Eclectic Cleric

What can dance, qigong, trauma release, and the changing seasons teach us about creativity, healing, and spiritual life? In this episode of Sidesteps, Rabbi Alon Ferency speaks with movement teacher, qigong practitioner, and author Lara J. Day about embodiment, nervous system regulation, creativity, and reconnecting with nature as a spiritual practice. Together they explore neurogenic tremoring and trauma release, the transition from dance to yoga to qigong, the wisdom of the body's natural healing responses, and why modern culture often teaches us to suppress movement, emotion, darkness, and rest. The conversation also examines winter solstice rituals, the origins of modern holidays, homeschooling and creativity, parenting, aging, and the role of faith and surrender in times of crisis. Topics include: • Qigong and energy medicine • Trauma release and nervous system healing • Dance, creativity, and embodied practice • Seasonal living and winter solstice traditions • Spirituality, nature, and the experience of God • Parenting, education, and lifelong learning • Faith, grief, and letting go of control If you've ever wondered how creativity, movement, and nature can become portals to healing and meaning, this conversation is for you. https://www.larajday.com   https://www.amazon.com/dp/1582708843?lv=shuf&bestFormat=true&social_share=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_H73CX65BDB4NJSJ71YWM&channelId=704&ref_=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_H73CX65BDB4NJSJ71YWM&plpRedirect=mhFallback

This guided imagery is inspired by Numbers 4 - 7 (Parashat Naso) and the ancient teaching of the three camps surrounding the wilderness sanctuary. In this journey, you move inward through three sacred circles of belonging. First, the camp of Israel: the place of family, friendship, memory, and human connection. Here, you reflect on the people who hold and shape your life. Then, the camp of the Levites: the realm of music, creativity, devotion, craft, and passion. This is the fire of your gifts, your voice, your art, your calling. Finally, you enter the camp of the Shekhinah, the innermost sanctuary beyond words — the quiet place of soul, mystery, Divine presence, and deep benevolence. Through breath, visualization, and reflection, this meditation invites you to travel from outer life to inner essence, discovering how community, creativity, and spirit form a path toward wholeness.

A gentle nighttime meditation inspired by the ancient Jewish practice of preparing the soul for sleep. This ritual invites you to close the day with softness, honesty, and gratitude — releasing tension, reviewing the moments that shaped you, and returning to yourself with compassion. Through calming breath, reflection, and quiet awareness, you’ll create space to let go of unfinished thoughts and settle the nervous system before rest. Rather than striving to “sleep perfectly,” this practice treats bedtime as sacred threshold: a crossing from effort into trust, from noise into stillness. Ideal for evenings when the mind is crowded, the heart is tender, or the body needs help unwinding. Come as you are — weary, grateful, restless, hopeful — and allow the day to gently loosen its grip.

Roughly a week ago, Veronica Moya contacted me to appear on my podcast. I had never interviewed anyone here before, and I'm glad I took her up on it. Veronica is multi-faceted with a spetacular personal, professional, and spiritual history: artist, performer, educator, mindfulness teacher.  Our wonderful talk touched upon the soul, creative Sidesteps, the transcendent power of song and other performance, and especially the ways in which childhood is limited by external messages, yet how to reinforce play, creativity, and resilience instead.  Thank you Veronica for being my premier guest! (https://veronicamoya.com) (The song referred to is Soda Stereo's "En la Ciudad de la Furia" with this beautiful live recording: https://youtu.be/FvYwvQt6jO0?si=zH_qcO0T6uSEk_Ji)

A guided meditation inspired by the Book of Numbers and the great encampment in the wilderness. In the Bible, every tribe gathered in its place — close enough for connection, with enough space for dignity, difference, and belonging. In this meditation, you’ll enter a wide open landscape and slowly create your own sacred camp: inviting family, friends, teachers, ancestors, estranged loved ones, and unexpected guests into the circle. Through gentle visualization, you’ll imagine where each person belongs, how close or far they sit, what gifts they bring, and what healing may emerge simply from being gathered together beneath the open sky. Some arrive with joy, others with complexity, memory, or grief. All are welcomed with curiosity and care. This practice offers space to reflect on community, boundaries, belonging, and the deeper question of what it means to make room for one another in the wilderness of our lives.

