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Do You F*cking Mind?

Mindset hacks for a badass life, hosted by cognitive neuroscientist Alexis Fernandez.On Mondays my episodes are a combo of neuroscience and psychology. I deep dive into everything from habit formation and how to live a carefree life, to friendships and heartbreak. And on Fridays we've got Head Noise - where I answer your questions!Email [email protected] to submit your questions.Order your copy of my latest book How to Chase Change at https://bit.ly/44xwszR

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    Things to do to 'unrot' your brain

    In today's episode, I'm going to take you through 16 actionable tips to help you "unrot" our brains, including doing a daily brain training game, carrying a book or kindle, and setting a time limit on passive social media consumption. These tips are designed to be achievable and accessible, making it easier for us to make positive changes in our lives. If you're feeling stuck or struggling with brain rot, this episode is a must-listen to help you take control of your mental health and cognitive abilities. So, tune in to learn how to unrot your brain and start living a more fulfilling life.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  2. 625

    Understanding the Neuroscience of Mental Fatigue - Why You Lack Motivation (it is not 'Lazy')

    In this ep I talk about the complex world of cognitive fatigue, going into the neuroscience behind why we feel drained, demotivated, and disconnected from life. We're not just talking about being tired, but a state of being that's often misunderstood.  This ep also covers the intricate mechanisms behind our brain's response to stress, inflammation, and disrupted circadian rhythms, the difference between being tired and being fatigued, and how fatigue is a biological response that's not just about sleepiness or physical exhaustion. I also cover the role of dopamine, inflammation, and circadian rhythms in contributing to fatigue, as well as the importance of sleep quality, physical activity, and mental stimulation in maintaining our energy levels. Also the impact of phone addiction, social media, and multitasking on our mental fatigue, highlighting the need for a more mindful approach to our digital lives. If you're feeling drained, demotivated, or disconnected from life, this episode is a must-listen. I offer practical advice and insights to help you understand the neuroscience behind cognitive fatigue and provides tools for making positive changes to improve your mental well-being. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  3. 624

    How to Deal With a Partner Who is Weaponising Incompetence + More (Head Noise)

    Welcome to your Head Noise Episode where we cover all kinds of questions from YOU. Today I cover 4 questions, topics range from dealing with a partner who is refusing to pull his weight, choosing between your home town that you love or moving away to find love, timing dating someone new and more. To have your questions answered, send your question to [email protected] Danke!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  4. 623

    Understanding the Neuroscience of Low Self Esteem and How to Improve it

    In this episode, we explore the neural basis of self-esteem and low self-esteem. With a focus on the brain's physical changes that can impact our moods and self-perception, this episode will help you understand the complex relationship between our brains and our sense of self-worth. The episode also covers the importance of affect regulation, pride, and self-talk in building high self-esteem. How to manage and respond to emotions, identify your strengths, and how to cultivate positive self-talk. If you're struggling with low self-esteem or simply want to understand the science behind this complex topic, this episode will be helpful! Danke for listening.   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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    Survivorship Bias - What it Can Teach You About Planning Ahead For Success

    In this episode, i talk about the concept of survivorship bias, a logical error that occurs when we focus on successful outcomes and ignore failures, leading to skewed conclusions. This phenomenon is all too common in our daily lives, from the way we perceive success stories to the way we make decisions about our own futures. Something to learn from this episode is the importance of considering the entire data set when making decisions. We need to look at both the successes and failures, and not just focus on the former. We need to be aware of our own biases and to take calculated risks, rather than relying on the idea that hard work alone will guarantee success. If you're looking to make more informed decisions and avoid the pitfalls of survivorship bias, this episode is a must-listen. By the end of this episode, you'll have a better understanding of how to navigate the complexities of success and failure, and how to make choices that serve you best.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  6. 621

    Ten Ways to Fall in Love With Your Life Again

    In this episode, I share 10 ways to fall in love with your life again, from rethinking the first three minutes of your day to becoming an expert in a new topic each month. We are going on a journey to rediscover the joy in everyday moments. One of the key takeaways from this episode is the idea that happiness is not just about achieving big milestones, but also about finding joy in the small, everyday moments.   If you're feeling stuck or disconnected from your life, this episode is a must-listen.  So, take a few minutes to listen to this episode and discover the simple yet powerful ways to fall in love with your life again. Danke and enjoy!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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    Did I destroy my marriage?, Avoiding Interactions and Hugs (head noise)

