Live! with Fefe and Freddy

For our Season 14 finale, we spent the evening doing what we do best: catching up, sharing stories, talking through what's happening in our community, and reflecting on the season we've built together.We started by looking back at a busy weekend that included Phoenix Fan Fusion, Drag Story Hour, family celebrations, and the challenges of navigating Arizona's summer heat. We shared our experiences at Fan Fusion, discussed crowd management concerns, and talked about the importance of making community events safe and accessible for everyone.In this week's "Just the Tip," Freddy tackled a topic many Arizonans understand all too well: summertime seasonal depression. While many people associate seasonal depression with winter, Arizona's extreme summer temperatures can create their own mental health challenges. We discussed practical ways to stay connected, active, and engaged during the hottest months of the year, from museums and indoor activities to finding community and making time for yourself.We also spent time discussing current events, LGBTQ+ issues, community news, and the loss of beloved Phoenix icon Regina Wells. We reflected on her impact, positivity, and the lasting impression she made on so many people throughout the Valley.As the episode came to a close, we looked back on Season 14 itself. We talked about consistency, growth, Patreon content, social media, guests, and what it means to continue showing up week after week after more than a decade of conversations. We shared our gratitude for everyone who has supported the show, joined the conversation, attended events, and helped make this season possible.Thank you for being part of Season 14.We'll see you soon for Season 15.

Welcome back to YOUR Wednesday night conversation.This week, we kicked off Pride Month with a special guest, Buck Wylde, from Revry's King of Drag, a drag king competition and reality show.Before our interview, we shared updates on Pride Month, upcoming events, and Freddy's annual Pride season reminder to take care of yourself during busy performance schedules. From washing costumes and airing out drag bags to staying hydrated during outdoor events, the conversation offered practical advice for performers preparing for a busy summer. Then we welcomed Buck Wylde to the show.The conversation explored Buck's experience competing on Revry's King of Drag, the first all-drag-king reality competition. He shared behind-the-scenes stories about the audition and filming process, the pressure of performing for judges, and the unique experience of helping bring drag king artistry to a larger audience. We also discussed:The growth and visibility of drag kings over the last two decadesWhat it means to be part of a groundbreaking reality competitionThe evolution of drag king performance styles and identitiesThe importance of representation in queer spacesMentoring future performers and creating opportunities for emerging kingsBuilding community across cities and regions through performance and production work One of the most compelling parts of the conversation centered on how drag has evolved. Buck reflected on developing a character over many years and how today's drag landscape allows performers greater freedom to experiment beyond traditional expectations of masculinity.We also talked about online criticism, reality television fandom, and the importance of remembering that performers are real people behind the characters audiences see on screen. The episode closes with upcoming Pride events, Thrust Fest plans, and excitement about what the future holds for drag kings and queer performance spaces.

This week’s episode moved between religion, politics, current events, theater, queer community conversations, and the kind of headlines that make you stop and ask, “What is actually happening right now?” We opened with personal updates, including Freddy sharing that he’s been fighting off “some sort of crud” for nearly two weeks, plus a recap of seeing Angels in America performed in a full-day experience that lasted nearly seven hours between Parts 1 and 2. We also talked about local music, community spaces, and reconnecting with familiar faces at Thunderbird Lounge. Then we moved into “Just the Tip,” where we took a closer look at the Book of Leviticus and the way certain Bible verses are selectively used in modern political and social conversations. We discussed:Leviticus as a broader collection of laws and religious codesVerses surrounding adultery, lying, idol worship, tattoos, mixed fabrics, immigration, and loving your neighbor How some people focus heavily on one verse while ignoring the larger context of the textThe difference between faith, selective interpretation, and weaponizing religion against marginalized peopleThe conversation explored how scripture is often applied inconsistently in public discourse, especially around LGBTQ+ identities, while other teachings in the same text are routinely ignored.From there, we shifted into current events and cultural commentary, including reactions to political headlines, celebrity news, and commentary on public spectacle and accountability. We also highlighted a major moment in queer leather history as Honey Davenport won IML, sparking debate in some circles about drag representation within leather communities. This episode moves between humor, frustration, history, and commentary — asking what happens when people selectively use morality while ignoring compassion, context, and accountability.

Welcome back to YOUR Wednesday night conversation.This week’s episode felt like sitting down with friends after a long trip and finally unpacking everything that happened.We spent most of the episode catching everyone up on our recent travels — including Disneyland, Texas, airports, conference life, passport stress, photography work, and the little moments that somehow become the biggest stories later.We talked about:Traveling to Disneyland and navigating the crowds, atmosphere, and overall experienceBehind-the-scenes moments from the Texas work conferenceThe realities of balancing work, photography, travel, and exhaustionAirport experiences, TSA stress, and travel frustrationsPassport conversations and the anxiety that can come with documentation and travel planningObservations about people, travel culture, and how differently everyone moves through shared spacesThe conversation naturally moved between humor, reflection, overstimulation, and appreciation for the moments that actually made the trip memorable.We also shared updates about upcoming projects, podcast plans, and what it feels like trying to reset after nonstop movement.This episode is less about one headline topic and more about reconnecting — the kind of conversation that happens after life gets busy and you finally have time to breathe and process it all.

Welcome back to YOUR Wednesday night conversation.This week’s episode moves between personal updates, queer history, and a sharp look at current events — all grounded in one central idea: how we communicate who we are, even when we don’t say it out loud.We opened with life updates, including Freddy officially becoming a Canadian citizen and announcing an upcoming performance at Thrust Fest, alongside the usual behind-the-scenes moments that keep things grounded in real life. From there, we moved into “Just the Tip,” and this week’s focus was the history of flagging in queer communities.We broke down flagging as a system of communication — visual cues, symbols, and coded language used to express identity, desire, and safety, especially during times when being openly queer was not safe or even legal. The conversation traced:The origins of flagging before the modern hanky codeThe evolution of the hanky code in the 1970s and beyondThe use of coded language like PolariHistorical examples across communities, including lesbian flagging practices and cultural symbolismHow flagging still exists today — from subtle signals to visible expressions of solidarityWe also highlighted why visibility still matters — especially in a climate where anti-LGBTQ+ rhetoric continues to surface — and how even small signals can create connection and safety.From there, we moved into current events, including commentary on political narratives, public spending priorities, and ongoing advocacy efforts — including a major campaign launch by the Human Rights Campaign ahead of upcoming elections. This episode connects past and present, asking how history informs the way we show up now — and how we continue to signal to each other that we’re not alone.

This week’s episode opened the way many real conversations do — a little unpolished, a little chaotic, and fully in the moment. Freddy began the show solo while Felicia joined shortly after, setting the tone for a conversation that moved between humor, frustration, and reflection. We started with a quick catch-up — from Drag Bingo + Cats to Cat Bingo moments that had us questioning people’s choices (yes, including that Chick-fil-A cup). Then we moved into “Just the Tip,” and this week’s focus was clear: artificial intelligence.We broke down what AI is and why it feels so divisive right now. We talked about different forms of AI, including generative tools and more advanced systems used across industries — and how these tools are already embedded in daily life. But the core of the conversation wasn’t just about what AI does. It was about impact.We discussed:The environmental cost, including massive energy use and water consumption tied to data centers The effect on artists and creative industries, including concerns about replacement and originality The impact on critical thinking and mental health, especially with unregulated use The need for regulation and intentional use, particularly in educationAt the same time, we acknowledged where AI is helping — from accessibility to medical advancements and efficiency.The takeaway was simple: AI isn’t going anywhere, but that doesn’t mean we stop questioning it.From there, we moved into current events.We discussed the controversy surrounding Caitlyn Jenner and her passport renewal being marked male despite legal documentation changes, and what that says about policy, identity, and consequence. We also reacted to political commentary, including public figures walking back past support and what it means to face the outcomes of political decisions — what we referred to as “having the day you voted for.” We highlighted advocacy efforts from Human Rights Campaign, including a major campaign aimed at upcoming elections. This episode moves between humor and accountability, asking a central question:Just because something is inevitable — whether technology or policy — does that mean we stop examining it?

This week’s episode took an unexpected turn — and we leaned into it.Freddy opened the show solo while Felicia worked through a long day and tech issues, creating a different kind of energy from the start. It was unpolished, a little chaotic, and very real — the kind of episode that reminds you this show is built in the moment. From there, we moved into a conversation we revisit for a reason: privilege.We broke down what privilege actually means — not just money, but the full spectrum: race, gender, class, ability, religion, “passing,” and citizenship. We talked about how privilege can be invisible to the people who have it, and why “I grew up poor” doesn’t cancel out other forms of advantage. The conversation deepened into what we called “privilege blindness” — the inability or refusal to recognize those advantages — and how that shows up in everyday language, behavior, and even intentions. We used the “boots and sandals” analogy to explain how some people move through the world without feeling the impact of systems that affect others.We also challenged the idea that celebrating one group diminishes another. It doesn’t. Recognition is not subtraction — it’s context.From there, we moved into current events and commentary, unpacking political headlines, media narratives, and moments that left us asking how we got here. The tone shifted between humor and frustration, but always came back to awareness and accountability. We closed with community updates, upcoming events, and a reminder that this space continues because of the people who show up for it.

