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Haughtivities

by Embrace Your Colour

Haughtivities is full of real and raw conversation about authentic, God-given self-confidence. Prepare to laugh, cry, pray, and most importantly....transform!

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Episodes

  1. Closure

    Can you imagine finding out that your friends no longer want to be your friends?? Crazy, right? In this episode, Jay Denee' talks about gaining closure without apologies, arguments, or final conversations.

  2. You Are Not the Savior: Asia Cross on Breaking the People-Pleasing Cycle

    Asia Cross is living proof that freedom starts when you stop trying to save everyone. In this episode, she opens up about breaking free from people pleasing, staying in her God-given lane, and choosing obedience over approval. If you’ve been warring with things that don’t belong to you, this one…

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  3. Beauty from Ashes: Danielle L. Dickerson-Traylor’s Journey from Pain to Purpose

    Jay Denee' speaks with Danielle L. Dickerson-Traylor about her inspiring journey of healing, faith, and transformation. Danielle shares her experiences with abuse, grief, and loss, and how God led her from brokenness to purpose. She also discusses her new book, From Madam to Missionary, and...

  4. Boundaries Don't Mean Beef

    Jay Denee’ learned that boundaries don’t mean beef. And now you know this too—just because someone hurt you doesn’t mean you have to make them feel it. God is teaching you how to forgive, protect your peace, and still keep it cute.

  5. Protect Your Purpose

    Jay Denee’ talks about choosing wisely who you share your purpose with and why your circle impacts your destiny.

  6. Mind Ya Life!

    Jay Denee' dives into the drama of people who try to shame others for their choices, give opinions nobody asked for, and act like they know someone's life better than God. She reminds listeners why staying in your own lane, focusing on your growth, and trusting God's plan is the real power move.

  7. There's Grace in the Wilderness

    There’s grace in the wilderness. God didn’t leave you in Egypt…and He’s not rushing you into Canaan. The wilderness is where He prepares you, strengthens you, and shows you who you really are. “God isn’t slow concerning His promise…” — He’s just making sure you’re ready.

  8. Rock Bottom

    In this episode of Haughtivities, I get real about hitting what I thought was “rock bottom.” From being stripped of everything to facing a life I never imagined, I share the raw, undignified moments of this season. I also dive into my two-year journey with God—how He’s been present through it all...

  9. "Turn The Wigs Around"

    In this episode, Jay Denee' discusses the complexities that come with aligning oneself with God's desires and presents the 3 Ps: -Perseverance -Pliability -Pivoting

  10. Pep Talk 01

    Jay Denee' speaks on the importance of leaning into your joy factors during a healing journey.

  11. Me vs. Me (Guest Host: Diamond Brown)

    Diamond Brown graces the "Haughtivites" platform with an uncut perspective of the mental health aspect of healing, honing in on her own experience.

  12. Bittersweet

    In this episode, Jay Denee' discusses the bittersweet nature of healing--how beneficial yet scary it could be to embrace the newness of healing.

  13. To Each His Own

    This episode focuses on the importance of coming to a resolve that everybody is DIFFERENT. Everyone won't respond to situations, trauma, transitions, etc., the way you would. It is best to make peace with that!

  14. Triggered

    In this episode, Jay Denee' discusses the power that is given to triggers and how crucial it is to remember that progress is never compromised, merely because of triggers.

  15. "Get somebody else to do it"

    Jay Denee' talks about how crucial it is to set boundaries, as you raise your standards-a task that is not as easy as it sounds.

  16. The Pain of "Glowing Up"

    Jay Denee' discusses the challenges that come with elevation. "Glowing up" is surely rewarding, but there is also pain in the growth that is required to steward the "glow" well.

  17. Miss Me?

    Jay Denee' welcomes her audience to the NEW and IMPROVED "Haughtivities!" Find out what Jay has been up to for the past year!

  18. Church Friends Pt. Two

    Jay Denee', Charisse, and Eduard continue their conversation about people being hurt, in a place of healing-- this time, acknowledging their own contribution to the problem and potential solutions.

