Koller Commentary

We're launching a new season of Koller Commentary — and I'm kicking it off with my girl Stephanie Kim, @tressuni. 🎙️ This episode? We went there.🤍 Stepping into motherhood — the excitement, the nerves, all of it🤍 Gender disappointment — and why it's okay to say that out loud to move forward🤍 Sibling order and the impact it had on us 🤍 What we're bringing into parenting — and what stops here🤍 The joy of growth waiting on the other side of all of itThis season of Koller Commentary is for the first, second, or even third gen kid who grew up translating — not just language, but feelings, expectations, and identity — and is finally doing the work. The healing. The parenthood. The marriage. The figuring out who you are when nobody handed you a roadmap.We're going deep, but we're bringing joy with us. Late night feeds, long drives, laundry piles — pull up a chair. It's about to be a real conversation. 🎙️🤍

What happens when your story doesn’t follow the script?In this episode, I sit down with Jane Yun—photographer, mom of two, and a woman of intimate faith—as she shares her vulnerable journey into unexpected motherhood.If this is a sensitive topic for you, please feel the freedom to skip it. 🤍From navigating the emotional wrestle of an unplanned pregnancy to finding strength in obedience—and slowly building a marriage and family with intention—Jane’s story is marked by grace, grit, and quiet redemption.We talk about:The emotional weight of an unexpected pregnancyCultural judgment and how her community respondedLeaving a high-profile job to prioritize motherhoodWhat it’s like being an Enneagram 3 married to a 4And the beauty of surrendering a life you didn’t expectIf you’ve ever questioned God’s timing, felt misunderstood, or struggled to find purpose in a path you didn’t choose—this one is for you. 🖤🎧 Listen now on Koller Commentary🔗 Link in bio#MotherhoodJourney #FaithAndRedemption #UnplannedButNotUnknown #Enneagram3 #KollerCommentary #JaneYun #WomenWhoObey #PodcastConversations #GodsTimingNotMine

Matt and I sit down to talk about Court of Gold, the Netflix documentary following the 2024 USA Men’s Basketball Team’s journey to Olympic gold in Paris. From LeBron to Steph to KD, we relive the epic moments and share our favorite highlights.Of course, we had to add our signature twist—breaking down some team and country dynamics through the lens of the Enneagram. What type is Jokic? How would we type each team's leadership style? It’s a blend of sports analysis, personality theory, and married couple banter you didn’t know you needed.Whether you're a hoop head, Enneagram fan, or just here for our commentary, this episode is a peek into our living room conversations—recorded and ready to share.

We’re celebrating 7 years of marriage with a little reflection, some deep(ish) questions, and a lot of laughs. In this episode, we go down memory lane, share what’s surprised us most about each other, what’s shaped our relationship over the years, and how we hope to grow in the near future.Marriage has its highs and lows, and we’re just grateful for the ways God has carried us through our valley seasons. If any of the questions resonate with you, we hope you'll take a moment to ask your spouse too—it might just spark a meaningful convo of your own.If you’re a dear friend, thank you for being here with us through all the seasons. We’re thankful, hopeful, and still learning every day. 💛

Starting a business from the ground up is no small feat—but Dr. Grace Lee is doing it with a heart full of purpose. In this second part of our conversation, we talk about the launch of Karis Orthodontics, the vision behind her private practice, and how she’s bringing grace, kindness, and excellence into her work.As an Enneagram 7, Grace thrives on adventure, creativity, and thinking outside the box—so how does she channel that energy into running a business? We explore the challenges and joys of entrepreneurship, how she balances being a first-time mom and a business owner, and her hopes for the future of Karis Orthodontics.If you’re someone who dreams of starting your own venture, wants to hear about faith-driven business, or just loves a good success story, this episode is for you!

I sit down with friend and orthodontist, Dr. Grace Lee, who shares her story full of resilience, cultural richness, and deep purpose. Born and raised in Paris to Korean missionary parents, her journey has taken her across continents—shaping not only her identity but also her approach to life and career. In this first part of our conversation, we dive into her upbringing, how she navigated multiple cultural identities, what led her to the field of dentistry, and her transition to life in the U.S.We also explore the unique challenges she’s faced as a woman in healthcare, how her faith has played a role in her career, and the moments that shaped her path. This episode is a testament to following your calling, even when the road is unexpected.Tune in for an inspiring conversation filled with wisdom, heart, and a whole lot of grace! And make sure you catch part 2 next week!

This episode is one I’ve been dreaming of since I started this podcast a few years ago—a conversation with my 5-year-old! As a little “mom present” to myself, I sat down with him to capture his thoughts on life, family, and all the big (and silly) things in between. This 15 minute chat is full of joy, laughter, and those unexpectedly deep insights that only a 5-year-old can give.Whether you're a parent, love heartwarming conversations, or just want a reason to smile today, this one’s for you. 💛🎧 What’s the best piece of kid wisdom you’ve ever heard?

