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By the Bi
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By the Bi is a podcast for curious minds and open hearts—whether you’re bi, non-monogamous, kinky, or just wondering what it’s like to step outside the hetero-norm. Hosted by a bisexual expat couple, Bradford and Angela, based in Sydney, we dive into real conversations about bisexuality, swinging, open relationships, BDSM, and the messy, beautiful realities of non-traditional love and sex. Every episode blends personal stories with thoughtful discussions, listener questions, interviews with guests from around the globe, and the occasional cocktail-fuelled confession. We don’t have all the answers—but we’re not afraid to ask the questions your vanilla friends won’t touch. Whether you’re exploring your own sexuality, seeking practical advice, or just want to feel seen, By the Bi offers a welcoming, inclusive space for everyone across the spectrum. So pull up a seat, pour yourself something tasty, and let’s talk about the things no one else will. Oh, and by the b
Episodes
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449 - From Flamingos to Pineapples
Two cities, two lifestyle venues, and plenty of stories to tell! This week on By the Bi, Bradford and Angela take you along for a little adventure as they share their experiences visiting Flamingo Penrith and Pineapples Lifestyle Bar in Melbourne. From first impressions and the atmosphere to the...
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448 - BiSHH Discussion
Bisexual+ people are often overlooked in research, so what happens when a study focuses entirely on us? This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford dive into the groundbreaking BiSHH (Bi+ Sexual Health and HIV) Study from UNSW. As a member of the study’s advisory panel, Angela shares what makes...
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447 - Is Pride Still Relevant
Every June, the world turns rainbow. Companies update their logos, Pride festivals fill city streets, and social media overflows with messages of support. For many LGBTQ+ people, it's a celebration of how far we've come. For others, it raises some uncomfortable questions. Has Pride become too...
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446 - Discover Your Relationship Style
Angela and Bradford get delightfully real (and a little spicy) about The Bonding Project (https://www.bondingproject.com/) from the Center for Positive Sexuality; a research-driven relationship quiz that’s basically Myers-Briggs for intimacy, mapping how you bond across dimensions like stability…
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445 - Finding Your People: Community and Connection
In this episode of By the Bi, we’re diving into the importance of community within bisexual, non-monogamous, and kink spaces. We talk about why having a sense of belonging matters so much, especially when your identity or lifestyle sits outside the mainstream and how the right community can…
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444 - Annual Check-In
In this episode of By the Bi, we sit down for our annual relationship check-in and we decided to invite you along. This is an unscripted, intimate conversation about love, desire, communication, and the life we’re actively building together. We talk about what feels good, what feels stuck, and...
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443 - Jingle Balls
NOTE: THIS IS NOT A RE-RELEASE! THIS IS NEW!!!!! (And you're gonna love it!) You ask for it… again and again. This week on By the Bi, things get steamy, sticky, and just a little bit stripped down as we revisit one of our most unforgettable indulgences with The Gentleman. There’s heat, there’s...
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442 - New Kink Unlocked
This week on By the Bi, Bradford spills the tea on a recent Grindr hookup that turned into something way more than just a quick fling. What started as a bit of fun quickly unlocked a whole new kink he didn’t see coming—and now he can’t stop thinking about it. Angela digs into the juicy details as...
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441 - Xcape to the Tropics 2025 Live
This week on By the Bi, we’re coming to you live from the sun-drenched, pleasure-filled playground of Xcape to the Tropics 2025! Join Angela and Bradford as they soak up the vibes, connect with the community, and dive into the sexy, adventurous, and sometimes downright outrageous moments that…
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440 - Authenticity
Hello all… it’s been a minute, but we are back! This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford dive deep into a topic that underpins everything in the lifestyle — authenticity. Whether you’re navigating polyamory, kink, or just trying to show up as your whole self in everyday life, authenticity can…
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439 - Destigmatizing STIs ... Still
Due to travel schedules, this week’s episode is a rerelease. This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford tackle a topic that’s often shrouded in silence and stigma: sexually transmitted infections (STIs). In this powerful episode, we delve into the realities and misconceptions surrounding STIs,...
