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Bayis Pnimi [men]

by Mayer Kiss

In addition to the many public shiurim on Sholom bayis & life topics (https://shalom-bayit.castos.com), we are presenting here more personalized shiurim on intimacy & marriage topics with practical exercises for men & women separately.Ideally, husbands should join men's forum, and the wives the women's forum, but there are also countless benefits if only one joins.Email for questions and feedback is [email protected], or to reach out via whatsapp at 1 347 578 0669

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  1. Ep. 384 - (BPM #157) The Win-Win Marriage by R. Yechezkel Stelzer. #14

    (BPM #157). The Win-Win Marriage by R. Yechezkel Stelzer. #14 daily building tool #3; becoming a mashpia, a giver; all 5 love languages are forms of healthy giving; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

  2. Ep. 383 - (BPJ #159) 13 Things Mentally Strong Couples Don't Do (by Amy Morin) - #15.

    (BPJ #159). 13 Things Mentally Strong Couples Don't Do (by Amy Morin) - #15. Strength #11. they don't neglect their marriage relationship; renewing your commitment to your marriage with positivity, hope and hischadshus! Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is...

  3. Ep. 382 - (BPM #156) The Win-Win Marriage by R. Yechezkel Stelzer. #13

    (BPM #156). The Win-Win Marriage by R. Yechezkel Stelzer. #13 daily building tool #2. (Part 2.); judge your wife favorably, as a whole person; background factors and how every weakness has its corresponding strength; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected],...

  4. Ep. 381 - (BPJ #158) 13 Things Mentally Strong Couples Don't Do (by Amy Morin) - #14.

    (BPJ #158). 13 Things Mentally Strong Couples Don't Do (by Amy Morin) - #14. Strength #10. (Part 2); they don't expect the marriage relationship to meet all their needs; listing 10 Basic Needs to provide one another; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected],...

  5. Ep. 380 - (BPM #155) The Win-Win Marriage by R. Yechezkel Stelzer. #12

    (BPM #155). The Win-Win Marriage by R. Yechezkel Stelzer. #12 daily building tool #2. (Part 1.); judge your wife favorably; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

  6. Ep. 379 - (BPJ #157) 13 Things Mentally Strong Couples Don't Do (by Amy Morin) - #13.

    (BPJ #157). 13 Things Mentally Strong Couples Don't Do (by Amy Morin) - #13. Strength #10. (Part 1); they don't expect the marriage relationship to meet all their needs; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

  7. Ep. 378 - (BPM #154) The Win-Win Marriage by R. Yechezkel Stelzer. #11

    (BPM #154). The Win-Win Marriage by R. Yechezkel Stelzer. #11 daily building tool #1. (Part 2.); practice gratitude; not taking your wife for granted; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

  8. Ep. 377 - (BPJ #156) 13 Things Mentally Strong Couples Don't Do (by Amy Morin) - #12.

    (BPJ #156). 13 Things Mentally Strong Couples Don't Do (by Amy Morin) - #12. Strength #9. (Part 2); they don't forget the beautiful qualities that drew them to each other; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578...

  9. Ep. 376 - (BPM #153) The Win-Win Marriage by R. Yechezkel Stelzer. #10

    (BPM #153). The Win-Win Marriage by R. Yechezkel Stelzer. #10 daily building tool #1. (Part 1.); practice gratitude; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

  10. Ep. 375 - (BPJ #155) 13 Things Mentally Strong Couples Don't Do (by Amy Morin) - #11.

    (BPJ #155). 13 Things Mentally Strong Couples Don't Do (by Amy Morin) - #11. Strength #9. (Part 1); they don't forget the beautiful qualities that drew them to each other; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578...

  11. Ep. 374 - (BPM #152) The Win-Win Marriage by R. Yechezkel Stelzer. #9

    (BPM #152). The Win-Win Marriage by R. Yechezkel Stelzer. #9 avoiding complaining and blaming; being happy with your lot in life and with your wife; gratitude; the healthy approach to shame; to turn to Hashem (and your wife) and not away; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is...