  19. Church Friends Pt. One

    In part one of the Season finale, Jay Denee' is joined by Charisse and Eduard Flowers to share the ups and downs of building relationships, at church. Tune in and listen to how they navigated through some tough seasons, what they learned about themselves and how they matured through it all.

  20. Toxic Culture Pt. III

    Jay Denee' is joined by Shani P to discuss co-dependency in relationships and why it is important to maintain a sense of individuality.

  21. Toxic Culture Pt. II

    Jay Denee' is joined by Kennedi Strahan to discuss SITUATIONSHIPS.

  22. Haughtivities 102- Toxic Culture Part One

    Toxicity has unfortunately become normalized, especially in relationships. In this episode, Jay Denee' rifts on her blog post "We've All Been Nikki Parker" to illustrate the essence of the toxic culture of this generation.

  23. Dear Secret Chubby Chasers

    Jay Denee' clears the air regarding men who pretend to not like plus size women but secretly desire them. She also shares her struggles with weight and how her perspective of a weight loss journey has changed.

  24. Cute to be Dark-skinned

    Jay Denee' reflects on a time, where she hated her darker complexion and what led her to pursue authentic self-love.

  25. 101- She Did THAT

    What price are you willing to become DECIDED? In this episode, Jay Denee' is joined by Tatenda Chairuka to discuss the joys of being a decided woman and the pain connected to embarking on such a journey.

  26. Haughtivities 101- The Resilient Woman

    Jay Denee' is joined by Jashawdra Collier to unpack ideas surrounding resilience, as well as share personal journeys that built resilience.

  27. Haughtivities 101- Mind Ya Business

    Jay Denee' and her guest, Jalen Bell, discuss the importance of prioritizing mental health and personal peace above people's expectations of you.

  28. Time To Shift

    This marks the end of Season 1! I pray that this has helped to shift your perspective, regarding who you are in Christ. If anything, please take what I've extended and offer it to anyone else in need! I love you all!

  29. Let Us Pray!

    I've switched gears for this episode! The entire segment is dedicated to interceding for those, who have struggled in their pursuit to wholeness. So with that being said, find a peaceful place and stand in agreement with me, as I pray for you all. I love each and everyone of you!

  30. Saying Goodbye

    Although we've come to the endddd of the roaddd..... I am so excited to bid this last season a joyful farewell. I successfully completed a Masters degree in Global Media Management, while in England, and just wanted to share what I've learned so far, in hopes that you all can apply my lessons to...

  31. Slow Down!

    The road to authentic self confidence is not a RACE! This is your life. It's about your progress-- Take some time to love on yourself, celebrate yourself, acknowledge your qualities and assess your flaws. You don't have to beat yourself down alllll the way to the finish line. I pray this episode...

  32. Make A Decision

    A major aspect of authentic self-confidence is the ability to maintain productivity, even as you wait for God to move in your life. Being patient does not equate to immobility. God has called for us to WAIT on His timing but to also partner with Him in His plans for our lives. So, please don't...

  33. One of Those Days

    I just needed to vent what was on my heart. Hopefully, this episode makes it easier for you all to be more vulnerable during your own journeys! I love you all!

  34. No Such Thing As The Ugly Friend

    Today's episode is about FEELING LIKE THE UGLY FRIEND. I will walk you through my experience, struggling with this, and how I found out that it is a LIE. It is quite alright to feel how you feel; we are all entitled to our feelings, but we are responsible for our healing and freedom!

  35. Listen Closely

    Haughtivities is all about AUTHENTIC self-confidence! The only way to be SECURE in yourself is to understand God's perspective, which is the only perspective that should matter. Validation from your peers is all fine and dandy, but their validation, alone, won't be enough to sustain you. Bottom...

  36. Welcome To Haughtivities

    Welcome! Welcome! Welcome! Today's episode will give you a glimpse of what Haughtivities is all about. So, get comfortable and prepare for some relatable, transparent, and humorous conversation!

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

Haughtivities is full of real and raw conversation about authentic, God-given self-confidence. Prepare to laugh, cry, pray, and most importantly....transform!

HOSTED BY

Embrace Your Colour

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Haughtivities is full of real and raw conversation about authentic, God-given self-confidence. Prepare to laugh, cry, pray, and most importantly....transform!

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