Girl Stop Talking

This week’s episode is a real-time check-in — life, mindset, and everything in between. It's honest, reflective, and probably a little too relatable if you’ve been feeling off, overwhelmed, or stuck in go-mode without a pause button.We’re starting with my 75 Hard journey, honestly, felt like I failed… but ended up realizing I’m actually making decisions that are better aligned with me long-term. Growth isn’t always perfect, and this was definitely one of those moments that humbled me in the best way!From there, we get into BURNOUT— what it actually looks like (because it’s not always obvious), how it shows up in real life, and why so many of us don’t even realize we’re in it until we’re already overwhelmed...(que the downward spiral...)Then we layer in the real problem: being a Type A personality. When you mix high standards, constant pressure, and the inability to slow down… it’s basically a recipe for burnout on steroids! I’m breaking down the signs, the patterns, and how this cycle keeps repeating — plus sharing how you guys are coping, based on real life experiences and write ins from YOU! If you feel like you are exhausted with 6,000 tasks to do, fatigued and don't understand why, or always moving the goal post… we need to talk.Don't be shy, share you thought wherever your listening/watching! I read every sing comment, and LOVE chatting with my girls!Xo,Tatum Zoeee

This week on Girl Stop Talking, we’re getting real about something I like to call “reflection projection.” You know that moment when someone sees you showing up for yourself, chasing your dreams, and instead of being inspired… they project their insecurities onto you? Yeah, we’re unpacking all of that.I’m sharing some real-life experiences where I’ve dealt with projection, where it comes from psychologically, and how to navigate it—whether you’re the person receiving the projection or the one who might need to do a little self-reflection yourself. Because sometimes the hardest growth comes from realizing the mirror is pointing back at us.Of course, we’re also celebrating our weekly wins, shouting out listener victories, and talking about what it’s like navigating social events and festivities without alcohol while still having a damn good time.And because this is still Girl Stop Talking, we’re keeping things spicy with a brand-new Position of the Week (P.O.W.) — this week’s title: Space Cowgirl.To wrap things up, we’re diving into the Love Is Blind Season 10 finale, breaking down the weddings, the drama at the altar, and whether my predictions were right or completely delusional.Growth, accountability, sex positivity, and a little reality TV gossip… basically everything you came here for.Happy fucking Monday, bitches.

EP126- This week’s episode is all about stepping into the next version of you — loudly, confidently, and without asking for permission.I’m opening up about shifting careers into personal development, what it looks like to lean fully into inspiring and encouraging others, and how scary — but necessary — it is to evolve in public. We’re talking reflection, self-awareness, and the power of showing up as your everyday self instead of waiting to feel “ready.”Of course, we still had to debrief our weekly Position of the Week (because growth and pleasure can coexist), and break down Love Is Blind with predictions on who’s actually making it to the altar — and who is absolutely not.This episode is about positive change, bold pivots, and choosing to become the fullest version of yourself instead of shrinking to stay comfortable.If you’ve been feeling the pull to level up — this one’s for you.

EP125- This week’s episode is giving glow-up energy, bedroom upgrades, and reality TV therapy.We’re debriefing weekly wins — including hitting 300 YouTube subscribers (hi, I love you), being two weeks into 75 Hard, and stepping fully into this new era where I feel high on life, locked in, and hyper self-aware about who I’m becoming.Then, of course, we check in on last week’s Position of the Week (because we are committed), add a new one to the repertoire, and keep things spicy.After that? We get into the relationship breakdowns on Love Is Blind — meeting the parents, living together, red flags waving aggressively — plus a quick take on the America’s Next Top Model documentary and how wild it is to rewatch certain behaviors through an adult lens.And finally, I open up about the similarities between what we’re seeing on TV and one of my most toxic relationships — why some endings feel unsettling, and why it’s actually important that we see relationships like that play out publicly. Because ignoring red flags never ends well.Growth. Sex. Self-awareness. Reality TV hot takes.

(Episode 124) -This week’s episode is part weekly check-in, part confidence pep talk, and part chaotic girl debrief— just the way we like it.We’re starting off with our weekly wins… but one of mine turns into a full-blown story time about fear, missed opportunities, and why playing it safe is basically a one-way ticket to staying stuck. We’re talking about how fear can literally be the death of growth — and how pushing through what scares you is the only way to build real confidence and step into the life you’re meant for.I also get real about my own fears around being in an authority position as a fitness coach and trainer — because growth is cute until you actually have to believe you belong in the room.Then, of course, we debrief last week’s Position of the Week (yes, we’re still committed), add a new one to try, and end the episode with some Love Is Blind hot takes… because this season is giving stale, and someone has to say it.Grab your drink, get comfy, and let’s talk about fear, confidence, intimacy, and reality TV disappointment — all in one episode!

