Just 2 Black Girls
by Destiny & Shaneé
Join Just2BlackGirls on the journey of our life as we evolve, share our mistakes, and navigate our 20s. We can’t wait for you all to join us on the journey of us maneuvering our experiences as Black Women in different spaces and throughout different seasons of our lives.Love,Des & Shaneé
Episodes
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Soft Life Girl
“Soft life” looks good on Instagram… but is it realistic for a Black girl who was raised to be strong, independent, and ten steps ahead of survival? In this episode, Shaneé and Destiny get real about what a soft life actually means to us. Is it luxury? Is it rest? Is it being provided for? Or is…
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Becoming HER ( Without Hating Who You Were)
Becoming her doesn’t require you to hate who you used to be. In this episode, we unpack the idea that growth isn’t self-destruction. So many people think leveling up means dragging their old self, shaming their past decisions, or pretending they were never that girl. But what if evolution looks...
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The Danish deception (dating in your 20s is ghetto)
This episode we’re unpacking the Danish Deception and the red flags we saw, ignored, and sometimes even defended. We get into dating in our 20s, emotional availability (or the lack of it), and how social media, Hinge, and Tinder have completely changed the way people show up. From curated feeds…
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Comparison is the thief of joy
Comparison really will steal your joy if you let it. In this episode, we get real about social media and the highlight reels we’re constantly consuming. People post what they want you to see, but the struggles, delays, and silent battles stay behind closed doors. We also talk about starting in…
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Why Break Ups Hit Harder As An Adult
Breakups hit different as an adult. In this episode, Shaneé and Des unpack why ending a relationship hurts more as we get older, from shared routines and future plans to emotional investment and timing. We talk about grieving what could’ve been, navigating healing while still handling real life,...
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Faith, spirituality and questioning God
Faith isn’t always quiet or easy. In this episode, Shaneé and Des have an honest conversation about faithful spirituality, what it looks like to believe while still questioning God, and navigating moments of doubt without losing faith. We talk about the tension between trust and confusion, how...
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Growing Pains
In Growing Pains, Shaneé and Des have an honest conversation about what it really looks like to navigate life in your 20s. This episode dives into the truths behind growing up that people don’t always talk about. The discomfort, the loneliness, the hard lessons, and the moments that force you to...
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We Never Left ( We Took A Breath )
After a year away, Just 2 Black Girls returns with a New Year’s Eve welcome-back episode, We Never Left. We Took a Breath. The hosts, Des & Shaneé, catch listeners up on where they are now, what life has taught them in the pause, and what’s ahead. This episode sets the tone for season 7, rooted…
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Hello Future Us
Welcome to the final episode of the season! Shanee and Des reflect on the incredible journey they’ve shared throughout this season of the podcast. As they look back on the topics discussed, stories shared, and moments cherished, they express gratitude for the support and engagement from their...
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Redefining Beauty: Body Image
In this episode, Shanee and Des explore the evolving standards of body image, from societal ideals of skinny to “slim thick” and the rise of procedures like BBL (Brazilian Butt Lift). They share personal stories of their own journeys with body image, discussing the ongoing challenges and…
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Finances w/ Recovering Shopaholics
In this episode, Shanee and Des dive into a lively financial chat, sharing their journey as recovering shopaholics and learning the ropes of balancing money as adults. From cracking the budgeting code to picking up savvy saving tricks, they navigate the highs and lows of managing finances in the...
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Becoming the new adults
In this episode, Des & Shaneé delve into what it means to be the “new adults” and how our experience of adulting differs from that of our parents. From navigating careers and finances to maintaining relationships and self-care, we explore the unique challenges and opportunities of adulthood in...
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Relationships: Filling Voids?
In this episode, Des & Shaneé ask: Are we using the relationships in our lives to fill voids? Are we truly embracing relationships as a bonus to our lives, or are we relying on them to fill something we can’t find within ourselves? Join us as we explore the motives behind our connections, discuss...
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Evolution of Des & Shaneé
In this episode, Des & Shaneé share the story of their remarkable friendship, from meeting as friends to becoming roomies and ultimately besties/sisters. They recount the key moments that brought them closer, the challenges they faced living together, and how their bond strengthened over time.…
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Friendships 2.0: Adulting & Connections
In this episode, Des & Shaneé delve into the complexities of adult friendships and the challenges of making connections in today’s world. They explore why friendships are crucial for our well-being, how friendships evolve from childhood to adulthood, and strategies for meeting new people and...
