Just Drawz - The Podcast

Surprise!! Darius and Jeff of JustDrawz have linked up with Dana from HellaChisme to bring you a supersized and extra long episode combining all of our personalities together! The topic is the Black Gay Monolith. Are we as a culture monolithic? Do we always put the same artists, content creators, and cultural moments on? If so, why do we always say “We are not a monolith” then?Well we dive into that thinking and challenge ourselves and you to talking about this. Are we really the same? Or do we have just enough differences as a culture? Watch and listen to our takes on this special collaboration!Be sure to check watch, like, and subscribe to HellaChisme as well!“Just… Monolithic”_______________________________Key Topics:Defining the Black Gay Monolith.Challenging the thought of community versus the perception of conformity.Are Black Gay Men allowing different or quieter voices the space to be heard or feel seen?How does desirability factor in who we 'put on'?_______________________________Listen to Our 90’s Playlist:YouTube Music:https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTzaf4yOmTtwfewr5Lq5jTB9Y5JvKg8lh&si=Lqv2Xassq-woeJUASpotify:https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4xX9SSUHjjxdk7CkqUHUuNApple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-just-drawz-podcast-presents-decades-the-90s/pl.u-06oxDB6uJNjgJe_______________________________Special Guest Host:Dana:https://linktr.ee/hellachismepodcasthttps://www.instagram.com/hellachismepod/Hosts:DMC:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/deeemcee⁠Jeff:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup⁠https://linktr.ee/jefflevelsup⁠_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast⁠https://linktr.ee/JustDrawz⁠_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/hellachismepod/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup_______________________________Music: "Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin_______________________________Keywords:acceptance, achievement, authenticity, Black and brown men, Black gay men, boundaries, collaboration, communication, emotional healing, expectations, future aspirations, gay,  healing, honest conversations, identity, independence, industry insights, influence, legacy, LGBTQ, LGBTQ relationships, LGBTQ+, LGBTQIA, LGBTQIA+, masculinity, mental health, personal growth, queerness, recognition, relationship dynamics, relationships, safe spaces, Same gender loving,improvement, self love, self reflections, self-discovery, self-perception, sexual exploration, SGL, social media, societal perceptions, success, support, vulnerability_______________________________#JustDrawz#Acceptance #Achievement #Authenticity #BlackAndBrownMen #BlackGayMen #BlackMen #Boundaries #Collaboration #Communication #CulturalDifferences #EmotionalHealing #Expectations #Family #FutureAspirations #Gay #GayMarriage #Healing #HonestConversations #Identity #Independence #LGBTQ #LGBTQRelationships #LGBTQPlus #LGBTQIA #LGBTQIAPlus #Love #Marriage #MarriageViews #Masculinity #MentalHealth #PersonalGrowth #Queerness #Recognition #RelationshipDynamics #Relationships #SafeSpaces #SameGenderLoving #advice #SelfImprovement #SelfLove #SelfReflections #SelfDiscovery #SGL #bodyimage #Success #Support #Vulnerability #5050 #cheating #lying #manipulation #boundaries #bodyimage

And we are wrapping it up with this edition of our advice series. On this one, we’re dealing with hairy Black men, if watching adult content is cheating, struggling with smell and taste, checking your best friend pushing up on your boyfriend, and more!“Just… Unsolicited Advice: 3 Part 2”_______________________________Key Topics:Relationship honesty and trust.Personal growth and second acts in your 30s.Building authentic connections without social media.Overcoming body image issues and self-acceptance._______________________________Listen to Our 90’s Playlist:YouTube Music:https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTzaf4yOmTtwfewr5Lq5jTB9Y5JvKg8lh&si=Lqv2Xassq-woeJUASpotify:https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4xX9SSUHjjxdk7CkqUHUuNApple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-just-drawz-podcast-presents-decades-the-90s/pl.u-06oxDB6uJNjgJe_______________________________Guests:John:https://www.instagram.com/stories/mrbradfordjrHosts:DMC:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/deeemcee⁠Jeff:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup⁠https://linktr.ee/jefflevelsup⁠_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast⁠https://linktr.ee/JustDrawz⁠_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded⁠⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Music: "Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin_______________________________Keywords:acceptance, achievement, authenticity, Black and brown men, Black gay men, boundaries, collaboration, communication, emotional healing, expectations, future aspirations, gay,  healing, honest conversations, identity, independence, industry insights, influence, legacy, LGBTQ, LGBTQ relationships, LGBTQ+, LGBTQIA, LGBTQIA+, masculinity, mental health, personal growth, queerness, recognition, relationship dynamics, relationships, safe spaces, Same gender loving,improvement, self love, self reflections, self-discovery, self-perception, sexual exploration, SGL, social media, societal perceptions, success, support, vulnerability_______________________________#JustDrawz#Acceptance #Achievement #Authenticity #BlackAndBrownMen #BlackGayMen #BlackMen #Boundaries #Collaboration #Communication #CulturalDifferences #EmotionalHealing #Expectations #Family #FutureAspirations #Gay #GayMarriage #Healing #HonestConversations #Identity #Independence #LGBTQ #LGBTQRelationships #LGBTQPlus #LGBTQIA #LGBTQIAPlus #Love #Marriage #MarriageViews #Masculinity #MentalHealth #PersonalGrowth #Queerness #Recognition #RelationshipDynamics #Relationships #SafeSpaces #SameGenderLoving #advice #SelfImprovement #SelfLove #SelfReflections #SelfDiscovery #SGL #bodyimage #Success #Support #Vulnerability #5050 #cheating #lying #manipulation #boundaries #bodyimage

It’s that time again! We’re dishing out some good old fashioned Just Drawz advice and this time, John is back with us!You know how we do! In the first half, we’re covering what to do when your partner lies about a cheeseburger, the best ways to take advantage of your youth before getting ‘old’, finding gay friends without going to the bar, and getting comfortable going topless as a man and more! All of this with some personal stories and inspiration! “Just… Unsolicited Advice: 3 Part 1”_______________________________Key Topics:Relationship honesty and trust.Personal growth and second acts in your 30s.Building authentic connections without social media.Overcoming body image issues and self-acceptance._______________________________Listen to Our 90’s Playlist:YouTube Music:https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTzaf4yOmTtwfewr5Lq5jTB9Y5JvKg8lh&si=Lqv2Xassq-woeJUASpotify:https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4xX9SSUHjjxdk7CkqUHUuNApple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-just-drawz-podcast-presents-decades-the-90s/pl.u-06oxDB6uJNjgJe_______________________________Guests:John:https://www.instagram.com/stories/mrbradfordjrHosts:DMC:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/deeemcee⁠Jeff:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup⁠https://linktr.ee/jefflevelsup⁠_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast⁠https://linktr.ee/JustDrawz⁠_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded⁠⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Music: "Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin_______________________________Keywords:acceptance, achievement, authenticity, Black and brown men, Black gay men, boundaries, collaboration, communication, emotional healing, expectations, future aspirations, gay,  healing, honest conversations, identity, independence, industry insights, influence, legacy, LGBTQ, LGBTQ relationships, LGBTQ+, LGBTQIA, LGBTQIA+, masculinity, mental health, personal growth, queerness, recognition, relationship dynamics, relationships, safe spaces, Same gender loving, improvement, self love, self reflections, self-discovery, self-perception, sexual exploration, SGL, social media, societal perceptions, success, support, vulnerability_______________________________#JustDrawz#Acceptance #Achievement #Authenticity #BlackAndBrownMen #BlackGayMen #BlackMen #Boundaries #Collaboration #Communication #CulturalDifferences #EmotionalHealing #Expectations #Family #FutureAspirations #Gay #GayMarriage #Healing #HonestConversations #Identity #Independence #LGBTQ #LGBTQRelationships #LGBTQPlus #LGBTQIA #LGBTQIAPlus #Love #Marriage #MarriageViews #Masculinity #MentalHealth #PersonalGrowth #Queerness #Recognition #RelationshipDynamics #Relationships #SafeSpaces #SameGenderLoving #advice #SelfImprovement #SelfLove #SelfReflections #SelfDiscovery #SGL #bodyimage #Success #Support #Vulnerability #5050 #cheating #lying #manipulation #boundaries #bodyimage

Be sure to watch Part 1 of of this conversation first! We conclude the conversation on 50/50 relationships and dating. Anjeleigh, Ray, Jeff, and DMC talk about dating, transactional situations, and handling different responsibilities in today's dating world compared to the past. "Just... The 50/50 Theory: Part 2"_______________________________Takeaways:Why perfect equality is unrealistic and potentially unfair.Emotional and financial contributions: balancing responsibility versus capacity.Unlearning traditional gender roles and societal expectations around partnership.The importance of full-hearted investment and showing up 100-100.How reciprocity and intentionality shape healthy relationships.The impact of cultural backgrounds and upbringing on partnership dynamics.Flexibility in love: seasons of giving more or less._______________________________Listen to Our 90’s Playlist:YouTube Music:https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTzaf4yOmTtwfewr5Lq5jTB9Y5JvKg8lh&si=Lqv2Xassq-woeJUASpotify:https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4xX9SSUHjjxdk7CkqUHUuNApple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-just-drawz-podcast-presents-decades-the-90s/pl.u-06oxDB6uJNjgJe_______________________________Guests:Anjeleigh:https://www.instagram.com/anjeleighpart1Ray:https://www.instagram.com/oquendodukeHosts:DMC:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/deeemcee⁠Jeff:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup⁠https://linktr.ee/jefflevelsup⁠_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast⁠https://linktr.ee/JustDrawz⁠_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Music: "Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin_______________________________Keywords:acceptance, achievement, adult content, authenticity, Black and brown men, Black gay men, boundaries, collaboration, communication, cultural differences, emotional healing, expectations, family, future aspirations, gay, gay marriage, healing, honest conversations, identity, independence, industry insights, influence, legacy, LGBTQ, LGBTQ relationships, LGBTQ+, LGBTQIA, LGBTQIA+, love, marriage, marriage views, masculinity, mental health, personal growth, proposals, queerness, recognition, relationship dynamics, relationships, safe spaces, Same gender loving, same sex marrige, self improvement, self love, self reflections, self-discovery, self-perception, sexual exploration, SGL, social media, societal perceptions, success, support, vulnerability, 50-50 relationships, Partnership dynamics, Emotional contributions,Gender roles, mutual support in love, relationship flexibility, cultural impact on relationships, financial, balance in partnerships, unlearning societal norms, reciprocity in relationships_______________________________#JustDrawz#Acceptance #Achievement #Authenticity #BlackAndBrownMen #BlackGayMen #Boundaries #Collaboration #Communication #CulturalDifferences #EmotionalHealing #Expectations #Family #FutureAspirations #Gay #GayMarriage #Healing #HonestConversations #Identity #Independence #LGBTQ #LGBTQRelationships #LGBTQPlus #LGBTQIA #LGBTQIAPlus #Love #Marriage #MarriageViews #Masculinity #MentalHealth #PersonalGrowth #Queerness #Recognition #RelationshipDynamics #Relationships #SafeSpaces #SameGenderLoving #SameSexMarriage #SelfImprovement #SelfLove #SelfReflections #SelfDiscovery #SGL #SocietalPerceptions #Success #Support #Vulnerability #5050 #reciprocity

In this first part of a two part episode, Jeff and DMC explore the evolving dynamics of relationships beyond the common 50-50 rule. They unpack the complexities of partnership, traditional roles, emotional equity, and what it really means to show up fully for each other, whether in heterosexual, LGBTQ+, or unconventional arrangements.Returning to the panel is frequent guest Anjeleigh in her first appearance with DMC and Jeff! Her point of view comes from the female end of a heterosexual marriage.We're also welcoming Ray who is brings the view point from a long term same sex marriage. Be sure to watch Part 2 of this conversation!“Just… The 50/50 Theory"_______________________________Takeaways:Why perfect equality is unrealistic and potentially unfair.Emotional and financial contributions: balancing responsibility versus capacity.Unlearning traditional gender roles and societal expectations around partnership.The importance of full-hearted investment and showing up 100-100.How reciprocity and intentionality shape healthy relationships.The impact of cultural backgrounds and upbringing on partnership dynamics._______________________________Listen to Our 90’s Playlist:YouTube Music:https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTzaf4yOmTtwfewr5Lq5jTB9Y5JvKg8lh&si=Lqv2Xassq-woeJUASpotify:https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4xX9SSUHjjxdk7CkqUHUuNApple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-just-drawz-podcast-presents-decades-the-90s/pl.u-06oxDB6uJNjgJe_______________________________Guests:Anjeleigh:https://www.instagram.com/anjeleighpart1Ray:https://www.instagram.com/oquendodukeHosts:DMC:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/deeemcee⁠Jeff:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup⁠https://linktr.ee/jefflevelsup⁠_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast⁠https://linktr.ee/JustDrawz⁠_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Music: "Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin_______________________________Keywords:acceptance, achievement, adult content, authenticity, Black and brown men, Black gay men, boundaries, collaboration, communication, cultural differences, emotional healing, expectations, family, future aspirations, gay, gay marriage, healing, honest conversations, identity, independence, industry insights, influence, legacy, LGBTQ, LGBTQ relationships, LGBTQ+, LGBTQIA, LGBTQIA+, love, marriage, marriage views, masculinity, mental health, personal growth, proposals, queerness, recognition, relationship dynamics, relationships, safe spaces, Same gender loving, same sex marrige, self improvement, self love, self reflections, self-discovery, self-perception, sexual exploration, SGL, social media, societal perceptions, success, support, vulnerability, 50-50 relationships, Partnership dynamics, Emotional contributions, gender roles, mutual support in love, relationship flexibility, cultural impact on relationships, financial, balance in partnerships, unlearning societal norms, reciprocity in relationships_______________________________#JustDrawz#Acceptance #Achievement #Authenticity #BlackAndBrownMen #BlackGayMen #Boundaries #Collaboration #Communication #CulturalDifferences #EmotionalHealing #Expectations #Family #FutureAspirations #Gay #GayMarriage #Healing #HonestConversations #Identity #Independence #LGBTQ #LGBTQRelationships #LGBTQPlus #LGBTQIA #LGBTQIAPlus #Love #Marriage #MarriageViews #Masculinity #MentalHealth #PersonalGrowth #Queerness #Recognition #RelationshipDynamics #Relationships #SafeSpaces #SameGenderLoving #SameSexMarriage #SelfImprovement #SelfLove #SelfReflections #SelfDiscovery #SGL #SocietalPerceptions #Success #Support #Vulnerability #5050 #reciprocity