In this episode, Fefe and Freddy explore self-handicapping — the ways we unknowingly create obstacles to protect ourselves from failure. From procrastination to perfectionism, they break down how this behavior shows up and what it costs us. Plus, current events, global headlines, and unexpected conversations you won’t hear anywhere else.We start with a conversation about self-handicapping — the psychological habit of creating obstacles to avoid failure or protect our ego. Whether it’s procrastination, overcommitting, or blaming outside circumstances, we break down how this behavior shows up in everyday life and what it actually costs us over time. We also talk through how shifting into a growth mindset can help break the cycle.From there, we move into a broader reflection on mindset, accountability, and what it means to show up fully even when things feel messy or uncertain. The conversation stays honest, funny, and deeply relatable as we connect personal experience to larger behavioral patterns.We close with current events, including global headlines, political tension, and lighter “out of this world” stories — including space-related food news that somehow brings us back to Earth.

Welcome back to YOUR Wednesday night conversation.This week, we had one of those episodes that starts playful and honest… and then slowly opens up into something deeper.We kicked things off just being ourselves — joking, getting ready on camera, figuring things out in real time — and reminding everyone that this space is exactly that: real, unfiltered, and ours. Then we moved into our “Just the Tip” segment, and this one hit. We talked about getting older — what that actually feels like, not just physically, but mentally and emotionally. We got real about being closer to 50 than 40, how our bodies are changing, how our energy shifts, and how that forces you to think about things like time, mortality, and what really matters. But it wasn’t heavy for the sake of being heavy.We talked about choosing joy anyway. Still traveling. Still performing. Still doing the things we love — even if we need a little ibuprofen and sunscreen to get through it. We talked about friendships, about showing up for people, and about not letting comfort or fear keep us from living fully. From there, we shifted into current events — and there was a lot to unpack.We covered:TSA workers are owed over $1 billion due to the government shutdownSupreme Court decisions impacting conversion therapy lawsOngoing legal battles around birthright citizenshipImmigration rulings affecting thousands of peopleAnti-drag legislation moving forward in OhioLGBTQ+ history moments and wins, including trans excellence on national stagesGlobal progress toward ending HIVAnd as always, we balanced it — calling out what’s not okay while still recognizing moments of progress and resilience. This episode is a reminder that we’re all figuring it out as we go.

Welcome back to YOUR Wednesday night conversation!This week on Live! with Fefe & Freddy, we came back with a full two-week catch-up and a whole lot to say.We started by getting into life updates. Freddy shared about his anniversary trip to Universal — from Super Nintendo World to the struggle with all those 3D rides — and the chaos of getting to Tucson for WWWC after forgetting props (and basically everything else). Despite the heat and the hurdles, the show turned out amazing, and the weekend was full of reconnecting with the community.I kept it real on my side too — busy as always, but we had an incredible time at Irish Tea Drag Bingo at Drink Me! Tea Room. It was one of those events where the energy, the laughs, and the celebration just hit the right note.Then we moved into current events, and… whew.We talked about the impact of a government shutdown affecting TSA and how quickly things escalated when ICE stepped in. We unpacked how that felt, what it says about priorities, and why it raised eyebrows for us.We also covered:A wild and tragic criminal case involving an athleteA major lawsuit where a jury found Meta and YouTube liable for contributing to social media addiction and mental health harmA political shift where a Democrat flipped a Republican-held seat in FloridaA major loss in our community with the death of Black trans activist and performer Shyyell Diamond Sanchez-McCrayAnd yes — we had to take a moment to honor that.Catch the replay on Facebook or YouTube, or listen wherever you stream.

This week on Live! with Fefe & Freddy, we’re unpacking major political developments — from escalating global war tensions to new policies impacting transgender people in Kansas. We break down what it means when state actions affect legal IDs, documentation, and daily life for trans communities — and why these issues matter far beyond one state.Freddy Prinze Charming and Felicia “Fefe” Minor dive into the headlines with honesty, context, and community-centered dialogue. We create space for thoughtful discussion, real questions, and respectful conversation — because these moments require more than just hot takes.In this episode:Updates on war and global political tensionsBeing trans in Kansas and the impact of ID and paperwork policy changesLGBTQ+ rights and state-level legislationNational political headlines and developmentsLive audience reactions and open conversationEveryone is welcomed here. Enter the chat and join the discussion.Live Wednesdays at 8 PM MST (Arizona time)Streaming on Facebook, YouTube, and TwitchReplay available on Facebook and YouTubePodcast version available the next day on Spotify and major podcast platformsMajor support for our podcast comes from our Patreon community. Thank you for helping us continue independent LGBTQ+ media and conversation.Why You’ll Want to WatchThis episode goes beyond surface-level commentary. We discuss how legislation, war, and political shifts directly affect real people — especially transgender communities navigating legal identity, safety, and dignity. If you value LGBTQ+ perspectives on current events and thoughtful political discussion, this episode is for you.

Welcome back to YOUR Wednesday night conversation!This week, we had a packed show — from weekend recaps and books we love, to serious headlines and some truly powerful moments in culture and politics.We kicked things off by catching you up on life. Freddy shared about working on costumes for the upcoming fundraiser and WWWC, plus being home-bound while his partner was sick. I talked about a chill Saturday and then Sunday’s Chismimosa at Testal benefiting Phoenix Allies for Community Health — drag bingo, dance music, and reconnecting with folks who remembered us from past shows (and yes, I absolutely laughed when someone got bingo wrong).Then in “Just the Tip,” we talked about books. We got honest about how we used to be voracious readers and how we’re trying to get back into reading more consistently. We shared why reading still matters — reducing stress, boosting empathy, improving memory — and we gave you a long list of favorite authors and titles, from fantasy and sci-fi to historical fiction and queer classics. We talked about everything from Watership Down to Tipping the Velvet, Anne Rice’s Pandora, and why graphic novels like Elfquest still hit emotionally every time.We were joined by Brandon McGill, who shared about current projects, dream collaborations, legacy goals, and what’s next creatively. It was thoughtful, grounded, and inspiring.In Current Events, we covered:The State of the Union and the protest moment involving Congressman Al Green.Companies like FedEx pushing back over tariffs.An Amber Alert case that ended safely thanks to everyday people paying attention.An update on a missing person case in Arizona.The Netherlands swearing in its youngest and first openly gay Prime Minister, Rob Jetten.A Black queer animated short film winning a BAFTA.Mariah Carey’s Rock & Roll Hall of Fame nomination (again!).Spectrum Medical expanding LGBTQ+ healthcare services here in Phoenix.As always, we balanced community, culture, accountability, and laughter — because that’s what we do.Thank you for showing up with us.

It was one of those nights — tech glitches, corset struggles, and all — but we made it through with heart, humor, and important conversations.This week on Live! with Fefe & Freddy, we cover:Queer History Prior to WWIIBefore Stonewall, before Pride parades, before rainbow capitalism — queer people were building communities, writing literature, opening research institutes, and fighting criminalization. From Oscar Wilde and his 1895 trial, to Berlin’s thriving queer scene under the Weimar Republic, to the groundbreaking work of Magnus Hirschfeld and his Institute of Sexual Research, we explore the rich (and often erased) LGBTQ+ history that existed long before WWII.We also highlight the Harlem Renaissance and figures like Gladys Bentley and Langston Hughes, along with lesbian literary icon Radclyffe Hall — and discuss how LGBTQ+ icons can be both groundbreaking and problematic.Black History Month & A Civil Rights IconWe reflect on Black History Month and the passing of civil rights activist Jesse Jackson at 84. We also asked our audience: What Black historical figure do you carry with you? Names like Martin Luther King Jr., James Baldwin, Maya Angelou, and Shirley Chisholm came up — and the conversation was powerful.Weekend Recap & Pop Culture TeaFefe hosted Queen of Hearts Drag Bingo and received a sweet “You Are Safe With Me” pin. Freddy judged Pride Day at the Ren Faire and shared the heartbreaking news of saying goodbye to his beloved cat.We also dive into:The reboot of The 'Burbs (now starring Keke Palmer and Jack Whitehall)The explosive Netflix documentary Inside America’s Next Top Model and Tyra’s attempt at redemptionUpdates in LGBTQ+ healthcare in PhoenixIt’s messy. It’s meaningful. It’s your Wednesday night conversation.

