Challenges Won't Stop Me

Cheryl Bonds joins me today to discuss the mindset of breaking generational curses.If you missed Cheryl’s story interview, episode 147, I strongly urge you to listen to it as it will give you context as to why this mindset was so powerful in her journey.What is a generational curse?According to Christian author and speaker Amanda Pittman, a generational curse is “a spiritual or a behavioral pattern that is passed down through family lines because of sin, idolatry, or rebellion. It’s when the same struggles show up in the same family for generations.”Destructive behavioral patterns were definitely part of Cheryl’s maternal family line. Cheryl had experienced harmful emotional, physical, financial, and educational outcomes in her childhood and young adult years. When Cheryl was incarcerated, the writing was on the wall. She was continuing the destructive behaviors/ the generational curses. God met her in prison and offered her salvation and forgave her sins. With God’s help, Cheryl became intentional about breaking the generational curses that had hurt her in so many ways. Notable quotes:·         “So, my mother when she got mad, she just wouldn’t speak. I started seeing that in my personality.”·         “I don’t ever recall her ever saying, ‘I love you.’ Matter of fact, she called me, ‘bad seed.’”·         “God would show me things – one thing at a time. This is what’s going on. This is how you need to deal with it.”·         “And that’s like with a curse. You gotta stop it. You gotta put an end to it because it’ll just start getting’ bigger and bigger and bigger. Generation after generation.”·         “I think about that morning in that prison. If I hadn’t surrendered, where would my children be today?”Bible verses:·         Proverbs 18:21·         Deuteronomy 28:13·         Philippians 4:7·         Galatians 5:1·         Proverbs 20:7Learn more about Cheryl:her website: https://www.cherylbonds.comher Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/cheryl.bonds.520her Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cherylbonds2025Buy her book, From Chains to Chosen: A Journey From Prison to Purpose, on Amazon! Send me a COMMENT or QUESTION!THANK YOU FOR LISTENING! Want to leave a comment about this episode? Click HERE!

We don't choose how we were conceived, who our parents are, or where we are born. The miracle of birth can be overshadowed if one or more of these conditions are unfavorable.A baby born to a mother who is in a prison has a 30% chance of following in his or her mother's footsteps. Today's guest, author and speaker Cheryl Bonds, experienced all three unfavorable conditions when she was born, as well as being one who fit the term 'intergenerationally incarcerated.'In her interview, Cheryl describes how her birth announcement - "It's a girl, inmate 2029" - was blasted over the prison intercom. Just as the statistics describe, Cheryl's childhood included food insecurity, behavioral challenges, poverty, little to no education, subpar housing, and the potential to be a target to predators. Pregnant at an early age. Domestic violence. Alcohol and drug abuse. All connected to a young woman who lacked social skills, was hungry for attention, couldn't read, and didn't have any coping skills.BUT GOD . . . Cheryl admits serving time in prison was exactly what she needed. God met her there and completely changed her life. He gave her a life that replaced 'unwanted' with 'chosen.' 'Unloved' with 'loved.' 'Unforgiveable' with 'forgiven.' 'Hopeless' with 'full of hope.'Notable quotes:* "I thought this is life, so at a very early age, I learned survival mode."* "I was so disgusted with myself. I pled guilty and refused to testify, so that nailed my coffin. And I didn't care. I didn't even like me."* When I saw that, God spoke to my heart. He said, 'I just give you a snapshot of your legacy.'"Bible verses:* Cheryl's fight verses: 1 Peter 5:6 and 2 Samuel 7:18-19Learn more about Cheryl:her website: https://www.cherylbonds.comher Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/cheryl.bonds.520her Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cherylbonds2025Buy her book, From Chains to Chosen: A Journey From Prison to Purpose, on Amazon! Send me a COMMENT or QUESTION!THANK YOU FOR LISTENING! Want to leave a comment about this episode? Click HERE!

 Linda Goldfarb is back to chat about a mindset that helps her during any challenge that dares to intersect her path.How do you respond to circumstances? Is your response the same regardless if the circumstance brings joy or if it brings struggle?Linda decided long ago that it doesn't matter what comes her way, she trusts God.How Linda starts her day is something you'll want to remember and implement, so grab a pen and paper. Jot down the Bible verses that remind her that all of life's circumstances can be met with a simple but powerful response: God is with me.Notable quotes:* "It's an AMEN day. I heartily agree with whatever God brings my way."* "I call my Bible my life manual."* "I, at times, will look at my life and say, 'If I'm walking through this fire, I will trust you in the midst of it.'"* "My God can save me from any fire if I need saving. If it is not His will for the saving, then it is His will for the refining."Bible verses:* Luke 12:7* Romans 10:17* 1 Peter 1:8* John 15:11* John 14:27* John 17:24* Isaiah 57:1* James 1:5-6* Philippians 4:8* Luke 19:40* Philippians 4:7* 2 Timothy 1:7Connect with Linda:~ on her website: www.lindagoldfarb.com~ on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/linda.goldfarb~ on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/texasgoldfarbSend me a COMMENT or QUESTION!THANK YOU FOR LISTENING! Want to leave a comment about this episode? Click HERE!