Being a Black man in today’s world comes with challenges that often go unspoken. An additional challenge is to be non heterosexual. Society tells us to tone down our authenticity just to make others comfortable. But let’s be real... it's a form of control and conformity, not solidarity.Your worth doesn’t hinge on others’ approval. It’s time to reclaim your space and voice, to show up for yourself as fiercely as you do for others. That is the message with this episode."Just Thoughts... Know Your Worth"______________________________Listen to Our 90’s Playlist:YouTube Music:https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTzaf4yOmTtwfewr5Lq5jTB9Y5JvKg8lh&si=Lqv2Xassq-woeJUASpotify:https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4xX9SSUHjjxdk7CkqUHUuNApple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-just-drawz-podcast-presents-decades-the-90s/pl.u-06oxDB6uJNjgJe_______________________________Hosts:DMC:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/deeemcee⁠Jeff:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup⁠https://linktr.ee/jefflevelsup⁠_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast⁠https://linktr.ee/JustDrawz⁠_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Music: "Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin_______________________________Keywords:acceptance, achievement, adult content, authenticity, Black and brown men, Black gay men, boundaries, collaboration, communication, cultural differences, divorce, divorce impact, emotional healing, expectations, family, future aspirations, gay, gay marriage, healing, honest conversations, identity, independence, industry insights, influence, legacy, LGBTQ, LGBTQ relationships, LGBTQ+, LGBTQIA, LGBTQIA+, love, marriage, marriage views, masculinity, mental health, overachiever, personal growth, proposals, queerness, recognition, relationship dynamics, relationships, safe spaces, Same gender loving, self improvement, self love, self reflections, self-discovery, self-perception, sexual exploration, SGL, social media, societal perceptions, success, support, vulnerability_______________________________#justdrawz #Acceptance #Achievement #Authenticity #BlackAndBrownMen #BlackGayMen #Boundaries #Collaboration #Communication #EmotionalHealing #Expectations #Family #FutureAspirations #Gay #Healing #HonestConversations #Identity #Independence #IndustryInsights #Influence #Legacy #LGBTQ #LGBTQRelationships #LGBTQPlus #LGBTQIA #LGBTQIAPlus #Love #Marriage #MarriageViews #Masculinity #MentalHealth #Overachiever #PersonalGrowth #Queerness #Recognition #RelationshipDynamics #Relationships #SafeSpaces #SameGenderLoving #SameSexMarriage #SelfImprovement #SelfLove #SelfReflections #SelfDiscovery #SelfPerception #SocietalPerceptions #Success #Support #Vulnerability

We've selected some of your questions to answer for this third round of our Q and A session! Tune it to see if yours made it! We are always down for more so feel free to hit us up at [email protected] for questions about the show, us, or for a future advice show! We want to thank our viewers for submitting these!PS: Darius is showing us his editing chops in his first fully edited and produced show!“Just… Your Questions, Our Answers III"_______________________________Listen to Our 90’s Playlist:YouTube Music:https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTzaf4yOmTtwfewr5Lq5jTB9Y5JvKg8lh&si=Lqv2Xassq-woeJUASpotify:https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4xX9SSUHjjxdk7CkqUHUuNApple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-just-drawz-podcast-presents-decades-the-90s/pl.u-06oxDB6uJNjgJe_______________________________Hosts:DMC:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/deeemcee⁠Jeff:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup⁠https://linktr.ee/jefflevelsup⁠_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast⁠https://linktr.ee/JustDrawz⁠_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/deeemcee⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Music: "Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin_______________________________Keywords:Keywordsacceptance, achievement, adult content, authenticity, Black and brown men, Black gay men, boundaries, collaboration, communication, cultural differences, divorce, divorce impact, emotional healing, expectations, family, future aspirations, gay, gay marriage, healing, honest conversations, identity, independence, industry insights, influence, legacy, LGBTQ, LGBTQ relationships, LGBTQ+, LGBTQIA, LGBTQIA+, love, marriage, marriage views, masculinity, mental health, overachiever, personal growth, proposals, queerness, recognition, relationship dynamics, relationships, safe spaces, Same gender loving, same sex marrige, self improvement, self love, self reflections, self-discovery, self-perception, sexual exploration, SGL, social media, societal perceptions, success, support, vulnerability_______________________________#justdrawz #Acceptance #Achievement #AdultContent #Authenticity #BlackAndBrownMen #BlackGayMen #Boundaries #Collaboration #Communication #CulturalDifferences #Divorce #DivorceImpact #EmotionalHealing #Expectations #Family #FutureAspirations #Gay #GayMarriage #Healing #HonestConversations #Identity #Independence #IndustryInsights #Influence #Legacy #LGBTQ #LGBTQRelationships #LGBTQPlus #LGBTQIA #LGBTQIAPlus #Love #Marriage #MarriageViews #Masculinity #MentalHealth #Overachiever #PersonalGrowth #Proposals #Queerness #Recognition #RelationshipDynamics #Relationships #SafeSpaces #SameGenderLoving #SameSexMarriage #SelfImprovement #SelfLove #SelfReflections #SelfDiscovery #SelfPerception #SexualExploration #SGL #SocialMedia #SocietalPerceptions #Success #Support #Vulnerability

In this episode, we engage in a candid conversation with guest Taune about the complexities of marriage within the LGBTQ+ community. With marriage being a ‘new’ option for gay men, not many have had the experience of getting married yet, let alone divorced. We wanted to explore this and we appreciate Taune’s willingness to share his journey through marriage, divorce, and remarriage. We discuss the challenges of acceptance from family, the significance of communication in relationships, and the evolving expectations that come with marriage. The conversation highlights the importance of being true to oneself and the dynamics of love and support in the face of societal norms. Taune discusses how his views on love, marriage, and partnerships have evolved, particularly in the context of LGBTQ relationships. This dialogue emphasizes the significance of therapy, personal growth, and the need for open discussions about desires and expectations in relationships. Taune also reflects on future aspirations with his current husband, highlighting the importance of creating a unique and meaningful partnership.“Just… Why Did I Get Married Twice"_______________________________Takeaways:Marriage is a significant step in relationships, especially for LGBTQ+ couples.Many gay men have not seen traditional marriage models, impacting their views on marriage.Family acceptance can vary greatly, affecting personal relationships.The proposal experience can be unique and non-traditional in LGBTQ+ relationships.Communication and setting expectations are crucial in any marriage.Support from friends and chosen family can be more impactful than biological family support._______________________________Listen to Our 90’s Playlist:YouTube Music:https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTzaf4yOmTtwfewr5Lq5jTB9Y5JvKg8lh&si=Lqv2Xassq-woeJUASpotify:https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4xX9SSUHjjxdk7CkqUHUuNApple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-just-drawz-podcast-presents-decades-the-90s/pl.u-06oxDB6uJNjgJe_______________________________Hosts:DMC:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/deeemcee⁠Jeff:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup⁠https://linktr.ee/jefflevelsup⁠_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast⁠https://linktr.ee/JustDrawz⁠_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Music: "Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin_______________________________Keywords:acceptance, authenticity, Black and brown men, Black gay men, boundaries, collaboration, communication, cultural differences, divorce, divorce impact, emotional healing, expectations, family, future aspirations, gay, gay marriage, healing, honest conversations, identity, independence, industry insights, influence, legacy, LGBTQ, LGBTQ relationships, LGBTQIA,, love, marriage, marriage views, masculinity, mental health, personal growth, proposals, queerness, relationship dynamics, relationships, safe spaces, Same gender loving, same sex marriage, self improvement, self love, self reflections, self-discovery, self-perception, sexual exploration, SGL, societal perceptions, success, support, vulnerability_______________________________#justdrawz #Acceptance #Authenticity #BlackAndBrownMen #BlackGayMen #Boundaries #Collaboration #Communication #CulturalDifferences #Divorce #DivorceImpact #EmotionalHealing #Expectations #Family #FutureAspirations #Gay #GayMarriage #Healing #HonestConversations #Identity #Independence #Influence #Legacy #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA #Love #Marriage #MarriageViews #MentalHealth #PersonalGrowth #Proposals #Queerness #RelationshipDynamics #Relationships #SameGenderLoving #SameSexMarriage #SelfReflections #SelfDiscovery #SGL #SocietalPerceptions #Support #Vulnerability

Are you an overachieving gay? Is independence a high priority for you? This discussion might just be of interest!In this episode, we explore the concept of 'gaychievement,' discussing the pressures and expectations that gay men face in their pursuit of success. We delve into the psychological implications of overachievement, the role of identity in professional spaces, and how these factors influence dating culture. The conversation also touches on burnout, mental health, and the distinction between achieving from passion versus pressure. Just... Gay Success"_______________________________Takeaways:Achievement is often tied to safety and respect for gay men.Many gay men feel pressure to achieve due to societal expectations.Self-imposed pressure can lead to burnout and mental health issues.Success can be a coping mechanism for emotional struggles.Dating culture often emphasizes professional success and titles.Burnout is common among those who overachieve.It's important to recognize one's worth beyond achievements._______________________________Listen to Our 90’s Playlist:YouTube Music:https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTzaf4yOmTtwfewr5Lq5jTB9Y5JvKg8lh&si=Lqv2Xassq-woeJUASpotify:https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4xX9SSUHjjxdk7CkqUHUuNApple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-just-drawz-podcast-presents-decades-the-90s/pl.u-06oxDB6uJNjgJe_______________________________Hosts:DMC:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/deeemcee⁠Jeff:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup⁠https://linktr.ee/jefflevelsup⁠_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast⁠https://linktr.ee/JustDrawz⁠_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Music: "Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin_______________________________Keywords:adult content, authenticity, Black and brown men, Black gay men, body image, boundaries, collaboration, content creation, cultural differences, family, gay, healing, identity, industry insights, influence, legacy, LGBTQ, LGBTQ+, LGBTQIA, LGBTQIA+, masculinity, mental health, personal growth, queerness, recognition, relationships, safe spaces, Same gender loving, self improvement, self love, self reflections, self-discovery, self-perception, SGL, social media, societal perceptions, success, support, vulnerability, overachiever, achievement, success, independence, _______________________________#justdrawz #applepodcasts #authenticity #blackgaymen #blackmen #blackpodcast #blackpodcaster #blackpodcasters #blackpodcastnetwork #difficultconversation #engagement #fyp #fypシ #fypシviralシfyp #gayconversations #gaymen #gaypodcasts #healing #lgbtq #LGBTpodcast #LGBTQIA #liberation #masculinity #mentalhealth #personalgrowth #podcast #queerissues #queerness #samegenderloving #selflove #SGL #socialmedia #spotify #spotifypodcast #success #thirstrap #youtube #youtubepodcast

We welcome DaddiDecent and DeeBearDaG to JustDrawz for an interesting and entertaining discussion on the world of gay content creation.  Our guests let us know how they got into the industry, society perceptions, and the importance of authenticity.  They also share the reactions they got from family members when their foray into this world was exposed. We even hear about some dream collabs and there is an interesting revelation connecting these two performers towards the end! Get ready for a fast paced entertaining episode!"Just... Rated X"_______________________________Takeaways:-It is key to manage their online personas separately from their personal lives.-Chemistry with collaborators is important.-Building a following takes time and effort.-Fan interactions can be flattering but also intrusive.-Misunderstandings about their personal lives are common.-They navigate the adult industry with professionalism. People often view adult content creators as objects rather than humans.-Intimacy off-camera is a significant aspect of their lives.-Body image issues persist even among confident creators.-Family support can be surprisingly positive in the adult content industry.-Creators experience the same insecurities and nervousness as anyone else.-The adult content industry is filled with diverse narratives and experiences._______________________________Listen to Our Winter 2026 Playlist:YouTube Music:https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTzaf4yOmTty_XQzxa8iJSNr2iDb2kyDRSpotify:https://open.spotify.com/playlist/66GdLEJau4DiGHPoe30tVg?go=1&sp_cid=04d6e83b-a967-4d96-a8b2-11532f742fa8&utm_source=embed_player_p&utm_medium=desktop&nd=1&dlsi=512c2f0d538347b5Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-just-drawz-podcast-presents-cheekz-beatz-vol-iv/pl.u-06oxD4aFJNjgJe_______________________________Guests:Cordae: https://www.instagram.com/justcordaeDaniel:https://www.instagram.com/young_king_xiii/_______________________________Hosts:DMC:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/deeemceeJeff:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/jefflevelsup_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/JustDrawz_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Music: "Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠⁠_______________________________Keywords:adult content, authenticity, Black and brown men, Black gay men, body image, boundaries, collaboration, content creation, cultural differences, family, gay, healing, identity, industry insights, influence, legacy, LGBTQ, LGBTQ+, LGBTQIA, LGBTQIA+, masculinity, mental health, personal growth, queerness, recognition, relationships, safe spaces, Same gender loving, self improvement, self love, self reflections, self-discovery, self-perception, SGL, social media, societal perceptions, success, support, vulnerability_______________________________#justdrawz #applepodcasts#authenticity#blackgaymen#blackmen#blackpodcast#blackpodcaster#blackpodcasters#blackpodcastnetwork#difficultconversation#engagement#fyp#fypシ#fypシviralシfyp#gayconversations#gaymen#gaypodcasts#healing#lgbtq#LGBTpodcast#LGBTQIA#liberation#masculinity#mentalhealth#personalgrowth#podcast#queerissues#queerness#samegenderloving#selflove#SGL#socialmedia#spotify#spotifypodcast#success#thirstrap#youtube#youtubepodcast

Jeff presents his Get to Know Me episode where it is all about him! You'll learn about who he is and what drives him day to day. Plus, there's a little Q and A at to wrap it up. "Just... Get to Know Jeff"______________________________Listen to Our Winter 2026 Playlist:YouTube Music:⁠https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTzaf4yOmTty_XQzxa8iJSNr2iDb2kyDR⁠Spotify:⁠https://open.spotify.com/playlist/66GdLEJau4DiGHPoe30tVg?go=1&sp_cid=04d6e83b-a967-4d96-a8b2-11532f742fa8&utm_source=embed_player_p&utm_medium=desktop&nd=1&dlsi=512c2f0d538347b5⁠Apple Music: ⁠https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-just-drawz-podcast-presents-cheekz-beatz-vol-iv/pl.u-06oxD4aFJNjgJe⁠_______________________________Hosts:DMC:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/deeemceeJeff:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/jefflevelsup_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/JustDrawz⁠_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Music: "Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Keywords:preference, prejudice, dating, LGBTQ, attraction, bias, masculinity, trauma, connection, cultural influences, desire, social conditioning, conventionally attractive,Same gender loving, SGL, vulnerability, healing, self-discovery, Black and brown men, family, personal growth, masculinity, queerness, self reflections, self improvement, self love, success, influence,identity, self-perception, cultural differences queerness, support, legacy, relationships, identity, safe spaces, personal growth, LGBTQIA+,LGBTQ, LGBTQIA, gay, Black gay men_______________________________#JustDrawz#blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #applepodcasts #podcast #blackpodcaster #spotifypodcast #youtube #applepodcasts #youtubepodcast #gaypodcasts #LGBTpodcast #blackmen #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #fypシviralシfyp #selflove #success #masculinity #queerness #liberation #personalgrowth #healing #mentalhealth #lgbtq #LGBTQIA  #gayconversations #thirstrap #queerissues #masculinity #engagement #socialmedia  #gayconversations #samegenderloving #SGL #authenticity