This week’s episode is a little bit of everything — wins, chaos, creativity, and a sprinkle of “did that just happen?”We’re starting off with our weekly wins and a real chat about what it’s like posting content every single day — balancing feeling inspired and creative… versus procrastinating, spiraling, and suddenly feeling overwhelmed for no reason.Then we jump into Week 2 of Sex Positions of the Week (because yes, we’re committed to the cause), with a full debrief on how they went and what we learned along the way.And just when you think it couldn’t get more unhinged… I share a wild story about how I may have helped a mom escape a.... situation — or possibly almost ended up in the wrong place at the wrong time. I’ll let the people decide.Grab a drink, buckle up, and let’s get into this week’s mix of wellness, intimacy, and real-life chaoshttps://www.instagram.com/tatumzoeee/https://www.youtube.com/@girlstoptalkingpodcast

Let's play catch up.. On our dreams. LOLCelebrating wins after being sick and rambling on about taking a chance on yourself. Dream Big and watch it pay off.. Weekly WINS, new positions, and finding structure this week. If this is your first episode, there are better ones I promise LOL

This week’s episode is part real-life check-in, part motivation, and part “get your life together” energy — even if you’re PMS-ing, sick, and feeling like you’ve been hit by a truck.We’re starting off with three wins from my week (because growth doesn’t stop just because your hormones are spiraling), and then we dive into one of my favorite topics: GOALS.I’m breaking down the 30-60-90 day rule, why people give up way too fast, and how momentum builds the second you start proving to yourself that you can actually do what you say you’re going to do. We’re talking about turning big dreams into daily tasks, staying consistent when motivation fades, and realizing that “too busy” is usually just code for “too distracted.”If you’ve been needing a little push, a mindset reset, and a reminder that your future self is built in the boring days… this one’s for you. 💋Grab a drink, get comfy, and let’s get into it.

This week’s episode is part mindset reset, part life update, and part hot-guy observation hour.We’re starting off with a weekly check-in and three wins from the past week, then diving into why mindset is everything when it comes to actually changing your life. I’m breaking down how the stories we tell ourselves can either keep us stuck or move us forward — and how that’s been showing up in my fitness journey lately.I also get into how a heavy metal detox and parasite cleanse completely changed my gut health, my energy, and honestly… my mood. We’re talking body awareness, discipline, and listening to what your body is asking for instead of fighting it.Then things get a little deeper. I open up about my relationship with alcohol and a breakthrough I had around where my guilt really comes from — tracing it back to childhood experiences and old narratives I didn’t even realize I was still carrying.And of course, we had to lighten it up by talking about how all the hot men seem to be outside, active, doing fun things, and having hobbies (because… facts).If you’re in a season of growth, reflection, and choosing better for yourself — mentally, physically, and emotionally — this episode is for you.

(Epsiode119) This week’s episode is pure story time chaos!We’re talking gym drama with a rude man who clearly woke up and chose audacity, dealing with straight-up disrespect in my Instagram comments, and — because life loves to humble you — my son walking in on my man and I during an intimate moment.This episode is all about boundaries being tested, lessons learned in real time, and navigating awkward, uncomfortable, and sometimes hilarious moments as a woman, a partner, and a mom. From public disrespect to private chaos, nothing was off-limits this week — and yes, we’re unpacking it all with honesty, humor, and a little self-reflection.If you’ve ever had your patience pushed, your boundaries crossed, or your peace interrupted at the worst possible moment… this one’s for you.Happy Fckn Monday B*tchessssss... Grab your caffeine , hide your kids, and have a vent sesh. We are SO BACK!Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/tatumzoeee/

I’m joined by the one and only Neeki Motabar, host of The Baddest B*** in the Building Podcast*, and we’re diving deep into the world of dating power plays — from singles who are in their soft girl but strategic era, to the girlies navigating long-term relationships and learning how to keep the balance of love and leverage.Neeki shares how she reimagined The 48 Laws of Power into her own 28 Girly Laws of Power — rules every woman should know to date smarter, lead with confidence, and challenge the patriarchy without ever breaking a sweat.We’re talking attraction, energy shifts, emotional control, and how to hold your power in any dating scenario — whether you’re out here playing the field or building an empire with your partner.So grab your drink, adjust your crown, and let’s learn how to be The Baddest B*** in the Building*… one power move at a time.Find Us HERE:https://www.instagram.com/baddestbinthebldg/https://www.instagram.com/tatumzoeee/https://www.youtube.com/@baddestBinthebldg

This week’s episode is all about friendships, boundaries, and showing up with grace.I’m diving into the art of compartmentalizing friendships — because let’s be honest, not every friend plays the same role in our lives (and that’s totally okay). From The Therapist, The Party Starter, The Planner, The Ghost Texter, The Drama Magnet, to The Mom Friend — we all have our people who serve different purposes, and that’s what makes friendship so special.I’m also getting real about how I personally compartmentalize my friendships, how to strengthen communication for deeper, more vulnerable connections, and how to navigate it all with love, self-awareness, and grace.Grab your drink, text your group chat, and let’s talk about how to show up for our people and ourselves — even when it’s hard.https://www.youtube.com/@girlstoptalkingpodcast

