the video version of this podcast, please visit our channel at  youtube.com/sharileid #animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker #relocation

Send us a text What if the traumas and challenges you've faced aren't just obstacles to overcome, but the source of your greatest leadership strengths? In this transformative conversation, I sit down with Corinne Kavanaugh, an audacious resilience expert who flips conventional wisdom on its head.Corinne shares her powerful journey from a childhood marked by her mother's untreated bipolar disorder to becoming an author, entrepreneur, and Harvard graduate. Rather than hiding her past, she's now helping others recognize how their own difficult experiences have equipped them with exceptional leadership capabilities. The research backs this up – trauma integration creates leaders with heightened empathy and emotional intelligence because they understand pain and struggle firsthand.We explore practical frameworks for "flipping the box" on how we view our challenges. From Cognitive Behavioral Therapy techniques that reframe limiting beliefs to post-traumatic growth questions that accelerate healing, Corinne offers actionable tools that anyone can apply. For business leaders, Corinne provides game-changing perspective on hiring and team building. Rather than viewing candidates with difficult backgrounds as "damaged goods," she explains why these individuals often make exceptional leaders precisely because of their resilience. Their neural pathways for crisis management are well-developed, allowing them to quickly shift from challenge to opportunity.Whether you're navigating personal trauma, leading a team through difficult times, or supporting someone on their healing journey, this episode offers a profound reframing that will transform how you view life's challenges. Tune in to discover how being "audaciously resilient" can become your greatest superpower. More information about Corinne can be found on her website Please follow her on Instagram for her latest updates @corinnecava To work with Shari Leid, visit www.animperfectlyperfctlife.com For media and speaking inquiries please contact Shari's publicist, Kourtney Jason, at [email protected] To purchase Shari's latest book, Table For 51 - Lessons Learned While Sharing Meals Across America visit Amazon or Barnes and Noble To purchase the transformational online course Flip The Box For Yourself click here and enter code for $100 off To watch the video version of this podcast, please visit our channel at  youtube.com/sharileid #animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker #relocation

Send us a text When survival mode ends, real healing begins. After navigating through my divorce after 27 years of marriage, I've discovered that the aftermath—this "pivot year"—is actually more challenging and raw than the divorce process itself. Why? Because during a crisis, we operate on adrenaline and necessity. It's only when the dust settles that we truly feel the weight of our transformation.This episode marks a turning point in my journey as I face the reality of leaving Seattle, the only home I've known, because I'm priced out of the market. With two Labrador dogs and a desire to maintain a landing place for my adult children, I'm narrowing down to just two potential cities where I can build a completely new life. At this crossroads, I'm embracing the terrifying freedom of being able to go anywhere while navigating the responsibility of creating stability entirely on my own—perhaps for the first time since my twenties.Drawing from my personal story of being found as an infant in a cardboard box, I'm expanding my "flipping the box" philosophy beyond sharing meals with strangers to completely reinventing myself, my career, and my approach to community. This isn't just about thinking outside the box—it's about transforming our limitations into tables of opportunity. As I share the unfiltered reality of creating community from scratch and establishing financial independence, I invite you to witness this journey of rediscovery in real-time.I've created a 12-week course called "Flip the Box for Yourself," designed to help you enrich your existing relationships and forge meaningful new connections. Use code "PODCAST" to receive $100 off, and join me for weekly office hours where we can support each other through our parallel journeys. Whether you're weathering your own major life transition or simply seeking more authentic connections, I'd love to have you alongside me as we navigate the perfectly imperfect process of rebuilding. Access the Flip The Box For Yourself 12 Week Course here  URL: https://shari-s-site-0256.thinkific.com/products/courses/FTBSelf To purchase Table For 51 - Lessons Learned While Sharing Meals Across America - Available on Amazon and Barnes & Noble Media and Speaking Inquiries contact publicist: Kourtney Jason at [email protected] For more information visit www.animperfectlyperfectlife.com Join the Flip The Box private Facebook Group To See the Video of this episode visit www.youtube.com/sharileid #animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker #relocation