Note 3/14/2026:This version replaces the original that was uploaded on March 5, 2026. -----DMC presents his Get to Know Me episode where it is all about him! You'll learn about who he is and what drives him day to day. He talks about his family and how they've impacted his life. You'll find out what he loves and what he  does in his spare time.  Plus, there's a little Q and A at to wrap it up. "Just... Get to Know DMC"______________________________Listen to Our Winter 2026 Playlist:YouTube Music:https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTzaf4yOmTty_XQzxa8iJSNr2iDb2kyDRSpotify:https://open.spotify.com/playlist/66GdLEJau4DiGHPoe30tVg?go=1&sp_cid=04d6e83b-a967-4d96-a8b2-11532f742fa8&utm_source=embed_player_p&utm_medium=desktop&nd=1&dlsi=512c2f0d538347b5Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-just-drawz-podcast-presents-cheekz-beatz-vol-iv/pl.u-06oxD4aFJNjgJe_______________________________Hosts:DMC:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/deeemceeJeff:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/jefflevelsup_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/JustDrawz_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Music: "Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠⁠_______________________________Keywords:preference, prejudice, dating, LGBTQ, attraction, bias, masculinity, trauma, connection, cultural influences, desire, social conditioning, conventionally attractive,Same gender loving, SGL, vulnerability, healing, self-discovery, Black and brown men, family, personal growth, masculinity, queerness, self reflections, self improvement, self love, success, influence,identity, self-perception, cultural differences queerness, support, legacy, relationships, identity, safe spaces, personal growth, LGBTQIA+,LGBTQ, LGBTQIA, gay, Black gay men_______________________________#JustDrawz#blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #applepodcasts #podcast #blackpodcaster #spotifypodcast #youtube #applepodcasts #youtubepodcast #gaypodcasts #LGBTpodcast #blackmen #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #fypシviralシfyp #selflove #success #masculinity #queerness #liberation #personalgrowth #healing #mentalhealth #lgbtq #LGBTQIA  #gayconversations #thirstrap #queerissues #masculinity #engagement #socialmedia  #gayconversations #samegenderloving #SGL #authenticity

It's the Season 4 Premiere! DMC and Jeff discuss Dating Preferences Versus Dating Prejudices,  focusing on the distinction between them. We explore how societal norms and personal experiences shape our attractions and biases.We talk about the impact of trauma on dating preferences, the cultural influences that affect attraction, and the importance of connection over superficial criteria in relationships. We also challenge  listeners to reflect on their own preferences and the underlying reasons for them."Just... Preference Vs Prejudice"_______________________________Takeaways: Preference is a desire, while prejudice is exclusionary.Trauma can shape dating preferences and biases.Attraction should be based on connection, not conditioning.Cultural influences play a significant role in dating choices.Masculinity and body image affect attraction in the dating scene.People often use 'preference' as a shield for prejudice.It's important to interrogate why we have certain preferences.The LGBTQ community has the power to redefine love and attraction.______________________________Listen to Our Winter 2026 Playlist:Happy Holidaze - A Playlist from Just Drawz The PodcastYouTube Music:https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTzaf4yOmTty_XQzxa8iJSNr2iDb2kyDRSpotify:https://open.spotify.com/playlist/66GdLEJau4DiGHPoe30tVg?go=1&sp_cid=04d6e83b-a967-4d96-a8b2-11532f742fa8&utm_source=embed_player_p&utm_medium=desktop&nd=1&dlsi=512c2f0d538347b5Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-just-drawz-podcast-presents-cheekz-beatz-vol-iv/pl.u-06oxD4aFJNjgJe_______________________________Hosts:DMC:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/deeemceeJeff:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/jefflevelsup_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/JustDrawz_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Music: "Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠⁠_______________________________Keywords:preference, prejudice, dating, LGBTQ, attraction, bias, masculinity, trauma, connection, cultural influences, desire, social conditioning, conventionally attractive,Same gender loving, SGL, vulnerability, healing, self-discovery, Black and brown men, family, personal growth, masculinity, queerness, self reflections, self improvement, self love, success, influence,identity, self-perception, cultural differences queerness, support, legacy, relationships, identity, safe spaces, personal growth, LGBTQIA+,LGBTQ, LGBTQIA, gay, Black gay men_______________________________#JustDrawz#blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #applepodcasts #podcast #blackpodcaster #spotifypodcast #youtube #applepodcasts #youtubepodcast #gaypodcasts #LGBTpodcast #blackmen #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #fypシviralシfyp #selflove #success #masculinity #queerness #liberation #personalgrowth #healing #mentalhealth #lgbtq #LGBTQIA  #gayconversations #thirstrap #queerissues #masculinity #engagement #socialmedia  #gayconversations #samegenderloving #SGL #authenticity

Subscribers new and old, welcome! We present to you moments from 2025 and our third season. If you've missed something, and want to go back, this is the bonus episode for you!00:16 - Let's Talk About Sex -00:38 - And Then There Were Two -00:26 - Inauguration Aggravation -01:11 - Tips for Navigating the Dating Scene - 01:29 - Infidelity and Dishonesty in Gay Relationships - 02:22 - International Gay Travel - 02:41 - A Matter of Faith - 03:18 - Infidelity and Dishonesty in Gay Relationships - 03:35 - Losing Our Same Sex Virginity - 03:56 - The Six Stages of Dating - 04:37 - Serving Vulnerability Realness - 05:27 - Performative Queerness - 05:57 - Unsolicited Advice 2 - 06:27 - Uncommon Common Sense - 07:37 - Bonus Questions and Answers - 08:14 - Gaying Over 40 - 08:47 - Unfriended - 09:53 - Thanksgiving 2025 Special - 10:39 - Christmas 2025 Special -We also have our Performative Blackness episode and DMC's solo episode from this season as well!______________________________Listen to Our Fall 2025 Playlist:The Just Drawz Podcast Presents: Cheekz & Beatz Vol. III [Fall 2025]⁠⁠⁠YouTube Music⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Apple Music⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Hosts:DMC:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/deeemcee⁠⁠⁠Jeff:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/jefflevelsup⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/JustDrawz⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Music: "Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Keywords:Same gender loving, SGL, vulnerability, healing, self-discovery, authenticity, accountability, emotional strength, mental health, LGBTQ+, black and brown men, chosen family, personal growth, queerness, self reflections, self improvement, self love, success, influence, identity, childhood, platonic relationships, self-perception, chosen family, support, misunderstanding, peace, LGBTQIA, platonic, men and women, healing, protection, boundaries, guarding, heart to heart,_______________________________#JustDrawz#blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #applepodcasts #podcast #blackpodcaster #spotifypodcast #youtube #applepodcasts #youtubepodcast #gaypodcasts #LGBTpodcast #blackmen #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #fypシviralシfyp #selflove #success #masculinity #queerness #liberation #personalgrowth #healing #mentalhealth #lgbtq #LGBTQIA

Welcome to our channel! JustDrawz is a show for the section of the LGBTQIA space that sometimes feels overlooked by the current mainstream and influencer crowd. Hosted by two Black gay men, DMC and Jeff,, we have real conversations that matter. Sure, we talk about sex and dating, but there's more to our lives that that. Politics, personal growth, society, pop culture and more are all topics that we cover here. This is a Black queer lens that stays honest, unfiltered, and rooted in truth but we are rated E for Everybody because Black, Latino, Asian, female, straight, and every combination in between, our stories are relatable. We are real, regular guys who are proud to stand in our "unc" status!So, whether you are here to laugh, learn, heal, or just feel seen, you are in the right place!Hosts:DMC:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/deeemceeJeff:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/jefflevelsup_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/JustDrawz_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Music: "Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠⁠_______________________________Keywords:Same gender loving, SGL, vulnerability, healing, self-discovery, toxic masculinity, emotional strength, mental health, LGBTQ+, black and brown men, chosen family, personal growth, masculinity, queerness, self reflections, self improvement, self love, success, influence, masculinity, vulnerability, identity, childhood, role models, shame, self-perception, cultural differences, mental health, family dynamics, colorism, queerness, support, legacy, relationships, identity, safe spaces, personal growth, LGBTQIA, aging, after 40, AARP, retirement_______________________________#JustDrawz#blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #applepodcasts #podcast #blackpodcaster #spotifypodcast #youtube #applepodcasts #youtubepodcast #gaypodcasts #LGBTpodcast #blackmen #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #fypシviralシfyp #selflove #success #masculinity #queerness #liberation #personalgrowth #healing #mentalhealth #lgbtq #LGBTQIA #gayingafter40 #after40 #aarp #retirement

Happy Holidaze!It's our third Christmas show and this year, we discuss some of our holiday traditions, the significance of gift-giving, and how we spend Christmas Day. What's the first decoration to go up? What are our favorite holiday themed movies and shows? And would we wear matching pajamas with our significant others? From food to what Christmas means to us, we talk about that and more! “Just… Deck The Drawz”______________________________Listen to Our Christmas 2025 Playlist:Happy Holidaze - A Playlist from Just Drawz The PodcastYouTube Music:https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTzaf4yOmTtzbcOhWeiHAGEVtYuDLp7NcSpotify:https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4J3SYvmGGS1vT4t7KhFGpf?si=jvNvNOFXRxCP8CmRNZjVHgApple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-just-drawz-podcast-presents-happy-holidaze-vol-i-2025/pl.u-MDAWv8qTevJMemSpotify Exclusive Continuous Version:https://open.spotify.com/playlist/1NdDczd0UySYCZAwz8kTN8?si=eb0b6b9527eb4fae_______________________________Hosts:DMC:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/deeemceeJeff:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/jefflevelsup_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/JustDrawz_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Music: "Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠⁠_______________________________Keywords:Christmas, holiday traditions, gift giving, family time, Christmas movies, decorations, holiday spirit, Christmas gifts, Christmas activities, Christmas locations, Christmas, gifts, nostalgia, holiday traditions, music, food, family, reflections, regifting, adulting, relationships, identity, safe spaces, personal growth, LGBTQIA+,LGBTQ, LGBTQIA, gay, Black gay men_______________________________#JustDrawz#blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #applepodcasts #podcast #blackpodcaster #spotifypodcast #youtube #applepodcasts #youtubepodcast #gaypodcasts #LGBTpodcast #blackmen #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #fypシviralシfyp #personalgrowth #healing #mentalhealth #lgbtq #LGBTQIA #gayconversations #Christmas #holidaytraditions #giftgiving #familytime #Christmasmovies #decorations #holidayspirit #Christmasgifts #Christmasactivities #Christmaslocations #gifts #nostalgia #holidaytraditions #music #food #family #christmastime #holidaycheer #2025

This show, DMC and Jeff wrap up the “Performative” series with “Performative Blackness” having already covered Performative Masculinity and Performative Queerness. We explore the concept of performative Blackness, discussing its historical roots, contemporary interpretations, and personal experiences with identity. Then delve into the expectations and stereotypes associated with being Black, the impact of social media, and the nuances of language within the Black community. We touch on cultural appropriation and the challenges of explaining Black culture to others, emphasizing the importance of authenticity and reflection in navigating these complex topics. The dialogue also touches on interracial relationships and the societal expectations surrounding Black identity, ultimately emphasizing the importance of embracing one's authentic self without the need for performance.“Just… Acting Black”_______________________________Takeaways: Performative Blackness is a dynamic and socially constructed identity.Historical performances often relied on stereotypes and distorted representations.Contemporary Black performers use their art to resist racism and explore identity.Code-switching is a common experience for many black individuals in different spaces.Social media can amplify performative aspects of identity.Language and vernacular play a significant role in cultural expression.Cultural appropriation raises questions about appreciation versus exploitation.Proximity to Blackness can influence how individuals express their identity.Authenticity in Blackness can be a feeling rather than a definition.Navigating spaces of Blackness can vary based on comfort levels.Rejecting respectability politics is crucial for authenticity.Blackness is expansive and encompasses a wide range of experiences.Our Blackness does not need to be validated by others.______________________________Listen to Our Christmas 2025 Playlist:Happy Holidaze - A Playlist from Just Drawz The PodcastYouTube Music:https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTzaf4yOmTtzbcOhWeiHAGEVtYuDLp7NcSpotify:https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4J3SYvmGGS1vT4t7KhFGpf?si=jvNvNOFXRxCP8CmRNZjVHgApple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-just-drawz-podcast-presents-happy-holidaze-vol-i-2025/pl.u-MDAWv8qTevJMemSpotify Exclusive Continuous Version:https://open.spotify.com/playlist/1NdDczd0UySYCZAwz8kTN8?si=eb0b6b9527eb4fae_______________________________Hosts:DMC:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/deeemceeJeff:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/jefflevelsup_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/JustDrawz_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Music: "Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠⁠_______________________________Keywords:performative Blackness, identity, cultural appropriation, social media, Black culture, activism, stereotypes, language, personal experiences, historical context, Cultural Identity, Blackness, Interracial Relationships, Authenticity, Shared Experiences, Cultural Practices, Identity, Race, CommunitySame gender loving, SGL, , , se, family, personal growth, self reflections, identity, self-perception, cultural differences , identity, personal growth, LGBTQIA+,LGBTQ, LGBTQIA, gay, Black gay men_______________________________#JustDrawz#blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #applepodcasts #podcast #blackpodcaster #spotifypodcast #youtube #applepodcasts #youtubepodcast #gaypodcasts #LGBTpodcast #blackmen #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #gaymen #fypシ #selflove #personalgrowth #LGBTQIA  #gayconversations #queerissues #gayconversations #samegenderloving #SGL #authenticity

