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How Married Are You?
by Glen & Yvette Henry
You may know Glen from Beleaf in Fatherhood where he gives a real life perspective of life as a stay at home parent. This podcast is an extension of his youtube series, where he & Yvette sit down on a weekly basis to share their parenting and marriage experiences as a unit.
Episodes
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17 Years Married. 15 Years of Betrayal. Should She Leave? #HMAY EP. 307
How long are you supposed to fight for a marriage when the person you're married to keeps betraying your trust? This week on How Married Are You?!, a woman writes in after 17 years of marriage with a question that goes far beyond whether she should get divorced. Her husband has admitted to an...
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My Sister Is About to Marry a TRUMP SUPPORTER… Do I Stop Her? #HMAY Ep. 306
Your little sister is about to marry someone you believe is completely wrong for her. Do you speak up… or mind your business?This week, a 29-year-old woman writes in about her 20-year-old sister, whose boyfriend is preparing to propose on her 21st birthday.She doesn't like the relationship.Her...
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He Wants to Fix His Girlfriend… But HE'S the Problem! #HMAY Ep. 305
What happens when you want to change the person you love, but you haven't done the work to change yourself?This week on How Married Are You?!, a young man writes in asking for advice about his relationship with his girlfriend and her three-year-old daughter.He loves them both, but he's struggling...
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My Wife Finally Told Me How She REALLY Feels About Our Life #HMAY Ep. 304
In Episode 304 of How Married Are You?!, what starts as a conversation about our podcast, our dreams, and the future of our family turns into a much deeper conversation about ambition, creative control, and what happens when one spouse feels like their voice is getting lost in the life you're...
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Your Spouse Doesn’t Need You to Fix Them #HMAY Ep. 303
What do you do when your spouse is depressed…and everything you know how to do is try to fix it?A newlywed husband wrote in because his wife is battling depression. He loves her, he wants to help her, and he’s realizing that giving her solutions may not be what she needs from him.That opened up a...
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I Don’t Feel Emotionally Safe With My Husband #HMAY Ep. 302
She thought sex would be the EASY part of marriage.Then she got married.Almost a year into her marriage, a listener writes in because intimacy hasn't become what she imagined it would be. Her first sexual experience with her husband left her disappointed—not only physically, but by the way he...
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We're Back + She Doesn't Want to Marry Him #HMAY Ep. 301
We're back.After taking our first real break in a long time, we're finally back for Season 301 of How Married Are You?This season brings some big changes for our family. We're sharing updates on the kids starting a hybrid homeschool program, what this new season looks like for our marriage, and…
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When Good Things Compete With Your Marriage #HMAY Ep.299
Not every conflict in marriage is about who's right.Sometimes it's about two people trying their best... while carrying different priorities.In this episode of How Married Are You?, what starts as a disagreement over youth hockey and Girl Scouts turns into a much bigger conversation about…
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My Wife Doesn't Want to Talk About Her Feelings... Now What? #HMAY Ep. 298
How do you keep fighting for a marriage when it feels like you're the only one trying?In this episode, we talk about emotional neglect, vulnerability, communication, and why a lack of intimacy is often a symptom not the root issue. We also share our thoughts on the emotional weight of raising…
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I've Done Everything Right... So Why Am I Still Stuck? #HMAY Ep. 297
"My faith says trust God. My reality says I'm exhausted."A listener approaching her 29th birthday writes in with a question that many believers quietly wrestle with:What do you do when your faith and your reality seem to be telling two different stories?After years of investing in her career,...
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Couple asks us if they should keep their baby #HMAY Ep. 296
A listener writes in with an urgent dilemma.After years of financial hardship, layoffs, relocation, and navigating life as a stay-at-home mom, she discovers she's unexpectedly pregnant with baby number two. While she and her fiancé always wanted more children, they planned to wait until life felt...
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Email Lead to My Husbands Confession #HMAY Ep. 294
Resources & LinksEmber mug Yvette Loves 🍵💍https://bit.ly/4lfn38iMentor Couple Wait List 🫂🖤https://forms.gle/VcUDRgf6km9kHWEK7Buy Girl Scout Cookies from Anaya 🍪💛https://digitalcookie.girlscouts.org/scout/anaya778725Release Rest Remain 📖✨https://a.co/d/ihBmSdOFather Yourself First...
