Ava Devines Bad Advice

Send us Fan MailToday, I sit down with Keita Kieta, former 90s supermodel and actress, for a raw conversation about the hidden loneliness behind beauty, fame, addiction, and validation. From modeling for Elite and appearing in magazines like *Vanity Fair* and *Seventeen*, to partying in Hollywood, navigating toxic industry culture, and eventually spiraling into addiction and sex work, Keita opens up about the emotional emptiness that success could never fill.Keita reflects on growing up in an industry where drugs, alcohol, perfectionism, and exploitation were normalized, and how chasing external validation slowly disconnected her from herself. What looked glamorous from the outside often felt isolating internally. Keita details the emotional cost of constantly performing an image, the pressure women face to stay desirable, and how loneliness can exist even in rooms full of celebrities, wealth, and attention.As the conversation unfolds, Keita shares how sobriety, yoga, spirituality, and authentic connection helped rebuild her life from the inside out. Together, we speak candidly about aging, identity, depression, self-worth, body image, the reality of healing, and learning to let go of the belief that money, beauty, or fame can save us. What emerges is a conversation not just about addiction and recovery, but about learning how to come home to yourself.In this episode, you’ll learn:How Fame and Beauty Can Intensify LonelinessHow Addiction Becomes a Way to Escape Emotional PainHow External Validation Disconnects Us From OurselvesHow the Modeling and Entertainment Industries Normalize Self-DestructionHow Sobriety Changes Your Identity and RelationshipsHow Spirituality and Yoga Help Rebuild Self-WorthHow to Stop Chasing Perfection and Practice Self-AcceptanceHow Real Healing Begins Through Honesty, Support, and ConnectionIf there’s one thing to take away from this episode, it’s this: no matter how far you think you’ve fallen, there is always a way back. Healing doesn’t come from becoming more beautiful, successful, or desired; it comes from reconnecting with yourself, finding support, and learning that your worth was never dependent on the image you were trying to maintain.Sending you all so much love,Ava DevineWhat We Discuss:00:00 Intro00:48 Will Money, Beauty, and Attention Make You Happy?03:21 Chasing Success While Losing Yourself05:45 The Loneliness Behind Fame and Beauty08:09 Addiction, Hollywood, and Party Culture11:55 When Validation Stops Feeling Fulfilling12:45 Eating Disorders and Toxic Beauty Standards15:04 Playboy, Modeling, and Industry Pressure18:52 How Addiction Slowly Took Over20:12 Escaping Pain Through Drugs and Alcohol23:14 Why Real Human Connection Matters24:04 Feeling Lonely in Rooms Full of People25:51 Searching for Spirituality and Meaning28:56 Finding Yoga and Beginning Recovery31:22 Sex Work, Survival, and Reinvention34:11 Hitting Rock Bottom in Las Vegas37:07 Early Sobriety and Learning to Live Again40:49 Aging, Self-Acceptance, and Identity43:50 Why Competition Keeps Us Empty44:39 Learning to Forgive Yourself46:58 Addiction and the Modeling Industry48:36 What Spirituality Means Today52:03 Becoming the Person You Never Thought You Could Be53:36 How to Sit With Yourself Without Escaping54:19 What Healing Actually Requires55:06 “I Know the Way Home.”55:53 My Final Takeaway🎬 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for real stories and more candid conversations with adult entertainment stars, experts in psychology, sexology, recovery, and wellness.Follow Ava DevineInstagram: @theoneandonlyavadevineTikTok: @1avadevineFollow Kieta KietaIns