A Jewish-inspired bedtime ritual rooted in the ancient practice of the nighttime Shema. This meditation invites you to gently review the day, release what’s unfinished, and soften into rest. With simple breath awareness and a quiet letting go, you set aside worries, offer forgiveness to yourself and others, and entrust your spirit to the care of the night. No striving, no fixing—just being held. A calm threshold between doing and rest, helping you ease mental noise, relax the body, and prepare for restorative sleep.

A grounding meditation on pride as a steady, honest recognition of what is good in you. Often dismissed or distorted, pride here is reclaimed as clarity—the ability to see your efforts, your growth, your character, and to name them without apology. Through gentle reflection, you’ll be guided to notice specific qualities you respect in yourself: moments of courage, persistence, creativity, care. This is not inflation, but right-sizing: standing in your own life with dignity and awareness. A quiet strengthening of self-trust, rooted in truth and attention.

A short, playful meditation designed to gently unlock laughter from within. Through simple breath, subtle sound, and a relaxed smile, you’ll ease the body out of tension and into lightness. This practice doesn’t force joy—it creates the conditions for it, inviting a natural sense of humor to emerge. The line between breath and laughter begins to blur, awakening the body’s innate rhythm of release. You may find yourself smiling, chuckling, or simply softening. Either way, this is a space to reconnect with levity, to hold your own seriousness more loosely, and to remember that laughter can be a quiet, restorative form of presence.

A meditation on loving your neighbor as yourself begins, quietly, with how you hold your own life. Sit and call to mind three things: something you’re grateful for, something you worked hard to earn or become, and something you love simply because it lights you up. Let each one land fully—no deflection, no minimizing. This is what it means to “ought” to love yourself: not indulgence, but honest recognition. Then, gently, extend that same stance outward. Imagine a neighbor—especially one who unsettles you—and offer them the same generosity: their efforts, their loves, their unseen struggles. Notice where resistance rises, where they mirror parts of you you’d rather avoid. Stay there, soft but steady. Let your self-regard widen into regard for them—not sentimentality, but a disciplined, grounded goodwill aimed at their real good.

This soft bedtime practice is inspired by Kriat Sh'ma al haMitah — the Jewish tradition of reciting the Sh'ma before sleep. As the day ends, you'll be gently guided to set down whatever the day held — finished or unfinished — and settle into stillness. Through simple breath, a moment of reflection, and words from an ancient, beloved prayer, the practice cultivates forgiveness, protection, and a quiet sense of surrender. No particular beliefs or spiritual background required — just a willingness to end the day with intention, and to rest.

From Leviticus, the rabbis notice that the biblical “leprosy” afflicting a person may arise from harmful speech. The cure, then, begins with silence. This meditation invites us to step away from the noise of our own words and enter a quiet chamber within. Leviticus speaks also of childbirth, recalling an ancient teaching: that in the womb a child knows the whole Torah, a deep and wordless wisdom, forgotten only at the moment of birth. In silence we return there. Beneath the chatter, beneath the need to explain or defend, lives an embryonic knowing—subtle, patient, whole. Sit without speaking. Let the mind soften. Ask your question not with the tongue but with the heart. Then listen for the faint memory of the wisdom you once carried, before words.

This soft bedtime practice is inspired by Kriat Sh'ma al haMitah — the Jewish tradition of reciting the Sh'ma before sleep. As the day ends, you'll be gently guided to set down whatever the day held — finished or unfinished — and settle into stillness. Through simple breath, a moment of reflection, and words from an ancient, beloved prayer, the practice cultivates forgiveness, protection, and a quiet sense of surrender. No particular beliefs or spiritual background required — just a willingness to end the day with intention, and to rest.

Before Passover, we search for hametz—leaven, the agent that makes dough swell and rise. In meditation, hametz can be understood in several dimensions. In the body, it resembles inflammation: places that feel swollen, tender, or sore, where irritation lingers in the tissues. In the heart, it mirrors fermentation: emotions quietly bubbling and expanding beneath the surface—old frustrations, excitements, or unsettled feelings working themselves through. In the mind and spirit, hametz becomes inflation—the subtle rising of the ego, the sense of being puffed up with certainty, pride, or self-importance. This meditation invites a gentle inner search, like the candlelit inspection before Passover. Where is the body swollen or sore? Where are feelings fermenting? Where has the self become inflated? The practice is not harsh purging but attentive noticing. With breath and awareness, we sweep these spaces lightly, allowing swelling to ease, ferment to settle, and the puffed-up self to soften—returning to a simpler, humbler presence ready for renewal.