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Should We Stay Connected to Family That Hurts Us? #HMAY Ep. 293
This week on How Married Are You?!, we respond to a follow-up email from a wife trying to rebuild connection in her marriage while navigating exhaustion, cultural expectations, difficult in-law dynamics, and the weight of carrying too much for too long. Resources & Links Donate to Theo's Hockey...
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Waiting on God Is Harder Than We Thought #HMAY Ep. 292
We dive into a powerful listener message from a wife and mother walking through a difficult season in marriage, financial pressure, and the challenge of waiting on God when the next step isn’t clear. Resources & LinksEmber mug Yvette Loves 🍵💍https://bit.ly/4lfn38iMentor Couple Wait List...
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This is a hard one #HMAY Ep. 291
We discuss our relationship with church. Resources & LinksEmber mug Yvette Loves 🍵💍https://bit.ly/4lfn38iMentor Couple Wait List 🫂🖤https://forms.gle/VcUDRgf6km9kHWEK7Release Rest Remain 📖✨https://a.co/d/ihBmSdOFather Yourself First...
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Our Kids Are Running Us… And We Had to Address It #HMAY Ep.290
What started as a simple morning turned into a full-blown meltdown, a parenting debate, and a real conversation about how we show up for each other.Resources & LinksEmber mug Yvette Loves 🍵💍https://bit.ly/4lfn38iMentor Couple Wait List 🫂🖤https://forms.gle/VcUDRgf6km9kHWEK7Buy Girl Scout…
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He Feels Right… But He Won’t Choose Me #HMAY Ep.286
After leaving a 7-year toxic relationship, she did the work to heal, grow, and become more secure in herself. Then she met a man who seemed like everything she prayed for. He’s consistent, grounded in faith, emotionally present, and makes her feel safe in ways she’s never experienced before.…
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Christian Women Give Terrible Marriage Advice #HMAY Ep.289
A wife writes in feeling overwhelmed, unsupported, and unsure if her marriage is even worth saving anymore. Two kids. Financial pressure. Emotional exhaustion. And a husband who… won’t step up.Resources & LinksEmber mug Yvette Loves 🍵💍https://bit.ly/4lfn38iMentor Couple Wait List...
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You WILL Project Your Past Onto Your Partner. #HMAY Ep. 288
How do you keep your past from ruining your present?In this episode,,we respond to a newlywed wrestling with a real question: How do you not project what you saw growing up onto your marriage?And the truth is… you probably will.We talk about:Why projection is almost unavoidable in…
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He Told The Church About Our Threesome #HMAY Ep. 287
How many chances is too many?In this conversation, we unpack what real repentance actually looks like, how to tell the difference between healing and just covering things up, the warning signs you shouldn’t ignore, and how to know when it’s time to stay—or walk away.Patreon Segment: The real...
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TOO ATTACHED TO HIS GRANDMOTHER #HMAY Ep. 285
She said, “This is the best relationship I’ve ever had…”No drama. No toxicity. Just peace.But his family depends on him for everything.Now she’s wondering…Am I building a future with him or inheriting a responsibility I’m not ready for?Real question:Can love grow when pressure is already this...
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He Said He Wasn’t Ready… Then She Blocked Him (Now He Wants Her Back) #HMAY Ep. 284
Resources & LinksEmber mug Yvette Loves 🍵💍https://bit.ly/4lfn38iMentor Couple Wait List 🫂🖤https://forms.gle/VcUDRgf6km9kHWEK7Buy Girl Scout Cookies from Anaya 🍪💛https://digitalcookie.girlscouts.org/scout/anaya778725Release Rest Remain 📖✨https://a.co/d/ihBmSdOFather Yourself First...
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Love vs Conviction: Should She Give Up Drinking for Marriage? #HMAY Ep. 283
In this video, we respond to a real question from a woman whose boyfriend, a church leader, told her he couldn't marry someone who drinks alcohol, even occasionally.Should she give up something she doesn’t personally believe is wrong in order to honor the man she loves and hopes to marry?Or is…
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He Betrayed me but I Love Him! #HMAY Ep. 282
In episode 282 of @howmarriedareyou, a 30-year-old listener shares how @Beleafmel and @MrsMelanin helped her believe marriage was possible, after growing up surrounded by divorce and broken relationships. She did the work. Therapy. Self-help. Healing her anxious attachment. She became secure,...
