Dear Primas

🎙️ Dear Primas, Welcome! 💌 Whether you've been here since episode one or you just found us through the internet rabbit hole, we're so happy you're here. 🤍 In this episode, we're taking it back to the beginning and officially introducing ourselves. We're sharing who we are beyond the microphones, our families, motherhood journeys, marriages, big life changes, and how Dear Primas came to be. From navigating postpartum together to raising little ones, building businesses, moving across states, and figuring out what this season of life looks like, we're reflecting on how much has changed since we first hit record. This conversation feels like sitting down with your primas over cafecito and finally answering the question: "Wait... how do y'all know each other again?" 😅 If you're new here, welcome. If you've been with us for a while, thank you for growing alongside us! 💕 Because Dear Primas has never just been a podcast it's a place for women figuring it out, one season at a time! So grab your cafecito ☕, get comfy, and let us properly introduce ourselves. If you don't have a prima, we're your primas. 💌 Currently reading: Kristi: Drowning in Paper Flowers Currently watching: Clari: The Burbs Follow us: @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠ @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠ Dear Primas - YouTube

🎙️ Dear Quarterly Check-In 💌 Primas… consider this your official quarterly life update. 😅☕ In this episode, Kristi and Clari are catching up on all the things the good, the messy, and the very real. From unexpected illnesses and trying to survive the never-ending germs that come with kids, to fitness goals, family life, and figuring out how to take care of ourselves while taking care of everyone else. We're sharing what's been working, what's not, and the little things currently getting us through this season. Of course, we also dive into what we're watching, reading, and obsessing over lately because you know the group chat always ends up there. 📚📺 Think of this episode as grabbing a coffee with your primas and saying, "Okay, what's been going on with you lately?" Because sometimes life doesn't need a big theme or a perfectly wrapped lesson. Sometimes you just need a check-in. So grab your cafecito ☕ and come catch up with us. 💕 If you don't have a prima to send a life update to, we're your primas. 💌 Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Life Updates 01:44 Dealing with Illness and Family Sickness 06:45 Fitness Goals and Motivation Challenges 13:46 Self-Care, Routines, and Personal Growth 19:40 Entertainment Picks: Shows, Books, and More 29:22 Balancing Motherhood and Personal Time 38:59 Reflections on Life, Sleep, and Self-Improvement 48:39 Closing Remarks and Future Plans    Resources Libby App for free books and audiobooks - https://libbyapp.com Kalahari Resort in Round Rock - https://www.kalahariresorts.com Ellen Hildebrand's books - https://www.ellenhildebrand.com Schitt's Creek on Netflix - https://www.netflix.com/title/80044950 Handmaid's Tale on Hulu - https://www.hulu.com/series/the-handmaids-tale-3f4f7b4f-4f4f-4f4f-8f4f-4f4f4f4f4f4f Vibration Plate on Amazon - https://www.amazon.com/s?k=vibration+plate Raven Hood series by Kristi Delafuente - https://www.amazon.com/s?k=Raven+Hood+series

🎙 Dear Mamacita 💐☕ Primas… Mamacitas...Mother's Day is coming up, and we have QUESTIONS 😅 Like… what do you actually want? A thoughtful gift? A quiet house? A hotel room alone with uninterrupted sleep?? 👀 In this episode, Kristi and Clari are talking all things Mother's Day! What do we truly want in this season of motherhood? We're sharing past Mother's Day experiences, and the reality that sometimes all a mom wants is caffeine and nobody touching her for 2-4 hours 😭💅 From flowers and gifts to alone time and quality time, we're unpacking the question: Do we want presents, peace and quiet… or both? 😅💌 This episode feels like a Mother's Day group chat with your primas funny, honest, and full of love for the moms doing their best every single day. So grab your cafecito ☕ (hopefully while it's still hot) and come sit with us, mamacitas 💕 Follow us: Listen via anywhere you listen to your podcasts! @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠ @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠ Currently Reading: Kristi: One Last Rainy Day Currently watching: Clari: Love Island: Beyond the Villa Kristi: Euphoria

🎙 Dear Chat, How Does One Make Friends…As An Adult? Primas… why does making friends as an adult feel harder than dating?? 😅 In this episode, Kristi and Clari are getting real about something we don't talk about enough: how to actually make friends in this season of life. Between motherhood, busy schedules, and just being a little more… aware (and maybe a little more tired), putting yourself out there can feel awkward, intimidating, and honestly, a little vulnerable. We're sharing our own experiences the good, the awkward, and the "should I text her or is that weird?" moments along with practical ways to meet people, build genuine connections, and find your people in a world that doesn't make it as easy as it used to be! Because friendships don't just happen like they did when we were younger! They take intention, effort, and sometimes a little courage. If you've ever thought: "Why is this so hard?" "Where do I even meet people?" "Is it too late to make new friends?" Primas… this one is for you. 💕 If you don't have a group chat like this yet, we're your primas 💌 Grab your cafecito ☕ and let's figure it out together. Follow us: Listen via anywhere you listen to your podcasts! @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠ @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠ Currently Reading: Kristi: #acotar : #acourtofthornsandroses #acourtoffrostandstarlight Clari: #remindersofhim Currently watching: Clari: Paradise Kristi: Summer House

Primas… can we talk about the fact that we're señoras now?? 😅 Like… we grew up in the 90s with dial-up internet, LimeWire downloads, and parents yelling "get off the house phone," and somehow now we're the ones packing lunch boxes, scheduling dentist appointments, and reminding our kids to drink water. In this episode, Kristi and Clari unpack the very specific species that is the millennial mom. The moms who grew up riding bikes until the streetlights came on… but now track their kids' location, Google/ChatGPT every symptom, and send calendar invites for playdates months in advance. We talk about how technology shaped our generation, the social media habits we swore we wouldn't have (but somehow do), and the parenting styles that make millennial moms… well, millennial moms. From nostalgia about our childhood to the way we're raising our kids today, this episode is a funny, honest look at the behaviors that define this era of motherhood. Because let's be honest, we're still youthful, still figuring it out, and just trying to raise good humans while remembering where we put our caffeine. ☕ If you're a 90's baby turned señora, this one is for you. 💅Share this with a 90's baby who is now someone's mom 😅 Grab your cafecito and come laugh with your Primas. Follow us: Listen via anywhere you listen to your podcasts! @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠ @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠ Currently Reading: Kristi: #acotar : #2 #acourtofthornsandroses #acourtofmistandfury Clari: #remindersofhim Currently watching: Clari: Paradise Kristi: A Love Story Chapters: 00:00 Welcome to Dear Primas 04:41 Beverage Choices and Spring Break Vibes 09:35 Audiobook Adventures 14:21 TV Show Obsessions 19:17 Millennial Reflections and Responsibilities 20:03 The Evolution of Technology and Its Impact on Millennials 22:07 Gentle Parenting: The Millennial Mom's Dilemma 33:06 Navigating Personal Devices and Screen Time 37:42 Fostering Social Skills in a Digital Age 42:26 Navigating Screen Time and Outdoor Play 45:13 The Debate on Technology and Kids 46:46 Fast Food Culture and Parenting Challenges 49:04 Millennial Parenting and Independence 52:09 Balancing Freedom and Responsibility in Parenting 55:55 Nostalgia and the Millennial Experience