Welcome back to YOUR Wednesday night conversation!In Season 14, Episode 14 of Live! with Fefe & Freddy, we cover everything from knowing your rights while protesting to Bad Bunny’s record-breaking halftime show, plus political headlines and good news you may have missed.This week’s “Just the Tip” segment breaks down how to protest safely, what your constitutional rights are (according to the ACLU), and how to prepare if you’re attending a march. We discuss police dispersal orders, recording your rights, what to bring, and how to protect yourself if exposed to tear gas.In Current Events, we unpack:Political chaos making headlinesJD Vance getting booed at the OlympicsThe SAVE Act passingCultural conversations sparked by Bad Bunny’s historic halftime performanceAttempts to remove LGBTQ+ visibility from historic spacesA powerful Underground Railroad discovery in ManhattanColorado’s new comprehensive Black history education lawWhy the Seattle Seahawks’ Super Bowl win actually mattered beyond footballPlus, we share life updates, upcoming shows, and how you can support us on Patreon.It’s news, culture, community, and conversation — the way only Fefe & Freddy can deliver it.

This week on Live! with Fefe & Freddy, Freddy flies solo for a candid, unfiltered Wednesday night conversation. With Felicia out for work, Freddy takes listeners through a relaxed check-in that quickly turns into a deeply personal and politically charged episode.Freddy shares stories from a surprisingly quiet weekend, including an unintentionally over-sedated date night, solo kitchen adventures involving limoncello, lemonade, and an overwhelming number of backyard lemons, and family time in Arizona. The tone shifts as Freddy moves into a powerful “Just the Tip” segment that addresses current political violence, ICE raids, protests, and the growing pressure people feel to perform activism online.The episode wraps with headlines and commentary on TikTok’s U.S. sale and censorship concerns, Oscar nominations and voting rule changes, and real-time community responses to ICE raids in Arizona. Freddy emphasizes nuance, safety, and sustainability in resistance — reminding listeners that showing up looks different for everyone.

This week on Live! with Fefe & Freddy, we welcomed back multi-talented artist Brandon McGill for a thoughtful and honest conversation about creativity, connection, and finding peace. We caught up on Brandon’s latest projects, creative goals, and what kind of work feels most meaningful to them right now.In Just the Tip, we took a deeper look at relationship fluidity in platonic relationships. We talked about how friendships change over time, how some relationships grow closer while others fade, and why the loss of a friendship can hurt just as much — or more — than a romantic breakup. The conversation centered on chosen family, emotional honesty, and permitting ourselves to grieve evolving connections.This episode blends personal stories, creative reflection, and community conversation, offering space to think about how we show up for ourselves and each other.Watch the replay on Facebook or YouTube, or listen now on your favorite podcast platform.

This week on Live! with Fefe & Freddy, we welcomed entertainer, producer, and creative force Riley Poppyseed for an honest conversation about creative block, burnout, and finding inspiration again. As performance artists, we talked openly about what it looks like when motivation disappears — and how knowing your worth can be part of the reset.In Just the Tip, Freddy led a focused discussion on dealing with creative block and burnout. We shared personal experiences from the past year, how rough seasons can stall creativity, and practical ways to reconnect with inspiration while protecting your energy.Watch the replay on Facebook or YouTube, or listen now on your favorite podcast platform.

The first episode of 2026 on Live! with Fefe & Freddy opens with reflection, intention, and a reality check on the world around us. Fefe and Freddy share how they spent the holidays, what rest actually looked like, and what lessons 2025 made impossible to ignore — from chosen family to knowing where your energy belongs.In Just the Tip, Freddy delves into what 2026 might hold, exploring growth, collaboration, trust, and expansion through personal reflection and tarot insights. The conversation centers on knowing your worth, moving with confidence, and choosing spaces where you’re valued.In A Closer Look at Current Events, Fefe breaks down political chaos, misinformation, immigration enforcement violence, global power grabs, and why staying informed matters more than ever. The episode strikes a balance between heavy news and moments of honesty, clarity, and hope — reminding listeners that awareness, compassion, and intention still matter.🎧 Watch the replay on Facebook or YouTube, or listen on your favorite podcast platform.

This week on Live! with Fefe & Freddy, we held space for both joy and grief as the season brings moments of celebration alongside devastating global and local news. We talked about staying mindful during the holidays, the pressure to always stay busy, and whether constant hustle is fulfilling or simply a way to avoid sitting with ourselves.In current events, we covered record-breaking cultural milestones, heartbreaking violence overseas, and meaningful moments of progress, including environmental wins and historic representation replacing symbols of oppression. As always, we balanced the heavy conversations with perspective, compassion, and reminders that community care still matters.It’s a thoughtful, emotional, and grounding conversation — perfect for anyone navigating the holidays while trying to stay informed and human.Listen now on Spotify, watch the replay on Facebook or YouTube, and join us for YOUR Wednesday night conversation.

In this episode of Live! with Fefe & Freddy, we jump into winter layers, confidence, and why some of us feel “hotter with clothes on” during the colder months. Freddy shares weekend highlights from Winterfest to the Sugarplum Showdown, while Fefe talks about the emotional weight of the season and navigating holiday overwhelm.We also dive into serious national updates, including major hospitals rolling back transgender healthcare due to federal threats, the elimination of trans care coverage for veterans, and how ongoing political pressure is affecting youth and young adults across the country. In A Closer Look at Current Events, we highlight a new Illinois law protecting immigrants from ICE overreach, plus uplifting news like Quilen Blackwell being named CNN’s Hero of the Year for transforming vacant lots into flower farms that empower at-risk youth.It’s a mix of humor, honesty, community updates, and heavy realities — but always rooted in compassion and awareness.Watch on Facebook or YouTube, or listen on your favorite podcast platform.

In this episode of Live! with Fefe & Freddy, we dive into the chaos, comfort, and community that come with the holiday season. Fefe reflects on a traditional family Thanksgiving and the comedic green-bean-casserole saga, while Freddy breaks down the behind-the-scenes reality of hosting a massive Friendsgiving — complete with delicious food, early guests, kitchen meltdowns, and some of the biggest laughs of the year.Together, we talk about navigating holiday stress, setting boundaries, managing kids’ expectations, balancing work with family chaos, and keeping yourself grounded when everything feels like “too much.” We also touch on community updates, personal highlights, and why self-care matters more than ever this time of year.Listen for real talk, humor, relatable exhaustion, and a reminder that you’re not the only one juggling ten things at once during the holiday season.

This week on Live! with Fefe & Freddy, we slid into the holiday season with conversation, chaos, and a little sparkle. Freddy shared birthday celebrations for his daughter, complete with Wicked, slideshow presentations, and Friendsgiving prep, while Fefe talked about emotional overload, parenting fatigue, and finding time to reset for the week.In Just the Tip, Freddy dove into holiday favorites — from decorating traditions and nostalgic music to go-to movies, gingerbread cookies, peppermint ice cream, and the joy of celebrating without the pressure of consumerism.In A Closer Look at Current Events, we unpacked the resignation of Marjorie Taylor Greene, rising anti-LGBTQ rhetoric, and Arizona legislative updates. We also shared uplifting news, including global HPV vaccination progress and solar energy becoming the fastest-growing electricity source worldwide.Watch the replay on Facebook or YouTube, or listen on your favorite podcast platform.

This week on Live! with Fefe & Freddy, we took on one of the most human topics of all: grief. After losing a friend unexpectedly, Freddy opened up in “Just the Tip” about how grief hits differently for everyone — whether it’s the loss of a person, a relationship, or even an idea of what life was supposed to be. We talked about the stages of grief, giving people space to process, and how collective grief impacts entire communities.In “A Closer Look at Current Events,” Fefe broke down major news stories, including:• The U.S. retiring the penny• The end of the government shutdown and delayed pay for workers and military personnel• Transgender Air Force members suing over the loss of early retirement benefits• Michelle Obama’s firm statements on not running for president• Trump’s sudden push to release the Epstein files• New breakthroughs in meditation research and enamel regrowth• Good news from a new book-vending machine supporting small authorsWe also recapped the weekend — from Drag Bingo + Cats selling out to family time, laundry, Freak Brothers Pizza, and a too-warm Zoo Lights trip.The episode closed with a reminder to cherish time with your chosen family, lift up your trans siblings during Trans Awareness Week, and invest in the people who make life meaningful.Watch the replay on Facebook or YouTube, or listen on your favorite podcast platform.