It’s Thanksgiving week, family! And we recorded an episode about food and our relationship with it. But the conversation took a little bit of a shift as we ended up talking about body image and social media. Let’s call it a ‘side’ to the entree of our main conversation. This is an expanded show that runs a little bit longer than we normally go for one sitting but we think this dish is best served hot and complete. _______________________________Takeaways: Social media can significantly impact self-image.Early food memories can affect what we like and don’t like as adults.Pound cake, peach cobbler, and banana pudding are soul food stables.Likes on social media can serve as a form of validation.There is a noticeable difference in engagement between innocent and provocative posts.People may seek motivation from the validation they receive online.Social media can create a cycle of seeking approval through likes.Understanding this dynamic is crucial for mental health awareness.Awareness of these patterns can lead to healthier social media habits.______________________________Listen to Our Summer 2025 Playlist:The Just Drawz Podcast Presents: Cheekz & Beatz Vol. I [Spring 2025]YouTube Music:⁠https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTzaf4yOmTtwLZ43_C5MK5NDZtu49A_mg&si=qclBkWFenao4M9gU⁠Spotify:⁠https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2dkJDkB8ekDK1Rc4s8bZtw?si=aec470a275b2490d⁠Apple Music: ⁠https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-just-drawz-podcast-presents-cheekz-beatz-vol-i/pl.u-MDAWvo6uevJMem⁠_______________________________Hosts:DMC:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/deeemceeJeff:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/jefflevelsup_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/JustDrawz_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Music: "Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠⁠_______________________________Keywords:Same gender loving, SGL, vulnerability, healing, self-discovery, toxic masculinity, emotional strength, mental health, LGBTQ+, black and brown men, chosen family, personal growth, masculinity, queerness, self reflections, self improvement, self love, success, influence, masculinity, vulnerability, identity, childhood, role models, shame, self-perception, cultural differences, mental health, family dynamics, colorism, queerness, support, legacy, relationships, identity, safe spaces, personal growth, LGBTQIA_______________________________#JustDrawz#blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #applepodcasts #podcast #blackpodcaster #spotifypodcast #youtube #applepodcasts #youtubepodcast #gaypodcasts #LGBTpodcast #blackmen #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #fypシviralシfyp #selflove #success #masculinity #queerness #liberation #personalgrowth #healing #mentalhealth #lgbtq #LGBTQIA #gayfem #masc4masc #fem4fem #mascformasc #gayconversations #thirstrap #queerissues #masculinity #Thanksgiving #engagement #socialmedia #engagementfarming #gayconversations

Darius and Nikki continue their revealing conversation about their decades long friendship. Witness recovery and healing in action through their conversation with heartfelt moments, laughter, and new understanding of each other. "Just... Unfriended: Part 2"_______________________________Takeaways: Friendships can endure long periods of silence and still reconnect.Consistency in communication is vital for maintaining friendships.Life changes can impact friendships significantly.Understanding each other's perspectives can lead to healing.Mourning the loss of friendships is a natural process.Self-reflection helps in recognizing one's role in relationships.Family dynamics can shape how we approach friendships.It's important to express love and appreciation regularly.Time spent with friends creates lasting memories.Vulnerability can strengthen the bond between friends. It's important to gauge situations based on individuals, not past experiences.Communication is key to understanding expectations in friendships.Expressing love and appreciation is crucial for maintaining relationships.Self-discovery is a vital part of personal growth and healing.Quality of friendships matters more than quantity as we age.Men often struggle to express vulnerability and emotions.Losing friends can be a painful experience that isn't often discussed.______________________________Listen to Our Fall 2025 Playlist:The Just Drawz Podcast Presents: Cheekz & Beatz Vol. III [Fall 2025]⁠⁠YouTube Music⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Apple Music⁠⁠_______________________________Guest:Nikki:https://www.instagram.com/nikkinicole78/Hosts:DMC:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/deeemcee⁠⁠Jeff:⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/jefflevelsup⁠⁠_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/JustDrawz⁠⁠_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Music: "Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Keywords:Same gender loving, SGL, vulnerability, healing, self-discovery, authenticity, accountability, emotional strength, mental health, LGBTQ+, black and brown men, chosen family, personal growth, queerness, self reflections, self improvement, self love, success, influence, identity, childhood, platonic relationships, self-perception, chosen family, support, misunderstanding, peace, LGBTQIA, platonic, men and women, healing, protection, boundaries, guarding, heart to heart,_______________________________#JustDrawz#blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #applepodcasts #podcast #blackpodcaster #spotifypodcast #youtube #applepodcasts #youtubepodcast #gaypodcasts #LGBTpodcast #blackmen #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #fypシviralシfyp #selflove #success #masculinity #queerness #liberation #personalgrowth #healing #mentalhealth #lgbtq #LGBTQIA

In this episode, Darius and Nikki, one of his oldest friends, explore the complexities of long-term friendships, focusing on their own relationship that has spanned over 40 years. They discuss the challenges of maintaining connections through life changes, the importance of communication, and the process of mourning friendships that have faded. The conversation highlights the significance of consistency, self-reflection, and vulnerability in nurturing relationships, ultimately leading to a deeper understanding of each other's perspectives and the value of time spent together. _______________________________Takeaways: Friendships can endure long periods of silence and still reconnect.Consistency in communication is vital for maintaining friendships.Life changes can impact friendships significantly.Understanding each other's perspectives can lead to healing.Mourning the loss of friendships is a natural process.Self-reflection helps in recognizing one's role in relationships.Family dynamics can shape how we approach friendships.It's important to express love and appreciation regularly.Time spent with friends creates lasting memories.Vulnerability can strengthen the bond between friends. It's important to gauge situations based on individuals, not past experiences.Communication is key to understanding expectations in friendships.Expressing love and appreciation is crucial for maintaining relationships.Self-discovery is a vital part of personal growth and healing.Quality of friendships matters more than quantity as we age.Men often struggle to express vulnerability and emotions.Losing friends can be a painful experience that isn't often discussed.______________________________Listen to Our Fall 2025 Playlist:The Just Drawz Podcast Presents: Cheekz & Beatz Vol. I [Fall 2025]⁠YouTube Music⁠⁠Spotify⁠ ⁠Apple Music⁠_______________________________Hosts:DMC:⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/deeemcee⁠Jeff:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/jefflevelsup⁠_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/JustDrawz⁠_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Music: "Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Keywords:Same gender loving, SGL, vulnerability, healing, self-discovery, authenticity, accountability, emotional strength, mental health, LGBTQ+, black and brown men, chosen family, personal growth, queerness, self reflections, self improvement, self love, success, influence, identity, childhood, platonic relationships, self-perception, chosen family, support, misunderstanding, peace, LGBTQIA, platonic, men and women, healing, protection, boundaries, guarding, heart to heart,_______________________________#JustDrawz#blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #applepodcasts #podcast #blackpodcaster #spotifypodcast #youtube #applepodcasts #youtubepodcast #gaypodcasts #LGBTpodcast #blackmen #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #fypシviralシfyp #selflove #success #masculinity #queerness #liberation #personalgrowth #healing #mentalhealth #lgbtq #LGBTQIA

On this show, Jeff and DMC explore the experiences of being Black gay men over 40, discussing the evolution of their social lives, dating dynamics, and sexual experiences. They reflect on how their perceptions of self and body image have changed over the years, the impact of club culture on social interactions, and the role of confidence in their sexual lives. The discussion also touches on the importance of connection and community, physical health, and mental health care. They discuss setting boundaries in relationships and their aspirations for the future _______________________________Takeaways: Being gay after 40 can bring new perspectives and experiences.Social lives can expand with age and self-acceptance.Finding a supportive community is crucial for personal growth.Body image issues can persist but evolve over time.Clubbing culture has shifted significantly over the years.Younger men often seek older partners, changing dating dynamics.Confidence plays a key role in sexual experiences as one ages.Sexual enhancement drugs can be fun but are not always necessary.Self-perception impacts social interactions and relationships.The importance of living in the moment and enjoying experiences.Physical health becomes a priority as we age.Mental health care is essential for overall well-being.Comfort in life is a key aspiration for many.Aging does not mean the end of opportunities.Self-care practices are vital for health.Future aspirations can drive personal growth.______________________________Listen to Our Fall 2025 Playlist:The Just Drawz Podcast Presents: Cheekz & Beatz Vol. I [Fall 2025]YouTube MusicSpotify Apple Music_______________________________Hosts:DMC:https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/deeemceeJeff:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/jefflevelsup_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/JustDrawz_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Music: "Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠⁠_______________________________Keywords:Same gender loving, SGL, vulnerability, healing, self-discovery, toxic masculinity, emotional strength, mental health, LGBTQ+, black and brown men, chosen family, personal growth, masculinity, queerness, self reflections, self improvement, self love, success, influence, masculinity, vulnerability, identity, childhood, role models, shame, self-perception, cultural differences, mental health, family dynamics, colorism, queerness, support, legacy, relationships, identity, safe spaces, personal growth, LGBTQIA_______________________________#JustDrawz#blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #applepodcasts #podcast #blackpodcaster #spotifypodcast #youtube #applepodcasts #youtubepodcast #gaypodcasts #LGBTpodcast #blackmen #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #fypシviralシfyp #selflove #success #masculinity #queerness #liberation #personalgrowth #healing #mentalhealth #lgbtq #LGBTQIA

The conversation continues between DMC, Jeff, and guest DeMarco Majors on the complexities of growing up as Black, same gender loving males. They explore themes of vulnerability, identity, and the impact of societal expectations on self-perception. They discuss early awareness of sexuality, the influence of family dynamics, and the role of cultural differences in shaping masculinity. The conversation highlights the importance of role models in the LGBTQ community and the challenges of navigating shame and performative masculinity. Through personal stories and insights, they emphasize the need for authenticity and connection to one's body and identity. In this conversation, the speakers delve into their personal experiences with family dynamics, colorism, and the journey of growing up queer. They discuss the importance of support systems, the impact of societal expectations, and the legacy they wish to leave behind. The dialogue emphasizes the need for safe spaces within the community and the significance of understanding one's identity in relationships. Be sure to check out Part 1. _______________________________Takeaways: Growing up gay often involves navigating shame and confusion.Early awareness of sexuality can be complex and nuanced.Cultural differences significantly impact perceptions of masculinity.Performative masculinity can be a survival mechanism.Exploring one's body and identity is essential for personal growth.Vulnerability is a strength, not a weakness. Family dynamics can shape personal choices and relationships.Support from family and friends is crucial for personal acceptance and growth.Creating safe spaces is essential for marginalized communities.It's important to acknowledge and address the struggles of others in the community.______________________________Listen to Our Summer 2025 Playlist:The Just Drawz Podcast Presents: Cheekz & Beatz Vol. I [Spring 2025]YouTube Music:⁠⁠https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTzaf4yOmTtwLZ43_C5MK5NDZtu49A_mg&si=qclBkWFenao4M9gU⁠⁠Spotify:⁠⁠https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2dkJDkB8ekDK1Rc4s8bZtw?si=aec470a275b2490d⁠⁠Apple Music: ⁠⁠https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-just-drawz-podcast-presents-cheekz-beatz-vol-i/pl.u-MDAWvo6uevJMem⁠⁠_______________________________Guest:DeMarco:⁠https://www.instagram.com/demajors/⁠Hosts:DMC:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠⁠Jeff:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@jefflevelsup⁠⁠⁠Spill - @jeffevelsup-⁠⁠⁠ https://spill.com/p/jefflevelsup?id=756127e9-e8f8-472f-8d94-062e3d4e9148⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/TheJustDrawz⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thejustdrawzpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/justdrawz.bsky.social⁠⁠_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Music:"Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Keywords:Same gender loving, SGL, vulnerability, healing, self-discovery, toxic masculinity, emotional strength, mental health, LGBTQ+, black and brown men, chosen family, personal growth, masculinity, queerness, self reflections, self improvement, self love, success, influence, masculinity, vulnerability, identity, childhood, role models, shame, self-perception, cultural differences, family dynamics, colorism,, support, legacy, relationships, identity, safe spaces, personal growth_______________________________

Guest DeMarco Majors, joins DMC and Jeff for a discussion on the complexities of growing up as Black, same gender loving males. They explore themes of vulnerability, identity, and the impact of societal expectations on self-perception. They discuss early awareness of sexuality, the influence of family dynamics, and the role of cultural differences in shaping masculinity. The conversation highlights the importance of role models in the LGBTQ community and the challenges of navigating shame and performative masculinity. Through personal stories and insights, they emphasize the need for authenticity and connection to one's body and identity. In this conversation, the speakers delve into their personal experiences with family dynamics, colorism, and the journey of growing up queer. They discuss the importance of support systems, the impact of societal expectations, and the legacy they wish to leave behind. The dialogue emphasizes the need for safe spaces within the community and the significance of understanding one's identity in relationships. The term, “Same Gender Loving” was first coined by activist Cleo Manago. Read more about the significance of SGL here: https://web.archive.org/web/20131015005535/http://bmxnational.org/faqs/what-is-same-gender-loving/_______________________________Takeaways: Growing up gay often involves navigating shame and confusion.Early awareness of sexuality can be complex and nuanced.Cultural differences significantly impact perceptions of masculinity.Performative masculinity can be a survival mechanism.Exploring one's body and identity is essential for personal growth.Vulnerability is a strength, not a weakness. Family dynamics can shape personal choices and relationships.Support from family and friends is crucial for personal acceptance and growth.Creating safe spaces is essential for marginalized communities.It's important to acknowledge and address the struggles of others in the community.______________________________Listen to Our Summer 2025 Playlist:The Just Drawz Podcast Presents: Cheekz & Beatz Vol. I [Spring 2025]YouTube Music:⁠https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTzaf4yOmTtwLZ43_C5MK5NDZtu49A_mg&si=qclBkWFenao4M9gU⁠Spotify:⁠https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2dkJDkB8ekDK1Rc4s8bZtw?si=aec470a275b2490d⁠Apple Music: ⁠https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-just-drawz-podcast-presents-cheekz-beatz-vol-i/pl.u-MDAWvo6uevJMem⁠_______________________________Guest:DeMarco:https://www.instagram.com/demajors/Hosts:DMC:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠Jeff:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@jefflevelsup⁠⁠Spill - @jeffevelsup-⁠⁠ https://spill.com/p/jefflevelsup?id=756127e9-e8f8-472f-8d94-062e3d4e9148⁠⁠_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/TheJustDrawz⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thejustdrawzpodcast⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/justdrawz.bsky.social⁠_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠_______________________________Music:"Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠⁠_______________________________Keywords:Same gender loving, SGL, vulnerability, healing, self-discovery, toxic masculinity, emotional strength, mental health, LGBTQ+, black and brown men, chosen family, personal growth, masculinity, queerness, self reflections, self improvement, self love, success, influence, masculinity, vulnerability, identity, childhood, role models, shame, self-perception, cultural differences, family dynamics, colorism,, support, legacy, relationships, identity, safe spaces, personal growth, _______________________________

