Live & Learn with Daniel Floyd

In this episode, Daniel and Schelleen discuss what makes men different from women. First, they unpack three pairings that are helpful in thinking more clearly about this topic (male-female, man-woman, masculine-feminine). Daniel highlights how the themes of "internal" and "external" consistently show up in each of these layers, and shares what it meant for him to become a man in his family. They then discuss how parents should think about raising boys to become men.If you have questions or comments, please reach out! We'd love to hear your input regarding this [email protected]/outro music by Alan Floyd

This episode is really late, but it’s still happening! Daniel and Schelleen sit down to discuss their biggest takeaways from last year’s reading. Daniel discusses some of the most important aspects of education he learned about, and Schelleen shares some of the most interesting things she’s learned about healthy relationships. Take a look at the lists below for books to add to your own reading list.Please enjoy!Daniel's 2024 Reading List Competed Repairing the Ruins: The Classical and Christian Challenge to Modern Education - Douglas Wilson (editor) On Secular Education - R.L. Dabney How to Educate a Citizen: The Power of Shared Knowledge to Unify a Nation - E.D. Hirsch Leadership and Emotional Sabotage: Resisting the Anxiety That Will Wreck Your Family, Destroy Your Church, and Ruin the World - Joe Rigney The Abolition of Man - C.S. Lewis The Paideia of God: And Other Essays on Education - Douglas Wilson Slaying Leviathan: Limited Government and Resistance in Christian Tradition - Glenn S. Sunshine The Household and the War for the Cosmos: Recovering a Christian Vision for the Family - C.R. Wiley Mere Christianity - C.S. Lewis Why You Think the Way You Do: The Story of Western Worldviews from Rome to Home - Glenn S. Sunshine Strange New World: How Thinkers and Activists Redefined Identity and Sparked the Sexual Revolution - Carl R. Trueman Man’s Search for Meaning - Viktor E. Frankl The Education Reformation: Why Your Church Should Start a Christian School - Jimmy Scroggins, Trevin Wax Still in Progress Thinking God's Thoughts: Johannes Kepler and the Miracle of Cosmic Comprehensibility - Melissa Cain Travis Did not Finish Making Sense of Your World: A Biblical Worldview - W. Gary Phillips, William E. Brown, et al A Matter of Principal: A Former School Principal’s Journey to Redefine Education and Bring Learning Back to the Home - Mandy Davis Speed Reading: Learn to Read a 200+ Page Book in 1 Hour - Kam Knight Schelleen’s 2024 Reading List  Completed The 13th Gift - Joanne Huist SmithPsalms: A Guide to Studying the Psalter - W.H. Bellinger Jr. Breaking Free from Body Shame - Jess ConnollySabbath as Resistance - Walter Brueggeman Bird Day - Mark HauberThe Four Loves - C.S. LewisThe Way of the Shepherd - Kevin Leman, Bill PentakRethinking Sexuality - Dr. Juli SlatteryHow to Manage Your Home Without Losing Your Mind - Dana K. White Waymaker - Ann VoskampMarried Sex - Gary Chapman, Lisa FiletaWith - Skye JethaniDigital Liturgies - Samuel James The Intentional Year - Glenn PackiumChurch History in Plain Language 5th Edition - Bruce ShelleyThe Benedict Option - Rod DreherBeing the Body - Chuck ColsonThe Hidden Prince - Tessa Afsharintro/outro music by Alan Floyd

It’s been awhile since the last episode. Daniel and Schelleen sit down to discuss what’s been happening in the last few months… namely, their new baby! Schelleen and Daniel discuss the whole journey of bringing baby Christopher into the world, from deciding whether to induce or not, debating whether to get an epidural, and figuring out how to keep a tiny human alive. We hope you enjoy!intro/outro music by Alan Floyd

Daniel and Schelleen discuss how parents should handle difficult or uncomfortable topics with their children. Whether they’re dealing with the death of a family pet, or the topic of sexual predators, it can be challenging for parents to address these issues with their kids. Some parents take a sheltering approach– seeking to protect them from the ugliness of the real world; while others take an exposure approach– allowing their kids to experience the difficulties of the real world as a way to prepare them for adulthood. There's merit to both of these extremes, but Daniel and Schelleen haven't fully worked the guiding principles that help clarify how to balance these two approaches. This episode is more of a thinking-out-loud type conversation rather than a comprehensive explanation. If you have thoughts you’d like to share, we’d love to hear from you. Leave a comment on Spotify or email us!Email us! [email protected]/outro music by Alan Floyd

