Half Past Chai

What We'd Tell Ourselves a Year Ago When We Quit Our JobsOne year ago, we did the scary thing instead of the safe thing… we both quit our 9 to 5 to chase this podcast full time. We talk about what it's really like working as a married couple, why you don't get sick days anymore, and why health has to come first even when work never stops calling.We also look back at the success we had like the brand deals with companies like Honda, Perplexity AI, and COROS, growing to 350K+ followers, marathon training, meeting people we've admired for years, and even a spot on the Today Show.Now settle in, get cozy, and grab your chai. 💛New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchaiDonate to Team For Kids here: https://fundraisers.nyrr.org/suketuDonate to Therapists Beyond Borders here: https://givebutter.com/hallie-patel-therapists-beyond-borders-nyc-marathon-2026-xtuif8Time codes0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI4:07 - How this started5:45 - We are learning to be okay with instabilities7:56 - We work all the time10:59 - Don’t do this if you want to have an easy life14:26 - Brand is everything16:08 - Work for free to get paid19:38 - No one is going to tell you you did a good job20:42 - It’s easy to not do work23:20 - Working as a couple is hard25:25 - Health is wealth27:28 - NO MORE SICK DAYS30:16 - ALL THE SUCCESS!

In this episode of Questions of the Week, we're reacting to your anonymous stories and giving our honest takes on situations involving family pressure, dead bedrooms, interfaith relationships, situationships, difficult in-laws, and everything in between.💬 Questions like:What do you do when your partner chooses their family over you?Is a dead bedroom a dealbreaker?How do you raise kids in an interfaith marriage?When is it time to walk away from a situationship?Are your in-laws crossing the line?Thank you to everyone who submitted a question. We love making this podcast a two-way conversation and getting to connect with you beyond the comments.Drop into the comments and tell us: which question was your favorite?Then head to our site and submit your own for a future episode we love keeping this podcast a two-way conversation 💛 https://www.halfpastchai.com/Now settle in, get cozy, and grab your chai. 💛New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchaiDonate to Team For Kids here: https://fundraisers.nyrr.org/suketuDonate to Therapists Beyond Borders here: https://givebutter.com/hallie-patel-therapists-beyond-borders-nyc-marathon-2026-xtuif8Time codes0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI2:26 - Interfaith kids?7:45 - Who comes first? Mom, Wife, Daughter?10:31 - Eldest daughter wants to move out14:03 - Dealing with Indian Family Oriented Mindset16:17 - What happens when the sex stops?20:50 - Situationship?24:16 - How do I ask for couples therapy27:06 - His mom stopped him from seeing me31:57 - Stereotyping in your relationship…34:07 - How to feel comfortable in your own skin?

This week on Half Past Chai… We are talking about MONEY! (Suketu’s favorite topic). We share all the numbers with you to be transparent about how we manage our finances. Talking about money is hard in a relationship and we are trying to normalize the conversation. If you want more info about finances: https://bio.site/suketupatelNow settle in, get cozy, and grab your chai. 💛New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchaiDonate to Team For Kids here: https://fundraisers.nyrr.org/suketuDonate to Therapists Beyond Borders here: https://givebutter.com/hallie-patel-therapists-beyond-borders-nyc-marathon-2026-xtuif8Time codes0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI3:48 - How much money we made Q28:36 - My thoughts on our new normal with money17:55 - How do we talk about money in a relationship

It's somehow already halfway through the year… so we sat down and asked the scary question: is this year actually going how we planned? 😅In this episode we're doing our mid-year check-in completely unfiltered: our best months, our proudest moments, the stuff that genuinely didn't go to plan, and the January goals we'd honestly forgotten about. It's funny, it's a little vulnerable, and if you've ever wondered whether you're "behind," this one's for you.👉 We also made a free Halfway Check-In worksheet so you can do this exact reflection right alongside us. Grab it here: https://www.halfpastchai.com/halfwayNow settle in, get cozy, and grab your chai. 💛New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchaiDonate to Team For Kids here: https://fundraisers.nyrr.org/suketuDonate to Therapists Beyond Borders here: https://givebutter.com/hallie-patel-therapists-beyond-borders-nyc-marathon-2026-xtuif8Time codes0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI3:54 - Looking Back21:22 - The Fun Round26:52 - Looking ahead

This week on Half Past Chai…We’re joined by Kaitlin & Sourabh - partners in both life and businessThey’re the duo behind their social media where they cook, make chai, and travel, and today, they’re opening up about the reality of building a brand while building a life togetherWe’re diving into the inspiration that sparked their journey, the hurdles of the Indian-American business experience, and exactly what it takes to brew a successful startup from the ground upNow settle in, get cozy, and grab your chai. 💛New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛Katlin & Sourabh’s Socials 👇YT - https://www.youtube.com/@katsourabhInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/katlinandsourabhTiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@sourabhhanumantTiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@katlinsannan🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchaiDonate to Team For Kids here: https://fundraisers.nyrr.org/suketuDonate to Therapists Beyond Borders here: https://givebutter.com/hallie-patel-therapists-beyond-borders-nyc-marathon-2026-xtuif8Time codes0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI3:37 - How did you guys meet?7:15 - Why did you start posting videos?10:16 - How did your parents react to you two?11:01 - What was it like to get introduced to Indian Culture14:10 - Why do you cook?18:20 - First time out of the country21:18 - Quitting your job26:30 - How do you guys work together?29:28 - Are you getting married?34:07 - Going to an Indian Wedding39:50 - Travel Tips42:58 - Favorite place you’ve traveled to50:38 - Traveling is important55:57 - Favorite food

This week on Half Past Chai… has your partner ever picked up something you love and just instantly been better at it than you? Because same.We're deep in marathon training together, and it is humbling, hilarious, and honestly a little revealing. We're talking about different paces, different pain tolerances, and what happens when doing something incredibly hard as a team teaches you things about each other you weren't expecting.Now settle in, get cozy, and grab your chai. 💛New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛Get 10% off GHEE here: https://iloveghee.com/discount/HALFPASTCHAI10🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchaiDonate to Team For Kids here: https://fundraisers.nyrr.org/suketuDonate to Therapists Beyond Borders here: https://givebutter.com/hallie-patel-therapists-beyond-borders-nyc-marathon-2026-xtuif8Time codes0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI3:24 - When your partner is better than you8:25 - Our dilemma11:27 - Our first race together17:08 - Why do we treat our partner differently?24:33 - The lessons we learned

