Girl Do It For You

Lets sit down with Bekah and talk about being a strong women. Being a strong women and being a lot of a women is nothing to be ashamed off. Embrace it because is YOU. Having your own independence is good for you and very necessary in relations, jobs, friendships and life over all. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I am forever pushing myself when I mentally can't and honestly shouldn't. Saying no is not easy for me and I always say no is a full sentence but I don't take my own advice in that manor. I am constantly giving from an empty cup and that is not okayI have recognized that and gotten myself back into therapy but it is constant work on myself and it is mentally taxing and exhausting. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The emotional part of a miscarriage takes a huge toll on you. While I understand no one wants to talk about it but I want to normalize it and speak about it so you don't feel alone. I want to have this outlet for people. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Motivation is hard and it is not something that shows up every single day. You have to push yourself and be strong to show up and be consistent for YOU. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I wanted to talk about my story because miscarriage are not spoke about enough and they should be because I had no idea what I was about to experience. I hope by sharing this it helps just one person because it is the real raw truth and its not pretty. If you have ever been through a miscarriage I am truly so so sorry. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What has the first year of marriage taught us? There are always ups and downs in a relationship but you handle them together and I wouldn't say this was the hardest year of marriage! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

So seasonal depression is never fun and idk about you but this is my favorite time of year so my seasonal depression is leaving which is AMAZING but i know that is not the case for everyone and i want to be sensitive to that. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Its a breath of fresh air to be truly happy again and to be honest I never thought we would get here but the work I put in was worth it! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I am trying to convince myself that its not a bad life its just a bad day or moment and you do not need to hold on to that. Mood sings are crazy and they turn into being overstimulated which happened to me the other day it was acually crazy the emotions i went through in 3 hours, sometimes you just need to scream in your car and it fixes a lot. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Date your partner it is so important for your relationship, it doesn't have to be anything crazy or expensive but just spend quality time together and tellyour friends you love them because you genuinely never know, tomorrow is not promised. Let people judge you for it who cares because at the end of the day y7our not going to be everyones cup of tea. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Alrighty honies! lets talk manifestation, controlling your own happiness and success. Everything leads you where you are supposed to be and it will all work out for the better i promise! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I know life is crazy and things happen that we have no control over but please do not let the world dull your sparkle and take your joy. Its not fair to yourself, if you are going through a hard time go right through it feel all the emotions feel the pain because I promise you brighter roads are up ahead. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Lets get a man's perspective on different stereotypes about relationships and men's feelings. Happy Wife Happy Life?? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Life gets so chaotic at times and you can get so caught up in the go go go lifestyle but it is difficult. I am trying to slow down and take it slow and not be keeping up with the Jones's because honestly who the heck cares. I don't want to be apart of every trend happening and realistically my bank can't keep up with that either. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Change can seem really scary but honestly it doesn't have to be and it usually can be the best thing to ever happen to you. Change when it comes out of no where is shocking but in the end its always worth it I promise. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Long term friendships are extremely hard and we have been friends for 21 years so lets talk about it and the changes of life. Much like wedding planning it can be difficult because it truly shows you who's your true friend and who is here for you. You ask people to step up and it shows you who steps up and wants to be apart of your life. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Its been awhile honeys so lets talk honeymoon, the crazy fun stories and what we got up to. This trip was amazing so lets relive it together and boy was it so fun!! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

So we’ve all been broke in life so let’s chit chat about what weird things we have done for money. There is so many ways to make money differently. Pyramid schemes? MLMs? Selling plasma? Digital wealth academy? Also a woman intuition is never wrong and I swear it can be so confusing but it is also a blessing in disguise because then you are aware.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Do you believe in soulmates? What about platonic soulmates. I think it is a really strong word however I do believe in them all kinds I truly do. Lets talk it out Honies! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Go back to the beginning of Ashlea and Matthews relationship with them, re live their first date and meeting parents... Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Join Ashlea and Matthew in dad jokes to see who can make the other one laugh the most, if they laugh they must take a shot! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Honies!!! I graduated therapy and I am nervous but also so happy with myself. The things therapy taught me were difficult and very hard lessons but I wanted to share it with you guys because healing was terrifying and lonely, so if you're going through something similar I hope this helps. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Lets just have a little chit chat about life, about being in different eras in life, are we back in party era??? lets chat about being organized and so type A that it is actually a problem. But life is life and its hard so join us. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Do you ever feel like your not doing enough in life, or with the people around you. Not feeling good enough in different aspect, well lets chat with Ashlea about it. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