On this episode, Daniel speaks with English teacher and dad of 3 Jake Coffin. Jake was homeschooled all the way from kindergarten through high school, and he shares his thoughts about that part of his life– what he thinks went well and what didn’t go well, and whether he would do it again if he could go back. Jake’s story leads into a conversation about what it means for parents to take responsibility for their childrens’ education. Christians believe that parents are given the primary responsibility for educating their children, not teachers. But what does that mean practically? Is homeschooling the only way for parents to take responsibility for their kids’ learning? Or is it something deeper than that? And for parents now, what should they do if they realize that there are gaps in their child’s education? Jake and Daniel conclude their discussion by highlighting 3 pillars of a child’s education that are critical for parents to pay attention to. These 3 pillars are the child’s academic growth, their social & psychological development, and their spiritual formation. All of these pillars can be addressed or neglected regardless of what type of school the child goes to. The key is whether the parents are taking responsibility to keep tabs on each of these areas. Please consider subscribing to the show if you’re not already. And please share this episode with anyone else who you think would benefit from listening.  Email us! [email protected] intro/outro music by Alan Floyd

On this episode, Schelleen and Daniel give a life update of the last year. (Spoiler: Schelleen is pregnant!!) After mourning the loss of baby William, getting pregnant turned out to be more of a challenge than they thought. Schelleen recounts the months of disappointing news and the decision not to pursue medical intervention. She also shares how God became much more involved in this season of infertility than she anticipated. Daniel shares his journey of learning how to pray more biblically about things you want, and highlights how Schelleen’s morning sickness serves as an opportunity for him to practice being the “head of the household”. We hope this conversation encourages you!Email us! [email protected]/outro music by Alan Floyd

This episode is a recording of a talk Daniel gave at the Train Up educators conference in Fresno, CA. This conference was a gathering of Christian educators from various backgrounds (homeschool, private school, public school).In this talk, Daniel outlines the Christian view of education and articulates how it differs from non-Christian education. Working out of Ephesians 6:4, Daniel explains the concept of "paideia" and the Christian view that education is about culture building- not career or college preparation. He emphasizes that Christian education is not simply a variation on secular education, but rather operates on fundamentally different premises that give rise to a distinctly Christian purpose and curriculum.We hope you enjoy!Daniel's Slides What is Christian education?Email us! [email protected] intro/outro music by Alan Floyd

On this episode, Daniel brings on Jake Sevits to discuss the unexpected benefits of practicing Brazilian jiu jitsu. Jake is the owner and founder of the Old School Jiu Jitsu gym. He has been training in BJJ for over 7 years.BJJ is a martial art in which two opponents compete in a wrestling-like manner to submit each other with a choke or joint lock. BJJ is a highly complex sport that takes years to master (generally more than 10 years to reach black belt).In training this martial art, Daniel and Jake have found that the physical struggle of BJJ serves as a training ground for developing character traits that strengthen the individual for struggles outside the gym. Drawing from their personal experiences, they discuss how BJJ develops characteristics like physical and mental endurance, confidence, the ability to keep your ego in check, humility to ask others for help, and the ability to stay calm in stressful situations rather than panicking or giving up.We hope you enjoy this epic convo!Old School Jiu Jitsu https://www.oldschoolkv.com/Academic Study Brazilian Jiu Jitsu aș a Tool for Veteran ReassimilationQuestions? Comments? Email us! [email protected]/outro music by Alan Floyd

We have new guests on the podcast! Nate and Larissa Fajkus are close friends to Schelleen and Daniel, and they all sit down to be discuss physical health from a Christian perspective. Many of us think of healthy diet and exercise as important for taking care of ourselves, and a lot of us treat a healthy lifestyle as being somewhat optional. We may think of people that take health and fitness super seriously as “health nuts” and ourselves as “normal people” who prioritize other things. But maybe this is the wrong paradigm. Could it be that health and fitness aren’t about our own wellbeing, but rather about our ability to care for others? And could it be that our dietary choices don’t just apply to our physical bodies, but also hold implications for our spiritual wellbeing? Does God really care whether we eat junk food or not? Does our physical fitness have anything to do with our spiritual maturity? We discuss all this and more! Stay tuned.Books mentioned in this episode: Full: Food, Jesus, and the Battle for SatisfactionBreaking Free from Body ShameBody for LifeSpiritual Disciplines for the Christian LifeSermon Mentioned by Daniel Undermining the Designer - John MoodyQuestions? Comments? Email [email protected]/outro music by Alan Floyd