🎙 Dear Family, Are We Complete Primas… this one is tender. 🥹💌 In this episode, Kristi and Clari open up about a question that quietly sits in so many moms' hearts: Are we complete? From planning Santi's first birthday without family nearby, to the emotional weight of those early wake-ups and sleepless nights, we talk honestly about the newborn bubble, how beautiful it is, how fleeting it feels, and how exhausting it can be when you're in it. We unpack the realities of having kids close in age, the physical toll of motherhood that no one fully prepares you for, and how deeply personal the decision to grow your family really is. Is there a "right" age gap? Is there a perfect number? Or are we all just figuring it out as we go? We also talk about the differences in raising boys and girls, the importance of partner support, and why open communication matters more than ever when you're navigating these life-changing decisions together. If you've ever wondered whether your family is complete… or whether your heart still wants more… this conversation is for you. 💕 No pressure. No judgment. Just real talk from two Primas learning as they go. Grab your cafecito ☕ and come sit with us! Let's get into it Primas! Currently Watching: Clari- Paradise Currently Reading: Kristi- Everyone is lying to you Jo Piazza Clari- Listen for the lie Let's get into it Primas! Follow us: @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠ @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠ Dear Primas - YouTube

Primas… we have THOUGHTS. 😅💅 In this episode, Clari and Kristi are doing what we do best catching up on what we're watching, what we're reading, and the shows that absolutely have a chokehold on us right now. From His & Hers to The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives and Tell Me Lies, we're unpacking the twists, the red flags, the characters who make questionable choices, and why we're still so invested. SPOILER ALERT*** This convo feels like the group chat after everyone finishes the same show a little nostalgic, a little "why are we like this?" So grab your cafecito ☕, settle in, and come spiral with us. And don't forget to tell us what YOU'RE watching next because if there's one thing we're always ready for, it's more recommendations. 💌 Follow us: @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠  @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠ Dear Primas - YouTube

Primas… if January has you easing in instead of going all in, this one's for you. 💅✨ In this episode, Kristi and Clari are reconnecting after the New Year and pressing pause on the pressure. We're talking motherhood, growth, and what it really looks like to balance family life when you're doing it from different states and different seasons of life. This conversation feels like a journal entry read out loud. We reflect on why Dear Primas has always been about honesty over perfection, why community matters more than ever for moms, and why it's okay to not have everything figured out right now. January isn't about reinventing yourself, it's a soft launch into the year, and we're learning to take it one day at a time. If you don't have a prima to text, we're your Primas. 💌 So grab your cafecito ☕, settle in, and come chat with us because you're not behind, you're right where you're supposed to be! Follow us: @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠ @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠ Currently Reading: Kristi: The Girl Who Was Taken Currently watching: Clari:  Kristi: Steal Chapters 00:00 Welcome Back and New Year Greetings 02:32 What is Dear Prima? 04:44 The Evolution of the Podcast 08:38 Building a Community of Moms 10:15 New Year Reflections and Family Goals 12:44 The Pressure of New Year's Resolutions 18:40 Finding Balance and Being Active 21:02 Miami's Vibrant Sports Culture 24:50 Navigating Parenting and Sports 29:32 The Realities of Kids in Sports 38:43 Engaging with Our Community

Primas… we can't believe we're here. 🥹 In this milestone 50th episode, Clari and Kristi are pressing pause to reflect on how far Dear Primas has come and how much we've grown right alongside you. From the early days before hitting record with nerves and big dreams, to navigating motherhood, work, and the constant evolution of who we're becoming, this episode is a heartfelt look at the journey so far. We talk honestly about balancing motherhood and professional life, the decisions we're making for our kids' education, and the shift in perspective that comes with realizing our children are our biggest investments. We open up about the pressures around motherhood, the conversations around staying home, showing up, and finding where we fit in this ever-changing puzzle of life. This episode is a reminder that we're all learning as we go, that growth doesn't have to be loud to be meaningful, and grace is something we deserve to give ourselves along the way. Most of all, it's a thank you. For listening, for growing with us, and for being part of this community. We wouldn't be here without you, primas. 💕 Follow us: @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠ @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠ Currently Reading: Kristi: The Ravenhood (The Finish Line #3) Currently Watching: Clari & Kristi: Tell me Lies  Chapters 00:00 Celebrating Episode 50: A Journey Together 00:58 Reflecting on Motherhood: Early Days and Growth 04:22 Navigating Career Changes and Family Dynamics 08:42 Prioritizing Family: The Shift in Focus 12:33 Exploring Education: Homeschooling vs Traditional Schooling 15:06 Quality Time with Kids 16:27 Reevaluating Education Choices 18:00 The Stigma of Stay-at-Home Parenting 18:57 Balancing Work and Family Life 22:06 The Learning Curve of Homeschooling 23:02 Evolving Perspectives on Parenting 25:58 Building a Supportive Community 27:26 Embracing Change and Growth

Primas… why do Christmas cards feel like a full-time job? 😅🎄 In this episode, Kristi and Clari talk through the holiday pressure we all feel, from coordinating family photo sessions and the outfits, to racing the weather and hoping at least one photo turns out frame-worthy. We're sharing the joys, the stress, and the funny moments that come with trying to "capture the memories" while real life is very much happening. We also chat about why candid photos often end up being the ones we treasure most, our favorite holiday movies, and why the season is about connection not perfection. Because years from now, it won't be the perfect pose we remember… it'll be the moment. So if you're debating whether it's too late to send cards (again), grab your cafecito ☕, take a deep breath, and come laugh with us. 💌 Follow us: @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠ @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠ Dear Primas - YouTube Currently Reading: Kristi: Good Spirits Chapters 00:00 Caffeine and Catching Up 01:53 Christmas Card Preparations 05:52 Family Photo Shoot Experiences 11:37 Photographer Insights and Tips 16:01 Capturing Family Memories 18:23 The Importance of Family Photos 21:53 Holiday Movies and Family Traditions

Primas… this one feels like a long overdue catch-up. 💌 Clari and Kristi are reconnecting after a major life shift! Clari's move from Houston to Miami 🌴. We're talking about the emotions behind packing up a life, the road trip, finding a new home, and what it really feels like to start over in a new place with your family. We also open up about how this holiday season will look different, how traditions evolve, and why change can feel exciting and bittersweet all at once. This episode is a reminder that even when life looks different than we imagined, it can still be really, really good. So grab your cafecito (or your choice of caffeine), settle in, and join us as we talk about growth, goodbyes, and embracing the next chapter, together. 💕

