Men Behaving Better

Matt Pinkett is a school teacher and author of Boys Don't Try - Rethinking Masculinity In Schools. As we draw the second season of Men Behaving Better to a close, it seems only fitting to bring it back to the root source of much of this season's content - how boys are raised. Matt speaks about the dismissing of boys and how society systemically makes excuses for them while also explaining what we're doing wrong in how we traditionally educate boys. Matt details the shocking level of sexual harassment of teachers and the challenges of implementing a sexual harassment policy in schools. From re-defining self harm to the difficulty of walking away from disputes, teaching tender masculinity and much more, this conversation may possibly be the most important one of the series to date. Matt's book Boy's Don't Try is available to buy here https://www.amazon.co.uk/Boys-Dont-Rethinking-Masculinity-Schools/dp/0815350252 To access the full back catalogue of over 250 episodes from the Irishman Abroad Podcast Network that are not available anywhere else and much more, become a patron of An Irishman Abroad for just the price of a pint on www.patreon.com/irishmanabroad. Our charity partner is jigsawonline.ie. In these tricky times, Jigsaw provides a range of resources, advice and care for your people to help them strengthen their mental health and the skills needed to navigate life. Please visit their website and consider making a donation. For updates on future episodes and live shows follow @jarlath on Twitter, visit www.jigser.com or email the show directly on [email protected].  Disclaimer: All materials contained within this podcast are copyright protected. Third party reuse and/or quotation in whole or in part is prohibited unless direct credit and/or hyperlink to the Irishman Abroad podcast is clearly and accurately provided.

In this very special episode of Men Behaving Better, Jarlath is joined by Kate Thornton. Having been the youngest (and first female) editor of Smash Hits Magazine and presenter of The X Factor, Pop Idol, This Morning and Loose Women, Kate's story in the world of media is one that must be heard. Kate speaks to Jarlath about the challenges raising her son as a single mother. They both discuss their fears of bullying. Kate opens up about the eating disorder that was brought on as a result of her own experiences of school violence as a teen.  From the incredible story of how she made the ground-breaking decision to put the Spice Girls on the cover of Smash Hits Magazine to discussing toxic masculinity in the music industry and much more, this conversation gives a rare insight into the journey behind Kate's career. To access the full back catalogue of over 250 episodes from the Irishman Abroad Podcast Network that are not available anywhere else and much more, become a patron of An Irishman Abroad for just the price of a pint on www.patreon.com/irishmanabroad. Our charity partner is jigsawonline.ie. In these tricky times, Jigsaw provides a range of resources, advice and care for your people to help them strengthen their mental health and the skills needed to navigate life. Please visit their website and consider making a donation. For updates on future episodes and live shows follow @jarlath on Twitter, visit www.jigser.com or email the show directly on [email protected].  Disclaimer: All materials contained within this podcast are copyright protected. Third party reuse and/or quotation in whole or in part is prohibited unless direct credit and/or hyperlink to the Irishman Abroad podcast is clearly and accurately provided.

In this fourth instalment of the second season of Men Behaving Better to discuss body health and wellbeing, who better than to be joined by Irish rugby legend Peter Stringer. Peter explains what keeps him motivated, the importance of being strict with the targets you set for yourself and how best to handle guilt and shame relating to food. From resetting your goals in lockdown to his particularly refreshing attitude towards nutrition and much more, this conversation is essential listening for everyone trying their best to take care of their mind and body during these challenging times. To hear about the best and worst players Peter has trained with, the hilarious bodybuilding myths that he heard over the years, how he was once made to drink protein shakes as punishment, the mortifying task he was set by Dancing with the Stars producers, the supplement that changed everything for him and more, become a patron of An Irishman Abroad for just the price of a pint on www.patreon.com/irishmanabroad. You will also gain access to the entire back-catalogue of over 250 Irishman Abroad episodes that are not available on iTunes.  Our charity partner is jigsawonline.ie. In these tricky times, Jigsaw provides a range of resources, advice and care for your people to help them strengthen their mental health and the skills needed to navigate life. Please visit their website and consider making a donation. Disclaimer: All materials contained within this podcast are copyright protected. Third party reuse and/or quotation in whole or in part is prohibited unless direct credit and/or hyperlink to the Irishman Abroad podcast is clearly and accurately provided.

