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breakup BOOST Advice to Get Over Your Ex

Honest and logical breakup and relationship advice… with a sprinkle of bluntness. Whether you’re stuck in a toxic loop, settling for crumbs, or still texting someone who clearly doesn’t care, Trina’s here to snap you out of it - with real talk and practical tools to get your heart and head in check. This isn’t your feel-sorry-for-yourself podcast; it’s your tough-love guide to peace, self-respect, and relationships actually worth your time. Learn how to set boundaries that stick, rebuild your confidence (no begging allowed), and spot red flags from a mile away. Whether you’re drowning in drama or celebrating your freedom, breakup BOOST gives you the realness and clarity - with humor and plenty of sass. Grab your copy of "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon. This book will shift your mindset, rebuild your confidence, and set you up for a fresh start. Before you know it, you’ll be wondering, "What was I thinking?!" For breakup & relationship c

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    #419: Before You Send That Long, Emotional Text Re: How Much They Hurt You After a Breakup

    After your ex has hurt you deeply, you may find yourself wanting to explain EVERYTHING in one long emotional text. Every feeling. Every disappointment. Every way their actions affected you. Maybe you're hoping that this time they'll finally understand. Maybe you just need to get it all out. Whatever your reason, before you send that message to your ex, you'll want to press "PLAY" on this episode. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get personalized help: breakupBOOST.com YouTube & TikTok @breakupBOOST Check out Trina's breakup & dating merch: blockandshop.com

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    #418: The "Hope You Are Well" Text Message (insert eye roll here, lol)

    It's one of those texts that can instantly get your mind spinning after a breakup. Simple enough - until it comes from that person. I'm gonna break it down for ya...  LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get personalized help: breakupBOOST.com YouTube & TikTok @breakupBOOST Check out Trina's breakup & dating merch: blockandshop.com

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    #416: "I'm Tired of Asking You for What I Want" (feeling unheard & frustrated)

    If you've ever caught yourself saying, or even just thinking, "I'm tired of asking you for what I want," this episode is for you. I'm talking about what it really means when you're having the same conversations over and over, why so many people get stuck in this cycle, and what your next step should be. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get personalized help: breakupBOOST.com YouTube & TikTok @breakupBOOST Check out Trina's breakup & dating merch: blockandshop.com

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    #411: MARIO Retired from the Breadcrumb Buffet + 10 Lessons from His Breakup Breakthrough

    When someone reaches out to tell you that your words genuinely changed their life… yeah, that hits. In this episode, I'm sharing a voice note from someone who found my content during a really difficult time and used it to finally stop accepting breadcrumbs, break unhealthy patterns, and start choosing self-respect over emotional chaos. But this episode isn't just about the kind message (though trust me, it's a good one ;) It's about what happens when you actually apply the advice instead of just nodding along to it while continuing to make the same questionable choices. If you've been stuck obsessing over someone, making excuses, chasing "closure," or treating potential like reality… this episode is your reminder that your life can change fast, when your mindset does. Sometimes what you really need isn't comfort. You need clarity. Want to talk to me 1:1 about your specific situation? Head to breakupboost.com and book a coaching call. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get personalized help: breakupBOOST.com YouTube & TikTok @breakupBOOST Check out Trina's breakup & dating merch: blockandshop.com

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    #408: ASK TRINA: "I'm Losing Respect for a Friend Who Won't Move On" (+ The Truth About Friends Who Don't Actually Want Advice)

    We've all had THAT friend - and / or - BEEN that friend who won't move on, but also won't stop complaining.  At what point does it drive too big of a wedge between two people? Also, what you want to keep in mind when it comes to giving friends advice... LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get personalized help: breakupBOOST.com YouTube & TikTok @breakupBOOST Check out Trina's breakup & dating merch: blockandshop.com

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    #407: 5 Reasons Why Your Ex Moved On Quickly After The Breakup

    After a breakup, nothing messes with your head more than seeing your ex move on fast. One minute you're still processing what happened… the next, THEY'RE posting, dating, or already acting like they've upgraded their entire life. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get personalized help: breakupBOOST.com YouTube & TikTok @breakupBOOST Check out Trina's breakup & dating merch: blockandshop.com

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    #406: The Hidden Danger of Giving a Relationship / Your Ex a Second Chance

    Have you ever reconnected with someone from your past and convinced yourself that things will be different this time?  Second chances can feel hopeful… even exciting. But they can also come with a hidden risk that many people don't realize until they're already back in the dynamic. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get personalized help: breakupBOOST.com YouTube & TikTok @breakupBOOST Check out Trina's breakup & dating merch: blockandshop.com

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    #404: Why Do Your Friends Still Have Your Ex on Their Social Media??