What happens when passion for Korean heritage, excellent leadership, and rooted friendship come together? In this case, it creates quite an amazing and impactful immersive Korean summer camp, Camp Hwarang, that’s shaping young minds beyond just one week. I sit down with the camp’s leaders, Hanna Chang and Hajin Yoon, to explore how their unique partnership as an Enneagram 3 and an Enneagram 1 helps them balance vision with structure, the powerful ways campers connect with their Korean heritage, the impact this has on the child and the family, and what makes this camp truly one of a kind.From navigating leadership dynamics to witnessing transformational moments, this conversation is full of inspiration for anyone passionate about culture, education, and personal growth. I left this time reflecting on how I can also do my part to bridge gaps and leave a mark to honor those who came before me and those who will remain after. 👉 Loved this episode? Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who would love to hear about Camp Hwarang!

Basketball and the Enneagram—what more could you want? In this episode, Matt and I dive into Netflix’s Starting 5 and take our best shots at typing Jayson Tatum, LeBron James, Jimmy Butler, Anthony Edwards, and Domantas Sabonis. From leadership styles to personal motivations, we break down how their personalities show up on and off the court. Plus, we kick things off with some New Year reflections and a quick chat about my upcoming workshop. This episode is a fun throwback to the conversations we used to have pre-parenthood—so grab your headphones and join us for some laughs, debates, and hot takes! 🎧 Tune in and let us know if you agree with our Enneagram picks!

In this episode, I sit down with Grace Ryu—mom, nurse practitioner, content creator, and eldest daughter of an immigrant family—who embodies resilience, leadership, and growth. We dive into how her Enneagram 3 personality shapes her drive as a mom and professional, the challenges of pregnancy and postpartum depression, and the journey of reclaiming her self-worth. Grace also reflects on the lessons she’s learned from growing up as the eldest daughter in an immigrant household. She shares how teamwork with her husband has become a cornerstone of their marriage, recognizing that every season has its purpose—this one being hers to thrive. Join us for a heartfelt conversation about balancing ambition, family, and partnership, while staying true to who you are. Follow her @mamaaa_g on IG and TikTok for more! Enneagram 3

In this episode, I’m joined by Kiju Lee, a trailblazing Asian American woman in tech, DIY content creator behind @homeleebuild, and an inspiring Enneagram 3 eldest daughter. Kiju opens up about her journey in an immigrant family and the weight of expectations that shaped her resilience and leadership. Kiju shares how her upbringing and decision to choose her own path fueled her success as a strong, confident woman, both socially and professionally, and the role her Enneagram type plays in balancing ambition with authenticity. From navigating the tech world to embracing her creative passions, Kiju's story is one of grit, growth, and grace. Join us for an honest and empowering conversation about breaking barriers, living boldly, and building a life true to yourself. And to all you eldest daughters out there, 수고했어 :) Eunjoey~! Enneagram 3

In this episode, I have three friends, Josh, Daniel, and Abe, join me to talk all things recruiting. These dynamic professionals pull back the curtain on the world of recruiting, sharing the highs and lows of their careers and offering invaluable advice for job seekers. From dos and don’ts of interviewing to funny and heartwarming stories from the field, they remind us how to navigate the job hunt with confidence while staying true to our worth. Whether you're preparing for a new role or just curious about the life of recruiters, this episode is packed with wisdom, humor, and a whole lot of heart. Eunjoey~ Enneagram Types 2, 4, and 6

I have been WAITING to record this episode with Michelle Kim, founder of Nae Color, and I am so excited to finally share this with you all. I sit down with this passionate personal color analysis expert who uses this tool to bring out her clients' best features. Michelle shares her unique professional journey to becoming a professional consultant and offers a fresh look at what it means to see and be seen, and how color analysis can be a path to personal empowerment. Join us for an inspiring conversation that goes beyond aesthetics into the heart of identity, purpose, and self-acceptance. Enneagram 2

In this episode, I sit down with one of my closest friends Stephanie Kim, also known as @tressuni, to explore a word that holds profound cultural weight in Korean: 'waste'—아까워. Together, we unpack how this word shaped our values growing up, from how we viewed opportunities and material things to the hidden pressure it can create in our daily lives and careers. Join us as we share personal stories, reflect on how this concept still affects us today, and discuss ways we’re learning to reframe and find balance in a fast-paced world. Whether you’re familiar with this cultural layer or discovering it for the first time, we hope this conversation sheds light on the deep impact of seemingly simple words. Enneagram 7

In this episode, my siblings, Alex & Jessica Chi, join the pod to dive into our unique sibling book club! We chat about how this came to be, what the structure has looked like for our group over the year, the highs and lows of our reading journey, and each of our favorite (and least favorite) books so far. Join us as we take you on an an inside look at how our book club has brought us closer and sparked some unexpected healing moments. Whether you're part of a book club yourself or just love hearing book recommendations, we hope you enjoy this fun and candid conversation on our sibling reading adventures! The Heart Triad: Enneagram 2, Enneagram 3, Enneagram 4

In part 2 of my conversation with Angel, we dive deeper into her life after escaping North Korea. Angel shares her struggles with depression, how she found unexpected faith in God, and the new challenges of learning to mother in a completely new environment. We also delve into her love story with Matt (Warrenfells :P) and explore her experience with marriage, as well as the emotional and spiritual journey of rebuilding her life, because every circumstance has been a new opportunity for her. Join us as Angel opens up about the complexities of healing and laugh along with her BRIGHT spirit!

