Dear Matchmaker
by Cat Cantrill
Dear Matchmaker is where you can turn for guidance and insight into all things dating, love & relationships. With the help of matchmaker and coach, Cat Cantrill, here you can learn important radical love habits, gain tools and gather information on how to attract true love into your life. Our goal at Dear Matchmaker is to help you find your forever person by giving you insight on how to navigate this crazy world of dating. We will bring you weekly episodes including guest interviews, on-air coaching, solo episodes and "Dear Matchmaker" segments where you can ask Cat questions to be answered here!
Episodes
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Transforming Relationships: Navigating Love with Cher Anderton
In this insightful episode of Dear Matchmaker, host Cat Cantrill welcomes guest Cher Anderton, a mental health therapist, speaker, and educator. They discuss the complexities of dating in today's world and the importance of self-love and self-discovery in navigating relationships. Cher shares her...
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Choosing Love: Finding Hope and Happiness in 2025
Join me as we reflect on how to reignite hope in your search for love, and why choosing to believe in yourself is the first step towards finding a meaningful relationship. This episode is a reminder that love starts from within and how embracing your value can transform your dating journey. In…
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The Art of Femininity: Building Genuine Relationships with Teal Elizabeth
Welcome to another enlightening episode of "Dear Matchmaker." Join me, as I journey into the transformative world of femininity and self-love alongside Teal Elizabeth, CEO and founder of Relax Into Love Coaching. Teal is a spiritual love and relationship coach specializing in helping…
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My Journey From Heart Break to Hope with Finding Arizona Podcast
In this engaging episode of "Dear Matchmaker," I invite you into my world as I share my personal journey from running a dance studio to becoming a dedicated matchmaker and dating coach. My story is one of resilience, transformation, and the passion for helping others find meaningful connections....
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The Key to Success in Online Dating is to Stop Doing This One Thing
In this thought-provoking episode of "Dear Matchmaker," we address the common pitfalls people encounter in the world of online dating. Many singles approach dating apps with skepticism, assuming that finding a meaningful connection online is improbable. However, with 60% of couples meeting online...
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Dating from the Heart: Embracing Your Inner Love Kitchen
In this unique and introspective episode of "Dear Matchmaker," we explore the concept of self-love and how it can transform your approach to relationships. Drawing inspiration from Don Miguel Ruiz's book, "The Mastery of Love," we dive into the profound metaphor of the "magical kitchen" within…
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Navigating Modern Dating: Your Burning Questions Answered
Join us for a special episode of "Dear Matchmaker," recorded live at the Iowa Podcast Awards. In this engaging session, we dive deep into the challenges and questions that singles face in the world of modern dating, offering practical advice and strategies for success. In this episode, we…
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Unlocking Self-Love: Dr. Lilli's Journey to Healing Relationship Patterns
In this episode of "Dear Matchmaker," engage in a thought-provoking conversation with the insightful Dr. Lilli, a naturopathic doctor and relationship expert dedicated to helping individuals transform their relationship patterns and cultivate self-love. Dr. Lilli's journey from overcoming…
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Boost Your Dating Confidence From The Inside Out With Mindi Anderson
In this empowering episode of "Dear Matchmaker," we dive deep into the world of health and wellness with Mindi, a dynamic and down-to-earth health coach with nearly 20 years of experience. With a focus on personalized health journeys, Mindi sheds light on her methods to help women of all ages...
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Reclaiming Your Life After Breakups with Janice Formichella
In this episode of "Dear Matchmaker," we sit down with the warm and insightful Janice, a dedicated breakup coach and self-care advocate. Janice's path from early marriage and heartbreaking divorce to becoming a guide for others navigating similar waters is as inspiring as it is enlightening. Her...
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Unleashing Your Authentic Self: A Conversation with Karen Seltz
In this episode of Dear Matchmaker, we’re joined by the brilliant and hilarious Karen Seltz, a Rapid Resolution Therapy (RRT) Facilitator, subconscious mind rewiring expert, and badass coach. Karen’s journey of overcoming addiction and depression using the same mind-rewiring techniques she now...