Primas, it's officially that time of year the pumpkin spice (or caffeine of your choice) is flowing, the field trips are field tripping, our kids can't be the only ones that changed Halloween costume ideas 12 times. 🎃😅 In this episode, Kristi and Clari are leaning all the way into the fall feels catching up on parenting moments, Halloween prep, and an unforgettable farm birthday party. We're talking about the cozy, the cringey, and the real parts of the season. 🍂 So grab your cafecito (or your pumpkin cold brew ☕) and tune in because this one feels like a Friday night chat with your primas about fall, family, and finding the real in a filtered world. 💅💌

Primas, welcome to Everything Must Go, AKA The Garage Sale Era, where everything's negotiable… except our emotions. 🥹💅  This one's for the real Primas who've hosted (or survived) a garage sale or two in their day. Who remembers the sticker tags, the small talk with strangers, and the "wait, are we really selling that?!" moments? Clari has started moving prep, we're on a rollercoaster of letting go, of stuff, of spaces, and of a few memories too. Between buyers, boxes, and big Florida dreams ☀️, we're selling things and catching feelings because saying goodbye to the familiar isn't as easy as a $5 deal.  So, grab a sweet treat, tune in for some laughs and a little reminder that every season (and every sale) brings a new chapter worth celebrating. 💌 Let's get into it, Primas! Listen via anywhere you listen to your podcasts! Follow us:  @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠ @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠ Dear Primas - YouTube Currently Reading: Kristi: Watch it Burn

Primas, this one feels like dropping a voice note in the group chat. 💅 Life's Better When You Have a Primas Group Chat! We are catching up on all the things from fried food at the state fair to our current TV obsessions (yes, we have thoughts and questions on Dancing With The Stars 🪩) Are the Primas watching too? Of course, we also talk about the books that have us up past bedtime. 📚 If your group chat covers everything from what you're watching 👀 to what's for dinner 🍝… this week's episode is basically YOU. 💕 Whether you're in the carpool line, on your walk, or winding down at night this one will lift your mood, make you laugh, and remind you that life's better when you have a group chat. 💅 Watch or listen via anywhere you listen to your podcasts! Follow us: Dear Primas - YouTube @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠ @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠ Currently Watching: Clari: Reasonable Doubt Kristi: DOC Currently Reading: Kristi: Stillhouse Lake Series and listening 🎧

Okay primas… moving isn't just about packing boxes, it's about packing emotions too 💌. In this episode, Kristi and Clari talk about the ups and downs of parenting through big changes navigating school dynamics, family reactions to Clari's upcoming move to South Florida, and the bittersweet feeling of leaving behind familiar comfort zones. We get real about: ✨ Helping kids adjust to new dynamics ✨ The emotional weight of leaving "your people" ✨ Family opinions ✨ Building a new community from scratch ✨ Finding growth + adventure as a family Because being a mama sometimes means starting over and learning that it's okay to feel both scared and excited at the same time. 💕 #dearprimas #moving #primas #momsofmultiples #millennialmomlife #lifechanging Listen via anywhere you listen to your podcasts! Follow us: @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠  @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠ Dear Primas - YouTube Currently Reading: Kristi: You must be new here

Primas, what's for dinner? 👀 This week's episode is the question we ask every. single. night. We're talking our go-to dinners, freezer staples, crockpot hacks, Sunday meal prep dreams (that sometimes flop). From pork shoulder carnitas that stretch into four meals to "pizza Fridays" that save our sanity, we're spilling our go-to dinners, the ones that actually get us through sports practices, picky toddlers, and husbands who order Chop Shop bowls on repeat. This episode is for every prima standing in front of the fridge at 6 pm like… "So, rice and nuggets again?" 😂 Or are you channeling your inner Senora and have a go-to recipe? Primas, help another prima out! What is your go-to dinner? What are some shareable hacks? ✨ Prima takeaway: Dinner doesn't have to be fancy to count. If your crew is fed, you're winning!  #dearprimas #whatsfordinner #primas #momsofmultiples #millennialmomlife Listen via anywhere you listen to your podcasts! Follow us: @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠  @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠ Dear Primas - YouTube Currently Reading: Kristi: In the Likely Event

🎙 Dear Mom Diaries… Primas, let's talk about something that doesn't get enough space in the group chat👉 motherhood and how we see ourselves after having babies. 💕 In this episode, Kristi and Clari open up about the real and raw parts of postpartum body image, from trying on five outfits before leaving the house to wondering if you'll ever feel "yourself" again. We talk about breastfeeding hunger that never ends, the jeans that just won't button, and why it's so important to give your body grace in every season. We also dive into the mental health side of confidence, how fashion can impact how we feel, and why self-care isn't selfish, it's part of surviving (and thriving) in motherhood. Takeaways we hope stick with you: ✨ It's okay to feel the feels. ✨ Give your body grace. ✨ Confidence takes time, and you're not alone in the journey. So, grab your cafecito and let's YAP. 💌 Listen via anywhere you listen to your podcasts! Follow us: Dear Primas - YouTube @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠  @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠ Currently Reading: Kristi: The Skyland Series

Primas, this is one of those FaceTime calls you didn't ask for… but definitely needed. 💕 In today's episode of Dear Primas, Let's Talk About It, we're firing off all the random topics living rent-free in the group chat: 📍 Location sharing in relationships — sweet or sus? 💌 Hard launch culture — is soft launching still a thing? 🙋 Social etiquette in public spaces — can people not? 💬 Communication & relationships — what's working, what's not. 👖 Fashion throwbacks — low-rise jeans… Why are they back? Basically, it's a little terapia, a little heeheehaaha, and a whole lot of primas talking like you're sitting on the couch with us! So grab your cafecito (or your wine, no judgment) and let's catch up — porque if we don't talk about it here, we'll just be texting about it later anyway! ✨ You're basically a Prima now… welcome to the group chat. #DearPrimas #GroupChatEnergy #hardlaunchculture

Dear Primas, He's not the one if… Primas, let's be real dating looks way different these days 😅. Whether it's your 20s, 30s, or 40s, we've all had those "wyd?" late-night texts, the awkward first dates, and the 🚩 we wish came with neon lights. We may be on the other side now but trust us… we've got some stories and a little perspective you didn't ask for but. 😉 In this episode, Kristi and Clari talk straight from the group chat about the highs and lows of online dating, and how social media can reveal more than a DM ever should. We share why being intentional matters (without turning a first date into a job interview), and how to check your own baggage at the door. Whether you're fresh out of a relationship, still figuring out what you want, or just reminiscing on your own dating days while folding laundry before bed, this convo is for you. And of course, we couldn't leave you without sharing the shows, movies, and books we're currently obsessed with. So grab your cafecito (or your wine glass), get comfy and let's chat Primas! 💌 Listen via anywhere you listen to your podcasts! Follow us: @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠ @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠ Currently Watching: Clari: Power Moves with Shaq Currently Reading: Kristi:The Unhoneymooners and listening 🎧The Twisted Women's Book Club  