In this episode, I sit down with Angel Keumhyang Warrenfells as she shares her incredible journey as a North Korean defector. From the hardships of her childhood in North Korea to the harrowing escape and the unexpected challenges of adapting to a new life, Angel’s story is one of resilience, hope, and strength. Tune in to be inspired and amazed by her courage, and walk away motivated to face your own challenges. Eunjoeyyy Part 1 of this series! 

In this episode of Koller Commentary, I sit down with Esther Soyun Park to discuss her journey from non-profit work to becoming a stay-at-home momfluencer with her two beautiful kids under two. We dive into how Esther embraces change in motherhood and marriage while staying authentic to her faith, culture, and identity. She shares her struggles and triumphs, offering insight into balancing purpose, family, and social media. Whether you’re a mom navigating transitions or someone seeking inspiration, Esther’s story is sure to resonate. This was such a fan girl moment that I got to interview a content creator I deeply admire, so thank you Esther for joining me on the pod!

On this relaunch episode, I’m handing the mic to my husband, Matt, as we dive into a year of growth, change, and unlearning. From stepping out of the stay-at-home mom season to letting go of old mindsets, we’re reflecting, laughing, slightly arguing, and maybe even spilling some tea on what’s next. Join us for some real talk on embracing new seasons with joy and adventure! & leave an encouraging comment on how Matt did as host! :)

GO OFF JESS AND SAL!! Every love story is unique, and hearing the Ansari’s journey to one is a beautiful reminder of how special each woven union truly is. From their friend zoned beginning to an autoimmune disease diagnosis at the start of their marriage to so many golden nuggets of His fingerprints all over, this episode is a reflection of their resilience, partnership, and abundant JOY in this first chapter of life together along with their community. As a fellow Enneagram 2 and 9 couple, I gleaned so much insight on how to walk in health to truly uplift my own partner, Matt. Tune in to listen to Jess' journey with Graves Disease, to rejoice at His goodness, and to witness what's ahead for the Ansaris! ❤️‍🩹 And for those fighting through their own unexpected illnesses, I hope this can serve as a small way to feel seen and keep moving forward ❤️‍🩹 Eunjoey! Jess Ansari: Enneagram 2 Sal Ansari: Enneagram 9

If you thought Part 1 was good, you're in for a treat for Part 2 with these Enneagram 9 Husbands. Listen in as they reflect on how their defense mechanisms come to play in their lives, how they have grown and matured through embracing conflict, and what they love about their amazing Type 2 and Type 7 wives. After recording these episodes, now I know why Enneagram 9s are so fun to be around. From the light-hearted vibes to the true effort in reflection, I hope this conversation with 4 grown men (LOL) can inspire you to also take time to celebrate your own growth and journey ahead. I hope you eunjoey~~~~

I have never had so much fun recording a podcast episode (actually TWO) than I did with these four men who brought laughter, depth, and insight to their lives as Enneagram 9s. Tune in as you listen to what resonates to each of them as a Type 9, how their upbringing might have affected this formation, and how getting married has challenged them to embrace conflict and more. This conversation gets so good that we broke it up into TWO episodes. Stay tuned for tomorrow's release of part 2! Guests: Inkyu (Ian) Choi, Jonathan Kang, Michael Bang, Matt Koller

This week I invite my sister, Jessica Chi, onto the podcast to have real talk about the various transitions we've gone through in the past decade. Being best friends since forever, we have both faced the tough reality of how life's changes resulted in new seasons for us as we navigate how to best embrace these new chapters while properly saying goodbye to the precious past. Listen in as we discuss the different perspectives we have as younger/older sister, how we are unlearning the need to sacrifice/suffer for a good life, and how we have supported each other through the toughest times like depression, career struggles, and more. Eunjoy~ Enneagram 2 & 3, Heart Triad "it is only heavy because you are deciding over and over again to carry it embrace change, loosen up your sense of identity, let yourself walk a new path you do not have to ignore or erase the past, you just have to wholeheartedly embrace the present and move on" Yung Pueblo - Way Forward

