PODCAST · health
Heal From the Ground Up
by Michael Hsu
Are you ready to heal your emotions, relationship, family, and career from the ground up? In this podcast, What sets this podcast apart from all others, is that Michael will help you both identify and treat the root cause of your pain so you can truly be free of it. 99% of the mental health and self-help field focuses on just trying to make you feel better without understanding why you feel the way you do. This creates what I call the rubberband effect. Imagine yourself tied to a light post with a large rubber band. You push forward with "positivity" but eventually because you did not address the root cause, you snap right back. Break free from this vicious cycle of treating the symptom and ignoring the root cause by listening to the podcast as well as joining Michael's membership community for full access to Michael's revolutionary methods and teachings.
Episodes
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The Power of Vulnerability - Episode 69
Our society admires strength and looks down upon vulnerability thinking to be vulnerable is to be weak. We misuse "strength" to push away how we feel. It's actually much easier to avoid how we feel by being "strong" than it is to face our feelings with vulnerability and to feel what we feel at…
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Is Self-Care Selfish: The Trauma of Having Narcissistic Parents (Coaching Session)
Do you feel guilt and an immense responsibility for others? Do you put yourself last because you fear taking care of yourself will take away from your ability to take care of others? All of this can be due to having narcissistic parents who treat you as an extension of themselves. Listen to this...
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Trauma of a Family Murder (Coaching Session w/Tia Landers)
Tia feels lost as an entrepreneur, since recently leaving a steady job. She fears if she will fail or not, but the real issue is Tia not feeling in control. Tia gets angry with her daughter because she bought her enough clothes to wear a different outfit for three weeks in a row. Her daughter…
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The Danger of Suppressing Our Emotions (Coaching Session w/Stacey Gross)
Suppressing our emotions and feelings is dangerous because our unresolved feelings are emotional wounds and if we suppress them by avoiding them, they only grow and eventually consume us without even us being conscious of it. Parents who suppress their emotions and feelings pass down their...
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What If I Lose My Job? (Coaching session w/Xavier Diaz)
With the economy crashing due to Covid-19, Xavier has the constant fear that he will be let go since he is only a new hiree. What's happening now in the world is bringing up our worst fears so we can uncover and heal our unresolved deep-seated feelings. As always, "Problems bring up feelings in…
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Finding Peace During a Pandemic (Covid-19)
You may have all kinds of emotions, feelings, and thoughts racing through you because of all that is happening right now. All of this may be eliciting one of the darkest times of your life. Through all of this, despite how bad it may be, I want you to first center yourself with the mantra that...
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Pt 2: Will My Family Abandon Me? Live Coaching Session w/Natalie Que
Where does Natalie's feelings of her family abandoning truly come from? In part two of this coaching session with Natalie, we go deep in the intergenerational healing process and unveil the source of it all. If you have not yet listened to coaching session part one, please go to listen to the...
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Will My Family Abandon Me? (Live Coaching Session Pt 1 w/Natalie Que)
Here I coach Natalie Que through her fear that she will be disowned by her family if she speaks her true story that entails her family on her podcast "Your Spin Out is Gorgeous." This episode marks a big change in my podcast where I will be coming back to featuring coaching sessions, but this…
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Anxiety, Anger and Depression are a Symptom of Intergenerational Trauma
The reason why anxiety, anger, and depression keep coming up in our lives and in our society is because we are not uncovering and exploring the underlying root cause which lies in intergenerational healing. Understanding intergenerational healing forever change how we as a human race understand…
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Michael's feeling of failure
Here l share my immense fear of failure with raw vulnerability. I was contemplating not publishing this episode because I did not want to appear as a hypocrite, failure, and fraud, but my wife convinced me that others easily connect when I share my raw vulnerability. It is only through the…
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Feeling is Healing
Do you find yourself feeling stuck in your negative emotions and problems no matter how much you think and analyze it all? Although thinking is important, thoughts must be balanced with the act of feeling, for "feeling is healing." "Feeling" is the first step of Michael's breakthrough emotional...
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The Anger of Our Lost Childhood
Are you tired of being angry? I believe our anger has a lot to do with what was lost in our childhood. We don't know that because we're so busy being angry at others and ourselves. What we're really angry about is losing our childhood because our parents needed us as children for their emotional...
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Our Codependent Relationship with the World
I believe relationships can often be enmeshed in the sense you have two people so focused on each other but not looking at themselves. One partner can subconsciously blame the other partner for their past wounds. While the other partner feels responsible and wants to be their savior. Either way,...
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Chasing After Success Because You're a Failure
Why are we chasing after something we already are? Why are we chasing after strength when we already strong? Why are we chasing after worthiness if we already worthy? The only reason why we chase after something is because we believe we don't have it. We believe we are a failure so we must chase...
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Makings Others Responsible For Your Happiness
I've seen it a lot with my clients where couples get into heated arguments because they feel emotionally responsible for each other. Interestingly this helped see it in my own relationship where I would make my fiancee responsible for my own emotional well-being. When you make others responsible...
