Journey to Lasting Love
by Tina Shayani
Welcome to Journey to Lasting Love! I’m Tina Shayani, a relationship coach with 25+ years of marriage experience, helping individuals and couples create deep, lasting connections.Each episode dives into finding the right partner, strengthening relationships, and reigniting passion with expert insights and actionable advice.💡 What You'll Gain:✔️ Proven dating & relationship strategies✔️ Mindset shifts for lasting love✔️ Tips to build trust & intimacy🔔 Subscribe now & join the journey! ❤️🔗 Visit the Website: TShayCoaching.com📸 Follow on Instagram: @JourneyToLastingLove
Episodes
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Competing with a Fantasy
PODCAST UPLOAD. Spotify for Creators. Everything for this episode in one place. FILES (all in the project folder) Episode video: Fantasy_PODCAST_VIDEO.mp4 (upload this one, 18:43, 1920x1080, full talk with captions, intro and outro included) Episode thumbnail: Fantasy_PODCAST_THUMB.jpg Audio only...
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The 3 Essentials to a Lasting Relationship
How do you love someone you don’t respect? You can’t. Without respect, love cannot survive. That is why love is not on my list of the three things that make a relationship last the test of time. Love is the prerequisite. Without these three, it doesn’t stand a chance. It gets crushed like a bug.…
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S3EP2: Miserable or Happy. It’s Your Fault.
If you are miserable, it’s your fault. If you are happy, that’s your fault too. This week I explain why that is the best news you’ll hear all year, and I give you the tools to do something with it. You have a happiness thermostat. It’s set to a number, and every time life turns the heat up, you...
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S3EP1: Nothing Is Perfect. That's the Point.
"I'll be happy when." When it finally feels easy. When the next one is different. When nothing needs work anymore. In the 1960s a scientist built rats a perfect world. Unlimited food, no predators, nothing to struggle for. The colony collapsed. This week I take that experiment into the coaching...
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Never Again Will I Be Hurt Like That: The Hidden Cost of Protecting Your Heart
What happens after the heartbreak — when you quietly promise yourself “Never again”? You build the walls. You get strong. You learn to keep people at a safe distance. But what if that vow to protect yourself is also what’s keeping real love from finding you? In this episode, Tina Shayani explores...
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Are You Working on a Fixer-Upper?
You can’t build a healthy relationship by trying to fix someone. In this episode, Tina Shayani breaks down why caring, capable people keep falling for “projects” — and how to finally stop confusing potential with partnership. In This Episode: Why smart, loving people get trapped in “project...
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S2EP25: Am I expecting too much? Or not enough?
In this episode of Journey to Lasting Love, host Tina Shayani explores the complexities of relationship standards, addressing the common dilemma of whether individuals are asking for too much or not enough in their romantic pursuits. She emphasizes the importance of having personal standards…
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S2EP24: Why Do I Attract the Wrong People
In this episode of Journey to Lasting Love, host Tina Shayani explores the reasons why individuals often attract the wrong partners in relationships. She emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, the power of beliefs, and the role of hope in overcoming negative experiences. Through…
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S2EP23: Surviving Heartbreak
In this episode, Tina Shayani discusses the emotional pain associated with breakups and offers guidance on how to navigate the healing process. She emphasizes the importance of acknowledging the pain, implementing a no contact rule, letting go of fantasies about the relationship, finding support,...
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S2EP22: The Hardest Decision in Love: Stay or Walk Away
In this episode of Journey to Lasting Love, host Tina Shayani discusses the complexities of relationships, focusing on the critical decision of whether to stay or walk away. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing deal breakers in both boyfriend-girlfriend dynamics and marriages…
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S2EP21: Will your love last or disappear?
In this conversation, Tina Shayani discusses the essential elements of building lasting relationships. She emphasizes the importance of understanding the difference between temporary infatuation and lasting love, highlighting respect, shared values, and the significance of navigating deal…
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S2EP20: How to Make the Right Decision Every Time
In this episode, Tina Shayani discusses the importance of making decisions in relationships and life. She emphasizes that the only wrong decision is inaction and encourages listeners to take responsibility for their choices. By committing to decisions and taking action, individuals can create...
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S2EP19: 3 Simple Shifts That Make People Instantly See You Differently
In this episode of Journey to Lasting Love, host Tina Shayani discusses the essential qualities that make individuals irresistible to others. She emphasizes the importance of authenticity, genuine listening, and graciously accepting compliments. Through practical advice and personal anecdotes…
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S2EP18: The Moment That Can Change Everything Won't Announce Itself
In this episode of Journey to Lasting Love, Tina Shayani discusses the importance of recognizing and seizing life-changing opportunities. She emphasizes that opportunities are often subtle and require awareness to identify. Through personal anecdotes and practical advice, she encourages listeners...