Who inspires us? Who do we think is cute? Find out on this special bonus episode! Shout out to ATL Basement Studios for hosting this session and their production assistance. https://www.instagram.com/atlbasementstudio/_______________________________Takeaways: Recognizing compatibility earlier rather than later is key. Self-esteem plays a significant role in dating and attraction.Catfishing and misrepresentation is still and issue.It's essential to learn from each dating experience, whether good or bad.Navigating ex-relationships requires clear communication and boundaries.First dates should be low-stakes to foster genuine connections.Planning dates around mutual interests can enhance the experience.Understanding dating etiquette can help avoid awkward situations.______________________________Listen to Our Summer 2025 Playlist:The Just Drawz Podcast Presents: Cheekz & Beatz Vol. I [Spring 2025]YouTube Music:⁠https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTzaf4yOmTtwLZ43_C5MK5NDZtu49A_mg&si=qclBkWFenao4M9gU⁠Spotify:⁠https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2dkJDkB8ekDK1Rc4s8bZtw?si=aec470a275b2490d⁠Apple Music: ⁠https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-just-drawz-podcast-presents-cheekz-beatz-vol-i/pl.u-MDAWvo6uevJMem⁠_______________________________Hosts:DMC:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠⁠Jeff:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@jefflevelsup⁠⁠⁠Spill - @jeffevelsup-⁠⁠⁠ https://spill.com/p/jefflevelsup?id=756127e9-e8f8-472f-8d94-062e3d4e9148⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/TheJustDrawz⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thejustdrawzpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/justdrawz.bsky.social⁠⁠_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Music:"Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Keywords:dating, relationships, catfishing, dating experiences, dating tips, self-esteem, ex-relationships, dating etiquette, memorable dates, dating advice_______________________________#JustDrawz#blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #applepodcasts #podcast #blackpodcaster #spotifypodcast #youtube #applepodcasts #youtubepodcast #gaypodcasts #LGBTpodcast #blackmen #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #fypシviralシfyp  #dating #talkingstage #datingadvice #gaydating #gayconversations

We are back in the studio! This show, our conversation heads into the world of dating. We share our personal experiences with both good and bad dates. Should you end a date early? Do you know when there’s a “spark?” Why do people catfish with all of the technology we have to prove we are who we are?  We talk about the lessons we’ve learned and how to have an enjoyable time!“Just: The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly of Dating”Shout out to ATL Basement Studios for hosting this session and their production assistance. https://www.instagram.com/atlbasementstudio/_______________________________Takeaways: Recognizing compatibility earlier rather than later is key. Self-esteem plays a significant role in dating and attraction.Catfishing and misrepresentation is still and issue.It's essential to learn from each dating experience, whether good or bad.Navigating ex-relationships requires clear communication and boundaries.First dates should be low-stakes to foster genuine connections.Planning dates around mutual interests can enhance the experience.Understanding dating etiquette can help avoid awkward situations.______________________________Listen to Our Summer 2025 Playlist:The Just Drawz Podcast Presents: Cheekz & Beatz Vol. I [Spring 2025]YouTube Music:https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTzaf4yOmTtwLZ43_C5MK5NDZtu49A_mg&si=qclBkWFenao4M9gUSpotify:https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2dkJDkB8ekDK1Rc4s8bZtw?si=aec470a275b2490dApple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-just-drawz-podcast-presents-cheekz-beatz-vol-i/pl.u-MDAWvo6uevJMem_______________________________Hosts:DMC:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠Jeff:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@jefflevelsup⁠⁠Spill - @jeffevelsup-⁠⁠ https://spill.com/p/jefflevelsup?id=756127e9-e8f8-472f-8d94-062e3d4e9148⁠⁠_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/TheJustDrawz⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thejustdrawzpodcast⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/justdrawz.bsky.social⁠_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠_______________________________Music:"Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠⁠_______________________________Keywords:dating, relationships, catfishing, dating experiences, dating tips, self-esteem, ex-relationships, dating etiquette, memorable dates, dating advice_______________________________#JustDrawz#blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #applepodcasts #podcast #blackpodcaster #spotifypodcast #youtube #applepodcasts #youtubepodcast #gaypodcasts #LGBTpodcast #blackmen #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #fypシviralシfyp  #dating #talkingstage #datingadvice #gaydating #gayconversations

We welcome Anjeleigh back to JustDrawz as she and DMC explore the perplexing world of common sense—or the lack thereof. From personal anecdotes to societal observations, they discuss why common sense seems to be a rare commodity these days. Expect laughter and a touch of chaos as they have a candid conversation through topics like education, healthcare, and the quirks of everyday life."Just... Uncommon Common Sense"_______________________________"The Last of the Sunkist Soda" - ⁠https://drive.google.com/file/d/1_EbOK-TOxrwb-DTl1R2X2q0e6hn0ioXO/view?usp=sharing⁠ _______________________________Listen to Our Summer 2025 Playlist:The Just Drawz Podcast Presents: Cheekz & Beatz Vol. 2 [Summer 2025]YouTube Music:⁠https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTzaf4yOmTtxSzuDtZyKL8WbGnacTPykO⁠Spotify:⁠https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4hARKFatEu385YaxfPwlr5⁠Apple Music: ⁠https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-just-drawz-podcast-presents-cheekz-beatz-vol-ii/pl.u-XkD04oLtBxRPBA⁠_______________________________Guest:Anjeleigh: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/anjeleighpart1/Hosts:DMC:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Jeff:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@jefflevelsup⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spill - @jeffevelsup-⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://spill.com/p/jefflevelsup?id=756127e9-e8f8-472f-8d94-062e3d4e9148⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/TheJustDrawz⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thejustdrawzpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/justdrawz.bsky.social⁠⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Music:"Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Keywords:common sense, friendly conversation, medical help, mental health, education, book smarts, street smarts, _______________________________#blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #applepodcasts #podcast #blackpodcaster #spotifypodcast #youtube #applepodcasts #youtubepodcast #gaypodcasts #LGBTpodcast #blackmen #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #fypシviralシfyp #advice #askreddit #dearabby #help #advicecolumn #asktheelders #gayconversations #justdrawz_______________________________#JustDrawz

We are concluding this edition of Unsolicited Advice with some sexy topics. Selfies. Bath houses. Plain sex. We're giving our take on what we would do if put in the situations presented by some redditors. Take our advice if you want to... results not guaranteed. We are not telling you what to do... just what WE would do. Like our advice? Want us to do this again? Let us know in the comments!Or hit us up at [email protected]! "Just.. Unsolicited Advice 2 - Part 2" _______________________________Listen to Our Summer 2025 Playlist:The Just Drawz Podcast Presents: Cheekz & Beatz Vol. 2 [Summer 2025]YouTube Music:https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTzaf4yOmTtxSzuDtZyKL8WbGnacTPykOSpotify:https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4hARKFatEu385YaxfPwlr5Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-just-drawz-podcast-presents-cheekz-beatz-vol-ii/pl.u-XkD04oLtBxRPBA_______________________________Guest:Terico: http://⁠www.linktr.ee/terico29⁠Hosts:DMC:⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠⁠⁠Jeff:⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@jefflevelsup⁠⁠⁠⁠Spill - @jeffevelsup-⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://spill.com/p/jefflevelsup?id=756127e9-e8f8-472f-8d94-062e3d4e9148⁠⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/TheJustDrawz⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thejustdrawzpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/justdrawz.bsky.social⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Music:"Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Keywords:advice, podcast, unsolicited advice, dining alone, gay friendships, attraction, gym crush, weight loss, dating, personal growth, mental health, weight loss, self-image, confidence, gay culture, body positivity, health, dating, selfies, public nudity, vanilla sex_______________________________#blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #applepodcasts #podcast #blackpodcaster #spotifypodcast #youtube #applepodcasts #youtubepodcast #gaypodcasts #LGBTpodcast #blackmen #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #fypシviralシfyp #advice #askreddit #dearabby #help #advicecolumn #asktheelders #gayconversations#justdrawz_______________________________#JustDrawz

Once again, we found some random people looking for help on a few subreddits and we are giving our takes on what we would do in these situations. We were not asked. We just did it. It's Unsolicited Advice! We're tackling how to deal with friends trying to push up on your man, a Black guy working on finding other Black men attractive, approaching that gym crush, and how to go about a fitness journey. This time, we are joined by Terico!Take our advice if you want to... results not guaranteed. We are not telling you what to do... just what WE would do. Like our advice? Want us to do this again? Let us know in the comments!"Just.. Unsolicited Advice 2" _______________________________Listen to Our Spring 2025 Playlist:The Just Drawz Podcast Presents: Cheekz & Beatz Vol. I [Spring 2025]YouTube Music:⁠https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTzaf4yOmTtwLZ43_C5MK5NDZtu49A_mg&si=qclBkWFenao4M9gU⁠Spotify:⁠https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2dkJDkB8ekDK1Rc4s8bZtw?si=aec470a275b2490d⁠Apple Music: ⁠https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-just-drawz-podcast-presents-cheekz-beatz-vol-i/pl.u-MDAWvo6uevJMem⁠_______________________________Guest:Terico: www.linktr.ee/terico29Hosts:DMC:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠⁠Jeff:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@jefflevelsup⁠⁠⁠Spill - @jeffevelsup-⁠⁠⁠ https://spill.com/p/jefflevelsup?id=756127e9-e8f8-472f-8d94-062e3d4e9148⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/TheJustDrawz⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thejustdrawzpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/justdrawz.bsky.social⁠⁠_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Music:"Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠⁠⁠_______________________________Keywords:advice, podcast, unsolicited advice, dining alone, gay friendships, attraction, gym crush, weight loss, dating, personal growth, mental health, weight loss, self-image, confidence, gay culture, body positivity, health, dating, selfies, public nudity, vanilla sex_______________________________#blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #applepodcasts #podcast #blackpodcaster #spotifypodcast #youtube #applepodcasts #youtubepodcast #gaypodcasts #LGBTpodcast #blackmen #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #fypシviralシfyp #advice #askreddit #dearabby #help #advicecolumn #asktheelders #gayconversations#justdrawz_______________________________#JustDrawz#blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #applepodcasts #podcast #blackpodcaster #spotifypodcast #youtube #applepodcasts #youtubepodcast #gaypodcasts #LGBTpodcast #blackmen #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #fypシviralシfyp #selflove #success #masculinity #queerness #liberation #personalgrowth #healing #mentalhealth #lgbtq #LGBTQIA #gayfem #masc4masc #fem4fem #mascformasc #gayconversations #gendertheory #queerissues #masculinity #masc4masc #queer4queer #femme #butchqueen #gayconversations #judithbutler

In this episode, we dig into performative queerness—how queer identity is expressed, curated, and sometimes judged in today’s world. We talk social media, authenticity, fast fashion, family dynamics, and the pressure to perform for both online and offline audiences. It’s a real conversation about identity, expression, and the power of being true to yourself—even when the world’s watching.  We wrap up with ways one can unlearn and check one’s own performativity as well. “Just… Unclear for Queer”Shout-out to Judith Butler: Queer performativity is rooted in her work where she argued that gender is not something one is, but something one does through repeated acts. When we put that in terms of queer theorising, it is about delinking gender, sex and sexuality (Lind, 2009) by showing that these elements do not have a linear relationship to each other based on biology. So, for the purpose of this episode, we wanted to address what her work in ‘gender performativity’ means for queerness today.Lind, A. (2009). Governing intimacy, struggling for sexual rights: Challenging heteronormativity in the global development industry. Development, 52(1), 34-42._______________________________Takeaways: - Queer identity is constructed through behavior, not fixed by nature.- Social media shapes—and often pressures—how queerness is presented.- Authenticity is essential, but hard to maintain in curated spaces.- Style and self-expression are valid forms of queer identity.- Family, community, and social dynamics impact how we show up.- Unlearning performance can lead to more honest, grounded queerness._______________________________Listen to Our Spring 2025 Playlist:The Just Drawz Podcast Presents: Cheekz & Beatz Vol. I [Spring 2025]YouTube Music:https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTzaf4yOmTtwLZ43_C5MK5NDZtu49A_mg&si=qclBkWFenao4M9gUSpotify:https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2dkJDkB8ekDK1Rc4s8bZtw?si=aec470a275b2490dApple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-just-drawz-podcast-presents-cheekz-beatz-vol-i/pl.u-MDAWvo6uevJMem_______________________________Hosts:DMC:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠Jeff:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@jefflevelsup⁠⁠Spill - @jeffevelsup-⁠⁠ https://spill.com/p/jefflevelsup?id=756127e9-e8f8-472f-8d94-062e3d4e9148⁠⁠_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/TheJustDrawz⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thejustdrawzpodcast⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/justdrawz.bsky.social⁠_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠_______________________________Music:"Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠⁠_______________________________Keywords:Keywordsvulnerability, healing, self-discovery, toxic masculinity, emotional strength, mental health, LGBTQ+, black and brown men, chosen family, personal growth, masculinity, queerness, self reflections, self improvement, self love, success, influence, _______________________________#JustDrawz#blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #applepodcasts #podcast #blackpodcaster #spotifypodcast #youtube #applepodcasts #youtubepodcast #gaypodcasts #LGBTpodcast #blackmen #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #fypシviralシfyp #selflove #success #masculinity #queerness #liberation #personalgrowth #healing #mentalhealth #lgbtq #LGBTQIA #gayfem #masc4masc #fem4fem #mascformasc #gayconversations #gendertheory #queerissues #masculinity #masc4masc #queer4queer #femme #butchqueen #gayconversations #judithbutler

