From Where We Sit

In this episode, we dive into the power of generous laughter and why humor is one of the best healing tools we have. We talk about everything from de-escalating tense moments and knowing when to use comedic timing, to the old saying "dying of laughter." Honestly, if there’s any way to go, that’s the one. At the end of the day, keeping your sense of humor alive might just be the secret to staying grateful, grounded, and genuinely positive through whatever life throws at you.

Are influencers modern-day digital visionaries or just slick snake-oil salesmen with ring lights? In this episode, we unpack the wild world of the influencer economy, from the high-polish Mad Men era of advertising to today’s endless feed of algorithm chasers, content mills, and grassroots hustlers. We cut through the BS to break down what makes us immediately smash the back button, why "influencer" became such a dirty word and how genuine creators are still out here doing the real work, building their tribe and keeping it authentic. Love ’em or hate ’em, everyone’s selling something, so let’s talk about it. Pull up a chair, tune in, and let us know where you sit!

When did talking to each other become so difficult?We start with something simple: the automatic “I’m good” we give when someone asks how we’re doing. But the conversation quickly turns into something bigger. Whether we’re losing the willingness, confidence or ability to genuinely connect with other people. We talk about striking up conversations with strangers, why social skills need practice, what phones and social media have changed, and whether AI is starting to replace conversations we used to have with actual people.Steve also opens up about feeling burned out by technology and experiencing real “device fatigue,” and why sometimes the answer might be as simple as putting the phone down and talking to somebody.From Where We Sit is a conversation between two friends about life, culture and whatever else we’re trying to figure out along the way.Much love to you all. From Where We Sit 🎙️

What happens when willpower just isn't working?GiBi opens up about his struggle with sugar, carbs, late-night eating and the extra weight that's beginning to affect everything from everyday life to surfing. With GLP-1 medications seemingly everywhere, he's started wondering whether they could be the answer, or whether he's looking for a shortcut around a problem he needs to face himself.That turns into a bigger conversation about cravings, discipline, addiction, changing habits and how difficult it can be to know when you need help versus when you simply need to start.And before the conversation is over, GiBi does exactly that.Much love to you all.From Where We Sit 🎙️

Ever feel like you’ve lost your North Star, or maybe that you’re just overthinking the entire concept of "purpose"? In this episode, my friend and I sit down for an honest, unvarnished chat about what happens when you feel totally unmoored, why the pressure to find a single lifelong calling can actually paralyze us, and how to navigate the messy middle when you're feeling directionless. Grab a coffee, settle in, and let us know in the comments if this resonates with where you're at right now.

Who are you really creating for? Yourself, the audience, the outcome or the recognition that comes with it?This week, we get into creativity from the inside out: where ideas come from, how life experience becomes something tangible and what happens when you stop obsessing over how the work will be received. Steve opens up about the process behind Chasing Comfort, how years of mental health advocacy eventually found a creative outlet and why some of the most meaningful work starts with following an idea before you know exactly where it’s going.We also talk about instinct versus structure, keeping the process simple, the messiness behind making something and why success can’t be the only reason to create.Sometimes the best work happens when you stop trying to manufacture the result and make something because it feels true to you.So, who are you creating for?Much love to you all.From Where We Sit 🎙️

What goes through your head when you see someone in trouble—do you jump in or play it safe? In this episode, we’re opening up about what it really takes to show up for others, from the split-second impulse of ocean rescues to stepping in during everyday emergencies. We talk about the fine line between bravery and putting yourself in hot water, why so many people freeze or look the other way, and how looking out for each other is just built into who we are. It’s a honest, real conversation about courage, risk, and having a stranger’s back when it counts.

Ever notice how a single song can instantly drop you right back into a specific moment in time? In this episode, we’re kicking back and diving into the "soundtrack of life"—from the chaotic tracks that get us through life's wildest curveballs to the nostalgic tunes that connect us with family and old memories. Whether you're a fellow music junkie, a film score nerd, or just somebody who needs the perfect running playlist to get through the week, come hang out with us as we break down why music hits our emotions so hard and how it shapes almost every chapter of our lives.

Why do some friendships last a lifetime while others slowly fade away?In this episode of From Where We Sit, we explore the foundations of lasting friendship—from difficult conversations and healthy boundaries to the role ego plays in how we communicate. We discuss vulnerability, emotional honesty, respect, and why disagreement doesn't have to end a meaningful relationship.If you've ever struggled to maintain friendships, avoid hard conversations, or wondered what makes a true friend, this episode is for you.