    Sometimes it's not just the romantic relationship that needs boundaries - it's the others around it. In this episode, I talk about a dynamic that can create problems before and after a breakup. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get personalized help: breakupBOOST.com Check out Trina's breakup & dating merch: blockandshop.com

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    #403: TWIN FLAMES??!! More Like Cosmic Excuses for Crappy Men

    This episode has been a long time coming... I break down the delusion, dismantle the excuses, and expose the "twin flames" fantasy you're worshipping - so you can stop embarrassing yourself and start reclaiming your dignity. A MUST-LISTEN! Common sense, baby... common sense... LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get personalized help: breakupBOOST.com Check out Trina's breakup & dating merch: blockandshop.com

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    #402: Why Saying "Their Loss" Can Keep You Stuck (breakup clarity and moving forward)

    In this episode, I'm talking straight to YOU about the mindset you may jump into after a breakup and how it can quietly keep you stuck without you even realizing it.  LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get personalized help: breakupBOOST.com Check out Trina's breakup & dating merch: blockandshop.com

  12. 406

    #401: The Truth Behind "He Doesn't Know How to Love" (relationship reality check for women)

    This episode exposes a painful reality… and you'll know pretty quickly if it hits a little too close to home. That's a GOOD thing though. As they say... the truth will set you free. xo  LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz Get personalized help: breakupBOOST.com Check out Trina's breakup & dating merch: blockandshop.com

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    #400: Forget New Year's Resolutions. What's YOUR "Word of the Year" Going to Be for 2026?

    Forget resolutions - - - this is about choosing ONE WORD to help you stay focused, accountable, and aligned in how you think, decide, and move through the year. I also share the word I chose and "the why." LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching (7) Follow Trina's breakup podcast FOR MEN: JUST CALL TRINA

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    #399: ASK TRINA: 20 Random Breakup & Relationship Questions!

    ASK TRINA is back... tackling 20 random questions with zero fluff and maximum honesty. Grab some snacks and get comfy! LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching (7) Follow Trina's breakup podcast FOR MEN: JUST CALL TRINA

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    #398: Stop Saying Your Ex RUINED Your Life (They're Not That Important)

    You keep saying your ex ruined your life - but you've got to stop giving them so much power. I get it... after a breakup, you're hurt, you're angry, you're replaying everything in your head… but calling your life "ruined" doesn't just flatter them - it makes it sound like you don't even have an identity without them. Come on now.... it's time to flip this script! LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching (7) Follow Trina's breakup podcast FOR MEN: JUST CALL TRINA

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    #397: Misusing The Term “Trauma Bonding” & How It May Be Keeping You Stuck

    You’ve probably seen people throw around the term “trauma bonding” like confetti on social media… but are they using this term correctly?! In this episode, we’re breaking down what trauma bonding actually is, how people misuse it, and why calling every messy relationship by that name might be keeping you stuck. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching (7) Follow Trina's breakup podcast FOR MEN: JUST CALL TRINA

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    #396: Self-Respect Pep Talk: You’re Not a Bargain Bin Deal (dating advice & self-worth motivation)

    This one’s your wake-up call. If you keep discounting yourself for people who don’t even pay full attention, that’s on you. Self-respect isn’t arrogance - it’s knowing you’re not a clearance-rack find. The moment you start acting like you’re the prize, your whole energy changes. Stop begging to be chosen and start choosing better. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching (7) Follow Trina's breakup podcast FOR MEN: JUST CALL TRINA

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    #395: Betrayal in Relationships Isn’t a Sliding Scale: CHEATING IS CHEATING!

