Girls Connecting

It’s not coming soon, it’s not waiting to be shipped, it’s on the truck and out for delivery. Everything you have been praying for is coming directly to you… let’s talk about it!

Often times we expect people to treat us a way that we don’t even treat ourselves. We expect a kindness from others that we don’t even grace ourselves with. I’ve talked about these unspoken rules but let’s dive a little deeper…

We often look to money in a poverty stricken mindset. That when we see people spending money abundantly we can see it as a waste, rather than the blessing that it truly is… let’s talk about it.

This one gets very personal for me…

Often times we only see pain for what it presents but we miss out on everything else it brings. Pain has so much more to often us than just the negative emotions we experience. Because we are rewarded with so much more when we embrace it…

Jealousy is an internal battle whether you realize or want to admit it. It’s something you have to work on within yourself, finding love and peace within yourself.

Having the good good is just the cherry on top, ensure you are coming with the ice cream. That’s the best part!

We aren’t always as gentle with men as we could be. We don’t always give them enough grace but expect so much from them.. they deserve to be loved and treated delicately by their significant other.

We so often ask for things that we may not be ready for. Or things that we don’t truly understand. Yes experience is the best teacher but are you really ready for someone who is emotionally intelligent?

The concept of self care has been so focused on the outer appearance and relaxation that we don’t often discuss the real roots of self care… but today we do!

Often times we want a man who knows how to handle us and that doesn’t mean in an aggressive way but do you respect his authority and men, are y’all setting the tone early on for what you will and will not allow?

When you find the right person, without feeling forced or pressured you will naturally change for them. You find yourself setting outside of your comfort zone to make them happy…

I think learning to love yourself is just learning how to love unconditionally. When people upset you, don’t make you happy or whatever the reason may be. You can remove access to those people. When people aren’t what we feel they should be it’s so easy to no longer have to exist with that person. But you will always be with you. Even when you don’t like who you are at moments. Unconditional love is so rarely given.. even to ourselves.. but once you understand true unconditional love, loving yourself becomes so easy.

We often ask for things but don’t always make the space to for it. We tend to already have a full plate but yet seeking more. Purging your life is just as important as purging your closet…

Healing is such a tricky process. But one thing about healing is the phase you go through when you want to go back to your old toxic ways. You need something to make you feel good and a lot of times we resort back to what we know, even if it’s toxic…

I feel sometimes we get so caught up and seeking outside advice that we don’t seek advice from within. We don’t hold ourselves accountable enough and stop making excuses. How often do you call yourself out?

This isn’t my normal conversation on this topic. I want to dig deeper into this. Not just the enjoyment of it but the real issues that revolve around it… so listen in I have a few things about sex I want to discuss with you..

What if we are living many lifetimes all in this single existence? What we aren’t only transforming ourselves into new versions but also our lives into new lives?

We all have seen the flood of relationship advice on social media. It’s in almost every podcast and everyone has the same ideology. Let’s talk about it

We have always been taught to be strong and only. But being weak or having weak moments is natural as well. But I don’t think you can only be strong or weak. There’s a middle ground here…

Let’s just discuss how men would handle things if they were in our shoes…

Not being in your right state of mind and making decisions from that place will put you in a situation you can’t even believe you’re in!

Let’s discuss setting boundaries and not feeling bad about it. We give people access to us then complain about them or what they bring. You can’t change people but you can always revoke access.

None of us are traditional! We may idealize traditional values but we are not traditional!

The left hand just plays it part and allows the right to lead.. see where this is going?

We all ask for things and honestly life will give you exactly what you asked for. But how often are you prepared for those things? And better yet! How often are you able to maintain what you asked for?

Everything doesn’t need a response! Sometimes it’s okay to just listen and take direction. It doesn’t make you less than or not worthy!

Let’s talk about it! And being a NY woman myself! I can tell you we all aren’t what the stereotypes say..

As much as men hate when women are guarded or seem to be vetting them out to ensure they aren’t their ex in a different body. This is something men do and even more than women!

It’s so discouraging and blindly encouraging to compare yourself to others. And it’s something I do not engage in and here’s why..

You can not feed yourself bread and expect others to know you love steak..

There has to be a balance in everything. How can you not be for me but I am the one for you?

Feeling is what makes you truly enjoy the human experience.. but allowing those feelings to control you..

I want to talk about being attached to potential. Often times we paint this picture in our mind and then become attached to this vision. So attached we’ll compromise and settle.. but if you’re settling are you really acquiring the vision? Or is it a settled version of it?

Let me read a short story I wrote to you…

Men require peace from a woman, but don’t often create a space for her be peaceful. How can you require something you are not able to accommodate? When you create an environment for her to live in her feminine energy… she’ll bring you endless peace..

It’s so important to have your own. Even if you don’t need to use it. It’s very important to ensure that in a rainy day you can take care of yourself...

The second worse prison, outside of the mind.. is a home without peace…

Are you truly a leader? And have I given you that space to prove that? Am I allowing you to show me what you are made of? Or am I afraid of what you might turn out to be?!

Everything isn’t for everyone, but for those who like to indulge.. are you really up to the task or just like the idea of having it on your resume?

Men so often speak on women not being submissive but how often do they create a space for her to be that? You want her to live in her feminine energy but yet she has to protect it.. let’s talk about it!

No matter how hard you work to be a better person, to become the person you are today. People will still hold you past against you..

Women feel that men don’t need us and we’re so often expected to need men.. why is that? Let’s talk about it!

We all have our roles and what we have to offer. We often forget we are dancing together and our steps must follow each other’s… as my father would say “one hand can’t clap”

Feeling the need to protect the person you used to be. When you yourself have outgrown that person. Let’s quickly talk about!

Women are so commonly known as being the prize, the trophy! And now we have Ken referring to themselves and considering themselves the prize.. let’s talk about it!

It’s such a beautiful thing when it happens with the right person.. it’s not easy but it’s worth it

Today let’s discuss handling emotions! This is something so major in life. In your romantic life, professional life, I mean every part of life controlling your emotions is important. So let’s talk about it!

Tone is so important.. being vulnerable is so important.. being sensitive and soft. It’s a power you don’t even realize..

Let’s discuss just some of the changes that happens when you go from living a single life to being in a relationship and even being in a marriage!