Marriage is For Grown Folk w John and Britt

John and Britt celebrate their podcast milestones and discuss the importance of understanding the different "routes" individuals take in relationships. They emphasize how personal experiences shape perspectives and emotional responses, highlighting that both partners often come with their own histories and traumas that impact their dynamics.Key points include:- **Routes in Relationships**: Each person’s journey influences how they perceive love and conflict.- **Empathy and Understanding**: Recognizing each other’s backgrounds can help avoid misunderstandings and unnecessary tension.- **Attachment Styles**: The conversation touches on how attachment styles formed in childhood affect adult relationships, urging listeners to investigate their own styles.- **Growth and Change**: The hosts reflect on their evolution as a couple over nearly 19 years, emphasizing the need for continuous assessment in relationships.- **Communication**: They stress the importance of open dialogue about needs and feelings, particularly when addressing unresolved issues from the past.The episode encourages listeners to be introspective about their emotional needs and to communicate effectively with their partners.

How have you learned to deal with truth. Were you disciplined to save power, ego, money. There are many reason people lie. We give our thoughts and opinions on the matter. 

In this episode we ask each other 21 questions to spark conversation for the opposite sex and give each sides perspective on certain topics

In this episode of "Marriages for Grown Folks," John and Britney discuss the five ingredients for intimacy in relationships, emphasizing the importance of communication, vulnerability, and self-awareness. They highlight:- **Developing Intimacy**: Fostering a deep connection is essential to avoid emotional disconnection.- **Honest Conversations**: Open discussions about feelings and experiences promote understanding and closeness.- **Engagement**: Maintaining mental stimulation and playfulness keeps the relationship lively and engaging.- **Physical Affection**: Regular touch and being present with each other strengthen emotional bonds.- **Self-Awareness**: Understanding personal triggers and emotions is crucial for healthy interactions and mutual respect.Overall, the episode encourages couples to invest in their relationships by prioritizing intimacy and actively engaging with one another.

A Valentines Special. John and Brit break down keeping the love and intimacy flowing so you don’t have to get ready when you get to the bedroom!

Just like baking. You can not rush your relationship. Some things you can substitute some you can not, come with us as we dive into this series of building intimacy in your relationship