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Perfectionist Husband vs “Just Do It” Wife #HMAY Ep. 281
What do you do when you and your spouse want the same outcome… but you can’t agree on the way to get there? 😩🤍 In Episode 281, a newlywed writes in with a marriage tension that feels small at first… until it affects everything: perfection vs progress. She’s the type who believes action brings...
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He’s Rebuilding His Life After Divorce…Should He Stay Single? #HMAY Ep. 280
What do you do when you’re rebuilding your life after divorce… and wondering if you should do it alone? 💔➡️🏗️❤️ In Episode 280, a recently divorced listener writes in asking a vulnerable question: should he focus entirely on rebuilding himself — financially, emotionally, and spiritually — or...
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My Fiancée Doesn’t Trust Me Around Other Women
What do you do when your partner’s “boundaries” start feeling like control? In Episode 279, a listener writes in about being engaged to a woman who reacts strongly anytime other women are around. On a group trip, she told him to keep his distance from one woman she believed was staring at him.…
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I Keep Praying God Removes Him… But He’s Still Here #HMAY Ep. 278
What do you do when you keep praying for God to remove someone… and they’re still here? In Episode 278, a listener writes in about dating a man who came in strong — intentional, consistent, saying all the right things, and claiming his goal was marriage and family. But once she finally became his...
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My Husband Turned MAGA and and I’m Struggling to Stay #HMAY Ep. 277
What do you do when the person you married starts sounding like someone you never would’ve chosen? In Episode 277, a 21-year-old listener writes in about getting married at 19… and feeling like her husband is unrecognizable now 😔. They bonded over faith, culture, and shared values — even…
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The One That Got Away…Is Back #HMAY Ep. 276
Have you ever had a “what if” person… and you can’t tell if it’s God’s timing or an emotional trap? In this episode, a listener writes in about a seven-year friendship that keeps circling back into something deeper. They’ve never kissed, she’s been abstinent for five years, and now — for the…
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I Want Friends, He Wants Peace #HMAY Ep. 275
In this episode, we talk honestly about something we’re still learning how to navigate in our own marriage: celebration, hosting, and friendship. We unpack a real disagreement between us — one where gathering people, creating moments, and hosting feels meaningful and necessary to one of us, while...
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Married, Lonely, and Afraid to Talk About It #HMAY Ep. 274
In this episode of How Married Are You, we respond to a listener email from a newly married wife who’s quietly struggling with loneliness. Between long work hours, late nights, exhaustion, and limited time together, she’s worried this season might become their new normal — and she doesn’t want to...
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Young Thug Thinks Therapy Makes Him “Less of a Man”
Happy Holidays, y’all! As the year comes to a close, we’re taking a short break from our regularly scheduled podcast episodes to rest, reset, and be present. As a little holiday gift, we’re sharing a conversation from the Patreon vault that you may have missed. If you enjoy conversations like…
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Who You Marry Is Not Who You End Up With
Happy Holidays, y’all! As the year comes to a close, we’re taking a short break from our regularly scheduled podcast episodes to rest, reset, and be present. As a little holiday gift, we’re sharing a conversation from the Patreon vault that you may have missed. If you enjoy conversations like…
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Did I Romanticize My Husband? #HMAY Ep. 273
This episode centers on one big listener question: Did I romanticize my husband — and overlook red flags while dating? A newly married listener from South Africa writes in just three months after the wedding, struggling with harsh words during conflict, old wounds resurfacing, and the fear that…
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Are We Unequally Yoked? #HMAY Ep. 272
This episode dives into one major listener question: Are we unequally yoked? A 31-year-old Christian single mom writes in, deeply in love and preparing for engagement — but scared that her Protestant faith and her partner’s Eastern Orthodox roots might create cracks later. We unpack theology vs....