In this week’s episode of Live! with Fefe & Freddy, things got real, funny, and a little chaotic as the duo covered everything from government shutdown drama to reality TV madness.Freddy shared his “Just the Tip” segment on how watching reality TV — like Married at First Sight and Love Island — can actually help strengthen relationships (yes, really). He broke down red flags, communication lessons, and how shared “trash TV” moments can spark meaningful conversations about love, boundaries, and self-awareness.Fefe took “A Closer Look at Current Events,” diving into Veterans Day reflections, same-sex marriage rights, and the ongoing government shutdown. From military family stories to the latest political updates, she highlighted the need for empathy, awareness, and advocacy — even when the system feels broken.The pair also caught up on local community events, including the Queer Center’s Fall Fest and the Emperor’s Ball, and shared plenty of laughs over food fails, social media pet peeves, and the chaos of parenting and burnout.It’s your midweek mix of humor, heart, and real talk — only on Live! with Fefe & Freddy.🎧 Listen now: Available wherever you stream your favorite podcasts.📺 Watch the replay: Facebook, YouTube, or Twitch @LiveWithFefeandFreddy#LiveWithFefeAndFreddy #Season14 #PodcastReplay #LGBTQPodcast #QueerVoices #WednesdayNightConversation

This week on Live! with Fefe & Freddy, the conversation got real — mixing laughs, tough truths, and reminders about compassion and awareness in today’s world.Freddy returned after recovering from a migraine and shared updates from Halloween weekend, including Trunk or Treat fun, movie night, and some big life updates about his upcoming Honeyfund and citizenship process. Fefe recapped her Halloween adventures with the family, trick-or-treating as a “grandpa,” and caught up on the latest South Park episodes — chaos, butt babies, and all.In “Just the Tip,” Freddy took on the topic of Being on Government Assistance, unpacking privilege, judgment, and misconceptions about those who rely on programs like SNAP. He reminded listeners that everyone’s circumstances are different — and compassion should come before criticism.Then in “A Closer Look at Current Events,” Fefe broke down the latest election results, government shutdown updates, and the stories making headlines — including Arizona’s new ballot measures, national Democratic wins, and the real impact of choices and empathy in everyday life.🎧 Watch the replay on Facebook or YouTube, or listen anytime on your favorite podcast platform.#LiveWithFefeAndFreddy #Season14 #WednesdayNightConversation #PodcastReplay

This week, Fefe held it down solo while Freddy was out recovering from a migraine — but the conversation didn’t miss a beat!Fefe shared updates from the week, including community highlights like Drag Bingo at Drink Me! Tea Room, Dia de los Muertos festivities, and Trunk or Treat at Brick Road Coffee, where Freddy and family brought the carnival fun.In “Just the Tip,” Fefe offered clever, hilarious, and affordable ideas for last-minute Halloween costumes — from Cereal Killer to Plant Daddy and even a DIY Cactus look.Then in “A Closer Look at Current Events,” things got serious (and a little strange) with stories ranging from the Texas Attorney General suing over Tylenol to world headlines that had everyone saying “WTF?”The show wrapped with some good laughs and chaotic energy — exactly what Wednesday nights are made for.🎧 Watch the replay on Facebook or YouTube, or listen anytime on your favorite podcast platform.#LiveWithFefeAndFreddy #Season14 #WednesdayNightConversation #PodcastReplay

Welcome back to YOUR Wednesday night conversation! The season premiere of Live! with Fefe & Freddy kicked off with laughter, real talk, and a few “WTF?!” moments as Felicia “Fefe” Minor and Freddy Prinze Charming returned for Season 14.The duo caught up after their summer break—covering Freddy’s 20th year in drag, Pride season highlights, and Fefe’s busy summer balancing family, events, and trivia nights.This week’s “Just the Tip” segment dives into the chaos (and comedy) of cohabitating with teenagers—where communication gets tested, patience gets stretched, and no one ever answers a simple question directly. From driving permits to household chores, Fefe and Freddy share honest, hilarious insights about parenting through it all.In “A Closer Look at Current Events,” the hosts react to headline oddities, including RFK Jr.’s brain worm confession, George Santos’ commuted sentence, and a surprising White House renovation that has everyone talking.The episode wraps up with a lively conversation with special guest Christine Vibrant, followed by the outrageous after-show game, “This or That,” featuring truly questionable (and hysterical) would-you-rathers.Oct 23 – Drag Bingo at Drink Me! Tea RoomOct 25 – Drag Bingo at Shea Cheese LoungeOct 25 – Trunk or Treat & Queer Marketplace at Brick Road CoffeeNov 9 – Emperor’s Ball at The RockNov 14 – Drag Bingo + Cats at PHX Cat CaféDec 11 – Sex Trivia at Gracie’s Tax Bar💬 Tune in every Wednesday at 8 PM MST on Facebook, YouTube, and Twitch, or catch the replay wherever you get your podcasts.🗓️ Upcoming Events

We ended this season with style, substance, and no shortage of side-eye as we celebrated identity, fashion, community, and trans resilience. From Black dandyism to queer travel safety tips, and a healthy dose of real talk—you already know we came ready.Show Notes:Hosts: Felicia “Fefe” Minor and Freddy Prinze CharmingHousekeeping:Join our Patreon: patreon.com/livewithfefeandfreddyExclusive merch drops available—stickers, mugs, tees, and totesHuge thanks to our patrons and sponsor WigsofaKind for their support this seasonLet’s Talk About Us:Freddy:Long night in TucsonWeekend rehearsalsStarted watching Poly FamilyFelicia:Got her first Cameo requestWatched the Met Gala live for the first timeJust the Tip – ALL THE TIPS (Season Finale Edition):Tapping into Your Inner Dandy:Style as self-expression, especially within the Black communityHow Black dandyism evolved as resistance and identityWays to elevate your fashion game: tailoring, accessories, color, and confidenceThis year’s Met Gala theme celebrated Black dandyism with stunning resultsTrans History Week:Highlighted influential trans pioneers including Dora Richter, Dr. Alan Hart, Lou Sullivan, and CoccinelleHonoring the legacy and impact of trans individuals in medicine, activism, and lawTraveling While Trans and/or Queer:U.S. carries a “Do Not Travel” advisory for trans individuals—safety mattersHigh-risk states include TX and FLTips for staying safe while on the road:Keep ID documents currentAvoid solo long drives through high-risk areasShare your location, stick to well-lit stops, and have a travel buddyTrust your instincts—remove yourself from unsafe situationsA Closer Look at Current Events:Import tariffs driving prices up—145% increases on apps like Temu and SHEINGeorge Santos sentenced to 7+ years for fraud and identity theftTrump vs. Bezos: Amazon exposes tariff costs, and Twitler is madMen are shaving off eyelashes because... masculinity?RFK Jr. says fluoride lowers IQ—what are we even doingPoland repeals final “LGBT-free zone”Harvey Fierstein to receive Lifetime Achievement TonyMet Gala raised $31 million for Black fashion historyFormer Memphis officers acquitted in Tyre Nichols’ deathIndia-Pakistan tensions escalate with deadly missile strikesUpcoming Shows & Events:May 16 – Drag Bingo + Cats at PHX Cat CafeMay 24 – Drag Story Hour AZ Annual Fundraiser (20% off with promo code)May 29 – Drag Bingo at Drink Me! Tea RoomJune 5 – Second Annual MPI AZ Drag Bingo at Warehouse 215June 6 – PFF Dragstravaganza (free with con pass)June 7–8 – Drag Story Hour AZ at Phoenix Fan FusionSeptember 4 – Sex Trivia returns to Gracie’s Tax BarEnd of Show:Thank you for an incredible Season 13Special thanks to our live viewers, replay watchers, and podcast listenersOver 15,000 downloads and growingSee you soon for more honest, bold, fabulous conversations on Live! with Fefe & FreddyListen on Facebook, YouTube, Twitch, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you stream podcasts.

On this episode of Live! with Fefe & Freddy, we were joined by the stunning and insightful Kristofer Inez Onyx, current Gay America Esquire 2025. We got into his pageant journey, what it means to serve with purpose, and how he's using his platform to uplift community. We also had some real talk about trust, transparency, and emotional maturity in queer spaces. And yes—this week’s Just the Tip was one to remember.Show Notes:Hosted by Felicia “Fefe” Minor and Freddy Prinze CharmingSpecial guest: Kristofer Inez OnyxGay America Esquire 2025Shared his journey in national pageantry and what motivates him to lead with intentionTalked about emotional intelligence, community building, and representation in the LGBTQ+ pageant worldHousekeeping:Support us on Patreon: patreon.com/livewithfefeandfreddyMerch available for patrons at all levels—stickers, mugs, tees, totesThanks to our Patreon supporters and season sponsor, WigsofaKindLet’s Talk About Us:FreddyAttended his kid’s school playRehearsals for Phoenix Fan FusionYard work and pig house progressFeliciaHosted Drag Bingo at Drink Me! Tea RoomReconnected with a group of birthday queens all born the same month and year—what a vibeJust the Tip:Topic: How to build—and rebuild—trustTrust requires consistency, not just apologiesRed flags, accountability, and learning how to move forward without rushing resolutionWhat transparency looks like in friendships, relationships, and community spacesUpcoming Shows & Events:May 2 – Entice Burlesque in TucsonMay 16 – Drag Bingo + Cats at PHX Cat CafeMay 24 – Drag Story Hour Arizona Annual Fundraiser (20% off with promo code)May 29 – Drag Bingo at Drink Me! Tea RoomJune 5 – MPI AZ Drag Bingo at Warehouse 215June 6 – PFF Dragstravaganza (free with Phoenix Fan Fusion badge)June 7–8 – Drag Story Hour AZ at Phoenix Fan FusionSeptember 4 – Sex Trivia Night returns to Gracie’s Tax BarEnd of Show:Huge thanks to Kristofer Inez Onyx for joining us and sharing his brillianceShoutout to our live viewers, replay watchers, and podcast listeners15,000+ downloads and still growingJoin us next week for YOUR Wednesday night conversationListen to the episode on Facebook, YouTube, Twitch, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