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100th Episode Special: Surprising Dating Lessons & Expert Advice for 2024
In this heartfelt 100th episode of Dear Matchmaker, we reflect on the incredible journey of the podcast and share our top six pieces of dating advice for 2024. Drawing on her years of experience as a matchmaker, Cat covers: Why people often don’t really know what they’re looking for in a partner....
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Cat's Ten Commandments for First Dates
In this special episode of Dear Matchmaker, your host Cat Cantrill shares her top ten commandments to guide you through your first date with confidence and poise. Whether you're new to dating or a seasoned pro, Cat's advice offers a fresh perspective on how to make your first date memorable and...
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Overcoming Hesitation: Finding Clarity in Your Relationship Journey
Show Notes: In this episode of Dear Matchmaker, we dive deep into the reasons behind hesitation in relationships and the importance of seeking clarity. If you find yourself stuck, unsure, or hesitant about pursuing a long-term relationship, this episode is for you. Key Takeaways: The significance...
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Unveiling the 2-3-5 Formula: A New Approach to Dating Success
In this episode of "Dear Matchmaker," Cat introduces her new 2-3-5 formula, a simple yet powerful approach to navigating the early stages of dating. Cat explains the significance of asking yourself two key questions after each date, giving a connection at least three dates to develop, and...
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Why Does Height Matter?
Welcome to another episode of Dear Matchmaker! It's great to be back! You can follow me here: https://www.tiktok.com/@catcantrill https://www.instagram.com/catcantrill/ https://www.facebook.com/catcantrill/
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How to Break Free from Narcissistic Relationships: Insights with Guest Genevieve Gresset
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The Path to True Connection with Sarah and Caleb from Othered the Podcast
Welcome to Dear Matchmaker! Join me in this special episode from the hosts of 'Othered" where we talk all things matchmaking, dating and connection! You can find Othered here: https://uploadmediagroup.com/othered And here: https://www.instagram.com/otheredthepodcast/
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Rewriting the Love Script: Confronting Fear, Embracing Change with Jean Atman
Welcome Jean Atman to Dear Matchmaker! Jean is a Soul Evolution Specialist and Quantum Healer. She assists purpose-driven women to embark on a soul-stirring journey of self-discovery, unearthing their true purpose and bravely confronting and releasing the shackles of their past. As they let go of...
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Unveiling Online Dating Pet Peeves: Three Common Mistakes to Avoid
In this episode of "Dear Matchmaker," Cat addresses three key pet peeves in online dating. First, she advises against demanding confirmation on the day of a date, arguing that it stems from insecurity and fear. Second, Cat discourages putting pressure on potential future dates immediately after…
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Love in the New Year: Shifting Mindsets for Dating Success
In this heartwarming episode of 'Dear Matchmaker,' your host, Cat, invites you on a journey to explore the transformative power of shifting your mindset when it comes to dating and relationships. With genuine warmth, Cat urges us to embrace the beauty of life's positives, encouraging us to leave...
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Do First Inpressions Matter On A First Date?
In this episode of "Dear Matchmaker," Cat delves into the intriguing world of first impressions and the pivotal role that one's image plays on a first date. She explores the significance of appearance, clothing choices, body language, and grooming in shaping initial perceptions. Discover how…
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From Single To Married In 4 Steps with Kristin Sokol
In this enlightening episode of 'Dear Matchmaker,' we are thrilled to welcome Kristin Sokol, a seasoned Science-Based Dating Coach with nearly two decades of expertise in the field. Kristin, a graduate from the University of Texas with a specialization in coaching and holding a prestigious ICF...
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Do Age Gaps Really Matter in LTR?
In this solo episode of 'Dear Matchmaker,' we take a heartfelt look into the nuanced world of dating with a significant age gap. Drawing from both personal insights and shared experiences, I delve into the complexities and challenges that couples face when there's a notable age difference between...
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Where Are All The Good Men At?
In this eye-opening episode of 'Dear Matchmaker', we tackle the frequently voiced concern: "Why can't I find a good man?" Join us as we delve into the heart of this question, exploring the possibility that often, the right men might be right before our eyes. We discuss how societal changes are...