This week on Half Past Chai, we're answering YOUR questions... and some of them caught us completely off guard. 😅From relationship secrets and awkward conversations with parents to our thoughts on moving to NYC, future India trips, marathon training, friendships as adults, and yes... even questions about kids and our married life, nothing was off limits.Thank you to everyone who submitted a question. We love making this podcast a two-way conversation and getting to connect with you beyond the comments.Drop into the comments and tell us: which question was your favorite?Then head to our site and submit your own for a future episode we love keeping this podcast a two-way conversation 💛 https://www.halfpastchai.com/Now settle in, get cozy, and grab your chai. 💛New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛Get 10% off GHEE here: https://iloveghee.com/discount/HALFPASTCHAI10📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchaiDonate to Team For Kids here: https://fundraisers.nyrr.org/suketuTime codes0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI2:34 - NYC / MOVING4:32 - RELATIONSHIP & SOCIAL LIFE13:25 - FITNESS / RUNNING19:44 - INDIA / TRAVEL24:51 - Quick Fire Questions26:30 - BONUS Qs

This week on Half Past Chai…We talk about potentially moving to NYC? We have lived in Indiana our whole lives and just want to change things up. Hear us talk about our decision processNow settle in, get cozy, and grab your chai. 💛New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛Blueground Homes (USE CODE BGHALFPASTCHAI): https://blgrnd.com/halfpastchaiGet 10% off GHEE here: https://iloveghee.com/discount/HALFPASTCHAI10🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchaiDonate to Team For Kids here: https://fundraisers.nyrr.org/suketuTime Codes:0:00 - Intro3:20 - Your questions and our truth14:56 - Why we want to move21:00 - What has it been like in NYC so far?

Naked Work From Home Tuesdays. Synchronized bathroom schedules. Poking each other in the butt. Telling your partner you find someone else attractive.…Is that normal, or are you just built different?From couples who sleep in separate beds to the ones who make up full choreographed dances together, we're covering it all. Spoiler: you're probably weirder than you think. And honestly? So are we.Now settle in, get cozy, and grab your chai. 💛New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛Get 10% off GHEE here: https://iloveghee.com/discount/HALFPASTCHAI10🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchaiDonate to Team For Kids here: https://fundraisers.nyrr.org/suketuTime codes0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI2:57 - We’re like REALLY weird people7:50 - Naked WFH Tuesday’s10:29 - Drinking chai 2x 12:18 - How was “it”?14:46 - Sleeping in separate beds15:57 - Finding other people attractive19:34 - Snuggling every day21:29 - Crashing my car23:53 - Friends with my EX25:22 - Dating from other religions

I say words wrong. I can't cook Indian food on my own. And apparently… I can't even do garba right… Hallie had to teach me once she learned. 😅The South Asian community, especially Gujjus, let me know about it constantly.This week on Half Past Chai, Suketu gets into all the flack he catches from his own community, both in India and online. But this episode isn't just for Gujaratis. It's for anyone who's ever been told they're not enough of their own kind… not Indian enough, not Black enough, not Latino enough, not whatever enough.If you've ever felt like an outsider in your own culture, this one's for you. ☕Now settle in, get cozy, and grab your chai. 💛New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛Get 10% off GHEE here: https://iloveghee.com/discount/HALFPASTCHAI10🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchaiDonate to Team For Kids here: https://fundraisers.nyrr.org/suketu0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI2:42 - Why is there so much hate? Why we don’t fit in…4:47 - Stop comparing yourself to people13:19 - Surrounding yourself with different kinds of people16:01 - Why my family didn’t own a traditional business19:28 - Dealing with close-minded people24:01 - 3 most valuable lessons

This week on Half Past Chai…We're breaking down the small daily things, the big lessons, and the honest moments that have kept us choosing each other year after year. From laughing every single day to pushing each other to be better, embracing each other's cultures, and just being each other's person.Whether you're in a long-term relationship, just starting out, or still waiting for your person… this episode is for you.Now settle in, get cozy, and grab your chai. 💛New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛Get 10% off GHEE here: https://iloveghee.com/discount/HALFPASTCHAI10🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchaiDonate to Team For Kids here: https://fundraisers.nyrr.org/suketuTime codes0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI2:39 - We had an argument5:05 - Suketu Makes me laugh7:25 - Hallie shows up for me10:16 - You handle things so I don't have to think about them12:30 - Hallie pushes me to be better15:50 - We make a great team18:10 - Hallie embraces my culture21:25 - The little things that keep us going

This week on Half Past Chai, we’re answering YOUR questions!Also, HAPPY EPISODE 150! Guys, we wouldn’t be here without you. It means so much to us that you’re here, whether you’ve been with us from the beginning or this is your first time joining us, thank you.Drop into the comments and tell us: which question was your favorite?Then head to our site and submit your own for a future episode we love keeping this podcast a two-way conversation 💛 https://www.halfpastchai.com/Now settle in, get cozy, and grab your chai. 💛New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛Get 10% off GHEE here: https://iloveghee.com/discount/HALFPASTCHAI10📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchaiDonate to Team For Kids here: https://fundraisers.nyrr.org/suketu-patelTime codes0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI3:44 - Our dream podcast guests10:01 - Are we close with our parents?10:49 - Indian wedding talk, how we organized it all13:00 - Do you play instruments?15:55 - How does Hallie feel about learning Gujarati?17:20 - Where in India do we want to go next?19:21 - Where did your wedding fits come from?20:28 - We are going to Africa21:00 - Are we billionaires?22:42 - Our fitness routines & diets24:54 - Family pressure & having kids29:44 - Celebrating Episode 150 - giveaway!!!