Daniel and Schelleen continue their series of discussions on healthy habits, based on the book Habits of the Household by Justin Earley. Today, they're getting into one of the most critical habits that we all have to wrestle with- screens. Now, it's important to keep in mind that screens aren't entirely bad; they clearly have tremendous potential for good in our lives. The key is to think of screens as being powerful... powerful in their ability to form the type of person that we're becoming. Because of this, the topic of how to better manage screens is critical for all of us.Questions? Comments? Email us! [email protected] the Book Habits of the Household: Practicing the Story of God in Everyday Family RhythmsArticleThe Yes (to Technology) in Our No (to Social Media)intro/outro music by Alan Floyd

On this first episode of 2024, Daniel and Schelleen reflect on the last year's learning. They share some of their best and worst reads from 2023. Daniel shares how true learning goes deeper than gaining information; it's about changing as a person. Schelleen and Daniel reflect on some of the hacks that have helped them develop a lifestyle of reading.Daniel's 2023 Reading List CompletedRecovering the Lost Tools of Learning: An Approach to Distinctively Christian Education - Doug WilsonThe End of Education: Redefining the Value of School - Neil PostmanFidelity: How to Be a One-woman Man - Douglas WilsonExcused Absence: Should Christian Kids Leave Public Schools? - Douglas WilsonThe Seven Laws of Teaching - John Milton GregoryPloductivity: A Practical Theology of Work and Wealth - Douglas WilsonThe Other Side of the Coyne: A Review of "Why Evolution is True" - Douglas WilsonPomosexuality - Douglas WilsonThe Church Impotent: The Feminization of Christianity - Leon PodlesThe Covenant Household - Douglas WilsonFight by Flight: Why Leaving Godless Places is Loving Godless Places - Joel WebbonStill in ProgressMessianic Nature of American Education - RJ RushdoonyThe Philosophy of the Christian Curriculum - RJ RushdoonyThe Doctrines that Divide: A Fresh Look at the Historic Doctrines that Separate Christians - Erwin LutzerCreation in 6 Days: A Defense of the Traditional Reading of Genesis One - James B. JordanRepairing the Ruins: The Classical and Christian Challenge to Modern Education - various authorsHabits of the Household: Practicing the Story of God in Everyday Family Rhythms - Justin Whitmel Earley12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos - Jordan B. PetersonDid not FinishCobalt Red: How the Blood of the Congo Powers Our Lives - Siddharth Kara(A)Typical Woman: Free, Whole, and Called in Christ - Abigail DoddsSchelleen's 2023 Reading List CompletedThe Gospel Comes with a House Key: Practicing Radically Ordinary Hospitality in our Post-Christian World - Rosaria ButterfieldA Lucky Child - Thomas BuergenthalAll About Heaven - Dave OliverReflections on the Psalms - C.S. LewisPsalms, the Prayer Book of the Bible - BonhoefferThe Seven Laws of Teaching - John Milton GregoryBittersweet - Shauna NiequistGod, Sex, and Your Marriage - Dr. Julie SlatteryGuardians of Ga’Hoole (series) - Kathryn LaskyPsalms in 30 Days - Trevin WaxSeeing Beautiful Again - Lysa TerKeurstEmpty Cradle, Broken Heart - Debra L David Ph.D.Buried Dreams: From Devastating Loss to Unimaginable Hope - Lindsey DennisChoosing to See - Mary Beth ChapmanEmpty Arms - Pam VredeveltThe Covenant Household - Douglas WilsonHabits of the Household: Practicing the Story of God in Everyday Family Rhythms - Justin Whitmel EarleyStill in ProgressHope when it Hurts - Kristen Wetherell & Sarah WaltonLead - Paul David TrippFight for Love - Rosie MakinneyMathematics in Western Culture - Morris KlinePartner Betrayal Trauma - Douglas WeissLead Like it Matters - Craig Groeschel12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos - Jordan B. PetersonA Shepherd Looks at Psalm 23 - W. Phillip KellerThe 13th Gift - Joanne Huist SmithBreaking Free from Body Shame - Jess ConnollyEmail us! [email protected]/outro music by Alan Floyd

On this episode Daniel sits down with Deann to discuss her journey of learning how to effectively meet the educational, developmental, and spiritual needs of her children. Deann and David Kelly are the parents of 4 children in Missouri. As Christians, the Kellys take the education of their children very seriously. When their kids were young, the Kellys strongly believed in homeschooling and completely opposed public schooling for any reason. But now, they have a more nuanced perspective, even to the point that 3 of their children either have attended, or are attending, public school now. Email us! [email protected] Media Daniel's Twitter: https://twitter.com/floydtheteach Daniel's IG: https://www.instagram.com/floydtheteach Note: A small portion of this recording has been omitted to protect the privacy of an individual that was briefly discussed.

