ENOUGH

The start of an experience we didn't realise we needed. Welcome to episode one where we explain how our worlds collided and why we decided you needed this space just as much as we did.We are just two girls who love feeling like we have it all together; whilst having no idea what we are doing, and we know you're feeling the same.So here we are letting you know how we came together, we chat seasons, reasons and moments we know you'll relate to. Have fun, we'll see you next week xo 

Ever feel like no matter how much you do, it’s never enough?Like rest makes you feel guilty, and achievement is the only thing that makes you feel worthy?In this episode, we unpack the deep pressure to perform; where it comes from, how it shows up in your body, and why constantly proving yourself is exhausting your nervous system.You’re not lazy. You’re just tired from performing for your worth.This is your reminder: you don’t have to earn your enough-ness. You already are.

You can journal, meditate, eat clean, and do all the inner work — but if you haven’t faced what you still haven’t forgiven, you’ll always feel a little stuck.In this raw and personal episode, I open up about my own struggle with self-forgiveness — the shame, the spirals, the guilt I’ve carried — and how it kept me from fully healing.Because the truth is, you’ll never feel the peace you’re craving until you find forgiveness — not just for others, but for yourself too.This is the missing piece. Let’s talk about it.

In this first episode of the ENOUGH. podcast, I’m taking you right into the heart of what this rebrand is all about — and why I created this space in the first place.If you’ve ever felt stuck, burnt out, lost in who you are, or constantly chasing validation just to feel okay… this one’s for you.I don't know about you, but I am sick of living in survival mode, hitting rock bottom (more than once), and I am finally saying:“I’ve had enough.”Its time to change, and that starts with these three pillars:→ I’ve had enough.→ I am enough.→ This is enough.My mission is to help redefine what ENOUGH means.Because the real you is not too much, not behind, and not broken — she’s just been waiting for you to finally believe…you’ve always been enough.

Feeling stuck? Flat? Like you’ve lost your spark and can’t seem to get it back? You’re not lazy. You’re not failing. You’re just disconnected—and that’s something we can work with.In this episode, I’m walking you through what it really means to be in a rut (because it’s more than just “lack of motivation”) and how to shift your energy in a way that actually lasts.We’ll cover:🌀 Why we get stuck in cycles of overthinking, shame, and burnout⚡️ The power of tiny shifts over huge life overhauls💛 3 practical steps to reconnect to yourself and start building momentum againThis isn’t about doing more. It’s about doing what actually feels aligned.🎧 Tune in now, and if you’re ready to stop waiting for motivation and start feeling like YOU again—Project; ME is now open. This 12 week coaching space will help you rebuild your routine, confidence, and connection to self. Hit me up on Insta!

At the time, it felt like everything was falling apart. I was heartbroken, lost, and questioning my worth. But what I didn’t realize back then was that this breakup would become the catalyst for the biggest transformation of my life.In this episode, I’m sharing the real, raw story behind my heartbreak—and the powerful lessons it taught me about self-worth, identity, and becoming the version of me I was always meant to be.You’ll hear:💔 Why heartbreak is often a doorway to self-discovery💛 The 3 biggest lessons I learned from letting go💪🏼 How to turn pain into power, and loss into alignmentThis isn’t just about moving on—it’s about moving into yourself.If you’re navigating heartbreak or feeling lost in who you are without someone else, this episode is for you.🎧 Tune in now—and if you’re ready to rebuild your relationship with YOU, my 6-week course Project; ME is open. Hit me up on insta!

We often separate health and happiness like they’re two different things—but the truth is, they are deeply connected. How you treat your body is a direct reflection of how you feel about yourself. And how you feel about yourself impacts the choices you make for your health.In this episode, we’re diving into:💜 Why your emotional well-being shows up in your physical health💜 How to shift from “fixing” your body to actually feeling into it💜 Why nervous system regulation is just as important as clean eating and workouts💜Three simple ways to align your health with how you want to feelThis isn’t about being perfect—it’s about being honest with how you’re really doing, and learning to care for yourself from a place of love, not pressure.🎧 Tune in now and ask yourself: Does my health reflect how I want to feel in my life?📩 DM me your biggest takeaway—I’d love to hear what landed for you. 💜

Have you ever walked away from a relationship feeling like you don’t even know who you are anymore? Like you gave so much to them that you forgot about you? The hard truth? No one can take you away from yourself unless you let them.In this episode, we’re getting real about why we lose ourselves in relationships—and how to reclaim our identity without guilt. We’ll break down:🔹 The sneaky ways we abandon ourselves in love🔹 Signs you’ve lost yourself (and how to course-correct)🔹 The 3 powerful steps to rebuild your sense of self while still loving deeplyLoving someone shouldn’t mean losing yourself. It’s time to take your power back. 💛🎧 Tune in now & let’s chat. DM me after the episode—I’d love to hear your thoughts!

Ever felt like people keep leaving, rejecting, or overlooking you? What if the real issue isn’t them abandoning you—but you abandoning yourself?In this powerful episode, we talk about:🔹 What self-abandonment actually looks like (hint: it’s not just about relationships)🔹 How past wounds can make you overfunction, overgive, and overextend just to feel safe🔹 Three steps to heal, reclaim yourself, and set boundaries—without guiltIt’s time to stop losing yourself in the fear of losing others. This is where self-trust begins. 💛📩 DM me after listening—I want to hear: What’s ONE way you’re choosing yourself this week?