Fire and Blood: a meditation from Tzav Sit and sense the altar within you—the place where offering becomes transformation. Notice first the blood: the quiet pulse beneath your skin, the steady river of life-force, motive, survival, memory. Feel it move without your command. This is what animates you, what carries your why through the body. Now turn to the fire. Not the destructive blaze, but the ever-burning flame—tended, intentional, alive. Sense the spark of longing, the breath that rises, the heat of care, anger, devotion, desire. This is your passion, your spirit’s upward reach. In Tzav, blood meets fire. The given meets the chosen. The life you inherit meets the flame you tend. Breathe them together: inhale the grounded weight of blood; exhale the lifting warmth of fire. Let them meet on the altar of your awareness. Offer what is stuck. Let the fire refine it; let the blood carry it. Stay until you feel both: rooted and rising, body and soul, held and burning.

In Leviticus, error is not erased—it is named, held, and softened. Shogeg marks the places we missed the mark without knowing: speaking sharply to a friend, forgetting a promise, drifting from what matters. Meizid names what we knew and did anyway: the harsh email, the indulgence, the small betrayals of our own values. A grounded meditation does not blur these distinctions—it speaks them clearly. And then, it loosens their grip. Sit, breathe, and name the mistakes without flinching. Not to harden them into identity, but to reduce their charge. Each naming is also a letting go: I did this—and I am not only this. Setbacks become part of the terrain, not a verdict on the traveler. Hold yourself as you would another: firmly honest, gently human. In this space, awareness becomes release, and release becomes the beginning of return.

Creation is a weaving. Many strands—distinct, fragile on their own—are twisted together until they gain strength and beauty. The work of the sanctuary reminds us that sacred things are rarely made alone. Vision may begin in solitude, but it comes alive in collaboration, where each person offers their thread. The rabbis imagined the cherubs above the ark turning toward one another when love flowed among the people, and turning away when that connection frayed. In this meditation, we breathe with that movement of relationship. With each inhale we gather ourselves, sensing our own strand. With each exhale we remember the others beside us. The work of building something holy happens here: in the quiet rhythm of breath, where individuality and togetherness are gently woven into one living fabric.

This soft bedtime practice is inspired by Kriat Sh'ma al haMitah — the Jewish tradition of reciting the Sh'ma before sleep. As the day ends, you'll be gently guided to set down whatever the day held — finished or unfinished — and settle into stillness. Through simple breath, a moment of reflection, and words from an ancient, beloved prayer, the practice cultivates forgiveness, protection, and a quiet sense of surrender. No particular beliefs or spiritual background required — just a willingness to end the day with intention, and to rest.

A reflection on Exodus 36:2 In the wilderness, those whose hearts were stirred brought gifts for the tabernacle — gold, thread, acacia wood, the weight of devotion made material. The Hebrew nassa libbo means "his heart lifted him up," yet to lift is also to carry. This meditation sits inside that tension: the heart lightened by purpose, and the heart burdened by what it bears. Drawing on Tim O'Brien's The Things They Carried — where soldiers named the literal and invisible weights they brought to war — we ask: what do you carry into sacred space? Through breath and stillness, you are invited to name your burdens — the grief, the obligation, the unfinished thing — and then, gently, to set them down. Not as abandonment, but as offering. The tabernacle was built by lifted hearts. This practice ends in that same lightness: hands open, shoulders released, the self arriving — unburdened — into the present moment.

This gentle bedtime ritual draws on the ancient practice of Kriat Sh'ma al haMitah, the recitation of the Shema before sleep. As the day comes to a close, participants are guided to release what has been done and what remains undone, making space for rest, trust, and repair. Through breath, brief reflection, and softly spoken words from the Sh’ma and surrounding tradition, the practice invites a felt sense of protection, forgiveness, and surrender. It is not about belief or perfection, but about ending the day with presence and care—consciously returning what we carry, and placing the soul back in God’s keeping so the body can fully rest. Ideal for anyone seeking a sacred, grounding close to the day and a more peaceful, wholehearted transition into sleep.