On this episode, Daniel and Schelleen discuss chapter 3 of Justin Earley's Habits of the Household: Practicing the Story of God in Everyday Family Rhythms. The topic is discipline. How can Christian parents discipline their children in such a way that reflects Christ's nature to their children?Daniel highlights the idea that the goal of discipline should not be to simply inflict consequences for misbehavior, but rather to seek reconciliation between those who have done wrong and those who have been wronged. Schelleen digs into the idea that discipline is not about controlling our children, but rather about training their hearts to love the right things. All this and much more! Enjoy.Amazon Link: Habits of the HouseholdEmail us! [email protected] Media Daniel's Twitter: https://twitter.com/floydtheteach Daniel's IG: https://www.instagram.com/floydtheteach intro/outro music by Alan Floyd

Daniel sits down with Schelleen to process his thoughts on recreation. We all want to develop healthy habits, but is it appropriate to occasionally neglect healthy habits- at least temporarily? Are there areas of our lives where it's never okay to loosen up from our regular discipline? Also, are there objectively better and worse ways to recreate (particularly for Christians), or do our patterns in recreation simply depend on the person and the situation?This is a deep-cutting conversation, and it's probably the first of many times this topic will come up on the pod. We hope you enjoy!Email us! [email protected] Media Daniel's Twitter: https://twitter.com/floydtheteach Daniel's IG: https://www.instagram.com/floydtheteach intro/outro music by Alan Floyd

In this episode, Daniel sits down with Schelleen to discuss a book they've started reading together. The book is Habits of the Household: Practicing the Story of God in Everyday Family Rhythms by Justin Whittle Earley. They're only a few chapters in but this book is already changing their lives. Daniel and Schelleen have been thinking a lot about habits lately, for different reasons. Daniel's history with addiction gives habits a deeper meaning, and Schelleen's desire to raise healthy kids motivates her to establish healthy habits now.Today's discussion covers habits of waking and habits of mealtimes. When we wake up in a physical sense, we also wake up in a narrative sense. We awaken to a “story of reality”. This story of reality represents our priorities and our place in the world. Our “story of reality” needs to align with God’s version of reality. Regarding meals, Christians must understand that meals have spiritual meaning. Meals are about communing, not consuming. In our families, our mealtime habits can foster relationship building or relationship atrophy.Book Website https://www.habitsofthehousehold.com/Devotional: Psalms in 30 Days https://www.amazon.com/Psalms-30-Days-Trevin-Wax/dp/1087749026Email us! [email protected] Media Daniel's Twitter: https://twitter.com/floydtheteach Daniel's IG: https://www.instagram.com/floydtheteach intro/outro music by Alan Floyd

Daniel discusses homeschooling with his friends Jason and Alejandra Guenther. They homeschool their 4 young children (preK to 4th grade) in California. The Guenthers share why they chose to homeschool and how they collaborate with other families to make it work. Daniel asks how their Christian faith influences their views on parenting and education. Jason shares several stats on the academic and social benefits of homeschooling. Alejandra shares her passion for being directly involved in educating her kids, rather than sending them off to someone else.Research Facts on HomeschoolingEmail us! [email protected] Media Daniel's Twitter: https://twitter.com/floydtheteach Daniel's IG: https://www.instagram.com/floydtheteachintro/outro music by Alan Floyd

We have some returning guests on this episode- Jake and Kailene Coffin! These two are educators in Arizona, and Daniel wanted to continue a previous conversation with them about different models of Christian education and Christian curriculum. In their discussion, they reflect on their experiences in different school models and debate what the purpose of a Christian education should be. They also get into the question of what makes a curriculum "Christian" and whether there is a meaningful distinction from "non-Christian" curriculum. We believe more educators need to be talking about this stuff. We hope you enjoy!Please don't hesitate to share your thoughts and questions.Email us! [email protected] Media Daniel's Twitter: https://twitter.com/floydtheteach Daniel's IG: https://www.instagram.com/floydtheteachintro/outro music by Alan Floyd

