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Men In Relationships
by Joel Mahe
Helping men to break free from recurring arguments by changing their emotional habits, thus saving their relationship.This podcast will talk about how to improve your relationship and achieve holistic success at the same time. It is my firm belief that as men, we can have it all. Success and an incredible relationship. This podcast will help you accomplish this.As the world evolves, men must change. The old paradigm of what a man is supposed to embody has changed. It’s time to level up, and all the information to do so will be found in this podcast.
Episodes
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M.I.R. This Is Why You Think Your Partner Is Crazy
I think we've all heard someone say "the relationship didn't work because my partner was crazy". There is a reason why we think someone is "crazy" or has changed and is different than when we started dating them. This episode breaks down why this is, and tells us why using this language is a...
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M.I.R. Why Your Environment Affects The Success Of Your Relationship
I share a personal story of how the environment surrounding you can affect your life and your relationship. Many dynamics go into your personal ecosystem... AKA your environment. The people the places, the work, the energy, the mindsets, the habits, and the perception of the closest people in…
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M.I.R The Real Raw Truth From A Relationship Coach
This episode is for the high achievers who desire more in life, and who are unwilling to settle for an average relationship. I discuss the problems that are associated with these desires. I want you to know that these problems are normal. It's also important to know that these problems can…
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M.I.R. How To Navigate Conflict Before It’s Too Late
This is a tactical episode filled with a step-by-step guide on navigating conflict. If we don't properly resolve conflict we will end up compounding that conflict into something that is unbearable. These steps are universal for any type of conflict. If you can put these insights into action you...
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M.I.R. Why you won’t lose yourself if you “change” to make your relationship work.
We typically get triggered by our partners because we experienced situations in the past that affected our psychology and the way we interpret the world. Many times we experienced situations when we were children (or from past relationships) that left a negative imprint in our memory. When our...
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M.I.R. Universal Laws To Get Your Relationship Back On Track
Do you have a burning desire to achieve more in life? I know I certainly do. Does that same desire distract you from one of the most essential and important aspects of your life - AKA your relationship? For me, there was a direct impact on my relationship when my desire to ‘create more’ went...
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M.I.R. Why Men Need To Be In Tune With Their Emotions In Order To Avoid Major Issues In A Relationship
This podcast episode is packed with information on why it's important to be aware and in tune with our emotions. Below are some topics covered in today's informative episode. **Practicing the concepts in this episode can drastically minimize major problems in your relationship.** 1) -Our body is...
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M.I.R. Do You Have Fear Around Marriage? Then Listen To This.
Are you questioning a relationship or marriage? *I find one of the most common reasons for cold feet, or fear of the commitment that comes with marriage is because it challenges our unconscious values. *One of the most significant values for men is Freedom. We might view marriage as a challenge…
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M.I.R. Avoid These Roadblocks In Order To Reconnect After Conflict
Today I talk about the blockages that commonly get in the way of reconnection after a conflict, disagreement, or misunderstanding. *I’m talking about this subject because recently, I’ve failed to do a good job at reconnecting. I’ll be honest, I’ve been insanely busy lately, and I’ve put other...
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M.I.R. The Seasons Of A Relationship- How To Prepare For Change In Your Relationship
We can grow together or grow apart. If we aren’t prepared for each different season in our life we are setting ourselves up for disruption and potential failure. “Failing to prepare is preparing to fail” John Wooden A successful relationship deserves a lot of intention to function properly. I…
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M.I.R. Why Emotional Intelligence Is More Important Than IQ For Men In Relationships
Emotional intelligence will lead to connection. We will not know how to have emotional intimacy without emotional intelligence. Both are fundamental pieces to ensuring the success of your relationship. One of the main fundamental human needs is belonging. Intellectual intelligence alone can not...
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M.I.R. Creating A Shared Life Vision To Avoid Codependency
I was a bachelor for many years, only living for myself. I think (external success is a much easier game when you are going at it solo)… You can put your head down and eliminate all "distractions". What we forget to think about is that sometimes what we consider a distraction is actually the most...
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M.I.R. The Necessary Identity Shift To Save Your Relationship
Identity- Is not a fixed concept. It is a set of qualities and beliefs that make one person or group different from others…. We can change our qualities/ characteristics/interests and beliefs. We base our identity on what we’ve done in the past when we really should be basing it on who we want to...
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M.I.R. Why Changing Your Beliefs Will Change Your Relationship.