Today's guest, Linda Goldfarb, is both a Bible nerd and a joy-filled story teller. She knows this beautiful combination of interests and abilities is God's doing. The tough challenges Linda's faced throughout her life were not wasted as God intentionally used them to equip and empower her to write vbooks, to speak messages that encourage believers, to host a podcast that provides tools for authors and speakers, and to offer Christian coaching to help believers reach their goals. Notable quotes:* "Evidently I was just hungry for someone to want to want to participate in my life."* "And I will tell you I have become an amazing performer. I didn't know that was goping to be one of my superpowers."* "In that moment is when Jesus said, 'You know if it was only you, Linda. If it was only you, I would be on the cross for you. And in that moment He became my Savior.'"* "When God says it, that settles it."Bible verses:* Psalm 42:1* Linda's fight verse: James 1:22 "Do not merely listen to the word and so deceive yourselves; do what it says."Connect with Linda:~ on her website: lindagoldfarb.com~ on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/linda.goldfarb~ on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/texasgoldfarbSend me a COMMENT or QUESTION!THANK YOU FOR LISTENING! Want to leave a comment about this episode? Click HERE!

My friend, Lindsey Arcaro, who is the worship pastor at my church - The Square - joins me again to discuss how lyrics to a song poured out of her during her deepest grief. Those tear-filled words became the worship song “Worthy of a Hallelujah.”Lindsey shares how walking in alignment with God leads to opportunities for us to experience what we were made for.Memorable quotes: ·        “I don’t want to go lead this in front of our church. I’m notgrateful right now.”·        “Lord, I don’t need a word right now. I just need you to comeand be with me ‘cause I got nothing for you.”·        “As much as I was staying up holding my son at night, He wasstaying up holding me.”·        “He showed me He doesn’t check out when it gets hard, and if itfeels like I can’t trace His hand, I can still trust His heart for me is good.”·        “I could choose an easy life, but I’m always going to feelempty at the end of the day if I’m not walking in alignment with Jesus.”Bible verses: ·        Psalm 27:13·        2 Corinthians 12:9·        Colossians 3:2-3Connect with Lindsey on Facebook athttps://www.facebook.com/lindseyarcaro and on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/lindseyarcaro_WATCH Lindsey sing “Worth of a Hallelujah” here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=leSfW_d2PCs&list=RDleSfW_d2PCs&start_radio=1Send me a COMMENT or QUESTION!THANK YOU FOR LISTENING! Want to leave a comment about this episode? Click HERE!

My friend, Lindsey Arcaro, who is the worship pastor at my church - The Square - joins me today to share her story of overcoming a miscarriage and her son's neurological diagnosis. Lindsey and her husband, Braden, have been married for eleven years andhave a daughter and a son. Lindsey doesn't sugarcoat the pain she went through in either of thosechallenges. Instead, she is vulnerable and admits she just wanted to hide. Memorable quotes: * "I laid on the couch with my dog all day and just wept because Iwas trying to reconcile what I was experiencing in my body and what I had heardthe Lord say." * "I felt life in me and now it was gone. And it was a tremendousfeeling of emptiness." * "When you have something that happens in your home that no oneelse has seen to the degree that you're seeing it, sometimes you can feel likeyou're a crazy person." * "And we get the opportunity in suffering to partner with God and believe in faith." * "They're not gonna find hope in my story. Find hope in Jesus in my story." Bible verses: * Psalm 139:7 * Psalm 27:13* Isaiah 53:3 * Psalm 138:8 * James 1:2-4 * Psalm 23:1-2 * Hebrews 12:2 * Lindsey's fight verse: 1 Corinthians 2:2 Connect withLindsey on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/lindseyarcaro and on Instagramat https://www.instagram.com/lindseyarcaro_Send me a COMMENT or QUESTION!THANK YOU FOR LISTENING! Want to leave a comment about this episode? Click HERE!

What aspects of your faith would you consider to be creative?If you are having a hard time thinking of any, you’re not alone. Almost every five-year-old believes he or she is creative, but very few adults do.God is a creative God. And He made you to be creative!Today’s guest, Pam Farrel, shares how she discovered Bible art and how it has impacted her faith. Notable quotes:·         “The purpose isn’t to become the world’s greatest Bible artist who has her work in the Louvre. It’s to help you grow with God.”·         “The second thing I love and is so about the character of God in that if you are doing anything creative . . . the part of your brain where your problems reside is taken offline because the creative part has more power.”·         “Being creative will actually help your problems go away.”Bible verses: ·         Psalm 42:7,8, 11·         Psalm 23·         Psalm 5:12·         Isaiah 61:3Connect with Pam Farrel:·         Her website: www.love-wise.com·         Facebook: www.facebook.com/pamelafarrel.author.3·         Instagram: www.instagram.com/lovewise62Send me a COMMENT or QUESTION!THANK YOU FOR LISTENING! Want to leave a comment about this episode? Click HERE!

How have you seen God’s fingerprints during your challenges?It could've been the right person at the right time. Or the cancerous mass no longer showing on the scan. Or your bills being paid by an unknown source. God IS with us during our challenges. And He still does miracles.Today’s guest, author and speaker Pam Farrel, shares about how challenges with her weight, being diagnosed with diabetes, being put into a medically induced coma after going into diabetic ketosis, being diagnosed with ovarian cancer were tough. But God left His fingerprints during each of them. She sought to learn what God wanted to teach her during those times. Notable quotes:·         “At the end of that year, I lost fifty pounds. And eventually lost seventy. And for a decade, I’ve kept it off.”·         “So it was a huge victory. But it was also a huge wake up call.”·         “From the moment I went into my coma, God was wrapped around me.”·         “I’m still restoring, rejuvenating, refreshing, rebuilding. I need resilience. And God is the one who arms me with strength day by day by day.”Bible verses: ·         1 Corinthians 11:1·         Ephesians 3:20·         Fight verse ~ Psalm 18:32·         Philippians 1:11Connect with Pam Farrel:·         Her website: www.love-wise.com·         Facebook: www.facebook.com/pamelafarrel.author.3·         Instagram: www.instagram.com/lovewise62Send me a COMMENT or QUESTION!THANK YOU FOR LISTENING! Want to leave a comment about this episode? Click HERE!