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Conversations With Yaya
by Conversations With Yaya
10x Author from Brooklyn. There's a song for everythingFor my books visit www.byayanaellis.com #GodTherapyMusicWriting
Episodes
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Strict Program
I know that saying your man runs a strict program is supposed to be a flex, but sometimes it isn't the flex that you think it is. Pay attention to how YOU begin to change and the things you Stop doing once you're in a relationship. Possession and Protection are two different things.
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Young Hearts Run Free
Candi Stanton wrote that hit song after her husband dangled her over a 20 story balcony in Vegas threatening to kill her. She told him the hotel was owned by the mob and they would kill him for bringing this type of press to their business. He then pulled her up and pulled a gun on her. Thank God...
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Why Don't You Just Leave????????????
This question is often asked with judgement. But take the time to understand what's going on inside the mind of an abused woman and just how dangerous these men are. We see it on the news every single day, women are being murdered for trying to leave their abuser. So, though you don't understand...
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Where Were You?
After the chaos, after the healing, after the silence…How do you show up for someone you care about once their rough season ends?And how do you open the door when they try to show up for you?There’s no one‑size‑fits‑all answer. It’s layered.Have a listen — let’s unpack it together.
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They Don't Like You!
One of the main mistakes people in abusive relationships make is trying to love their abuser into becoming a different person.They try to FIX their abuser.No matter what you do, you can't change someone that is committed to abusing you.Save your loveSave yourselfTHEY DONT LIKE YOUTHEY DONT LIKE...
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Abusive Friendships
Do not let it be lost on you that your friend group or friendships can be abusive too. Watch out for those mean girls that are quick to put you on blast rather than put you on. Or quick to call you out rather than call you inward.No form of abuse should be tolerated in any relationship that you...
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Domestic Violence and Sexual Abuse
Domestic Violence Awareness Month means speaking on the hard things — and today, I’m sitting down with Sexpert Kimi Levadge @Kimilevadge to break open the connection between domestic violence and sexual abuse. These conversations save lives. These truths matter.We’re here to educate, empower, and...
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The Cycle aka Psychological Conditioning
DV has a cycle called Psychological Conditioning, meant to confuse you, isolate you, and make chaos feel normal. The four stages are:tension - you can feel it in the air!!! Its coming! You begin walking around on eggshellsincident - the abuse occursreconciliation - apologies, "love", being…
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Let's Talk Domestic Violence
This month on the podcast, I’m diving into the realities of domestic violence, relationships, mental health, sexual abuse and the conversations we don’t have enough. October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month, and I’m using this space to spread knowledge, deepen understanding, and highlight the...
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Yes Men
I don't know about you. But I don't want nor do I need any yes men in my life nor will I be in anyone's life that requires that of me. I'm too old for that nonsense. what about you?
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Rico
It's time to stop going back and forth with people thinking that they can disrespect you. Put an end to it.
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Closure
Is it a scam or is it necessary? I guess it depends on what YOU need. Let's discuss.
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Monitoring Spirts (sleeping with the enemy) Part 2
I posted a video about the man you're in a relationship with being the possible monitoring spirit that you can't identify and a friend mine had some things today. Ladies and gents, Sexpert Kimi Levadge lol @kimilevadge
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Monitoring Spirits
The topic of monitoring spirits always relates to friends and family, but what about that man that you share a bed, child, vows with... Why isn't he ever on the docket?
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God Did
When I stopped making my own plans and demands, God stepped in in a major way for me. I hope that he does the same for you!
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Turning 50 and Not Caring
Ladies is it just me? What is it about getting closer to 50 or actually turning 50 that really takes away all of your fux to give? What is happening? Whatever it is, I like it, what about you?
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No More Drama
I hear you screaming no more drama, but why are you always in some?
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Where Have You Been?
We sometimes lose ourselves in life, responsibilities, relationships, all of these things and etc. It's time to come back outside now darling. Streets need a body.
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Thug Changes, Love Changes and Best Friends Become Strangers
Friendships are supposed to evolve. But some of them can't survive the inevitable change that we all will endure. Let's discuss!
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Misplaced Positivity
Sometimes we just want the people in our lives to match our energy and be just as pissed as we are about something. There's a time and a place for positivity and support. I know you have my back and that you want this situation to turn around for me but sometimes your loved one just wants you to...
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GIRL!!
Social media will have you believing that you can't trust anyone. I refuse to believe that. WHERE ARE YOUR PEOPLE?
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Stop Mistreating Yourself
I hear you complaining a lot about how messed up everyone treats you except for yourself. What about you? When are you going to take accountability for what you allow?
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Friend or Foe
We all like to think we are special, but when you truly study someone's character you will quickly realize that they will treat you exactly how they treat everyone else, be it good or bad.So, if you ever been around someone that talks about someone as soon as they get up from the table or tells…
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Be Good To Yourself
Be good to yourself. There’s no guarantee anyone else will.Protect your peace, honor your needs, and treat yourself with the same care you give everybody else.
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Does Healing Make You Mean?
I don't think healing makes you mean, I just think it makes you mean what you say. Let's talk about it nicely.