116- This week’s episode is giving chaos, honesty, and birthday energy!I’m answering What Would Tatum Do? — ten hilarious (and slightly unhinged) scenarios my friends came up with to see if they could guess how I’d really react. I’m reading them for the first time on the podcast, so you’re getting my unfiltered, real-time reactions.You’ll also get clips from my birthday weekend — the hibachi dinner, confessional moments, and even a few bloopers at the end. So stick around, because it’s giving party meets podcast.And of course, I had to dig into the Hoe Bag — pulling random dating and relationship questions and answering them as raw and real as it gets. Plus, I’m spilling what really went down on my birthday (because you know there’s always a story).Grab your drink, get comfy, and let’s get into the madness that is What Would Tatum Do?

This week’s episode is all about the expectations we put on friendships—especially me, because girl, I’ve had some lessons to learn.I’m getting real about how I’ve lost friendships because of unrealistic expectations and how much I’ve grown from those moments. We’re also diving into your poll answers and write-ins about the struggles that come with adult friendships—because let’s be honest, it’s not always easy figuring out who’s in your corner.And of course, I’m sharing some story times from the girls and their experiences, because what’s a “Girl Stop Talking” episode without a little drama, a little heart, and a whole lot of honesty?Hang in until the end for some bloopers. I really struggled sharing honestly with this without oversharing experiences that are close to me, don't worry there's more to come.

113- This week’s episode is extra special because we’re closing the chapter on my 20s and stepping into a whole new era. You know birthdays have always been a big deal for me — but this one hits different.I’m diving into childhood memories, why I’ve always celebrated birthdays like they’re my personal Super Bowl, and sharing the 30 lessons I’ve learned in 30 years. From love and friendships to career chaos and self-growth — nothing is off-limits. We’re talking about why the bare minimum is NOT effort (say it louder for the people in the back ), how red flags don’t magically turn green, why therapy isn’t the problem you are, and why your 20s are for learning but your 30s? Baby, they’re for living. So grab a drink, come laugh (and maybe cry a little) with me, and let’s toast to lessons learned, bad hangovers survived, friendships redefined, and stepping into our glow-up era with confidence.

112- ⚠️ Trigger Warning: Domestic Violence & Emotional Abuse ⚠️This week’s episode is a little different, giiiirl—I’m sharing my own personal (and very dramatic) story about my most toxic relationship. We’re talking court dates, restraining orders, wild nights out, people showing up where they definitely shouldn’t, and the total disconnect between the courts and the law.Now, I know that’s heavy, and I want to be clear: this episode includes discussions of emotional abuse and domestic violence. But you know me—I’m telling my truth with my own personal twist of humor. Because honestly… if we’re not laughing through the pain, what are we even doing?And before we dive in, I want to add some context: this story took place almost 7years ago, and lasted past it's expiration date. There’s been a lot of therapy, healing & gossiping since then, which is why I finally feel comfortable opening up and sharing it with you now.So many of us go through these traumas without anywhere to turn. I hope hearing my story you'll realize you're not alone, and even though times can be dark, there's always a light at the end of the tunnel. Keep fighting for your future self!Find Us Here:https://www.instagram.com/tatumzoeee/https://www.instagram.com/dontbeshadypod/https://www.youtube.com/@Dontbeshadypod

111- This week’s episode is a special one — my man is finally on the mic with me! We’re giving you the inside scoop on how we met, the funny details of our relationship, and answering all the questions YOU sent in on Instagram.We’re talking dating, love, and everything in between — from the silly quirks of being a couple to the deeper lessons we’ve learned along the way. And don’t worry, singles, we’ve got you covered too. We’re sharing advice for anyone jumping back into the dating world and how to spot someone who’s actually worth your time.It’s flirty, fun, and totally unfiltered — just the way you like it. So grab your drink, tune in, and get to know us a little better while picking up some tips for your own love life.

110- This week’s episode is all about the bare minimum — why we settle for it, how it’s disguised as “effort,” and the many ways it sneaks into our relationships. I’m spilling my own stories (with plenty of laughs, of course), plus reading a raw, personal listener submission that fits this topic too well.We’re also unpacking my Instagram poll on “bare minimum vs. effort” (the results did NOT disappoint ), and to top it off, I’m giving you the lowdown on my 10-day parasite + heavy metal detox. Because yes, apparently I’m detoxing AND dragging men at the same time.Grab your a pen and paper for this one because I'm giving you homework this week! And Giiiirlllll — this one’s unfiltered, savage, and just the reality check we all need.https://www.instagram.com/tatumzoeee/

