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It's My Pleasure
by Danielle Savory
"It's My Pleasure", hosted by Danielle Savory, challenges the status quo, urging women to explore a crucial yet often overlooked aspect of their lives—PLEASURE. Join this fun and informative podcast with candid conversations and real life solutions, from orgasms to overwhelm. You'll enjoy the tidbits of neuroscience and real life scenarios that Danielle shares to help you lead a more pleasurable life in and out of the bedroom. Listed as the #1 Podcast on Sex & Relationships of Mashable's 2023 list, this podcast focuses on self-growth from a completely different angle - where we aren't just surviving, but loving the lives we live and using our brain for the most orgasmic outcomes.It’s time to de-stigmatize pleasure. Elevate the conversation around sex and reclaim a fundamental aspect of your humanity - PLEASURE.
Episodes
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Ep. 205: 6 Tips For Becoming Multiorgasmic: It’s Easier Than You Think!
The Unicorn, the famous multiorgasmic woman - sound out of reach? Think again, mastering multiple orgasms may be way easier than you think. Becoming multiorgasmic involves cultivating an awareness of your body, mind, and energy to experience that next level of pleasure, again, and again and…
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Amy Green Smith on Navigating Boundaries, Vulnerability, and Difficult Conversations for Deeper Intimacy in Relationships
The idea of a lifetime of love and passion is something we have been fed over and over again. Growing old with one another, staying close and of course keeping that intimacy. But HOW do we actually do that? How do you continue to find vulnerability and intimacy with someone that you have spent…
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Ep. 203: Evan Katz On the Key to Relationship Bliss (Hint: It's Not Just Chemistry!)
In this engaging conversation, dating coach Evan Katz shares his insights on navigating the tricky balance between settling and compromising in relationships. Evan draws on his 20+ years of experience helping smart, successful women find love, offering practical advice on spotting red flags,...
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Ep 202: Sizzling Summer Intimacy: Overcoming the Top 7 Seasonal Challenges
It’s getting HOT in here! Summer is happening folks and with that comes a myriad of challenges to keeping the intimacy alive and well. Now, don’t get me wrong I LOVE so many things about summer, including the sultry and sensuous nature of it all. BUT real-life realities oftentimes can pose…
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Ep. 201: Reclaiming Intimacy and Sexuality After Breast Cancer with Adriana McCulloch
In this important episode, Adriana McCulloch shares her personal journey with breast cancer and the many things that aren’t discussed openly when one faces cancer treatment. Because the fact is, that there is so much emphasis on the treatment itself and getting through that, but not how to put…
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Ep. 200: Rewriting the Story of Women's Pleasure with 200 Episodes!
In this milestone 200th episode, we're celebrating over five years of conversations around a topic that's long been taboo but is so important for our wellbeing. Tune in as we discuss how societal messages have led us to disconnect from our bodies and desires over time. We'll delve into how…
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Ep. 199: Amy Allebest on Decoding the Secrets of Patriarchy to Unleash Your Pleasure & Reclaim Your Sexuality
It is time to talk about the ways in which patriarchy operates in society, including historical roots, in order to understand the ongoing effects on women's agency and pleasure. In this enlightening conversation we explore how patriarchy has influenced women's bodies and pleasure throughout...
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Ep. 198: Using Intention To Maximize the Power of Pleasure
Welcome back to It’s My Pleasure. In this week's episode, I'm diving deep into how intention can maximize all the amazing benefits of pursuing pleasure. We all know pleasure is good for us, but did you know the impact it can have depends on your intention behind the pleasure you are pursuing??…
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Ep. 197: Anna Iovine on Debunking Stereotypes and Exploring Individual Sexuality
Hey friends, I have such an insightful conversation for you all from my latest episode with Anna Iovine. If you've ever questioned your sexuality or struggled with feeling believed in your queer identity, you do not want to miss what Anna has to say. Anna dives deep with me on the disbelief...
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Ep. 196: It's Not You, It's Your Brain: How Thoughts Impact Arousal (and How to Shift Them)
Got some of those thoughts running wild in your head during intimate moments? You're not alone. But did you know that particular things occurring between the ears could be impacting what’s happening (or not) below the belt?? In this episode we cover some game-changing insights about how our…
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Ep. 195: How to Optimize Your Energy and Thrive with Cyclical Living
April Davis - creator of the Haus of Vagina, shares her deep wisdom, wit and humor on the show today. April has tunneled her passions to create an entire community around female body health and helps vagina owners feel empowered with more knowledge on how their bodies, specifically their cycle...