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Finding Peace and Infinite Wisdom Within Your Monkey Mind
We often feel we are a prisoner to our own minds. We are constantly wrestling with our thoughts and hate ourselves for our negative emotions. We either try to think our way out of the emotion, numb ourselves with busyness or project our self-hate onto others. The whole time we are doing…
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Why Self-love Begins With a Clean Room You Love
I've been a messy and disorderly person all my life. I wanted to be organized but never truly understood the paramount importance of having my personal space orderly and including only possessions that spark joy within me. This has helped me create a clear mind and clarify on what is important to...
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Why Control is the Cause of Your Pain
We think control as something that is self driven because it gets things the way we want it to be. But control is really about forgetting who we are and what is important to us because control is focusing everything that is outside of you. We need to control our environment and other people to…
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Who Are You Without Your Fears?
Who are you without your fears? Asking this question allows you to understand your true authentic self. We have identified with our fears for so long because it feels familiar to us, but none of our fears make up the fabric of who we truly are. Our fears is what make us look at our unattained…
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Why Your Pain Doesn't Belong To You
The pain and fears we carry are so hard to let go because they feel like they are a part of our soul. The amazing thing is that our pain doesn't even belong to us. As empaths or codependents we took on the pain of those we loved in order to lessen their load. Especially when we took on this pain…
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The Double Edged Sword of Empathy
Codependency is a word we often view as something that is negative and needs to be eliminated. My understanding of codependency is that it is a result of a gift of ours that we overuse. That is the gift of being an Empath. As empaths we feel, identify and can even feel responsible for the…
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Why You're A Gift to the World
We falsely believe that accomplishing our life goals and dreams is what bring us our self-worth. The truth is who we are just as we are is a gift to the world. Ironically when we realize that, is when our greatest dreams and goals come true. Therefore your gift to the world is not your "success.:...
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Healing the Pain of Being Selfless With Boundaries
Boundaries serve to protect you in all areas of life, especially in relationships and work. In a relationship, boundaries are so important to protect not only yourself but your partner. Because once boundaries are crossed both parties are disrespecting themselves. Any disagreement can only get...
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Reclaiming Your SELF Through Boundaries
Every waking moment is an opportunity to share the gift of who you are and not to validate your self worth with what you do. Lacking boundaries is not knowing where you end and the other person begins. Without boundaries you cease to exist and thus sacrifice yourself to purely become a vessel to...
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How Your "Problems" Take You Out of Reality
We all feel overwhelmed by all the things that we need to get done and especially all the problems we need to resolve in order to get to where we want to in life. But the real issue is how we focus on these problems that take ourselves out of reality. Thus the very thing we think will get us…
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Basing self-worth on what you DO and not on who you ARE
This summary is hard to write because it has to do with my parents. I do not want to defame them in any way. But the truth is I am not emotional responsible for their feelings. I had to console my mother through panic attacks as a child which planted the seed into my adulthood that I was...
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Michael Uncovers the Root of All His Problems
This is a powerful coaching session where I uncover the root of all my problems and struggles. I realize all the healing that I do for the others is the same healing I need to give to myself. In this session you will see how the struggles of my adulthood are all actually rooted in my childhood....
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Pt 2: Michael & Daria Explore Their Relationship Triggers
Living in fear is a pattern that was taught to us very early on in our lives. The reason why we live out our childhood in our adulthood is because that is what was programmed into us. In part two of this couples coaching session with my fiancee Daria and Paul Colaianni of the Overwhelmed Brain...
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Pt 1: Michael & Daria Explore Their Relationship Triggers
In relationships you are always going to have fights. It's normal and necessary. But one thing to be conscious of is to avoid the downward spiral of relationship triggers. What this means is when one partner gets triggered, he or she takes it out on their partner. And that partner triggers the...
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Why Feeling It Is Achieving It
We believe the achieving of all our goals and dreams will bring us a feeling of happiness. But the truth is everything that you so desperately seek resides within you. And how you experience that is not setting a condition to your happiness but giving yourself the permission to feel the happiness...
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Michael's Personal Journey Interview with Jade Inspiration
This is the first time I did an interview for my show. You will get to learn about how all the healing I offer others stems from the healing I give to myself. We all want to help others but we forget that to become selfless we need to first be "selfish." Or in other words put yourself as a top...
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Why You're More Powerful Than You Can Ever Imagine
Putting ourselves down is something as natural to us as breathing. So natural that we are not even aware that we are doing it. Our focus is purely on our "problems" that we have created which we treat as reasons for why we are not good enough. The truth is not only are our fears false, but the...
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The Voice of Your Inner Critic
The voice of inner critic is strong but acts like a ghost. It controls your every move but you don’t know that you are being controlled and by what. When you touch a hot stove, you don’t have the time to think about the pain, you just automatically remove your hand without thinking. We live our...
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Pt 3: Michael's Anger Towards His Fiancée
In this part 3 finale you will discover the absolute root cause of my anger towards my fiancée. In Part 1 you saw how my anger towards my fiancee was really an expression of feminine tendencies of being overly sensitive and emotional. In Part 2 you began to see how my anger towards her was really...
