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Men This Way with Bryan Reeves
by Bryan Reeves & Tait Arend
Welcome to Bridging Connections (formerly known as "Men This Way"). Join your host Bryan Reeves — former U.S. Air Force captain, renowned author, and professional coach to men, women, and couples – alongside his lifelong best friend and leadership coach, Tait Arend, as together they tackle the essential, raw conversations we all need to be having on the most important subjects our lives: relationships, purpose, health, spirituality, and more. Dive deep into the things that matter and explore the connections that bind us all.
Episodes
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163. KINGS COUNCIL: Living in Alignment, Letting Go, & Giving Your Gift Even When No One Cares
In this soul-nourishing episode, Bryan opens the circle on a private men’s gathering with longtime brothers John Lee, Larry Winters, Mikey Brackett, and Troy Ravenseye. What follows is a deeply honest exploration of aging, art, resistance, and the sacred tension between creating from joy versus...
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162. The Seduction of AI: Convenience, Creativity … Catastrophe? w/ Akira Chan
In this expansive and very human conversation, filmmaker and creative technologist Akira Chan joins Bryan Reeves and co-host Tait Arend to explore the wild, exhilarating, and sometimes terrifying frontier of artificial intelligence. From AI-generated songs and robot companions to the ways...
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161. An Ode To Women (Who Compel Men Into Manhood)
In this raw and revealing episode, Tait and Bryan reflect on a powerful and often overlooked truth: So many men only find this work because the women in their lives refused to give up on them. Whether it’s a book left on a nightstand, a therapy session demanded through gritted teeth, or a...
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160. When a Dream Dies: Healing Through Major Life Changes and Invisible Loss
Have you ever grieved something difficult to explain to others ... or to yourself? A dream you never got to live, a world you left behind after moving, a home you never got to call home, a relationship that never got off the ground? In this powerful solo return, Bryan Reeves explores the deep...
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159. Healing the Emotionally Unavailable Man
Bryan Reeves sits down with renowned relationship coach and therapist Jayson Gaddis. Together they dive into the origins of men’s emotional unavailability, how childhood experiences shape intimacy in adulthood, and what it takes to build secure, nourishing partnerships. From personal stories of...
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158. Adrian Grenier on Fame, Fatherhood & Finding the True Man Within
In this raw and heartfelt rebroadcast, actor and environmental activist Adrian Grenier (Entourage, The Devil Wears Prada) joins host Bryan Reeves for a soul-baring conversation about his transformation from Hollywood heartthrob to grounded father and conscious community builder. They dive into…
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157. [FEISTY WIFE EPISODE] Stop Wanting Your Partner To Be More Like You w/ Silvy Khoucasian LMFT
What happens when a precision-timed therapist and a free-spirited adventurer fall in love? In this candid, spicy, and surprisingly hilarious conversation, Bryan Reeves and Silvy Khoucasian pull back the curtain on their own relationship to explore what it really takes to embrace differences—and…
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156. Navigating The Death of Your Dream
In this heartfelt solo episode of Bridging Connections, host Bryan Reeves delves into the profound journey of navigating life transitions and personal growth. Reflecting on his own experiences, Bryan shares the challenges and revelations that come with the death of a dream, the practice of grief,...
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155. Full Range Masculinity (When Men Come Alive)
What does it mean to become fully alive as a man? In this powerful debrief, Bryan and Tait reflect on the transformative journey of Elevate 2025, a year-long men's journey that culminates in a life-changing retreat. From breaking emotional masks to finding real brotherhood and discovering true...
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154. Behind The Scenes of a Life-Changing Men's Retreat
In this special on-the-road episode, Bryan and Tait reflect on five years of deep men’s work as they gear up for the Elevate 2025 Men's Retreat — a five-day, mountaintop experience in western North Carolina designed as a modern-day rite of passage. From sacred brotherhood to the storms that shape...
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153. What Repair Really Looks Like in a Healthy Relationship w/ Jayson Gaddis
In this episode of Bridging Connections, we welcome Jayson Gaddis, psychotherapist, author, and founder of The Relationship School, to discuss the vital topic of conflict and repair in relationships. Highlighting the inevitability of conflict, we delve into effective repair processes encompassing...
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152. The Cost of Overgiving w/ Terri Cole
In this episode of Bridging Connections, we welcome Terri Cole, a licensed psychotherapist and bestselling author, to discuss high-functioning codependency. We dive into Terri’s extensive experience with codependency, exploring the ways in which overly selfless behaviors can lead to burnout,...