109- This week’s episode of Girl Stop Talking is serving up chaos, honesty, and a whole lot of laughs. Tatum dives into the icks — those little turn-offs that can turn a summer fling from hot to not real quick. She shares her own list of “icks,” reads hilarious (and sometimes cringe-worthy) listener stories about summer flings gone wrong, and breaks down the most common red flag moments we’ve all ignored. From flip-flops on a first date to that infamous hot-and-cold energy, nothing is off-limits.On top of that, Tatum recaps her latest viral IG video, reads through some of the spiciest negative comments, and lets listeners in on what’s coming next for the show — plus a sneak peek into her big 30th birthday plans. Unfiltered, relatable, and always hilarious, this week’s episode is all about navigating summer flings, spotting the icks, and laughing through the chaos.Find Socials Here:https://www.instagram.com/girlstoptalkingpod/https://www.instagram.com/tatumzoeee/

*BONUS*- This week’s episode is a little different, girlfriends — we’re going full vlog style! This is my first-ever YouTube vlog (so bare with me as I figure it out), and we’re recapping Chance and I's entire weekend in Nashville.From traveling together (and almost missing our flight… twice), to introducing my dad, hitting the Nashville bar scene, drag queen comedy roasts, and living it up at the Stimulate conference — this episode has it all... in real time!It’s unfiltered, and a little chaotic… just the way you like it. So grab a drink, come laugh with us, and let’s dive into our Nashville adventure.Find Us Here:https://www.instagram.com/tatumzoeee/https://www.instagram.com/makeup_bychance/

108- They dive into a jam-packed lineup of interviews, from sexologists to surgical professors, and everything in between — because, honestly, this one’s longer than usual! Here’s your minute-by-minute breakdown of the unfiltered magic:​04:00-11:48: Michelle, Sexual Health Alliance(SHA) – leader in sexuality education, offering AASECT-approved training & certification programs in sex therapy, coaching, & counseling.​11:49–15:08: Kerry from Tanga – Spill on intuitive sex toys and how they’re shaking things up.​15:09–19:19: Jenna, Women’s Health & Gender Nurse Practitioner – Essential care insights and why she’s redefining the conversation. https://www.instagram.com/nursejennarae/​19:20–25:38: Saundra Pelletier, champion of Phexxi (hormone-free, on-demand birth control) – Real talk on control without hormones. https://www.instagram.com/phexxi/​25:50–29:07: Valerie Gritton, Orélia Skincare – CBD skincare meets soulful healing. https://www.oreliaskincare.com/​29:08–42:40: Dustin from The Sex Party Podcast – Laughs, spice, and everything you want to know about dirty talk & partnered sex. https://www.instagram.com/sexparty.fm/​42:41–46:47: Dr. Lisa Brady, founder of Sweetums – Sweet wellness because pleasure is fabulous. https://www.instagram.com/sweetums.official/​46:48–1:02: Blanca from Like a Kitten – Sensual (and playful) self-care you’ll drool over. https://www.instagram.com/likeakitten_llc/​1:03:00-1:09:00 :Melissa from Upstate Mary – Bringing New York’s sexiness straight to your self-love routine. https://www.instagram.com/upstatemary/​1:10:00-1:17:00 :Whitaker & Andy of Amor Sui – They built a brand on self-love and confidence — and yes, we stan! https://www.instagram.com/loveamorsui/​1:18:00-1:22:00 :Dr. K from ProDx – Quick chat about at-home STI testing and empowering sexual health. https://www.instagram.com/prodxhealth/Plus, Tatum and Chance aren’t just talking — they’re reacting, roasting, and reminding you why they’re the duo you came for. Get the full scoop on who’s on the stage, what’s on the table, and all the juicy behind-the-scenes.Tune in — Day Two of STIMULATE is serving up chaos, insight, and glow-up energy.Find Your Hosts Here:https://www.instagram.com/tatumzoeee/https://www.instagram.com/makeup_bychance/

107- On this week’s episode, Chance and I are kicking off Day One of the Stimulate event, where we hosted interviews with a handful of incredible guests.We sat down with a sexologist, a New York Times product reviewer, another fellow podcaster, a self-development coach, a hypno- and tantra sex therapist (Dr. Melissa Gentry), and Dr. Evan Goldstein — a sexual health and anal surgeon, founder of Bespoke Surgical and The Future Method.Of course, you’ll also hear plenty of updates, commentary, and unhinged banter from your two favorites — Chance and I. This episode gives you a front-row seat to what’s happening at the Stimulate Sexual Health Conference, along with valuable insight from our amazing guests.Oh, and did we mention? There’s also a special guest appearance from The Hoe Bag and some rapid-fire questions on sex, dating, and relationships that you won’t want to miss.Tune in — this one is stimulating in all the right ways.4:32-7:08 - https://www.instagram.com/theunrealcoralosborne/7:09-10:37 - https://www.instagram.com/biancaalbamph/10:38-16:17 - https://www.instagram.com/iamdsimone/19:11-39:10 - https://www.instagram.com/drmelissagentry/39:11-48:18 - https://www.instagram.com/drevangoldstein/Follow Your Hosts here:https://www.instagram.com/tatumzoeee/https://www.instagram.com/makeup_bychance/