We welcome Joshua Cruz to the show in a discussion on vulnerability, healing, and the impact of toxic masculinity on emotional expression, particularly for Black and brown gay men.  We discuss the importance of self-discovery during, the journey of unlearning negative self-perceptions, and the role of chosen family in personal growth. Joshua shares his experiences with vulnerability, the challenges of online criticism, and the significance of embracing one's softness. "Just... Serving Vulnerability Realness with Joshua Cruz"_______________________________Takeaways: Vulnerability is often seen as a weakness, but it is actually a strength.The pandemic forced many to confront their inner struggles and traumas.Unlearning negative self-perceptions is crucial for personal growth.Toxic masculinity can hinder emotional expression and connection.Journaling is a powerful tool for self-discovery and understanding.Chosen family plays a vital role in supporting one's healing journey.It's important to set boundaries while remaining open to emotional connections.Healing does not mean you are broken; it means you are brave.True love comes from being your authentic self.Facing your truth is essential for personal growth._______________________________Listen to Our Spring 2025 Playlist:The Just Drawz Podcast Presents: Cheekz & Beatz Vol. I [Spring 2025]YouTube Music:https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTzaf4yOmTtwLZ43_C5MK5NDZtu49A_mg&si=qclBkWFenao4M9gUSpotify:https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2dkJDkB8ekDK1Rc4s8bZtw?si=aec470a275b2490dApple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-just-drawz-podcast-presents-cheekz-beatz-vol-i/pl.u-MDAWvo6uevJMem_______________________________Hosts:Guest:Joshua:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCaFWXTq-HYR5TmWoiAij2ywhttps://www.instagram.com/joshuamichaelcruz/reels/?hl=enhttps://www.tiktok.com/@joshuamichaelcruzDMC:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠Jeff:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@jefflevelsup⁠⁠Spill - @jeffevelsup-⁠⁠ https://spill.com/p/jefflevelsup?id=756127e9-e8f8-472f-8d94-062e3d4e9148⁠⁠_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/TheJustDrawz⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thejustdrawzpodcast⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/justdrawz.bsky.social⁠_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠_______________________________Music:"Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠⁠_______________________________Keywords:Keywordsvulnerability, healing, self-discovery, toxic masculinity, emotional strength, mental health, LGBTQ+, black and brown men, chosen family, personal growth, masculinity, queerness, self reflections, self improvement, self love, success, influence, _______________________________#justdrawz #blackpodcast #spotify #applepodcasts #podcast #blackpodcaster #spotifypodcast #youtube #applepodcasts #youtubepodcast #gaypodcasts #LGBTpodcast #blackmen #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #fypシviralシfyp #selflove #success #masculinity #queerness #liberation #personalgrowth #healing #mentalhealth #lgbtq #lgbtqia #gayconversations

The Talking Stage timeline debate from Twitter and X was too irresistible for us not to tackle on Just Drawz. We break down the progression of dating in to six stages. Is your "Talking Stage" another man's "Dating Stage?" Let's align on what these mean and provide our perspective and give you some of our personal stories. "Just... The Six Stages of Dating"_______________________________Takeaways: Every stage of this dating journey has its own lessons.Some people are milestone based while others are chronological based for progression.It's important to communicate openly about feelings and expectations.Respecting each other's space is crucial in a relationship.Understanding your partner's love language can enhance the relationship.Labels in relationships help define boundaries for others.There is no perfect timeline for relationships; it's about what works for you. _______________________________Listen to Our Spring 2025 Playlist:The Just Drawz Podcast Presents: Cheekz & Beatz Vol. I [Spring 2025]YouTube Music:https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTzaf4yOmTtwLZ43_C5MK5NDZtu49A_mg&si=qclBkWFenao4M9gUSpotify:https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2dkJDkB8ekDK1Rc4s8bZtw?si=aec470a275b2490dApple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-just-drawz-podcast-presents-cheekz-beatz-vol-i/pl.u-MDAWvo6uevJMem_______________________________Hosts:DMC:⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠Jeff:⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@jefflevelsup⁠Spill - @jeffevelsup-⁠ https://spill.com/p/jefflevelsup?id=756127e9-e8f8-472f-8d94-062e3d4e9148⁠_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠https://x.com/TheJustDrawz⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thejustdrawzpodcast⁠https://bsky.app/profile/justdrawz.bsky.social_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠_______________________________Music:"Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠_______________________________

Make sure you catch Part 1!This conversation concludes with this episode. We're talking about sex education for queer people, the aftermaths of our transitions from "straight" to gay, and throw it back a bit to when we came out."Just... The First Time Part 2"_______________________________Takeaways: Everyone has a unique first time story.First sexual experiences shape our understanding of intimacy.Myths about sex can lead to confusion and anxiety.Learning about sex often starts with media exposure.First encounters can be awkward and unplanned.Expectations around sex can vary greatly among individuals.Vulnerability is key in discussing personal experiences. Many people do not receive proper sexual education from their parents.School often serves as the primary source of sexual knowledge for many.Open conversations about sex are crucial for healthy development.Sex education should encompass emotional intelligence alongside physical aspects.Experiences with sexual partners can build confidence over time.Navigating relationships can be complex, especially in the LGBTQ+ community.The stigma around discussing sex can hinder open communication.Hookup culture varies greatly among individuals and their experiences._______________________________Hosts:DMC:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠⁠Jeff:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@jefflevelsup⁠⁠Spill - @jeffevelsup-⁠⁠ https://spill.com/p/jefflevelsup?id=756127e9-e8f8-472f-8d94-062e3d4e9148⁠⁠_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://x.com/TheJustDrawz⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thejustdrawzpodcast⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/justdrawz.bsky.social⁠_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠_______________________________Music:"Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠⁠_______________________________sexual experiences, first time stories, vulnerability, relationships, LGBTQ, myths about sex, personal stories, intimacy, self-discovery, sexual education, LGBTQ+, relationships, intimacy, coming out, sexual experiences, confidence, advice, hookup culture, emotional intelligence, virginity, gold star gays, gay virginity_______________________________#JustDrawz#blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #applepodcasts #podcast #blackpodcaster #spotifypodcast #youtube #applepodcasts #youtubepodcast #gaypodcasts #LGBTpodcast #blackmen #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #fypシviralシfyp #firsttime #virginity #goldstargay #puberty #sexed #sexeducation #gayvirginity #blackgaytalk #gayconversations

We're talking about our first sexual experiences, our personal stories, societal myths, and the evolution of intimacy.  We share some of our humorous experiences, misconceptions we were told about sex, and discuss the impact of our first... entanglements and our current perspectives. This is a candid and insightful conversation about our youth and our sexuality."Just... The First Time"_______________________________Takeaways: Everyone has a unique first time story.First sexual experiences shape our understanding of intimacy.Myths about sex can lead to confusion and anxiety.Learning about sex often starts with media exposure.First encounters can be awkward and unplanned.Expectations around sex can vary greatly among individuals.Vulnerability is key in discussing personal experiences. Many people do not receive proper sexual education from their parents.School often serves as the primary source of sexual knowledge for many.Open conversations about sex are crucial for healthy development.Sex education should encompass emotional intelligence alongside physical aspects.Experiences with sexual partners can build confidence over time.Navigating relationships can be complex, especially in the LGBTQ+ community.The stigma around discussing sex can hinder open communication.Hookup culture varies greatly among individuals and their experiences._______________________________Hosts:DMC:⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠Jeff:⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@jefflevelsup⁠Spill - @jeffevelsup-⁠ https://spill.com/p/jefflevelsup?id=756127e9-e8f8-472f-8d94-062e3d4e9148⁠_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠https://x.com/TheJustDrawz⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thejustdrawzpodcast⁠https://bsky.app/profile/justdrawz.bsky.social_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠_______________________________Music:"Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠_______________________________sexual experiences, first time stories, vulnerability, relationships, LGBTQ, myths about sex, personal stories, intimacy, self-discovery, sexual education, LGBTQ+, relationships, intimacy, coming out, sexual experiences, confidence, advice, hookup culture, emotional intelligence, virginity, gold star gays, gay virginity_______________________________#JustDrawz#blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #applepodcasts #podcast #blackpodcaster #spotifypodcast #youtube #applepodcasts #youtubepodcast #gaypodcasts #LGBTpodcast #blackmen #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #fypシviralシfyp #firsttime #virginity #goldstargay #puberty #sexed #sexeducation #gayvirginity #blackgaytalk #gayconversations

In this episode, Darius opens up about the real meaning of blood family versus chosen family, especially within the LGBTQ+ community. He reflects on childhood experiences, growing up as a quiet, chubby kid with Sears Toughskins jeans, and how early lessons in independence and self-discovery shaped his understanding of family.From navigating college life and finding his tribe, to challenging old-school beliefs about identity, Darius shares personal stories about building lasting connections with his chosen family—those who offer unconditional support, understanding, and love without judgment.Along the way, using humor, honesty, and heart, he explores the boundaries, blessings, and even the bittersweet goodbyes that come with growing and evolving relationships."Just Thoughts: Blood VS Chosen Family"_______________________________Takeaways: Blood family shares your DNA, but chosen family often shares your soul.Friendships and chosen connections require intentional care and sometimes tough boundaries.Growth often means re-evaluating who has access to the most personal parts of your life. Just because someone is blood doesn't mean they automatically get a backstage pass to your life.Not everyone you lose was meant to stay—and that's okay.Community isn’t just a nice-to-have; it’s a need for survival and thriving, especially for marginalized folks.Love, loyalty, and understanding can come from unexpected places—and those bonds can be just as strong (if not stronger) than blood ties.Chosen family often sees the real you before you even fully recognize yourself.It's okay to compartmentalize relationships to protect your peace and mental health.The bonds you build through shared dreams, struggles, and wins can be deeper than DNA.Setting boundaries isn’t disrespect—it’s self-respect.Sometimes the people you meet on your journey are the ones who teach you the meaning of home.Emotional support doesn’t always come from where you expect—but it always comes when you need it most.Your story (even the crunchy, messy parts) can be a roadmap for somebody else's healing._______________________________Hosts:DMC:⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠Jeff:⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@jefflevelsup⁠Spill - @jeffevelsup-⁠ https://spill.com/p/jefflevelsup?id=756127e9-e8f8-472f-8d94-062e3d4e9148⁠_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠https://x.com/TheJustDrawz⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thejustdrawzpodcast⁠https://bsky.app/profile/justdrawz.bsky.social_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠_______________________________Music:"Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠_______________________________family dynamics, chosen family, LGBTQ+, emotional support, personal growth, relationships, acceptance, community, self-discovery, vulnerability_______________________________#blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #podcast #blackpodcaster #youtube #applepodcasts #trailertuesday #youtubepodcast #gaycreators #blackpodcasting #LGBTQpodcast #blackmen #lgbtqia #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #LGBGQIA #JustDrawz

In this conversation, DMC and Dr. David Glover explore the intersection of spirituality, identity, and the experiences of Black gay men within the church. They discuss the challenges of reconciling faith with sexual identity, the impact of church teachings on mental health, and the duality of church as both a refuge and a place of rejection. Dr. Glover shares his personal journey and initiatives aimed at supporting disenfranchised individuals, emphasizing the importance of community and acceptance.This episode talks about the misconceptions surrounding faith, and the need for a more inclusive approach to spirituality. The dialogue emphasizes the significance of personal relationships with God, the role of physical presence in spiritual practices, and the gradual process required for acceptance and change within religious institutions. “Just: A Matter of Faith”_______________________________Takeaways: The church can be both a refuge and a place of rejection.Reconciling faith and identity is a complex journey.Many black gay men face stigma within religious communities.The teachings of the church can have lasting impacts on mental health.Community support is crucial for healing and acceptance.Faith and identity do not have to be mutually exclusive.Conversations about spirituality need to be inclusive and affirming. Pride and arrogance in faith communities often stem from historical oppression.Questioning authority in faith is essential for personal growth.Churches often prioritize repetition over true understanding of scripture.The expectations placed on church leaders can create unrealistic pressures.Accountability in faith is often shifted to church leaders, removing personal responsibility.Gay-affirming churches serve as beacons of hope for marginalized communities.The concept of God as love is central to understanding faith.The black church has a long way to go in embracing LGBTQ+ individuals.Change within the church requires patience and strategic dialogue.Community support is vital for those facing church hurt._______________________________Guest:Dr. David Glover:Website: https://DrDavidNGlover.comEmail: [email protected]://www.linkedin.com/company/ilikeme/https://www.facebook.com/share/16Q7oN2JKp/?mibextid=wwXIfrHosts:DMC:⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠Jeff:⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@jefflevelsup⁠Spill - @jeffevelsup-⁠ https://spill.com/p/jefflevelsup?id=756127e9-e8f8-472f-8d94-062e3d4e9148⁠_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠https://x.com/TheJustDrawz⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thejustdrawzpodcast⁠https://bsky.app/profile/justdrawz.bsky.social_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠_______________________________Music:"Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠_______________________________spirituality, identity, faith, LGBTQ, church, stigma, community, reconciliation, black gay men, mental health, faith, church, accountability, pride, questioning authority, gay-affirming, healing, community, logic, spirituality, church dynamics, LGBTQ+ inclusion, spirituality, faith identity, black church, belonging, empowerment, self-acceptance, community support, religious coping_______________________________#blackchurch #blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #applepodcasts #podcast #blackpodcaster #youtube #applepodcasts #indie #youtubepodcast #gaycreators #blackpodcasting #LGBTQpodcast #blackmen #lgbtqia #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #gaymen #fypシ #fyp#lgbtchurch #InclusiveChurch #affirmingchurch #cogic #amechurch #lgbtchristian

We welcome sex therapist Machel Hunt to Just Drawz to discuss the importance of intimacy, communication, and understanding in relationships. We explore common misconceptions about sexual health, the significance of honest communication, and the challenges of discussing kinks and desires.We talk about hoe phases, b8 culture, kinks, sexual exploration, and more!  “Just: Sexy, Healthy, and Wise”_______________________________Takeaways: Healthy communication starts with honesty.Unspoken expectations in relationships can lead to disappointments.Evolving relationships require ongoing communication.Understanding one's own desires is crucial for healthy relationships.The 'hoe phase' is a common experience.Casual relationships can sometimes serve as placeholders for deeper connections.Group self pleasure has evolved from a safety measure to a recognized kink.Understanding what constitutes cheating is crucial in relationships.Performance anxiety is common and can stem from various factors.All body types are valid and should be embraced in intimate contexts. Learn to be comfortable with your body size.Pornography often sets unrealistic sexual expectations.Finding partners who appreciate your body is crucial.Therapy can help individuals navigate their sexual identity.Sex parties and hookup culture are evolving post-COVID.Resources like https://itgetsbetter.org/ can provide support for gay men._______________________________Guest:Machel Hunt:https://www.instagram.com/relationshipandsexdoc/https://www.sextherapyforyou.com/https://www.facebook.com/atlsexdoc/Hosts:DMC:⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠Jeff:⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@jefflevelsup⁠Spill - @jeffevelsup-⁠ https://spill.com/p/jefflevelsup?id=756127e9-e8f8-472f-8d94-062e3d4e9148⁠_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠https://x.com/TheJustDrawz⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thejustdrawzpodcast⁠https://bsky.app/profile/justdrawz.bsky.social_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠_______________________________Music:"Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠_______________________________sex therapy, intimacy, communication, sexual health, relationships, misconceptions, kinks, expectations, accountability, spontaneity, spontaneity, emotional safety, hoe phase, casual relationships, baiting culture, performance anxiety, intimacy, sexual health, boundaries, communication, body image, sexual health, porn, emotional connection, sexual identity, therapy, self-acceptance, hookup culture, gay men, mental health, relationships, LGBTQIA, societal expectations, authenticity, dating, content creators, casual sex, sex, gay sex_______________________________#Sextalk #contentcreators #blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #podcast #blackpodcaster #youtube #applepodcasts #trailertuesday #youtubepodcast #gaycreators #blackpodcasting #LGBTQpodcast #blackmen #lgbtqia #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #masc4masc #maleidentity #LGBGQIA #sexeducation #sextherapy #JustDrawz