In the Book of Exodus, the priest carries twelve stones over his heart, illumined by the Urim and Tumim. Tetzaveh means command, and also connection. Begin by returning to yourself. One slow inhale. One full exhale. Feel your own steady flame. Now, bring one person to mind. As you inhale, receive them. As you exhale, send light. Pause. Return to your own breath. Again—another name. Inhale, you make space for them. Exhale, you shine. Pause. Come home to yourself. Move this way through all twelve. Each one held for a single long breath in, a single long breath out. No fixing. No story. Only light passing there and back again. When the twelfth has faded, rest. Inhale. Exhale. Feel your own heart luminous and whole.

This gentle bedtime ritual draws on the ancient practice of Kriat Sh'ma al haMitah, the recitation of the Shema before sleep. As the day comes to a close, participants are guided to release what has been done and what remains undone, making space for rest, trust, and repair. Through breath, brief reflection, and softly spoken words from the Sh’ma and surrounding tradition, the practice invites a felt sense of protection, forgiveness, and surrender. It is not about belief or perfection, but about ending the day with presence and care—consciously returning what we carry, and placing the soul back in God’s keeping so the body can fully rest. Ideal for anyone seeking a sacred, grounding close to the day and a more peaceful, wholehearted transition into sleep.

In Exodus 6:2-9:35 (Parashat Va-era), the Torah notes a subtle but profound detail: Pharaoh’s magicians could imitate the plagues—but only to make them worse. They could turn water to blood, but not restore it. They could summon frogs, but not remove them. This meditation reflects on that imbalance, inviting us to notice the difference between taking from the world and giving back to it. Together, we will gently explore where we may be adding strain, noise, or depletion—to our bodies, our relationships, our work, or the earth itself—and where we might practice repair instead. Through breath, awareness, and intention, this meditation invites a return to balance: a shift from escalation to easing, from consumption to care, from power-over to stewardship. What does it mean, today, to make things better rather than merely louder, bigger, or more intense?

This gentle bedtime ritual draws on the ancient practice of Kriat Sh’ma al haMitah—the recitation of the Sh’ma before sleep. As the day comes to a close, participants are guided to release what has been done and what remains undone, making space for rest, trust, and repair. Through breath, brief reflection, and softly spoken words from the Sh’ma and surrounding tradition, this practice invites a sense of protection, forgiveness, and surrender. It is not about belief or perfection, but about ending the day with presence and care—placing the soul back in God’s keeping, and allowing the body to rest. Ideal for anyone seeking a sacred, grounding close to the day and a more peaceful transition into sleep.

The first five chapters of Exodus open in a world where cruelty is normalized—enslavement, fear, and the hardening of hearts. And yet, the story turns not on power, but on kindness: midwives who refuse to kill, a mother who protects, a sister who watches, a princess who feels compassion. Small acts of care quietly interrupt a vast system of harm. This meditation invites you to notice where cruelty shows up today—first toward yourself, then in your closest relationships, your community, and the wider world. Through gentle reflection and breath, you are invited to practice resistance not through force, but through tenderness: choosing patience over harshness, curiosity over judgment, care over despair. Like the women of Exodus, we remember that kindness is not naïve—it is moral courage that keeps humanity alive, one small, faithful act at a time.

This New Year meditation offers a gentle threshold between what has been and what is becoming. Participants are guided to reflect on the past year with honesty and compassion—acknowledging moments of growth, grief, effort, and surprise—without judgment or repair. Through breath and body awareness, the practice invites release: loosening what no longer needs to be carried, setting down expectations, regrets, and unfinished narratives. From this clearing, attention turns toward the year ahead—not as a list of goals, but as a field of possibility. Participants are invited to listen inwardly for qualities they wish to cultivate, values they want to live from, and intentions that feel spacious rather than demanding. The meditation closes by anchoring openness and presence, welcoming the new year not as something to conquer, but as a relationship to enter with curiosity, courage, and care.

This brief meditation opens with a single, trembling word of hope: oulai—“perhaps.” When Abraham stands before God and pleads for the people of Sodom, he invokes a moral imagination willing to search for goodness amid ruin: “Perhaps there are fifty righteous… perhaps ten.” Perhaps becomes a quiet mantra, loosening the grip of certainty, resentment, and despair. Through breath and simple contemplation, participants are invited to hold their own places of injury, conflict, or difference within this spacious uncertainty—softening judgment and making room for compassion. Perhaps is not indecision but permission: the courage to imagine goodness where none seems visible, to let empathy and curiosity gently restore what fear divides. Repeating oulai yesh—“perhaps there is”—we practice a modest but vital faith: that healing and justice may yet be possible, one perhaps at a time.