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Goodbye Past Us
In this episode, Des & Shaneé reflect on their past selves and the incredible growth they’ve experienced over the past few years. They share personal stories, key experiences, and insights into how their perspectives have changed. They also offer advice to their past selves and provide practical...
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Did you miss us?
We are backkkkk! Welcome back to the first episode of our new season! We missed you all so much and are so excited to reconnect with you. In today’s episode, we’re diving deep into personal growth and sharing where we are currently in our lives. We’ll catch you up on all the changes, challenges,...
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Becoming... Her (UPDATE)
On this episode, Des & Shanee give an update about their life. They check in with you all about how they are doing on their goals, what grade they would give themselves, and just minor things occuring in their life. The best of us is yet to come and the process is ongoing. We thank you all for...
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Becoming: Culturally Aware
On this episode of J2BG, Des & Shanee are join by Alex (Mr. Jamaica Himself) where they talk about culture shocks, being culturally aware and discuss tips that they have. Big shoutout to Alex for joining us on this episode! Stay tuned to see him on future episodes :)
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Becoming: Healed
On this episode, Des & Shanee talk about healing your inner child and the process. We talk about all things healing and our journey of healing. The healing timeline is timeless and it doesn’t have a strict timeline!
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Becoming: Accepting
On this episode, Des & Shanee talk about their experience with imposter syndrome and how they started accepting themselves into different spaces they thought they didn’t belong in. We missed you all after a hectic week but we are back, every Friday <3
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Becoming: Successful
On this Episode, Des & Shanee talk about what being successful means to them. They also share some gems on not comparing yourself to others in your journey to success!
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Becoming: Independent
On this episode of J2BG, Des and Shanee are joined with a very special guest, Corwin!!! They have a conversation about what it means to be independent, living on your own, self love that occurs while living alone and much more. Special shout-out to Corwin with gracing us with his amazing...
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Becoming: a friend
Making friends as an adult… Very scary situation! How do you make friends within this generation as an adult? When did making friends get 10x harder? On this episode, Des and Shanee talk about making friends in a different situation and difficulties surrounding making friends
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Becoming: Spontaneous
Spon·ta·ne·ous /spänˈtānēəs/ 1.performed or occurring as a result of a sudden inner impulse or inclination and without premeditation or external stimulus: On this episode, Des and Shanee talk about becoming spontaneous from the viewpoint of two planners. They talk about how planning has stemmed…
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Becoming: Renters
On this episode, Des and Shanee dive into the transition from living on campus to renting their first apartment together. They talk about pros and cons surrounding renting, their experience renting in NOVA/DC area, and tips for first time renters!
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Becoming: Motivated
Mo·ti·va·tion /ˌmōdəˈvāSH(ə)n/ noun 1.the reason or reasons one has for acting or behaving in a particular way: On this episode, we talk about lack of motivation, burnout, and tips to stay motivated. But honestly, in this new era of us, we want to implement things into our life to become the best...
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Becoming: Consistent
Welcome to Season 5 of Just 2 Black Girls! Happy New Year! On this episode, we talk about New Year’s resolutions and goals that we hope to accomplish. But honestly, in this new era of us, we want to implement things into our life to become the best versions of ourselves and along this journey we...
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Precious's Tale
On this episode, Des & Shanee unpack Precious’s tale which deals with a woman who only wants to deal with a man who has money & ambitions. This tale talks about coming from nothing and the desire to make it. Make sure you tune in every Friday for a new episode (subscribe so you don't forget!) and...
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Rashida's Tale
On this Episode, Des & Shanee dive into Rashida’s Tale. Rashida’s tale talks about a women who gets in a relationship with someone she loved and treated her well but Rashida ends up cheating. Make sure you tune in every Friday for a new episode (subscribe so you don't forget!) and if you want to...
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We’re back?????
On this episode, Des & Shanee give you updates about their new life living together. We also update you about all things regarding our podcast such as our new uploading days and what things you can expect during our transition period of life.
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Where have we been?
On this episode, Des & Shanee talk about how hectic post grad life has been. From graduation, to apartment hunting, to having a double date! We missed you guys so much and appreciate y’all for listening to old episode while we were gone! We will be back constantly starting in August and we can’t...