Are you constantly doing more—but still feeling unfulfilled, overwhelmed, or stuck? Maybe the answer isn’t adding more to your plate. Maybe it’s about doing less, but with more intention.In this episode, we dive into why chronic busyness isn’t the flex we think it is and how always striving for more can actually keep you further from what you truly want. You’ll learn:✨ Why you might be addicted to the stimulation of stress (not the success)✨ How to shift from doing more to doing what matters most✨ Three steps to simplify your life without guilt—and actually feel good about itIf you’ve been running on empty, this is your sign to slow down and realign. 💛📩 After you listen, DM me and let me know—what’s ONE thing you’re giving yourself permission to stop doing this week?

Ever feel like no matter how hard you try, you’re not making real progress? The truth is, you can’t move forward until you fully accept where you are right now.Most people stay stuck because they:❌ Avoid reality and pretend things aren’t as bad as they feel❌ Beat themselves up instead of working with what’s in front of them❌ Compare themselves to where they should be, keeping them in frustration instead of actionIn this episode, we’re breaking down:🔥 Why acceptance isn’t the same as settling (and how it actually unlocks change)🔥 The biggest reasons people resist reality and stay stuck in the process🔥 How radical self-honesty shifts you from powerless to empowered🔥 A mindset shift that will help you stop fighting the present and start moving forwardIf you’ve been feeling stuck, this episode is your permission slip to drop the resistance, own your reality, and take back your power.🎧 Tune in now and start moving forward from a place of clarity.🔗 Connect with me: @lakenspeedy_💬 Let’s chat! DM me, tell me what you're not accepting in your life.

Welcome back! 🚀 This episode marks the start of a new season and the first episode of 2025, and we’re diving straight into something powerful: Why intention matters more than direction.So many people get stuck asking, “How do I get there?” without ever pausing to ask “Why am I even going there?” The truth is, clarity isn’t about knowing every step—it’s about knowing your intention first. When you lead with intention, the right direction naturally follows.In this episode, we cover:🔥 What it actually means to be intentional (beyond outdated goal-setting)🔥 Why most people get in their own way chasing the wrong things🔥 The 3 biggest reasons you feel lost or stuck🔥 How to shift from “What should I do?” to “Who am I becoming?”If you’ve ever felt like you’re running but not getting anywhere, this episode is for you. It’s time to stop chasing and start aligning.🎧 Tune in now, and let’s set the foundation for the life you actually want.🔗 Connect with me: @lakenspeedy_💬 Loved this episode? Share your biggest takeaway with me on Instagram!

Don't burn yourself out more during the silly season. As the year comes to an end you don't need to put anymore pressure on yourself, nor do you need to give up on yourself because life is busy.

I'm baaaaaack from a much needed hiatus, and I am sharing some golden nuggets from one of the hardest times in my life... I literally lost my WHOLE life, but found myself and I grateful.

This one shift will help you kill that "all or nothing" mindset that is keeping you inconsistent and giving up on yourself when life gets in the way.You deserve to show up for yourself and sometimes that may just have to look different some days, and that is OKAY!! 

Todays episode will serve you regardless of what age you are, whether you are about to head into your twenties, going through them or have been through them you will gain perspective that will leave you feeling a little better about the most confusing age range...

We all want to be happy, if only we could be all day everyday! Unfortunately thats not possible and in this episode I am going to help you understand why, but also help you create more feel goods to give you a happier life... So tune in! Follow us on instagram Host: Laken Speedy 

Are you ready to live life a little more on your terms? Its time to stop thinking you have to follow the crowd, and if you're sick of trying to do what others are doing and wandering why its not working for you let me help you find your own way to finally achieve what you want and ENJOY IT.Host: Laken Speedy Instagram: It's your life podcast

Tune into this controversial chat about why you should stop setting goals if you're constantly stuck not achieving them... Learn the power of being intentional rather than a strict goal setter so that you can finally make positive progress forward in your life, because life is too short not to be progressing and enjoying it! 

Stay stuck or make the change? Change often feels scary or impossible long term, and in this episode I am going to help you change that. Tune in as I share with you my 4 step process to help make change easy, enjoyable and sustainable! Host: Laken Speedy Follow It's Your Life, Yours Rules Podcast on instagram 

If you find yourself in a season where life just ain't lifing and you are feeling stuck, then this episode is for you. Tune in to hear my biggest tips to help you get back into a flow state where life feels like it's working for you not against you. Instagram: It's Your Life, Your RulesYour Host: Laken Speedy

On this episode, I discuss the concept of taking responsibility for yourself and get into the nitty gritty of how to stop hurting your own feelings by holding yourself to external standards that end up hurting you in the long run. Instagram: It's Your Life, Your Rules Your Host: Laken Speedy 

Welcome to the first episode of the It's Your Life, Your Rules podcast where I introduce myself, learn a little bit of who I am and why I decided you need to hear my voice on your daily walks, drives or whatever hot girls do when they listen to podcasts. Instagram: Its Your Life, Your Rules Your Host: Laken Speedy