  12. Ep. 373 - (BPJ #154) 13 Things Mentally Strong Couples Don't Do (by Amy Morin) - #10.

    (BPJ #154). 13 Things Mentally Strong Couples Don't Do (by Amy Morin) - #10. Strength #8. (Part 2); they don't blame each other for their problems; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

  13. Ep. 372 - (BPM #151) The Win-Win Marriage by R. Yechezkel Stelzer. #8

    (BPM #151). The Win-Win Marriage by R. Yechezkel Stelzer. #8 daily interactions with your wife; avoid criticizing which hurts your marriage; exercises on how to stop criticizing; the only person you can change is yourself; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is...

  14. Ep. 371 - (BPJ #153) 13 Things Mentally Strong Couples Don't Do (by Amy Morin) - #9.

    (BPJ #153). 13 Things Mentally Strong Couples Don't Do (by Amy Morin) - #9. Strength #8. (Part 1); they don't blame each other for their problems; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

  15. Ep. 370 - (BPM #150) The Win-Win Marriage by R. Yechezkel Stelzer. #7

    (BPM #150). The Win-Win Marriage by R. Yechezkel Stelzer. #7 foundational weapon #2; decode all messages of "lack" as messages from the yetzer hora; I have everything I need; resist the urge to disconnect from your wife; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is...

  16. Ep. 369 - (BPM #149) The Win-Win Marriage by R. Yechezkel Stelzer. #6

    (BPM #149). The Win-Win Marriage by R. Yechezkel Stelzer. #6 foundational weapon #1; battling against the El Zar; in every case, when spouses argue the real question is "Do I choose connection or disconnection?"; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or…

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  17. Ep. 368 - (BPJ #152) 13 Things Mentally Strong Couples Don't Do (by Amy Morin) - #8.

    (BPJ #152). 13 Things Mentally Strong Couples Don't Do (by Amy Morin) - #8. Strength #7. they don't communicate with disrespect; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

  18. Ep. 367 - (BPM #148) The Win-Win Marriage by R. Yechezkel Stelzer. #5

    (BPM #148). The Win-Win Marriage by R. Yechezkel Stelzer. #5 foundation of sholom bayis; moving out of Olam HaZarus (world of estrangement) into the Olam HaYedidus (world of connection); acts of giving, smiles, compliments, emotional support, giving the benefit of the doubt bring you into the…

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  19. Ep. 366 - (BPJ #151) 13 Things Mentally Strong Couples Don't Do (by Amy Morin) - #7.

    (BPJ #151). 13 Things Mentally Strong Couples Don't Do (by Amy Morin) - #7. Strength # 6. they don't try to fix each other; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

  20. Ep. 365 - (BPM #147) The Win-Win Marriage by R. Yechezkel Stelzer. #4

    (BPM #147). The Win-Win Marriage by R. Yechezkel Stelzer. #4 your three relationships (with yourself, with Hashem, with your wife); this shiur focuses on the crucial importance of having a healthy relationship with your wife; Rav Chaim Vital "a man's character traits are measured exclusively by…

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  21. Ep. 364 - (BPJ #150) 13 Things Mentally Strong Couples Don't Do (by Amy Morin) - #6.

    (BPJ #150). 13 Things Mentally Strong Couples Don't Do (by Amy Morin) - #6. Strength # 5. they don't use their emotions as weapons; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

  22. Ep. 363 - (BPM #146) The Win-Win Marriage by R. Yechezkel Stelzer. #3

    (BPM #146). The Win-Win Marriage by R. Yechezkel Stelzer. #3 your three relationships (with yourself, with Hashem, with your wife); this shiur focuses on the crucial importance of having a healthy relationship with Hashem; the key to loving Hashem is to feel loved by Hashem, and to develop…

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  23. Ep. 362 - (BPJ #149) 13 Things Mentally Strong Couples Don't Do (by Amy Morin) - #5.

    (BPJ #149). 13 Things Mentally Strong Couples Don't Do (by Amy Morin) - #5. Strength # 4. they don't become martyrs (feeling like a korban); learning to accept help and kindness from one another; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via...

  24. Ep. 361 - (BPM #145) The Win-Win Marriage by R. Yechezkel Stelzer. #2

    (BPM #145). The Win-Win Marriage by R. Yechezkel Stelzer. #2 your three relationships: with yourself, with Hashem, with your wife; this shiur focuses on the critical importance of having a healthy relationship with yourself; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is...

  25. Ep. 360 - (BPJ #148) 13 Things Mentally Strong Couples Don't Do (by Amy Morin) - #4.

    (BPJ #148). 13 Things Mentally Strong Couples Don't Do (by Amy Morin) - #4. Strength # 3. they don't hesitate to set boundaries; why we hesitate setting boundaries; setting boundaries within your marriage relationship and outside of it; don't confuse boundaries with controlling behavior; how to...

