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HisAndHers

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Unique couple offering an organic perspective on a myriad of topics weekly.

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Episodes

  1. Managing Expectations

    On this episode Vanessa & Wayne discuss what it’s like tempering expectations in certain instances. Wether dating, friendships, relationships, family, or even something simple as making certain decisions. “HIS” speaks to some personal things he’s had to temper regarding his personal life. “HERS”...

  2. EL YUNQUE

    On this episode Vanessa & Wayne get into the specifics about their vacation they recently just went on to Puerto Rico. They talk about the excursions they went on, the beaches they saw ventured to, the food, the people they met, & all the fun they had. HIS gives insight on conquering a few of his...

  3. Podding In Puerto Rico 🇵🇷

    On this episode Vanessa & Wayne take time from their vacation to record. They touch on the trip itself & some of the fun stuff they encountered while there. The conversation also turns to milestones and achieving certain benchmarks by a certain age. Tune in for more to figure out how the trip...

  4. Attention In The Terminal

    On this episode Wayne & Vanessa discuss their recent delayed flight to Puerto Rico & what it’s like to have flights delayed. They ended up recording this episode at the Airport during the duration of the delay. Tune in as this turns out to be a pretty funny episode.

  5. TRAUMA

    On this episode Wayne & Vanessa open up the discussion into various types of Trauma. They break down different variations of it and how it tends to have an affect on individuals. (HIS) shares some personal experiences from his life regarding the topic & (HERS) chimes in also with tidbits of her...

  6. Realistic Or Materialistic

    On this episode Vanessa & Wayne discuss materialistic matters. They discuss the idea of “50/50” in relationships & why people are fixated on the idea that materialistic things define who they are as people. Tune in for more as the conversation turns out to be a fun one.

  7. Mommy & Me

    On this episode Vanessa is joined by her mother as a guest host where they discuss all things mom life. Carmen (Vanessa’s Mom) talks about what it was like raising Vanessa & some of things she wanted to pass onto Vanessa when she became a mom. Vanessa also gives praise to her mom regarding her...

  8. Mothers Day

    On this episode Wayne & Vanessa discuss Mothers Day. They talk about what both of their mothers mean to them as individuals. HERS also provides insight being a mom now & how that dynamic feels that she gets to celebrate Mothers Day being a new mommy. Tune in for more now!

  9. Who Wears The Pants In A Relationship

    On this episode Vanessa & Wayne venture the conversation around who takes the lead in relationships. They break down how one party in the relationship concedes the lead to the other at different time throughout. Also they mention when is the best time to take a step back an allow one party to…

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  10. Happy Anniversary

    On this episode Wayne & Vanessa center the conversation about podcasting & the two year anniversary of venturing into the space. They talk about the challenges that present themselves since recording on a weekly basis as well as the joys of podcasting. Tune in for more as this quick episode is…

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  11. Love Language

    In this episode Vanessa & Wayne discuss the variations of “Love Language”. “HERS”breaks down in detail exactly what her love language is & provides all the reasons as to why. “HIS” gives insight as to what he deems characteristics of his love language. Tune in for more as the conversation does...

  12. Passion For Fashion

    On this episode Vanessa & Wayne discuss fashion trends. They get into specifics regarding what they do & do not like to wear. Vanessa gets into various styles of dressing that she likes while Wayne mentions what he prefers to wear. Tune in for more to see which of your cohost prefers to rock...

  13. Single Moms

    On this episode Vanessa & Wayne highlight the conversation around motherhood. In particular (Single Moms). They discuss the challenges that present themselves based on circumstances that single moms tend to be faced with on a daily basis. Vanessa provides insight on her own mother being a single...

  14. Been Through Some Shit

    On this Episode Vanessa & Wayne keep it all the way real about some of the things they have been through as individuals. They discuss some of the most trying/challenging times & life moments. They both share pertinent information that most people probably weren’t aware of. Listen now as the...

  15. Sexual Healing

    On this episode Wayne & Vanessa give feedback about the television series “SEX LIFE”. They discuss how the show is in comparison to what actually occurs within real life. They both give broad takes on how sexual encounters work in relationships, situationships, & casual dating. Tune in for more…

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  16. Catch A Vibe

    On this episode Vanessa & Wayne discuss everything about “VIBES”. They discuss the particulars about how vibes can be a good or bad thing. HIS provides insight on what he tends to like and dislike about certain vibes. HERS also provides what kinda vibes she tends to fancy. Tune in for more as the...

