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Knowing Her Sexually
by J Parker and Chris Taylor
The Knowing Her Sexually podcast helps Christian husbands who want to better understand their wife sexually so they can know and love her more deeply.
Episodes
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Here's to Good Husbands!
Chris is back! She joins J in this episode to talk about her husband and what's coming next with the Knowing Her Sexually ministry. If you can help Chris with funeral expenses for her late husband and through this period of transition, any amount would be appreciated! Two ways to donate: Online…
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Putting It All Together (with an Extra Special Guest!)
J is joined by an extra special guest (hint: "logical") to discuss and wrap-up this season of practical sex tips for husbands. We review past episodes but have fresh takeaways as well! And Chris will be back next time! Remember that if you can help her with funeral expenses for her late husband…
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The Golden Trio
J welcomes Ruth Buezis of Awaken Love, to talk about three activities associated with female orgasm (and none of them is intercourse!). And a reminder: If you can help Chris Taylor financially, head to the GoFundMe page set up in honor of the passing of her husband, Doug. Any amount is…
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Struggling with Orgasm
J is joined by Bonny Burns, cohost of Sex Chat for Christian Wives and author of Unlock Your Orgasm, to discuss why wives struggle with orgasm and how to help her reach climax. And a reminder: If you can help Chris Taylor financially, head to the GoFundMe page set up in honor of the passing of…
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Lube
J's back with guest host Julie Sibert of Intimacy in Marriage to talk about personal lubricant—why a wife might need it, our recommended products, and how to use it to improve the sexual experience. If you can help Chris Taylor financially, head to the GoFundMe page set up in honor of the passing...
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Her Body Image
We address a wife's' body image and what a husband can specifically do to help her feel comfortable and confident in the bedroom. Resources Husbands, Help Us Feel & Be Beautiful - Hot, Holy & Humorous Silky Robe | Mentionables "Baby Doll" Lingerie | Mentionables Why Won’t Your Wife Wear Lingerie?…
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Sex Positions That Work for Her
Let's talk about sex positions! Not just generally, but what we hear from wives about sex positions they like and don't like, and what works best for her. Resources Christian Friendly Sex Positions (now 300+ Illustrated Sex Positions!) Doggy Style Sex Position aka "Stallion Style": How to Do It…
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How to Touch Your Wife
In our last episode, we talked about where to touch your wife. This time, Chris and J cover how to touch your touch your wife in ways that arouse, pleasure, and satisfy—all with the ultimate goal of wonderful sexual intimacy in your marriage. Resources Increasing Your Wife’s Sexual Pleasure –...
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Where to Touch Your Wife
Chris and J share where to touch your wife to help her feel sexually interested, aroused, and valued. You might be surprised by some of the places on her body that intrigue many women. Resources Increasing Your Wife’s Sexual Pleasure – Webinar Replay - ONLY $10 Episode 40: Her Erogenous Zones How...
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Setting the Mood
On this first episode of Season 2 (Sex Tips), Chris and J talk about setting the mood for your wife. What can you do to draw her toward the bedroom and away from what might distract her from sexual intimacy? Resources Helping Your Wife Want to Have Sex – Webinar Replay - ONLY $10 Bull Durham...
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Season 2 Trailer
Are you ready for Season 2? It's a sex tip season!
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What Men Taught Us About Women's Sexuality
On this wrap-up of our first season of Knowing Her Sexually, Chris and J discuss what the men in marriage ministry had to say about women's sexuality, including what surprised us and what we took away. Resources Kevin A. Thompson's personal website Change the Odds - Kevin A. Thompson's new…
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Foreplay, Love Languages, and Affirmation, with Dave Barringer
Dave Barringer, pastor, podcast host, and author of Mosaic Marriage, spoke with us a while back about foreplay in and out of the bedroom. We revisit that episode with a few fresh takeaways in our season of talking to men in marriage ministry about women's sexuality. Take a listen! Resources Dave...