    Sure, you can try to convince yourself (or someone else) it was just a “mistake,” a “drunken slip,” or “not really cheating,” but for anyone with integrity... betrayal is betrayal. Period. If you’ve been downplaying what happened to you - or what you did - this episode is here to show you why you need to cut through the excuses and keep it real. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching (7) Follow Trina's breakup podcast FOR MEN: JUST CALL TRINA

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    #394: 7 Social Media Moves That Look a Lil Unhinged (online drama post breakup & in relationships)

    Whether you’re reeling from a breakup or tangled in relationship drama, your social media can speak louder than you realize. This episode is your reminder to pump the brakes so you don’t end up looking back, wishing you had. Think of this episode as a friendly wake-up call to stay classy, stay mysterious, and keep moving forward - on and off screen. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching (7) Follow Trina's breakup podcast FOR MEN: JUST CALL TRINA

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    #393: 6 Reasons You Ignore Red Flags (and Pretend They Magically Appear AFTER the Breakup)

    Red flags aren’t just cute little quirks you should “wait and see” about - they’re WARNINGS. And ignoring them? That’s how you end up in relationship quicksand. Not fun. If you’ve ever second-guessed your gut or brushed off a behavior because you didn’t want to “make a big deal out of it,” this one’s for you.  LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching (7) Follow Trina's breakup podcast FOR MEN: JUST CALL TRINA

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    BIG NEWS: Trina Created a Spin-Off Podcast ... FOR MEN!!!

    FOLLOW NOW on the Apple Podcasts App or Spotify to keep up with the new episodes: justcalltrina.libsyn.com Get personalized help too: breakupadviceformen.com

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    #392: Weekend Loneliness After a Breakup - Don’t Text Your Ex!!! xo

    Weekends are supposed to feel exciting. But when you’re fresh out of a breakup, they can feel like extra days of torture. Everyone else seems busy, happy, and coupled up - and you’re stuck fighting the urge to reach out to your ex. This episode is your reminder of why that’s the worst idea you could have right now… and what to do instead.  LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

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    #391: “Maybe One Day We Can Get Back Together…” (breakup help for the DUMPED)

    Have you ever been dumped and hit with the classic, "Maybe one day we can get back together..."? In this episode, I’m breaking down why that line is more insulting than comforting... and what it REALLY means. If you’ve been holding onto a "maybe," after a breakup situation, this is your wake-up call to change course, remember your worth, and get your life back on track. You're welcome ;) LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

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    #390: 6 Types of People Who Say, “The Cheating Made Us So Much Stronger" (Dealing with Infidelity)

    You’ve heard it. Maybe you’ve even said it. But today I'm ripping that phrase apart and exposing the truth behind it. I’m breaking down the 6 types of people who claim cheating somehow helped their relationship - and trust me, it’s not the "flex" they think it is. If you’ve ever tried to justify staying with someone who betrayed you - or if someone you know is deep in denial - this one’s probably gonna hit hard. Are you ready to hear what’s really going on behind the scenes of these “stronger than ever” love stories? LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

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    #389: DATING DECODED: When He Says He's NOT READY for a Relationship (Dating Advice for Women)

    It's once again time to KEEP IT REAL. When a man says he’s "not ready for a relationship," what does he really mean? In this episode, I break down the truth behind this all-too-common phrase, why women keep holding onto it as though it signifies "hope" ... and what’s actually going on beneath the surface. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

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    #388: 10 Brutal Truths from the COLDPLAY COUPLE Affair (Concert Kiss Cam Cheating Scandal)

    Introducing the very first Peeling Back the Layers Special Edition of breakup BOOST - where I spotlight breakup, dating, and relationship headlines... pulling out the real-life lessons for YOU. Unless you’ve been living under a rock (or a concert speaker), you’ve probably seen the Coldplay Couple caught mid-affair on a kiss cam. I’m not here to rehash the play-by-play - I’m here to deliver 10 brutal truths about cheating inspired by the mess. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

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    #387: If You Use AI to Communicate in Dating & Relationships, Please Stay Single :)

    Let’s be real: if you’re using AI to write love notes, apologies, or breakup texts… this episode is about YOU. And yeah, it might sting a little - - - because it should. I'm diving into the sad, weird, and honestly CORNY new trend of people outsourcing their emotional communication to chatbots. You say you want real love and authenticity, but you can’t even send a text without help from a robot?!?! Make it make sense!!! LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

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    #386: “Why Is My Narcissist Ex Doing This or That?!” (Reality checks & the clarity you never knew you needed.)