Primas, let's be real—going from one to two (or more) kids hits different. 💁🏻‍♀️ Some days it feels like we're juggling snacks, schedules, and sibling drama all before our second cup of coffee. Other days, the mom guilt sneaks in and we're wondering if everyone is getting enough of us. In this episode, we're opening up about the new season of life as moms of multiples. The challenges, the guilt, and the small wins that keep us going. From balancing family activities to involving our littles (yes, even laundry can be a "team effort" 😅), we're finding ways to make it work while giving ourselves grace. Yes, it's exhausting, but seeing siblings love on each other? Worth every sleepless night. And because your primas love to chat it all out, we're also sharing our latest movie binges, shows we can't put down, and the books keeping us company once the kids are (finally) asleep. 📺📚 So whether you're in the trenches with 2 under 2, navigating sibling squabbles, or just trying to survive bedtime, grab your cafecito and join us we promise that you're not doing it alone. 💖 #DearPrimas #MomsOfMultiples #MillennialMomLife #MomGuiltIsReal #BedBy9Club Listen via anywhere you listen to your podcasts! Follow us: @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠ @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠ Youtube DearPrimas Currently Reading: Kristi: The Unhoneymooners

🎙 Dear Primas, Catch Us Up 🏖️📚 Okay primas… summer is officially in the rearview, and we need to talk. 🫠 We're catching you up on ALL the things, from vacation highlights to the very real struggle of getting kids back on a sleep schedule (send cafecito). Between late bedtimes, meltdowns over lost pool toys, and the back-to-school prep, we're just trying to remember what day it is. In true Primas fashion, we're also sharing our summer favs, the shows we binged and the books that stopped the doom scrolling. 💬 In this episode: ✏️ Vacay recaps + the return to reality 🛏️ Sleep schedules & kid attitudes (send help) 📚 Our summer watch & read list 🎒 Back-to-school prep So join us for a catch-up that feels like FaceTiming your Primas after a long summer apart. Because let's be honest… the group chat missed you. ❤️ #DearPrimas #BackFromBreak #MillennialMomLife #PrimasWhoGetIt

🎙 Dear Primas, I Got a Text! 💌 (Casa Amor Recap + All the Drama) Okay, Primas… we need to talk. CASA AMOR 🔥 Your favorite millennial couch commentators (aka us) are back with a full Love Island download and YES, we're watching "for the plot." From recouplings that had us gasping to the beige flags that suddenly turned BRIGHT RED, we're breaking it all down like we're voice-noting the group chat. We may be in bed by 9 with a baby monitor and dry shampoo in our hair, but the tea is steaming and we have thoughts. So many thoughts. Whether you're tuning in during naptime, folding laundry, or sneaking an episode after bedtime, pour a cafecito (or wine), and come yell with us. 💬 Text us back, Primas: 📱 Did you see that twist coming? ❤️ Who's your villa MVP right now? 🚩 Who packed their red flags in their carry-on? Let's get into it and yes, we will be watching every single second until the finale. Tag your fellow Love Island-obsessed primas 💕 #DearPrimas #IGotAText #CasaAmorRecap #MillennialMomWatchingTV #LoveIslandCommentary #HotPrimaSummer

🎙️ Dear Primas, Can We Pull You for a Chat? I GOT A TEXT!!!!! IYKYK!! Primas, let's talk Love Island — because you know we have thoughts!! Are we watching for the plot (and by plot, we mean drama, and who's giving ick vs. green flag energy 😅). Week 1 is here, and we are breaking it all down — Can we pull you for a chat? This episode is basically our group chat in podcast form: 🩷 Who came in hot? 🩷 Who's giving situationship energy? 💗 Are we being LOVE BOMBED? 🩷 And who's just… there for a good tan? We're talking about how Love Island hits different now that we're in our 30s, holding babies and emotionally invested in couples who have known each other for 3 days, and gave up sleep but not drama. We see you, 9PM Primas!! 🫣 Whether you're watching while folding laundry, nursing a newborn, or sneaking in 20 minutes before bedtime (because let's be real—we're in bed by 9... NO SHAME), this one's for the millennial primas who still love a messy villa and a perfectly timed "can I pull you for a chat?" Grab your cafecito, throw on that robe, and let's gossip like it's 2010 and we've got zero responsibilities. 💅🏽✨ 🎧 Streaming now on all podcast platforms 💬 Primas, who's your fave couple so far? And who's giving red flag realness? Follow us: @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠ @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠ Currently Reading: Kristi: That's Not My Name    

🎙 Dear Primas, What's Your Type... ✨ Primas we are back and talking all about personality types and how they show up in life! Are you the planner with color-coded lists and calendar invites? Or the go-with-the-flow queen figuring it out as you go? Whether you're navigating big life shifts, planning your next move, or learning how to not overthink every little thing (guilty 🙋‍♀️), this episode is for you. 💬 In this episode: 📝 How our personalities show up in relationships, friendships & big decisions 🎒 Planning vs. procrastinating when it comes to life goals 🎉 Event prep: from birthday bashes to bridal showers 🧠 The mental load we carry—even when we're not moms 🎧 Why understanding your type helps in every season So, Primas… what's your type? And how does it show up in your daily life, your milestones, or your "I swear I'm gonna start Monday" moments? Tag your opposite-type bestie, grab your cafecito, and come hang with us—because every type is welcome here. 💕 #DearPrimas #millennialwomen #personalitytypes #millennialmoms #lifeinprogress #latinas #momlife #realmomlife #motherhoodunfiltered #2under2club Listen via anywhere you listen to your podcasts! Follow us: @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠ @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠   Currently Reading: Kristi: The Five Star Weekend

🎙️ Dear Other Half This one's for every Prima who's ever side-eyed their partner mid-diaper change or whispered "I'm doing everything!" under their breath. In this episode, we're talking about the real side of parenting as a team — the good, the messy, and everything in between. 💬  From navigating discipline styles to carrying the mental load, we open up about what it's really like co-parenting when you're both running on fumes and figuring it out day by day. Clari and Kristi share honest stories about communication breakdowns, mismatched expectations, and how learning to meet each other halfway is still a work in progress. We dive into: ✨ How parenting can expose all the gaps in communication ✨ Different approaches to discipline (and how they clash) ✨ Why "just tell me what you need" isn't always enough ✨ The invisible load moms carry daily ✨ The guilt vs. grace cycle in motherhood and marriage Whether you've got 2 under 2, are deep in toddler negotiations, or still working through unspoken expectations with your partner — you are not alone. Grab your cafecito, press play, and join us in saying what so many of us feel: parenting is hard, relationships take work, and sometimes… we just want someone else to handle bedtime. 😅 💡Primas, how do YOU and your other half tag-team parenting? What works? What drives you loco? #DearPrimas #MarriageAndMotherhood #MentalLoadIsReal #MillennialMoms #ParentingTeamwork #2Under2Club #MomLifeUnfiltered Listen via anywhere you listen to your podcasts! Follow us: @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠ @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠ Currently Reading: Kristi: The Favorites