This week on Half Past Chai, we are sharing our Q1 finance review as full-time creators. We’re breaking down how much we made, where our money went, and how we’re managing life after quitting our corporate jobs. These honest chats are all about starting real conversations around finances, relationships, and what it means to build your dream life together.Now settle in, get cozy, and grab your chai. 💛New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛Get 10% off GHEE here: https://iloveghee.com/discount/HALFPASTCHAI10🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchaiDonate to Team For Kids here: https://fundraisers.nyrr.org/suketuTime codes0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI2:57 - Realizing what we’ve done.6:47 - January Spending13:26 - February Spending17:19 - March Spending20:34 - Things we learned28:12 - Back to March31:55 - Taxes32:30 - Our corporate jobs were nice…

This week on Half Past Chai, we're tackling one of the most emotional topics we've ever covered: the guilt that comes with choosing your own path when your family sees it as betrayal.From moving out, to not wanting an arranged marriage, to choosing a partner your parents didn't pick, we're reading your stories and getting into why so many first-gen kids carry this weight. We talk about setting boundaries without cutting ties, what it looks like when your family's love comes with conditions, and how to stop feeling selfish for simply wanting to live your life.Now settle in, get cozy, and grab your chai. 💛New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛Get 10% off GHEE here: https://iloveghee.com/discount/HALFPASTCHAI10🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchaiDonate to Team For Kids here: https://fundraisers.nyrr.org/suketuTime codes0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI3:40 - I want to leave, but my dad is sick - leaving your family & dealing with consequences12:36 - My mom wants me to find an Indian girl - dating outside your culture21:44 - Moving away & ditching the norm - our own guilt

Remember how we said we knew how to travel to India? Well, we were DEAD WRONG.Now settle in, get cozy, and grab your chai. 💛New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛eSIM - use code HPC15 for 15% off https://simify.com/🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchaiDonate to Team For Kids here: https://fundraisers.nyrr.org/suketuTime codes0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI2:21 - Flying to India Experience on Qatar4:57 - WE ARRIVED IN THE MOTHERLAND7:09 - Hallie’s first Indian wedding11:52 - We got sick in India…28:12 - Coming to America horror story

This week on Half Past Chai, we’re asking the big question: what actually is chai, and why is it so hard to get it right in America? We’re sitting down with the founders of Malwa Chai to talk about growing up with real chai, what they kept (and ditched) from the traditional recipes, and how they’re making it easier than ever to brew an authentic cup at home.Drop into the comments and tell us: which question was your favorite? Then head to our site and submit your own for a future episode we love keeping this podcast a two-way conversation 💛 https://www.halfpastchai.com/Now settle in, get cozy, and grab your chai. 💛New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛Malwa Chai - https://www.malwachai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchaiDonate to Team For Kids here: https://fundraisers.nyrr.org/suketu-patelTime codes0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI4:18 - Who is Malwa Chai?15:46 - Why start Malwa Chai?27:47 - Hardest part of starting a chai company & how they work together as husband and wife33:42 - Treating your spouse as your co-worker39:31 - Quitting the 9-5 to work for yourself 46:13 - Finding the right people to work with50:08 - Chai recipe development53:10 - Malwa Chai Product Lineup59:14 - What’s next?!

This week on Half Past Chai, we’re answering YOUR questionsFrom soulmates and compromise to learning Gujarati, navigating Indian weddings, dealing with judgy relatives, and yes… that question everyone wanted answered nothing was off limits in this Q&A episode.Drop into the comments and tell us: which question was your favorite?Then head to our site and submit your own for a future episode we love keeping this podcast a two-way conversation 💛 https://www.halfpastchai.com/Now settle in, get cozy, and grab your chai. 💛New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛Get 10% Achaary with code HALFPASTCHAI10: https://achaary.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchaiDonate to Team For Kids here: https://fundraisers.nyrr.org/suketuTime codes0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI2:50 - Suketu wants to be a what?4:39 - What do we desire?7:18 - Going to an Indian wedding for the first time10:02- SPONSOR11:04 - How did we know we were soulmates?16:08 - Did we have to compromise?18:35 - Dealing with judgy relatives21:24 - Will we teach our kids both languages?22:48 - Hallie’s Gujarati skills!26:21 - Visiting my boyfriends parents for the first time28:40 - Does Suketu cook the food?30:19 - The question you all wanted to know…

Traveling to India in 2026 and don’t know where to start? We’ve got you.In this episode of Half Past Chai, we’re breaking down everything you need to know before your first (or next) trip to India! From visas and flights to food, weather, packing, and the culture shock no one warns you about.We’re sharing real tips we’ve learned from traveling to India ourselves: what to do, what not to do, and how to actually enjoy the experience instead of feeling overwhelmed the second you land. Whether you’re heading to Gujarat, Mumbai, or anywhere else, this episode is your honest, practical guide to traveling India with confidence.Now settle in, get cozy, and grab your chai. 💛New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛Get 10% off GHEE here: https://iloveghee.com/discount/HALFPASTCHAI10eSIM - use code HPC15 for 15% off https://simify.com/🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchaiDonate to Team For Kids here: https://fundraisers.nyrr.org/suketuTime codes0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI3:46 - How to get to India: eVisa, passport, & flights10:34 - SPONSOR11:18 - GO TO THE BATHROOM13:00 - How to find transportation once you’re there15:26 - Sight seeing18:51 - IT’S HOT: Weather Tips21:59 - FOOD & WATER TIPS24:43 - Selfies & Social Settings26:01 - How to pack for India

This week on Half Past Chai, we’re breaking down the everyday family habits we grew up with and how they still show up in our lives today. From money and meals to emotions, boundaries, and expectations we’re comparing Indian family culture vs American family culture.If you’ve ever dated outside your culture, married someone with a totally different upbringing, or realized your “normal” wasn’t actually universal this episode is for you.Now settle in, get cozy, and grab your chai. 💛New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchaiDonate to Team For Kids here: https://fundraisers.nyrr.org/suketuTime codes0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI4:08 - Never eating out/did homework before going outside/church7:44 - finances in our families10:40 - privacy doesn’t exist & respect to elders18:16 - emotions and communication22:38 - Suketu was afraid of everything/doing stuff wrong

In this episode, I reflect on the life I might be living if I had stayed in my home country.From chasing the American Dream to questioning who I would be today, this conversation explores the paths not taken, the sacrifices made, and the growth that comes from starting over in a new country. Whether you’re an immigrant, a first-generation kid, or someone who’s ever wondered how one choice can reshape an entire life, this episode will hit home.Now settle in, get cozy, and grab your chai. 💛New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchaiDonate to Team For Kids here: https://fundraisers.nyrr.org/suketuTime codes0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI3:40 - Why are we talking about this4:53 - What if we never left India?9:20 - What would my career be?13:12 - Did I notice how different my life was?15:30 - If you moved to the US today17:38 - Would I have made videos?22:12 - What would have been better if I stayed in India23:20 - What would have been worse if I stayed in India