This week on Live! with Fefe & Freddy, we were joined by artist, leatherman, and all-around creative powerhouse Erick Turner. We talked about artistic expression, queer identity, and the power of telling authentic stories through art. Plus, we unpacked this week’s chaos in politics, tech scandals, and some moments that made us go, “is this real life?”Show Notes:Hosted by Felicia “Fefe” Minor and Freddy Prinze CharmingSpecial guest: Erick TurnerArtist, leatherman, and founding member of Open Circle Art CollectiveShared updates on his erotic art show and how his work reflects leather culture, body politics, and queer joyTalked about artistic evolution, influence, and pushing boundaries while staying grounded in communityHousekeeping:Support the show on Patreon at patreon.com/livewithfefeandfreddyExclusive merch for patrons: stickers, mugs, shirts, totesThank you to our patrons and season sponsor WigsofaKindLet’s Talk About Us:FreddyHosted Sex Trivia ThursdayFamily dinner in Apache Junction and officially adopted Dee into the famRehearsals and pig house project over the weekendFeliciaHelped host Sex Trivia at Gracie’sEaster weekend was mellowDoctor visit and a nail refreshStayed home with a sick kid on MondayA Closer Look at Current Events:Signal app security: how it's being used by government officials to avoid transparencyDefense Secretary shared sensitive information in Signal chats with his wife, brother, and attorneyTrump refused to declare Arkansas a disaster zone after tornadoes—leaving victims without aidElon Musk officially dropped DOGE and returned to Tesla after the brand started unravelingTrump’s Easter message focused on the “radical left,” ignoring the actual holidayPope Francis passed away, raising uncertainty about the future of the VaticanUpcoming Shows & Events:April 24 – Drag Bingo at Drink Me Tea RoomMay 2 – Entice Burlesque in TucsonMay 24 – Drag Story Hour Arizona Annual Fundraiser (use promo code for 20% off tickets)End of Show:Thanks to everyone who joined us live or listened laterOver 15,000 podcast downloads and countingWe’ll see you next Wednesday for YOUR Wednesday night conversationListen on Facebook, YouTube, Twitch, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you stream podcasts.

Episode Summary:On this episode of Live! with Fefe & Freddy, we explored the do’s and don’ts of communicating with polyamorous folks, shared weekend updates from our Drag Bingo adventures, and gave our take on what it means to speak with respect in queer, consensual spaces. Plus, we celebrated women in space, reflected on representation in pop culture, and reminded everyone—again—that polyamory is not your punchline.Show Notes:Hosted by Felicia “Fefe” Minor and Freddy Prinze CharmingKey discussion topics:What NOT to say to a poly person or coupleRespecting communication and boundaries in polyamorous relationshipsMisconceptions around polyamory, group sex, cheating, and emotional connectionThe importance of curiosity, not assumptions, when exploring ethical non-monogamyHousekeeping:Get exclusive content, merch, and early access on Patreon: patreon.com/livewithfefeandfreddyMerch includes stickers, mugs, t-shirts, and totes at all tier levelsThank you to our amazing patrons and season sponsor, WigsofaKindLet’s Talk About Us:Freddy: Drag Bingo at Shea Cheese was a blastFelicia: Reconnected with old friends at Shea Cheese and enjoyed the vibe, despite some guests dipping during blackout roundSunday was a reset day prepping for a busy weekJust the Tip: How NOT to Talk to a Poly Person or Couple“I wasn’t looking for anything serious anyway” – no thanks“Where’s my orgy invite?” – inappropriate“Who’s your favorite partner?” – not how this works“Don’t tell my partner I’m poly” – that’s cheating, not poly“Isn’t one partner enough?” – polyamory isn’t about lacking, it’s about love“Are you going to settle down?” – this isn’t a phase“Who has sex with who?” – not your business“Can I join you guys?” – we’re not taking applications“Oh, like Sister Wives?” – please stop“What about your kids?” – what about them?“Do you get jealous?” – we work through it, just like anyone elseA Closer Look at Current Events:All-woman flight crew took a 10-minute flight 66 miles above EarthBacklash included criticism over cost and performative messagingHighlighted contrast with real women losing jobs at NASAHarvard pushes back against dismantling diversity programmingCelebrating representation:30th anniversary of A Goofy MovieMary J. Blige’s My Life added to the National Recording RegistryLarry Fitzgerald Jr.’s impact through youth STEM programs and startup investmentsUpcoming Shows & Events:April 17 – Sex Trivia at Gracie’s Tax BarApril 24 – Drag Bingo at Drink Me Tea RoomMay 24 – Drag Story Hour AZ Annual Fundraiser (use code for 20% off)End of Show:Thank you to our live viewers and podcast listenersOver 15,000 downloads and growingJoin us next week for YOUR Wednesday night conversationListen on Facebook, YouTube, Twitch, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

Episode Summary:In this episode of Live! with Fefe & Freddy, we dive into con-sent (yes, we went there), Madame Askew and Eve Riot join us to discuss bad influencers at conventions, and share updates from the Southwest Love Fest. Show Notes:Hosted by Felicia “Fefe” Minor and Freddy Prinze CharmingThis week’s themes:Con-sent and influencer etiquetteBad behavior in steampunk spacesHow NOT to review a conventionSocial media clout vs. community respectPatreon shoutouts and exclusive merch reminderpatreon.com/livewithfefeandfreddyMerch available for patrons at every level, including stickers, mugs, t-shirts, and tote bagsHuge thank you to WigsofaKind for supporting Season 13Freddy’s update:Worked a gig for his partnerProduced the glow party at Southwest Love FestFirst gym visit since the pandemicFelicia’s update:Southwest Love Fest, returned to DSH, and performed at Majik at Stacy's at Melrose. Segment: Just the Tip – A Bad Influence(r)Commentary on an influencer’s out-of-touch review of a steampunk conventionBroke down their content, lack of community interaction, and disregard for con etiquetteHighlighted the importance of respecting fan spaces and not exploiting them for viewsDiscussed the value of creativity, connection, and understanding when participating in niche fandomsUpcoming Shows & Events:April 12 – Drag Bingo at Shea CheeseApril 17 – Sex Trivia at Gracie’s Tax BarApril 24 – Drag Bingo at Drink Me Tea RoomClosing:Thank you to our viewers, listeners, and guestsOver 15,000 podcast downloads and growingSee you next week for YOUR Wednesday night conversationListen to the full episode on Facebook, YouTube, Twitch, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or your favorite podcast app.

Live! with Fefe & Freddy – Episode 21 Show NotesSeason 13, Episode 21 – April 2, 2025Episode SummaryWelcome back to YOUR Wednesday night conversation! This week on Live! with Fefe & Freddy, we’re talking about:WeddingsConventionsAnd more!Plus, our special guest joins us to share their experiences and insights.Housekeeping & AnnouncementsGet VIP access to exclusive content on Patreon: patreon.com/livewithfefeandfreddyNew exclusive merch drops! Join at different membership levels to snag stickers, mugs, t-shirts, and totes.A special shoutout to our amazing patrons, including Brandon, Cassandra, Chris and Michelle, Dee, Drake Jensen and Michael, KC Starr, Kerry & Kori, Joan, Laura, Lee-ann, Madam Askew and the Grand Arbiter, Nicole, Patricia Mason, Shannon, and William.Huge thanks to WigsofaKind for supporting this season!Weekend RecapFreddy:Attended Night of Trans and Nonbinary Joy – brought daughter, snagged books.First rehearsal for PFF.Felicia:Attended Night of Trans and Nonbinary Joy but forgot costumes.Playdate on Sunday.Just the Tip – How to Plan a Wedding in Four DaysVenue: Consider a park gazebo or a small indoor space.Food: Snacks, cheese, meats, and cupcakes can work in a pinch.Photography: Encourage guests to take photos and upload them to a shared drive.Clothing: Budget-friendly options at stores like Ross or borrowing from friends.Last-minute purchases: Amazon for plates, napkins, and flutes.Current EventsWTF?! Elon Musk sells Twitter... to himself.TikTok Ban: Another potential ban incoming, with Trump working to find U.S. investors.Tariffs: Trump announces at least a 10% tariff on nearly all imported goods, with 25% on foreign cars.Wisconsin Elections: Voters elect a Democratic state supreme court judge, shifting the balance of power.Health News: Actor Val Kilmer passes away at 65 due to pneumonia complications.U.S. Budget Cuts: 23 states suing over $11+ billion in public health funding cuts.Guest SpotlightWho they are, what they do, and upcoming projects.Their experience in Arizona.Where to follow and connect with them.Upcoming Events & ShowsApril 5: Southwest Love Fest Block PartyApril 6: Majik! at Stacy’s at MelroseApril 12: Drag Bingo at Shea CheeseApril 17: Sex Trivia at Gracie’s Tax BarApril 24: Drag Bingo at Drink Me! Tea RoomUpcoming GuestsMore announcements on Patreon.In talks with: Kristofer Inez Onyx (Mr. Gay America), Chris Barrows (Table Top Express, Why I Social Podcast), Eric Thurnbeck.Thank You & ClosingSpecial thanks to guest Christine Vibrant for joining us!Thanks to our live viewers and podcast listeners—over 15K downloads and growing!See you next week for YOUR Wednesday night conversation!Listen to the full episode now on your favorite podcast platform!