    Welcome to head noise. (I know I am a day late) In this episode we cover  What to do when you leave a marriage and then your partner makes all the changes you wanted them to make while you were together, in order to get back with you. How to deal with narcissistic mother in law and her friends. And how to navigate fears around pregnancy and deciding if it is the path you want to go on.  If you would like to send in your question, email at [email protected] Danke!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  8. 619

    What you wear influences your behaviour and mood - psychology of enclothed cognition

    Enclothed Cognition: In today's episode, I delve into the fascinating concept of enclothed cognition, which shows us how the clothes we wear can significantly influence our minds, moods, and behaviours. This idea is rooted in a study by Adam and Glinsky, published in the Journal of Experimental Social Psychology, which explores the relationship between clothing and psychological processes. The episode explores the idea that our clothing choices can be a powerful tool for self-expression and personal growth. By dressing in a way that aligns with our goals and aspirations, we can tap into our inner selves and cultivate the mindset and behaviors necessary to achieve them.  If you're interested in learning more about how enclothed cognition can transform your life, tune in to this episode to discover the simple yet profound ways in which your wardrobe can influence your mind and behavior.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  9. 618

    Ten things to let go of to become happier, calmer and more free

    In today's episode, I talk about the importance of letting go of certain habits that can hold us back from living life in a cool calm and collected way. We're talking about the things that keep us stuck, anxious, and unhappy, and how releasing them can lead to a more fulfilling and peaceful existence. I go into TEN things to let go of in order to feel happier. So remind yourself of these things often to keep them top of mind.  If you're feeling stuck, anxious, or unhappy, this episode is a must.  To hear more about imposter syndrome listen to this episode : "Imposter Syndrome Be Gone!"http://open.spotify.com/episode/7hGdLskoh03pAk89CJF1mx?si=ZPx1kgF-QT2QBqOlTW60nw&nd=1&dlsi=bad200a8d6fa40e4See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  10. 617

    The Neuroscience of Social Anxiety Disorder and tools to treat it

    In this episode, I delve into social anxiety disorder (SAD). I go into the differences between social anxiety and shyness, and the neuroscience behind social anxiety, including the role of the amygdala and the impact of serotonin and dopamine on our behavior. The episode covers the DSM-5 definition of social anxiety disorder, and I share practical advice on how to manage social anxiety, including exposure therapy, cognitive reappraisal, and social skills practice. If you're struggling with social anxiety, this episode offers valuable insights and practical tips to help you understand and manage your symptoms.    Danke! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  11. 616

    5 things to accept in your life to become happier and more in control (E)

    Bonjour! This is a crowd fave so thought I would bring it back in all its glory. (also got a heap of interest about the MSG science fact!) This ep will challenge your perspective on life and help you cultivate a more mindful approach to the ups and downs that come our way. by accepting these five simple things today you will notice a weight drop off your shoulders, you will feel lighter, and more in control of your life circumstances and where you are headed.  Enjoy! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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    The Neuroscience of a Regulated Nervous System - and how to create one for yourself

    In this episode,I delve into the concept of a regulated nervous system and how it can be achieved. We're not talking about being a calm and serene person all the time, but instead, learning to navigate our emotions and respond to situations in an appropriate way.  This ep explains what a regulated nervous system is and how it differs from an unregulated one, and how a regulated nervous system is not about being immune to stress or emotions, but rather about being able to respond to them in a way that allows us to maintain balance and well-being. I discuss the biological mechanisms involved, including the autonomic nervous system, the sympathetic and parasympathetic nervous systems, and the hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal axis. I then give strategies and tools that can be used to achieve a regulated nervous system, including cognitive reappraisal, attentional shifting, and physical techniques such as deep breathing, digital blackout, and weighted blankets.  You will see that you can learn to train your brain to respond to stress and emotions in a healthy way, and how this can be done through conscious and intentional actions that eventually become automatic. If you're interested in learning more about how to regulate your nervous system and improve your emotional well-being, tune in!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  13. 614

    When is it time to stop being the family fixer? + How to know if you should fight for someone or let them go.