106- On this week’s episode, Chance and I are recapping our weekend in Nashville — from day one all the way through multiple nights out, including hanging at the bar with my dad, his curious questions about Chance’s life, and his thoughts on makeup, tiktok and going out with full glam.We also dive into the handful of people we met at the Stimulate event, plus all the details: the people, the afters, the setup, the breakdown, and everything that went down each day. From our hilarious run-ins with the Bach Bar cowboys to some very questionable night out experiences, this was one for the books.Chance and Tatum take on Nashville — the certified “Country Vegas” — in a weekend of full-on exploration.Subscribe to YouTube here:https://www.youtube.com/@girlstoptalkingpodcastInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/tatumzoeee/https://www.instagram.com/makeup_bychance/

105- This week’s episode gives listeners a behind-the-scenes look at Tatum and Chance’s first 24 hours in Nashville — and trust us, it’s a wild ride.Tatum kicks things off with a fun and flirty intro on “Myths We Believed About Sex for Way Too Long,” setting the tone for a slightly different episode format. This one starts vlog-style before diving into all the juicy gossip — including how they almost missed their flight... twice.Tatum also shares what it was like bringing her dad along to the Stimulate sexual health and wellness event — yes, her actual dad joined the party — and let’s just say, he got a front-row seat to the chaotic energy of his daughter and her glam co-host living their best lives.Between the bar conversations, unfiltered comments about sex, and the dynamic between men and women in the wild streets of Nashville, this episode is full of laughs, unexpected moments, and life lessons for everyone involved. Tune in for stories, sex myths, missed flights, and a dad who now knows way too much.

104- This week’s episode is all about when life comes crashing down… and burnout takes over. Chance and I are gossiping about the telltale signs of burnout — because, babe, you might be going through it and not even realize. We spill on our own experiences, how we’ve (kind of) learned to navigate it, and of course, we get into all the toxic ways we’ve coped with it too.We’re also headed to Nashville to do some live podcasting and host a pink carpet event for Stimulate, a sexual health and wellness show! Not to mention, Chance will be taking a little sabbatical — thanks to said burnout — to prepare for his iconic Halloween content.It’s real, it’s funny, it’s chaotic in the best way… just how we like it. Connect With Us Here:https://www.instagram.com/tatumzoeee/https://www.instagram.com/makeup_bychance/https://www.youtube.com/@girlstoptalkingpodcastConnect with Stimulate:https://stimulatetheshow.com/ https://www.instagram.com/stimulatetheshow/

103- This week’s episode is all about parenting — but make it progressive!Tatum dives into what progressive parenting means to her and how she’s used open, honest conversations to navigate those tricky early childhood years — including the uncomfortable (but necessary) talks about sex as her son has grown up.She also opens up about what it’s really like to be in a co-parenting relationship — how it shapes the dynamic, the child’s life, and, of course, the funny, chaotic moments that come with it. Throughout the episode, Tatum shares hilarious and heartfelt stories from listeners who wrote in on Instagram, adding even more depth and ridiculous laughter.Whether you’re a mom, a daughter, a friend, or just someone who’s ever been around a mother, this episode is for you. Together, Tatum debunks those toxic millennial childhood one-liners we all heard growing up — and laughs at the moments when, without even realizing it, we open our mouths and our parents come out.Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/tatumzoeee/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@girlstoptalkingpodcast

102- Waiters, Fedex, and Bedroom Fears — Oh My!We’re back with an UNHINGED (and hilarious) catch-up 7 it's exactly what you needed! Tatum recaps Chance’s birthday dinner, including how their waiter fully committed to the bit, the unexpected gift that was opened at the table, and all the vibes of the night, pun intended.Then we dive into what we’ve been up to these past few months — and let’s just say, the stories do NOT disappoint. Chance spills about an exciting parking lot encounter with a FedEx driver who wanted a little… mid-day action. Meanwhile, Tatum shares her #1 bedroom fear and how it actually came true (yikes).And of course, they’re ending on a high: The Girl Stop Talking pod is headed to Nashville, baby! Tune in to hear all about their first live hosting & podcasting event — and stick around for the part where they maybe, just maybe, ride a bull, or a cowboy or two. Grab your drink, press play, and let’s yap.

Episode 101- This Week’s Gossip: Why I Went MIA + The Red & Green Flags You Can’t Ignore I'm back, giiirll — and I’ve got a LOT to catch you up on! In this week’s episode, I share all the drama on why I slid into the shadows these past couple of months, what made me hit pause on the podcast, and how that journey led me to finishing my CPT certification, checking on health, testing hormones, and some serious self-reflection!Then, we dive deep into the good stuff: red and green flags in dating & relationships.We’re talking about the one who:🚩 Takes forever to text back but always active on IG🚩 Is still texting their ex🚩 Always gives hot-and-cold energy🚩 Sleeps with a mattress on the floor & no bed sheets? (yikes)… and so many more.It’s not all negative — I'm also shining a light on the green flags you SHOULD look for, like:💚 Clear communication & accountability💚 Emotional security & effort💚 Cheering for your wins & supporting your dreams💚 Knowing the little things It’s messy, hilarious, and honest — just the way we like it.