In this episode of From Where We Sit, we take an honest look at our relationship with money—from the trap of chasing status symbols to the real-world pressures of rising living costs, housing, and inflation. Whether you’re navigating the daily hustle or rethinking your priorities later in life, we explore what it really takes to stop stressing over wealth and start making peace with money as a tool for true happiness.

In this episode of From Where We Sit, we explore the attention economy, how our attention has become one of the most valuable commodities in modern life, and how the constant demand for it can quietly shape our emotions, decisions, and stress levels.From long checkout lines to road rage and everyday frustrations, we look at the choices we make in those moments. Do we let our ego take the wheel, or do we choose the path of least resistance? Surprisingly often, stepping back instead of reacting leads to less stress, greater clarity, and a better outcome, even if it isn't always the easiest choice.This isn't about avoiding conflict or pretending everything is fine. It's about recognizing when we're giving away our attention and learning how to reclaim it. Sometimes the hardest decision is also the one that brings the most peace.

Ever completely misread someone the second they walked in the room? Guilty. 🤦‍♂️ From where we sit, we’re diving into the human habit of pre-judging people, how our initial assumptions are almost always 100% wrong, and the hilarious (and awkward) ways life taught us our lessons.Whether it's sizing up customers from behind a bar or completely misreading an audience from a stage, we’ve learned that swapping out judgment for a little curiosity changes everything. Grab a coffee, hang out with us by the ocean, and let’s talk about giving people a fair shake. ☕🌊

In this episode of From Where We Sit, we keep it real about relationships and ask: Are we expecting too much from the people we love?Drawing from our own experiences, including navigating life after divorce, we move past the fairy-tale version of love and talk about what it actually takes to build a relationship that lasts.We dive into the baggage we all carry, why your first real conflict matters more than you think, and how true intimacy is often found in the quiet moments... like simply being content doing nothing together on the couch.It's an honest, funny, and vulnerable conversation about breaking down emotional walls, matching each other's energy, choosing growth over perfection, and finding someone who's worth riding out life's waves with.

This week we're talking about missed opportunities, the decisions that changed our lives, and the moments we still think about years later.From turning down a hockey coaching job at 17 to passing on epic drum lessons that could have changed everything, we explore the "sliding door" moments that make us wonder how different life could have been.We also get honest about the emotional walls we build, the relationships we've damaged through ego, and why dwelling on the past rarely gets us where we want to go.Because eventually the question stops being "What if?" and becomes "What now?"Grab a drink and hang out with us.

Back at it from where we sit, and this week we’re diving into the one thing we all share but rarely want to face: death.In this episode, we explore grief, loss and mortality through personal stories of watching our fathers face their final moments, navigating the chaos of an ICU and confronting our own mortality as we get older.It’s a conversation about the perspective that comes when life slows down, the small arguments disappear and you realize death isn’t just about the person who is gone. It’s about how we honor them, carry their energy forward and allow their impact to shape who we become. Because death is for the living.It’s a reminder to stop taking time for granted, appreciate the people beside us and start living while we’re still here. Much love to you all.

What starts as a conversation about coffee and caffeine evolves into an honest discussion about addiction—the habits we struggle to break and the moments that force us to take a hard look at ourselves. Along the way, we share personal stories about smoking, substance abuse, family interventions, health scares, and the loved ones who often carry the weight when someone is struggling.

Are you hitting tipping fatigue? From food truck touchscreens to sky-high restaurant tabs, the system is passing the bill to the guest. As former service industry veterans, we're breaking down today’s tipping culture and the death of voluntary gratuity. Pull up a chair and let’s talk real economics from where we sit.

Ever feel like your brain is running a million miles an hour, or look back at the things you loved as a kid and wonder where that effortless joy went? In this episode of From Where We Sit, we start with some laughs about aging and "misfiring neurons," but quickly slide into a much deeper conversation about reclaiming the passions of our youth. We look at how life shifts when the things we love become "jobs," and look to the incredible journey of 2x world champion surfer John John Florence as an example of choosing flow state, lifestyle, and family over pure competition. From shooting hockey pucks against an apartment dumpster to chasing the perfect wave, we tackle the ultimate question: Is chasing the vibe the real definition of success?

In our debut episode of From Where We Sit, we're reminiscing on the dumb things we did as kids—starting with stealing candy—and the lessons that shaped our vibes. But as we move into the professional world of content creation, we tackle the huge grey area of influence vs. stealing. Whether you're writing, producing media, or making art, where is the line? Join us for a casual riff on nostalgia and the ethics of creative intellectual property

So who are we and what's our vibe? LET'S GOOOOOOOOO!