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How Married Are You? — 291 episodes
Waiting on God Is Harder Than We Thought #HMAY Ep. 292
This is a hard one #HMAY Ep. 291
Our Kids Are Running Us… And We Had to Address It #HMAY Ep.290
He Feels Right… But He Won’t Choose Me #HMAY Ep.286
Christian Women Give Terrible Marriage Advice #HMAY Ep.289
You WILL Project Your Past Onto Your Partner. #HMAY Ep. 288
He Told The Church About Our Threesome #HMAY Ep. 287
TOO ATTACHED TO HIS GRANDMOTHER #HMAY Ep. 285
He Said He Wasn’t Ready… Then She Blocked Him (Now He Wants Her Back) #HMAY Ep. 284
Love vs Conviction: Should She Give Up Drinking for Marriage? #HMAY Ep. 283
He Betrayed me but I Love Him! #HMAY Ep. 282
Perfectionist Husband vs “Just Do It” Wife #HMAY Ep. 281
He’s Rebuilding His Life After Divorce…Should He Stay Single? #HMAY Ep. 280
My Fiancée Doesn’t Trust Me Around Other Women
I Keep Praying God Removes Him… But He’s Still Here #HMAY Ep. 278
My Husband Turned MAGA and and I’m Struggling to Stay #HMAY Ep. 277
The One That Got Away…Is Back #HMAY Ep. 276
I Want Friends, He Wants Peace #HMAY Ep. 275
Married, Lonely, and Afraid to Talk About It #HMAY Ep. 274
Young Thug Thinks Therapy Makes Him “Less of a Man”
Who You Marry Is Not Who You End Up With
Did I Romanticize My Husband? #HMAY Ep. 273
Are We Unequally Yoked? #HMAY Ep. 272
How Did I Become Baby Mama #4? 🤡 #HMAY Ep. 271
He Saw His Old Crush on IG...Now He’s Unsure About Me?! #HMAY Ep. 270
Should I Get Back Together With My Child's Father? #HMAY Ep. 269
Nothing Was Wasted #HMAY Ep. 268
He Wants to Marry Her But She Wants Him to Pay For Everything #HMAY Ep. 267
I Caught My Husband on the Ring Camera #HMAY Ep. 266
Am I Waiting on a Proposal That's Never Coming? #HMAY Ep. 265
Is My Independence Keeping Me Single? #HMAY Ep. 264
My Husband Has Been Sleeping On The Couch For 5 Years #HMAY Ep. 263
You're Not Gonna be a Lazy Mother #HMAY Ep. 262
My Husband Deleted Me Off of His Instagram #HMAY Ep. 261
I Don't Know if I Can Handle My Husband’s Vulnerability HMAY Ep. 260
She Don't Like You Black Brother #HMAY Ep. 259
In Case You Forgot Where We Stand on Polyamory... #HMAY Ep. 258
I Might Lose a Friend to Gain a Husband #HMAY Ep. 257
Montego Bay, Marriage & Messy Growth #HMAY Ep. 256
That Girl is NOT Your Friend! #HMAY Ep. 255
I Never Expected My Boyfriend to Rage Like That #HMAY Ep. 254
Did I Just Dump My Future Wife? #HMAY Ep. 253
He Made Me Walk Home...Should I Walk Away? #HMAY Ep. 252
He's a Decade Older Than Me but Hear Me Out! HMAY Ep. 251
My Girlfriend’s Holding Us Down. Am I Holding Her Back? #HMAY Ep. 250
My Sister's Boo'd Up and I'm Grieving Alone #HMAY Ep. 249
My Mom and Stepdad Are Suddenly Polyamorous #HMAY Ep. 248
How Do I End This Creative Dry Spell? #HMAY Ep. 247
I'm Not Supposed to Know Her Business but I Want to Help #HMAY Ep. 246
I Can't Be Myself Around My Wife #HMAY Ep. 245
Her Family Has Internalized Racism Issues and I Want No Part of It #HMAY Ep. 244
How Do I Convince Him to Go to Therapy? #HMAY Ep. 243
My Sister Got Violent & I'm Just Supposed To Get Over it?! #HMAY Ep. 242
Are All These Men Trash...Or Is There More To The Story? #HMAY Ep. 241
Life on the Farm Wasn’t What We Expected #HMAY Ep. 240
My Husband Refuses to Brush His Teeth! #HMAY Ep. 239
I Probably Shouldn't Have Married Him…Now What? #HMAY Ep. 238
He Planned on Letting Her Find Out at His Funeral! #HMAY Ep. 237