🎙️ Dear Two Under Two Chronicles 👶🏽🍼  Primas, you already know this one's gonna be a ride. In this episode, Clari shares her fresh-off-the-labor-and-delivery-floor experience—welcoming baby #2 and officially joining the two under two club! We kick things off light with our latest TV obsessions and what we're reading, then dive deep into her birth story, real talk about induction, and that wild rollercoaster called labor. From prepping for baby #2 to processing the shift from one to two littles, Clari gets honest about how it's going—emotionally, physically, mentally. Spoiler: the support system matters so much, and no two births (or babies!) are the same. If you're a mom in the trenches, wondering how you'll juggle it all (again), or just need to feel less alone in the chaos—this one's for you. Whether you're prepping for baby #2, healing, or deep in the two-under-two tornado, press play and come hang out with your Primas. ✨ Real talk moments we get into: 💪🏽 The emotional side of giving birth again 👶🏽 The new baby/new toddler balancing act 🤰🏽 How pregnancy support really makes a difference 🎢 And why every single birth story deserves to be heard Primas, pour that cold coffee (again), pop in a headphone, and come hear the story behind Clari's newest chapter. #DearPrimas #TwoUnderTwoChronicles #MillennialMoms #MomLifeUnfiltered

🎙️ Dear Give Mom What She Wants 💐 Primas, let's talk Mother's Day—the real version. Not the Pinterest board fantasy or that last-minute bouquet from the grocery store. We're talking about what moms in the trenches actually want: a break, a nap, maybe takeout, and for someone else to finally fold that mountain of laundry. In this episode, we're keeping it real about how we celebrate (or survive) Mother's Day with littles at home. Whether you're a first-time mom, deep in toddler chaos, or balancing sports schedules and diaper changes, this one's for YOU. From skipping the flowers to hiring the dang cleaner, we're naming all the unspoken Mother's Day wishes your group chat has definitely talked about. Because sometimes, the best gift is being left alone for 3 hours with a hot coffee and zero responsibilities. ✨ So Primas, what's your ideal Mother's Day? 🧺 Is it folded laundry you didn't touch? 🛍️ A solo Target trip with no one yelling "mom"? 📱Or just silence and a binge-worthy show? Press play, feel seen, and don't forget to send this to another Prima. #DearPrimas #MothersDayUnfiltered #GiveMomWhatSheWants 🎧 Available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube! 💐Happy Mother's Day, Primas! Follow us: https://www.youtube.com/@DearPrimas @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠  @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok Currently Reading: Kristi: Say You'll Remember Me - Abby Jimenez

Hey Primas… ever wake up and just know you're not doing a single productive thing today? Welcome to the magical land of the Rot Day—where expectations are left at the bedroom door, the only plan is pressing play on your comfort show, and dinner is whatever gets delivered fastest. 🍕📺 In this episode, we're embracing the art of the Rot Day. No mom guilt. No hustle culture. Just two millennial primas talking about why sometimes the best thing you can do—for yourself and your sanity—is absolutely nothing. Whether you're a first-time mom deep in the baby fog, juggling multiple kiddos' schedules, or just trying to catch your breath... this one's for the Primas who need a break without an apology! So put on those stretchy pants, grab your blanket, and hang with us—Rot Day style. 💅 🎧 Available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube! 👯‍♀️ Let's rot together, Primas! Follow us: @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠ @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠ Currently Reading: Kristi: Blue Sisters

Hey Primas, we're getting real in this one. 👀 We're talking about the hard stuff—outgrowing friendships, setting boundaries (and actually sticking to them), and learning how to protect your peace… even when it feels awkward. Whether it's a friend who no longer shows up for you, or the guilt that comes from being a lifelong people pleaser (ahem, it's us), we're unpacking the messy middle of friendships in your 30s. So, how do you know when a friendship has run its course? What happens when someone who once felt like a sister just… doesn't anymore? 😔 And what if we've been so busy saying yes to everyone else that we forgot what we even want? Let's talk about it. No shame. Just primas learning, growing, and letting go with grace 💔➡️💖 Follow us: @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠ @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DearPrimas   Currently Reading: Kristi: The Lake of Lost Girls

🎙️ Dear Diary, I'm in a Workout Rut… Okay Primas, be honest—how many times have you said "Starting Monday" and that Monday never came? 😅 We're right there with you. In this episode, we're talking all things fitness funks, motivation slumps, and figuring out what movement even looks like when you're chasing toddlers, working full-time, or just trying to survive on lukewarm coffee. Whether you're trying to get back into a routine, feel strong again, or just want to stop lying to your Apple Watch, we gotchu! We're also building out our ultimate Hot Girl Walk Playlist because: 🎶 Music = motivation 🎧 Headphones = mom off-duty 👟 Walks = therapy (on a budget) So throw on those leggings (even if they're your "laundry day" pair), plug in your headphones, and come hang with us for a dose of real talk, some LOLs, and zero shame. We want to hear from you, Primas! 💬 What's your favorite way to move your body lately? 🎵 What songs NEED to go on our Hot Girl Walk playlist? 💪 What's your "why" for staying active right now? ✨ Let's get real, reset, and maybe even sweat… just a little. #DearPrimas #HotGirlWalkEnergy #WorkoutRutChronicles Follow us: @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠ @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠  Watch DearPrimas on Youtube Currently Reading : Kristi: "James" Percival Everett    

Primas, it's April, which means baby #2 is DUE! While the world is deep into March Madness, we're over here in full Mom Madness—because baby #2 is almost here, and let's be real… are we actually prepared?! (Spoiler: Nope. 😂) This episode, we're diving into all things second pregnancy struggles—the differences from baby #1, doing everything last minute, and the chaos of prepping while juggling a toddler. 💡 If you're a first-time mom wondering what round two looks like, a mom of multiples who remembers this phase all too well, or just here for the relatable chaos, pull up a seat because: ✨ Are we already giving our second baby middle child syndrome before they even arrive? ✨ Why is this pregnancy so different—physically, mentally, emotionally?! ✨ First baby vs. second baby—why did we have a full nursery at 20 weeks the first time, and now we're like, "Eh, we'll figure it out"? ✨ Is last-minute nesting just who we are now? ✨ Moms of 2+, what's your #1 survival tip?! So grab your Cafecito, press play, and let's yap! 💕 #DearPrimas #MomLife #SecondBabyChaos 📢 Share with a Prima mama who needs to hear this! Follow us: Listen via anywhere you listen to your podcasts! @dearprimasYoutube @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠  @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠   Currently Reading: Kristi: "Kill for me, Kill for you" Steve Cavanagh