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438 - Pubic Hair Through the Ages #undereggs
From the sugared thighs of Ancient Egypt to the shimmering vajazzles of the 2000s, this solo episode dives deep into the sensual, political, and power-laden history of pubic hair removal. Bradford takes Angela on an intimate journey through time—where grooming rituals weren’t just about beauty…
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437 - Museum of Desire
This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford take you inside their cheeky adventure at Melbourne’s Museum of Desire — an immersive playground of sensuality, art, and introspection. While wandering through this unique space, we found ourselves face-to-face with a Never Have I Ever game built for…
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436 - Stripping off Shame: Body Confidence in the Lifestyle
In this solo episode, Angela opens up about the emotional rollercoaster of body image in non-monogamous and kink spaces. From first-party nerves to reclaiming confidence at every age and size, she shares personal stories, practical tips, and empowering insights on navigating body shame and...
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435 - Do You Recall?
RERELEASE: Get ready for a thrilling ride on this week’s episode of By the Bi, where Angela turns host for a game of high stakes and high voltage called “By the Bi - I Hope I Don’t Die!” Listen as Bradford and The Gentleman put their sex trivia knowledge to the test, with each correct answer...
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434 - Shenanigeese & Shenaniganders
This week on By the Bi, Angela sits down with a very cheeky Bradford to unpack his latest solo travel adventures—and let’s just say, things got spicy. From spontaneous Sniffies hookups and steamy cruise room encounters to massages that definitely crossed into naughty territory, Bradford’s been...
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433 - To Club or Not When in Perth
This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford had one goal: a sexy, well-planned dirty weekend. What actually happened? Well… let’s just say, things didn’t quite go according to plan. From unexpected detours to logistical hiccups (and Bradford going delightfully off the rails more than once), this...
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432 - Blue Cinema History
Before streaming, before OnlyFans, before incognito mode — there were blue cinemas. This week, we’re peeling back the curtain on the forgotten world of adult movie theaters: where porn was communal, seats were sticky, and trench coats weren’t just for the weather. We’re talking about how these...
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431 - Navigating the Drop
This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford dive into a topic that doesn’t get talked about nearly enough—the post-kink and party drop. Whether it’s after an intense BDSM scene, an emotionally charged connection, or a euphoric night at a lifestyle event, the crash that follows can be real, raw…
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430 - Party Time
Venture beyond the velvet rope with us into a world where fantasy meets reality in grand, public settings. From the anticipation of dressing up to the thrill of stepping into a room buzzing with like-minded adventurers, discover what makes these events a magnet for those curious about or deeply...
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429 - And We're Back!
We’re back, baby! After a little time away, we’re reconnecting, recharging, and ready to dive back into all things By the Bi. In this episode, we catch you up on where we’ve been, what’s been brewing, and how damn good it feels to be back in your ears. But that’s not all—strap in as we take you...
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428 - Pegging Pleasure
Dive deep into the exhilarating world of pegging with our special double feature re-release of Episodes 83 and 84 of By the Bi! In these fan-favorite episodes, Angela and Bradford explore everything you need to know about pegging—from the basics of getting started to advanced tips for those…
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427 - Biconic Mardi Gras 2025
Join Angela and Bradford on a vibrant journey in this episode of By the Bi as they recount their exhilarating experience marching with Biconic at the Mardi Gras parade. Immerse yourself in the pulsating beats, vivid colors, and spirited cheers that define one of the most iconic celebrations of...
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426 - Tales of Recent Debauchery
This week we talk about some of our excursions and play we’ve had at Chateau Vino in Gold Cost, an afternoon with The Gentleman, and more! Sit back and enjoy some sexy stories. Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On...
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425 - Let's Play We're Not Really Strangers
Dive into the heart of understanding and intimacy on this episode of By the Bi as Angela and Bradford play “We’re Not Really Strangers” with guests Coby and Judy. This thought-provoking card game is designed to deepen the connections between players through a series of personal and insightful...