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New Beginnings
On this episode, Des & Shanee give y’all a mini life update with tea about their new schools, how life is treating them recently, and feelings about graduating! We just wanted to update y’all before life gets too chaotic! Make sure you tune in every Friday for a new episode (subscribe so you…
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Donna’s Tale
On this Episode, Des & Shanee dive into Donna’s tale and talk about the stigma associated with women using their bodies to get what they desire! Make sure you tune in every Friday for a new episode (subscribe so you don't forget!) and if you want to start your own podcast make sure to use the...
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Ari’s Tale
On this episode we are starting off with Ari’s Tale which focuses on being dickmatized and caught in a trance that the red flags suddenly look green. Make sure you tune in every Friday for a new episode (subscribe so you don't forget!) and if you want to start your own podcast make sure to use…
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Antoinette’s Tale
Welcome to the first episode of our new series Heaux Tales. On this episode we are starting off with Antoinette’s Tale which talks about the double standards when it comes to women and men sexuality. Make sure you tune in every Friday for a new episode (subscribe so you don't forget!) and if you...
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Hello Boundaries, Goodbye Toxicity…
On this episode, Des & Shanee talk about setting boundaries in all aspects of life. We talk about what boundaries we have worked to set in our life and how to go about setting proper boundaries. Make sure you tune in every Friday for a new episode (subscribe so you don't forget!) and if you want…
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They want us to do what…?
On this episode, Des & Shanee ask their male friends about the expectations women have that they find unrealistic and they talk about their opinions on the expectations. They talk about males mental health, money at our age, dick sizes and much more! Make sure you tune in every Friday for a new...
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Am I the asshole?
On this episode, Des and Shanee read advice questions/stories from the Reddit “am I the asshole” and give their honest advice on who is wrong in the situation. If you want to see more advice episodes in the future dm us! Make sure you tune in every Friday for a new episode (subscribe so you don't...
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Ladies, wanna know?
On this episode, Des & Shanee are joined by very special guest, Orderah (@aphricandae on ig) and grill him with questions that y’all sent in about the men in your life! Shout to sohila for reading the questions off ❤️ Make sure you tune in every Friday for a new episode (subscribe so you don't...
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Friendships are relationships
On this episode, Des & Shanee talk about the difficulties associated with maintaining adult friendships and tips to maintain friendships.
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Watch what you say
On this episode, Des and Shanee discuss their fears with sharing personal information with people in their life. Make sure you tune in every Friday for a new episode (subscribe so you don't forget!) and if you want to start your own podcast make sure to use the anchor app or anchor.fm
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Modern Relationships: Situationships
On this episode, Des & Shaneé discuss modern day dating, and how it has changed over time. They discuss the different & differences between each stages of building a relationship.
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Would you date a broke man….
On this episode, Des and Shanee talk about dating broke men and their experience with dating broke men.
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2021 Can Kiss My Ass Goodbye!
On this episode, Des & Shanee Ring in the New Year with Laughs, New Years Resolutions, and helpful Tip to start living your best life.
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Reparenting yourself
Happy Season 4!! On this episode, Des and Shanee discuss how to reparent yourself while in college. They discuss the struggles of healing your inner child while getting older. Make sure you tune in every Friday for a new episode (subscribe so you don't forget!) and if you want to start your own...
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Adult Life...UPDATE
On this episode, Des and Shaneé update you on how their Senior Year is going? They update us on how their life with academics, personal life, and of course Hot Girl Shit!! . Make sure you tune in every Friday for a new episode (subscribe so you don't forget!), and if you want to start your own...
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Insecure as Fuck: Lowkey Distant
On this weeks episode, Des and Shanee talk about making new friends and how that can hinder or build upon your old friendships. We discuss the feeling of your friend making new friends and how Molly felt being “left” out. Thank you guys for tuning in and make sure you use anchor if you want to...
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Black People In Therapy
In this episode, Des and Shaneé Talk about Molly's encounter with a past friend, in passing the friends briefly talks about being in therapy and Molly is shocked!! Listen to them as they analyze how The black community view therapy, And even share some personal experiences. Also with a surprise...
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Insecure as FUCK: Open relationships
Hi Guys! Did you miss us?! We are back, life got really crazy but we are on our new schedule. We are continuing our Insecure as fuck series in honor of the final szn of insecure coming back soon. This episode we talk about open relationships and even open marriages as we analyze molly and dro's...
About this show
Join Just2BlackGirls on the journey of our life as we evolve, share our mistakes, and navigate our 20s. We can’t wait for you all to join us on the journey of us maneuvering our experiences as Black Women in different spaces and throughout different seasons of our lives.Love,Des & Shaneé
Hosted by
Destiny & Shaneé