  26. Ep. 359 - (BPJ #147) 13 Things Mentally Strong Couples Don't Do (by Amy Morin) - #3.

    (BPJ #147). 13 Things Mentally Strong Couples Don't Do (by Amy Morin) - #3. Strength # 2. they don't keep secrets (as strong general rule); guidelines for a balanced way of sharing things; how being open helps you feel stronger; don't share your spouse's secrets with others, especially close…

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  27. Ep. 358 - (BPM #144) The Win-Win Marriage by R. Yechezkel Stelzer. #1

    (BPM #144). The Win-Win Marriage by R. Yechezkel Stelzer. #1 introduction; Hashem primarily judges us on how we treat our wives; the only person you can change is yourself; we have 100% control of our outflow pipe (our words and actions) and 0% control over our inflow pipe of what happens to us,...

  28. Ep. 357 - (BPJ #146) 13 Things Mentally Strong Couples Don't Do (by Amy Morin) - #2.

    (BPJ #146). 13 Things Mentally Strong Couples Don't Do (by Amy Morin) - #2. Strength # 1. (Part 2); they don't ignore their problems; defining the problem; accepting inherent differences; how addressing the problems helps you grow stronger; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is...

  29. Ep. 356 - (BPM #143) Discussing delicate issues; obesity; hygiene; exclusive husband- wife connection; communicate type of sex needed; making your spouse feel safe, secure, loved; hakoras hatov to your spouse and Hashem for the gift of physical intimac...

    (BPM #143). discussing delicate issues; obesity; hygiene; exclusive husband- wife connection; communicate type of sex needed; making your spouse feel safe, secure, loved; hakoras hatov to your spouse and Hashem for the gift of physical intimacy; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights...

  30. Ep. 355 - (BPM #142) Practical suggestions on how to open up discussions about sexual intimacy with one another.

    (BPM #142). practical suggestions on how to open up discussions about sexual intimacy with one another; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

  31. Ep. 354 - (BPJ #145) 13 Things Mentally Strong Couples Don't Do (by Amy Morin) - #1.

    (BPJ #145). 13 Things Mentally Strong Couples Don't Do (by Amy Morin) - #1. Strength # 1. (Part 1); they don't ignore their problems; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

  32. Ep. 353 - (BPM #141) The 'elephant' in the room; talking about sex; why it's important; what holds us back; to overcome the uncomfortableness of it and to engage in meaningful conversations about it.

    (BPM #141). the 'elephant' in the room; talking about sex; why it's important; what holds us back; to overcome the uncomfortableness of it and to engage in meaningful conversations about it; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via...

  33. Ep. 352 - (BPJ #144) Emotional intelligence in marriage #19

    (BPJ #144). Emotional intelligence in marriage #19 more on delayed gratification and self-motivation; summary of important emotional intelligence concepts; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

  34. Ep. 351 - (BPM #140) Davening for healthy sexual intimacy; when you are too exhausted to have sex; how to prioritize and make room for sexual intimacy by finding ways to counteract the fatigue; scheduling sexual intimacy; how this aspect of married lif...

    (BPM #140). davening for healthy sexual intimacy; when you are too exhausted to have sex; how to prioritize and make room for sexual intimacy by finding ways to counteract the fatigue; scheduling sexual intimacy; how this aspect of married life is Hashem's Ratzon that it thrives; Email address…

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  35. Ep. 350 - (BPJ #143) Emotional intelligence in marriage #18

    (BPJ #143). Emotional intelligence in marriage #18 keeping a gratefulness journal; expressing gratitude to Hashem and your spouse; healthy self-talk and the EQ of delayed gratification; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp…

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  36. Ep. 349 - (BPM #139) When sex drives differ significantly; factors that affect sex drive, and working through it.

    (BPM #139). when sex drives differ significantly; factors that affect sex drive, and working through it; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

  37. Ep. 348 - (BPJ #142) Emotional intelligence in marriage #17

    (BPJ #142). Emotional intelligence in marriage #17 learning to listen with empathy; maintaining hope and optimism within yourself and in your relationship with your spouse; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578...