Today, I sit down with Matt to talk about what transition we are approaching in this season, if we're happy lately, what things lost have made us sad, and how we can better love one another as Valentine's Day comes up. As Matt shares his shift from an urgency mindset into an arguably "smoother" lifestyle, I'm curious for others out there who have had a long medical training journey or other arduous and time-consuming path. What happens when all of that is now complete? How have you transitioned into a more "normal" life? I am excited for this year as I shine a light on TRANSITION with my guests and extend the invite to you as well! If you have a story to share, please email me at [email protected] so we can get it on the podcast. Let's move forward in resilience and joy together! it is normal to feel down, tired, and emotionally exhausted when you are going through a big transition especially when you have to let go of something good for the chance at something better great changes are not meant to be easy; they arise to inspire your growth Yung Pueblo - Way Forward

Three years ago, I launched this simple podcast that has undergone various facelifts, but I am so proud of where it’s come! To celebrate my MONUMENTAL 50th episode…I bring it back to the beginning and invite my OG crew, Won Hee Lee (9) and Dr. Matt Koller (9) onto the pod. Won Hee and I reunite to interview Matt on this past year as an official practicing psychiatrist. Matt, or should I say Dr. Koller ;), shares what he has noticed in the mental health field, what simple advice he has for our listeners, and how his work has even affected his view of his own mental health. We then shift gears as Won Hee and I also reflect on our own mental health journeys, our relationship with imposter syndrome and perfectionism, and how we navigate our identities as Asian Americans.  Listen in as we share our triggers in relationship to our Enneagram Types, how faith plays a foundational part for each of us, and simple goals we have for the coming year. We hope you celebrate Episode 50 with us and eunjoyyyyyy this episode!!

This week, I sat down with Gloria Oh, Jess Ansari, and Sarah Chu for one incredibly inspiring episode. These three ladies carry day jobs, care for their families, manage many in between responsibilities, yet still passionately find time to run their small businesses that birthed from small but mighty dreams. Listen in as these female entrepreneurs get vulnerable and reflect on the highs and lows of their journeys, give practical tips on how to move forward in the process, share their personal why that keeps them afloat. Small Business Saturday is coming up this Saturday, so Koller Commentary is supporting by hosting a giveaway from each one of these businesses! Three winners will choose, in order of draw, their amazing prize just in time for the holidays! Rate this podcast five stars on your streaming platform, then go to @kollercommentary on instagram to find out how to win! Eunjoy!

It's always a good time when Stephanie Kim, @tressuni, is on the podcast. What seemed like 5 minutes was actually over an hour full of laughter and deep talk. Listen in as Steph and I reflect on some rough times and joyous times as college besties, how we low-key prepared each other for our husbands, the invaluable lessons we learned through a committed friendship, and how we still make it work today. We also ponder the reasons why female friendships are so important and would love your experience and insights in the comments below! Stephanie Kim is a former tech boss lady turned successful influencer as she uses her platform to shed light on Korean culture through humor, creativity, and insight. If you aren't following her yet, you're missing out! Go hit that subscribe on @tressuni and rate @kollercommentary five stars on your podcast platform! We hope you enjoy another episode of Koller Commentary!

Seasoned mama of three, Younghui shares all the tips and tricks from traveling internationally to planning for a nearly month long “vacation” with her three girls and parents and husband. From a couple of trips outside of Seoul to hitting all the play cafes, this episode is a gem of resources if you’re planning a trip to Korea with your little ones soon! Go to @kollercommentary to share what kind of traveller you are along with your Enneagram type! What are some travel tips you have when traveling with young ones? How has having kids changed the way you travel? Where is your favorite kid-friendly travel spot? Younghui: Enneagram 8 Younghui's Husband: I'm gonna guess an Enneagram 9 LOL

SPOILER ALERT: I also didn’t make it to Olive Young like I thought I would hahaha. I thoroughly enjoyed this conversation with Tesia as she keeps it real about the difficulties of traveling with two kids UNDER three all the way to Korea. Listen in to hear some great practical tips that her and her husband Thomas took to find moments of relief amidst a very stressful trip and also some interesting insights about Korea from a Korean American perspective.  Go to @kollercommentary to share what kind of traveller you are along with your Enneagram type! What are some travel tips you have when traveling with young ones? How has having kids changed the way you travel? Where is your favorite kid-friendly travel spot? Tesia: Enneagram 7 Tesia's Husband: Enneagram 6

Skye's flight to Korea was TWENTY SEVEN hours. After recently coming back from my own Korea trip, my mind is blown realizing what a trek this must have been for her to travel SOLO with her two kids. Nonetheless, this super mama made it happen and created a memorable and unique trip for her kids, her parents, and herself. Listen in to hear what museums you should definitely check out with your little ones, what day trips are fun, and what it looks like to travel as an Enneagram 4 mama. Go to @kollercommentary to share what kind of traveller you are along with your Enneagram type! What are some travel tips you have when traveling with young ones? How has having kids changed the way you travel? Where is your favorite kid-friendly travel spot? Skye: Enneagram 4 Skye's Husband: Enneagram 9