Hola Primas!!! Mom Brain. Rodeo. Chaos. Let's catch up, Primas!!➡️ If your brain feels like 47 open tabs and a toddler with syrupy hands is navigating them—same. Rodeo season is HERE and your favorite primas are kicking off this episode with a whole lotta chaos! 🐎✨ We're talking about our organized disorder—from the piles of laundry that won't quit, to the half-finished home projects we swear we'll get to, to moving baby #1 into their own room while prepping for baby #2. It's giving... maximum effort, minimum progress. Let's just say this is the much-needed mom rant we all deserve... but with laughs, love, and zero judgment. 💬 Let's Chat, Primas: What's your never-ending pile right now—laundry, dishes, or toys? Are you in a declutter era or a "close the door and ignore it" era? What's your go-to "easy family dinner" when you've got zero energy but everyone's starving? Anyone else rethinking life choices during rodeo season outfit planning? 😂 Whether you're a first-time mom, juggling multiple kiddos, or simply deep in your organized chaos era, we're in this together. Grab your coffee, wine, or laundry basket—and let's catch up, primas! 🎧💕

Primas, let's be real—getting dressed every day shouldn't feel like a life crisis, but here we are. 🤦🏽‍♀️ One day we're in oversized tees and leggings, the next we're trying (and failing) to be "put together" moms at school drop-off. Where do we even shop? What actually looks good on us? And why do jeans fit while standing but betray us when we sit? In this episode, we're talking all things real-life millennial "style"—the trial and error, the go-to outfits that save us, and the constant battle of looking cute but staying comfy. Are we fashion girlies? No. Are we doing our best to dress the bodies we have right now? Also no… but we're trying. 😂 So tell us, primas: 👖 Do you have a "uniform" or are you just surviving? 🛍️ What stores have become your holy grail for mom life? 👠 What's the one trend you want to love but just can't pull off? Join us as we laugh through the never-ending quest of finding our style… eventually. 💕

🎙️ Dear Lunch & Yap… Welcome Back! 🎉 Primas, we're BACK and ready to kick off Season 2 with a fresh start—because let's be real, we're all just trying to survive whatever season of life we're in! Whether you're setting big goals or just aiming to drink your coffee while it's still hot, we're here to chat about building small, attainable habits without the guilt trip. Oh, and speaking of survival—are we severed from our reality, or have you watched Severance yet?! (See what we did there? 😉) We're talking what we're watching, reading, and everything keeping us entertained while juggling babies, kids in sports, and life's never-ending to-do list. Primas, let's get into it— ✨ What small habits are you focusing on this season? 📺 What shows are getting you through the chaos? 📖 What book is currently collecting dust on your nightstand? So grab your lunch (or that cold coffee), press play, and let's yap! Season 2 is here, and we can't wait to catch up! 💕 #DearPrimas #LunchAndYap   Currently Reading: Kristi: "Project Hail Mary"

Hola Primas! It's time to talk about the holiday tradition that's quite literally all over our social feeds: the Elf on the Shelf. Whether you're going all out with elaborate elf scenes or you're still deciding if this tradition is even worth the hype, we've got you covered. We're spilling the cocoa on our best (and laziest) Elf on the Shelf ideas, plus the moments that make us say, "What the elf is even happening?!" We want to hear from you: Are you team "elf-obsessed," pulling out mini marshmallows and tiny props every night, or team "not today, elf"? Have you ever forgotten to move the elf and had to come up with a last-minute cover story for the kids? Is this tradition a magical memory-maker, or just another to-do on your holiday list? Grab your cafecito, tune in, and let's figure out if this elf is bringing more cheer or more stress to our holidays. Happy elfing, Primas!

Tis the season.... Hola Primas, we're back with another dose of holiday cheer— our third episode of Merry Primas! This time, we're sharing our favorite festive outings and activities to enjoy whether you've got kiddos in tow or you're sneaking in some grown-up time. 🍷 Creating traditions this time of year is what this season is all about! Primas, we want to know what are some of your favorite holiday traditions?✨🎄 Planning a cozy lights drive-thru or venturing out to see the city's biggest Christmas market? Is a festive bar crawl with your best primas calling your name, or do you prefer staying in and bingeing classic holiday movies? Tune in as we share our go-to holiday traditions, new ideas to try, and all the ways to embrace 'tis the season—together. Let's make these holiday memories count, Primas! Grab your cafecito or hot cocoa and tune in!  

Fa la la la la la la .... Hola! Welcome to our second episode of Merry Primas: Gift Guide for littles! Send this episode to the Tias and Tios that need some guidance! We talk all gifts for our kiddos ranging from newborns to 8-9 year old.... boys.. It's what we know! What is a gift you gave last Christmas that is still a household fav?! Let us know down below. Let's get into it Primas! Grab your cafecito or hot cocoa and tune in as we spread holiday cheer and help you make this season merry and bright—for you and everyone on your list! 🎄✨ Gift Guide for the Littles 0-6 Months Crinkle Books https://a.co/d/4xl4Roe Baby Book Photo Album https://a.co/d/fQqbysB Photo Album https://a.co/d/ajCJcv5 Teether Toys https://a.co/d/6NjsmTf https://a.co/d/eEiKXRp  https://a.co/d/ewojI1p Pacifier Feeder https://a.co/d/77b7aVT Backpack Head Pillow https://a.co/d/77b7aVT https://a.co/d/iSVlVNi Mirror toys https://a.co/d/c1EpqMA Crinkle Tissue Boy **Disclaimer, I did throw out the sheer fabric sheets because they were way too small and I did catch him shoving it into his mouth** https://a.co/d/0YSl48f 6-11 months Baby Einstein Stacker Toy https://a.co/d/fbhUDrU Easy Clean Bib https://a.co/d/5eXQ6O8 Disposable Place Mats https://a.co/d/9mrZ79N Push Walker Electronic https://a.co/d/jkEFzDO Push Walker Tool Bench https://a.co/d/ejIL0gm Push Walker Stove Top https://a.co/d/eLR6L7I Spinner Toys https://a.co/d/fWMmwJZ Swing https://a.co/d/2jdozxT Stand Alone Swing https://a.co/d/7510BKu Melissa & Doug Cars https://a.co/d/bwXjBHn Push and Go Cars https://a.co/d/fbhUDrU https://a.co/d/fbhUDrU Bath Toys https://a.co/d/6dTk51f https://a.co/d/j8gD3nw Bath Books https://a.co/d/14F4S8E 12 months - 3 years old Mega Blocks https://a.co/d/3kY5Vzm Mega Block Train https://a.co/d/dLJwboj Wooden Fruits and Veggies https://a.co/d/fW2Agc4 Animal Flash Cards https://a.co/d/3E4HpsR Wooden Puzzles https://a.co/d/edZXFD2 , https://a.co/d/edZXFD2 Wooden Puzzle W/Sounds https://a.co/d/5AXTUGm Mickey/Minnie Airplane https://www.target.com/p/kiddieland-disney-minnie-activity-plane-ride-on/-/A-53625746#lnk=sametab Sock Shoes https://www.tinyexplorings.com/products/tiny-exploringsg?tw_source=google&tw_adid=679799766415&tw_campaign=20754051799&gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAiA9bq6BhAKEiwAH6bqoA11KAzuYL7jyeNoPwJdOKQSxQNSWB885ao3LaR9qIP--knxNyWz1hoCnwcQAvD_BwE Tonies Box https://us.tonies.com/pages/bundle?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=search_brandname&gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAiA9bq6BhAKEiwAH6bqoL0aEQGVl41zeoIdpW4wrhqFkzNO0gwbSFfq4v3l7D2MMBPD8HnIWBoCtX8QAvD_BwE Yoto Player https://us.yotoplay.com/all-players?gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAiA9bq6BhAKEiwAH6bqoP75iM7Nn4sstLSDPyRowQaDvFKYrZZlA0r4hj3JtgdmAAw9nvMOXBoCa-gQAvD_BwE Quiet Toys For Restaurants (Good Stocking Stuffers) Sticky Building Cubes https://a.co/d/6hRarAI Suction Cup Figurines https://a.co/d/7lGhto6 Mess free Coloring https://a.co/d/6uqytNF Magnetic Men Builders https://a.co/d/bF6Y6Xm 4+ Years Old Magna Tiles https://a.co/d/3qMX8Je AI Chess Board https://playchessup.com/ Boys first clubs- https://a.co/d/1SR7tno Piggy bank- https://a.co/d/gQHzJV0 Bike- https://a.co/d/6wdx0qd Globe- https://a.co/d/5IJj8ks  