I’m Tired of Having to be the Bigger Person #HMAY Ep. 236
Is He Marriage Material? #HMAY Ep. 235
The Cheeks Gotta Get Clapped #HMAY Ep. 234
Somebody is Gonna Have to Submit #HMAY Ep. 233
The Hardest Audience Questions We've Ever Answered 😮💨💭 #HMAY Ep. 232
Do You Need Feelings for a Lasting Marriage? Let’s Talk. #HMAY 231🎙️💍
She gave me an Ultimatum #HMAY Ep. 228
We Don't Agree on Homeschool #HMAY Ep. 227
Sold Our House Moved to A Farm #HMAY Ep. 225
How To Tell Your Wife She's Wrong #HMAY Ep. 224
Can I Divorce My Emotionally Abusive Husband? #HMAY Ep. 223
Five Ways to Divorce Proof Your Marriage #HMAY Ep. 222
Family Drama Has Us Broken #HMAY Ep. 221
Are Men With Out Community Dangerous? #HMAY Ep. 220
She Doesn't Believe in Marriage #HMAY Ep. 219
She refuses to get a Job #HMAY Ep. 218
What It's Like To Date In 2024 #HMAY Ep. 217
How to live with an unhappy husband #HMAY Ep. 216
If you can't see your man, that's your fault! #HMAY Ep. 215
Should I divorce him if he doesn't love me #HMAY Ep. 214
He Proposed after he cheated #HMAY Ep. 213
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My Biggest Issue With Black Culture #HMAY Ep. 212
I Want a Baby Daddy Not A Husband #HMAY Ep. 211
Young Married Couple Still Living at Home #HMAY Ep. 210
Close With My Best Friends Husband #HMAY Ep. 209
Don't Marry A Dreamer #HMAY Ep. 208
"He's A GREAT Dad, But A LAZY Husband"!? #HMAY Ep.207
Is Dating At Work in 2024 Worth It? #HMAY Ep. 206
I Should Have Gotten A Prenup #HMAY Ep. 205
We divorced but I still Take care of him #HMAY Ep. 204
He's leading me on isn't he? #HMAY Ep. 203
What does a husband offer when he's broke #HMAY Ep. 202
I'm Jealous Of Her New Friend :( #HMAY Ep. 201
My Wife Wants More Kids, I don't! #HMAY Ep. 200
Mr. Intentional Or Mr. Complicated #HMAY Ep. 199
Should you be homeless with your man? #HMAY Ep. 198
Short King No Ring #HMAY Ep. 197
A Lie Birthed Uriah #HMAY Ep. 196
Resenting Sex with My Husband for 9 years #HMAY Ep.195
H*ND JOBS ONLY #HMAY Ep.194
When is the right time to Quit? #HMAY Ep. 193
Is True Love Unrealistic? #HMAY Ep.192
My Absent Father Came Back after 11 Years #HMAY Ep. 191
He's Overweight I'm Not Attracted To Him #HMAY Ep.190
No Job Or No Purpose #HMAY Ep. 189
Husband Refuses to serve #HMAY Ep. 188
Are we having sex or not? #HMAY 187
Building Business together #HMAY Ep. 186
*BONUS* HMAY?! LIVE Episode! We did it, y'all!!!
I Miss My Family When I'm With His #HMAY Ep.185
#HMAY Ep. 184 Unsolicited advice
TWO WRONGS DON'T MAKE A RIGHT #HMAY183
THE EXPECTATIONS AND REALITIES OF MARRIAGE #HMAY Ep.182
"My Family Doesn't Approve of Him" #HMAY Ep.181
"My Mother Banned My Husband From Visiting" #HMAY Ep.180
YOUR FAMILY OR YOUR SPOUSE? #HMAY Ep.179
WE DO TO MUCH TOGETHER #HMAY Ep.178
DON'T LOSE YOURSELF IN MARRIAGE #HMAY Ep. 178
"ONE THING LED TO ANOTHER" #HMAY Ep. 177
Should A Husband Always Lead? #HMAY Ep.176
"I'M MARRIED TO A MAN-CHILD" #HMAY Ep.175
Is Marriage Really 50/50? #HMAY Ep.173
"Is My Partner Ready To Have Kids?" #HMAY Ep.172
How We Ended Up Together #HMAY Ep.171
"I Let Him Get To Third Base?" #HMAY Ep. 170
Recapturing The Spark #HMAY Ep.168
This Podcast Got Us Heated At Each Other #HMAY Ep.167
A Love Letter to the Younger Wife| #HMAY Ep. 166
Should You Move In Together Before Marriage? #HMAY Ep.165
Our Children Take Us For Granted #HMAY Ep. 164
"You Are On The Slow Pathway To Divorce" #HMAY Ep.163
Is Marriage An Idol? #HMAY Ep. 162