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Porn Recovery, the Challenge of Honesty, and "Women Are Different," with Stu Gray
We talk with Stu Gray of the Stupendous Marriage Show, cohosted with his wife Lisa, about what he learned about himself and marriage while recovering from porn, what honesty can do for marital intimacy, and how women are different—in life and in the bedroom. Take a listen! Resources Stupendous...
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Sexual Trauma, the Goal of Sex, and the Value of Afterglow, with Matt Schmidt
We welcome Matt Schmidt from Intimate Covenant, a sex-focused marriage ministry and podcast. He talks with us about how he and his wife addressed her past sexual trauma, what the goal of sex really is, and why hubbies should attend to afterglow. Resources Intimate Covenant The Body Keeps the…
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Pursuing & Wooing Your Wife, with Kevin A. Thompson
Kevin A. Thompson is a husband, father, and marriage (and men's) pastor at Bayside Church in the Sacramento, California area. Originally from Arkansas, Kevin has been a frequent guest on Focus on the Family and Family Life. Chris & J talked to Kevin about why it's still important to pursue and…
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Intimacy and the Bridal Paradigm, with Scott Means
Scott Means of Heaven Made Marriage began marriage ministry in his church and has now expanded to a website, books, and videos to reach more and more couples. Listen to his conversation with J and Chris about the bridal paradigm, intimacy, and vulnerability. Resources Heaven Made Marriage Scott's...
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Sex Expertise, Empathy, and Accountability, with Dr. Kim Kimberling
Dr. Kim Kimberling has been married for 53 years and has counseled marriages for over 40 years! His ministry, Awesome Marriage, has reached even more couples with its honest, biblical, and practical insight. Listen in as Dr. Kim talks with Chris and J about sexual expertise, empathy,...
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Making Sex Pleasurable for Your Wife, with Gary Thomas
Gary Thomas, theologian and marriage author, joins us to discuss what he's learned about women's sexuality. What differences between men and women can help you cater more to your wife's pleasure? How can you unleash the power of the five senses? And what does "simmering" have to do with sexual...
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How to Really Connect with Your Wife (and How Trauma Has Impacted You Both), with Brad Aldrich, LMFT
Brad Aldrich, marriage therapist and ministry leader, joins us to discuss what he's learned about women's sexuality. What does connection mean for wives compared to husbands? How do connection, curiosity, and past trauma impact sexual intimacy in your marriage? Take a listen! Resources Aldrich...
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A New Season
It's been a minute! Chris and J are finally back to explain their absence and the future of Knowing Her Sexually going forward. We plan to keep providing quality content intended to help husbands better understand their wives and pursue healthy, mutually satisfying sexual intimacy. Resources...
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Less Stress & More Sex for the Holidays
Christmastime can create wonderful memories, but also a lot of to-dos and stress that keep couples from being sexually intimate. J and guest host Julie Sibert discuss how to have less stress and more sex in your marriage this holiday season. Sponsor Looking for a safe place to shop for marital...
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What Should You Give Your Wife for Christmas?
How can you give your wife a gift that speaks to her heart? A great gift can create feelings of being seen and valued that encourage the trust and vulnerability she needs for sexual intimacy. Visit Our Sponsor Did you know that Hot, Holy & Humorous has a site store? Private Christmas gift tags,...
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Why Not Have a Quickie?
What role can quickies play in your marriage's sexual intimacy? We discuss what's good about quickies, why some wives don't like them, and how husbands can make the experience more enjoyable for her. Resources 5 Reasons to Love a Quickie - Hot, Holy & Humorous Showering and Bathing Together: Why...
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How Clothing Can Increase Arousal
Instead of "show up naked," how about using clothing to increase arousal and pleasure? Chris and J discuss why and how clothing can be sexy for a wife. Resources Why I Still Wear Lingerie (though My Hubby Doesn't Care) - Hot, Holy & Humorous Why Won’t Your Wife Wear Lingerie? 7 Ways to Make the...