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151. Living a Liberated Life w/ Josh Trent
In this episode of Bridging Connections, we dive into the profound topic of living a liberated life with Josh Trent, host of the Wellness and Wisdom podcast. Josh discusses the importance of alignment with nature's laws and the concept of being in harmony. Our conversation explores the relevance…
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150. From Inner Critic to Inner Lover w/ Allana Pratt
In this episode of Bridging Connections, we discuss profound topics of self-acceptance, intimacy, and healing with Allana Pratt, an intimacy expert. This conversation touches on the importance of embracing one's flaws, the journey to overcome self-loathing, and the deep need for authentic...
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149. Overcoming Shame as a Parent w/ Louis Weinstock
In this episode of Bridging Connections, we talk with Louis Weinstock, a seasoned child psychotherapist and author. This discussion centers on overcoming shame and guilt in parenting, the importance of parental healing, and the impact of unresolved traumas on children. Louis shares personal...
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148. Rising Woman: From Trauma to Transformation w/ Sheleana Aiyana
In this episode of Bridging Connections, we welcome Sheleana Aiyana, founder of Rising Woman. Sheleana takes on her journey from tumultuous upbringing and traumatic relationships to her spiritual and healing path. Sheleana shares profound experiences from ayahuasca ceremonies and the importance…
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147. The 5 Stages of Male Growth (and How They Impact Women) w/ Alison Armstrong
In this episode, we welcome back relationship expert Alison Armstrong. We explore the profound journey of male development, the transition from knights to princes and eventually kings. We delve into the concept of 'the tunnel,' a challenging phase between princehood and kingship marked by...
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146. The Way of the Satisfied Woman w/ Alanna Kaivalya
"Satisfaction is the pleasure derived from the fulfillment of wishes and needs".- Alanna Kaivalya Today on Bridging Connections: 00:00 Welcome & Co-host Introduction 01:14 Introducing Guest Dr. Alana Cavalia 03:12 Discussing "The Way of the Satisfied Woman" 04:16 Exploring Redefined Masculinity...
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145. What Women Don’t Get About Men (But Should) w/ Alison Armstrong
"Men often use 'safe' to describe someone they can openly talk to, showing their deep but often hidden need for trust and vulnerability." Alison Armstrong Today on Bridging Connections: 00:00 Welcome & Introduction 01:00 Alison Armstrong's Impact on Bryan's Relationship Journey 01:54 Longing for...
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144. Spirituality & The Messy Human Experience w/ Danny Morel
"The moment of realization when you're on your knees and you're realizing that all you've been chasing might not actually be what you truly need." Danny Morel Today on Bridging Connections: 00:00 Introduction & Welcome 02:36 Discussing the Pivotal Shift in Danny's Life 03:16 The Catalyst for…
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Trailer: Bridging Connections (Formerly "Men This Way")
Welcome to Bridging Connections, formerly known as "Men This Way." Join your host Bryan Reeves —former U.S. Air Force captain, renowned author and professional coach to men, women, and couples; along with his lifelong best friend and leadership coach, Tait Arend. Together, they tackle the...
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143. The Evolution of a Podcast: As One Era Ends Another Begins
In this episode, we have a big announcement. We're changing the podcast name from 'Men This Way' to 'Bridging Connections.' 00:00 Introduction and Personal Updates 03:03 Reflecting on the Podcast Journey 05:58 Key Conversations and Insights 08:57 The Evolution of the Podcast 11:56 Bridging...
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142. Success, Grief, and Living Boldly w/ Tripp Lanier
"Once it starts to become empty and it doesn't work, that's when it's time to rethink our strategies and find what truly fulfills us." Tripp Lanier Today on Men, This Way: 00:01 Introductions 02:34 Announcement of Last Episode and Transition of Show's Name 03:23 Reflections on the Past and...
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141. Overcome Resistance: The Five Stages of Change
“Resistance always shows up at the threshold of your transformation.” — Bryan Reeves In this episode, we dive deep into the transformative process of personal growth and change, exploring the five stages of change. We discuss the resistance men often face when stepping into new challenges and the...
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140. The 4 Masculine Archetypes (And Beyond) w/ Legendary Author Douglas Gillette
“This reveals that both reality and our personal identities extend beyond the obvious, and the various levels of our consciousness hold significant practical value”.- Douglas Gillette Today on Men, This Way: 00:00 Welcoming Douglas M. Gillette 01:01 Discussion on "King, Warrior, Magician, Lover"...