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424 - Our First Lifestyle Cruise
Pack your bags and grab your lanyards—Bradford and Angela are setting sail on their first-ever swingers cruise! In this episode of By the Bi, we’re taking you behind the scenes of the ultimate floating lifestyle experience. From the anticipation of stepping aboard to the steamy encounters at sea,...
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423 - A Look Into 2025
Ring in the new year with a heartfelt look back and an eager gaze forward on this episode of By the Bi. Join Angela and Bradford as they revisit the hopes and goals they set at the stroke of last New Year’s Eve, exploring the victories, the challenges, and everything in-between. From personal...
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422 - Holiday
Well it’s that time of year…. Take care of yourselves. We love you. Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat here Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BytheBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast On Instagram @BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Please…
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421 - Flagging
Step into the colorful world of queer flagging on this episode of By the Bi. Angela and Bradford explore the intricate and historical art of flagging, a coded language of colors and patterns used within the LGBTQ+ community to express identity, desires, and boundaries. Originating in the...
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420 - Live at Xcape to the Tropics 2024
Join Angela and Bradford for a very special live episode of By the Bi, broadcasting directly from the sun-soaked and sensational Xcape to the Tropics 2024! Dive into the heart of this exotic getaway as our hosts share their experiences, interviews, and unexpected adventures from one of the…
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419 - Exploring a Swiss Sauna
This week on By the Bi, strap in for a hot and steamy recount as Bradford shares his tantalizing tales from Renos Relaxing, a popular gay sauna in Zurich. Join Angela and Bradford as they delve into a series of sexy adventures that unfold behind the sauna’s discreet doors. From flirtatious...
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418 - Unicorn Tales
This week on By the Bi, join Angela and special guest Spanky as they delve into the vibrant and often misunderstood world of being a single lady in the lifestyle community. From navigating social dynamics to embracing personal empowerment, this episode offers a candid look at the challenges and...
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417 - Sexy Holiday Prep
Join Angela and Bradford as they revisit a hot favorite on By the Bi—packing for a sexy vacation! This episode isn’t just about what to bring; it’s a full-on preparation guide for the upcoming Xcape to the Tropics 2024, featuring tantalizing new themes like Pop Culture and Dirty Dizney. Dive into...
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416 - Urban Myths
Dive deep into the world of non-monogamy with Angela and Bradford in this enlightening episode of By the Bi as they tackle common urban myths about open relationships, kink, and sex. From the misconception that open relationships lack love, to the idea that they’re just about sex, this episode…
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415 - Return to the Erotic Ball
Step behind the velvet rope with Angela and Spanky in this titillating episode of By the Bi as they recount their exhilarating night at The Erotic Ball. Known for its daring displays and uninhibited atmosphere, The Erotic Ball serves as the perfect backdrop for exploring themes of freedom…
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414 - Sexual Identity Evolution Over a Lifetime
Dive into the fluid journey of sexual identity with Angela and Bradford in this profound episode of By the Bi. We explore how sexual identity can transform from childhood through old age, influenced by personal experiences, societal changes, and shifting cultural norms. Join us as we discuss our...
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413 - Sextech Talks with FirmTech
This week, By the Bi takes a deep dive into the cutting-edge world of sextech, starting with an exclusive interview with the creator of the innovative FirmTech cock ring, Doctor Elliot Justin. Discover the science and inspiration behind this revolutionary device designed to enhance pleasure and...
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412 - MSP3K IV Cost of Swinging
This week on By the Bi, join Angela and Bradford as they channel their inner MST3K to poke fun at their past selves while unraveling the often overlooked costs of the swinging lifestyle. Swinging isn’t just a social endeavor; it can also be a costly one. From exclusive club memberships to the...
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411 - What's In Santa's Sack
Ho ho ho—it’s Christmas in July on this week’s episode of By the Bi! Join Angela and Bradford as they bring the holiday cheer to the heat of summer with a visit to Between Friends for their Christmas in July Party. This isn’t your typical holiday gathering; instead of snowflakes and sleigh bells,...
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410 - Healing and Growing with Orange Counseling and Coaching
This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford dive into the transformative world of therapy, counseling, and coaching with an expert from Orange Counselling and Coaching. Discover the profound impact these practices can have on personal growth, relationship dynamics, and overall well-being. Join us...