Send us a text Join us as we discuss:   Who am I outside of work? Our conversation explores this universal struggle to separate personal identity from professional accomplishments. Gentrix candidly shares how she missed countless family milestones while working "weekend overnights" in the relentless grind of media production. The layoff, initially devastating, ultimately offered her the gift of reconsidering priorities that eight years of hustle culture had obscured.Her story resonates with anyone who's experienced career upheaval or questioned their life's direction. Through launching her podcast "Outside of Work," Gentrix begins reclaiming neglected relationships and discovering opportunities beyond her narrow professional focus. "I had blinders on like a racehorse, but now they're off – anything is possible." From starting a notary business to contemplating entrepreneurship in her native Kenya, Gentrick demonstrates how career disruption often reveals possibilities previously invisible to us.Whether you're facing job loss, retirement, empty nesting, or simply questioning your life's trajectory, this episode offers valuable perspective on defining yourself beyond your titles. Join us for this powerful conversation about identity, priorities, and discovering that sometimes, as Shari puts it, "We allow good to stop us from becoming great."Ready to expand your perspective? Subscribe now and share your own journey of self-discovery with us! Gentrix can be contacted at: Outside Of Work on YouTube or via Instagram at Outside Of Work Official and also on Tik Tok at Outside of Work Official Shari can be found at www.animperfectlyperfectlife.com To purchase Shari's new book, Table For 51 - Lessons Learned From Sharing Meals Across America - Please click here Media and Speaking inquiries - please contact Kourtney Jason at [email protected] #animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker #relocation

Send us a text Life’s transitions can be tough, especially when faced with heartbreak or significant changes. In this episode, we uncover the profound impact that friendships have on our emotional wellbeing. Join us as we explore the concept of "picket fence friends" and how leaning on our social circles can help us heal during challenging times. We discuss the science behind the "tend and befriend" response, showcasing how our bodies are biologically wired to seek connection in moments of stress.This episode is packed with practical advice for building a robust support system. We highlight the importance of choosing the right friends, setting open communication, and allowing yourself to be supported. You’ll learn actionable steps to forge those meaningful connections and how they can turn heartbreak into healing. By the end of our conversation, you’ll have the tools to establish your metaphorical picket fence, ensuring you never face life’s challenges alone. Remember, healing is a community effort; don’t miss the chance to reach out to your friends. Join us for an uplifting discussion that reminds us of the power of connection and community in overcoming adversity. Subscribe to stay updated on future episodes, and don’t hesitate to share this with someone who might need their own picket fence right now! Build Your Own Picket Fence Step 1: Choose your fence posts wisely.These should be the people who:✅ Love you unconditionally, but will call you out when needed.✅ Don’t let you wallow, but also don’t force you to “move on” too fast.✅ Know how to send the perfect meme at the perfect time. Step 2: Make the official call.Send the group text. Be honest. It might feel awkward, but I promise, your real friends want to be there for you. Step 3: Commit to the process.This isn’t just about texting them when you feel sad. Let them check in. Let them show up. Let yourself be supported. Step 4: When you’re ready, become someone else’s fence post.Because the best part? Once you’ve built your fence, you realize just how powerful it is—and suddenly, you become part of someone else’s. Shari's new book Table For 51 can be purchased now on Amazon - Purchases here and read about her travels through the US, her tough decision to divorce and her story of unexpectedly falling in love with a man who made her feel what home felt like.  To book Shari to speak at your event or for media inquiries - please [email protected] or Shari's Publicist Kourtney Jason at [email protected] Please visit An Imperfectly Perfect Life®, LLC to learn more about working with Shari.  #animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker #relocation

Send us a text Reinvention is a messy, beautiful journey that requires people to create instead of waiting for change. Throughout the episode, we explore the importance of community, taking the first step towards change, and recognizing that everyone holds power within themselves to reinvent.• Explores the host's personal journey of constant reinvention • Highlights the significance of creating community over waiting for it • Encourages listeners to stop waiting for permission to change • Discusses the vital role of embracing imperfection in change • Emphasizes that the journey of reinvention is ongoing and necessary • Invitation to take the first step towards personal growth If this episode spoke to you, share it with someone who needs to hear it. If you're ready to take that next step towards reinvention, let's get in touch. For information about Shari Leid, please visit her  website, An Imperfectly Perfect Life, LLC For media inquiries, contact Shari's publicist Kourtney Jason [email protected] For speaking engagement bookings, contact Shari's Director of Development Nat Measley  [email protected] For coaching with Shari, please book a free discovery call Table For 51, Shari's newest book is now available! Order your copy today - and don't forget to drop her a review!   Join the movement!  Join the private Facebook Page -- and grab a seat at Shari's table!    ##animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #reinventioncoach #animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker #relocation