We break down our real daily routines, from how we structure our mornings and workouts, to why we eat early, drink a ton of water, go to bed earlier than most people, and how those choices have improved our energy, relationship, productivity, and mental health.We also talk about why routines don’t have to be perfect to be powerful and how building a life that works for you is way more important than following what’s trending online.💬 Question for the Half Past Crew: What does your daily routine look like right now and what’s one small habit you want to improve?Now settle in, get cozy, and grab your chai. 💛New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛Use use code HALFPASTCHAI10 for 10% at https://achaary.com/🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchaiDonate to Team For Kids here: https://fundraisers.nyrr.org/suketuTime codes0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI3:06 - Suketu’s routine8:42 - SPONSOR9:44 - Hallie’s routine16:49 - Pick what works for YOU

This week on Half Past Chai, we’re answering YOUR questionsFrom how creators actually make money, to red pill dating culture, intimacy in marriage, living with parents, religion and kids, jealousy, dream brands, and even whether Stranger Things is overrated… Drop into the comments and tell us: which question was your favorite?Then head to our site and submit your own for a future episode we love keeping this podcast a two-way conversation 💛 https://www.halfpastchai.com/Now settle in, get cozy, and grab your chai. 💛New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Get 10% off GHEE here: https://iloveghee.com/discount/HALFPASTCHAI10📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchaiDonate to Team For Kids here: https://fundraisers.nyrr.org/suketu-patelTime codes0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI2:17 - How do we make money?4:15 - Red pill men5:47 - If we could eat only one meal7:41 - Best things hallie cooks8:49 - Do we have siblings?9:53 - SPONSOR10:36 - Would you live with your parents14:16 - Do you feel like you wasted your 20s17:29 - Is stranger things overrated?18:42 - Is there a cash prize for running a marathon?21:02 - When do you feel like you’ve made it23:48 - What’s one piece of advice you would give your younger self?26:29 - How are you guys going to discuss religion with your kids?28:37 - How to introduce a white partner to your parents30:09 - Dream brand or guest to work with33:21 - Who’s more jealous34:42 - Do you agree on the same meals

This week on Half Past Chai, you trusted us with your anonymous confessions and wow… you did not hold back.We talk about:Keeping secrets from your spouseEmotional baggage from childhood and how it affects relationshipsCultural pressure around marriage timelinesLong-term relationships with no parental approvalLoving someone deeply… and losing them anywayNothing is off-limits in this episode. If you’ve ever felt stuck between love, culture, timing, or expectations this one’s for you.Now settle in, get cozy, and grab your chai. 💛New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchaiDonate to Team For Kids here: https://fundraisers.nyrr.org/suketuTime codes0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI3:01 - Our confessions4:50 - I use a bidet6:25 - I don’t want to get married9:29 - Married but texting others?13:38 - 3rd wheel turned lover?17:26 - I don’t want to get married22:40 - I want to move on

What do our parents’ marriages teach us?This week on Half Past Chai, we’re talking about the lessons we learned from each of our parents’ relationships… the good, the hard, and the things we didn’t learn at all and how those lessons show up in our own marriage today. We hope this conversation makes you feel seen, understood, and a little less alone.Now settle in, get cozy, and grab your chai. 💛New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛DM Nathan to join Autonomy! 🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchaiDonate to Team For Kids here: https://fundraisers.nyrr.org/suketu-patelTime codes0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI2:04 - Parents mess up, and that’s okay5:27 - Responding with intention7:07 - We solve problems very loudly 9:57 - Love the way your partner wants to be loved13:17 - SPONSOR13:54 - Don’t quit when it gets hard16:14 - I never said I LOVE YOU to my parents18:41 - Showing care through actions20:21 - Forgive and forget21:22 - Have fun and laugh in life25:18 - Chose love even when it’s hard28:29 - It’s okay to show affection

This week on Half Past Chai, we sit down with TikTok finance creator DollarsWithDrew as he reviews our income, spending habits, money mistakes, and how we actually manage life as creators and business owners.If you’ve ever wondered how creators make money, what financial transparency really looks like, or how to think smarter about your own finances this episode is for you.Now settle in, get cozy, and grab your chai. 💛New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛Dollars with Drew Instagram Dollars with Drew TiktokGet 15% off GHEE here: https://iloveghee.com/discount/HALFPASTCHAI10🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchaiDonate to Team For Kids here: https://fundraisers.nyrr.org/suketu-patelTime codes0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI2:47 - Who is Drew and why money is important.5:34 - Tracking money is important9:39 - How much we spent this year12:01 - How we shifted our mindset on money17:40 - SPONSOR18:24 - Why I started caring about money22:49 - How much we spend on eating out25:11 - Cars are expensive30:48 - Personal Care38:16 - Other expenses43:00 - Why do we need 2 cars?47:49 - How much we made in 202550:05 - Q4 REVIEW55:55 - Our NET WORTH1:02:53 - Dollars with Drew the STORY

What if 2026 is the year you stop explaining yourself?In this episode of Half Past Chai, we talk about people pleasing... what it actually looks like, where it comes from, and why so many of us feel pressure to keep everyone else comfortable, even when it costs us our own peace.We open up about our personal struggles with people pleasing, the fear of being disliked, and habits like over-explaining, avoiding confrontation, and saying yes when we really mean no. We also share small but powerful mindset shifts and boundary-setting practices we’re working on as we head into 2026.This episode is a reminder that you can be kind without self-sacrificing, that disappointment is a normal part of relationships, and that you don’t have to abandon yourself to be a good person.💛 Question for you: What do you want to change this year?Follow and DM Nathan for more info about autonomy: https://www.instagram.com/nathan.autonomy🎙 Submit your stories or questions: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchai🏃 Donate to Suketu’s NYC Marathon fundraiser for Team For Kids: https://fundraisers.nyrr.org/suketu-patelNew episodes every Monday at 7am.So settle in, get cozy, and grab your chai. ☕️💛Time codes0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI4:02 - How to stop caring about what others think9:46 - Stop over explaining your decisions14:54 - SPONSOR15:31 - Be comfortable with disappointing others19:19 - Kindness is a choice not an obligation 26:56 - 2 things you can do in 2026 to take control.