    Tired of analyzing your narcissist ex? So many questions, so much confusion. You think you want answers - but trust me, you need to hear THIS before you ask again. LISTEN NOW. Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

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    #385: 5 Mistakes That Make You Look Like a CLOWN in Dating and Relationships

    So, today I'm talking about a handful of moments in dating and relationships where you look back and just cringe. You know the ones - where you ask yourself, “What was I thinking?!" Awareness is everything... and once you have awareness... you can't keep making the same bad choices. So, if you're determined to walk away from clown behavior for good, LISTEN NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

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    #384: The 1 Thing You ACTUALLY Want When You Say You Want “Closure” ... Post-Breakup REAL TALK Advice

    You say you want closure - but is that really what you’re after??? Hmmmm.... In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on what’s really behind that phrase. It’s not about a neat ending or a final conversation. There’s something else going on - and understanding it is the first step to FINALLY moving on. LISTEN NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

  31. 387

    #383: Groveling After a Breakup Is the Death of Your Dignity (The "please just talk to me" texts gotta go!)

    Let’s be honest - groveling is straight up cringe. Every text, every “please just talk to me” moment? It’s not helping. It’s eating away at your dignity. In this episode, I’m giving you the tough love you need to stop chasing someone who clearly isn’t chasing you. LISTEN NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

  32. 386

    #382: 6 Truth Bombs For Cheaters That’ll Make Them Squirm (And Validation For Those Who Were Cheated On)

    Dear Cheaters: Don’t get too cozy. This episode’s got your name written all over it! And to everyone who’s ever been cheated on, gaslit, or made to feel crazy... you’re about to get the validation you deserve. I’m dropping 6 truth bombs cheaters desperately try to avoid. No sugar. No spin. Just the raw, uncomfortable truth about what cheating says about you. And as for the person you hurt? They won’t stay broken... but YOU'LL carry the stain of that choice for a long a$$ time. LISTEN NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

  33. 385

    #381: How to Cope When It Feels Like Your Ex Doesn’t Miss You After Your Breakup

    Breakups mess with your head - and one of the most painful thoughts you can spiral into is: “Do they even miss me?!” If you’ve been obsessing over their silence, stalking their social media, or searching for any sign that they still care… this episode is for you. Listen NOW!   Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

  34. 384

    #380: The "Block-Unblock Your Ex" Olympics Will Win You a Gold Medal in Desperation

    Let’s get real - blocking and unblocking your ex or situationship isn’t a power move - it’s a hot mess. A cycle that hurts you WAY more than it helps. It’s time to stop giving away your power and start standing by your decisions. If you’re ready to ditch the drama and step into your confident era, this one’s for you. Listen NOW!   Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

  35. 383

    #379: Dear Men Who Date Women Young Enough to Be Their Daughter:

    In this episode, I unpack the real story behind those “age is just a number” relationships. Whether you’ve dated significantly older, younger, or just sat back watching this type of slow-motion trainwreck... you don't want to miss this! Listen NOW!   Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

  36. 382

    #378: 10 Types of Men to NEVER Have a Baby With - Because Parenthood Is PERMANENT

    Let’s get real: too many women end up tied to the wrong man for life because of pressure, fear, or straight-up wishful thinking. In this episode, I’m breaking down the types of men you should never have a baby with (let alone date lol)... The men who’ll charm you into chaos and leave you holding the bag - diaper bag included! Girl... it doesn't matter if he looks good in a selfie if he can't even grasp the word "responsibility," ok??!! Listen NOW! Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

  37. 381

    #377: Are You Missing Your Ex - or - THE HIGH They Gave You? (Post-Breakup Reality Check)