This week broadcaster, film-maker and all-round legend Baz Ashmawy joins Jarlath for another rip-roaring episode in the new series. With a beautiful honesty (and hilarity), Baz speaks about how himself and his partner share a fondness for fighting and the concept of men operating off of a 'brownie point' system. Baz also details how being raised by two women gave him a greater understanding of women and the impact that learning more about being a man from his mother than he ever did from his father had on him. From his relationship test between himself and a friend to his show Wingman, the art of the apology and the challenges of communication in relationships and much more, this is a thoroughly enjoyable conversation with a modern man who has nothing to hide. To hear Baz's brutally honest discussion of his biggest regrets, his toxic influences growing up, his selfish past and a rare discussion between Baz and Jarlath about intimacy and romance and much more, become a patron of the Irishman Abroad Podcast Network for just the price of a pint on www.patreon.com/irishmanabroad. You will also gain access to the entire back-catalogue of almost 250 Irishman Abroad episodes that are not available on iTunes.  Our charity partner is jigsawonline.ie. In these tricky times, Jigsaw provides a range of resources, advice and care for your people to help them strengthen their mental health and the skills needed to navigate life. Please visit their website and consider making a donation. Disclaimer: All materials contained within this podcast are copyright protected. Third party reuse and/or quotation in whole or in part is prohibited unless direct credit and/or hyperlink to the Irishman Abroad podcast is clearly and accurately provided.

In this very special episode of Men Behaving Better, comedian Romesh Ranganathan joined Jarlath for the very first one-to-one conversation of the series to date. Romesh and Jarlath speak about imposter syndrome, the importance of understanding how our children are viewing the men around them, the phenomenon of the 'inner bastard' and the impossible challenge of being a conscientious parent in the modern world.  From a discussion about recognising criticism as advice rather than an affront to you as a person, the dangerous influences of 90s hip hop, how Rom chose to change his work-life balance and much more, this might be the most fun chat of the series so far. To hear how Romesh's ignorance drove Jarlath into a rage spiral, as well as solid advice on calling out bad behaviour among one's peers, the challenges of touring in countries where they have a different attitude towards women and much more, become a patron of the Irishman Abroad Podcast Network for just the price of a pint on www.patreon.com/irishmanabroad. You will also gain access to the entire back-catalogue of almost 250 Irishman Abroad episodes that are not available on iTunes.   Disclaimer: All materials contained within this podcast are copyright protected. Third party reuse and/or quotation in whole or in part is prohibited unless direct credit and/or hyperlink to the Irishman Abroad podcast is clearly and accurately provided.

We are delighted to return to you for the much-anticipated Season 2 of the Men Behaving Better podcast. In front of a packed Sugar Club in Dublin, Jarlath was joined on stage by Actor/Director/Presenter Simon Delaney, Comedian/Writer/Activist Tara Flynn, Vice President & General Manager of Walter Disney Motion Pictures Studios Ireland Trish Long and Marketing Director & Writer Finian Murphy. In this first episode of the new series, we tackle the bad habits that need to be shaken in order to move forward. Tara explains the phenomenon of 'manterrupting' (10:00) and Simon discusses parenting four boys and raising them to know how behave around girls (18:00). We also get to hear how Trish has worked with Harvey Weinstein (24:00) before Finian gives a fascinating discussion on the obsession with the gender of newborns (28:00). From considering an alternative perspective of the Harvey Weinstein case (48:00) to men's tendency towards having difficulty with not having a broad spectrum of emotions when dealing with negativity (16:00) and the impact of children copying the behaviours that the witness at home (45:00) and much more, this opening episode of the new series certainly does not disappoint! Disclaimer: All materials contained within this podcast are copyright protected. Third party reuse and/or quotation in whole or in part is prohibited unless direct credit and/or hyperlink to the Irishman Abroad podcast is clearly and accurately provided.

In this episode, in front of a packed Other Palace Theatre in London, Jarlath is joined by writer and comedian Felicity Ward, rapper RoxXxan and comedian Eleanor Tiernan to talk about misogyny in rap music, it's effects on women and the wider social context of such content in the music industry. In this incredibly eye opening conversation, the panel question why rap music seems to get a free ride when it comes to censoring its content over other genres (14:00), the importance of educating women about misogyny (45:00) and how rap lyrics went by unnoticed for so many years (15:00). This is a no holds barred discussion about the gritty reality of the industry. Highlights include: the harsh lesson RoxXxan learned about the industry when she overheard her EMI bosses’ private conversation (26:00), lessons in how a genre can adapt (37:00), the place of female artists in rap music right now (18:00) and much more. Disclaimer: All materials contained within this podcast are copyright protected. Third party reuse and/or quotation in whole or in part is prohibited unless direct credit and/or hyperlink to the Irishman Abroad podcast is clearly and accurately provided.