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LIVE FOR THE MOMENT
Some people will spend a lifetime on healing and deeply focused on self-improvement that they forget to live in the present. Don't let that go over your head.
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Interview with PR Legend Lynn Hobson
Hey Guys! Check out my interview with PR Legend Lynn Hobson as I discuss my books, my journey, where I've been and where I'm going!
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Shoot the Messenger
Be mindful of folks running to tell you what someone else said about you under the guise that they're looking out for you.Some folks are messy and want to see you hurt, more importantly they're too much of a coward to tell you how they feel about you, so they hide behind telling you what other...
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Mind Your Business
Mind your business sometimes! Some people just want attention for their situation not actual guidance and sound advice. You will be left feeling drained while they skip off into the sunset in blissful ignorance.
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I Apologize
Apologize to yourself the same way you’d ask for forgiveness if you hurt someone else. You deserve your own grace, too. Forgive yourself for not knowing better before you learned better. 💛
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Who Do You Think You Are?
When someone tells you that you should be humble or when someone passive aggressively casts doubt on your confidence, please believe that he, she or they are not your tribe.
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Trailer
Talk To Me Nice Podcast hosted by Ayana Ellis is like therapy set to music.
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Accountability
If someone that hurt you spun the block and admitted to what they did and they sincerely apologize, is that enough to forgive? Discernment is always key in these situations but let's talk about it real quick.
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PSA - Be The Villian
They say healing makes you mean, I say healing makes you mean what you say. Don't worry about defending your name in rooms where people are hell bent on misunderstanding you. Be the Villain in their story and be a damn good one!
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Black Roses
Friendship breakups are rough but sometimes necessary. Let's talk about it.
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The Big Age
You will hear it time and time again that when you reach a certain age, you have no fux to give. I used to think it was a myth, well I'll be damned it's true! Press Play.
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MIND YOUR BUSINESS
Sometimes you have to sit back and let people do what they need to do on their own. Alot of people really do need your help and advice while others just want attention and they end up wasting your time. Know when it's time to step back and mind your business.
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Don't Be a Dumb Bitch
We're at the big age now where you should be way past making these kinds of decisions. I'm not here to judge but ...baby what is you doing? Let's chat!
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Mean Girls
My theory on mean girls/men is that they never experienced love in any capacity. It is my belief that our behavior as adults can be traced back to our childhood.
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Where Have You Been?
Sometimes we get so caught up in life, surviving, living, healing etc that we forget to live!!!!!! Next thing you know, years done went by and you don't even know who you are any more. But then one day you wake up And everything you went through is beautiful. If you can relate, this episode is…
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Celebrate Me
Your life is worthy of praise, no matter how big or small the accomplishment. No matter who's clapping for you or not, make sure to clap for yourself, always!
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WHERE MY GIRLS AT?
Did you know that it's a scientific fact that the woman you hang around the most can affect you physically, emotionally, mentally, spiritually, and financially? Let's have a ponderosa about the benefits of having great women around you and how you reaction around women says more about you than it...
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I'M WALKING
When you pray to God, "Show Me How Good It Can Get" be prepared for what he's going to give you but most importantly what he's going to take away. Certain paths or meant to be traveled alone. Come and talk to me!
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Talk to Me Nice - Trailer
Talk To Me Nice is unsolicited advice with music as the catalyst. Come join this party of one with Author, Ayana Ellis, Wednesdays at 4pm.
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Laugh At My Pain
The way this generation finds it so funny when people get their heart broken and how they villainize the victim in the situation, is delusional and vile to me. I thought about this as I watched the entire internet tear Meg the Stallion down after she got her heart publicly broken. I have a...
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What Is Talk to Me Nice - Trailer
I'm giving this podcast thing one more try! And you know what? Hell yeah, I love it here! Join my party of one as I combine music and advice to get us through this thing called life! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts and Youtube! Tell A Friend!
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Persona Non Grata - Unwelcomed Person
Inspired by the horrible news of Tina Campbell's (Mary Mary) husband Teddy filing for divorce after 25 years a slave, I want to talk about why forgiveness is overrated and closure needs to stop being romanticized. When someone violates me, they become Persona Non Grata, period.
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DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IS ON THE RISE!
As a survivor and advocate for Domestic Violence Awareness, it's breaking my heart how week after week a black woman is being murdered by her partner. What in the world is going on? Please God.... Week after week there's been a black woman in the news.... I'm beyond wrecked about this. DOMESTIC...
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Persona Non Grata - Snippet
I'm discussing Tina Campbell of Mary Mary's situation. If you're unaware, her husband of 25 years filed for divorce after she forgave him for cheating on her multiple times over the span of 25 years. Let's discuss the less respect you get the more you forgive. And why closure isn't necessary in...
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The Pivot - Allow me to reintroduce myself.... Again.
The Pivot is real, it’s scary, it takes confidence in yourself to reinvent yourself repeatedly. If you have a gift, fall in love with the pivot. Do it again and again and again!!!! I’ve found a million ways to pivot my career and this podcast, and I think I landed on my square for real this time....
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10x Author from Brooklyn. There's a song for everythingFor my books visit www.byayanaellis.com #GodTherapyMusicWriting
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