We’re back with another episode of Live! with Fefe & Freddy! Get ready for an exciting discussion about weddings, conventions, and the latest headlines.Support the ShowGet exclusive content on Patreon: patreon.com/livewithfefeandfreddySpecial shoutout to our amazing patrons, including Brandon, Cassandra, Chris, Michelle, Dee, and more.A big thank you to WigsofaKind for supporting this season!Freddy’s Wedding: Planning in Four DaysDeciding on a small, intimate wedding.Choosing a budget-friendly venue and simple catering options.Finding outfits quickly—creative and affordable solutions.WWWC Recap: What Really Happened?Freddy’s performance and audience reactions.Media coverage from Phoenix and Tucson.Setting the record straight on event narratives.Current EventsPolitics:Controversy around government war plans leaked via Signal chat.Calls to defund NPR and PBS—why it matters.Florida’s push for child labor law changes.World News:The Second Lady’s Greenland visit—what went wrong?Upcoming Shows & EventsMarch 29: A Night of Trans and Nonbinary JoyApril 5: Southwest Love Fest Block Party.April 6: Majik! at Stacy’s at Melrose.April 12: Drag Bingo at Shea Cheese.April 17: Sex Trivia at Gracie’s Tax Bar.Thank You for Tuning In!Watch us live every Wednesday at 8 PM MST/Arizona time on Facebook, YouTube, and Twitch.Don’t forget to like, share, and subscribe!

This week on Live! with Fefe & Freddy, we broke down the complexities of the trans umbrella, tackled the latest Dump Truck politics, and called out misinformation surrounding gender identity. From explaining trans identities to dissecting the absurdity of Trump’s Tesla takeover, this episode brought truth, humor, and real talk to your Wednesday night conversation.Key Takeaways:The Trans Umbrella:What it really means to be transgender and why there’s no such thing as “not trans enough.”The difference between being trans, nonbinary, a drag performer, and a cross-dresser.Why hormones and surgery are not required for someone to be “really” trans.A history lesson on nonbinary genders that have existed for centuries.Current Events:Arizona Supreme Court’s AI court reporters—because nothing says justice like a robotic narrator.Trump turns the White House into a Tesla dealership and urges MAGA fans to buy stock after prices plummet.Trump labels violence against Tesla dealerships as domestic terrorism, despite previous right-wing anti-EV sentiments.Canada retaliates against U.S. tariffs by slapping a 25 percent surcharge on electricity sold to northern states.Politics:The Arizona Legislature continues its attack on LGBTQ+ rights and reproductive healthcare.The push for policies that strip away trans protections and limit access to medical care.Personal Updates:Freddy:Took a weekend off from everything.Hosted Drag Story Hour at Brick Road Coffee.Felicia:Celebrated a family birthday party.Attended Story Hour on Sunday.Upcoming Events:No Live Show Next Week.March 20 – Trivia Night: Broadway Edition at Drink Me Tea Room.March 21 – Tricks & Treats: A Drag and Burlesque Show at Wild Wild West Con.March 29 – More details coming soon.April 5 – Southwest Love Fest Block Party.April 6 – Majik! at Stacy’s at Melrose.April 12 – Drag Bingo at Shea Cheese.April 17 – Sex Trivia at Gracie’s Tax Bar.Watch or Listen:Missed the episode? Watch the replay on Facebook, YouTube, or Twitch, or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or your favorite podcast platform.

• Hosts Felicia “Fefe” Minor and Freddy Prinze Charming kick off the show by dissecting the difference between kink and fetish, explaining that while kinks are unconventional sexual interests enjoyed occasionally, fetishes are intense, persistent attractions that can define one’s sexual routine.• Housekeeping details include information on VIP content, exclusive merchandise, and Patreon membership options for dedicated listeners.• Personal Updates:  - Freddy recounts his experiences at Drag Bingo + Cats, his time at the Melrose Street Fair, judging at the Mister AZ UsofA MI Classic, and wrapping up a long-plagued music mix.  - Felicia shares highlights from Drag Bingo at Drink Me! Tea Room and the Melrose Street Fair, along with a “restful Sunday” spent recharging.• Just the Tip – Kink vs. Fetish:  - A deep dive into how sexual preferences differ, with examples ranging from role play and impact play to specific object or body part fixations.  - Discussion emphasizes that while any kink can evolve into a fetish, the key distinction lies in intensity, frequency, and object focus.• A Closer Look at Current Events:  - Highlights from a recent Congressional address: Representative Al Green’s ejection, real-time protests with signs like “Save Medicaid” and “Protect Veterans,” and on-the-spot commentary from Rashida Tlaib.  - Coverage of controversial claims regarding government spending on making mice transgender, border policies involving illegal aliens, and misleading assertions about autism.  - Brief mention of Arizona legislative bills, signaling ongoing political debates in the region.• Guest Interaction:  - Listeners were invited to share personal boundaries and adventurous ideas regarding intimacy, fostering an interactive conversation on sexual expression and consent.• Interactive Segment:  - The show concludes with the hosts’ signature “This or That” game, featuring provocative and humorous scenarios that challenge conventional norms.• Upcoming Events:  - Trivia Night: Broadway Edition at Drink Me Tea Room on March 20  - Tricks & Treats: A Drag and Burlesque Show at Wild Wild West Con on March 21  - Southwest Love Fest Block Party (dates TBA)  - Drag Bingo at Shea Cheese on April 12  - Sex Trivia at Gracie’s Tax Bar on April 17  - Future guest announcements include Kristofer Inez Onyx (Mr. Gay America) and Chris Barrows from Table Top Express and Why I Social Podcast.Watch or Listen:• Catch the replay on Facebook, YouTube, or Twitch.• Listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or your preferred podcast platform

Episode Summary:• Hosts Felicia “Fefe” Minor and Freddy Prinze Charming explore the enduring nature of sex and challenge modern misconceptions.• They share personal updates—from celebrating Pride Day at the Ren Faire to creative projects like cosplay and homemade blackberry ginger lemonade.• "Just the Tip – A History of Sex" debunks the myth that sex is a modern invention by highlighting ancient practices, the origins of pornography, and the evolution of sex toys and condoms.• In the "A Closer Look at Current Events" segment, the hosts discuss:  - Corporate shifts on DEI: Disney and Pepsi rolling back initiatives versus Coke doubling down.  - Political controversies: U.S. alignment with Russia, mass federal layoffs, protests over trans rights, and new college bathroom regulations.  - Legislative actions: Efforts in nine states to challenge same-sex marriage and Arizona bills addressing abortion-inducing drugs and the “gay or trans panic defense.”  - Minority Report highlights: Tributes to Roberta Flack, Lester Holt’s departure from NBC, and debates sparked by Joy-Ann Reid’s exit from MSNBC.• An interactive segment invited listeners to share their hard boundaries regarding intimacy.• The show wrapped up with the signature “This or That” game featuring outrageous scenarios.Upcoming Events:• Feb 27 – Drag Bingo at Drink Me Tea Room• Feb 28 – Drag Bingo + Cats at PHX Cat Cafe• Mar 21 – Tricks & Treats: A Drag and Burlesque Show at Wild Wild West Con• Apr 12 – Drag Bingo at Shea Cheese• Apr 17 – Sex Trivia at Gracie’s Tax BarWatch or Listen:• Replay available on Facebook, YouTube, or Twitch.• Listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or your preferred podcast platform.

