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First Gen Second Thoughts
by First Gen Second Thoughts
First Gen, Second ThoughtsTwo humans tryna heal… who also happen to be married.Breaking cycles isn’t just a buzzword; for us, it’s a daily practice. First Gen, Second Thoughts is a raw, relatable exploration of the intersection between cultural expectations, mental health, and the modern marriage.Hosted by Raja and Arishma, this space serves as a gateway for those who feel like therapy "isn’t for people like us." We bring our own unique backgrounds to the conversation: Raja, an SFSU Psychology grad with an emphasis in Child Development, focuses on unearthing the roots of our behaviors to build a healthier foundation for the next generation; Arishma, a UC Davis Linguistics alumna, specializes in the art of communication and the deep connections formed—or broken—by the way we speak to ourselves and each other.We’re peeling back the curtain on our own journeys—from the awkward first sessions to the "aha" moments—to show that healing doesn't have to be clinical or intimidating. Whether
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The Privilege of Healing Ep.05
After an unplanned summer hiatus, Arishma and Raja return to ask what healing really costs. They break it down into four “quarters” that make the dollar: the money to afford therapy, the time and space to pause, an environment safe enough to process in, and the emotional bandwidth to look in the...
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No Contact Ep.04
First Gen, Second Thoughts — Episode 4 Choosing to walk away from family members isn’t a trend, a phase, or an easy way out. It is a profound, often heart-wrenching boundary-setting tool used for self-preservation and emotional survival. In this heavy but deeply necessary episode, hosts Arishma…
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Addiction Ep.03
In this episode, we define addiction as a chronic brain disorder and discuss its far-reaching impact on families. Arishma provides clinical context for how addiction alters brain circuits related to reward and self-control, highlighting the emotional toll on the family unit. She also shares her...
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Pride vs. Shame Ep.02
In this episode, we dive into the complex emotions of pride and shame within the immigrant family dynamic. We explore how the pressure to succeed—from that first “Student of the Month” assembly to the weight of being a “cash cow” after graduation—can shape our identities and our relationships.…
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First Gen, First Steps Ep. 01
First Gen, Second Thoughts Two humans tryna heal… who also happen to be married. Breaking cycles isn’t just a buzzword; for us, it’s a daily practice. First Gen, Second Thoughts is a raw, relatable look at the intersection of cultural expectations, mental health, and the modern marriage. Hosted…
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First Gen, Second ThoughtsTwo humans tryna heal… who also happen to be married.Breaking cycles isn’t just a buzzword; for us, it’s a daily practice. First Gen, Second Thoughts is a raw, relatable exploration of the intersection between cultural expectations, mental health, and the modern marriage.Hosted by Raja and Arishma, this space serves as a gateway for those who feel like therapy "isn’t for people like us." We bring our own unique backgrounds to the conversation: Raja, an SFSU Psychology grad with an emphasis in Child Development, focuses on unearthing the roots of our behaviors to build a healthier foundation for the next generation; Arishma, a UC Davis Linguistics alumna, specializes in the art of communication and the deep connections formed—or broken—by the way we speak to ourselves and each other.We’re peeling back the curtain on our own journeys—from the awkward first sessions to the "aha" moments—to show that healing doesn't have to be clinical or intimidating. Whether
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