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How Did I Become Baby Mama #4? 🤡 #HMAY Ep. 271
This episode centers on two powerful listener emails — one from a man afraid his insecurity is destroying a healthy relationship, and another from a woman untangling herself from a four-year situationship filled with hidden children, heartbreak, miscarriages, and blurred co-parenting lines. We…
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He Saw His Old Crush on IG...Now He’s Unsure About Me?! #HMAY Ep. 270
In this episode, we read an email from a listener who loves her boyfriend but doesn’t feel like his first choice. We talk insecurity vs. truth, attraction, healing from past relationships, and how to discern if you’re being chosen or just convenient. Plus, Chocolate Baby Storytime with a family…
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Should I Get Back Together With My Child's Father? #HMAY Ep. 269
We’re talking to a solo mom who wrote in real honest: should she try again with her son’s dad? We unpack trust after hurt, how healing changes what you want, and why “for the baby” is not a dating strategy. We keep it tender, tell the truth, and give some practical next steps. Plus, Chocolate…
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Nothing Was Wasted #HMAY Ep. 268
She wrote in heartbroken: six months in, different faith practices, sex after planning to wait, and an “I love you” he stopped saying. Then her dad talked to the boyfriend who admitted he didn’t plan to marry her and wanted to “see what else is out there.” We respond with care and clarity…
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He Wants to Marry Her But She Wants Him to Pay For Everything #HMAY Ep. 267
📘 ORDER FATHER YOURSELF FIRST TODAY! A listener writes in about the woman he loves—smart, beautiful, and ready for marriage… except she believes a man should pay for everything while she saves her own money “for security.” She says a woman shouldn’t spend on an able-bodied man. He calls it an...
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I Caught My Husband on the Ring Camera #HMAY Ep. 266
PRE-ORDER FATHER YOURSELF FIRST TODAY! Father Meet- Up Zoom Link What do you do when you catch your husband on the Ring camera talking about another woman… and realize the fairytale you’ve built together might’ve never been real? 💔 This week’s listener letter, “Broken Pieces,” comes from a wife...
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Am I Waiting on a Proposal That's Never Coming? #HMAY Ep. 265
PRE-ORDER FATHER YOURSELF FIRST TODAY! What do you do when the man you love keeps hitting pause on the future you planned together? 💍 After six years—three long-distance, three living together—a listener’s boyfriend still hasn’t proposed or started premarital counseling. She feels more like a...
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Is My Independence Keeping Me Single? #HMAY Ep. 264
PRE-ORDER FATHER YOURSELF FIRST TODAY! What if your independence isn’t a strength—but a shield? 💔 A 28-year-old listener has never been in a romantic relationship, and she wonders if years of self-reliance have made her “too independent” to ever need (or want) marriage. With rejection scars, a...
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My Husband Has Been Sleeping On The Couch For 5 Years #HMAY Ep. 263
PRE-ORDER FATHER YOURSELF FIRST TODAY: https://www.amazon.com/Father-Yourself-First-Everything-Deserves/dp/1400252555 “Help Me Get My Husband Off the Couch” For the last five years, one wife has been going to bed alone—while her husband voluntarily sets up camp on the couch 🛋️. What started as...
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You're Not Gonna be a Lazy Mother #HMAY Ep. 262
PRE-ORDER FATHER YOURSELF FIRST TODAY: https://www.amazon.com/Father-Yourself-First-Everything-Deserves/dp/1400252555 "Am I going to be a lazy mom?” A 23-year-old listener is glowing with excitement about her first pregnancy 👶🏾—but beneath the joy, fear lingers. Raised tough, she worries she...
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My Husband Deleted Me Off of His Instagram #HMAY Ep. 261
PRE-ORDER FATHER YOURSELF FIRST TODAY! A listener married young and in love; years later, pregnant with a toddler at home, she’s watching her husband drift from faith, hide the marriage online, and surround himself with bad influences. Birthdays and Mother’s Days go ignored, passwords are gone…
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I Don't Know if I Can Handle My Husband’s Vulnerability HMAY Ep. 260
PRE-ORDER FATHER YOURSELF FIRST TODAY Is wanting vulnerability the same as being ready to hold it? A newlywed (90-something days in!) loves her husband but admits his past trauma makes openness slow. Then the Holy Spirit hits her with two checks: “Can you handle what he gives you?” and “Steward...
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
You may know Glen from Beleaf in Fatherhood where he gives a real life perspective of life as a stay at home parent. This podcast is an extension of his youtube series, where he & Yvette sit down on a weekly basis to share their parenting and marriage experiences as a unit.
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You may know Glen from Beleaf in Fatherhood where he gives a real life perspective of life as a stay at home parent. This podcast is an extension of his youtube series, where he & Yvette sit down on a weekly basis to share their parenting and marriage experiences as a unit.
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