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139. If You’re Dying Inside (Listen To This) w/ Francis Weller
Why do men often have to hit bottom before we’re able to make meaningful changes in our lives? Could our cultural obsession with the individual self be serving to propel us towards our collective doom? Could learning how to properly grieve be key to our vitality, to living a rich, soul-centered...
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138. The Absent Father Wound w/ Dr. Warren Farrell
"Historically speaking, when we heard criticism, it was from a potential enemy, so it was biologically natural to get up our defenses.That was really functional for survival. It's just dysfunctional for love”.- Dr. Warren Farrell Today on Men, This Way: 00:00 Introduction of Dr. Warren Farrell...
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137. The Manhood Crisis (Why So Many Men Feel Lost)
In this episode I explore the themes of manhood and the significance of rites of passage in a man's life. I reflect on my personal experiences and my own lack of intentional initiation into manhood, which continues to haunt many men today. I dive into the importance of having wise elders to guide...
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136. The Myth of Polarization (We're All Living It) w/ Michael Meade
"Many of us spin our wheels, blame others because we can't find our way out. But the work-this soul work-is about digging deep, finding that genius within." - Michael Mead Today on Men, This Way: 00:02 Introduction and Welcome 00:29 Michael Mead's Background and Expertise 01:00 Insights on...
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135. Healing The Mother Wound w/ John Lee
“The mother wound is wanting to be saved by someone, some thing, some process outside yourself, and it's not going to happen.” - John Lee Today on Men, This Way: 0:00 - Introduction & Overview 0:38 - Global Context & Personal Impact 1:16 - Introducing the Mother Wound 1:46 - Reflections on the...
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134. Why Life Sucks For Successful Men and What To Do About It
"I'm not against pornography; however, if you're using it to distract yourself or to numb the pain you're experiencing, it might be serving as an escape from having tough conversations" .- Bryan Reeves Today on Men, This Way: 00:02 Greetings & Reconnection 01:08 Celebration of Elevate 2025 02:27...
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133. How To Stop Fighting and Create a Securely Attached Relationship Instead w/ Dr. Stan Tatkin
"They have to organize. if we're organized where the kids come first, well, the couple is dead, long live the kids, they go away and bye. Because we lost that loving feeling, we never nurtured it. We weren't important enough to maintain." - Dr. Stan Tatkin Today on Men, This Way: 00:00…
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132. Emotional Regulation: The (Vital) Role of Parents w/ Brooke Weinstein - PART II
"I constantly remind parents to ask their children how they feel and to always respond with 'thank you for sharing.' This simple practice can transform relationships.” -Brooke Weinstein Today on Men, This Way: 02:02 Welcome & Introduction. 02:32 Acknowledging Past Discussions. 03:08 Expertise in...
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131. Life Will Drag You To Soul Initiation w/ Bill Plotkin
I’ve got a profound episode for you today. My guest is Bill Plotkin, one of the most genius and inspired visionaries of our time that you’ve likely never heard of. He’s the author of a few books that have rocked my world, most notably, Nature and The Human Soul. When I first read Nature and The...
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130. The Power of Connection (Men Don’t Know What They’re Missing) w/ Owen Marcus
"We're hardwired not just for survival but for connection. We need different types of bonds, like intimate ones with partners. Many of us struggle because we didn’t experience enough secure attachment as children." - Owen Marcus Today on Men, This Way: 00:00 Welcome & Introduction 01:07…
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129. The Present Man: Why Women Crave It w/ Allana Pratt
I’m talking today with my dear friend, intimacy coach and expert, and just all around lovely human being, Allana Pratt. We’re talking about Presence … whatever does that mean! So many of us men may get that feedback from an intimate partner … “I just don’t feel your presence” …or “I don’t feel...
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128. The Silent Struggles of Successful Men
“I didn't believe my stories or experiences had value, so I lacked confidence. But being in this group, getting feedback, and realizing that what I share brings value, joy, and insight has filled me with confidence. - Jeff Wright -Elevate 2024 Member. "My confidence comes from knowing I have a...
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127. What Men Really Want (And What's in The Way)
I’ve got a special episode for you today … if you’ve been listening this year, you know that after 4 years of doing this podcast I’ve invited my long-time childhood best-friend of 40 years, Tait, … to co-host the podcast with me. And the last 10 or so episodes we’ve been doing just that … Tait is...