On this show, we discuss the concept of performative masculinity within the Black gay community, drawing on Judith Butler's theories of gender as a social construct. We touch on how societal pressures shape masculine identities, the everyday manifestations of masculinity, and personal experiences with conforming to these expectations. Does the perception of masculinity affect dating and relationship choices? What influence, if any, do women have on society's view of masculinity? We get into these questions and more! “Just: Mask for Masc”_______________________________Takeaways: Performative masculinity is influenced by societal pressures.Judith Butler's theory challenges the notion of fixed gender identities.Masculinity is often performed to fit cultural norms.Everyday actions can reflect deeper societal expectations of masculinity.Personal experiences reveal the struggle with conforming to masculine ideals.Role models play a significant role in shaping perceptions of masculinity.The pressure to conform can lead to emotional distress.Black men face unique challenges in navigating masculinity.Understanding performative masculinity can foster greater acceptance.Open discussions about masculinity can help dismantle harmful stereotypes. Men often suppress emotions to conform to societal expectations.As people mature, they often become more accepting of different expressions of masculinity.Policing masculinity can lead to harmful stereotypes and stigma.Fluidity in sexuality should be embraced, not shamed.Women also play a role in defining masculinity through societal expectations.Authenticity is crucial for personal happiness and healthy relationships._______________________________Hosts:DMC:⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠Jeff:⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@jefflevelsup⁠Spill - @jeffevelsup-⁠ https://spill.com/p/jefflevelsup?id=756127e9-e8f8-472f-8d94-062e3d4e9148⁠_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠https://x.com/TheJustDrawz⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thejustdrawzpodcast⁠https://bsky.app/profile/justdrawz.bsky.social_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠_______________________________Music:"Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠_______________________________performative masculinity, black gay community, Judith Butler, gender theory, societal expectations, masculinity pressure, personal experiences, role models, cultural norms, identity, masculinity, emotional expression, relationships, LGBTQ, societal expectations, authenticity, self-acceptance, dating, gender roles, self-discovery_______________________________#AsAMan #blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #podcast #blackpodcaster #youtube #applepodcasts #trailertuesday #youtubepodcast #gaycreators #blackpodcasting #LGBTQpodcast #blackmen #lgbtqia #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #masc4masc #maleidentity #LGBGQIA #malemasculinity #masculine #masculinity #gendertheory #performativemasculinity #JustDrawz

The clocks have sprung forward, the daylight is saved, and it’s heating up outside!Just in time for the start of vacation season, we welcome Steve Johnson to the show to discuss the significance of travel within the LGBTQ community.We explore the evolving landscape of LGBTQ+ travel, the importance of choosing the right destinations, and the representation of people of color in the travel industry. Steve shares his experiences promoting Thailand as a welcoming destination for LGBTQ travelers and discusses the challenges and opportunities that lie ahead for the community in the travel sector. In this conversationWe explore how to research safe travel destinations, the significance of word-of-mouth recommendations, and the resources available for LGBTQ+ travelers. We talk about passport bros, memorable travel experiences, and insights into solo travel.Just... Phuket! Let's Bangkok and Trip Out! with Steve_______________________________Takeaways: Travel is a significant aspect of the LGBTQ community.Choosing the right destination is crucial for a fulfilling travel experience.Thailand is a leading destination for LGBTQ travelers.The travel industry is evolving to better support LGBTQ+ individuals.Representation of people of color in the travel industry is still lacking.Researching destinations can enhance travel experiences.LGBTQ+ travel spending is a significant part of the travel industry.There are many welcoming destinations for LGBTQ travelers beyond Thailand.Traveling as a person of color can present unique challenges.The future of LGBTQ+ travel looks promising with increasing representation. Empathy and respect for other cultures are essential in travel.Researching destinations can enhance safety and inclusivity.Word of mouth is a powerful tool for gathering travel insights.LGBTQ+ travel resources are crucial for informed decision-making.Sex tourism is a reality in many travel destinations.Traveling solo can lead to immersive experiences.Knowledge is power when planning trips.Understanding local laws can help in making informed travel choices.Travel advisors can provide valuable insights for planning trips._______________________________Guest:Steve:https://www.instagram.com/blackgaydadluxurytravel2/[email protected]_______________________________Key Links:International LGBTQ+ Travel Associationhttps://www.iglta.org/Thailand Insiderhttps://thailandinsider.com/_______________________________Hosts:DMC:⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠Jeff:⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@jefflevelsup⁠Spill - @jeffevelsup-⁠ https://spill.com/p/jefflevelsup?id=756127e9-e8f8-472f-8d94-062e3d4e9148⁠_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠https://x.com/TheJustDrawz⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thejustdrawzpodcast⁠https://bsky.app/profile/justdrawz.bsky.social_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠_______________________________Music:"Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠_______________________________Travel, gay vacation, gaycation, international destinations, destinations, Thailand, Asian travel, Asia, black gay travel, gay travel, passport, _______________________________#blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #applepodcasts #podcast #podcastingwhileblack #blackpodcaster #spotifypodcast #youtube #lgbtqmentalhealth #realtalk #applepodcasts #blackgaymentalhealth #youtubepodcast #gaycreators #blackpodcasting #gaypodcasts #LGBTpodcast #blackmen #podcastforblackgaymen #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #blackmentalhealth #mentalhealth #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #fypシviralシfyp #JustDrawz

This conversation delves into the complexities of relationships, particularly focusing on the themes of dishonesty, infidelity, and the emotional ramifications of cheating. The guys explore the differences between emotional and physical infidelity, share personal experiences with cheating, and discuss the challenges of non-monogamous relationships. They emphasize the importance of communication and trust in navigating these issues and consider the potential for recovery after infidelity, highlighting the need for emotional maturity and open dialogue.Just... Saving All My Stolen Moments As We Lay_______________________________Takeaways: Dishonesty can lead to questioning everything in a relationship.Emotional infidelity often feels more significant than physical infidelity.Communication is key in non-monogamous relationships.Cheating can stem from unmet emotional needs.Recovery from infidelity requires emotional maturity and introspection.Trust can be rebuilt, but it takes time and effort.It's important to have exhaustive conversations about infidelity.People often cheat due to a lack of communication with their partners.Understanding the reasons behind cheating can aid in recovery.Setting boundaries and having clear conversations is essential in relationships._____________________________Hosts:DMC:⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠Jeff:⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@jefflevelsup⁠Spill - @jeffevelsup-⁠ https://spill.com/p/jefflevelsup?id=756127e9-e8f8-472f-8d94-062e3d4e9148⁠_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠https://x.com/TheJustDrawz⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thejustdrawzpodcast⁠https://bsky.app/profile/justdrawz.bsky.social_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠_______________________________Music:"Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠_______________________________dating, relationships, exes, boundaries, personal growth, friendship, cultural perspectives, small dating pool, acceptance, community support, gay dating, grindr, jackd, hornet, dating aps, friends, courting, ltr, successful relationships, romance, acquaintance, partners, boyfriend, gay, gay relationships, platonic, romantic, cheating, infidelity, breakups, breaking up, _______________________________#blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #applepodcasts #podcast #podcastingwhileblack #blackpodcaster #spotifypodcast #youtube #lgbtqmentalhealth #realtalk #applepodcasts #blackgaymentalhealth #youtubepodcast #gaycreators #blackpodcasting #gaypodcasts #LGBTpodcast #blackmen #podcastforblackgaymen #blackgaymen #breakingup #cheating #infidelity #cheaters #unfaithful  #blackpodcastnetwork #blackmentalhealth #mentalhealth #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #fypシviralシfyp #JustDrawz

We are covering a lot of topics this season with a bunch of guests! Travel. Cheating. Performative Masculinity. Dating. Casual Sex. Advice. Religion. Like and subcribe! And be sure to catch up on previous seasons as well!

It's here! It's here! Season 3!!!Just Drawz - The Podcast starts our new season with a bang! Special guest Lamont White sits in with DMC and Jeff for a rousing conversation on dating in 2025. We're talking dating apps, profile pictures, ghosting, and intentional dating. From top to bottom to all of the sides around and in between, we get into it.Just... Shooting the Breeze with Lamont White_______________________________Takeaways- Men don't know how to or don't want to court anymore.- Dating apps can be effective if used correctly.- Flirting is essential in dating.- You need to see potential partners in different environments.- Building relationships requires effort and management.- Communication is key in addressing relationship issues.- Confrontation is necessary for clarity in relationships.- Uncomfortable conversations are essential for long-term success.- Clear communication about intentions is crucial in dating.- Ghosting often stems from emotional immaturity.- It's important to identify serious relationships versus casual ones.- Dating multiple people requires honesty and transparency.- Sexual compatibility is a key factor in dating.- Rejection is not a reflection of your worth.- Taking breaks from dating can help recharge your mindset.- It's important to embrace loneliness and focus on self-care._______________________________Guest:Lamont White:https://www.instagram.com/thegaydatingcoach/https://www.betterwaytomeet.com_______________________________Hosts:DMC:⁠https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/⁠⁠https://x.com/DMCureton⁠Jeff:⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@jefflevelsup⁠Spill - @jeffevelsup-⁠ https://spill.com/p/jefflevelsup?id=756127e9-e8f8-472f-8d94-062e3d4e9148⁠_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:⁠https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/⁠⁠https://x.com/TheJustDrawz⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@thejustdrawzpodcast⁠https://bsky.app/profile/justdrawz.bsky.social_______________________________Edited and produced by:⁠https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social⁠_______________________________Music:"Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -⁠https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/⁠_______________________________dating, relationships, exes, boundaries, personal growth, friendship, cultural perspectives, small dating pool, acceptance, community support, gay dating, grindr, jackd, hornet, dating aps, friends, courting, ltr, successful relationships, romance, acquaintance, partners, boyfriend, gay, gay relationships, platonic, romantic_______________________________#blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #applepodcasts #podcast #podcastingwhileblack #blackpodcaster #spotifypodcast #youtube #lgbtqmentalhealth #realtalk #applepodcasts #blackgaymentalhealth #youtubepodcast #gaycreators #blackpodcasting #gaypodcasts #LGBTpodcast #blackmen #podcastforblackgaymen #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #blackmentalhealth #mentalhealth #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #fypシviralシfyp #JustDrawz_______________________________

Grab your popcorn, and pour up a drink.In this restored episode, all four of the original Just Drawz hosts have a discussion on navigating the possibility of dating a friend’s ex. This episode was originally recorded in the fall of 2023. This is an edited version of that discussion. We have removed personal and sensitive details while maintaining each host’s thoughts and the sprit of the conversation. As Brandon, Darius, Jeff, and Sean share their views on this controversial subject, you’ll hear each of their stances and their reasoning. What is okay for you may not be okay for someone else. This is a discussion about setting boundaries and navigating the ever shrinking gay dating pool.Just... Dating Exes: The Lost Episode_______________________________Takeaways- Dating is often misconstrued as exclusivity rather than exploration.- Boundaries regarding exes can vary significantly among individuals.- Personal growth allows for acceptance of friends dating exes.- The dating pool, especially in the gay community, is often limited.- Cultural perspectives influence how dating is perceived and practiced.- It's important to communicate feelings about dating exes with friends.- Moving on from relationships can lead to healthier friendships.- Awkwardness is a natural part of navigating relationships with mutual connections.- Support within communities is essential for personal growth.- Understanding and respecting boundaries can strengthen friendships._______________________________Hosts:DMC:https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/https://x.com/DMCuretonJeff:https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.socialhttps://www.tiktok.com/@jefflevelsupSpill - @jeffevelsup- https://spill.com/p/jefflevelsup?id=756127e9-e8f8-472f-8d94-062e3d4e9148_______________________________Just Drawz on Social Media:https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/https://x.com/TheJustDrawzhttps://www.tiktok.com/@thejustdrawzpodcasthttps://bsky.app/profile/justdrawz.bsky.social_______________________________Edited and produced by:https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/⁠⁠https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social_______________________________Music:"Neptunes" - by Black Assassin - https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/_______________________________dating, relationships, exes, boundaries, personal growth, friendship, cultural perspectives, small dating pool, acceptance, community support, gay dating, grindr, jackd, hornet, dating aps, friends, frienemy, acquaintance, partners, boyfriend, gay, gay relationships, platonic, romantic_______________________________#blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #applepodcasts #podcast #podcastingwhileblack #blackpodcaster #spotifypodcast #youtube #lgbtqmentalhealth #realtalk #applepodcasts #blackgaymentalhealth #youtubepodcast #gaycreators #blackpodcasting #gaypodcasts #LGBTpodcast #blackmen #podcastforblackgaymen #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #blackmentalhealth #mentalhealth #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #fypシviralシfyp #JustDrawz_______________________________

Surprise, surprise! Here's special episode ahead of our third season. With the inauguration coming up, we felt we needed to talk about the results of the election. We welcome Ben back to the podcast to discuss the aftermath of the 2024 US Presidential election. We continue the conversation on voter behavior and turnout, challenges that faced Kamala Harris, and how to navigate political conversations in person and online. https://docs.google.com/forms/d/11KfgxiVCHyMAmJUJk7OG-9buon89qLKci98QINr-4ZQ/edit _______________________________ Hosts: DMC: https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/ https://x.com/DMCureton Jeff: https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/ https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.socia lhttps://www.tiktok.com/@jefflevelsup Spill - @jeffevelsup- https://spill.com/p/jefflevelsup?id=756127e9-e8f8-472f-8d94-062e3d4e9148 _______________________________ Just Drawz on Social Media: https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/ https://x.com/TheJustDrawz https://www.tiktok.com/@thejustdrawzpodcast https://bsky.app/profile/justdrawz.bsky.social _______________________________ Edited and produced by: https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/ https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/ _______________________________ Music:"Neptunes" - by Black Assassin - https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/ _______________________________ US presidential election, political analysis, voter turnout, election aftermath, Kamala Harris, Barack Obama, racism, sexism, xenophobia, economy, political engagement, voter support, Latino influence, political identity, future elections, emotional responses, political conversations, billionaires, politics, economic concerns, political polarization, inauguration, public perception, celebrity backlash, protecting peace _______________________________ #blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #applepodcasts #podcast #podcastingwhileblack #blackpodcaster #spotifypodcast #youtube #lgbtqmentalhealth #realtalk #applepodcasts #blackgaymentalhealth #youtubepodcast #gaycreators #blackpodcasting #gaypodcasts #LGBTpodcast #blackmen #podcastforblackgaymen #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #blackmentalhealth #mentalhealth #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #fypシviralシfyp #JustDrawz _______________________________