This week’s Questions of the Week episode gets DEEP.You all sent in some of the most emotional, complex, and honest questions we’ve ever answered, especially around:What to do when you don’t like your partner’s friendsWhether we ever regret only dating each otherHow to know when it’s time to leave a relationshipHow our finances changed after becoming entrepreneursNavigating alcohol, health changes, and lifestyle shiftsThe “are we official?” conversationOur age gap and how it’s affected our relationshipThe funniest moments, biggest purchases, and dream NYC businessThis episode is personal, vulnerable, and full of advice we wish we had years ago.So settle in, get cozy, and grab your chai. 💛New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchaiDonate to Team For Kids here: https://fundraisers.nyrr.org/suketu-patelTime codes0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI3:33 - Have you NOT liked your partners friends?8:27 - Do you regret only dating each other?12:43 - How do you know it’s time to break up?14:17 - What do finances look like now that you're self-employed?17:23 - How much do we make on YouTube & Instagram?18:47 - Why did we stop drinking alcohol?22:15 - Funniest experience we’ve had together25:18 - Does Suketu like running as much as Hallie?25:39 - Do you apply your Data Science skills now?26:22 - How do you ask someone to be your BF/GF?28:24 - What is one quality each of you love about each other?29:31 - Does your age gap affect your relationship?31:04 - Most the ridiculous purchase you made as a couple31:44 - If you guys could open up a shop in New York City, what would it be?

In this episode of Half Past Chai, we’re breaking down 5 key hacks for a long-term, successful relationship... the habits and mindset shifts that have helped us grow closer as a married interracial couple.Whether you’re newly dating, engaged, married, or years into your relationship, these are practical, honest relationship tips you can start using right away.Now settle in, get cozy, and grab your chai. 💛New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛Book a call with Autonomy or DM Nathan on Instagram: 🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchaiDonate to Team For Kids here: https://fundraisers.nyrr.org/suketu-patelTime codes0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI2:14 - 1. Sleep on each other4:27 - SPONSOR5:04 - 2. Intentional check-ins/scheduled time together7:28 - 3. Intentional time NOT together10:41 - 4. Plan your lives12:58 - 5. Invest in each others dreams

Why are Indian weddings SO expensive?! 🤯In this episode of Half Past Chai, we’re breaking down the real reasons Indian weddings cost anywhere from $120,000 to $300,000+ and how that compares to a typical American wedding.We dive into:💸 The real wedding stats (India vs America)🪔 Why Indian weddings are never just one day👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 How guest lists alone can explode the budget🎶 The true cost of DJs, decor, catering, outfits, jewelry & accommodations🌍 The cultural meaning behind the grandeur⚖️ Pros & cons of big Indian weddings vs smaller American weddings🤝 What a hybrid / fusion wedding can look like when cultures collideAs an interracial married couple (Indian + white), we also share our personal perspective navigating tradition, expectations, and finances and how couples today can find a middle ground that actually feels meaningful.Now settle in, get cozy, and grab your chai. 💛New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchaiDonate to Team For Kids here: https://fundraisers.nyrr.org/suketu-patelTime codes0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI3:56 - The Indian Wedding Stats7:18 - Our Wedding10:44 - Every Part to an Indian Wedding15:04 - Indian Weddings vs American Weddings21:03 - Pros and Cons of an Indian Wedding24:47 - How to plan a fusion wedding

This week, we’re sharing unpopular Desi opinions that might stir the family group chat… from Indian food myths to wedding expectations, parents, and mental health.So settle in, get cozy, and grab your chai. 💛New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛Book a call with Autonomy or DM Nathan on Instagram: 🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchaiDonate to Team For Kids here: https://fundraisers.nyrr.org/suketu-patelTimecodes:0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI3:55 - #1 Indian Food Isn’t Healthy9:05 - #2 Your Parents Aren’t Always Right11:59 - SPONSOR12:36 - #3 Chai is BEST in the morning14:12 - #4 Bollywood Songs Are WAY Too Long16:17 - #5 Aunties are TOO nosy21:27 - #6 Living with In-Laws Isn’t the only way26:49- #7 It’s YOUR wedding, no one else’s31:18 - #8 You don’t have to be a dr, lawyer, OR engineer!!!35:14 - #9 Talking about mental health isn’t just American people’s problems44:07 - #10 What will people say

This week, we're spilling the chai on a big life decision: getting married young! We share our honest, sometimes chaotic, and always loving journey of saying "I do" before we had it all "figured out." From navigating job changes to building a business (and even just figuring out who does the dishes), we break down the five major, unexpected benefits of starting our forever early. If you're considering marriage, dealing with family expectations, or just curious about what it's really like to grow up alongside your spouse.So settle in, get cozy, and grab your chai. 💛New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛Ahara Rasa Ghee 10% off: https://iloveghee.com/discount/HALFPASTCHAI10🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchaiDonate to Team For Kids here: https://fundraisers.nyrr.org/suketu-patelTime codes0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI4:30 - Why did we get married so young?7:38 - Facts about getting married young11:43 - The benefits of getting married young15:01 - AD (AHARA RASA GHEE)15:45 - Being aligned21:05 - Facts about getting married older27:58 - Myths about getting married young35:00 - Advice about getting married

This week’s Questions of the Week episode gets DEEP.You all sent in some of the most emotional, complex, and honest questions we’ve ever answered especially around intercultural relationships, strict parents, breakups, identity, and navigating love when family expectations get in the way.We share our own experiences, what we learned the hard way, and how to protect your peace while still honoring your culture and your partner.💬 In this episode, we answer:Loving someone whose parents don’t accept youDating an Indian partner who hides the relationshipAge gaps, having a child, and whether Indian parents ever come aroundHow to ask an ex if you can “start over” without scaring them awayWhy anti-Indian racism feels more visible right nowIntroducing a vegetarian partner to a meat-heavy familyDealing with social burnout as a couple after nonstop obligationsThis episode is personal, vulnerable, and full of advice we wish we had years ago.So settle in, get cozy, and grab your chai. 💛New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛Book a call with Autonomy or DM Nathan on Instagram: 🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchaiDonate to Team For Kids here: https://fundraisers.nyrr.org/suketu-patelTime codes0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI4:21 - Stress on your relationship8:57 - His parents didn’t accept their relationship14:05 - How long should I wait?17:22 -  How do i move past fear of societal gossip?23:04 - SPONSOR23:41 -  They asked me to convert27:05 - I am in a situationship30:07 - Racism against Indians 34:19 - dating a vegetarian37:31 - social battery drain