This episode is a recording of a talk that Daniel gave at a regional church conference on September 15th. This discussion was the last of three talks on education from a Christian perspective. Daniel addresses the question of whether the Church, broadly speaking, should uphold the public school model or abandon it altogether in the interest of building alternative models of education. In this talk, Daniel looks into the history and origins of American public education, the philosophical framework that undergirds the public school model, and ultimately what Scripture says about education. The talk is followed by a Q&A panel discussion with all the speakers from the morning meeting. Presentation SlidesEmail us! [email protected] Media Daniel's Twitter: https://twitter.com/floydtheteach Daniel's IG: https://www.instagram.com/floydtheteach

Schelleen and Daniel sit down to discuss a theme they've noticed in their lives recently- decay. They unpack the recent slew of unexpected home improvement fiascos they've had to navigate. Schelleen shares a journal entry where she reflects on the reality that everything is decaying- even us. They discuss Romans 8, The Fall's result of separating "God's space" from "our space", and the hope of heaven reuniting with Earth. Daniel highlights the way in which humans imitate God by combatting the decay around them. Email us! [email protected] Social Media Daniel's Twitter: https://twitter.com/floydtheteach Daniel's IG: https://www.instagram.com/floydtheteach

On this episode Daniel is joined by friend and colleague Shawn Meintz to discuss public education from a Christian teacher's perspective. Shawn is a dad of 3 and social studies teacher who works in the same high school as Daniel. He and Daniel discuss whether Christian parents should enroll their kids in public school. Shawn discusses the value of Christian students having influence among their peers, but Daniel shares his concerns about the humanistic philosophy behind public education. We hope you enjoy this compelling discussion!First Amendment https://constitution.congress.gov/constitution/amendment-1/Email us! [email protected] Media Daniel's Twitter: https://twitter.com/floydtheteach Daniel's IG: https://www.instagram.com/floydtheteachintro/outro music by Alan Floyd

What is learning?What defines "a learner"?How do teachers know if their students are actually learning?Daniel and Schelleen sit down to discuss these very questions. Pulling from the book The 7 Laws of Teaching by John Milton Gregory, Daniel talks about how understanding the true definition of a "learner" and the "learning process" has taken his teaching to the next level. Schelleen shares about her high school curriculum and questions how deep her learning actually went.Enjoy!Email us! [email protected] Media Daniel's IG: https://www.instagram.com/floydtheteachDaniel's Twitter: https://twitter.com/floydtheteach intro/outro music by Alan Floyd

Jake and Kailene Coffin are guests on the pod! They sit down with Daniel and Schelleen to discuss education from the parents' perspective. Between them, Jake and Kailene have multiple years of experience in teaching and education administration. They have also recently decided to begin home schooling their own children.In this episode, Jake and Kailene share their views on what it means to be a Christian parent who takes their child's education seriously. They address question like...Should all parents home school their kids?What are some overarching principles for Christian parents in thinking about education?What is the purpose of education?We hope you enjoy!Email us! [email protected] Media Daniel's IG: https://www.instagram.com/floydtheteachDaniel's Twitter: https://twitter.com/floydtheteach intro/outro music by Alan Floyd

On this episode, Schelleen and Daniel continue the story of their son William, who passed away on his birthday June 29, 2022. They specifically talk about the week after his death- unpacking the emotional fallout of this devastating loss, contrasting Daniel's response to trauma with Schelleen's, and highlighting the ways that this tragedy provided opportunities for Daniel and Schelleen to care for each other better in their marriage. We hope you are moved and encouraged by William's story! Video recording of Daniel speaking at William's Funeral https://youtu.be/BbcsUOuAb0Y Email us! [email protected] Social Media Daniel's IG: https://www.instagram.com/floydtheteach Daniel's Twitter: https://twitter.com/floydtheteach

It's been almost a year since we've last uploaded, and we are back with an update. Unfortunately, our son William passed away suddenly on his birthday last summer. This episode is a conversation between Daniel and Schelleen telling the story of his birthday. This is not an easy story to tell, but we believe that this podcast is another way for us to remember our son and share the love that so many have for him. Our hope is that you will be blessed in some way by hearing his story. Video recording Daniel speaking at William's Funeral https://youtu.be/BbcsUOuAb0Y Email us! [email protected] Social Media Daniel's IG: https://www.instagram.com/floydtheteach Daniel's Twitter: https://twitter.com/floydtheteach