This is your sign to TAKE! THAT! TRIP! with your best chingoos. Life is short and the people you surround yourself with or actively make time to surround yourself with has such an impact on you as we get older. It was so fun sitting down with my sister and her friends, Shelly, Jennie, and Will, as they reminisced about their Korea trip last spring. From misunderstandings that made the trip even better to endless laughter moments that solidified this travel crew forever, listen to why this trip was their best one yet! Take out a pen and paper to jot down some tips and recommendations as well if you plan to go to Korea soon yourself!  It’s cool to hear how such different personalities can come together and create such a memorable trip, and this podcast is a reminder that every type in the Enneagram can beautifully contribute to what makes a community whole.  What was your favorite trip or memory in your adulting years? What were y’all’s Enneagram types? What do you look for in your travel crew? Go to @kollercommentary to share what kind of traveller you are along with your Enneagram type!  Jessica: Enneagram 3 Jennie: Enneagram 7 Will: Enneagram 9 Shelly: Enneagram 9

This week, I have a bonus (AAPI Month) episode for you! I virtually sit down with Hanna Chang and Christina Kim, founders of Camp Hwarang, from across the world in South Korea. These two boss mamas talk about how they have teamed up on a passionate mission to empower the next generation by developing a deeper curiosity and appreciation of the Korean language and culture that will last their entire life. They share how their intense background in tech and startup culture, their own journey with being bi and tricultural kids, and their primary role as mothers have allowed them to create this magical summer program that is Camp Hwarang. Tune in to listen to their plethora of knowledge about living in, traveling to, and understanding Korea, their reflection on how their Enneagram Types allow them to make up a Dream Team for this passion project, and of course how they are part of the A.R.M.Y. Christina Kim: Enneagram 6 Hanna Chang: Enneagram 3 Dr. Hyemin Na: Enneagram 3 https://camphwarang.com/ @camphwarang Enroll your kids or tell your best mom friend today! Eunjoy~

This week, I sit down with Stephanie and Hanur Kim as they get real about what their relationship looked like as they navigated through rough seasons together. This episode definitely ranks top 3 in my book because not only did I get to dive deep with one of my BEST friends and laugh throughout the entire sitting, but I also got to hear raw reflections about Hanur's journey through therapy and breaking cycles of toxic masculinity in our culture, the reality of Steph's own acceptance that she was not doing okay, and how by putting in the hard work and forming a true partnership, the two sit across from me today with smiles beaming across their faces because they are in the healthiest era of their lives as individuals and as a couple! The two currently reside in Seattle, Washington, but I'm just waiting for when they move back to Dallas ;) Hanur Kim: Tech Business Manager, Enneagram 3 Stephanie Kim: Tech Project Manager turned @tressuni, Enneagram 7 You don't want to miss this real, funny, and insightful conversation. Make sure to rate 5 stars and subscribe so you never miss an episode! Eunjoy~ Go to https://betterhelp.com/koller for 10% off your first month of therapy with BetterHelp and get matched with a therapist who will listen and help #sponsored

It's been a hot minute on the pod, but I'm back and excited to dive deep into another layer of the Enneagram, the Paths! In this episode, I briefly explain the stress and growth paths that each Type goes toward and what some of the healthy, average, or unhealthy characteristic traits of different Enneagram Types they might reflect to alert this path. Then, I get to sit down with my husband, Matt Koller (Enneagram 9), and my brother, Alex Chi (Enneagram 4), to spontaneously pull from different seasons of our lives when we might have portrayed these various traits. Tune in for a safe space of reflection, and we encourage you to do the same at home with your loved ones or in your journal! Eunjoy ~

Have you guys watched Pink Lie on Hulu? Don't sleep on this Korean reality dating show that had us INVESTED all the way through. The twist is that the singles come in with fake names and one lie about themselves. They hope to find a partner who truly sees them for who they are as their true identities are revealed along the way. This show was so good and so personal that I found myself typing the cast members. Watching this next to my brother and good friend, Becky, who is also well-versed in the Enneagram, I thought it would be fun to type each cast member. And then naturally, it turned into a podcast episode! If you haven't watched Pink Lie yet, GO WATCH NOW! And then come back and listen to our fun episode where two Enneagram Type 2s do what they do best and type others. :D Becky Lee is a mental health counselor who specializes in working with women, adolescents, couples, children, and families and has also worked in various settings as a counselor ranging from within the church to a private practice. She helps individuals find healing from trauma, relational conflict, anxiety, communication issues, anger, and depression, among other therapeutic issues. Becky received her Master of Arts in Biblical Counseling at Dallas Theological Seminary and her Bachelor of Arts in Psychology at the University of Texas at Austin. She is also certified in Restoration Therapy Level 1, trained in EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing), and is currently being trained in Gottman Level 1. Host: Alex Chi, Enneagram 4 Becky Lee, Enneagram 2