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Dating, Sex & Attachment Styles with Dean & Miles of The Legion Lifestyle
Welcome to another episode of Dear Matchmaker! Join me for a unique episode as I get interviewed by Dean & Miles from The Legion Lifestyle Podcast where we discuss all things dating, sex, attachment styles and more! Want more information about Cat? Visit here: www.theheartagency.com
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The Do's and Don'ts of Dating With Kids
Dear listeners, join me, Cat Cantrill, in a deeply personal exploration of what it means to step back into the dating world as a single mom in this week's episode of "Dear Matchmaker." In today’s heart-to-heart episode, I’ll be sharing stories and gentle advice from my own experiences, weaving...
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Vanishing Acts: Unraveling the Ghosting Phenomenon
Welcome to another episode of Dear Matchmaker! Join us as we dive deep into the mysterious world of 'ghosting' – the unsettling act of ending a relationship by suddenly going silent without any explanation. In this introspective episode, we draw from personal anecdotes, listener experiences, and…
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Why You Should Not Text Before Your First Date
Welcome to another episode of Dear Matchmaker! In today's digital age, where instant messaging is second nature, have we lost the beauty of anticipation? This episode delves deep into the art and psychology of communication, specifically focusing on the period leading up to the coveted first…
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The Secrets of Body Language with Linda Clemons
Welcome to Dear Matchmaker! Please help me welcome Linda Clemons! Linda Clemons is a charismatic speaker and corporate trainer with more than three decades’ experience helping clients boost their sales. As a nonverbal communications expert, she provides sales and leadership teams with an…
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Should You Change If You Intimidate Men?
Welcome to another episode to Dear Matchmaker! In this week's episode, we talk about the topic of intimidating men and whether women should be concerned or change themselves. I share my own personal experience of being told I was intimidating and how I initially considered changing myself to...
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Are You Dating for Mr./Ms. Right Now or Mr/Ms. Right?
Welcome to Dear Matchmaker! In this episode, I discuss the difference between dating for Mr. or Ms. Right Now versus dating for a long-term partner. I talk about the importance of compatibility and vulnerability in a relationship. I also touch on the challenges of dating someone significantly...
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Red Flags Explained by a Matchmaker
Welcome to another episode of Dear Matchmaker! In this week's episode, I do a bit of a catsplanation of what a TRUE red flag is. I dive into the issue that people are very quick to label others and the lack of empathy in the dating world. Take a listen! Website: www.theheartagency.com Submit a...
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A Late Bloomers Guide To Finding Love with Treva Brandon Scharf
Welcome to another episode of Dear Matchmaker! On this episode, Cat interviews Treva Brandon Scharf an International Coaching Federation-certified life/dating/relationship coach, former fitness professional, midlife marriage first-timer, and author of Done Being Single: A Late Bloomer’s Guide to...
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Astrology and Dating with Lucy Porter
Welcome to another episode of Dear Matchmaker! This week, I have a very special guest, Astrologer Lucy Porter! Lucy Porter is an Astrologer focused on love, sex and relationships. Her passion is the re-emergence of mysticism in a humorous, accessible and juicy way. She is an initiated High...
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How Do You Know If You Are Being Lovebombed?
On this episode of Dear Matchmaker Cat gives her Cat-spin on the topic “Love Bombing”, What is it? The difference between Love Bombing and Anxious Attachment, The 4 Phases of love bombing, and the 9 Signs you should look for to avoid this toxic behavior. Link to previous episodes: Love Addiction,...
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How Introverts Can Attract The Partner They Want With Ege Reynolds
Welcome to another episode of Dear Matchmaker! Today's episode, I have a special guest - Men's Dating Coach Ege Reynolds. In this episode, Ege shares his own personal journey as an introverted man in the dating world and how it led him to become a dating coach. Ege shares the four principles he...
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What I Learned From My Ex Who Lied About Having Cancer To Break Up - A True Story
Welcome to another episode of Dear Matchmaker! In this episode I talk about my first relationship out of my divorce. This one is a doozy! Here is the episode I refer to in this episode: https://pod.link/1551679405/episode/973d055e40068550fb7cf5b96268c5ec Do you have a question or a dating story…
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How Do You Accept Generosity From Your Partner?
