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And The Two Shall Be One
by Jaqui Dolly
Ever wondered what is the real purpose of marriage? Why is there strife in most marriages? Can this be fixed so that we get our, “...and they lived happily ever after?” Come with me and let’s explore this together.
Episodes
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USE NO HURTFUL WORDS, PART V
The preservation of self causes us to blame our spouses, when there is no need to do so. But the blame game does not strengthen any marriage, and it never will. None of us is perfect, so there is no need to cast blame on your spouse so as to appear like the perfect one in your union. Take it…
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USE NO HURTFUL WORDS, PART IV
“A word filly spoken is like apples of gold in pictures of silver” (Proverbs 25:11). Learn the art of courteous verbal communication that will encourage good conversations in marriages. Be patient with each other, forebear to point out small errors, and avoid recriminations.
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USE NO HURTFUL WORDS, PART III
A house divided against itself cannot stand. Choose your words wisely. Speak words to edify and encourage each other, so that you will bind the heart of your spouse to your heart. Ill-spoken words wound, and they are not easily forgotten. Avoid the pitfall of having to wade your way through bad...
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USE NO HURTFUL WORDS, PART II
Words hurt and so does the manner in which those words are delivered. Never, never should we denounce our spouses, for they will not soon forget the time and place, nor the words spoken that embarrassed them so. Let us be slow to speak negatively to our spouse, especially in public and in a loud...
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USE NO HURTFUL WORDS, PART I
Protect your marriage by speaking wisely. Do not be driven by your anger or your hurt to speak words that wound. Speak fit words that will build up and enhance your marriage.
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NO COMFORT IN YESTERDAY’S BLESSINGS
Simply put, do new things together. Because love is something that you do, husbands and wives must be intentional about doing things together that will make precious memories and strengthen their love.
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LOVE BEGETS LOVE
We all have choices that we make every day. One of those choices that will radically affect your marriage is the choice to love at all times. Love is not something you say, nor is it something you feel. Love is something you do. Do the things that will promote love and happiness within your...
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V. CONTROL OR BE CONTROLLED
We can all have a really great married life if we want to. All we have to do is decide. The key word is, DECIDE. Once we’ve decided, then we must do those things that promote harmony and happiness. Recognize you self-worth; accept your differences; stop being controlling; work toward peace and...
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IV. CONTROL OR BE CONTROLLED
Who is really in control? Behind the scenes there stands one unseen, who is prompting you to desire full control within your marriage. Do not be fooled. Every time you demand and compel your spouse to do as you say, to act as you want them to act, and to think your thoughts, you are doing the...
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III. CONTROL OR BE CONTROLLED
Does being married means that you stop being free? I posit to you that the converse is true. Whether married or single we all like freedom. Yet, being free entails rules. Absent rules, all will be chaotic. Likewise, within marriages rules apply. However, these rules should not prevent you from...
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II. CONTROL OR BE CONTROLLED
This episode briefly looks at the fallacy of the desire to control another and the result of allowing oneself to be controlled by another. We are free moral agents that have been blessed with the awesome gift of free will—the ability to choose for oneself. Let there be no force within your…
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I. CONTROL OR BE CONTROLLED
Should I allow myself to be controlled by my spouse? If not, how then shall we be one?
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INTRODUCTION
“Happy marriage, happy life!” Make the right choices and watch as your marriage blooms. Or, choose to do wrong and watch as it crumbles before your eyes. The choice is your. You decide.
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EMBRACE YOUR DIFFERENCES
Our challenge is to love our spouses unconditionally. Are we being asked to do something that is impossible? No! Learning to embrace our differences—yours and your spouse’s—will go a long way in making this possible. Enjoy your spouse. Enjoy your marriage. GOD bless your marriage.
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IV. WHAT DOES LOVE LOOK LIKE?
We can accomplish nothing without first coming to a firm decision to do it. That’s how it is with loving your spouse. Decide to love and see how your love can transform an ornery spouse.
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III. WHAT DOES LOVE LOOK LIKE?
Do you have the power? What power are you taking into your marriage? The details of the podcast is an eye opener and should cause some serious self-examination. Then plug into the right kind of power that will energize your marriage.
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II. WHAT DOES LOVE LOOK LIKE?
Love, like character, is best seen in the midst of adversity. This principle is steadfast and unwavering and no amount of disrespect, perceived or real, will change its components. When properly exercised love changes its recipient.
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I. WHAT DOES LOVE LOOK LIKE?
“Love is not something that you say, it’s something that you do.” — Clint Black. Let’s make love with kind acts and words.
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NO GALL OF BITTERNESS
It is said that “Teeth and tongue must meet,” but you don’t have to be nasty about it. Even when disagreements arise in marriages you can choose appropriate words and behaviors.
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LET LOVE LASTS LONG
Should there be boundaries in marriage? If so, how can the husband and wife become close and be one? This podcast is to explain just what are the purposes of boundaries within the context of marriage and how they improve your marriage instead of building up barriers.
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BE SELFLESS, INTENTIONALLY
Disagreements could be over within five minutes if spouses choose to be unselfish in marriage. Why not be intentional to do all that will make your marriage a happy, loving and lovable union? Let us strive to create within our marriages an atmosphere that fosters affection and binds hearts and...
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CULTIVATE LOVE
It has been said, “Money does not grow on trees.” I posit to you neither does love, but although love does not grow on trees it needs to be cultivated. That means we have got to work at it because “love is not something that we say, it’s something that we do.”
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CHERISH YOUR SPOUSE
Nothing binds hearts and mind together like tender love expressed in sentimental and amorous gestures. Be intentional about showing your affections to your spouse.
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SPOUSES MUST TALK
Relationships are built on conversations. That’s how we get to know each other. So be careful how you use what you have learned if you want your marriage to bloom and thrive.
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LEAVE AND CLEAVE
A part of cleaving to your spouse is to a be trusted confidant. Be prudent with the information your spouse has shared with you.
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BE EMOTIONALLY HEALTHY, PART 2
We continue our look on emotional health and how manage our moods so that our relationships will be better. Let’s look at the components of EQ and the steps to take to maintain a high emotional quotient.
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BE EMOTIONALLY HEALTHY, PART 1
This episode discuss the aspects of an emotionally healthy individual. As you listen make a fair assessment of how you view things and the impact your views have on your emotions. If there is need for change, be intentional about making the change.
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WHAT’S EQ GOT TO DO WITH IT?
Managing our emotions well can make a huge difference in the way we deal with marital disagreements. Controlling our emotions and acting solely from the principle of obtaining a correct understanding why we are disagreeing will put thing in a correct perspective.
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ACCEPT ME
Shirley Bassey sang, “Don’t make me over, now that I cannot make it without you.” Are you busy trying to change your spouse into your ideal person? How is that working out for you? Consider seriously another approach. Stop trying to raise your spouse and enjoy him or her instead.
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PURPOSE OF MARRIAGE
“The greatest gift that you can give to others is the gift of unconditional love and acceptance”—Brian Tracy. Marriage is the school of life where we truly learn to love unconditionally.
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Introduction
This is an introduction to the podcast, And the Two Shall Be One. This podcast is intended to provoke introspection into the attitudes we take into our marriages and to work on making our marriages better.
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