Tis the season! Hola! Welcome to our first episode of Merry Primas: Gift Guide for the Primas!! What are we asking for this Christmas? 🎁 We are sharing ideas that you could put on your Wishlist! Our motto this season "Give the Primas what they want!" Let's get into it Primas! Grab your cafecito and tune in as we spread holiday cheer and help you make this season merry and bright—for you and everyone on your list! 🎄✨ Comment down below what's on your list this year!! Gift Guide for The Primas Amazon Polaroid Camera w/ Carry bag - Polaroid Camera and Film Polaroid Camera - Polaroid Camera Carry Bag - Polaroid Carry strap  Makeup Case w/ Light - https://a.co/d/9lbpA2R Weekender Bag - https://a.co/d/6piHoVQ Magnetic Fridge Calendar https://a.co/d/5vEBX8r   For la gym girlie 3 pairs of tops- https://a.co/d/fPQQmSb Workout top amazon- https://a.co/d/fRWdb2W Workout mat- https://a.co/d/6NhpjM6 Workout bag- https://a.co/d/4reH4ck Hoka Shoes- https://www.hoka.com/en/us/womens-view-all/?sz=36 ULTA  Tarte 3 Pack Eyeshadow Pallet - Eyeshadow Pallet Este Lauder SkinCare Gift Set - Este Lauder SkinCare Gift Set Sol de Janeiro - (Not the 3 Pack I talk about but alternative)- Sol de Janeiro giftset   For La experience Pottery Class - Smashed Clay Clay Experience The Texas Wine School - https://thetexaswineschool.com/   La Stocking Stuffers Lip laneige- https://a.co/d/0SJBlBZ Face Roller- https://a.co/d/7LCQYtY Laneige sleeping mask- https://a.co/d/eyHyNVu Universal Charger with different cords/ Portable Charger- https://a.co/d/61fPwlI   For the Primas who love to read Book reading light- https://a.co/d/fSSpfNQ From the library stamp- https://a.co/d/hzO1A6u Heated blanket- https://a.co/d/hcyv2Xw Kindle - https://a.co/d/fXLGPbq Cozy Robe - Soft Buttery Robe Target PJ Set - Any Auden PJ  Local Houston boutiques to shop small: Emerson Rose- https://shopemersonrose.com/ Her and Reese- https://www.herandreese.com/ Crew Boutique- https://www.shopcrewboutique.com/ Bath and Bodyworks-  Fall/Winter Candles fav scents Clari's: Leaves and Perfect Christmas  Kristi's: Sweater Weather and Marshmellow fireside   For the Primos  Hat travel case - https://thetexaswineschool.com/ Mouse Pad- https://www.shutterfly.com/t/mouse-pads/   For the Golfer Range finder- https://a.co/d/j1przDV Caddy daddy travel bag- https://a.co/d/8lGPGcI Tiger brand- https://www.sundayred.com/featured/collections/all-things-red/ Peter Millar -https://www.petermillar.com/d/men Pro V1 Golf Balls- Pro V1 Follow us: @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠ @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠ Watch Dear Primas on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DearPrimas Email us at [email protected] with any topic suggestions!

Hello, Primas! It's tiiiiiiime —the holiday season is here, and we're juggling all the festive feels and stress that comes with it. In this episode of "Dear Merry Stress-mas" we're diving into the art of surviving (and thriving!) during all the holiday chaos. Primas, join us as we chat about: • Soft launching Christmas? When do you go full festive mode? 🎄 • Our favorite holiday music and must watch movies 23:05 • The great debate: when to start decorating and shopping for gifts🎁. • Prima tips for curating your kids' gift list for family without losing your min 26:00 Whether you're a holiday enthusiast or just trying to make it through the season with some eggnog and sanity intact, this episode is packed with relatable laughs and helpful ideas to keep the merry in your Christmas. Grab your favorite holiday drink and join us for the ultimate Primas holiday guide! 🎅✨ Let's get into it Primas! Currently Reading: Kristi: "The Wedding People" By Alison Espach Currently Watching: Clari "Gossip Girl" If you loved this episode, please let us know and leave us a review!  Follow us: @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠ @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠ Watch Dear Primas on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DearPrimas

Hey Primas! The holidays are here, and we're diving headfirst into all the chaos, fun, and slight stress they bring. In this festive episode of Dear Holiday Survival Guide, we're talking about navigating the holiday season as couples (who remembers the pre-kid days?), now with kids in tow, and all the juggling that comes with hosting and attending celebrations. We're spilling the tea on: Hosting hacks that won't leave you frazzled, potluck etiquette: our go-to dishes to bring, balancing traditions, family time, and making new memories without losing your mind! Grab your caffeine , tune in, and let's tackle this holiday season together—without breaking a sweat (or the mashed potatoes)! 🎄✨  Let's get into it Primas! Currently Reading: Kristi: "The God of The Woods" Liz Moore Clari: "Kill for me, Kill for Me" Steve Cavanagh If you loved this episode, please let us know and leave us a review!  Follow us: @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠ @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠ Watch Dear Primas on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DearPrimas

Hello Primas! 🎉 It's time to celebrate—you! In this festive episode of Dear Birthday Girl, Clari and Kristi dive into all things birthday! Join us as we chat about our favorite birthday gifts to give and receive, last-minute planning, and the traditions that make each birthday feel extra special. 🎂 Primas, what's your take on celebrating you—do you go all out, or keep it low-key? And when it comes to our own birthdays, are we talking big fiesta or a laid-back brunch? So, grab a sweet treat, tune in, and get ready for laughs, our latest book recs and cheers to making every birthday your best one yet! 🎂 Let's get into it Primas! Currently Reading: Kristi: "His & Hers" Alice Feeney Clari: "Kill for you Kill for me" Steve Cavanagh Follow us: @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠  @DearPrimas  on ⁠TikTok⁠ Watch Dear Primas on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DearPrimas