This week I sit down with Jonathan and Esther Kim as they reflect on over a decade together. Jonathan and Esther currently live in the Dallas area with their three daughters - Emery, Arden, and Isla. At the end of this month, they will celebrate 11 years of married bliss, and together, they love any and all things food, people, and of course a great party ;) Listen in as they share how Jonathan waited for Esther in the early days, how they endured through their hardest seasons, and how they work as a team, logistically and emotionally, to thrive as a couple, as parents, and as business partners. There are so many golden nuggets in this conversation as two very different people show how together, they can truly make the dream work. Eunjoy! Esther Kim: Enneagram 3 Jonathan Kim: Enneagram 9 @happypartyco

Happy International Women's Day! This week I sit down with Doris Jeong as she reflects on her journey with dwarfism. Throwback to the old school days when information was barely out there to now where we can consume in abundance, Doris shares what it looked like to grow up as a Korean American navigating various identities in her life. From carrying the burden of representing others who share her condition to learning how to release and heal, Doris' personal stories and words of wisdom made this conversation both fun and insightful.  Doris grew up and still resides in Seattle where she currently works in tech. You can also find her at @iwearshirtsasdresses and listen to some of her own episodes on @ashotofsojupodcast. Eunjoy~ Doris Jeong: Enneagram 4.

What a Valentine's Day treat we have today! I got to chat with Kevin and Sorah Kong on the podcast this week, and did I learn a thing or few. Kevin and Sorah are Dallas natives that started dating in high school and grew their relationship into marriage with two beautiful girls. Together since 2006, it wasn't the rainbows that brought them to where they are today but rather how they responded in the stormiest of seasons. Listen in as they reflect on their "immature" days, their lonely days, the days that brought them closer than ever, and how they stay on top of communication in order to make the best team possible.  Take some time to reflect with your loved ones and celebrate the times, both good and hard, that helped you make it this far together! Happy Valetine's, Galentine's, Love Day <3 Eunjoy~ Sorah Kong: Enneagram 6w5 Kevin Kong: Enneagram 2w3

This week, Won Hee brought his siblings, Jun and Erin, onto the podcast to reflect on how adopting Erin, the youngest of the crew, completed their family. Won Hee works in tech consulting in HTX, Jun works with movie trailers in LA, and Erin is studying to get her Masters in Education! Growing up in the Bay Area, the three sib-lee-ngs ;) share insight into their childhood and go deeper into their Enneagram types to recall memories and realizations with one another. Join in for a fun time! May you be encouraged to have a conversation with your own siblings to see how the early days shaped your family as well. Eunjoy~~  Won Hee Lee: Enneagram 9 Jun Lee: Enneagram 2 Erin Lee: Enneagram 6

What a treat it was to sit down with a sweet friend, Hanna Chang, as she reflected over her adventurous life and inspiring accomplishments. Hanna grew up in Korea, Ghana, and Texas and has been residing in California for the past 9 years. Hanna leads business strategy for a startup during the day and creates trading card related content when she can find time apart from being a mom of two young kids. Her family is currently in transition to Asia long term to do faith-based work, so listen to hear how you can also follow and support their journey.  I had so much fun listening to my pioneer friend drop wisdom on her early days climbing the corporate ladder, reflect on how she changed the trajectory of financial insecurity for her family and future generations to come (YASS), and how she and Jacob reshifted priorities to use their God given talents to serve overseas. Oh and also which sports card we're all sleeping on! Tune into an organic conversation with one my funniest, realest, grittiest, and most successful friends. I'll add stubborn to balance it out haha. Hanna is the real freaking deal, and I hope you guys....Eunjoy~~~~~ Hanna (Sea) Chang: Enneagram 3, ISTJ @harukazoku @shecollectscards Subscribe to their Japan Journey on Youtube!

This week I share our conversation with Yoon and Becky Lee, the leaders of The Blessing Church, the community we have been grateful to be a part of since we moved to Dallas. Listen in on their adventurous journey across the world before coming to Dallas, serving in ministry since 2004. Just before coming to Dallas to plant The Blessing Church Yoon was at Tapestry LA as the Missions Pastor leading both Local and Global missions and also spent a year at the Church of Southland where he served as an associate pastor while Becky led worship. Hear how their Enneagram Types brought early tension that resulted in the greatest levels of health and teamwork, about the joys and struggles of church planting, and how their heart is intentional in every single detail. If you're in Dallas, mark your calendars for the hard launch on February 26th!  Pastor Yoon: Enneagram 1 Becky: Enneagram 4 The Blessing Church: @theblessingchurchdallas

Welcome to Season 3 of Koller Commentary! We're back with some great content, embedding the Enneagram into the powerful stories to come. This week Matt and I kick off the season by going back to our beginnings - our childhood. As I share what each Enneagram Type's Interpreted Childhood Message is, Matt and I both take the seat to reflect on what that message meant for us growing up and how that might have translated to some of our patterns today.  Share your reflections with the Instagram community @kollercommentary!  YEC Enneagram Test Truity Enneagram Test Koller Commentary's Previous Enneagram Episode with Won Hee Are you interested in Enneagram Coaching with Eunjee? Email [email protected] for more information!