In this episode we sit down with Rushi Patel, med student, longtime friend, and one of those people who somehow manages to balance curiosity, creativity, and grit. We talk high school, how creative projects shaped career opportunities, and what it’s actually like to go to Harvard and then endure the grind of med school.From the awe of seeing the human body’s resilience to the rawness of trauma cases. We close by talking about the power of family, how support systems reset you when life gets overwhelming, and one simple piece of advice Rushi wants everyone to remember.So settle in, get cozy, and grab your chai.📅 New episodes every Monday at 7 AM🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchaiTime codes0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI01:06 - Meet our guest: Rishi Patel3:21 - Garba, Navratri & how we first met13:36 - The Avon lip-dub: going viral and what it taught us18:20 - College & Harvard: experience, growth, and perspective23:22 - College balance, saving, and learning to have fun30:00 - Why some careers need passion (not money)33:01 - The pre-med grind: MCAT, pre-clinicals & rotations37:02 - Surgery stories: seeing the human body’s resilience41:52 - Trauma on day one: cardiac massage & the fragility of life49:58 - RAPID FIRE QUESTIONS

Ever wondered what it’s really like to run the New York City Marathon? 🏃‍♀️💨 In this episode of Half Past Chai, Hallie breaks down everything from how she got accepted, trained all summer, fundraised, and finally ran 26.2 miles through the streets of NYC.We talk about the highs, the pain, the money behind marathon training, and why this experience changed everything for us. Whether you’re a runner, a dreamer, or just love a good story, this one’s for you.New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛DM Nathan if you’re interested in my fitness plan! Suketu’s Team For Kids Fundraiser🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow usUse code HALFPASTCHAI to get 15% off https://andcollar.com/Time codes0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI1:57 - Why would I run a MARATHON?7:44- How I got into NYC12:41 - Suketu’s big announcement17:41 - How hard was the training?24:33 - Finances behind running a marathon27:30 - RACE DAY BREAKDOWN: exactly what happens the day of the marathon33:21 - Why I’m obsessed with the NYC Marathon

Sagar Parekh joins us for a conversation that goes beyond miles and muscles, it’s about mental clarity, connection, and finding joy in life. We talk about the realities of motivation, the impact of community and family, along with how mindfulness shows up in every stride.If you’ve ever felt intimidated by LIFE, this episode will remind you: it’s not about perfection, it’s about progress.So settle in, get cozy, and grab your chai. ☕️Follow Sagar: https://www.instagram.com/poweredbyparekh/Ahara Rasa Ghee 10% off: https://iloveghee.com/discount/HALFPASTCHAI10🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchaiTime codes4:16 - Who is Sagar8:57 - My content then vs now12:05 - My therapy experience17:46 - What is the PROBLEM?20:49 - Don’t give your age too much power23:18 - Everyone has problems26:07 - GHEE SPONSOR26:50 - The childhood story30:21 - My sisters are a huge inspiration39:30 - How to get into journaling43:42 - Anxiety.46:59 - Running a marathon in a Kurta56:30 - Making videos online1:05:38 - RAPID FIRE

Ten years. Countless versions of ourselves. And a whole lot of lessons learned along the way.In this episode, we’re packing a decade of love, growth, and hard-earned wisdom into one conversation, the kind of lessons you can only learn through time. From learning to grow as individuals and as a couple, to navigating trust, independence, and all of life’s “firsts” together we’ve been through it.Whether you’re in a new relationship, married, or just curious what a decade together really looks like, this episode’s for you. 💛New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchaiAutonomy: Follow Nathan!Time codes0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI3:08 - When we fell in love8:17 - 1. On the hard days, remind yourself who you fell in love with11:29 - 2. You’ll go through so many versions of yourselves in a relationship15:40 - 3. Your partner can’t be everything for you, and that’s okay.18:36 - 4. You both need your own space to grow.24:28 - 5. Your vows really do mean in sickness and in health28:53 - 6. Invest in experiences that strengthen your bond31:00 - 7. It really is that damn phone. 33:47 - 8. Don’t seek constant validation from your partner.36:48 - 9. Just because you have an agenda doesn’t mean your partner does. 39:08 - 10. Live in the moment

In this episode of Half Past Chai, we sit down with Brook & Harjot, an interracial husband-wife duo who’ve built a loyal following sharing relatable, funny, and heartfelt content about culture, love, and identity.We talk about what it’s truly like marrying across cultures (Punjabi & Western), the surprises, the challenges, and the joy. From family expectations to the funniest misunderstandings, and how content creation became their space to laugh together and bring others in.If you've ever wondered what it takes to balance two worlds, stay true to yourself, and build something together, this is for you.New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchaiFollow Brook & Harjot: @brookempaulTime codes0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI2:18 - Why did you start posting content?9:13 - How they met11:49 - Harjot’s arranged marriage20:52 - How they told the parents 28:23 - Wedding story time33:08 - Advice to couples who’s parents won’t accept their S.O.35:48 - Raising kids in 2 cultures39:00 - Social media journey & best advice for interracial couples45:48 - Rapid fire questions

This week, we’re breaking down exactly how much we made and how much we spent in Q3 of 2025. From business expenses and taxes to travel costs and takeout runs, we’re getting real about the numbers (and yes, it’s a little scary).How do two self-employed creators actually manage their money? Are we saving enough? Do we need to go back to our 9-5s? Let’s find out together.So settle in, get cozy, and grab your chai. ☕️New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛Book a call with Autonomy: https://www.southasianfatloss.co.uk/vslDonate to Therapist Beyond Borders here: https://givebutter.com/H8JMbY🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchaiUse code HALFPASTCHAI to get 15% off https://andcollar.com/Time codes0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI2:31 - Q3 Finances5:57 - Our relationship with money10:27 - Why is this transparency important12:29 - July Numbers13:32 - August Numbers14:04 - SPONSOR14:41 - September Numbers16:35 - Why I was stressed19:01 - Why what we are doing is worth it21:44 - My money trama24:37 - September Spend30:08 - Net worth update