Submitting To Your Spouse #HMAY Ep.161
Setting Expectations In Your Marriage #HMAY Ep.160
Help Mates #HMAY Ep.159
Moving Forward After Being Betrayed #HMAY Ep.158
How To Co-Parent Well #HMAY Ep.157
Let's Talk About Sex #HMAY Ep. 156
Can You Still Be Friends With Your EX's Family? #HMAY Ep. 155
How To Drop the Hint #HMAY Ep. 154
"I Don't Want To Submit" #HMAY Ep. 153
Showing Up For Your Friends #HMAY Ep. 152
Making Friends As An Adult #HMAY Ep.151
Love Languages #HMAY Ep. 150
The Importance of Communicating to Your Partner #HMAY Ep. 149
A Fairytale Date Night #HMAY Ep.148
Loving Your Spouse When You Don't Like Them #HMAY 147
Don't Gate Keep Marital Success #HMAY Ep. 146
What Is Our Why? #HMAY Ep. 145
Single People Won't Listen To Us! Feat. Anthony O'neil #HMAY 144
Leaving A Legacy #HMAY 143
Losing Myself in Motherhood #HMAY Ep. 141
The Quiet Years of Marriage
Enjoy the Journey + WE LAUNCHED AN E-COURSE! #HMAY Ep.139
Our Biggest Lessons of 2022
We Had to Stop This Podcast #HMAY 137
When Do You Know You're Ready To Get Married
Being Thankful in Marriage #HMAY Ep.135
Men Want Intimacy More Than You Think #HMAY Ep.134
Is Therapy Worth it? #HMAY Ep. 133
Pursuing Mental Health to Save Your Marriage #HMAY Ep. 132
Knowing Your Partner's Struggles #HMAY Ep. 131
How To Achieve Balance #HMAY Ep. 130
We Got a NEW LOOK! #HMAY Ep. 129
Giving Up On Your Dreams #HMAY 128
Fulfilling Your Spouses Needs #HMAY Ep. 127
Married to a PEOPLE PLEASER #HMAY Ep. 126
Intentional Questions to Ask Your Spouse #HMAY Ep. 125
Who REALLY Benefits from Marriage?#HMAY Ep. 124
Don't Date Until You've Made The List #HMAY Ep. 123
The Problem of Dating for Potential #HMAY122
Is He Pulling His Weight?! #HMAY Ep. 121
Therapy is Our Greatest Asset! #HMAY Ep. 120
19 Months Later (PART TWO)... #HMAY Ep. 119
19 Months Later... #HMAY Ep. 118
Our Marriage Comes FIRST! #HMAY Ep. 117
Consumer vs. Covenantal Relationships #HMAY Ep. 116
My Brother is Trash! #HMAY Ep. 115
Skin Deep Challenge Reveals Our Biggest Problem #HMAY Ep. 114
Entrepreneurial Relationships #HMAY Ep. 113
We Thought Our Marriage was Over! #HMAY Ep. 112
College Grad is NOT a Prerequisite for Marriage #HMAY Ep. 111
Raising Girls #HMAY Ep. 110
Divorce in the Church #HMAY Ep. 109
She's Attracted to Someone Else #HMAY Ep. 108
Women Have NO Game #HMAY Ep. 107
How Therapy is Saving Our Marriage #HMAY Ep. 106
When Independent Women Get Married #HMAY Ep. 105
Should I Have Married a Broke Man? #HMAY Ep. 104
Apologizing to My Husband for the First Time! #HMAY Ep. 103
We Almost Gave Up! #HMAY Ep. 102
Marriage Changed Him #HMAY Ep. 101
We're Taking a Break #HMAY Ep. 100
Momma's Secret is Out! #HMAY Ep. 99
We're Feeling Even More Defeated! #HMAY Ep. 98
Would You Let Your Husband Use Your Toothbrush?! #HMAY Ep. 97
He Doesn’t Understand the Pressure I’m Under #HMAY Ep. 96
Hopeless Romantic or Toxic Love Affair (and Bats!) #HMAY Ep. 95
What I Wish My Virgin Bride Would've Known #HMAY Ep. 94
I Guess We Have to Talk About This! #HMAY Ep. 93
Steps to a Sincere Apology #HMAY Ep. 92
This is What Happens When You Settle! #HMAY Ep. 91
How The Last Dance Saved Our Marriage #HMAY Ep. 90
Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater? #HMAY Ep. 89
BEFORE You Get Married, Listen to This! #HMAY Ep. 88
Should I Choose My Man Over My Family? #HMAY Ep. 87
How to Deal with Your Spouse's Depression #HMAY Ep. 86
He Called Me Fat, BUT I Get it! #HMAY Ep. 85