Happy World Mental Health Day! I can’t believe I got to sit down with Laura Izumikawa, a professional photographer and videographer, who began creating photos and videos of her adorable napping daughter, Joey, in pop-culture costumes as a way to make her friends and family laugh while on maternity leave. What began as a way for Laura to find humor in parenting turned into a viral phenomenon. Her photos turned into a published book by Simon and Schuster in 2017 called, Naptime with Joey, which I own and have personally signed hehe! Laura and Joey have been featured on USA Today, ABC News, Huffington Post, and BuzzFeed, and recent partnerships include Canon, Apple, Target, Huggies, Mattel, Alaska Air, and Whole Foods.  Laura has since amassed a loyal audience who follow her for her humorous approach to parenting along with informative tips, her relatable approach about home and lifestyle, and teaching her daughters the importance of spreading kindness - all told through the lens of a down-to-earth and candid mother.  Listen in as Laura openly shares about how her faith grounds her in this crazy momfluencer life, how she intentionally protects and balances her identities in motherhood, marriage, and her mental well being, and her unique perspectives and inspiring life tips that have continued to shape and grow her and those around her. Thank you Laura for coming on the pod!!  Laura is an Enneagram 4 or 7 and her MBTI is ISFP - The Adventurer!
 Instagram: @lauraiz Book: Naptime with Joey  Make sure to rate this episode 5 stars and subscribe so you never miss another! Go to @kollercommentary to comment your key takeaways and join the email list to share what you want to hear about next! Thank you for being a part of this community. Eunjoy ~

This week I got to sit down with Carol Pak, founder of Sool! With renowned beverages like @drinkmakku and @drinksoku, Carol and the @drinksool team have paved the way in innovation to globalize Korean alcohol in an accessible and inclusive way since 2017. I personally fell in love with Makku in October 2021 on a trip to Seattle where this rice-based, all-natural, vegan, and gluten-free drink birthed from our parents' country brought such a physically and emotionally satisfying taste with each sip. Listen in on our conversation as Carol reflects on how all her experiences intersect to lead her to this point today, what she would tell her younger entrepreneur self, and her invaluable perspective as an Asian American female founder of a global product. Prior to Sool, she worked at ZX Ventures (owned by AB InBev), leading the launch of a new alcoholic beverage brand in China. She is native New Yorker, with a Bachelor's degree from the University of Michigan and an MBA from Columbia Business School. Follow Carol on Instagram and LinkedIn. Carol's MBTI is ENFP - The Campaigner! https://www.drinksool.com/ Make sure to rate this episode 5 stars and subscribe so you never miss another! Go to @kollercommentary to comment your key takeaways and join the email list to share what you want to hear about next! Thank you for being a part of this community. Eunjoy ~

I hope everyone had a Happy Chuseok this past weekend! In honor of creating space for family time, the Chi x Koller family played a game, Parents are Human, a bilingual connection card game designed to spark deep conversations between you and your loved ones. We had so much fun sharing with one another, and even though our family is pretty close to begin with, we got to learn more about how to love and appreciate each other better and even hear some stories from our parents' pasts. Listen in as we share and butcher some Korean words :P, all while soaking in the true meaning of this holiday. With the pandemic and rising inflation, more and more families are focusing on the importance of gathering with families and relatives to have quality time together rather than focusing on the ritual itself. I hope as you join in on our family's conversation, you can be encouraged to go back and start dialogue within your own intimate units! ALSO, stay tuned until the very end to catch a teaser from the cutest guest in the world. HEHEHOHO! Chong In (Appa) is an Enneagram 2 and his MBTI is ESFJ - The Consul Chong Ran (Umma) is an Enneagram 1 and her MBTI is ISFJ - The Defender Jessica (Unni) is an Enneagram 3 and her MBTI is INFJ - The Advocate Alex (Oppa) is an Enneagram 2/3/4 and his MBTI is ISFJ - The Defender I am an Enneagram 2 and my MBTI is ENFJ - The Protagonist Matt (Yuh Boh LOL) is an Enneagram 9 and his MBTI is ESFJ - The Consul  Jadon - TBDTBDTBD! Make sure to rate and subscribe so you never miss an episode! Go to @kollercommentary to comment your key takeaways and join the email list to share what you want to hear about next! I would love to hear more from you on the topics you want to listen to. Eunjoy ~

In preparation for Chuseok (Korean Thanksgiving) this weekend, I invited my siblings to the pod to reminisce on our younger days as we share our different perspectives on what it was like growing up under the same roof. We swap stories on getting spanked, the pressures of being an Asian American student at a competitive school, and what obedience looked like to each of us. We also swap fond stories of gratitude as we remind ourselves that through any low or high, our family has been and will always be a glue that keeps us together through life, no matter the obstacle. Thank you, Appa and Umma! May you take time to show some love to your family this Chuseok holiday weekend!  Jessica (Unni) is an Enneagram 3 and her MBTI is INFJ - The Advocate Alex (Oppa) is an Enneagram 2/3/4 and his MBTI is ISFJ - The Defender I am an Enneagram 2 and my MBTI is ENFJ - The Protagonist  Make sure to rate and subscribe so you never miss an episode! Go to @kollercommentary to comment your key takeaways and join the email list to share what you want to hear about next! I would love to hear more from you on the topics you want to listen to. Eunjoy ~