Calling Out Your Family (with Sofie Hagen, Kevin McGahern & Eleanor Tiernan) by Men Behaving Better

In April of this year, Laura Whitmore and Roisin Conaty joined Jarlath live in front of a sold out Soho Theatre to discuss sexism, consent and their hopes for gender equality in the future. This is the very special conversation that essentially started the Men Behaving Better series. With refreshing honesty, Laura and Roisin speak about the routine abuse of women (13:00), how men are judged differently to women for the exact same behaviours (26:00) and hilariously beating online trolls at their own game (34:00). From Laura’s unsettling experience with a policeman outside her home (46:00) and the time a male colleague took issue with the fact that she was being paid more than him (28:00) to how Roisin was told to avoid men attacking her on the street (11:00) and much, much more, this episode is a true highlight of the series to date. Disclaimer: All materials contained within this podcast are copyright protected. Third party reuse and/or quotation in whole or in part is prohibited unless direct credit and/or hyperlink to the Irishman Abroad podcast is clearly and accurately provided.

In this 3rd episode of the series, Jarlath is joined by Sara Pascoe, Brett Goldstein, and Sindhu Vee live in front of a packed Soho Theatre to take the conversation one step further and question the nature of fatigue in the #MeToo discussion. The panel discuss the separation of sexuality and behaviour (37:00), how sentencing by the public has replaced legal developments (18:00) and the consequences of the media's laziness in reporting content (35:00).
 From Brett's incredible story about the year he spent running a strip club in Marbella (47:00) to the lip service surrounding the gender pay gap (19:00), the BBC's equality quotas (23:00) and the hilariously wonderful story of a mother's response to her son's use of porn (39:00), this conversation certainly does not disappoint.  For more information on our guests please see the links below: Sara Pascoe - http://www.sarapascoe.com/ Brett Goldstein - https://twitter.com/brettgoldstein Sindhi Vee - http://sindhuvee.com/#Home For tickets to our next live recordings, see here: https://www.theotherpalace.co.uk/whats-on/jarlath-regan-men-behaving-better Disclaimer: All materials contained within this podcast are copyright protected. Third party reuse and/or quotation in whole or in part is prohibited unless direct credit and/or hyperlink to the Irishman Abroad podcast is clearly and accurately provided.

In the second episode of the series, Jarlath is joined on stage at Electric Picnic by Mark O'Halloran, Sinead O'Carroll and Nadine O'Regan to debate whether men's attitudes have changed in Ireland in the last year and what the place of forgiveness is in the Me Too movement. The panel call into question when Al Porter should get to come back (40:00), the true outcome of the rugby rape trial (20:00) and whether or not women share just as much as men do in their own 'locker-room talk' (29:00). From the questioning of whether or not men are now being more cautious rather than respectful (11:00) to why 'being woke' is a bullshit term (13:00), the horrifying groping culture which is as prevalent as ever (17:00) and much much more, this conversation is yet another vital conversation in the series. Disclaimer: All materials contained within this podcast are copyright protected. Third party reuse and/or quotation in whole or in part is prohibited unless direct credit and/or hyperlink to the Irishman Abroad podcast is clearly and accurately provided.

This week, Irishman Abroad Podcasts is proud to deliver to you the inaugural episode of our new podcast series Men Behaving Better. It's a new collection of conversations that nobody else is having. This is a podcast for men who want to change and for women who believe that change is possible. In front of a packed Soho Theatre in London, Jarlath was joined by comedian’s Pierre Novelli and Fern Brady, and the celebrated human rights lawyer Simone George for the first pathfinding episode of the series. This conversation explores how Fern’s former work as a stripper opened her eyes to the truth behind the power dynamics between men and women (7:00) and the importance of men simply listening (14:00). From the challenges facing modern men (25:00) to the shocking moment when Simone revealed how she was sexually assaulted inside the high court (28:00), to male fatigue surrounding feminism (45:00) and much more, this conversation is a truly gripping and entertaining way to open the doors to the new series and new kind of conversation about changing men for the better. Disclaimer: All materials contained within this podcast are copyright protected. Third party reuse and/or quotation in whole or in part is prohibited unless direct credit and/or hyperlink to the Irishman Abroad podcast is clearly and accurately provided.