Hi Primas!! We have some news to share with you! Maybe you can guess from the title: Dear Baby Makin' Season :)  From the shock of finding out (again) to the chaos of transitioning from one kid to two, Clari dishes on everything—good, bad and completely chaotic world of pregnancy. Hot Cheeto cravings- we all have them right Primas?! We put the old wives tale quiz to the test! Tune in for laughs, honest confessions, and a reminder that we're all just figuring it out—one craving and chaotic moment at a time! Let's get into it Primas!! Currently Reading: Kristi: "All the Colors of the Dark" Clari: FINISHED "The silent Patient"    Follow us: @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠  @DearPrimas  on ⁠TikTok⁠ Watch Dear Primas on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DearPrimas

PRIMAS!!! Have you watched Tell Me Lies??? Please tell us we are not the only ones OBESSING over it?! We have a lot to say! *** Spoilers included!!*** We had to make a BONUS episode this week! Let the chisme begin, Primas! Follow us: @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠  @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠ Watch Dear Primas on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DearPrimas

Hola Primas, we are glad you are here!! Tune into this special episode of Dear Primas where Kristi and Clari turned Dear Chatty Cathies! We are chatting up a storm about their latest obsessions! From what they're binge-watching to the books they're trying to finish, they spill all the tea on what's currently keeping them entertained. We dive into our favorite shows—rating them, laughing about them. Join the conversation for laughs, recommendations, and the perfect dose of prima banter! Let's get into it Primas! Currently Reading: Kristi: "Worst Case Scenario" ✈️ Currently watching: Both: MOM-Tok- Secret Lives of Mormon Wives Follow us: @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠  @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠ Watch Dear Primas on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DearPrimas 0:00 Welcome Primas 7:04 Do We read books incorrectly? 12:50 Tell Me Lies chit chat 15:50 MomTok Chit Chat 23:20 Menendez Brothers Chit Chat 30:05 Kristi's Books Recommendations

Hola Primas!! Tell me you grew up in a latina household without telling me you grew up in a latina household! In this nostalgic episode of Dear Primas: Dear Latinas, Did We Live the Same Lives?, Clari and Kristi reflect on their shared experiences growing up in a Mexican household. From strict house rules and curfews to family traditions and how they shaped their upbringing. Primas can you relate to any of these experiences? What did we leave out? Let us know, how do you know you grew up in a latina household? Let's get into it Primas! Currently watching: Clari: "Tell me lies" Kristi: "Real Housewives of Salt Lake City" Currently Reading: Kristi: "Home is where the bodies are" Jeneva Rose Follow us: @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠  @DearPrimas  on ⁠TikTok⁠ Watch Dear Primas on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DearPrimas

Hola Primas, we're baaaaackkk!! Tune into this special episode of Dear Primas: Dear Questions Nobody Asked! Let's just chat and cackle together!! Kristi and Clari sit down for a funsies Q&A session. This is a get to know us but in the most entertaining way possible! We got some questions that we gotta ask... giiiiirrrrlllll... From sharing their dream jobs to revealing their celebrity crushes, they dive into the details no one asked for but we hope the primas will still have love for ussss!  Let's get into it Primas! Follow us: @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠ @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠ Watch Dear Primas on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DearPrimas Currently Reading: Kristi: "Remarkably Bright Creatures" Shelby Van Pelt Currently watching: Clari: "Tell Me Lies" New mom mobile update (1:16) Perfect Couple RECAP.. contains spoilers (6:58)  Get to know the Primas (17:14)  The questions nobody asked (36:44)

Hola Primas! In this episode of "Dear Moms, Do Better," Kristi and Clari dive deep into the uncomfortable yet all-too-common world of mom-on-mom shaming and comparison. From pregnancy onward, it's easy to fall into the rabbit hole of judging and comparing every parenting choice, whether it's about feeding, schooling, or just how we manage day-to-day. But here's the truth—it's a joy killer. Primas, join us as we get real about the pressure to "do better" in motherhood, all while reminding ourselves to extend kindness and grace to one another and, most importantly, to ourselves. We're not here to be perfect; we're here to be honest, open, and compassionate in our motherhood journeys. Primas, let's stop the comparisons and focus on building each other up! Tune in for transparency, support, and plenty of laughter along the way. Let's get into it Primas!  Currently Reading: Kristi:"The Stillwater Girls" Currently watching: Clari: "Reasonable Doubt" and "Unprisoned"  Follow us: @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠  @DearPrimas  on ⁠TikTok⁠ Watch Dear Primas on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DearPrimas

 Hola Primas, welcome back!! Primas, are you a social butterfly? Do you consider yourself an introvert or extrovert? Do you have seasons of go go go? Do your weekends seem to fly by? Tune into this special episode of Dear Primas where Kristi and Clarissa we chat about the ebb and flow of energy levels, from handling jam-packed schedules to embracing the beauty of a lazy day. Ever committed to plans and then felt the need to hit pause when it all becomes too much? We've been there primas, and we're here to talk about the delicate art of balancing social commitments with the need for downtime.Whether you're a social butterfly or a homebody at heart, this episode offers a candid look at how we navigate the push and pull of busy seasons versus recharging in solitude.   Let's get into it Primas! Currently Reading: Kristi: "The Perfect Couple" Elin Hilderbrand Currently watching: Clari: Average Joe   Follow us: @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠  @DearPrimas  on ⁠TikTok⁠ Watch Dear Primas on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DearPrimas  

Hola Primas! On this episode of Dear Primas we are talking to the busy bees!!! Do you consider yourself a busy bee? We dive into the realities of two moms navigating the ever-changing landscape of hustle culture, family growth, and the delicate balance between work and home. Is there really ever balance? Just this can be exhausting, but you aren't alone Primas! Join us as we discuss how our priorities have evolved while raising kids, going back to work after baby, and managing the daily routines that keep everything (mostly) on track. Let's get into it Primas! Currently Reading: Kristi: " The Perfect Couple" by Elin Hilderbrand If you loved this episode, please let us know and leave us a review! Follow us: @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠ @DearPrimas on ⁠TikTok⁠ Watch Dear Primas on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DearPrimas Email us at [email protected] with any topic suggestions or questions!!

Hola Primas! Were you counting down the days until the Love island reunion? No, just us?  On this episode Kristi and Clari are reporting for recap duty! I wish we were as prepared as Jana with receipts but we love a good recap! If you didn't watch love island, are you a football girlie?? Can we pleaseeee create a Primas Fantasy League?! We are just here for a good time, let's get into it Primas! Follow us: @dearprimas_ on ⁠Instagram⁠  @DearPrimas  on ⁠TikTok⁠ Watch Dear Primas on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DearPrimas Email us at [email protected] with any topic suggestions or burning questions!!