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S2EP17: Where is my soulmate?
In this episode of Journey to Lasting Love, Tina Shayani discusses the concept of soulmates and the importance of self-empowerment in creating lasting relationships. She emphasizes that individuals have the power to shape their own destinies and that waiting for a soulmate to magically appear is…
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S2EP16: Asking the Important Questions
In this episode of Journey to Lasting Love, Tina Shayani discusses the journey of personal growth and the importance of balancing career ambitions with personal life. She shares a success story of a client who transformed her life by identifying and letting go of limiting beliefs. The discussion...
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S2E15: The Truth about Ghosting
In this episode of Journey to Lasting Love, Tina Shayani tackles the emotional rollercoaster of ghosting—and flips the script on what it really means. If you've ever been left without explanation, Tina’s here to remind you: it's not because you weren't enough. It's because they showed you exactly...
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S2E14: The Real Reason Why You are Single
In this episode of Journey to Lasting Love, Tina Shayani dives into the truth behind why so many people are still single—and it’s not what you think. It’s not about luck or looks. It’s about mental state, indecision, and letting life just "happen" instead of creating it with intention. Tina…
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S2E13: How to Stop Overthinking in Dating and Relationships
In this episode of Journey to Lasting Love, Tina Shayani tackles the exhausting cycle of overthinking that so many people experience in dating and relationships. She breaks down how fear of rejection, perfectionism, and low self-worth keep us stuck—and how to shift into confident, decisive…
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S2E12: Boundaries that Build Closeness
In this episode of Journey to Lasting Love, Tina Shayani explores the misunderstood topic of boundaries and how they can actually deepen connection rather than drive people apart. Through personal stories, client insights, and real-life relationship dynamics, Tina reframes boundaries as a form of...
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S2E11: How to Make People Think You're Amazing
In this episode of Journey to Lasting Love, Tina Shayani dives deep into the transformative power of personal growth and how to train others' perceptions of you. She unpacks the role of self-awareness, positive self-talk, and body language in building confidence and creating authentic…
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S2E10: Setting Up an Environment for Love
In this episode of Journey to Lasting Love, Tina Shayani dives deep into how to create an environment conducive to love and personal growth. She explains the difference between coaching and therapy, opens up about overcoming fears of vulnerability, and shares how toxic relationships can become...
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S2E9: Why You're Stuck on Someone Who Gives You Nothing
Are you stuck in a relationship where you're not getting the love and commitment you deserve? In this episode, Tina Shayani dives deep into the concept of 'bread crumbing' in relationships and how it can keep you from finding true love and happiness. Learn how to recognize when you're settling…
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S2E8: What to Do When You Fall Down
Life throws curveballs—but what if falling down is exactly what you need to rise stronger? In this empowering episode of Journey to Lasting Love, Tina Shayani opens up about how challenges, heartbreak, and emotional setbacks are part of the growth process. She shares how reclaiming your power and...
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S2E7: The Weapon of Uniqueness
Think you need to change to find love? Think again. In this empowering episode of Journey to Lasting Love, Tina Shayani reveals how your unique qualities are your greatest strength in attracting real, lasting connection.💬 If you’ve ever doubted your worth or felt like you had to "fit the mold"…
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S2E6: Dating Anxiety Keeping You Home?
Does dating anxiety keep you from putting yourself out there? In this episode, Tina Shayani unpacks the fears that hold you back and shares practical tips to build confidence, embrace dating as a learning experience, and enjoy meeting new people without the stress. 🔑 Key Takeaways: ✔️ Dating...
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S2E5: The #1 Reason You Haven’t Met Your Person
Why haven’t you met the right person yet? Is it bad luck, timing, or something deeper? In this episode of Journey to Lasting Love, Tina Shayani uncovers the real reason many people struggle to find their person—and how to change that.If you’ve been doing all the right things but still feel stuck,...
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S2E4: Making People Love You - The Truth About Attraction
Can you really make someone love you? In this episode of Journey to Lasting Love, Tina Shayani uncovers the truth about attraction—why forcing love never works and how becoming your best self naturally draws in the right people. She introduces the ‘Let Them, Let Me’ theory, explores the power of...
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S2E3: What if Everything You Thought About Love is Wrong?
