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Grief Relief: It Takes Time

by Mary Wuerdeman

Grief relief- it takes time. It takes time and it takes daily effort. After losing her son, Brian, 24, and both of her parents in the same year Mary Wuerdeman, came face to face with the profound loneliness and heartache of loss. The GRiTT podcast is not only a tribute to Brian, but sharing and hearing others stories here has been her path to back to living again. And not just the path to living again, but the path to living her life on purpose with love and gratitude. Mary's deepest hope is that listening to the GRiTT podcast will inspire you to do the same.

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Episodes

  1. Meet me there!

    Grief is not a forever place…so where do I go from here? In this episode Invite you to that place and I’m beyond grateful to meet you there…

  2. I just want to live while I'm alive (Lopping)

    Would you rather be a brilliant meteor, with every atom of your being ablaze or is hanging around as a sleepy lump of a planet good enough? Life brings with it opportunities to wake up and make that choice. But how? Listen in and I'll give you the scoop.

  3. You are not your story

    What you tell yourself about your story can create peace and healing or it can be painful and keep you stuck. Listen in as I share how to keep from getting stuck in your story and how to find more peace.

  4. Are you your feelings?

    Are the thought that you're telling yourself about your story really true? Is what you are telling yourself about how you feel today creating your tomorrow and dictating your healing?

  5. Mischel's Beautiful Heart

    Mischel and I chat about her riveting story of hope, empowerment and love. After years of struggling for answers and nearly dying, her determination to advocate for herself led her to the answers that ultimately saved her life. She shares her story to give hope and empowerment to others.

  6. Grief is Connecting

    Grief is lonely. Grief is Connecting. Grief is sacred

  7. Chapter 2: The Choice

    Chapter 2 The Choice Becoming Radiant by Tom Zuba

  8. Becoming Radiant Chapter 1: The Invitation

    In order to become who you have never been, you must do what you have never done...

  9. Becoming Radiant by Tom Zuba- Intro

    Diving into "Becoming Radiant" Tom Zuba's second book I did not come to the planet to suffer. I came to be radiant. And so did you.

  10. Tom Zuba Stops by to chat about his book, Becoming Radiant

    Tom and Mary get together to chat about Tom's second book, Becoming Radiant and to kick off my reading of the book on the podcast.

  11. Chapter 22: The Horse

    Do you want o get back up on the horse of life again? Say yes to life. Say yes to love. Say yes to you!!

  12. Chapter 21 The Relationship Continues

    The relationship that we have with our loved continues. Always. It is eternal...love is eternal.

  13. Chapter 20: Gifts Given and Received

    Are there gifts in grief? Are you willing to look for them?

  14. Chapter 19: Creating A Space For Hope

    Fourth of July 2020...Can happiness and sorrow coexist on holidays and other festive occasions? Can you open the door just a bit to create a little hope?

  15. Chapter 18 Dying on Time

    Do you believe that your beloved was taken too soon? And is that a painful belief? Is there any other way to look at it that might bring peace instead of pain?

  16. Chapter 17 Signs Symbols and Messages

    Do you receive signs and messages from your beloved?

  17. Chapter 16: You Are Stronger Than You Think

    You are stronger than you think. You may be walking through the fire of grief now, but you will step out of the fire as radiant light. You are healing!

  18. Chapter 15 Keeping Busy

    Is keeping busy the path to healing? Does Keeping busy fix the hole in your heart? No, but there is a path to healing.

  19. Chapter 14: Words Have Power

    Words have power. The story you tell yourself is the story you live. The beliefs that you hold onto become your words. Your words become your story. The story you tell yourself either brings you pain or gives you peace. What story are you telling yourself?

  20. Chapter 13 Heaven

    Do you believe in Heaven? Do you believe that you will be reunited with your loved one when you get there? Do you need to wait until you get there to have a relationship with your beloved?

  21. Chapter 12 Miracles

    Have you ever wanted God to do life your way? Have you ever prayed for a miracle? How do you define a miracle? Have you ever considered that a shift in perception might bring you peace? Let's unpack these big questions and find an answer that might bring peace.

  22. Tom Zuba Answers life's Fundamental Questions

    Tom answers life's fundamental questions. Asking and answering these question until you find the answers that bring you peace instead of pain is a path to healing.

  23. Chapter 11: I Am No Stronger Than You

    Healing is not a matter of strength. In order to heal you must give yourself permission to mourn. You must give yourself permission to feel the feelings and to ask the questions.

  24. Chapter 10: Sit Down

    Sit down and breathe. Your heart wants to tell the story of your beloved over and over and over again until it no longer needs to. That is how you take in what has happened. That is a path to healing. Come sit down. I will listen.

  25. Chapter 9: Question Everything Always

    When someone we dearly, dearly, dearly love leaves this world it cracks us wide open. It leaves us with questions that we need to answer. Those answers allow us to put the pieces of our life together in a way that brings us peace.