Happy 100th episodes girrrrllllll!! It's been 3 weeks too long and I'm happy to be back. I obviously wanted this episodes to be perfect but knew it'd take time putting it together. Tune in to quite literally watch the growth of the show! From my old bedroom, un-synced audio, shitty camera quality to an in home studio, a better camera, and a co-host! I truly wish i could have added more because I couldn't even highlight HALF of the amazing people I've had on. I tried to grab my hottest takes and funniest stories to keep you guys entertained this week! I'm shocked I made it this far, loving you all!

99- Hey friends!Today, Chance and I are back at it—chatting about the latest hard-boiled egg trend, and diving into our most chaotic nights out. Like seriously… how do we always manage to find ourselves in these wild situations?! It’s giving messy, but we love it!I also go on a little rant—because duh—about a very specific type of man. You know the one. He’s always lurking in Old Town or posted up at the bar, acting like he’s got game, but really? He’s just using people to get what he wants. Makes me wanna gag. It's giving Broke behavior.And to wrap it up, we’re sharing some stories from our high school days. For me? It’s all about the “things I did in high school that you would NEVER catch me doing now”—because, wow… growth is real, babes.We love a little lighthearted drama between our deeper episodes, and Chance and I are here to serve exactly that. Buckle up—it’s gonna be a fun one!

98- TRIGGER WARNING! THIS EPISODE CONTAINS DOMESTIC ABUSE. Hey, girl—welcome to my story!This week, I’m getting extra vulnerable and spilling all the tea on how I used these exact steps to break free from my most toxic relationship. And trust me... everything you’re about to hear? 100% facts. I seriously could not make this sh*t up if I tried!I'm opening up because I want you to know: you are allowed to change your story. If you’re not changing it, you’re choosing it—and girl, we are not choosing chaos anymore. It's time to pick you and your peace!We’re keeping it real and diving even deeper into all things toxic—because let’s be honest, some of us have been out here dating red flags like it’s our job. But not anymore, girl! I’m serving you top-shelf content plus a step-by-step guide to hold yourself accountable, set boundaries that actually stick, and finally stand up for yourself like the badass you are.Grab your drink, grab your journal, and let’s get into it.Xo,TatumFollow Me Here:https://www.youtube.com/@girlstoptalkingpodcasthttps://www.instagram.com/tatumzoeee/

97- On this week’s episode, Chance and I are back and chatting about everything from tariffs (yeah, we’re getting weirdly smart today) to celibacy in young women—and why we’re all still out here just trying to find real love. We’re kicking things off with some trending topics to keep you in the loop and get us in the perfect mood to gossip. You already know the vibes—let’s get into it.

96- Hi, it’s me again—back for another solo episode, and whew... this one’s juicy! This week, I’m spilling the full story behind that viral threesome rumor I posted about online—the one that was making its rounds in my friend group. Did it actually happen? Has it happened since then? You’ll just have to listen to find out. As the episode goes on, I also dive into some wild relationship tales—especially about one particularly crazy ex. From him trying to tear down my soul to the ways toxic relationships can completely mess with your self-worth… yeah, we’re going there.Why do we keep picking the same partner in a different body? Are you really self-reflecting—or are you just stuck playing the victim? I’m here to help my hot girls set boundaries, stand on business, and start living for themselves again. More on that soon. Even though this was definitely a vent sesh, I wrapped it up with a little segment I call "Relationship Rules"—aka how to bring honesty, fun, and flirty banter back into your current relationship.Grab a drink, press play, and let’s chat.Find Me Here:https://www.youtube.com/@girlstoptalkingpodcasthttps://www.instagram.com/tatumzoeee/

95- This week, Chance and I are finally catching up after three long weeks apart—can you believe it?! We’re diving into all things millennial: from the words making a comeback (yes, we’re bringing them back like it’s 2009) to wondering if we’re about to get ourselves canceled... maybe. Idk?? And since summer is basically knocking on the door, we’ve officially claimed it: This is the Millennial Summer, baby! Millennials, unite!Oh—and you know I always have a surprise or two up my sleeve… We’re dropping a very fun announcement about the next chapter of our show. Let’s just say, the journey is about to get even more official.Subscribe Here:YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@girlstoptalkingpodcastFollow Us Here:https://www.instagram.com/tatumzoeee/https://www.instagram.com/makeup_bychance/

This week’s episode is all about catching up! I’m giving you the scoop on everything that’s been going on in my life over the past month. And okay, I’ll admit—I was recording this one at the pool, so if I sound a little off, it’s because I’m still working on not getting totally awkward when people are around.94-This week, I’m sharing a wild story about how I ended up helping save someone’s life, and how my girlfriend turned around and saved mine right back. I’m also giving you a sneak peek at our Florida spring break plans and confessing a little moment where I might’ve come off as a jealous girlfriend—but trust me, I had my reasons!And the best part? Chance is back next week, and we’re both so ready to get back to dishing all the details with you.