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126. The Spiritual Practice of Abundance with Preston Smiles
"If you make room for your gifts, your gifts will make room for you." - Preston Smiles Today on Men, This Way: 00:00 Introduction and Welcoming Preston Smiles 04:40 Honoring Preston's Journey and Friendship 10:52 Preston's Philosophy on Failure and Success 22:52 Conversations With God 27:24…
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125. What Ancient Myths Teach Us About Modern Masculinity with Sophie Strand
"The heroic individual carries such an onerous responsibility. Don't we want to be entangled, connected, and create a community so we don’t have to carry everything on our shoulders?" - Sophie Strand Today on Men, This Way: 07:45 - Sophie’s introduction to her life and work background. 15:36 -...
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124. Elevate Your Life With A Trustable Brotherhood
"I think one of the greatest freedoms we men can give ourselves is through the willingness to be hurt. It's the greatest practice that leads to profound freedom.“ - Bryan Reeves Today on Men, This Way: 01:40 - Tait and Bryan share their highlights from the men's retreat 05: 00- How Tait and Bryan...
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123. The Emotional Struggles of Men (and Fathers) ft. Dr. Brooke Weinstein
"If you have never chosen to tap your toe into the world of vulnerability, sharing, being open, and being interested in your feelings, it's going to be very uncomfortable and scary. That's because your brain is saying, 'Hold on, I'm not used to doing this. This is uncharted territory, and this...
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122. Is Unresolved Grief the Source of Your Pain? with Joshua Wenner
“Grief sculpts our souls and crafts our characters into the men that we're supposed to be.” — Joshua Wenner Today on Men, This Way: 03:22 – The pervasive presence of grief in men's lives 04:02 – Why men resist talking about grief 05:02 – Understanding grief from birth and navigating change 06:33…
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121. Creating Healthy Attachment (When You’re Anxious or Avoidant) with Silvy Khoucasian
“Understanding our attachment styles and how they influence our relationships can transform the way we connect with others. It's not about reaching a perfect state of secure attachment but about attuning to our own needs and those of our partners. This journey is a lifelong process of learning,...
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120. How to Create An Unbreakable Connection in Your Relationship
“The path to an unbreakable connection is the commitment to staying in partnership, no matter what.” — Bryan Reeves Today on Men, This Way: 2:24 – The emotional investment people have in relationships 3:08 – Exploring the real reasons behind conflicts in relationships 4:17 – The concept of…
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119. At 50: My Biggest Lessons of a Life Well Lived
“Honesty without kindness is just cruel. But kindness without honesty is manipulation. And honesty with kindness, that’s divine. So I think that’s an inquiry that serves us well to live in, like, ‘How can I be honest?’ ‘How can I be transparent in a way that also takes into account her...
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118. You Will Never Grow, If You Don’t Do This
“One of the benefits of having this tool, knowing how to hold other men accountable, is that you get to call men into their greatness. You get to help your kids, your partners, your friends, and your own life step into greatness. So, this is not just a tool for your benefit; it’s about developing...
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117. Conflict to Connection: How to End & Repair Unnecessary Conflict
“Sometimes the initiation of conflict is really a bid for connection. It’s really a desire to figure out how we can get this connection going again. A thriving intimate relationship through conflict and repair, it’s vital for us. It’s vital for our health, for our longevity and for our children....
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116. Are You Sure Your Partner Feels Safe With You?
“Getting into a relationship is one of the most courageous acts that men and women can have. Each of us are bringing our own pain and suffering into a relationship, and now trying to work it out between two couples. Not only that, everybody’s walking into a new relationship with a 100% breakup…
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115. Our Experience Surrendering Control to Gain Real Power
“Pretending to have control where we don’t only leads to losing ourselves in the chaos…Embracing this, we learn to dance with uncertainty, finding true power not in control, but in acceptance and adaptability.” – Tait Today on Men, This Way: 6:30 – The overwhelming complexities of life and…
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Welcome to Bridging Connections (formerly known as "Men This Way"). Join your host Bryan Reeves — former U.S. Air Force captain, renowned author, and professional coach to men, women, and couples – alongside his lifelong best friend and leadership coach, Tait Arend, as together they tackle the essential, raw conversations we all need to be having on the most important subjects our lives: relationships, purpose, health, spirituality, and more. Dive deep into the things that matter and explore the connections that bind us all.
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Bryan Reeves & Tait Arend
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