I am honored to sit down and talk with Jeanie Chang, LMFT, on the podcast this week. We discuss her journey from multiple career changes at an unconventional time, finding success in her choice to put her mental well-being first, and how she has pioneered change for Asian Americans and beyond through her work as a licensed therapist, global speaker, and social medial influencer. Her platform, Noona's Noonchi, creates a powerful and unique community where she discusses the intersection of Korean Dramas and mental health through the unique lens of a mental health clinician. Did I mention she's also a mom of FOUR?!  Jeanie's story of resilience and change is an inspiring one to say the least, and I hope you enjoy listening to it as much as I did! Stay tuned to hear about her recent trip to Korea where she got to see her passionate work in real life and also share her favorite dramas as a Korean American licensed clinician.  Jeanie is an Enneagram 3 and her MBTI is ENFJ - The Protagonist! Instagram & Youtube: @noonasnoonchi Book: A is for Authentic: Not for Anxieties or for Straight A's  Make sure to rate and subscribe so you never miss an episode! Go to @kollercommentary to comment your key takeaways and join the email list to share what you want to hear about next! I would love to hear more from you on the topics you want to listen to. Eunjoy ~

This week, Matt and I sit down to reflect on our recent move to Dallas. TBH, it was an incredibly hard transition for us, relationally, but I always appreciate my husband for taking time to reflect and seeing how we can grow from every obstacle. We reminisce on Houston, look ahead to opportunities in Dallas, and all the transitions still ahead for the KollerKrew. We also talk about our recent experience in couples therapy and have some fun reading some descriptions about each other's Enneagram Types! There is even a past "quibble" that we would love the Enneagram community to chime in on  towards the end :)  Thank you for allowing us to be vulnerable on the podcast. Have fun listening and three cheers to Matt on starting his first BIG BOY doctor job this week!! Matt is an Enneagram 9 and his MBTI is ESFJ - The Consul. I am an Enneagram 2 and my MBTI is an ENFJ - The Protagonist. Instagram: @mattyk62, @kollerkrew, @kollercommentary If you eunjoyed this episode, make sure to rate it 5 stars and subscribe so you never miss another! Go to @kollercommentary to comment your key takeaways and share what you want to hear about next! I would love to hear more from you on the topics you want to listen to. Thank you for being a part of this community <3

This week, I had a spontaneous conversation with Janice Tong, formerly Janice Yi, to shed some light on our more "positive" birth experiences, share our pregnancy journeys and scares, and reflect on the overall joys and struggles of motherhood as we prepare for the imminent transition from one to two. Our sons, Levi and Jadon, were born a day apart at the start of lockdown in TX, and now, two years later, we are both preparing to welcome our second babies! Janice was born and raised in Dallas with a fun path that took her through bible college to corporate life to now stay-at-home mom life while managing operations for Ignis Community. While Janice and I have been acquaintances with various connections over the years, what brought us even closer now is motherhood, and I love how this stage in life can bring us together! Excuse our heavy breathing as we are both in our third trimesters, and enjoy us ajummas babbling about life :) Janice is an Enneagram 6 and her MBTI is ISFJ - The Defender! Instagram: @jan1cetong If you eunjoyed this episode, make sure to rate it 5 stars and subscribe so you never miss another! Go to @kollercommentary to comment your key takeaways and share what you want to hear about next! I would love to hear more from you on the topics you want to listen to. Thank you for being a part of this community <3 Go to https://betterhelp.com/koller for 10% off your first month of therapy with BetterHelp and get matched with a therapist who will listen and help #sponsored

This week, I got to sit back down with Grace Yun and hear her reflect on her difficult birth story, celebrate the end of her fourth trimester, and share all the beautifully jumbled reflections of a newborn mama. I know there are a lot of soon-to-be mamas out there, so listen as Grace shares tips for newborn moms and some must-have baby gear for the early days to welcome your little one in soon! Grace is an Enneagram 7 and her MBTI is ESFP - The Entertainer! Instagram: @graceeyun89 Blog: http://www.yourstruly-grace.com/ If you eunjoyed this episode, make sure to rate it 5 stars and subscribe so you never miss another! Go to @kollercommentary to comment your key takeaways and share what you want to hear about next! I would love to hear more from you on the topics you want to listen to. Thank you for being a part of this community <3 Go to https://betterhelp.com/koller for 10% off your first month of therapy with BetterHelp and get matched with a therapist who will listen and help #sponsored