93- This week on the pod, Chance and I are dishing out all the juicy details from our wild Vegas adventure—because trust me, it was pure chaos in the best way. We’re talking all-nighters, new friends, a mind-blowing experience at The Sphere, and yes… even a pit stop at the wax museum (because why not?).We packed an entire reality show’s worth of drama into 24 hours, only to crash for another 24 like true party warriors. So buckle up, because it’s basically like you were right there with us!Oh, and speaking of reality shows… should we just make one at this point? Drop your best ideas (or crazy dares) in the comments!

92- Vegas, baby! We’re hittin’ the road, and you’re coming with us! Buckle up for the ultimate girls’ trip as we spill the tea on relationships, dating, and the wild world of social media. Oh, and you know I had to bring the drama—I’ve got two brand-new games that’ll have us diving deep into our own love lives, insecurities, and how we really handle the chaos of social media. This episode? Controversial. Unfiltered. And absolutely juicy. Let’s go!Follow Us Here:https://www.youtube.com/@girlstoptalkingpodcasthttps://www.instagram.com/tatumzoeee/https://www.instagram.com/makeup_bychance/https://www.instagram.com/_badgurlrhirhi/

91- Catch up with us, we have more surprises! On this weeks LATE episode we're going over all of our most recent ideas for the show including how to get more of us with a new YouTube series (coming soon). We also have a handful of write in's from our listeners and we're giving our opinions on their dilemmas! Everything from going on trips without your man, to "best friends" staying friends with your ex! These details are juicy. stay tuned for more drama, and yapping! Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/tatumzoeee/https://www.instagram.com/makeup_bychance/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@girlstoptalkingpodcast

90- Girlfriends, we’re back! After three weeks of absolute chaos, Tatum and Chance are finally kicking back on the couch for some much-needed girl talk. We’re catching up on everything— dishing out the details on our exciting new ideas for the show, dropping some sneaky hints about our upcoming reality series on YouTube (yes, it’s happening!), and, of course, diving into our fashion, or much needed fashion. Plus, you know we're chatting about our love for the new season of Love Is Blind—debrief coming soon, because there’s a lot to unpack.And let’s talk about that Facebook page, Are We Dating the Same Guy?!—because Tatum has a HOT TAKE, and trust us, you don’t want to miss it. We’re getting into the drama, the lessons, and why your negate outlook might just be attracting more negativity. Buckle up, giiiirl—it’s gonna be a good one!Follow Us Here:https://www.youtube.com/@girlstoptalkingpodcasthttps://www.instagram.com/tatumzoeee/https://www.instagram.com/makeup_bychance/

Chance is spilling all the tea about the time he unknowingly becamethe other woman! Yep, you heard that right—he hooked up with a man on thedown low who just so happened to be in a whole relationship.Whew! And guess what? We’ve got the voice messages to prove it!Why does Chance keep attracting these men? How did it all go down? And most importantly...who caught the c*m?Tune in to find out—because this tea ishot, the details arehotter, and the mess?Absolutely next level!YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@girlstoptalkingpodcastInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/tatumzoeee/https://www.instagram.com/makeup_bychance/

We’re BACK, baby! It’s our second episode, but officially our first real yapping session—so buckle up! Today, Chance and I are spilling all the tea on our wild nights out together… and trust me, we’ve got stories for days! From staying up till sunrise to, um… trying to hook up with guys in the bathroom—WAIT, WHAAAAT?! Yeah, you heard that right. But it’s not just about the chaos (although, let’s be real, there’s a lot of that). We’re also diving into surface-level friendships and how they evolve as we grow, the importance of keeping each other humble, and why some people mistake confidence for cockiness (hint: their insecurities). Oh, and can someone explain why straight girls always think they can set up their gay friends just because they met another gay? And seriously, why are we always getting kicked out of bars?! And most importantly… WHO won the dance battle?

It’s Monday, girl! And ooooh, do I have a surprise for you! On this week’s episode, the one and only Chance is BACK—yes, a fan favorite, if you will—and trust me, we have so much to talk about. But don’t worry, we’re keeping it fun as always! We’re spicing things up with some juicy ‘Would You Rather’ questions and a wild round of ‘Never Have I Ever.’ And of course, we’re getting to know Chance on a whole new level... Why, you ask? Well, babe, you’ll just have to listen to find out! Let’s get into it! Links To Follow: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@girlstoptalkingpodcast https://www.youtube.com/@makeup_bychance Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tatumzoeee/ https://www.instagram.com/makeup_bychance/