Send us Fan MailToday on Ava Devine's Bad Advice, I sit down with Joseph Martinez to explore a powerful truth: you are not destined to become the environment you were raised in.In our conversation, Joseph opens up about growing up surrounded by gangs, violence, and survival-driven thinking, and how that world quietly shaped his identity before he realized it. From having a father serving a life sentence to inheriting “street beef” instead of opportunity, his story reveals what it really means to be raised in a system where certain paths feel inevitable.But this episode isn’t just about where he came from; it’s about what it takes to break away. Joseph shares the internal conflict of wanting that lifestyle, the influence of the people he looked up to, and the moments that slowly planted a different vision for his life. From a cousin who challenged his mindset, to becoming a young father, to confronting his own behaviors later in life, this conversation unpacks how change actually happens. Not overnight. Not perfectly. But through awareness, willingness, and the decision to want something more.In this episode, you'll learn:How Your Environment Shapes You And How to Break Free From ItWhy Leaving a Negative Lifestyle Is Harder Than It LooksHow Small Moments Can Change the Direction of Your LifeHow to Turn Survival Instincts Into Strength in the Real WorldHow to Control Your Emotions Instead of Letting Them Control YouHow to Redefine Masculinity in a Healthy WayHow to Build a New Identity Without Losing YourselfHow to Let Go of the Need for Approval From the Wrong PeopleHow to Channel “Hustle Mentality” Into Something PositiveHow to Move From Just Surviving to Actually ThrivingIf there’s one thing I want you to hold onto, it’s this: where you start does not have to be where you stay. Change doesn’t come from pretending your past didn’t happen, it comes from learning how to use it differently. I hope you love watching this episode as much as I did filming it.Ava DevineWhat We Discuss:00:00 Intro00:48 Growing Up in a Gang Environment02:23 How Environment Shapes Identity04:54 Life With a Father in Prison07:28 Shame, Identity, and Childhood Experiences10:02 Faith, God, and Finding Meaning12:13 Wanting the Lifestyle vs Questioning It14:01 The Moment That Changed Everything17:47 Why It’s So Hard to Leave That Life22:06 The Reality of Gang Culture and Family Ties25:04 Feeling Trapped and Fear of Judgment28:04 The Turning Point: Wanting Something More31:52 Redefining Masculinity34:31 Learning to Trust and Communicate36:17 Unlearning Old Behaviors40:05 Letting Go of “Tough Guy” Mentality41:32 From Hustling to Honest Living45:42 What Reinvention Really Looks Like48:31 Fatherhood, Pain, and Growth53:25 Breaking Generational Patterns54:25 How to Rebuild Your Identity56:47 Advice for Anyone Feeling Stuck58:21 Letting Go of Limiting Beliefs01:01:43 The Truth About That Lifestyle01:04:51 Feeling Like It’s Too Late to Change01:06:40 The Dark Side of the “Glamour.”01:07:27 Can Anyone Truly Change?🎬 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for real stories and more candid conversations with adult entertainment stars, experts in psychology, sexology, recovery, and wellness.Follow Ava DevineInstagram: @theoneandonlyavadevineTikTok: @1avadevineFollow Joseph MartinezInstagram: @mr.send.da.wireSubmit your questions for the [email protected]

Send us Fan MailOn this special solo episode of Ava Devine’s Bad Advice, Ava sits down on her own to answer her fans’ wildest, most unapologetic questions. No filter, no guest—just Ava being brutally honest.Ava answers her fans’ wildest questions, spills adult-industry secrets you’ll never see on camera, and breaks down what really happens behind the fantasy. Ava gets raw about her personal life, the taboos she’s lived, and why she started this podcast in the first place. Pure, unfiltered Devine chaos and damn bad advice!Follow us on Social Media: IG: @avadevinesbadadvice TikTok: @avadevinesbadadvice  Follow Ava: IG: @theoneandonlyavadevine TikTok: @1avadevine💌 Submit questions: [email protected] Us: https://linktr.ee/avadevinesbadadvice🎧 Listen on YouTube, Apple, and Spotify

Send us Fan MailAva Devine sits down with adult film actress Lia Lovely for an unfiltered, laugh-out-loud conversation about oversized breast implants, embracing the bimbo lifestyle, and the power of building your own platform outside traditional studios. Lia opens up about her life before the industry, the journey that shaped her path, and how plastic surgery became part of her self-expression rather than something to hide. The two also dive into past collaborations, independence in adult entertainment, and what it really means to own your brand. Honest, chaotic, and unapologetically fun—this episode delivers real talk, bad advice, and even a surprise kiss along the way.Follow us on Social Media:IG: @avadevinesbadadviceTikTok: @avadevinesbadadviceFollow Ava:IG: @theoneandonlyavadevineTikTok: @1avadevineFind Lia Lovely @aiamlialovely💌 Submit questions: [email protected] Us: https://linktr.ee/avadevinesbadadvice🎧 Listen on YouTube, Apple, and Spotify

Send us Fan MailAva Devine welcomes adult film star and podcast host Amanda Thickk, a vocal champion for BBW representation and body positivity in the industry. From navigating expectations to owning her curves on and off camera, Amanda breaks down the realities of being a bigger woman in adult entertainment. With Ava’s unfiltered curiosity and Amanda’s honest, empowered voice, this conversation dives into confidence, career challenges, and reshaping beauty standards—one real talk moment at a time with plenty of bad advice.Follow us on Social Media:IG: @avadevinesbadadviceTikTok: @avadevinesbadadviceFollow Ava:IG: @theoneandonlyavadevineTikTok: @1avadevineFind Amanda Thickk @amanda_thickk💌 Submit questions: [email protected] Us: https://linktr.ee/avadevinesbadadvice🎧 Listen on YouTube, Apple, and Spotify