    Let's dig into the truth about post-breakup grief. Sometimes, it’s not the person you’re grieving — it’s the rush. The attention. The chaos. The illusion of connection. If you’ve ever felt addicted to someone who wasn’t actually good for you, this one’s going to hit hard (in the best way).  Listen NOW!  Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

  38. 380

    #376: “What’s Your Body Count?” is the Dumbest Question You Can Ask

    Thanks for stopping by for the latest "tiny talk" ... bite-sized episodes, packed with punch! In this tiny talk, I explain... (in great detail)... why you NEVER want to ask someone what their body count is.  Quick, straight to the point, and filled with REAL TALK. Don’t miss this one!  Listen NOW!  Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST

  39. 379

    #375: The Bachelor S29 E9 FINALE: Safe Pick or the Fun, Alluring Gamble? (Episode 9 After Show)

    Season 29 Finale is HERE! Listen now for my insights and full breakdown - plus I give my take on where this relationship may be headed now that the show is over. Oh, and PS... I also spotted a RED FLAG on a social media video of Grant & Juliana that was uploaded this morning about their "next steps." Hmmm...   Breakup & Dating Merch: https://blockandshop.com Coaching: https://www.breakupboost.com Don't Be DESPERATE: https://amzn.to/3Q5IPfZ Trina 

  40. 378

    #374: The Bachelor S29 E8: THREE Room Keys… TWO Mysteries (Episode 8 After Show)

    I’m breaking down the Season 29 of The Bachelor... What can we learn from THIS episode?! Come back every Tuesday for weekly recaps of all the romance, rivalries, ridiculousness... and breakups! I'll point out the red flags and cringeworthy moments... plus the things you DON'T want to replicate in your own dating life, if you get what I'm sayin... Breakup & Dating Merch: https://blockandshop.com Coaching: https://www.breakupboost.com Don't Be DESPERATE: https://amzn.to/3Q5IPfZ Trina 

  41. 377

    #373: Common Thought after a Breakup: Did They Ever Really Love You??

    One of the hardest parts of a breakup is wondering: Did they ever actually love me? Was it real, or was I just convenient? In this episode, we’re cutting through the confusion and getting honest about what real love looks like. I’ll break down key red flags that will hopefully give you some insight for your personal situation, share relatable analogies, and help you stop overanalyzing whether they loved you - so you can start focusing on loving yourself the way you deserve.... and MOVING FORWARD in peace. Listen NOW!  Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

  42. 376

    #372: The Bachelor S29 E6: Hometowns! So Little Drama, It’s Almost Suspicious (Episode 6 After Show)

    I’m breaking down the Season 29 of The Bachelor... What can we learn from THIS episode?! Come back every Tuesday for weekly recaps of all the romance, rivalries, ridiculousness... and breakups! I'll point out the red flags and cringeworthy moments... plus the things you DON'T want to replicate in your own dating life, if you get what I'm sayin... Breakup & Dating Merch: https://blockandshop.com Coaching: https://www.breakupboost.com Don't Be DESPERATE: https://amzn.to/3Q5IPfZ Trina 

  43. 375

    #371: Stop Explaining to Someone Why The Two of You Should Be Together

    Welcome to another episode of "Trina's tiny talks" - bite-sized episodes, packed with punch.  In this episode I cover why you never want to be in a position where you're trying to convince someone to be in a relationship with you. 

  44. 374

    #370: The Bachelor S29 E5 Recap: Sulking, Sabotage & Scottish Dates (Episode 5 After Show)

    I’m breaking down the Season 29 of The Bachelor... What can we learn from THIS episode?! Come back every Tuesday for weekly recaps of all the romance, rivalries, ridiculousness... and breakups! I'll point out the red flags and cringeworthy moments... plus the things you DON'T want to replicate in your own dating life, if you get what I'm sayin... Breakup & Dating Merch: https://blockandshop.com Coaching: https://www.breakupboost.com Don't Be DESPERATE: https://amzn.to/3Q5IPfZ Trina 