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Ep. 194: How Scheduling Sexy Time Can Help You Lean Into Pleasure Again
Why is it that you can enjoy sex, have a good time, maybe even LOVE the sex you’re having and still find yourself not eager to make the time and the space for it?! Why are we like this? Listen to this episode as we dive into the complexities of desire, that wanting, and how to help create the…
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Ep. 193: Lily Womble on How To Date with Joy Through a Feminist Lens
If you want to create a joyful dating life that lights you the hell up without all the patriarchal BS then you HAVE to tune in today’s episode. Lily Womble joins the show today to discuss her journey from late bloomer to joyful dater through feminist relationship coaching and how starting with…
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Ep. 192: 6 Ways Orgasms Spark Creativity & What To Do
Orgasms are wonderful, I think we can all agree on that one. However, creating a strong incentive to pursue pleasure - making the time, the space and engaging in the effort - is a crucial piece to not only get you in action, but also reap the many benefits of mind and body that the orgasm can...
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Ep. 191: How to Be Courageously Selfish
We were socialized to focus our care taking to be outside of us. For others to benefit from. Which is lovely AND you need that same attention from you. I will always argue that taking care of OTHERS is easier than taking care of yourself, not because the task itself is hard, but because of our...
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Ep. 190: Unpacking Relationship Dynamics and Nurturing Individual Growth w/ Victoria Albina
Valentine’s Day might be over, but the conversation about love and relationships continues on "It's My Pleasure." In this episode, we dive deep into the intricacies of relationship dynamics, shedding light on thought patterns and emotional dynamics that can subtly impact our connections over…
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Ep. 189: Making Valentine's Day Meaningful
Valentine’s Day, hmmmm, there is so much to say about this commercialized holiday. And yet, love it or hate it, it still comes around each and every year. But here on “It’s My Pleasure” we are all about infusing your life with more of the stuff that lights you up and turns you on. Valentine’s Day...
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Ep. 188: How Shifting Towards Pleasure Can Create More Joy
How can we become more joyful with using the embodiment of pleasure? In this episode I share a clip from a recent discussion inside the Pleasure-Centered Coach Training I offer where we are discussing the importance of “pleasure” vs joy and how that one degree shift towards pleasure can make all...
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Ep. 187: Sex Life After Kids - It's NOT the same
Your sex life changes after kids, this is simply a fact. But usually when we talk about it, it is with such a Debbie Downer tone. Just because your life looks different (including the sexy bits) after kids, doesn’t mean that is a bad thing. In fact, in can be incredible, I promise. Listen in to...
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Ep. 186: 6 Ways To Increase Intimacy NOW
Hey welcome back to another mini-episode, where I give you some quick actionable tips or food for thought on a topic. Today's discussion is a quick list of somethings that you can do right now to increase intimacy with your partner. The truth is, long term partnerships, really any partnership…
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Ep. 185: How Hormones Change Your Vagina, Pleasure & Desire with Dr. Shyama
Dr. Shyama was such a pleasure to have on the podcast this week. As a practicing gynecologist and certified menopause specialist, she breaks down some of the changes we may see in perimenopause and menopause and how this impacts our sexual response. Dr. Shyama is so well versed on this topic, and...
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Ep. 184: 2024 Sex & Intimacy Goals
New year and a time that so many of us are setting intentions. What I love to observe about this time is about how much of the narrative is about doing MORE. But when it comes to sex and intimacy goals, for most of us it requires us to do less. To do less to reset our nervous system. To do less…
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How To Ask For What You Want - Mini-sode
Learning how to ask for what you want is essential to experiencing more pleasure and also creating more desire. Whether it is asking to try a new position, more time to transition from ‘work’ to ‘home’ or asking for help so your mind is racing with all to-do it is a skill we all need as pleasured...
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Ep. 182: When Sex Hurts: 6 Ways For More Pleasure
Listen, sex shouldn’t hurt. Period. But the truth is sex hurts for many women and is uncomfortable for so many more. In this episode I will share with you six ways to help make sex more pleasurable. Please note that this episode is NOT to replace medical care and if you are experiencing pain, I...
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Ep. 181: Beyond 'Fine' - Changing the Brain For More Pleasure
There are so many ways that we can change our brain for the better, meaning in order for us to experience the things we want - like greater happiness, connection, motivation and satisfaction. Please enjoy this minisode of how we can move beyond our default setting of just ‘ok’ to more of what we...