  17. These Are My Confessions

    On this episode Vanessa & Wayne discuss a recent trip to Las Vegas that they took to see “MY WAY” the Usher Residency experience. They talk about the some of their takeaways from the concert. HERS gives her feelings on the show with this being the 2nd time seeing him in a decade. HIS also chimes…

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  18. Fuck A Fake Friend

    On this episode Vanessa & Wayne further the conversation of “Friendship”. However this time they focus on the positive side of it. They highlight the type of characteristics that breed being an excellent friend. Vanessa gives her take on the type of friendship she values in her realm. Wayne also...

  19. Fake Friends

    Wayne & Vanessa discuss the idea of fake friendships. They dissect the difference between genuine friends & those who can’t seem to keep it real. Wayne recounts a few personal instances where he believed people were “FAKE”. Vanessa also references a certain situation that made her take steps back...

  20. Not Letting Go

    His & Hers discuss the myriad of reasons as to why it is difficult for some individuals to let go of certain things. They discuss the hurdles, pitfalls, & challenges regarding holding onto things that could potentially be to someone’s detriment. Also the conversation heats up as they reference...

  21. Love Is In The Air

    On this episode Vanessa & Wayne center the conversation around LOVE. They talk about how people perceive Valentines Day & the idea of love in general. Both of them give individual insight as to how they viewed both fronts prior to meeting one another and also now being together. HIS gives his…

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  22. AND ONCE AGAIN…

    Vanessa & Wayne get back to the conversation of being back to podcasting. They discuss some of the feedback they received regarding the previous episode. One thing they specifically highlight within the episode is some of the challenges regarding their relationship and what that all encompasses....

  23. WE ARE BACK!

    On this episode His & Hers reveal why they have been on such a long hiatus. They bring everyone up to speed regarding what they have been up to. They also discuss adjusting to life after their son Lorenzo after now having some time to digest life with him. “HIS” also references the tragic death…

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  24. RED FLAGS II 🚩

    On this episode Vanessa & Wayne pickup the conversation of Red Flags. The conversation becomes more in-depth as both your co-host get vulnerable by giving you a few red flags about one another. HERS listed some things she felt were Red Flag worthy about HIS. While HIS did the same regarding some...

  25. MOTHERS DAY

    On this episode Wayne & Vanessa discuss all things Mother’s Day. They get into what motherhood has been like for Vanessa now that she’s a few months into being a mom. HERS gives a brief depiction of how she’s balanced mom-life, work-life, personal life, & relationship-life. She also talks about…

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  26. RED FLAGS 🚩 (Part 1)

    On this episode of HIS & HERS, Vanessa and Wayne get into the scope of red flags as it correlates to relationships, friendships, situation-ships, family, friends, & all things in between. The two give an in-depth breakdown about the different variations of RED FLAGS. “HIS” personally acknowledges...

  27. SELF LOVE

    On this episode Vanessa & Wayne discuss the aura of “Self Love”. They provide insight as to how some individuals may or may not possess this attribute. HIS & HERS gives an in-depth breakdown of what they deem true self-love to be. The conversation becomes very candid when HIS begins to give...

  28. DATING 👀

    On this episode Vanessa & Wayne get back to the conversation of Dating. They talk about the current realm of dating someone today in comparison to yesteryears. They also reference a movie called “THE BREAK UP” & give a depiction of certain scenes from within the film & how it applies to why some...

  29. BUCKET LIST

    On this episode Vanessa & Wayne talk about all the things they want to check off of both their respective Bucket List. They also provide insight and a course of action to pursue doing just that. The conversation picks up as they give specifics about what they want to check off. Tune in for more…

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  30. JEALOUSY, ENVY, & INSECURITY

    On this episode Vanessa & Wayne touch upon the hot issue of Will Smith slapping Chris Rock at the Oscars. They both share opinions on the matter. Also they discuss how jealousy, envy, & insecurity plays a factor in today’s world. They provide an overall breakdown of each term and how it impacts...

  31. RELATIONSHIP TRAUMA II

    On this episode Vanessa & Wayne continue the conversation as it pertains to relationship trauma. They discuss the many different variables surrounding various types of trauma. “HIS” recalls on several situations to where he had to come to grips with the internal trauma that once plagued him. He...

  32. RELATIONSHIP TRAUMA

    On this episode Wayne & Vanessa do a deep dive into the immense world of relationship trauma. They discuss how certain lingering effects of failed relationships can still have an impact on them even amid the aftermath of said situations. HERS gives an account of some of the underlying issues that...

  33. TIMES ARE CHANGING

    On this episode Wayne & Vanessa discuss the times changing in comparison to when they both grew up. Both talk about various changes with regard to economics, the cost of living, travel, work wages, shopping, current fuel costs, & emergencies. HERS gives insight on what it’s been like balancing…

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  34. WEDDINGS SHMEDDINGS

    On this episode Vanessa & Wayne talk about a recent wedding they attended. They go into detail about all the nuances they saw about the wedding. HERS gives an account about a wedding she was apart of being a lot of WORK & it also being a headache in some ways. HIS also provides feedback regarding...

