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I Don’t Know What That Means

by Jennifer Sutherland and Græme Ravenscroft

I'm Jenn - I'm neurotypical. I'm Græme - I'm neurodivergent. We're a couple that wants to talk to other couples about what makes a mixed neurotype relationship fun, frustrating, and f*-ing awesome.We have no qualifications other than driving our struggle bus for two, so please take any advice with a ton of salt. We're here to entertain and help whoever is trying to get their arms around better understanding their partner so you aren't constantly saying, "I don't know what that means!"

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Episodes

  1. Sensory Stuff is Hard!

    In episode number lucky thirteen, we chat about sensory issues: why music turned up to 11 is better than ambient conversations; why the goddamned house is always so goddamned cold; the dreaded microfiber; and more!

  2. Holidays Are Hard

    Summary In this holiday-themed episode, Jenn and Graeme discuss their complex feelings about various holidays, including Thanksgiving and Christmas. They explore the stress and obligations that come with family gatherings, the challenges of food choices, and the importance of traditions. The...

  3. Meltdowns! (are a whole-ass thing)

    We're talking about everyone's favorite autistic 'feature', meltdowns. Just losing our minds here. Some links, as promised: Meltdowns: a guide for all audiences Meltdown vs. Shutdown

  4. Bodies, ew!

    In this conversation, we discusses the complexities of neurodivergent bodies, exploring themes such as stimming, interoception, comorbidities, sleep issues, and sensory sensitivities. The dialogue emphasizes the unique experiences of individuals with ADHD and autism, highlighting the physical and...

  5. Vibe Check: we will be back to regular programming soon!

    Election, Covid, Arguments, you know, life! We miss you we'll be back soon!

  6. Halloween! 🎃

    Some Shit We Said "It's the most wonderful time of the year." "I have always been obsessed with death." "I cannot think of one single bad thing about Halloween."

  7. special interests are a whole ass thing

    In this episode, the Jenn and Graeme visit the topic of special interests, particularly in the context of neurodivergence and autism. They discuss the nature of special interests, how they differ from hobbies, and the intensity with which individuals may engage with them. The conversation…

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  8. Communication - is Hard

    Summary In this episode, Jennifer and Graeme discuss the complexities of communication in neurodiverse relationships, focusing on directness, honesty, and the challenges of understanding subtext and nonverbal cues. They explore the importance of context in conversations, the impact of social...

  9. Work is Hard

    In this conversation, Graeme and Jennifer discuss the concept of masking in the workplace and how it affects neurodivergent individuals. They explore the need to present a different persona at work, the challenges of navigating office environments, and the importance of accommodations. They also...

  10. Time - is hard

    Summary In this conversation, Jennifer and Graeme discuss the concept of time and how it affects neurodivergent individuals, particularly those with ADHD. They explore the difficulties of chronic time blindness and the challenges it presents in relationships and daily life. Jennifer shares her...

  11. Food is whole ass thing

    Summary In this conversation, Jennifer and Graham discuss their relationship with food, particularly in the context of their neurodivergent traits. They talk about their different preferences and sensitivities to textures, flavors, and smells. Graeme shares their aversion to leftovers and the...

  12. Birthdays, boo or best?

    In this conversation, Jennifer and Graham discuss their differing views on birthdays. Jennifer shares her negative experiences and anxieties surrounding birthdays, while Graham expresses his love for celebrating them. They explore the societal expectations and pressures associated with birthdays,...

  13. Travel is a Whole Ass Thing

    Summary Traveling can be stressful for anyone, not just neurodivergent individuals. The process of planning a trip and the uncertainty of it all can be overwhelming. Routine changes and disruptions can also cause anxiety. Differences in time zones, cultural norms, and even small things like gas...

  14. Representation in Media

    Summary: In this conversation, Jenn and Graham discuss the importance of representation in media, specifically in relation to neurodivergent individuals. They highlight examples of both good and bad representation, such as Dustin Hoffman's portrayal of an autistic character in Rain Man. They also...

  15. Starting Things Is Hard

    The title says it all! But we did it! Episode one we discuss how just getting started on things is hard for us in different ways.

  16. Introducing ourselves - Hi!

    Welcome to I don't know What That Means, a double empathy podcast. We're going to talk about the ups, downs, and realities of relationships wherein one partner is neurotypical and the other is neurodivergent. Hi, I'm Jenn. I'm the neurotypical. And I'm Græme, the neurodivergent one: I'm autistic...

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

I'm Jenn - I'm neurotypical. I'm Græme - I'm neurodivergent. We're a couple that wants to talk to other couples about what makes a mixed neurotype relationship fun, frustrating, and f*-ing awesome.We have no qualifications other than driving our struggle bus for two, so please take any advice with a ton of salt. We're here to entertain and help whoever is trying to get their arms around better understanding their partner so you aren't constantly saying, "I don't know what that means!"

HOSTED BY

Jennifer Sutherland and Græme Ravenscroft

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I Don’t Know What That Means currently has 16 episodes available on PodParley. New episodes are automatically indexed when they're published to the podcast feed.

What is I Don’t Know What That Means about?

I'm Jenn - I'm neurotypical. I'm Græme - I'm neurodivergent. We're a couple that wants to talk to other couples about what makes a mixed neurotype relationship fun, frustrating, and f*-ing awesome.We have no qualifications other than driving our struggle bus for two, so please take any advice with...

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I Don’t Know What That Means has 16 episodes. Check the episode list to see recent publication dates and frequency.

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I Don’t Know What That Means is created and hosted by Jennifer Sutherland and Græme Ravenscroft.
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