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Ep. 180: The Secret To Being A Turned On Woman
What's holding you back from being that Turned On Woman? Hint it isn’t your hormones or your sexy lingerie or even having a partner who is fawning all over you. It’s a way of being in the world. The way that you think about being turned on and how often you truly allow yourself to BE that. We...
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Ep. 179: The Pleasure Paradox: When your partner's desire to see you pleasured feels like pressure
Of course you want to be with a partner who wants to see you pleasured, I mean don’t we all??! But then you feel like them wanting to see you writhe in ecstasy is making it even harder for you. You worry that you aren’t going to be able to ‘get there’ and even though they say something like “I…
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Ep. 178: Confidently Ask For What You Want Pt. 2: HOW!
YES! You’re all prepped after last week to truly step into asking for what you want. And today we dive into part two - what do you actually say? As adults we understand that we can never guarantee what we are asking for or sharing is going to land perfectly with our partner - we are all humans -...
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Ep. 177: Confidently Ask For What You Want Part #1: YOU!
Giving your partner feedback is NOT easy for most of us. Whether it is asking for something we want more of or letting our partner know we aren’t really a fan of something that they are doing, it is hard to know HOW to actually deliver the information. How do you teach them without hurting their...
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Ep. 176: 5 Brain Hacks For Better Sex
Brain hacks for productivity, good grades, following through with goals - but what about your pleasure?? Well your brain IS your largest (and most important) sex organ, so today I am going to give you five quick and dirty brain hacks to elevate your sexual satisfaction. Whether you're in a...
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Ep. 175: Why Wait For a Problem To Make A Change? Caitie's Experience From Satisfactory to Sensational
It is so interesting that we as humans will typically wait for something to be a problem before we make a change. We wait for things to fall a part, or for someone to be dissatisfied or for our mind to be consumed with something ‘not working’ long enough before we take the action to change. In...
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Ep. 174: When It's Easier To Be Friends with Your Partner Interview with Jenna
Today we dive even deeper into the titillating world of pleasure with Jenna, a past participant of the Tangled program. Jenna candidly opens up about a feeling many of you might relate to - when the rush of daily life makes it seem easier to be friends with our partners, allowing intimacy and...
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Ep. 173: 5 Shifts For Fantastic Foreplay
Foreplay is always a hot button topic amongst my clients - should I? Is it really worth the effort? What IS foreplay exactly? Foreplay could be the single most important thing to help your body (and your mind) warm up, get turned on and become erotically aroused. So why then is it the first thing...
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Ep. 172: Designing Delight: Using A Framework To Make Pleasure EASY
Listen, there is A LOT going on and pleasure gets put on hold MOST of the time. What I find so often with my clients is that the desire for more pleasure in their life is THERE. That is something they want, but HOW is much harder. But it can be so much easier when you have a framework for how you...
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Ep. 171: Embracing Self-Love: A Journey to Appreciate Our Bodies w/ Laura Conley
Join us in this powerful conversation with Laura Conley as we delve into the profound journey of learning to love our bodies. Letting go of shame and self-criticism isn’t for the faint of heart. There are so many messages about ‘how’ we should think and feel about our bodies - from loving them…
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Ep. 170: The Power of Pleasure Boosts
It is easy to fall into all or nothing thinking. My over achiever brain has been guilty of this most of my life. But the problem is all or nothing usually isn’t sustainable and can make it easy to abandon our pursuits at the slightest disruption. This is why I created “Pleasure Boosts” for myself...
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Ep. 169: The EX-Good Girl with Sara Bybee Fisk
Continuing our conversation about the ripple impact of the "good girl" complex, which affects our daily interactions and our relationship with our sexuality, we are joined by Sara Bybee Fisk, a former "good girl," to discuss her personal and professional experiences with this phenomenon. Sara...
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EP. 168: Pleasure & The Good Girl Complex
We're delving into a topic that resonates deeply with many women - a phenomenon known as the 'good girl' complex or sometimes referred to as the 'good girl syndrome.' This is a concept that has permeated our culture and society, and it paints a very specific picture of how women 'should' behave....
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Ep. 167: Anger, Pleasure & The Discomfort of Staying The Same w/ Angela Han
In this episode of the podcast, we dive deep into the realm of sexual pleasure as a crucial element of self-growth. Our guest, Angela, shares her personal journey of transformation and empowerment through her participation in the Tangled program. Join us as we explore how Angela discovered the...