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Pt 2: Michael's Anger Towards His Fiancée
This is Part 2 of a couples coaching session I had with my fiancée and Paul Colaianni of The Overhwhelmed Brain Podcast. The biggest things I'm taking away from these couples sessions is that the issues that come up in my relationship has a lot less to do with the other person and mostly what's...
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Pt 1: Michael's Anger Towards His Fiancée
This is a couples coaching session with my fiancée and Paul Colaianni of the Overwhelmed Brain Podcast. The previous couples session we did (episode 28) you saw the anger my fiancee had towards me which was really her suppressed anger towards her mother. The tables have turned and you will now…
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Projecting Your Hidden Fears onto Others
Things we do not like about ourselves we project onto others in such a subconscious way that we don't even realize what are real fears are. I do this all the time with my fiancee and everything that I do not like about myself, I pour my frustration onto her. It's almost I'm subconsciously saying...
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Michael Discovers the Healing Power of Pain
I have spent my whole life using logic to understand life my life which has kept my negative feelings and most importantly pain at a safe distance from me. But it is my pain that holds the missing key to my healing. In this episode, I share all that I've learned from feeling the emotions I would...
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Breaking Through Analysis Paralysis
In thinking of the title for this episode I could have titled it after the epiphany that surfaced which is "The Gift of Who You Are". However, this epiphany was only brought out from me breaking through analysis paralysis. The best way I believe to do this is from feeling all of our feelings as...
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Michael Shares His Mother's Impact on Him
The impact that my mother has had on my life is something that has been hidden from me for most of my life. Although I'm still processing it, I'm beginning to realize the pain I've been hiding and denying within my self. Having said this, my mother is still the best mother I can ever ask for. But...
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Couples Coaching with Michael & His Fiancée | Paul Colaianni
We may be deeply in love with our romantic partners but the relationship still serves as a vehicle to heal our inner most wounds. Within the relationship triggers are naturally manifested for us to bring our wounds to the surface so we can begin to see them and heal them. What this means is that...
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The Danger of Emotional Detachment
Because of the pain associated with negative emotions we automatically numb or distract ourselves of these emotions. The problem with this is that deep within our emotions is a message we need to understand and resolve. But we can't find any resolve if we are so busy distracting ourselves from…
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Feeling the Weight of the World on Your Shoulders
This podcast speaks to a hidden epidemic within families across the world. Parents are a child's foundation and source of love. But so many parents, for whatever reason are not able to be the parent they need to be for their child and leave the child to feel like they must be the source of...
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Why Your Vision is Not a Destination
We all strive hard to fulfill our life's purpose and vision. This session in coaching Dr. Karen Osburn, host of Mom at 41 podcast, was amazing for me because what she needed coaching on ended up being something that I wasn't clear myself. Karen was able to reflect back to me what I'm not able to...
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The New Direction of Heal From the Ground Up | Michael Hsu | Ep 25
The new direction for my podcast comes from my heart's vision. The new direction entails me coaching callers on the podcast and me being coached by other coaches. I want pull back the curtains for the "teacher" and show where all of the teachings truly come from. How the journey of the teacher…
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Feeding Your Fears Through Resistance | Paul Colaianni with Michael | Episode 24
Do you hate the feeling that anxiety gives you? I know that you would do almost anything to get rid of that awful and painful feeling. This is what we all do in our response to anxiety. We try to lessen them and coax ourselves through our anxiety. Listen to this powerful coaching session where…
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Addicted to Please | Episode 23
What does it mean to be addicted to please? It's about constantly looking to others to determine your self-worth. Through this addiction to please others you forget who you are. This need to please others is something that has withheld me from showing you all of myself on the podcast. In this...
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What is Your Anxiety Trying to Tell You? | Michael Hsu | Episode 22
The feeling of anxiety is a big part of what makes us human. However the feeling of anxiety can be very overwhelming and even painful that we try to fight it and avoid it at all costs. This only makes it grow. What we need to do differently is learn to face our anxiety and understand what it is...
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Why You Must Put Yourself First | Michael Hsu | Episode 21
Learning to put myself first has been my most important and challenging life lesson. I personally feel like it will be a lifelong lesson for me. I'm not saying that I am relearning the same lesson because the lesson of putting myself first, just as with any lesson acts like a tree with hundreds…
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Living Through Joy | Sharon Freedman & Michael | Episode 20
Want to learn how to live through joy? My playful and silly self is the best part of me but I often forget that in the "seriousness" of life. In this podcast where I get coached by Sharon Freedman you will see me learning to embrace my playful self that has been hiding for so long on the podcast....
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Are you ready to heal your emotions, relationship, family, and career from the ground up? In this podcast, What sets this podcast apart from all others, is that Michael will help you both identify and treat the root cause of your pain so you can truly be free of it. 99% of the mental health and self-help field focuses on just trying to make you feel better without understanding why you feel the way you do. This creates what I call the rubberband effect. Imagine yourself tied to a light post with a large rubber band. You push forward with "positivity" but eventually because you did not address the root cause, you snap right back. Break free from this vicious cycle of treating the symptom and ignoring the root cause by listening to the podcast as well as joining Michael's membership community for full access to Michael's revolutionary methods and teachings.
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