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409 - Who is Hillsong Boy
This week we dive into coming out & religion with an interview with the creative team behind Hillsong Boy. Hillsong Boy chronicles the weird and wonderful experiences of ex-Hillsonger, Scott Parker. During his twenty years with the megachurch he experienced the dizzying heights of Christian...
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408 - To Turtle or To Volcano
Coming out can be one of the most pivotal moments in someone’s life. This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford delve into the emotional spectrum of coming out experiences. Do you “turtle,” retreating into your shell to protect yourself, or do you “volcano,” erupting with a bold declaration of...
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407 - 7 Year Itch
Join Angela, Bradford, and The Gentleman in a deeply personal episode of By the Bi, as they reflect on their seven-year journey in a polyamorous relationship. This week, they open up about the evolving dynamics, challenges, and triumphs of their shared love and commitment. Does the proverbial...
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406 - Shocking Trivia
Get ready for a thrilling ride on this week’s episode of By the Bi, where Angela turns host for a game of high stakes and high voltage called “By the Bi - I Hope I Don’t Die!” Listen as Bradford and The Gentleman put their sex trivia knowledge to the test, with each correct answer earning them a...
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405 - Velvet & Rocky Horror Pendulum
Step into the world of decadence and drama on this week’s episode of By the Bi, as Angela, Bradford, and their special guest, The Gentleman, recount the thrills of the recent Velvet kink party and the Rocky Horror Pendulum Party. Dive into the seductive details of these extravagant events, where...
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403 - Destigmatizing STIs
This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford tackle a topic that’s often shrouded in silence and stigma: sexually transmitted infections (STIs). In this powerful episode, we delve into the realities and misconceptions surrounding STIs, aiming to foster a more understanding and informed…
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402 - Double Header Weekend
This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford dive into the exhilarating world of the classic swingers’ double header weekend, sharing their steamy tales from back-to-back nights at the swingers club, Our Secret Spot. From the electric atmosphere of Friday’s Newbie night to the heightened...
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401 - Newbies Again!
Dive into a night of discovery and excitement with us on By the Bi, as Angela, Bradford, and a very special guest, Jen, embark on an unforgettable journey to Our Secret Spot for a “Newbie’s Night.” Jen, who has never stepped foot in a swingers club before, offers a fresh and exhilarating...
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400 - The Journey
🎉 Welcome to the monumental 400th episode of By the Bi! 🎉 Angela and Bradford are here to take you on a spectacular journey through the milestones, memories, and magical moments that have defined our podcast. In this landmark celebration, we dive into the essence of discovery, connection, and…
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399.5 - Back to the Start
Just when anticipation for Episode 400 reached its peak, we’re taking a momentous step back… to where it all began. In this special interlude episode, Angela and Bradford invite you on a nostalgic journey back to the origins of By the Bi, re-releasing our very first and our 31st episodes. It’s a...
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
By the Bi is a podcast for curious minds and open hearts—whether you’re bi, non-monogamous, kinky, or just wondering what it’s like to step outside the hetero-norm. Hosted by a bisexual expat couple, Bradford and Angela, based in Sydney, we dive into real conversations about bisexuality, swinging, open relationships, BDSM, and the messy, beautiful realities of non-traditional love and sex.
Every episode blends personal stories with thoughtful discussions, listener questions, interviews with guests from around the globe, and the occasional cocktail-fuelled confession. We don’t have all the answers—but we’re not afraid to ask the questions your vanilla friends won’t touch. Whether you’re exploring your own sexuality, seeking practical advice, or just want to feel seen, By the Bi offers a welcoming, inclusive space for everyone across the spectrum. So pull up a seat, pour yourself something tasty, and let’s talk about the things no one else will. Oh, and by the b
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By the Bi is a podcast for curious minds and open hearts—whether you’re bi, non-monogamous, kinky, or just wondering what it’s like to step outside the hetero-norm. Hosted by a bisexual expat couple, Bradford and Angela, based in Sydney, we dive into real conversations about bisexuality, swinging,...
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