This week onLive! with Fefe & Freddy, we exploredvisiting etiquette, celebrateddiversity and historic firsts at the Super Bowl, and delivered our signature take onpolitical chaos and current events. We also shared personal updates, includingRen Faire adventures, flyer designs, and a Girl Scout Cookie haul.Segment Highlights:Just the Tip – Visiting EtiquetteHow to be a good guest at play dates, game nights, and social gatheringsTips for navigating allergies, dietary restrictions, and other considerationsKnowing when it’s time to leave without overstaying your welcomeCelebrating Diversity and Firsts at the Super BowlAutumn Lockwood becomes thefirst Black woman coach to win a Super BowlJalen Hurts joins the ranks as thefourth Black quarterback to win a Super BowlTahj Williams is recognized as thefirst Black woman to design the Super Bowl logoMemorable performances by Ledisi, Jon Batiste, and Kendrick Lamar’s powerful protest momentCurrent Events: The WTF FilesElon Musk’s Oval Office appearance and the bizarre rebranding of theGulf of Mexico to Gulf of AmericaKanye West’s controversy over selling a shirt with a swastika, leading to his shop’s shutdownNew Arizona legislative bills:Minority Report & Pop Culture MomentsSuper Bowl representation and performances celebrating Black excellenceKendrick Lamar’s impactful performance and social commentaryUpcoming Shows & Events:Pride Day at the Ren Faire – February 16Majik at Stacy’s at Melrose – February 23Drag Bingo at Drink Me Tea Room – February 27Drag Bingo + Cats at PHX Cat Cafe – February 28Tricks & Treats: A Drag and Burlesque Show at Wild Wild West Con – March 21Drag Bingo at Shea Cheese – April 12Sex Trivia at Gracie’s Tax Bar – April 17Watch or Listen:Missed the live stream? Catch the replay onFacebook, YouTube, or Twitch. Prefer audio? Listen to the episode onSpotify, Apple Podcasts, or your favorite podcast platform.

Overview:This week on Live! with Fefe & Freddy, we explored budget-friendly cosplay hacks, the latest WTF moments in politics and current events, and some wild legal battles that turned the tables on hate groups. Plus, we shared behind-the-scenes updates, including Sex Trivia Night, Men of Mister Phoenix Pride Fundraiser, and the latest adventures in home decor. Segment Highlights: Cosplay on a Dime How to create Ren Faire and steampunk looks from thrifted and repurposed pieces Easy DIY accessories to elevate your cosplay game Tips for getting started without breaking the bank Current Events: The WTF Files Elon Musk’s latest power grab – His team now has access to federal financial data The Proud Boys' legal loss – A Black church now owns their name and branding rights Trump’s transgender athlete ban – What it means for sports and the LGBTQ+ community Politics Rundown Trump’s plan to “redevelop” Gaza—aka a billionaire golf course dream Tariff negotiations between the U.S., Mexico, and Canada Canadian Prime Minister’s not-so-subtle jab at American politics Minority Report & Pop Culture The controversy around Black History Month proclamations Beyoncé’s Grammy wins for Best Country Album and Album of the Year Kendrick Lamar’s legendary Grammy moment with a Canadian tuxedo Upcoming Shows & Events: Pride Day at the Ren Faire – February 16 Drag Bingo at Drink Me Tea Room – February 27 Drag Bingo + Cats at PHX Cat Cafe – February 28 Sex Trivia Night at Gracie’s Tax Bar – April 17 Watch or Listen:Did you miss the livestream? Catch the replay on Facebook, YouTube, or Twitch. Prefer audio? Listen to the episode on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or your favorite podcast platform.

This week on Live! with Fefe & Freddy, we dive into the pursuit of joy and the small moments that bring us happiness. From game nights and creative outlets to travel plans and performing, Fefe and Freddy share how they stay grounded despite the chaos of current events. Plus, we break down the latest political nonsense, discuss a federal aid freeze reversal, and take a closer look at some truly bizarre news stories. Segment Highlights: Finding Joy in the Chaos How to be intentional about joy in everyday life Favorite activities that spark happiness Why community and creativity matter more than ever Current Events: The WTF Files Trump’s latest SpaceX mission idea A wild turn of events for a January 6 insurrectionist The Senate grilling RFK Jr. over his controversial health views Health & Politics Rundown Federal aid freeze reversal Rising RSV and flu cases—please wash your hands and stay home when sick 80 years since the liberation of Auschwitz and Black History Month acknowledgment from the Trump administration Upcoming Events & Gigs Sex Trivia Night – January 30 at Gracie’s Tax Bar, 8 PM Drag Bingo at Drink Me Tea Room – February 27 Drag Bingo + Cats at PHX Cat Cafe – February 28 Watch or Listen:Did you miss the livestream? Catch the replay on Facebook, YouTube, or Twitch. Prefer audio? Listen to the episode on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or your favorite podcast platform.

Guest: Vivian Vendetta-Sinclaire, National Miss Comedy Queen Overview:In this week’s lively episode, Live! with Fefe & Freddy welcomes National Miss Comedy Queen, Vivian Vendetta-Sinclaire. Vivian shares her journey as a titleholder and entertainer, offering an inside look at her reign and her take on the world of drag comedy. Fefe and Freddy bring their signature wit, tackling the week’s hot topics, from holiday recaps to a satirical “revolution planning” session. Segment Highlights: Guest Spotlight: Vivian Vendetta-SinclaireVivian dives into her life as National Miss Comedy Queen, discussing her experiences in the pageant world, what inspires her comedic style, and what’s next on her exciting journey. Learn more about her and follow her on Instagram at @vivianvendetta_sinclaire. Just the Tip – Revolution Planning BasicsIn a tongue-in-cheek segment, Fefe and Freddy humorously break down how to start a “revolution,” party-planning style. From choosing a theme to recruiting “partygoers,” the hosts deliver clever commentary on current events with their unique comedic flair. Current Events RecapThe duo takes a closer look at the latest news, including a mix of serious political updates and the week’s most absurd headlines. Upcoming Shows & Events: Sex Trivia Night – January 30 at Gracie’s Tax Bar, 8 PM Cat Bingo – February 28 More guest announcements are coming soon! Watch or Listen:Did you miss the livestream? Watch the replay on Facebook, YouTube, or Twitch. Prefer audio? Listen to the episode on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or your favorite podcast player.

Welcome to YOUR Wednesday night conversation! This week on Live! with Fefe & Freddy, we dove into the meaning of authenticity and how it shapes our lives. We started the show with reflections on the challenges and rewards of living authentically. From personal stories of self-discovery to understanding the unique paths others take, we explored how authenticity isn’t a one-size-fits-all journey. In Just the Tip, we discussed how authenticity can mean everything from embracing your identity to breaking free from societal or religious expectations. It’s about finding what feels true for you, no matter how long it takes or how many layers you uncover along the way. We also covered major current events, including: Allegations surrounding Neil Gaiman have rocked the entertainment industry. A glimmer of hope in the Middle East as Israel and Hamas agree to a ceasefire and prisoner exchange. A reminder of the ongoing struggle for equality as we honor Martin Luther King Jr.’s 96th birthday. Sex Trivia returns for one night only on January 30 at 8 p.m. at Gracie’s Tax Bar. More exciting guest announcements are coming soon on Patreon! Get exclusive content and perks like stickers, mugs, and more by joining us on Patreon at patreon.com/livewithfefeandfreddy. Huge thanks to our patrons and WigsofaKind for supporting this season! Missed this episode? Catch the replay on Facebook, YouTube, or Twitch, and join us next week for YOUR Wednesday night conversation. #LiveWithFefeAndFreddy #PodcastRecap #AuthenticityMatters

Live! with Fefe & Freddy Season 13, Episode 11January 8, 2025 Welcome back to YOUR Wednesday night conversation! This week’s episode of Live! with Fefe & Freddy was packed with laughter, insights, and plenty of sass. We started the night by catching up on Freddy’s weekend trip to San Francisco, where highlights included Fisherman’s Wharf, Chinatown dumplings, and exploring the Winchester Mystery House. Meanwhile, Felicia took a quieter approach to the weekend, prepping for the busy weeks ahead. For Just the Tip, we dove into the art of flirting. Whether it’s playful banter, thoughtful compliments, or being mindful of boundaries, we shared tips to help you navigate flirtatious interactions with confidence and authenticity. We tackled some wild current events, from the controversy surrounding a tattooed 9-year-old to Meta’s troubling policy changes. Plus, we discussed the latest on wildfires in Los Angeles and other headlines making waves this week. Freddy’s Next Gig: Miss Canyon Dig It Comedy Queen Prelim at The Rock, Saturday, Jan. 11. Doors open at 3 p.m., and the pageant starts at 4 p.m. Come support the queens! Stay tuned for more guest announcements on Patreon. Get exclusive perks like stickers, mugs, and behind-the-scenes content by joining us on Patreon at patreon.com/livewithfefeandfreddy. Special thanks to our patrons and sponsor WigsofaKind for keeping the conversation going. Missed this episode? Catch the replay on Facebook, YouTube, or Twitch. Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe to stay up to date. See you next week for YOUR Wednesday night conversation!