    In this episode, I answer three listener questions. From the impact of artificial intelligence on future generations to navigating toxic relationships and setting boundaries with family members, this episode covers it all. I talk about how to find hope in a world where technology is rapidly changing the way we live and work and how important it is to teach children to be adaptable and independent. When to know when it's time to let go of a toxic partner and how to set healthy boundaries with family members who may be causing emotional distress.  Tune in to hear the full conversation and discover how to take control of your life and make the choices that are right for you.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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    P*rn addiction and what it is doing to your relationship - when to stay and when to leave

    A Marriage on the Brink: Navigating Porn Addiction and Relationship Dynamics Episode 503 In this episode, I delve into a deeply personal question from a listener who's struggling to cope with her husband's porn addiction. I talk about the devastating impact of this addiction on relationships, and the importance of prioritising your own own well-being. This ep covers the complexities of porn addiction, its effects on intimacy and trust, and the challenges of recovery. I go into the need for accountability, therapy, and a willingness to confront the underlying issues driving the addiction. AND the importance of setting boundaries and communicating needs clearly in a relationship, and the dangers of gaslighting and manipulation. A key takeaway from this episode is that recovery from porn addiction is a long-term process that requires effort, commitment, and support.  If you're struggling with a partner's porn addiction or feeling trapped in a toxic relationship, this episode offers a much-needed dose of reality and hope. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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    The psychology behind the slower, softer life, and why we are seeing more people return to this

    In a world where social media reigns supreme, it's easy to get caught up in the endless scroll and lose sight of what truly matters. But what if you could break free from the cycle of comparison and distraction, and find a sense of calm and clarity in a world that's increasingly chaotic? This episode is all about the psychology of the slow life, where we're talking about moving away from addictive content and towards longer, more intentional forms of media. In this episode I talk about the benefits of stepping away from social media, including improved focus and attention, lower anxiety and stress, and a greater sense of presence and connection with the world around us. I also go into the importance of being mindful of our attention and how it's being used, and how we can start to make changes to our social media habits to prioritize what's truly important to us. And of course some practical tips and advice for anyone looking to start their own journey towards a slower, more intentional life. If you're feeling overwhelmed by the demands of social media and want to find a more balanced way of living, this episode is a must-listen. Join me over the next 30 days to explore the benefits of a slower pace of life, and discover how you can start to make changes to your own social media habits to focus on what truly matters.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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    How to not let people use your insecurities against you, and finally become comfortable in your own skin

    Ahhhh Insecurities. I feel like they are used against us in all areas of life. Advertising, social media, internet trolls, trends, unhealthy relationships and even well meaning friends and family!  this ep uncovers what insecurities actually are, the common behaviors to look out for in yourself, and how to learn to live with, embrace or change (in a healthy way) the things that you are insecure about so they no longer control you and how you move forward in life. Secure people are not those with zero 'flaws' or things that they don't love, they are people that despite these 'things' are able to love who they are and be comfortable with that. and when that happens, no one can use your insecurities against you. Brain Fact - Fen Phen and why it got discontinued. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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    Family Narcissist Bingo. How many did you tick off?

    Bonjour beans, and welcome to the episode today. - Episode 499.We go into a sort of 'bingo' of things that may be said by a narcissistic family member. I gathered a lot of this information thanks to you guys, my audience and what you have written in in response to my questions around dealing with difficult family members. I also do a pharmacology fact (Quaaludes) and a listener question at the end where we discuss when you have a friend who is imitating your every move - what can you do? Hope you enjoy! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

Mindset hacks for a badass life, hosted by cognitive neuroscientist Alexis Fernandez.On Mondays my episodes are a combo of neuroscience and psychology. I deep dive into everything from habit formation and how to live a carefree life, to friendships and heartbreak. And on Fridays we've got Head Noise - where I answer your questions!Email [email protected] to submit your questions.Order your copy of my latest book How to Chase Change at https://bit.ly/44xwszR

HOSTED BY

Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa - Neuroscientist and Mindset Coach

Produced by Mindset Recreation Club

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Mindset hacks for a badass life, hosted by cognitive neuroscientist Alexis Fernandez.On Mondays my episodes are a combo of neuroscience and psychology. I deep dive into everything from habit formation and how to live a carefree life, to friendships and heartbreak. And on Fridays we've got Head...

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