  26. Chapter 8: I Thought She Was Lost

    When someone you dearly, dearly , dearly love vanishes from this world, it feels as we've lost him or her. But did you? Are they really lost?

  27. Chapter 7: Choosing to Heal

    Healing is possible. With intention, commitment and concrete action. Listen to hear tangible tools that are the path to healing.

  28. Chapter 6: The unpredictability of Grief

    If you are grieving, you have entered the wilderness of grief. This is not an orderly place. It's wild and it's messy. But it is not a forever place. To get out of the wilderness of grief, you must go through it. You must give yourself permission to mourn.

  29. Chapter 5: Choose Life

    Even in the darkest of moments you are not alone. Can you hear the whisper? Life is not done with you! Choose life!

  30. Chapter 4: The Secret is Out

    We can turn this ship around! How can I help? By healing your broken heart. We stuff our emotions, act "normal" and tell others "we're fine". But what is that doing to us? and how much of what is happening today is about stuffed down grief that just cannot be contained any longer? Be what you…

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  31. Chapter 3: Hold On

    In the beginning, when someone you dearly love has died, your only job is to breathe and hold on. Many have walked this path and have risen from the ashes...You can too. But for now just hold on. And remember that you are not alone.

  32. Chapter 2- If You Are New to Grief

    Chapter 2- If you are new to grief I would transport you to the most comfortable, lovely room where your every need would be attended to....Join me for this beautiful chapter....

  33. Chapter 1 Permission To Mourn

    Join me as I read and reflect on Chapter 1 of Permission to Mourn by Tom Zuba. The death of someone we love cracks us open big time. It is supposed to. Then what? Then the Dance begins....

  34. Tom Zuba is here!!

    Author Tom Zuba joins me to discuss his incredible book, Permission to Mourn and our upcoming collaboration here on GRiTT! There's a new way to do grief...

  35. Mother's Day 2020

    Join me as I unpack Mother's Day 2020. There's much to take in, grieve and also appreciate as we continue to find our way through this unsettling time.

  36. The Corona Virus and Our Grieving Nation

    Grief is the normal and natural reaction to loss. We are all grieving the loss of something right now, but we are not victims and there is much we can do for ourselves and others! Join me as I give tips that can help during this unpredictable time.

  37. The Many Spaces of Grief

    Please join me as I discuss the many spaces of grief and offer some guidance on how to move through those spaces and into a better space where we can feel better and maybe even find recovery!

  38. What Are You Choosing?

    Grief relief, or recovery, takes time, but time alone will not bring relief. Busting through this and other myths on how to cope with loss and making a conscious choice to simply feel better sets the stage for real relief and recovery.

  39. Holiday Help Part 2

    So, Thanksgiving is behind us and Christmas is about a week away. In Holiday Help Part One we talked about awareness, anticipation and how to prepare for unexpected feelings. But how do we cope with those feelings once they're there? Join me for Holiday Help Part 2 as we explore the answer.

  40. Holiday Help

    Please join me as share ideas and thoughts around how we can anticipate and cope with the challenges that the holidays can present when we're feeling the weight of grief. Awareness, anticipation and preparation can make a huge difference and just might even bring a bit of piece, and even some...

  41. Where To Find What You Need The Most

    GRiTT 8: Where to Find What You Need The Most We've never really been taught how to cope with loss in our culture. Most of us just try to let time fix it for us. We hope that time alone will dull the pain and we really don't know where to look for long term relief and recovery. We put a smile on...

  42. Tidal Waves and A Tribute

    On the 3rd Angelversary of the loss of my son, Brian I am sharing my thoughts on how to approach tidal wave sized grief and the conflict of emotions that grief evokes. I also pay tribute to my son, Brian Patrick.

  43. The Fullness of Forgiveness

    This episode explores the complexity of forgiveness; How the very nature of forgiveness ties into Grief/loss and how to take steps toward the release of feelings that keep us in pain.

  44. Getting Unstuck And Moving Forward

    We tell ourselves stories and play the same tapes over and over which keep us tossed helplessly on waves of intense emotion! In this episode I discuss tools that help us to get unstuck and move forward toward healing and even joy.

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

Grief relief- it takes time. It takes time and it takes daily effort. After losing her son, Brian, 24, and both of her parents in the same year Mary Wuerdeman, came face to face with the profound loneliness and heartache of loss. The GRiTT podcast is not only a tribute to Brian, but sharing and hearing others stories here has been her path to back to living again. And not just the path to living again, but the path to living her life on purpose with love and gratitude. Mary's deepest hope is that listening to the GRiTT podcast will inspire you to do the same.

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Grief relief- it takes time. It takes time and it takes daily effort. After losing her son, Brian, 24, and both of her parents in the same year Mary Wuerdeman, came face to face with the profound loneliness and heartache of loss. The GRiTT podcast is not only a tribute to Brian, but sharing and...

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