In this special episode, we discuss the evolution of Just Drawz podcast, including the origins of the show, the recent changes, and what's next. _________________________________________ Hosts: DMC: https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded/ https://x.com/DMCureton Jeff: https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/ https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/ https://bsky.app/profile/jefflevelsup.bsky.social https://www.tiktok.com/@jefflevelsup Spill - @jeffevelsup- https://spill.com/p/jefflevelsup?id=756127e9-e8f8-472f-8d94-062e3d4e9148 _________________________________________ Just Drawz on Social Media: https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast/ https://x.com/TheJustDrawz https://www.tiktok.com/@thejustdrawzpodcast https://bsky.app/profile/justdrawz.bsky.social _________________________________________ Edited and produced by: https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup/ https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup/ _________________________________________ Music: "Neptunes" - by Black Assassin - https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin/ _________________________________________ #blackpodcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #applepodcasts #podcast #podcastingwhileblack #blackpodcaster #spotifypodcast #youtube #lgbtqmentalhealth #realtalk #applepodcasts #blackgaymentalhealth #youtubepodcast #gaycreators #blackpodcasting #gaypodcasts #LGBTpodcast #blackmen #podcastforblackgaymen #blackgaymen #blackpodcastnetwork #blackmentalhealth #mentalhealth #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #fypシviralシfyp #JustDrawz _________________________________________

It's the end of the season! We sit together to answer your questions! Find out if your question made it to the show! If it did, let us know in the comments! And if it didn't.... we'll try to get it next time! We'll have another opportunity coming soon! Live Show Survey: ⁠https://forms.gle/YZaWE1LSF2FVADxF9⁠ _________________________________________ Hosts: DMC: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@kklothesminded⁠⁠⁠⁠ Twitter / X: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@dmcureton⁠⁠⁠⁠ Jeff: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@jefflevelsup⁠⁠⁠⁠ Twitter / X: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@jefflevelsup⁠⁠⁠⁠ BlueSky: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@jefflevelsup⁠⁠⁠⁠ _________________________________________ Just Drawz on Social Media: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@TheJustDrawzPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠ Twitter / X: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@TheJustDrawz⁠⁠⁠⁠ BlueSky: ⁠⁠@justdrawz.skysocial ⁠⁠ _________________________________________ Edited and produced by:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠@jefflevelsup⁠⁠⁠⁠ _________________________________________ Music: "Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -  ⁠⁠⁠⁠@blk_assassin ⁠⁠⁠⁠ _________________________________________ Keywords: season finale, fun, sexy, cars, QandQ, session, questions, #blackpodcast #podcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #podcaster #applepodcasts #podcasters #podcastingwhileblack #blackpodcaster #spotifypodcast #youtube #newpodcast #newepisode #conversations #realtalk #applepodcasts #indiepodcast #youtubepodcast #gaycreators #blackpodcasting #gaypodcasts #LGBTpodcast #blackmen #podcastforblackgaymen #blackgaymen #justdrawz #sgllife #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #fypシviralシfyp

Just Drawz wraps up the year in this Christmas themed episode. The guys discuss their holiday plans, traditions, and the Christmas spirit; reflecting on the past year, sharing their goals for 2025, and exploring explore the impact of personal growth and relationships. Live Show Survey: https://forms.gle/YZaWE1LSF2FVADxF9 _________________________________________ Hosts: DMC: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@kklothesminded⁠⁠⁠ Twitter / X: ⁠⁠⁠@dmcureton⁠⁠⁠ Jeff: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@jefflevelsup⁠⁠⁠ Twitter / X: ⁠⁠⁠@jefflevelsup⁠⁠⁠ BlueSky: ⁠⁠⁠@jefflevelsup⁠⁠⁠ _________________________________________ Just Drawz on Social Media: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@TheJustDrawzPodcast⁠⁠⁠ Twitter / X: ⁠⁠⁠@TheJustDrawz⁠⁠⁠ BlueSky: ⁠@justdrawz.skysocial ⁠ _________________________________________ Edited and produced by:  ⁠⁠⁠@jefflevelsup⁠⁠⁠ _________________________________________ Music: "Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -  ⁠⁠⁠@blk_assassin ⁠⁠⁠ _________________________________________ Contains Videos by : https://pixabay.com/users/jeffjacobs1990-7438739/ https://www.pexels.com/@cottonbro/ https://www.pexels.com/@uriel-mont/ https://www.pexels.com/@olia-danilevich/ Keywords: Christmas, holiday traditions, new year, goals, music, health, fitness, podcast. #blackpodcast #podcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #podcaster #applepodcasts #podcasters #podcastingwhileblack #blackpodcaster #spotifypodcast #youtube #newpodcast #newepisode #conversations #realtalk #applepodcasts #indiepodcast #youtubepodcast #gaycreators #blackpodcasting #gaypodcasts #LGBTpodcast #blackmen #podcastforblackgaymen #blackgaymen #justdrawz #sgllife #christmaspodcast #christmas #holidays #holidaytraditions #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #fypシviralシfyp

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In this episode of the Just Drawz podcast, Jeff and Darius welcome DeMarco Majors to the show! DeMarco is a life coach and former professional athlete, who shares insights on the complexities of depression, the impact of minority stress, and the importance of understanding one's identity. This discussion is about depression, particularly within the LGBTQ+ community. The conversation delves into the signs of acute depression, the generational patterns that affect mental health, and the unique challenges faced by LGBTQ+ individuals in navigating their emotional well-being. The conversation touches on the importance of acceptance, understanding parental relationships, and the journey of self-discovery within the LGBTQ+ community. He emphasizes the need for coping mechanisms, mentorship, and the power of one's name in fostering self-acceptance. They talk about the significance of community LGBTQIA+ resources and the evolving nature of personal relationships, particularly with parents. The panel shares personal anecdotes that highlight the transformative power of communication and understanding in healing familial wounds and navigating life's challenges. Takeaways: Depression has many layers and can inhibit daily life. Chronic depression can be inherited from a mother during pregnancy. Avoidance is a key sign of acute depression. Generational patterns can influence mental health. Minority stress significantly impacts LGBTQ+ individuals' identities. Cultural expectations can stifle emotional expression in men. Self-care is crucial for managing depression. Understanding the chemical reactions in the brain is essential. Healing requires addressing both emotional and sensory memories. It's important to prioritize self-care and personal healing. Acceptance is the first step to personal growth. Understanding our parents' struggles can lead to healing. Humanizing our parents allows for deeper connections. Finding mentors in the LGBTQ+ community is crucial. Journaling can be a powerful coping mechanism. Meditation helps in being present and aware. Therapy is an important resource for LGBTQ+ individuals. Don't limit yourself to mentors who look like you. Embrace the power of your name for self-identity. It's essential to do the work for personal improvement _________________________________________ Special Guest Host: DeMarco Majors: Instagram: @demajors Hosts: Darius: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@kklothesminded⁠⁠⁠ Twitter / X: ⁠⁠⁠@dmcureton⁠⁠⁠ Jeff: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@jefflevelsup⁠⁠⁠ Twitter / X: ⁠⁠⁠@jefflevelsup⁠⁠⁠ BlueSky: ⁠⁠⁠@jefflevelsup⁠⁠⁠ _________________________________________ Just Drawz on Social Media: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@TheJustDrawzPodcast⁠⁠⁠ Twitter / X: ⁠⁠⁠@TheJustDrawz⁠⁠⁠ BlueSky: ⁠@justdrawz.skysocial ⁠ _________________________________________ Edited and produced by:  ⁠⁠⁠@jefflevelsup⁠⁠⁠ _________________________________________ Music: "Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -  ⁠⁠⁠@blk_assassin ⁠⁠⁠ _________________________________________ Keywords: Keywords: depression, LGBTQ+, mental health, minority stress, identity, life coaching, generational trauma, emotional well-being, self-care, community support, acceptance, parental relationships, LGBTQ+ support, coping mechanisms, personal growth, mentorship, mental health, community resources, self-acceptance, empowerment #blackpodcast #podcast #blackpodcasters #spotify #podcaster #applepodcasts #podcasters #podcastingwhileblack #blackpodcaster #spotifypodcast #youtube #newpodcast #newepisode #conversations #realtalk #applepodcasts #indiepodcast #youtubepodcast #gaycreators #blackpodcasting #gaypodcasts #LGBTpodcast #blackmen #podcastforblackgaymen #blackgaymen #blackmentalhealth #justdrawz #blackgaymentalhealth #lgbtqmentalhealth #mentalhealth #mensmentalhealth #sgllife #depression #lifecoach #lessons #gaymen #fypシ #fyp #fypシviralシfyp

DMC and Anjeleigh delve into the concept of love languages, exploring their personal love languages and how they impact relationships. They discuss the significance of understanding one's own love language and that of their partner, the challenges faced in expressing and receiving love, and the importance of effective communication. The conversation emphasizes that love is a choice and that intentional actions can strengthen relationships. In this conversation, they, discus the complexities of relationships, focusing on the importance of navigating mistakes, understanding love languages, and the role of communication in fostering healthy connections. There is an emphasis for the need for accountability, emotional intelligence, and self-awareness in both personal and romantic relationships, while also reflecting on lessons learned from past experiences. Get the books and take the quizzes for The 5 Love Languages here: https://5lovelanguages.com Thanks to TMG Studios in Raleigh, NC for hosting this episode: https://tmgstudios.com/ _________________________________________ Takeaways: Understanding love languages enhances relationship dynamics. Love languages can differ significantly between partners. Intentionality is key in expressing love languages. Words of affirmation can be powerful communicators of love. Quality time means different things to different people. Communication about needs is essential in relationships. Love languages can evolve over time. Recognizing and appreciating small acts of love is important. Effective communication can prevent misunderstandings. Love is a choice that requires ongoing effort. Identify the mistake, apologize, and correct it. Moving forward together requires mutual understanding. Emotional intelligence is crucial in relationships. Understanding love languages can enhance communication. Self-awareness is key to personal growth. Teach others how to love you effectively. Grace is essential in navigating relationships. Communication should be open and confrontational when necessary. Recognizing past experiences can inform present relationships. Love languages can evolve over time. _________________________________________ Special Guest Host: Anjeleigh: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@Anjeleighpart1⁠⁠⁠ Hosts: Darius: Instagram: ⁠⁠@kklothesminded⁠⁠ Twitter / X: ⁠⁠@dmcureton⁠⁠ Jeff: Instagram: ⁠⁠@jefflevelsup⁠⁠ Twitter / X: ⁠⁠@jefflevelsup⁠⁠ BlueSky: ⁠⁠@jefflevelsup⁠⁠ _________________________________________ Just Drawz on Social Media: Instagram: ⁠⁠@TheJustDrawzPodcast⁠⁠ Twitter / X: ⁠⁠@TheJustDrawz⁠⁠ BlueSky: @justdrawz.skysocial _________________________________________ Edited and produced by:  ⁠⁠@jefflevelsup⁠⁠ _________________________________________ Music: "Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -  ⁠⁠@blk_assassin ⁠⁠ _________________________________________ Keywords: love languages, relationships, communication, personal growth, emotional intelligence, Gary Chapman, words of affirmation, quality time, physical touch, acts of service, relationships, love languages, communication, emotional intelligence, personal growth, self-awareness, conflict resolution, moving forward, accountability, forgiveness

In part 2, Jeff and DMC continue their conversation on the complexities of dating, focusing on the concepts of red and green flags. They explore personal experiences and insights regarding what constitutes positive and negative traits in potential partners, emphasizing the importance of communication, social dynamics, and emotional intelligence. The conversation also touches on the impact of past relationships, the role of children, and the influence of social media on modern dating. Through engaging anecdotes and thoughtful discussions, the hosts provide listeners with a comprehensive understanding of navigating relationships in today's world. In this conversation, the hosts delve into various aspects of dating and relationships, particularly focusing on the dynamics of dating with children, the importance of shared interests, and the significance of physical attraction. They discuss red flags and green flags in relationships, including substance use, body count, and sexual compatibility. The conversation emphasizes the need for communication and understanding in relationships, as well as the importance of being open to new experiences and preferences. --- Takeaways: - Communication is essential in any relationship. - Green flags indicate positive traits in potential partners. - Red flags are non-negotiables that should be addressed early. - Social dynamics can influence relationship compatibility. - Past relationships can provide insight into a person's emotional intelligence. - Understanding a partner's relationship with their ex is crucial. - Children can add complexity to dating but can also show responsibility. - Emotional intelligence is a key factor in successful relationships. - Social media presence can impact relationship dynamics. - Self-awareness is vital for personal growth in relationships. Kids should not meet a parent's partner too soon. - Shared interests can strengthen a relationship. - Physical attraction is important but not everything. - Substance use can be a significant red flag. - Body count is not a concern for mature adults. - Sexual compatibility is essential for a healthy relationship. - Communication is key in any relationship. - Clinginess can be a turn-off in dating. - Relationships require effort from both partners. - It's important to be open to new experiences in dating. _________________________________________ Hosts: Darius: Instagram: ⁠@kklothesminded⁠ Twitter / X: ⁠@dmcureton⁠ Jeff: Instagram: ⁠@jefflevelsup⁠ Twitter / X: ⁠@jefflevelsup⁠ BlueSky: ⁠@jefflevelsup⁠ _________________________________________ Just Drawz on Social Media: Instagram: ⁠@TheJustDrawzPodcast⁠ BlueSky: ⁠@justdrawz⁠ Twitter / X: ⁠@TheJustDrawz⁠ _________________________________________ Edited and produced by: ⁠@jefflevelsup⁠ _________________________________________ Music: "Neptunes" - by Black Assassin - ⁠@blk_assassin ⁠ _________________________________________ Keywords: dating, relationships, red flags, green flags, communication, emotional intelligence, social dynamics, past relationships, children, social media, relationships, dating, parenting, compatibility, red flags, green flags, interests, hobbies, substance use, body count, sexual preferences