Welcome to Dear Matchmaker! In this week's episode, I answer a question submitted to me by IG: "How do you accept generosity and intention from your partner? This is all new to me!" Do you have a question for me? Submit it at www.dearmatchmaker.com You can find out more information about The…
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My Love Story: Interview with My Fiancé, Brian. How We Met, Romance and Our Relationship
Welcome to Dear Matchmaker! This week I interview my fiancé Brian! Take a listen! You can see the video I mention in the episode here: https://youtu.be/hU28vBcTthA You can sign up for our Free workshop this Monday - click here: https://alltakes.com/the-agency/beyourownvalentine You can find out...
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My Divorce, Trauma & Dating - A Personal Story
Welcome to Dear Matchmaker! In this episode I answer the question: "How do you heal from past relationship trauma so you don't sabotage your new relationship?" If you wish to ask a question, you can submit yours here: www.dearmatchmaker.com To find out more info, go here: www.theheartagency.com
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Biggest Dating Mistakes You Are Making with Matchmaker May Bugenhagen
Welcome to Dear Matchmaker! In today's episode, I get the honor of interviewing my colleague and friend, May Bugenhagen. May Bugenhagen is a Professional Matchmaker and dating and relationship coach. May is the owner of the boutique matchmaking company Two Asian Matchmakers. May has appeared in...
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Which Photos Should You Put on Your Dating Profile?
Welcome to Dear Matchmaker! January is right around the corner and everyone is thinking about creating a dating profile. I am here to help you pick the right photos to get the best results. In this episode, I share: 1. How many photos you should upload; 2. What poses and types of photos you…
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How Knowing Your Enneagram Can Change Your Relationships with Barb Ranck
Welcome to Dear Matchmaker! This week I welcome my friend, Barb Ranck to talk about all things enneagram! Barb is a passionate educator and coach, having over 25 years' experience in the corporate workplace. It wasn't until she became a certified life coach that Barb knew she had found her…
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Should You Date Someone Who Is Newly Divorced or Widowed?
Welcome to another episode of Dear Matchmaker! In this episode I answer the question: "Is there validity to the “transition person” theory? Where You never want to be the first person someone dates after they are divorced or widowed? I’ve seen the results both ways, good and bad. I know it’s...
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How Do You Survive Cuffing Season Without Settling??
Welcome to Dear Matchmaker! In this episode, we cover every singles favorite topic - Cuffing Season. How do you prevent yourself from settling this cuffing season? Listen up! I give you my top 3 ways on how you can surivive! You can find the previous episode mentioned here:...
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Connection Through Sacred Sexuality with Kim Coffin
Welcome to Dear Matchmaker! Please help me welcome back Kim Coffin back to Dear Matchmaker! Kim is a Trauma Informed Somatic Sex, Love & Relationship Coach, as well as an Empowerment & Sexuality Coach, Female Sexuality Coach, Tantric Sex Coach and founder of Get Your Sexy Back! She specializes in...
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The Power of Permission with Kirstie Wilson
Welcome to Dear Matchmaker! I am thrilled to bring Kirstie Wilson to the show! Kirstie is a weight loss coach who works with women 45+ to build a sustainable lifestyle for lasting weight loss. Staunchly against the diet culture, Kirstie has developed a program that helps women design their…
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When You Want Them, They Don't Want You. When They Want You, You Don't Want Them. Why?
Welcome to Dear Matchmaker! Ahhhh, yes. I am sure you have heard this a million times. Come and join me as I unwrap the truth about this phenomenon. Here are the links I discussed in the episode: Brian's Movie for Me: https://youtu.be/hU28vBcTthA Online Dating and How You Have it All Wrong:...
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How To Build Your Confidence Through Image With Celeste Moore
Welcome to Dear Matchmaker! This week I welcome the beautiful & talented Celeste Moore to Dear Matchmaker. Celeste Moore is a personal image and dating consultant for men. Like the female version of Will Smith in Hitch, she gives them the confidence they need by helping them look and feel better...
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Dear Matchmaker is where you can turn for guidance and insight into all things dating, love & relationships. With the help of matchmaker and coach, Cat Cantrill, here you can learn important radical love habits, gain tools and gather information on how to attract true love into your life. Our goal at Dear Matchmaker is to help you find your forever person by giving you insight on how to navigate this crazy world of dating. We will bring you weekly episodes including guest interviews, on-air coaching, solo episodes and "Dear Matchmaker" segments where you can ask Cat questions to be answered here!
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