The podcast has a NEW name! I believe that "Live and Learn" best captures the purpose of the show. I want this podcast to be platform where we can have meaningful conversations that push us to be better humans. In this episode, I discuss chapter 3 of Jordan Peterson's book 12 Rules for Life with my wife Schelleen. We dig into a difficult question. "Are there situations in which you shouldn't help someone who is less fortunate than you?" The answer seems obvious, but there's more to consider than you think. If you are the type of person who helps others or leads a team, you need to listen to this one. Teachers, parents, coaches- this one is for you! Email us! [email protected] Social Media IG: https://www.instagram.com/floydtheteach Daniel's Twitter: https://twitter.com/floydtheteach

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Daniel and Schelleen continue their journey through Jordan Peterson's book 12 Rules for Life. In this episode, they explore the idea of "order vs chaos"- a theme that transcends culture, religion, and personal identity. Our lives must properly incorporate both chaos and order. In fact, every area within our lives is an arena in which we must reckon with these opposing realities. Too much of one, and life quickly falls apart. We hope you enjoy this thought-provoking conversation!TEDTalk: The World's Ugliest Music https://youtu.be/RENk9PK06AQ Email us! [email protected] Social Media IG: https://www.instagram.com/floydtheteach Daniel's Twitter: https://twitter.com/floydtheteach

On this episode Daniel and Schelleen discuss the controversial Dobbs v. Jackson Women's Health Organization Supreme Court case. Emotions are running high in the wake of this landmark ruling, and yet many people seem to misunderstand the framework of the Supreme Court's decision (regardless of their stance on abortion). Here, we don't discuss abortion as much as we discuss the question of whether the Court correctly interpreted the Constitution. This episode highlights a discussion that few people are having. Enjoy! Email us! [email protected] Recommended Podcast Episode from Schelleen Java with Juli: #422 How to Care for Both Women and Children in the Wake of the Dobbs Decision Social Media TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@thekvpod IG: https://www.instagram.com/thekvpod Daniel's Twitter: https://twitter.com/floydtheteach

The illustrious Carly Wallace makes a return appearance on The KV Pod, as she has more education stuff to talk about with Daniel! On this episode Carly and Daniel discuss one of best educational programs in the US right now: Upward Bound. UB is a federal program that empowers students from low income backgrounds to enter and complete a college degree. Daniel and Carly discuss their unforgettable experiences working for the program and dig into the implications it has for both educators and students in the US today. Upward Bound in Kirksville https://ub.truman.edu Federal Upward Bound Website https://www2.ed.gov/programs/trioupbound/index.html Email us! [email protected] Social Media Daniel's Twitter: https://twitter.com/floydtheteach

Welcome to part 2 of Daniel and Schelleen's conversation on communication in relationships. Part 1 of this discussion was a blast and we are pleased to bring you the rest of the dialogue. Also, be sure to listen for updates on Baby Floyd at the beginning of the episode. Do you know someone who would benefit from listening to this episode? Share it with them! Schelleen's Notes from the Episode II. Speaking A. Lead off with questions. B. “I feel x when you y.” C. Be honest and vulnerable. Get to the root issue. III. Listening A. Don’t interrupt. B. Paraphrase what you heard back to the speaker. (“So I hear you saying…” “Is that what you’re trying to communicate?” or “Am I understanding you correctly?”) C. Ask questions to clarify and go deeper. Don't jump to conclusions. D. If they are struggling to articulate their thoughts, consider what they’re trying to communicate without holding them to the literal meaning of their words. E. Don’t leave until you agree on what has been said (common definitions); recap never hurt anyone. F. Validate emotions. (This doesn't have to mean you agree with them.) IV. Extra steps in conflict A. Be aware of tone. B. Consider different personalities. C. Maybe take a break and come back; set a time to come back. D. Be quick to admit you’re wrong. Be quick to forgive. “Sorry” and “I forgive you” are powerful words. Celeste Headlee: 10 ways to have a better conversation | TED https://youtu.be/R1vskiVDwl4 Email us! [email protected] Social Media TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@thekvpod IG: https://www.instagram.com/thekvpod Daniel's Twitter: https://twitter.com/floydtheteach