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Use the 5 Senses to Help Her Engage with Sex
How can you help your wife engage more in the sexual experience? Chris and J share how a husband can use the five senses to increase his wife's focus and enjoyment. Resources J"s #SexTipTuesday Facebook post: What do you do with your eyes during sex? 70+ Intimate Face to Face Sex Positions |...
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"Why Won't My Wife...?"
We're back after an unannounced and unexpected hiatus! Looking at the searches that bring husbands to our site, Chris and J ask and try to answer the question "Why doesn't / can't / won't my wife do ____?" in the bedroom. Resources Why Your Wife May Not Want to Receive Oral Sex Why Doesn’t She…
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How Life Transitions Affect Sexual Intimacy
Every marriage goes through a big life transition at some point, and likely several. Chris and J talk about how transitions affect sex in marriage and how to keep intimacy going even through the big changes. Resources Are Stress & Fatigue Killing Your Sex Life? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Making a…
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How to Express Your Sexual Discomfort
A listener shared that "[husbands] are told...to be sensitive to our wives' physical discomfort such as menstrual cramps but are also told that we cannot share when lack of physical intimacy causes physical discomfort in us as that won't be well received." Is there a double standard? How can a...
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What Women Don't Understand About Men's Sexuality
Chris and J usually talk about women's sexuality with the hope of helping men understand their wives. But today, we discuss what women don't understand about men's sexuality. Resources Episode 12: Guy Talk - The Importance of Sex - Sex Chat for Christian Wives Episode 14: Guy Talk - A Wife's…
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Her Hormones and Your Sex Life
J and Chris talk about the many ways your wife's hormones can affect her sexual interest and her ability to respond and enjoy sex. If you've wondered about her monthly cycles or the impact of menopause, be sure to listen! Resources 13 Things I Heard at a Sexual Wellness Class | The Forgiven Wife...
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What's Romance for Your Wife?
Yes, on a sex podcast, we're talking today about romance for your wife. Not only does romance keep your relationship emotionally intimate—it can create a better atmosphere for physical intimacy as well! So, should you bring her flowers? Tell her she's pretty? We address what counts as romance to…
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How Can I Get My Wife to Go to Therapy?
We're often asked how a husband can get a wife to go to therapy for their sexual intimacy. J and Chris discuss some ideas. Resources Faithful Counseling - online therapy resource Have You Received Bad Marriage Counseling? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Healthy Marriages Start with Healthy People - Hot,...
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When You Can't Have Intercourse
other ways. What do wives think about these options? Resources Why Doesn’t She Want to Give You Oral Sex? 8 Reasons That Are Not About You Why Doesn’t She Want to Give You Oral Sex? 5 Reasons That Are About You (and What You Can Do About Them) Maintaining Sexual Intimacy When Dealing with Pain |...
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Do You Have Sexual FOMO?
It can be fun and intimate to add something fresh and exciting to their marriage's sexual repertoire! But that desire can also come from another place: fear of missing out. Chris and J tackle the issue of sexual FOMO. Resources Spicing Up Your Bedroom – Webinar Replay Q&A with J: Resources for...
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How You Treat Her Children
Over and over, we've heard and experienced how the way a husband treats the wife's kids impacts her sexual interest. If you want to get into her bed, consider getting into her heart by caring for the ones she loves. Resources Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson's tea party with his daughter Why Being a…
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The Orgasm Gap
Research shows that men are far more likely to have an orgasm during sex than women are. This difference is referred to as the Orgasm Gap. J and Chris help you understand why this gap exists and how you can address it. Sponsor Visit Married Dance online store Resources Webinar - Increasing Your...
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How She Sees Your Sex Drive
What does your wife really think of your sex drive? We share what we've experienced and, more importantly, what we've heard from wives. Resources What a Quickie Taught Us About Sexual Intimacy | The Forgiven Wife Your Husband's Libido May Not Be What You Think | The Forgiven Wife #1 Myth…
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Helping Your Wife Deal with Your Past
What if you had a sexual experience before marriage? How can you help your wife—especially if she was a virgin bride—deal with your past? We answer this listener question. Resources Does Your Spouse Think about Previous Lovers? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Why You Feel Worse Than He Does about the...
