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If This Is It
by Tosin Assan
If This Is It is a podcast about faith, identity, and becoming who God created you to be. Hosted by Tosin Asan, the show explores modern-day challenges through Scripture—helping believers move from functioning on empty to living fruitfully. Honest conversations, biblical clarity, and practical steps for real transformation.
Episodes
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Wants Vs Needs
You know exactly what you want. Marriage. More money. That title. You've wanted it for years, and when it doesn't come, you assume it's a timing problem. But what if the question you've never asked is what you actually need? In this solo episode, Tosin unpacks what she calls the Want Paradox: a...
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Tend Your Garden: Single And Preparing For A Fruitful Marriage
You've prayed. You've fasted. You've downloaded the apps, gone to every singles event, and let people introduce you to people. And when nothing happened, you tried harder. Eventually you land where almost everyone lands: I've tried everything. But what if you've been preparing for the wrong…
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Why Good Advice Doesn't Produce The Outcomes We Expect
You took the advice. It came from people you trust, it sounded right, and you actually did it and nothing changed. Now someone is hinting that maybe you're the problem. But what if the issue isn't the information at all, but what happens between hearing it and living it?In this solo episode…
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Your Therapist Can’t Heal You, Here’s What Actually Can
You can know your triggers, name your patterns, and have every word for what you’re feeling and still be stuck in the same place a year later. Sometimes the problem isn’t a lack of insight, or a lack of prayer. Sometimes awareness was never the same thing as change.Tosin sits down with Dr.…
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The Uncertainty Trap: How To Stop Overthinking
I didn't figure this out in a study, I figured it out in a car, arguing with myself the whole drive home. I went to someone I respect looking for wisdom, and what I actually wanted was proof that the last few years of my life haven't been a waste. I'd been calling it "trust." It was really a…
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Why Your Hard Work Isn't Producing Financial Peace w/ Kunle Olatunji
You can be hardworking, responsible, and deeply committed to doing the right thing and still feel like money keeps slipping through your hands. If that tension feels familiar, this conversation will meet you there. Because sometimes the issue isn’t laziness, lack of discipline, or even a lack of...
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Why Does Love Feel Hard?
If love has felt harder than it should, this conversation is for you. You can pray, be intentional, follow the “right” advice, and still find yourself feeling frustrated, tired, and stuck. At some point, you have to ask a deeper question: what if the issue isn’t that love is impossible, but that...
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Waiting Seasons
You've been praying. You've been showing up. You've been doing everything the way you know how to and nothing is moving. So you reach for an explanation: maybe something's blocking it, maybe you need to try harder, maybe God isn't listening. But underneath all of those is a question almost nobody...
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Excellence Or Hustle /w Sanmi
You think your job is just a means to a paycheck, but what if it’s the primary place where God is refining your character? If you've been working hard but feeling like you're still missing the mark, you might be confusing activity with alignment. In this episode of If This Is It, Tosin sits down...
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Escape The Broke Mindset /w Dumebi Oti
You're working harder than ever, yet your bank account feels stuck and your peace of mind is nowhere to be found. What if the problem isn't your lack of effort, but the template for success you've been following your entire life? In this episode of If This Is It, Tosin sits down with Dumebi Oti…
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The Very Success I Was Grateful For Was A Prison /w Tade Bolarin
What happens when you check every box, the degrees, the career, the title, the family and still feel like you're drowning? In this episode of If This Is It, host Tosin sits down with Tade Bolarin, a former Big Four professional turned leadership coach, for one of the most honest conversations…
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I Failed Twice & Had No Plan, Now God Has Me Doing 5 Things At Once
What happens when God doesn't call you to just one thing but five? In this episode of If This Is It, host Tosin sits down with a Pastor Tolu Labeodan who is simultaneously a doctor, a businessman, a pastor, a husband, and a father. And somehow… he's not burned out. He's not bitter. He's grateful....
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What 13 Years Of Marriage Taught Us About Faithfulness
He got laid off during paternity leave. She couldn't legally work. Their green card was hanging by a thread. And somehow, Dayo and Yemi Jegede came out the other side, not just intact, but stronger. In this episode of If This Is It, Tosin sits down with a couple whose marriage has been tested by...
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God Doesn't Require Perfection. He Requires This
You signed something you didn't fully understand. You made a decision too fast. You didn't check with God first. And now you're wondering, did I disqualify myself? In this episode of If This Is It, Tosin breaks down one of the most overlooked stories in the Bible: the day Joshua made a covenant…
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Partial Obedience: Who Told You That Was Enough
You're praying. You're fasting. You're serving. You're doing everything you've been told to do, so why does the breakthrough still feel stuck? What if the problem isn't that God hasn't heard you, but that you've been editing His instructions to fit what makes sense to you? In this episode of If...
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From Legalism to Grace: A Pastor's Journey to Alignment
He did everything he was taught to do. Fasted. Prayed. Served. And God went silent. In this episode of If This Is It, host Tosin sits down with Pastor Femi Omotayo, a pastor of nearly 30 years, host of the PF Unfiltered podcast, and leader of New Covenant House in Dallas for one of the most…
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What Nobody Tells Young Men About Fatherhood w/ Dami & Lolade Akibola
What does it really look like to be a present, intentional father — especially when you didn't grow up seeing it modeled? In this deeply honest and faith-filled episode of If This Is It, host Tosin sits down with married couple Dami and Lolade Akibola to unpack what fatherhood actually requires —...
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Why Christians Are Starving for Affirmation (And How to Fix It)
When was the last time someone told you that you're doing well? Not a passing compliment—but someone who actually SAW your quiet, consistent effort and said, "I see what you're doing, and it matters"?For most of us, it's been a while. And the silence is starving us.In this episode, Tosin...
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Faith That Grows - Why Prayers Work Differently for Different People
Ever wondered why some people pray and see immediate results while others wait years with seemingly no answer? In this episode, we tackle the question many believers are afraid to ask out loud.Host Tosin explores the often-misunderstood nature of faith—not as a one-time event, but as a living…
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The Pivot: When God Closes the Door You Prayed For (with Rhoda Falaye)
What happens when the career you worked so hard for isn't the life God called you to? In this powerful conversation, Rhoda Falaye shares her journey from nursing at Johns Hopkins to entrepreneurship, depression, and discovering her true identity in Christ.In this episode, we discuss:- The…
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The Performance Trap: What Christians Get Wrong About Identity
You don't have to perform for God's love but if you grew up in church, you probably believe you do. In this first episode, Tosin exposes the exhausting cycle of spiritual striving and introduces a different way: living from your identity in Christ, not for it. Through personal stories and…
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
If This Is It is a podcast about faith, identity, and becoming who God created you to be. Hosted by Tosin Asan, the show explores modern-day challenges through Scripture—helping believers move from functioning on empty to living fruitfully. Honest conversations, biblical clarity, and practical steps for real transformation.
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If This Is It is a podcast about faith, identity, and becoming who God created you to be. Hosted by Tosin Asan, the show explores modern-day challenges through Scripture—helping believers move from functioning on empty to living fruitfully. Honest conversations, biblical clarity, and practical...
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If This Is It is created and hosted by Tosin Assan.
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