  35. MINORITY REPORT

    On this episode Vanessa & Wayne discuss situations revolving racial undertones. Wayne calls upon numerous situations regarding “RACE”. From being stopped by the police, to how he’s handled himself when those situations have surfaced. Vanessa also provides examples of what she’s endured being with...

  36. LEARNING AFTER LORENZO

    On this episode Vanessa & Wayne discuss the new obstacles they’ve both faced since the birth of their son. They each depict what’s been challenging collectively as a couple and also for them individually. “HERS” recaps what life has been like for her in terms of learning new characteristics of...

  37. TRADITION AIN’T WHAT IT USED TO BE

    On this episode Vanessa & Wayne discuss the fabric of tradition and if it still exists or not. They go into different variations of tradition from dating, to superstitions, chivalry, family, & so much more! HERS recalls a few moments of tradition in her life while HIS sheds light on his current...

  38. LIFE WITH LORENZO

    Vanessa & Wayne are back at it after a brief hiatus discussing how life has been since the arrival of they’re son Lorenzo. They discuss what has changed for them and also what adjustments they’ve had to make. “HERS” provides some insight as to how things have shifted for her from an individual...

  39. BREAKING BAD (HABITS)

    On this episode Vanessa & Wayne kick off the new year discussing breaking old habits and how to remain consistent by doing so. They also give a brief update on the upcoming birth of their son. They also discuss the intricacies of how habits are developed prior to being able to break them. Tune in...

  40. 2021 IS OVER & DONE

    On this episode Vanessa & Wayne provide an in-depth look into how the year went for them collectively. They discuss personal experiences from highs, lows, wins, losses, traveling, & personal milestones reached. His & Hers also share what podcasting has been like for them this year and the...

  41. THIS CHRISTMAS

    On this Episode Vanessa & Wayne discuss how Christmas this year went for the both of them. They also discuss how vastly different this holiday season fared for them in comparison to others. They get into how Christmas was growing up in each of they’re respective households. Also they discuss how...

  42. ALMOST AT THE FINISH LINE

    On this episode Vanessa and Wayne discuss the pending conclusion of the pregnancy. They talk about the necessary adjustments that will have to be made on both they’re parts. They also talk about reaching the finish line on many situations that are no longer for them…. Colleagues, friendships,...

  43. THINGS WE VALUE

    On this episode Vanessa & Wayne get into an in-depth discussion about things (they) people value. They talk about different pros and cons about the different types of things people place value in. From materialistic things, relationships, friendships, colleagues, & so much more. The conversation...

  44. 😈 Naughty Or 😇 Nice

    On this episode, Wayne & Vanessa discuss the particulars of the holiday season as it pertains to being naughty and nice. They discuss both ends of the spectrum regarding if people tend to embrace the holiday spirit or if they turn into the grinch. Also referenced, is if people get desperate…

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  45. GIVING THANKS

    On this episode Vanessa & Wayne discuss some of the things they feel most grateful for. Also what they love about Thanksgiving. They get into some of the fondest memories and food dishes they’ve had. Also some of the “Worst” dishes & times they’ve endured. Tune in for more to find out which one…

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  46. We Got Showered

    On this episode Vanessa & Wayne discuss all the particulars of their baby shower. Referencing the good, the bad, & the ugly! They give some insight as to how they planned it, the thought process that went into it, & ultimately how it ended up turning out. Tune in for more to find out what had…

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  47. MENTAL HEALTH IS WEALTH

    November is “Men’s Mental Health Month”, so Vanessa & Wayne decided to discuss the world of mental health. They go into why certain things & aspects may have some individuals shy away from expressing certain feelings. They also go into unpacking some of their own mental hurdles and the kind of...

  48. THIRD TRIMESTER

    On this episode Vanessa & Wayne round out the conversation regarding the birth of their son Lorenzo. They give updates on how they have both been coping with everything. They also express various anxious moments leading up to the planning of the baby-shower, maternity shoot, & making space for…

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  49. SECOND TRIMESTER

    On this episode Vanessa & Wayne continue the discussion surrounding the pending birth of their son. They continue to discuss all the different variables of the pregnancy. HERS goes into detail about how she’s been feeling leading up to the big day. She talks about how helpful HIS has been...

  50. LEGGO MY PREGGO

    On this episode Vanessa & Wayne give an in-depth glimpse of how their current pregnancy has gone for the both of them. Vanessa gives her pros and cons, as does Wayne. They both further go into detail about the things that became worrisome during their previous failed pregnancy and how it…

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Unique couple offering an organic perspective on a myriad of topics weekly.

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