Another Monday, another dose of motivation giirlll! This week, I’ve got an amazing guest joining me—Coach Zoe from Team OPTMZE—and we’re diving deep into our goals. That’s right, we’re not giving up just yet! And listen, if you haven’t exactly stuck to those New Year’s resolutions… it’s okay! We’ve got you covered with tips on how to set attainable goals that actually stick. Let’s be real—we all struggle with keeping commitments to ourselves, but procrastination only drags things out and leaves us feeling like shit. That’s where Coach Zoe comes in, bringing her expert insight on why we tend to give up, how to set realistic goals, how to break big dreams into daily tasks, and—best of all—how to romanticize your life and bounce back from those little setbacks like the baddie you are! So grab your coffee, get comfy, and let’s get into it! YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@girlstoptalkingpodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zoe.tzitzoglakis/ https://www.instagram.com/teamoptmze/ https://www.instagram.com/tatumzoeee/

Congrats, you made it to the second Monday of the year! This week, we’re diving into the juicy world of New Year’s resolutions with a little twist. Ever heard of the “quitting day” theory? Don’t worry, we’re breaking it down and giving you tips on how to set goals that are actually doable. But wait—this isn’t just your average goals episode. Oh no, we’re spicing things up by mixing in some real talk about sex—because, let’s be honest, it’s what we all wish we learned sooner. I asked you on Instagram to spill the tea on what you’d tell your younger self about sex and relationships, and we’re unpacking it all. Plus, we’re getting real about firsts: your first-ever experience vs. your first big O. And for a little extra drama, I’m reading your personal stories about celibacy—why you chose it and how it’s impacted your life. Buckle up, babes, because this episode is equal parts fun, flirty, and totally unfiltered. Let’s get into it!

New Year, Same ol' ME! To be so honest we're only 6 days in and I already feel SO behind, like I'm not doing enough... posting, creating content, dropping episodes on time etc. Does anyone else feel like they could be doing more?! Because same! The facts are... today is the FIRST Monday of the year! In my book it's the official first week of January, therefore we are not behind, and we're all going to set ourselves up for success TODAY! Today's episode we're catching up on life + the holidays. Then I'm going to give you 4 ways to set attainable intentions and goals. F*ck a resolution lets take action on our lives and manifest our dreams! You can either sit around next year with a bunch of excuses, or you can BE THE CHANGE! Remember if you're not changing you're choosing!

Episode 83(Holiday Edition)- Merry Christmas Eve Eve, and welcome to this weeks episode full of holiday tea. Let me tell you it is pipping HOT! We're discussing holiday pet peeves, drama and I sourced yours guys' best or worst holiday experiences, and I'm giving advice on it all. From postponing a break up until after the holidays, to exes reaching out for holiday hookups...while in other relationships. I'm divulging it all! Happy Holidays!

EP82- This weeks guest is Dr. Joli Hamilton is the relationship coach for couples who color outside the lines & founder of The Year of Opening. She is a research psychologist, TEDx speaker, best-selling author, and AASECT certified sex educator. Joli’s been featured in The New York Times, Vogue, Cosmo, and NPR. Alright, so our conversation took a turn I totally didn’t see coming—but honestly, it was so good! We got into some juicy stuff, like personal relationships, Joli’s journey of leaving a marriage, and finding her way into a non-monogamous relationship. We even dove into those big titles, like "fiancé" and "wife," and unpacked what they really mean versus how society tries to shove us into these neat little boxes. If you’re ready to challenge some beliefs, you’ve gotta give this a listen! IG: https://www.instagram.com/drjoli_hamilton/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@girlstoptalkingpodcast

(Episode 81)- Solo story time, plus a catch up on what's been going on the last couple of weeks! There's always something worth talking about, this week it's a story about how I became his pen pal with my ex in prison. Not once... but twice! Along with some uncomfortable DM's I've received over the last week or so. Happy F*cking MONDAYYYYYY!

EP80- In this week's episode, we delve into a conversation with Cat Meyer, the founder of Head South—a sexual wellness brand dedicated to body-safe lubricants. Our discussion transcends products and branding, exploring themes of creativity, intuition, and the pursuit of one's purpose. We also examine the significance of surrounding oneself with like-minded individuals and the origins of inspiration. Throughout our conversation, Cat shares her experiences of overcoming challenges, such as embracing her identity as a queer Filipina American leader and maintaining the brand's mission and ethics amidst growth. Her story is a testament to the importance of following one's intuition and purpose, and the transformative power of creativity and community in building a brand that truly resonates with its audience. Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/kittycatmeyer/⁠⁠Website: https://headsouth.world/⁠ You can use my code: TATUMZOEEE20 for 20% off your first order!

EP79- This week, I’m bringing you a fun, totally random solo episode to ease us back into the groove! I’ve got a stack of anonymous questions I pulled straight from Instagram—some serious, some super random, a few dating questions, and, of course, the juicy personal stuff. So, grab a drink, settle in, and let’s have some fun! GO SUBSCRIBE! YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@girlstoptalkingpodcast