Marriage by the Word
by Jeff & Debbie Earnest
Jeff & Debbie Earnest, married over 37 years, talk through specific issues faced in every marriage. They tackle tough subjects, going to the Word for practical ideas that will join couples together. Their honesty and life experiences lead to great conversations.
Episodes
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Stay In Your Yard
We install fences in our yards for protection. We need to install marital fences in our relationship to guard and protect our marriage. Anything or anyone intruding into our union, breaking the boundaries, has the potential to threaten our marriage. Listen as Jeff and Debbie discuss several safe...
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The Self-Absorbed Life
We're on a downhill slide! It has become acceptable, and even expected to have a self-absorbed, all about me, view of life. It has crept into our marriages as well! Listen as we discuss how culture has turned our minds and actions away from Paul's instructions to clothe ourselves in kindness.…
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Don’t Let Money Come Between You Part Two
In this episode, we share three additional financial questions for you and your spouse to discuss. You can learn to control your finances instead of your finances controlling you! Discover the importance of identifying the difference between wants and needs, learn to live within your budget, and...
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Don’t Let Money Come Between You Part One
Money! We cannot live without it, but some money conversations can make us feel as if we won't live through them. Listen as Jeff and Debbie ask three questions in part one for you and your spouse to discuss. Together you will work as a team, learning to control your finances, instead of your...
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Love Is Patient
No one wants to talk about it! But we are to be patient with our spouse. Even though we live in a culture that emphasizes "self", as Christians we are instructed to remain in emotional quietness when in unfavorable circumstances. Listen as Jeff and Debbie unpack a specific scenario in order to...
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Are You Sure?
We prepare for the future with insurance, wills, and investments. Tragically, we forget to prepare for the future by making sure we have a personal walk with Christ. We depend on the culture or our family for our salvation. But this is a personal decision. In this podcast, we ask three questions...
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Blended Family Essentials
Our friends, David and Kelly McHargue join us once again in this episode to share valuable information for the blended family. All couples will benefit from their advice, especially those who have blended two families together, facing unique situations. Listen as we discuss the counsel they wish...
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When The Argument Hits
Let’s face it. Every marriage has conflict. It’s basically impossible for two people to live together for any period of time without having different views and perspectives, sometimes resulting in an argument. The trick is to navigate through to the other side without damaging the relationship....
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Apathy in the Marriage
Apathy. The progression is slow and subtle, but dangerous for any marriage. In this podcast, Jeff and Debbie share several signs of apathy, along with practical steps to take in order to guard your marriage from the enemy's tactics. Start your conversations today, working together to strengthen...
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Marriage Mentors - Find One/Be One
Everyone can benefit when encouraged and invested in by others. Couples are strengthened in their marriages by learning from those who have walked the path a little longer. Don't be afraid to step out and develop new relationships. Learn how you can grow in your marriage as Jeff and Debbie…
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Which Are You, Proactive or Reactive?
How do you handle what life throws at you? Do you have a plan, or do you react to every situation in a frenzy as it comes? If our marriages are going to thrive, not just survive, we need to be proactive. We need a game plan! Listen as Jeff and Debbie share ideas for key areas of the relationship...
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Over And Over Again
We have always heard people say that the younger generation doesn't do things the way we did them. Is it because they aren't listening, or could it be we are not teaching them? In this episode, Jeff and Debbie explain three possible reasons the next generation unfortunately might not choose to...
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What If....
What has happened lately that you didn’t expect? Ours was a plumbing issue! We were unprepared! We scrambled gathering towels, a mop, and a phone. It’s not good to be caught off guard. How about 2021? Are we going to be prepared for what might happen? You do not want to miss this episode, as we...
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Hope This Christmas
When all else fails, there is hope! No matter what your Christmas might look like this year, you as a couple have the opportunity to work together, showing others hope in Christ. Listen as Jeff and Debbie share personal stories of how they changed Christmas challenges into joy filled holidays,...
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Why Holiness?
This world needs to see God’s holiness. But how are they going to see it except through us? 1 Peter 1:16 instructs us to be holy. In this episode, listen as we share ways this world can see holiness through our marriages as we represent Christ. Choose one or more areas to focus on in your own...
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What We Didn't Know Part Three
In this episode we wrap up the What We Didn’t Know series with four additional areas of struggle early in our marriage. By sharing where we stumbled, we hope you can sidestep some of the mistakes we made and develop a healthy, strong relationship! Every couple needs help just like we did! Let our...
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The Core
What is at the core of your marriage? You don't know? Listen to this episode to discover the most important element that can give you the marriage of your dreams! You can do it! Commit today. Thank you for listening! Don’t forget to subscribe and rate. We love your comments. Need to contact us or...
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Blended Conversations
Our friends, David and Kelly McHargue, join us in this episode to talk about Blended Conversations. They share valuable information for all couples, but especially for those who are in a blended family. Their wisdom and experience will no doubt be a blessing to everyone in their marriage! You do...
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Passing The Torch
What do people recognize as important to your marriage when they observe the two of you? Do they see you passing the torch of loving and serving God, or do they see you passing the torch of loving yourselves? We want to encourage you to become purposeful and intentional in your daily walk. In…
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What We Didn't Know Part Two
In this episode, we share five additional things that we didn't know about marriage when we made our commitment. Hopefully, through our transparency, you can avoid some of the mistakes we made. We are all still learning and growing together. We would love to learn some of the things you learned...
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Close Quarters!
Social distancing doesn't pertain to couples! We're spending much more time together in a limited amount of square footage. Suddenly, disagreements surface and we have nowhere to go. Jeff and Debbie offer five steps to bring needed peace back inside your four walls. We can enjoy each other even...
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What We Didn't Know!
We didn't know! We were so naive when we married almost 38 years ago. New couples think they have all the wisdom, but you too probably found out what you didn't know after you said, "I do." In this episode we share what we had to learn about marriage - the hard way. Leave a comment about…
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Attitude Is Everything
As a Christian couple, how important is our attitude? In marriage, attitudes can make or break us. They have the potential to draw others to Christ, or drive them from Him. Attitude is serious. In this episode Jeff and Debbie share three attitudes God expects in marriage. Check out their blog…
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What's In Your Closet?
When is the last time you cleaned out your closet? Did you find things you need to get rid of? Are they not your style? Do they not fit anymore? Are you still hanging on “just in case” you need them? It’s a lot like the old sins we hang on to. We need to look in the mirror and admit they don’t…
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20/20 Vision
Jeff and Debbie share steps they take each January as they seek God's direction for their marriage in the new year. They offer practical ideas that will strengthen marriages and families as they strive to honor God's Word. Do you want 20/20 vision for 2020? Decide now to set aside time to…
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Stress-free Christmas
Jeff and Debbie share ways to lessen the stress during Christmas. They encourage husbands and wives to work together, simplifying when possible. Various tips are discussed that will help keep the focus on Christ's birth. To download their Christmas budget, go to marriagebytheword.com
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I'm not Selfish
Jeff and Debbie talk about wounds caused from selfishness in the marriage. When a husband or wife demands his or her own way, the marriage friendship is hindered. Sin creeps into decisions made, ultimately impeding the spouse's relationship with God.
About this show
Jeff & Debbie Earnest, married over 37 years, talk through specific issues faced in every marriage. They tackle tough subjects, going to the Word for practical ideas that will join couples together. Their honesty and life experiences lead to great conversations.
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Jeff & Debbie Earnest