Controlling a Control Freak #HMAY Ep. 84
My Husband Won't Go to Therapy! #HMAY Ep. 83
Quarantining with Four Kids #HMAY Ep. 82
I Wouldn't Have Married You! #HMAY Ep. 81
Her Mom Intimidates Her! #HMAY Ep. 80
You Ain't Getting My Sperm! #HMAY Ep. 79
Dating My Coworker's Son! #HMAY Ep. 78
How We Feel About Prenuptial Agreements! #HMAY Ep. 77
Why You Can't Find a Man! #HMAY Ep. 76
I'm Afraid He Will Leave! #HMAY Ep. 75
She's Too Picky! #HMAY Ep. 74
Are We Friends? #HMAY Ep. 73
He's NOT Romantic Enough! #HMAY Ep. 72
CBST Takeover: We Cut His Dreads Off #HMAY Ep. 71
What to Do With A Momma's Boy #HMAY Ep. 70
Sex While Co-Sleeping #HMAY Ep. 69
I Married the Wrong Person! #HMAY Ep. 68
Cancelling Vasectomy was Selfish! #HMAY Ep.67
Redoing Our Wedding Vows #HMAY Ep. 66
He Say Dumb Things! #HMAY Ep. 65
He's Leaving Me Behind! #HMAY Ep. 64
Sexting IS Cheating!!! #HMAY Ep. 63
We Schedule Sex! #HMAY Ep. 62
His Sexual Partners Intimidate Me! #HMAY?! Ep.61
HMAY?! 060| All He Needs is Sex!
HMAY?! 059| I'm the Root of His Anger!
HMAY058| Her Happiness is NOT My Concern!
HMAY057| God Did NOT Write Our Love Story!
HMAY?!056| He's Not a Spiritual Leader
HMAY?!055| We Don't Argue Right
HMAY?!054| How I Don't Respect Him!
HMAY?!053| Hashtag Black Love
HMAY?! 052| $10,000 in Debt for My Boyfriend
HMAY?! 051| Ugly Ain't Forever!
HMAY?! 050| What We Never Expected!
HMAY?! 049| The Flirtatious Christian
HMAY?! 048| The Truth About Being Married to a Creative!
HMAY?!047| He Had A One-Night Stand
HMAY?! 046| Sex After Birth
HMAY?! 045| Let Him Go???
HMAY?! 044| We're Not on the Same Page
HMAY?! 043| Should She Tell Him She's Not a Virgin?
HMAY?! 042| Nine Lessons in Nine Years
HMAY?! 041| He Said No More Unprotected Sex!
HMAY?! 040| He wasn't there!
HMAY?! 039| He Should Know Better!
HMAY?! 038| Let's Just Be Friends
HMAY?! 037| He Left Me Alone
HMAY?! 036| We Value Different Things
HMAY?! 035| Our Last Episode
HMAY?! 034| Is He Man Enough?!
HMAY?! 033| She's High Maintenance
HMAY?! 032| Should Women Propose to Men?
HMAY?! 031| Powerful Women Don't Need Men
HMAY?! 030| Tell ‘Em Why Mad, Babe!
HMAY? 029| Mom Guilt vs. Dad Guilt
HMAY?! 028| Has Our Public Lifestyle Taken a Toll on Our Marriage? (Q&A)
HMAY?! 027| My Husband Didn't Get Me Anything for Valentine's Day!
HMAY?! 026| Black Love & Parenting
HMAY?! 025| The Requirements to Be My Wife
HMAY?! 024| Regrets of Our Engagement!
HMAY?! 023| Our Thoughts on "Surviving R. Kelly"
HMAY?! 022| We're Debt Free!!!
HMAY?! 021| Why We Choose to "Celebrate"
HMAY?! 020| Why Have Kids in 2019
HMAY?! 019| We're Having a Baby!!!
HMAY?! 018| Withholding Sex Because of Weight Gain
HMAY? 017| 8 Facts About Love & Marriage in America
HMAY? 016| Relating to Mr. & Mrs. Smith
HMAY? 015| Why everyone should have a mentor couple!
HMAY? 014| Is he really "The One???"
HMAY? 013 To tell or not to tell when we've been hit on
HMAY? 012 My son told me "I don't spend enough time w/ family"
HMAY? 011 Love The Culture Not Just the Color (Interracial)
HMAY? 010 Why we only dated black people. PART TWO
HMAY? 009 Why we only dated black people.
HMAY? 008 We’re not doing well
HMAY? 007 Why we waited to have sex
HMAY? 006 Who should I listen to... My Husband or My Family?
HMAY? 005| I don't know if I trust him
HMAY? 004| Not physically attracted to him, but I married him
HMAY? 003| Are You Ever Ready To Get Married?
HMAY? 002: Gender Roles & Marriage
HMAY? 001: Kid's Reaction to Parents PDA