  45. 373

    #369: Cut the Melodrama: Breakups Are a Reset, Not a Tragedy

    Breakups can feel like the end of the world, but they’re really just the beginning of something better (even though you may not see that light at the end of the tunnel yet). In this episode, I break down why turning your breakup into a dramatic, life-ending event only makes it harder to move on. Instead of wallowing in sadness and replaying the past, it's time to treat your breakup like a reset - a chance to reassess, rebuild, and create a new version of yourself.  Listen NOW!  Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

  46. 372

    #368: The Bachelor S29 E4 Recap: He's Not Your Boyfriend, Hun (Episode 4 After Show)

    I’m breaking down the Season 29 of The Bachelor... What can we learn from THIS episode?! Come back every Tuesday for weekly recaps of all the romance, rivalries, ridiculousness... and breakups! I'll point out the red flags and cringeworthy moments... plus the things you DON'T want to replicate in your own dating life, if you get what I'm sayin... Breakup & Dating Merch: https://blockandshop.com Coaching: https://www.breakupboost.com Don't Be DESPERATE: https://amzn.to/3Q5IPfZ Trina 

  47. 371

    My Spin-Off Podcast "HELP US" ... for Creating Relationships That Don’t Suck ... is LIVE! Follow Now!

    Don't worry - breakup BOOST isn't going anywhere... I'm just ADDING another branch ;) SEARCH: "Help Us Couples Coaching Podcast" Follow on Apple Podcasts HERE: https://bit.ly/3QjH4Ml Follow on Spotify HERE: https://spoti.fi/3CE4TLH

  48. 370

    #367: The Bachelor S29 E3 Recap: Finance, Fake Drama, and a Fear Factor Date (Episode 3 After Show)

    I’m breaking down the Season 29 of The Bachelor... What can we learn from THIS episode?! Come back every Tuesday for weekly recaps of all the romance, rivalries, ridiculousness... and breakups! I'll point out the red flags and cringeworthy moments... plus the things you DON'T want to replicate in your own dating life, if you get what I'm sayin... Breakup & Dating Merch: https://blockandshop.com Coaching: https://www.breakupboost.com Don't Be DESPERATE: https://amzn.to/3Q5IPfZ Trina 

  49. 369

    #366: The Bachelor S29 E2 Recap: Grant's 1st Major Red Flag, Things NOT to Do, Cringeworthy Moments (Episode 2 After Show)

    I’m breaking down the Season 29 as a Breakup Coach... (and hopefully you'll get some cheap entertainment out of it ;) What can we learn from THIS episode?  Come back every Tuesday for weekly recaps of all the romance, rivalries, ridiculousness... and breakups! I'll point out the red flags and cringeworthy moments... plus the things you DON'T want to replicate in your own dating life, if you get what I'm sayin... Breakup & Dating Merch: https://blockandshop.com Coaching: https://www.breakupboost.com Don't Be DESPERATE: https://amzn.to/3Q5IPfZ Trina

  50. 368

    #365: Why Your Ex Never Apologized & Why You Really Need to Let That Go

    Welcome to "trina's tiny talks" ... bite-sized episodes, packed with punch! In this "tiny talk," I explain why your toxic ex didn’t apologize - and why, even if they had, it wouldn’t really matter. Quick, straight to the point, and filled with REAL TALK. Don’t miss this one! Listen NOW!  Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST

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Honest and logical breakup and relationship advice… with a sprinkle of bluntness. Whether you’re stuck in a toxic loop, settling for crumbs, or still texting someone who clearly doesn’t care, Trina’s here to snap you out of it - with real talk and practical tools to get your heart and head in check. This isn’t your feel-sorry-for-yourself podcast; it’s your tough-love guide to peace, self-respect, and relationships actually worth your time. Learn how to set boundaries that stick, rebuild your confidence (no begging allowed), and spot red flags from a mile away. Whether you’re drowning in drama or celebrating your freedom, breakup BOOST gives you the realness and clarity - with humor and plenty of sass. Grab your copy of "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon. This book will shift your mindset, rebuild your confidence, and set you up for a fresh start. Before you know it, you’ll be wondering, "What was I thinking?!" For breakup & relationship c

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