Send us a text This week, we delve into the importance of intentional living through daily reflection and connection. Shari shares personal strategies for meaningful beginnings and ends to each day, encouraging mindfulness and personal growth. • Starting the day with a purposeful question • Significance of gratitude in daily life • Ending the day with a self-reflective inquiry • Connection through shared meals and community • Introducing the book *Table for 51* • Encouraging listeners to share personal reflection questions For information about Shari Leid, please visit her website, An Imperfectly Perfect Life, LLC For media inquiries, contact Shari's publicist Kourtney Jason [email protected] For speaking engagement bookings, contact Shari's Director of Development Nat Measley  [email protected] For coaching with Shari, please book a free Discovery Call  Table For 51, Shari's newest book is now available for pre-sale!  Order here #animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker #relocation

Send us a text Blended family life can present unexpected challenges, requiring compassion and communication. Through personal stories and expert insights, we explore the realities of stepfamily dynamics, emphasizing the importance of setting expectations and boundaries for a harmonious family life.• Common challenges faced by stepparents • Importance of realistic expectations in blended families • Navigating high-conflict relationships with ex-partners • Discussing finances and gift-giving in stepfamilies • Role of communication in fostering understanding • Strategies for managing relationships with adult children • Value of pre-marital stepfamily coaching • Resources available for stepfamilies • Conclusion on the journey of blended family life and its rewards Cameron Normand, JD is CEO of Stepfamily Solutions and host of The Stepmom Diaries podcast. Through her coaching, courses, magazine and events, she has helped thousands of stepmoms and stepfamilies navigate their blended family lives. She also runs the premier Stepfamily Coach Academy, which certifies stepfamily coaches through a research and expert-backed curriculum. Cameron is a Certified Stepparent Coach and has been featured on CBS Los Angeles, the CW Austin and in The Cut, Business Insider, CNET, Kiplinger, ScaryMommy, and the Today Parenting Team, among others.  Previously, Cameron spent 23 years working in politics first as a young lawyer on Capitol Hill, then leading policy strategy in various leadership roles at two of the world’s top movie studios. After becoming a stepmom of four, she realized that the tools to help blended families were few and far between. So at at the peak of her career, she walked away from politics to start a company that would fill the void. Cameron serves on several non-profit boards and was named one of the Washington Business Journal’s “Women Who Mean Business.” Cameron received her BA from the University of South Carolina and her JD from Emory University School of Law, and is currently pursuing a Masters in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from the College of William & Mary. She is a stepmom of four and is married to a retired Army veteran. In her spare time, Cameron lives for pop culture, travel, and working to train her stubborn puppy, Ernest Hemingwoof. --- For information about Shari Leid, please visit her website , An Imperfectly Perfect Life, LLC For media inquiries, contact Shari's publicist Kourtney Jason [email protected] For speaking engagement bookings, contact Shari's Director of Development Nat Measley  [email protected] For coaching with Shari, please book a free Discovery Call here  Table For 51, Shari's newest book is now available for pre-sale!  Order here! #animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker #relocation

Send us a text What if -- I told you that there is no such thing as a wrong turn?For media inquiries for Shari Leid contact Kourtney Jason, Publicist at [email protected] speaking engagements contact Shari's Director of Development Nat Measley at [email protected] book a free discover call with Shari - please visit the link in bio or Shari's website  #animperfectlyperfectlife #sharileid #newbeginnings #theartofreinvention #lilfecoach #midlifecoach #selfhelp #livewithpurpose #divorce #tablefor51 #50statesproject #flipthebox #keynotespeaker #connectioncoach #belonging #creatingbelonging #keynotespeaker #relocation