  38. Ep. 347 - (BPM #138) To meet your wife's needs emotionally and sexually.

    (BPM #138). to meet your wife's needs emotionally and sexually; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

  39. Ep. 346 - (BPJ #141) Emotional intelligence in marriage #16

    (BPJ #141). Emotional intelligence in marriage #16 understanding and expressing emotions; developing empathy; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

  40. Ep. 345 - (BPJ #140) Emotional intelligence in marriage #15

    (BPJ #140). Emotional intelligence in marriage #15 beginning with self-awareness; utilizing your past, and your relationship with your parents in the past to influence you in a healthy way as an adult; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach…

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  41. Ep. 344 - (BPM #137) Deepening the spiritual and emotional connection with your wife will enhance the physical sexual connection; even the "mundane" kindness for and with each other promotes deep intimacy.

    (BPM #137). deepening the spiritual and emotional connection with your wife will enhance the physical sexual connection; even the "mundane" kindness for and with each other promotes deep intimacy; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via...

  42. Ep. 343 - (BPJ #139) Emotional intelligence in marriage #14

    (BPJ #139). Emotional intelligence in marriage #14 6 essential EQ/self esteem characteristics; health and fitness; adequate sleep; healthy eating; exercise are all crucial aspects of EQ that will increase your spiritual life and marriage significantly; Email address for feedback, questions, and...

  43. Ep. 342 - (BPM #136) Husband learning not to take a "no" from his wife personally; avoiding unhealthy escaping or withdrawing emotionally and avoid feeling rejected; davening, then accessing your healthy communication and emotional connection will help...

    (BPM #136). husband learning not to take a "no" from his wife personally; avoiding unhealthy escaping or withdrawing emotionally and avoid feeling rejected; davening, then accessing your healthy communication and emotional connection will help greatly to avoid feelings hurt; Email address for...

  44. Ep. 341 - (MSC #1) Turning to Hashem to help us be a good husband and treat our wives with respect and love.

    (MSC #1). turning to Hashem to help us be a good husband and treat our wives with respect and love; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

  45. Ep. 340 - (BPJ #138a) Emotional intelligence in marriage #13

    (BPJ #138a). Emotional intelligence in marriage #13 healthy autonomy and self-esteem; healthy emotions; a list of attributes describing both self-esteem and EQ; Insight from Rav. Cahan on BPJ # 138 Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out…

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  46. Ep. 339 - (BPJ #138) Emotional intelligence in marriage #13

    (BPJ #138). Emotional intelligence in marriage #13 healthy autonomy and self-esteem; healthy emotions; a list of attributes describing both self-esteem and EQ; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

  47. Ep. 338 - (BPM #135) Importance of husbands to open up emotionally to their wives, this will promote sexual interest; sexual activity does open up naturally the emotions of men so husband need to use sexual release and gratification to open up emotiona...

    (BPM #135). importance of husbands to open up emotionally to their wives, this will promote sexual interest; sexual activity does open up naturally the emotions of men so husband need to use sexual release and gratification to open up emotionally towards their wives; Email address for feedback,...

  48. Ep. 337 - (BPJ #137) Emotional intelligence in marriage #12

    (BPJ #137). Emotional intelligence in marriage #12 we have the ability to transform ourselves despite a difficult background; you can love yourself when you see yourself accurately; appreciate what you see, and are excited about the prospect of who you can become; Email address for feedback,...

  49. Ep. 336 - (BPM #134) A husband's need for mutual satisfaction, and how to express them the right way to your wife; knowing that sometimes a typical husband's need could be a strong need in some wives.

    (BPM #134). a husband's need for mutual satisfaction, and how to express them the right way to your wife; knowing that sometimes a typical husband's need could be a strong need in some wives; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via...

  50. Ep. 335 - (BPJ #136) Emotional intelligence in marriage #11

    (BPJ #136). Emotional intelligence in marriage #11 EQ requires building healthy self esteem; to develop the courage and resiliency we all have within us; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.

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In addition to the many public shiurim on Sholom bayis & life topics (https://shalom-bayit.castos.com), we are presenting here more personalized shiurim on intimacy & marriage topics with practical exercises for men & women separately.Ideally, husbands should join men's forum, and the wives the women's forum, but there are also countless benefits if only one joins.Email for questions and feedback is [email protected], or to reach out via whatsapp at 1 347 578 0669

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Produced by Lev Olkha

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