25 things I have learned by 25 is interesting but also I am so glad I have learned what I have in life. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Juggling school and life is difficult and without a strong support system and can feel impossible, lets hear Kate tell us her side of going back to nursing school while having to work full time and being in a long term relationship. Kate and Ashlea both have been to therapy and are big advocates for it, they believe it can be very beneficial to everyone. Therapy can improve many different parts of your life from what you learn while there and it can teach you how to cope and handle situations in all aspects of life not just a specific one. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I hate that periods and anything woman hood related seems to be taboo, no one wants to talk about it. Well grow up because lets talk, endometriosis is so missunderstood and it is not spoke about enough or even had enough research. Lets talk about my experiences and symptoms and how I have helped my self with living with endometriosis! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

People always say when your frontal lobe develops your perspective shifts, is that true????? Being in your 20s is such a weird dynamic of never knowing what the heck is happening so lets talk about it. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Lets talk about how it is living with a guy. Its not all fun and games, but it can be. Learning your partners love language can be very beneficial when trying to understand what they need from you in that moment. Living with someone is so vulnerable but it worth it in my opinion. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Lets talk about the difference of Scottish vs. American words, saying, slang terms and the difference culturally with my husband!! It gets funny there is a lot I can't even pronounce too ! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Be you!!! Don't ever be sorry about being you and never hold yourself back or water yourself down to fit in with other people. People are going to judge you anyways so you may aswell have fun and enjoy yourself and know that you are being your true self. If people think you are to much for them then they can go find less!!! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Be your own happiness fill your own up and what overflows is what other people can get. Living in the moment before the moments over you are in the middle of something you wished off and your missing it by always looking for something else. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This episode we have Bekah!! to share all her details on being a car wife. She has more experience but honestly why are they all obsessed with Facebook marketplace??? lets not even start about car boy math! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome to Tipsy Talk Tuesday were we sit back enjoy a drink and hang out together just talking about life I hope you love it! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever considered going back to school because I have and its scary. Not knowing what you want to do and trying to figure it but it'll be worth it!! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

All things wedding planning related from two brides who just got married!! Talk about literally everything, tablecloths, color schemes, bridesmaids, all the nitty gritty. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The impact you leave on people you would never know and so many. people have been kind to you to help you grow as a person so be kind. Tell your story because you matter and you will reach someone who needed to hear it. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Moving on isn't easy and it can be necessary for growth within yourself and your family or relationship. Moving on with anything is growth, it can be so scary but that's what makes you you!! It makes you who you are and I think it is something you have to do for yourself. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This is an extremely vulnerable episode but it needed to be said. Sometime it feels like you're making no progress with therapy and it can be overwhelming but there are full circle moments that make you realize that it is working. Eventually you will become your own therapist and learn how to work through problems. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We are back for season 2!!! We have a lot to catch up on so we got married and lets talk about it and how the wedding was, was it worth it the stress the hassle the sleepless nights!!! tune in to find out from me and my HUSBAND!!!!!! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It's ONE WEEK until the Wedding!!!!!!!! don't let people tell you your moving to quickly men know when they know if they want to marry you wether that's 2 months or 8months they know I promise!! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Alright honies we are 30 days from the wedding and shits getting real, lets talk about what its really like !! I never thought id be making this many spreadsheets for a wedding and just how much you have to pick out every single detail possible. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this episode Ashlea talks about what it is like to have a relationship with a car guy when you have no idea about cars. It gets interesting as she doesn't know anything about cars but she tells all about how its changed now. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Tipsy Talk time with Hector and Matthew, we talk about everything in this episode from, bachelor parties and the wedding to how the boys met. Tune in to hear all about their friendship and the wild stories of Cancun. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Lets Chit Chat with Matthew about bachelor parties vs bachelorette parties, how they're so different and what happens on each one. Do you guys believe in the last hoora? Should you have it the night before your wedding? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Okay homies lets talk about wedding dress shopping, no one tells you what to expect and how it is because lets be honest its not like the movies. In this episode Ashlea shares her experience about picking out your dress and how she knew it was the one for her big day!! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Being a girl can be so annoying and difficult the standard that women are held to compared to men is insane. You're always told to act like a lady but never a man. Why are women held to such a high standard and have to always be well kept and taken care off? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Domestic Violence is not a joke, tell your story, report it don't let them silence you, you deserve to be heard. You are worthy of love and compassion and the struggle of navigating life and new relationships after abuse is horrible and it is the most difficult thing I have ever had to do.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Okay honies let’s talk about my bridal shower and the planning process that it takes to have an event, all the wedding events from bridal shower to wedding. It’s a lot and it’s stressful also the difference in a bachelorette and a bachelor party is wild to me so let’s get into it! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Part 2 of relationship talk with Jackie and Matthew this episode goes into a lot of detail and we talk all about wedding planning and the stress that creates, how we wish we had a shorter engagement and what we would change about our wedding. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.