What if your beliefs about love are actually holding you back? In this episode, Tina Shayani challenges common myths about love and relationships, revealing how false beliefs can prevent you from finding and maintaining real, fulfilling love. Love isn’t just something that happens—it’s a skill…
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S2E2: Situationships - The Almost-Love Trap
Are you stuck in a situationship—a connection that feels like love but lacks commitment? In this episode, Tina Shayani uncovers why situationships are failed relationships in disguise, serving as temporary fixes for loneliness while keeping you from true love. If you're waiting for someone to...
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S2E1: Saying Goodbye to Say Hello
In this conversation, Tina Shayani discusses the importance of letting go of past limitations and relationships to embrace new opportunities in 2025. She emphasizes the need for personal growth, learning from past experiences, and the formula for achieving lasting love. The discussion encourages...
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S1E12: One of My Greatest Inspirations
In this heartfelt conversation, Tina Shayani reflects on the profound impact of her late aunt Nahid, who embodied resilience and positivity even in the face of adversity. Through personal anecdotes, Tina shares how her aunt's approach to life taught her valuable lessons about finding light in the...
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S1E11: Secrets to the Love That Last
Secrets to the Love That Last Summary In this conversation, Tina Shayani discusses the secrets to cultivating lasting love and building strong relationships. She shares her personal experiences and insights gained from her 27-year relationship, emphasizing the importance of respect, acceptance…
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S1E10: Getting Un-Stuck
Join Tina Shayani, personal development and relationship expert, as she dives into the powerful journey of getting 'unstuck.' In this episode, Tina shares the keys to breaking free from life’s ruts—whether in love, career, or self-image. Discover how small changes can lead to big transformations,...
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S1E9: Life's Most Important Relationship
Summary In this conversation, Tina Shayani discusses the significance of cultivating a loving relationship with oneself as the foundation for building lasting, loving relationships with others. She emphasizes the importance of self-care, overcoming self-loathing, and recognizing one's inherent...
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S1E8: Is It Really About Us? The Hidden Reasons Behind Why People Treat Us Badly
In this episode of *Journey to Lasting Love*, we tackle one of the most challenging questions we face in relationships: *What does it mean when people treat us badly?* Have you ever wondered if someone else’s actions are a reflection of your own worth, or if there’s something deeper going on? We...
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S1E7: The Freedom of Commitment
In this episode, we dive deep into the surprising concept of *The Freedom of Commitment.* Many of us view commitment as something confining, but in reality, it can be incredibly liberating. Tina Shayani challenges the common mindset that commitment limits our choices, explaining how indecision...
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S1E6: Refuse to Settle!
In this episode, Tina Shayani dives into the critical balance between maintaining your standards and avoiding the trap of settling in relationships. Are your expectations helping you find the right person, or are they holding you back? Tina challenges you to rethink your approach to love and...
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S1E5: Answering the What IF Question
In this podcast episode of *Journey to Lasting Love*Tina Shayani, founder of TShay Coaching, addresses the pervasive "what if" mindset that often derails decision-making in relationships. Using humor and memorable stories, she emphasizes the importance of accepting people as they are rather than...
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S1E4: Becoming Happier than EVER
In this episode of Journey to Lasting Love, we explore the concept of a happiness set point and how it affects our relationships and overall well-being. Drawing insights from Gay Hendricks' book *The Big Leap*, we discuss how childhood experiences set our happiness thermostat and how we often...
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S1E3: Getting up & Getting Through
In this week's episode of Journey to Lasting Love, Tina Shayani, head coach at TShay Coaching, explores the empowering theme of "Getting Up and Getting Through." Life presents us with numerous challenges, but how we handle these obstacles can define our journey. Tina shares practical tools and...
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S1E2: Marketing 101 - Present Your Personal Brand In the Best Light
We often do not realize that everytime we interact with other people we are marketing ourselves. We each have a personal brand that we are putting our into the world. We are doing this without realizing what we are doing, how would things be different if we were able to show the world the very…
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S1E1: Journey to Lasting Love - Introductory Episode
Welcome to Journey to Lasting Love. This podcast is for people looking to live a better life. Here we offer support for people to attract and build loving relationships that will stand the test of time. We explore ways of becoming the best version of ourselves. We are taught so much in school…
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About this show
Welcome to Journey to Lasting Love! I’m Tina Shayani, a relationship coach with 25+ years of marriage experience, helping individuals and couples create deep, lasting connections.Each episode dives into finding the right partner, strengthening relationships, and reigniting passion with expert insights and actionable advice.💡 What You'll Gain:✔️ Proven dating & relationship strategies✔️ Mindset shifts for lasting love✔️ Tips to build trust & intimacy🔔 Subscribe now & join the journey! ❤️🔗 Visit the Website: TShayCoaching.com📸 Follow on Instagram: @JourneyToLastingLove
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