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3 Sex Goals for the Year
What goals do you have for sex in your marriage this year? Chris and J share three goals that could help awaken your wife's sexual desire. Please pardon the lesser audio quality this time! J's input was not as good, because her schedule required her to record from a hotel room. ~smile~ Resources...
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Help Your Wife Learn What She Likes in Bed
Have you asked your wife what she likes in bed, only to hear her say that she doesn't really know? As unbelievable as this may sound to you, it's pretty common. J and Chris share some ideas to help you help your wife figure out what she wants. Resources Webinar: Increasing Your Wife's Sexual...
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Have Hope
A husband in our KHS Community recently asked about staying hopeful through the sexual ups and downs in marriage. J and Chris share some ideas that can help you maintain hope. Resources Are You Bitter in Your Marriage? So Was I. How Having Friends Is Good for Your Sex Life Work on Yourself (Even…
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Rebuilding Her Trust, with Jessica McCleese
With Chris out today, Dr. Jessica McCleese joins J to discuss how a husband who may have mishandled sexual intimacy in the marriage before can rebuild his wife's trust in the bedroom and beyond. Resources Dr. Jessica McCleese's website FREE webinars with Jessica and J. Parker: Let's Talk About...
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Foreplay In and Out of the Bedroom, with Dave Barringer
We welcome special guest Dave Barringer, senior pastor of Kalamazoo First Assembly of God and author of Mosaic Marriage, to talk with us about foreplay in and out of the bedroom. Resources Dave Barringer's website Launch Point book site Mosaic Marriage by Dave Barringer Episode 6: Does Choreplay...
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4 Truths About Sex Husbands Should Know
Chris and J tackle four truths about sex that husbands should know, especially those who long for better physical intimacy in their marriage. Resources Why Doesn't She Initiate? Work on Yourself (Even If Your Husband Is the Problem) | Honeycomb & Spice The Power of "And" | The Forgiven Wife I...
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Her Erogenous Zones
Being touched in nonsexual areas can be a real turn-on for your wife. J and Chris talk about where some of these areas are and give you suggestions for learning your wife's body. Resources How Do You Like to Be Touched? - Hot, Holy & Humorous 6 Kinds of Touch Every Marriage Needs - Hot, Holy &...
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Grooming and Hygiene
Your grooming and hygiene can have an impact on your wife's interest in sex. J and Chris explain why in today's episode. Resources What About His Grooming and Hygiene? | The Forgiven Wife Q&A with J: What about “Manscaping”? | Hot, Holy & Humorous Why She Needs Him to Shower | Hot, Holy &…
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Why Didn't She Come with a Manual?
Today we take on the question Chris's husband and many other husbands have: "Why didn't your wife come with a manual?" That would be so much easier, right? Resources What Does Her Orgasm Mean? The Romantic Vineyard, by Tom & Debi Walter This Week's Takeaway Ask your wife this question: "If…
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Why Sex Can Feel Risky to Your Wife
How could sex be "risky" when it happens in marriage with the one you love? Chris and J discuss three ways sex can feel risky for some wives. Resources What Are Your Sexual Fears? | Hot, Holy & Humorous 7 Reasons You Don't Want Sex | Hot, Holy & Humorous Which Words Do You Use? | The Forgiven…
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What Do Women Want?
In this episode, J and Chris tackle that age-old question, "What do women want?" It might be more simple than you thought! Resources What Is Emotional Safety? (and What Does It Have to Do with Sex?) Security in the Bedroom | Hot, Holy & Humorous What Do Women Really Want? - The Gottman Institute...
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
The Knowing Her Sexually podcast helps Christian husbands who want to better understand their wife sexually so they can know and love her more deeply.
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J Parker and Chris Taylor
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