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Ep. 166: How To Use Desire To Make Your Experience More Pleasurable
Wanting sex, desiring it, thirsting for it are all important. We want to want it, of course!! But how does desire actually impact your overall experience of the sex you end up having? In this week’s episode we will be diving into why we have to look at the texture of the wanting and motivation…
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Ep. 165: Why Orgasming Should NOT Be Your Goal
Orgasms! Of course you want them! I want them and I want them ALL for you. But when we focus on orgasms, not only can it create problems, but it will diminish your overall capacity for mind-blowing pleasure. So what should you focus on instead? Listen in on this episode to learn of why it is SO...
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Ep. 164: Making The Blowjob Orgasmic For Both
Blowjobs - love them or hate them, this episode is for you. The blowjob is one of those sexual acts that is seeped in assumptions, stigmatization and ‘shoulds'. Sure they are ‘for’ your partner and it can be so fun to see him turned on, but I want you to know there is so much MORE to them. In…
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Ep. 163: High on Pleasure: Exploring Cannabis' Impact on Female Sexual Experience with Dr. Adie Rae
Puff, puff, pleasure! Ha! In this episode, we speak with Dr. Adie Rae, a leading neuroscientist researcher in the field of cannabis, discussing the effects of cannabis on female sexual pleasure. Dr Adie shares their knowledge and insights on the topic, discussing the ways in which cannabis can...
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Ep. 162: Unlocking Your Sexual Potential With These 5 Visualization Strategies
In this episode, we explore how visualization can be used to enhance your sex life and increase your desire. This is a tool that I use regularly in my own personal life and is vital in helping my clients get the results they are wanting as well. I will share 5 specific techniques for using...
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Ep. 161: The Permission Slip: Allowing Yourself to Change Your Mind Will Help Inc. Your Desire
Do you ever struggle with scheduling sex because you’re afraid that when the time comes you might not like feel like it and you don’t want to get your partner’s hopes up? Or you hold yourself back from a midday makeout sesh or big french kiss because you know it’’ be met with a knowing grin and…
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Ep. 160: ADHD, High Sensitivity, The Neurodivergent Brain & SEX
Hello my fellow neurodivergent lovers! This episode is FOR you. Today we talk about how high sensitivity and ADHD tendencies can keep you from loving the sex you are having and dampening your desire and exactly what to do about it. This episode originally showed up on The Black Sheep Playground...
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Ep. 159: Caretaking vs. Caring For Your Lover
Have you ever asked yourself the question what the difference between caring or caretaking is? And why am I even asking this question? Because if you are anything like me, or my clients, playing mother to your lover is for sure NOT a turn on. So when does genuine caring and doing something from...
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Ep. 158: Carry The Mental Load & Being Overwhelmed
There is a lot of talk about the mental load and physical load of running a house that a woman in a heterosexual relationship typically experiences. And thank goodness - we NEED to be talking about this. However, I do see some of this narrative getting turned into a laundry list of “dos” for our...
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Ep. 157: The Trifecta of Sexual Satisfaction: Three Must-Dos
Understanding sexual pleasure and desire can feel complex - there can be so many factors that impact your mood, your openness to receive and your experience of pleasure. That being said, in order to increase your sexual satisfaction it really comes down to three essential things. You can keep…
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Ep. 156: "I WANT What She Has" - Balancing The Pursuit of Pleasure While Staying Committed To Religious Beliefs
“Babe. Listening to this woman was like I was listening to myself. I want to sign up for this program. I want what she has!” That’s the exact thing one of my clients said to her husband after listening to an interview about a year ago on “It’s My Pleasure”. Now she is coming on to share with all…
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"It's My Pleasure", hosted by Danielle Savory, challenges the status quo, urging women to explore a crucial yet often overlooked aspect of their lives—PLEASURE. Join this fun and informative podcast with candid conversations and real life solutions, from orgasms to overwhelm. You'll enjoy the tidbits of neuroscience and real life scenarios that Danielle shares to help you lead a more pleasurable life in and out of the bedroom. Listed as the #1 Podcast on Sex & Relationships of Mashable's 2023 list, this podcast focuses on self-growth from a completely different angle - where we aren't just surviving, but loving the lives we live and using our brain for the most orgasmic outcomes.It’s time to de-stigmatize pleasure. Elevate the conversation around sex and reclaim a fundamental aspect of your humanity - PLEASURE.
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