On this episode Daniel and Schelleen sit down to discuss their approach to communication in marriage. They are both passionate about effective communication and have been told by several friends that they are excellent examples of healthy communication. Pulling from their experience (and Schelleen's bachelor's degree in communication), they begin to peel back the layers of what it takes to successfully comunicate with your partner. Do you know someone that would benefit from listening to this episode? Share it with them! Schelleen's Notes on Communication Mindset A. The Communication Modeli. Transmitter/Receiverii. Encode/Decodeiii. Noise iv. Channelv. FeedbackB. Assume the best of the other person. C. You’re on the same team. D. The truth is more important than being right. E. No “gunnysacking” F. Talk it out with the Lord/mentors first to clarify what the problem even is (before dumping on partner). Email us! [email protected] Social Media Daniel's Twitter: https://twitter.com/floydtheteach

Daniel and Schelleen have started reading Jordan Peterson's book "12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos", and they want to talk about it! Each chapter of the book is an essay on how the reader can live a more meaningful life- presented from the perspectives of cognitive psychology, evolutionary biology, and the Bible. This week they dig into chapter 1, which discusses how we can change the trajectory of our life by accepting the suffering of life and consciously choosing to face it with moral fortitude. Topics in this chapter include dominance hierarchies, wealth inequality, lobsters, and the evil inside us all! We hope you enjoy! Follow the pod: TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@thekvpodIG: https://www.instagram.com/thekvpod

On this episode of Teacher Talks, Daniel brings on one of his dearest friends Carly Wallace. Daniel and Carly met at Truman State where they both received their Masters in Education. And while they share a deep passion for education, their teaching careers have taken drastically different paths. Drawing from their own experience, they discuss the factors that are driving some teachers from the classroom and those that are allowing some to stay. They also get into the importance of reading and writing for students in EVERY class and the tremendous good that is public education. We hope you enjoy! A big shout out to Alan Floyd for editing this episode and removing a great deal of static due to us podcasting over FaceTime. Thank you!

This week on the KV Pod we have part 2 of Daniel and Schelleen's conversation about their college experiences. This week Daniel tells us about his freshman year as a KV local not being able to be around his local friends. He also shares the saga that is navigating the various social and academic challenges of being a chemistry major. We hope you find this episode informative and relatable. Thanks for listening. Enjoy!

Welcome to another episode! This week Daniel and Schelleen delve into their collegiate pasts. The Floyds both attended Truman State, but had vastly different experiences, and didn't even become friends until late in their undergrad years. This 2 hour conversation will be posted as separate episodes, and this week we are featuring Schelleen! She discusses her journey of choosing a major, working with international students, and eventually transitioning from campus church to Life Church. Tune in next week to hear Daniel's story. Enjoy! Follow us! TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@thekvpodcast21 IG: https://www.instagram.com/thekvpod

Hello and welcome to another episode! This week concludes our "trilogy" of get-to-know-you games. This week Emily and Schelleen compete to see who knows Daniel better. Daniel picked different questions than the previous games, so things get interesting! Daniel tells us stories of his broken bones, eating salsa "the weird way", and the body feature he's most insecure about. Enjoy!

On this episode of the The KV Pod we're having some fun! Daniel and Emily go head-to-head to see who knows Schelleen better. Daniel is married to her, but bestie Emily never forgets a detail. The results surprised even us! This is the 1st of 3 get-to-know-you games that we'll play in the next couple weeks. Enjoy! Originally recorded: Mar 6, 2022 IG: https://www.instagram.com/thekvpod

On this episode of The KV Pod we are recognizing Endometriosis Awareness Month! One of our very own, Emily Hanley, has personal experience with endo and she takes the opportunity to share her story with us. Endo is a condition that many feel uncomfortable talking about, so we want to help carry on the conversation. We hope Emily's story encourages those who also deal with endo, and informs those who don't. Thanks for listening! Originally recorded: Feb 20, 2022 For more info on Endometriosis Endometriosis Foundation of America https://www.endofound.org/

This week on The KV Pod Daniel is joined by a new illustrious guest who previously has only made background appearances on the show- Schelleen! The Mrs. Floyd! Daniel and Schelleen discuss Daniel's newfound hobby of handmade pasta making. Daniel shares about interacting with students at the store. Finally, the future Floyd parents discuss the pros and cons of public vs private education for their future kiddos. Originally recorded: Dec 28, 2021