🎉 Happy New Year and welcome back to YOUR Wednesday night conversation! Freddy Prinze Charming is back, and we’re ready to dive into the new year with you. Freddy’s December Recap: Eight sold-out shows, Christmas celebrations, and a Winterhaven wagon ride. Felicia’s Winter Break: Hosting solo shows, holiday downtime, and navigating the chaos of parenting during the holidays. 2025 Goals: From travel and auditions to sewing projects and fostering deeper friendships, we’re setting intentions, not resolutions. We’re tackling the age-old debate of goals vs. resolutions. Intentions set the tone for success, and flexibility is key. Let’s start the year with a positive mindset! A tragic event in New Orleans on New Year’s Eve. Gypsy Rose Blanchard welcomes her first child. Stay tuned for upcoming gigs and exciting guest announcements. Be the first to know by joining us on Patreon. Join us on Patreon at patreon.com/livewithfefeandfreddy for exclusive perks like stickers, merch, and behind-the-scenes content. Huge thanks to our patrons and our sponsor, WigsofaKind, for their continued support. Follow us on social media and tune in live every Wednesday at 8 p.m. MST on Facebook, YouTube, and Twitch. Thank you for kicking off 2025 with us! Catch you next week for YOUR Wednesday night conversation.

This week on Live! with Fefe, I had the pleasure of chatting with Victor Yates, an award-winning writer, typewriter poet, and content creator whose work uplifts and celebrates queer voices. Victor shared the inspiration behind his debut novel, A Love Like Blood, which earned the 2016 Lambda Literary Award for LGBT Debut Fiction. We also discussed his creative process, his passion for storytelling, and his experiences as a member of Pride Poets, a queer typewriter collective. In addition to his literary achievements, Victor is a contestant on the gay dating reality show For the Love of DILFs, premiering November 26 on OUTtv. During our conversation, he gave us a behind-the-scenes look at his reality TV journey and offered insights into balancing creativity with the unique demands of the show. In This Episode: Victor’s journey as an author and poet The creative process behind A Love Like Blood Exploring queer identity and storytelling Insights into his experience on For the Love of DILFs Upcoming appearances and projects Tune in to this engaging conversation about writing, advocacy, and the power of queer representation in storytelling. Watch Live Every Wednesday:Live! with Fefe streams live at 8 PM MST/Arizona time on Facebook, YouTube, and Twitch. Follow Victor Yates: Instagram, Twitter, and YouTube: @writervicyates Support the Podcast: Join us on Patreon for exclusive content and merch at patreon.com/livewithfefeandfreddy.

Felicia "Fefe" Minor is riding solo on Live! with Fefe & Freddy! While Freddy takes center stage in an All Queer Shakespeare take on A Christmas Carol, Fefe is holding down the fort with all the December vibes. In this episode, we’re talking: The holiday hustle Spilling the Wicked movie tea Natural remedies for an upset stomach Winter skincare tips And whatever else comes up! Join Fefe for a fun, interactive conversation and the signature Live! charm. Tune in LIVE on Facebook, YouTube, and Twitch every Wednesday at 8 PM MST/Arizona time. Don’t miss it—it’s YOUR Wednesday night conversation!

In this episode of Live! with Fefe & Freddy, we welcome Marshall Shore, Arizona’s Hip Historian, for an unforgettable exploration of the quirky, untold stories of Arizona’s past. From vibrant storytelling to insights into preserving LGBTQ+ history, Marshall shares what makes Arizona’s history unique. In this episode also we discuss holiday travel essentials and the latest political updates. Segment Highlights: Holiday Travel EssentialsAs the holiday season approaches, Fefe and Freddy share their must-have travel items and tips for making road trips and flights smoother. From snacks and body pillows to flexible itineraries, they cover everything you need to know for stress-free holiday travel. Guest Spotlight: Marshall ShoreKnown for his engaging storytelling, Marshall dives into: His journey from librarian to historian uncovering Arizona’s weird and wonderful past. The Arizona LGBT+ History Project and its significance in preserving queer history. Upcoming events like the Phoenix History and Haunted Tour. Advice for those interested in uncovering history in their communities. Political CommentaryFefe and Freddy provide their signature take on the latest political appointments and the implications for marginalized communities. About Marshall Shore:Marshall Shore, also known as Arizona’s Hip Historian, has dedicated years to uncovering and preserving the state’s unique history. From hosting tours and trivia nights to working on the Arizona LGBT+ History Project, Marshall brings stories to life with a fresh, engaging perspective. Learn more at hiphistorian.com or follow him on social media at @hip_historian. Upcoming Events: No Show – November 27 Winter Wonderland Drag Bingo – December 11 at Drink Me Tea Room A Christmas Carol – Opening Night, December 13 at FPC (Tickets available now! Use code JACE5 for discounts) Watch or Listen:Stream this episode on Facebook, YouTube, or Twitch. Prefer audio? Tune in on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or your favorite podcast platform.

In this week’s high-energy episode of Live! with Fefe & Freddy, hosts Felicia “Fefe” Minor and Freddy Prinze Charming dive into the quirks and challenges of the online world, politics, and the state of social media. With multimedia artist and photographer Brandon McGill as the special guest, the show packs insightful discussions, games, and exclusive offers. Tune in for an interactive Mad Libs session where Brandon will transform audience suggestions into a one-of-a-kind drawing! Segment Highlights: Social Media: A Blessing and a CurseFefe and Freddy reflect on the impact of social media in today’s climate—exploring how it helps build community and share authentic voices, yet often feels like a relentless scroll. They discuss how artists can engage meaningfully amid the noise. Political RundownThe hosts break down some recent updates from Washington, D.C., discussing cabinet picks and policies affecting LGBTQ+ communities. Their witty commentary offers humor and a hard-hitting look at current events. Mad Libs with a Twist – Game Night with Brandon McGillReady to play? Audience members can submit words and phrases for a wild collaborative story, illustrated live by Brandon. Prizes include a custom drawing, a professional photo shoot, and a body painting experience. Contest Alert:This episode’s contest runs until Thursday, November 12, 2024, at 8:15 PM MST. Participate by submitting ideas for the Mad Libs game, typing "Transform me" to win a body painting session, or "Photo" to enter for a professional photoshoot by Brandon McGill. Check out Brandon’s work and book a session at brandonmcgill.com. Upcoming Events: Drag Bingo & Cats – November 15 FPC Christmas Carol Opening Night – December 13 (Use code JACE5 for ticket discounts) Next Guest: Marshall Shore, Arizona’s Hip Historian (November 20) Thanks for Tuning In!Catch the live stream every Wednesday night at 8 PM MST on Facebook, YouTube, and Twitch for your weekly conversation. For exclusive content, visit patreon.com/livewithfefeandfreddy.

WTF?! Post-Election Thoughts, Recovery Plans & What’s Next! | Live! with Fefe & Freddy In this episode, we’re diving into practical steps and support options for those in the LGBTQ+ community who may feel uncertain or at risk in the current political climate. I recognize my privilege as a white, male, cis-assumed person and want to offer guidance for those who might be feeling vulnerable or unsure about essential updates to legal documents. Let's break it down: Legal Document Updates: Name & Gender Marker Changes: For those who use a different name or present differently than their birth certificate, a legal name change can help avoid issues. ID updates may be inexpensive and can reduce future hassles. Resources for Legal Changes: Many areas offer resources to assist with legal fees. Reach out if you need connections to local support. ID & Passport Tips: If you've already changed your name, ensure your IDs are up-to-date, including state ID, driver’s license, Social Security card, and, if possible, your birth certificate. For travel, renewing your passport can provide a consistent form of ID for 10 years. Healthcare and Legal Safeguards: If you're partnered, consider updating legal documents such as wills, power of attorney (POA), and living wills to protect your rights. Support Networks: Building a community of friends, family, and allies is critical. Though the current climate may feel harsher, we have a history of resilience. Let’s continue to thrive, support each other, and not give up the fight. Resource Numbers: Trevor Project: 212-695-8650 National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: Dial 988 SAGE LGBTQ Elder Hotline: 1-877-360-5428 Trans Lifeline: 877-565-8860 LGBT National Youth Talkline: 800-246-7743 Political Updates: Arizona: Abortion rights enshrined in the state constitution. Delaware: Sarah McBride becomes the first openly trans Congress member. California & Colorado: Voters remove same-sex marriage bans from state constitutions. Maryland: Angela Alsobrooks becomes the first Black senator. New Mexico: Former DACA recipient Cindy Nava wins a legislative seat. Awareness Months: Native American/Indigenous Peoples Month: Take time to engage respectfully with Indigenous communities and support Indigenous-led initiatives. Trans Awareness Month: Get involved by supporting trans-led organizations, learning about trans issues, and being an active ally. Small actions can contribute to a more inclusive society.

In this episode, Felicia takes the spotlight solo, diving into mental health tips to help manage the weight of election season: Election Mental Health Tips: Felicia shares strategies for handling election stress, including setting boundaries with news and conversations, practicing mindfulness, and making a voting plan. Practical tips on self-care and focusing on what you can control make this discussion timely and supportive. RipplePHX Escape Room Recap: Freddy and Felicia recap hosting the challenging "Wicked and Twisted" Escape Room experience at RipplePHX’s annual Halloween Carnival, where only one group of friends managed to break free across the two-day event! Election Readiness: Felicia covers essential tips on mail-in ballots, timely submission, and planning your vote to make sure every vote counts. Catch this engaging solo episode for thoughtful election-season guidance, community highlights, and more.