Today we’re sitting down with Rajan Chida - an entrepreneur who turned down a job offer at JPMorgan to build his own path. Instead of taking the traditional 9-5 route, Rajan co-founded Royal Oak Retreat, a luxury cabin experience in Virginia, where he’s building more than just a business he’s building a lifestyle.We dive into what it’s like going against cultural expectations, buying land, building a retreat from scratch, and why betting on yourself can be the most rewarding risk you ever take.New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛Royal Oak Retreat: https://www.royaloakretreat.comDonate to Therapist Beyond Borders here: https://givebutter.com/H8JMbY🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchaiUse code HALFPASTCHAI to get 15% off https://andcollar.com/Time codes0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI2:27 - Who is Rajan Chida?8:51 - Where did the money come from?11:53 - How did the shoe business start?16:30 - How Rajan met his business partner, Renzo22:16 - How did the shoe business help you with what you’re doing now25:50 - The long game.34:14 - Do you ever question what you’re doing?37:05 - What happened when you went viral?40:01 - EVERYTHING ON YOUR PHONE46:40 - Advice for someone trying to start their own business50:08 - The technical side of the business55:13 - Rapid Fire

HAPPY MONDAY, Half Past Crew. This week we’re BACK with these insane assumptions that YOU guys have about US?! Did Suketu marry Hallie for a green card? What kind of meat do we actually consume? Is Suketu’s family LOADED in India? All this and more on this weeks assumptions video. Thank you all for submitting your assumptions of us! New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛Book a call with Autonomy: https://www.southasianfatloss.co.uk/vsl🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchaiDonate to Therapist Beyond Boarders here: https://givebutter.com/H8JMbYTime codes0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI4:10 - The meat we eat…8:32 - Our opposite personalities20:40 - The green card dilemma…22:02 - The rest of the assumptions

Today’s episode is a special one. Suketu is sharing the 10 most valuable lessons he’s learned from Hallie over the course of their relationship. From learning to communicate better to slowing down, being present, and choosing love daily. These are the lessons that have completely changed the way we live and love together.Whether you’re married, dating, or single, these are lessons that can transform any relationship (and honestly, your life).New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛Donate to Therapist Beyond Borders here: https://givebutter.com/H8JMbY🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchaiUse code HALFPASTCHAI to get 15% off https://andcollar.com/Time codes0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI4:22 - 1. Communication is the most important9:46 - 2. Money isn't the most important thing16:11 - 3. Slow down and be present20:59 - 4. Flight the problem not the person22:42 - 5. Celebrate the small wins26:46 - 6. Sometimes a little bit of space can be the solution28:54 - 7. Be more spontaneous31:09 - 8. Protecting each other in public34:43 - 9. Don't stop dating each other38:04 - 10. Love is a daily choice

What do you do when your parents say “no” to the person you love? 💔 This week on Half Past Chai, we’re answering YOUR questions from family approval and religion to surviving the hardest seasons of life.We’re sharing:✨ How Suketu’s family first reacted to meeting Hallie (and how the relationship grew over time)✨ How we got through our lowest points and what kept us going✨ What we’d say to parents who won’t accept their child’s partner✨ How to balance work, fitness, culture, and a healthy relationshipWhether you’re struggling with faith differences, family expectations, or just trying to stay motivated through tough times this episode is for you.So settle in, get cozy, and grab your chai. 💛New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛Book a call with Autonomy: https://calendly.com/d/3qr-dzb-tgh/autonomy-team-game-plan?utm_campaign=halfchai&utm_source=podcast?el=adread🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchaiDonate to Therapist Beyond Boarders here: https://givebutter.com/H8JMbYTime codes0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI3:13 - Rapid Fire Instagram Questions11:02 - SPONSOR12:07 - How did Hallie meet Suketu’s family & how is the relationship now?21:18 - Dealing with hard times & dark thoughts36:07 - Will my daughters be “allowed” to take care of me?39:14 - We broke up because of different religions.46:45 - My dad won’t meet my boyfriend48:19 - Show this to your DAD.

In this episode, we're getting real and personal about a topic that’s been central to our lives lately: mental health.We’re opening up about the challenges we faced over the past year, sharing why we truly decided to leave our jobs, and what we learned about the importance of prioritizing ourselves. It's easy to get caught up in the grind and the pressure to be everything for everyone, but we've learned the hard way what can happen when you don’t put yourself first. We'll also highlight resources and help normalize the conversation around therapy and self-care.You are worthy of a healthy body and a healthy mind. So settle in, get cozy, and grab your chai. Let's get into it, Half Past Crew.New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛Donate to Therapist Beyond Boarders here: https://givebutter.com/H8JMbY🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchaiUse code HALFPASTCHAI to get 15% off https://andcollar.com/Time codes0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI2:08 - Why your mental health matters4:31 - Why the last year was so hard on us12:28 - Why we really quit our jobs…27:38 - Resources for therapy30:05 - What happens when you don’t take care of yourself?37:38 - How to take care of yourself

In this week's episode, we're busting 10 common marriage myths and talking about what actually makes a relationship thrive. Does getting married make everything easier? Do happy couples never fight? Will kids really bring you closer?We're pulling back the curtain on some of the most widely held beliefs about marriage and sharing what we've learned as an interracial couple. We'll get real about the hard work, the missteps, and the intentional effort it takes to build a strong partnership.Join us as we talk about:The truth about fighting, romance, and date nightsWhy your partner shouldn't be "your everything"The importance of setting boundaries with in-lawsWhy every marriage, even a good one, can benefit from therapyHow love is a verb, not just an effortless feelingNew episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchaiUse code HALFPASTCHAI to get 15% off https://andcollar.com/Book a call with Autonomy: https://calendly.com/d/3qr-dzb-tgh/autonomy-team-game-plan?utm_campaign=halfchai&utm_source=podcast?el=adreadTime codes0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI4:28 - Myth #1: Once you’re married, everything gets easier8:16 - Myth #2: Happy couples never fight12:55 - Myth #3: Your partner should be your everything16:47 - Myth #4: Date nights fix everything22:07 - Myth #5: Marriage kills romance24:52 - SPONSOR25:47 - Myth #6: Kids will bring you closer29:24 - Myth #7: You have to share everything32:28 - Myth #8: In-laws will always be a nightmare34:22 - Myth #9: Good marriages don’t need therapy39:06 - Myth #10: If you’re truly in love, it should feel effortless.

