F*ck Your High Vibes

What do you actually want—and is that desire truly yours? In this episode of FYHV, Nicole explores the uncomfortable but honest space between what was and what comes next, where old motivations fade and deeper truths begin to surface. Together, we examine why clarity often starts not with knowing what you want, but with recognizing what no longer fits. If you've been feeling stuck, uncertain, or disconnected from your direction, this conversation offers a different way forward. Because sometimes the path to what you want begins with telling the truth about what you don't. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit nicwithlove.substack.com/subscribe

We’ve been through something…the question is: what do we do with it now?In this collective vibe check, Nicole explores the energy that has brought us to this moment, the lessons hidden within recent challenges, and how to move forward with greater awareness, honesty, and intention. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit nicwithlove.substack.com/subscribe

Summer is approaching, the energy is intensifying, and the world feels louder than ever. This episode is an invitation to slow down, reflect on the transition from spring into summer, and reconnect with yourself before the noise of the season fully arrives. FYHV Summer School officially begins June 27th with new episodes dropping Saturdays at 11:11 AM EST throughout the summer. Learn how to stay connected to yourself while the world gets louder. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit nicwithlove.substack.com/subscribe

In this Love Chat episode, Nicole Love explores the space between trigger and reaction and how chronic chaos conditions the nervous system to live in urgency, overstimulation, and emotional reactivity. This episode unpacks survival-based responses, conscious awareness, and why calm can feel uncomfortable when chaos has become the baseline. Together we talk about pause, discernment, nervous system recalibration, and learning how not to continue the emotional momentum unconsciously. Because the shift doesn’t happen in the chaos, it happens in the moment you choose not to continue it. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit nicwithlove.substack.com/subscribe

In this Cutting Through the BS episode, we unpack how chronic chaos, overstimulation, emotional activation, and survival mode quietly begin rewiring your nervous system, perception, and frequency. This truth session explores how chaos becomes a setpoint the body adapts to over time, impacting emotional regulation, intuition, relationships, creativity, and the way we interpret reality itself. We also cut through the performative “high vibes only” narrative to talk about the difference between real discernment and becoming emotionally consumed by the chaos around you. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit nicwithlove.substack.com/subscribe

In this episode, we take a deeper look at what a chaos setpoint actually is and how it quietly becomes the baseline your system learns to function within. This conversation explores the mental, emotional, and behavioral patterns that can keep you stuck in cycles of overthinking, reacting, fixing, and constantly feeling activated, even when nothing is technically wrong. I also share a vulnerable real-time moment of catching myself slipping into a chaos setpoint, highlighting how subtle and normalized these patterns can become. Because if you don’t recognize the setpoint, you may mistake survival mode for just “how life is". This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit nicwithlove.substack.com/subscribe