Send us Fan MailAva Devine and guest host Kyle Ward sit down with Dr. Phillip Dimotsantos of Steadfast Performance Therapy for a fast, funny breakdown of how the body really works. Ava’s fans sent in some truly wild questions—yes, including self-suckers—and Dr. D explains how certain masturbation habits can create real tension and limit mobility.It’s hilarious and unexpectedly informative, with Ava’s unfiltered curiosity driving every moment. A must-listen for anyone who wants answers, laughs, and straight talk about the body.Follow us on Social Media:IG: @avadevinesbadadviceTikTok: @avadevinesbadadviceFollow Ava:IG: @theoneandonlyavadevineTikTok: @1avadevineFollow Kyle:IG: @kflexfitnessTikTok: @kflexfitnessFind Phillip Dimotsantos: @steadfastpt (Steadfast Performance Therapy)💌 Submit questions: [email protected] Us: https://linktr.ee/avadevinesbadadvice🎧 Listen on YouTube, Apple, and Spotify

Send us Fan MailAva Devine and guest host Kyle Ward sit down with Las Vegas urologist Dr. Michael Kaplan, the HarderNaturally.com expert known for tackling erectile dysfunction with clarity and honesty. Ava’s fans bring the questions, and Dr. Kaplan brings the answers—breaking down causes, treatments, and real solutions for men looking to regain confidence in the bedroom. With Ava’s unfiltered curiosity and Kyle’s thoughtful insights, this episode is informative, approachable, and surprisingly fun.Follow us on Social Media:IG: @avadevinesbadadviceTikTok: @avadevinesbadadviceFollow Ava:IG: @theoneandonlyavadevineTikTok: @1avadevineFollow Kyle:IG: @kflexfitnessTikTok: @kflexfitnessFind Dr.Kaplan HarderNaturally.com💌 Submit questions: [email protected] Us: https://linktr.ee/avadevinesbadadvice🎧 Listen on YouTube, Apple, and Spotify

Send us Fan MailAva Devine sits down with the owner of Mean Bitches Productions to gain clarity on the fem dom lifestyle and what it takes to be part of his directed scenes. With a strong emphasis on allowing Women to take control and dominate willing Men. Film Director Glenn King expressed some men's desire to be smothered and covered in a woman's back door pheromones. This is a phenomenon that few understand better than this Evil Angel and AVN director. Ava and Glenn go way back, almost 2 decades ago, and they don't skip a beat. With Kyle's inquisitive nature and Ava's shock value personality... This episode is a must-see!Follow us on Social Media:IG: @avadevinebadadviceTikTok: @avadevinesbadadviceFollow Ava:IG: @theoneandonlyavadevineTikTok: @1avadevineFollow Kyle:IG: @kflexfitnessTikTok: @kflexfitnessFollow Glenn King: IG: @glennking_xx💌 Submit questions: [email protected] Us: https://linktr.ee/avadevinesbadadvice🎧 Listen on YouTube, Apple, and Spotify

Send us Fan MailAva Devine sits down with Brandi Mae for a candid, fast-paced conversation about dating in the adult film industry and navigating attention as a muscular woman. They break down the new Booty Slap Entertainment competition—a cheeky twist on slap sports—and bring in trainer Kyle Ward to compare experiences, pressure, and body-driven expectations. The trio keeps it unfiltered and funny, flexing pecs, trading stories, and laughing through an unexpected mix of muscles, media, and mayhem.Follow us on Social Media:IG: @avadevinebadadviceTikTok: @avadevinesbadadviceFollow Ava:IG: @theoneandonlyavadevineTikTok: @1avadevineFollow Kyle:IG: @kflexfitnessTikTok: @kflexfitnessFollow Brandi Mae: IG: @sexybuffbabe💌 Submit questions: [email protected] Us: https://linktr.ee/avadevinesbadadvice🎧 Listen on YouTube, Apple, and Spotify

Send us Fan MailFollow us on Social Media:IG: @avadevinebadadviceTikTok: @avadevinesbadadviceFollow Ava:IG: @theoneandonlyavadevineTikTok: @1avadevineFollow Kyle:IG: @kflexfitnessTikTok: @kflexfitness💌 Submit questions: [email protected] Us: https://linktr.ee/avadevinesbadadvice🎧 Listen on YouTube, Apple, and Spotify