So… we quit our jobs. And now that we’ve had a full month of being self-employed, we have a lot to say.In this episode, we’re getting honest about the things no one tells you when you leave the 9–5 life… the mental rollercoaster, the unexpected stress, the new definition of success, and what it’s really like working with your spouse (spoiler: it’s not all cute cafés and midday walks).Whether you’re thinking of quitting, just made the leap, or are deep in your self-employed era, this one’s for you. We’re sharing our routine, real struggles, and the biggest lessons we’ve learned so far.Settle in, get cozy, and grab your chai ☕️New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛🏃‍♀️ NYC Marathon Fundraiser for Hallie!: https://givebutter.com/H8JMbY🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchaiUse code HALFPASTCHAI to get 15% off https://andcollar.com/Time codes0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI3:37 - What IS our job now?5:23 - Be WAY more intentional with your time14:41 - You have to force yourself to stop working and enjoy life18:52 - You will feel more lost & scared than you did before24:27 - You WILL have more stress27:41 - You WILL BE BUSIER30:47 - You don’t have to sit at your desk to be productive33:27 - Your definition of success will always change36:42 - Your income will always be unpredictable40:17 - Others may not understand your new schedule, and that’s okay44:56 - You need a community now more than EVER

WE’RE BACK. And we went deep into the Reddit trenches.This week, we’re reading and reacting to the most jaw-dropping marriage posts we could find from messy in-law drama and work-from-home fights, to cheating scandals and influencer marriages gone wrong.You know we had to bring some Desi family chaos into the mix too. As always, we’re spilling the chai and sharing our own takes, relationship advice, and a little too much personal experience.New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛Book a call with Autonomy: https://calendly.com/bhavanasingh079/autonomy-game-plan-bhav?utm_campaign=halfpastchai🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchaiTime codes0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI2:45 - The WFH Situation…8:51 - Is it possible to cheat again after cheating once?14:05 - Dealing with Indian In-Laws In Our Home23:33 - A Word From Our SPONSOR: Autonomy24:51 - My wife became an influencer and now she hates me32:14 - Am I asking too much of my husband to put in more work?37:59 - Brides family didn’t come to the wedding…44:34 - Is it wrong if I’m attracted to other people?49:33 - My husband’s needs are too much

This week on Half Past Chai, we’re answering YOUR questions and you didn’t hold back. We’re diving into everything from friendship breakups and strict Indian parents to interracial love, starting a podcast, and how to navigate difficult conversations in relationships.We also share our own experiences with crying in front of each other, building trust in marriage, and how we make content creation a full-time job. Whether you're dealing with cultural pressure, want to start creating content, or just love some good relationship tea this one's for you.🫶 Topics we cover:Feeling left out in friendshipsInterracial/intercultural relationship strugglesStrict desi parents & datingHow we started our podcast and YouTube channelOur "non-negotiables" in marriageCrying, emotional intimacy & supporting your partnerAunties & uncles asking too many questionsMaking content creation a full-time careerNew episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛Book a call with Autonomy: https://calendly.com/bhavanasingh079/autonomy-game-plan-bhav?utm_campaign=halfpastchai🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchaiTime codes0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI3:54 - Friendship break ups8:47 - Interracial problems16:51 - What boundaries did we set after breaking up?24:00 - How to start a podcast?28:52 - Parent asks question about kids relationship37:39 - How do you make money?41:58 - Boyfriends mom walk in on us46:08 - When did we cry in front of each other?51:44 - How do you handle aunties' questions?

WE’RE BACK. Happy Monday, Half Past Crew. In this episode, we’re breaking down exactly what we spent over the first three months of the year as a married couple - from the necessary expenses to the not-so-necessary impulse buys. We’re also opening up about how we navigate tough financial conversations, balance what we want vs what we need, and keep our relationship strong through it all. So get cozy, grab your chai, and let’s get into this week’s episode.New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛Book a call with Autonomy: https://calendly.com/bhavanasingh079/autonomy-game-plan-bhav?utm_campaign=halfpastchai🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchaiTime codes0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI4:01 - What MEN struggle with19:50 - SPONSOR20:53 - What WOMEN struggle with33:54 - Happy wife happy life?45:16 - How we fix this

WE’RE BACK. Happy Monday, Half Past Crew. In this episode, we’re breaking down exactly what we spent over the first three months of the year as a married couple - from the necessary expenses to the not-so-necessary impulse buys. We’re also opening up about how we navigate tough financial conversations, balance what we want vs what we need, and keep our relationship strong through it all. So get cozy, grab your chai, and let’s get into this week’s episode.New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchaiUse code HALFPASTCHAI to get 15% off https://andcollar.com/Time codes0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI3:27 - Money and Relationships7:01 - Suketu’s Hot Take8:28 - Bad finances causes divorce16:43 - What’s our budget24:39 - April spending26:52 - May spending28:56 - June Spending36:01 - Our Net Worth42:18 - Transparency

This week on Half Past Chai, we’re getting real about the stereotypes around Indian men (are they really momma’s boys?), how we keep our marriage feeling fresh (and not like we’re just roommates), and the hate we get for loving each other out loud. We’re spilling our most unpopular opinions and diving into the sides of interracial relationships people don’t talk about - the messy, the funny, and the honest.If you’ve ever wondered how we handle it all - the culture clashes, the critics, the content hustle - this one’s for you. Grab your chai and let’s get into it, Half Past Crew.Let’s get into it, Half Past Crew 💬✨New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don’t forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us 💛🎙 Submit your stories: https://www.halfpastchai.com/📲 Follow us: https://bio.site/halfpastchaiUse code HALFPASTCHAI to get 15% off https://andcollar.com/Code for Learning Gujarati book https://amzn.to/3H154m7Time codes0:00 - ANSWERING YOUR QUESTIONS4:29 - Are Indian men momma’s boys?6:15 - How are you able to make content so fast?11:01 - Do you stress about honoring the others culture?14:33 - What are we doing NOT to be roommates22:00 - What is your most unpopular opinion27:42 - How do you deal with hate on your relationship34:29 - How many languages do we know?36:01 - Why did you leave your jobs?41:24 - When are you moving to NYC?46:47 - What are some issues Interracial Couples deal with?