When I reverse engineered the process that I went through to transform myself and my relationship the first step was believing I could. I know, I know... This sounds like a bunch of B.S. and fluff. It might, but ultimately who cares if it works! Unfortunately changing a belief isn't necessarily...
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M.I.R.-The Way Out Of A Stagnant Relationship. Why A Healthy Relationship Is Important.
Are you losing connection and desire in your relationship? Would you define your relationship as healthy or stagnant? We are supposed to be in an incredible relationship, it's what all the movies and society tell us, right? But do you ever take the time to understand WHY it is important for YOU…
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M.I.R.- How to get to the root of emotions to minimize conflict
When we don't fully understand where our emotions stem from, our natural tendency will be to react to them, rather than explore and redirect them. This can have a negative impact on your relationship. In this episode, I will talk about: -How to spot limiting beliefs in your relationship -Share...
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Men In Relationships (MIR) Intro Episode
I have re-branded the podcast!! I am extremely passionate about helping men in relationships, so I will be revolving my message around that. I think it's so important for a man to continually work on his inner and outer relationships. Doing this in my life has completely transformed who I am (In…
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It‘s Time To Pivot
This is the final episode of Surrendering Average! Along our journey we usually need to make pivots, in order to course correct to ensure we are staying aligned to our life's mission and vision. I will fill you in with where I am heading and what the next chapter looks like for me. Don't worry I...
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Relationships- How To Shorten Arguments And Reduce The Recovery Period
Long drawn out arguments that would stay unsettled for a long period of time was something that Jess and I used to struggle with a lot. There would be a disagreement and the energy in the air didn't seem to settle for a long period of time. I can proudly say we have come a loooong way since those...
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Implementation And Integration Beyond Information
Do you find yourself reading countless books, listening to multiple podcasts, and yet still haven't seen any tangible results?? This episode will break down all the reasons why this might be happening to you. It is absolutely incredible how much information is available in the world today! We are...
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Think Bigger.
Thinking the same way day after day will produce the same results we've got in the past. Familiar and recurring thoughts will populate unconsciously unless we can consciously inject new thoughts into our minds. Over time I personally noticed a massive difference in the results I was achieving. I...
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Relationships- What‘s More Important- Love Or Compatibility?
This is a topic that many people face when first entering a relationship, or if they've been together for a while and may be questioning their future existence together. In today's episode we will explore how love and compatibility are built and IF it's possible to generate one or the other. You...
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Protecting Your Personal Energy
Who you hang out with and the daily activities you perform will impact the quality of your thinking, your inspiration, your capability to dream, and of course your ENERGY. All of which will have a direct impact on the results you will create. We've all heard the saying, "You are the average of…
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Separation By Cognitive Bias
Lately, it's evident that there is more and more separation in the world. Most people take a firm stand towards their viewpoints, and typically aren't willing to see the other side. In today's show I want to shine a light on why I think this issue keeps getting worse. I believe there is always…
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Ep. 81 Thorns Behind The Beauty
In this episode I discuss how we all have thorns living in our subconscious. The thorns are a metaphor for unwanted automatic behavior response, bad habits, beliefs, traits, and neurological hardwiring that may not be serving us. We may never get rid of our thorns but once we are aware what they...
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Ep.80 Expectation Vs. Reality
This episode is a great reminder that the truth is usually different than what we perceive it to be. Often times we don't fully process what it takes to bring a vision or a goal to life. We think that we are at a disadvantage, because we tend to compare our selves to somebody else's finished...
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Ep.79 Meaningful Goals
We always hear that it's important to have goals, and that everyone should have big goals. We don't often hear WHY we need to do this, or even how to set a goal never mind a meaningful goal. I thought today I would unpack all the fine details around meaningful goals. Some key points of today's...
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Ep.78 New Levels Will Result In New Barriers & Challenges
If you are listening to this podcast then chances are you want to better yourself or evolve a certain area in your life. It's always fun to talk about all the amazing benefits that will appear once you do so. All of those benefits are great, but we often forget to talk about some of the 'not so...
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Ep.77 Commitment In A Relationship (Sharing My Personal Wedding Vows)
One of my main values is to be a committed partner in my relationship. I wasn't always someone who valued commitment. In the past, I framed commitment quite differently then I do now. Even the dictionary has two completely different ways to frame commitment. One way describes it as being…
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Ep. 76 Wedding Stories/Lessons You Need To Hear!
In today's episode I share some very memorable and challenging stories that transpired during the month leading up to our wedding. I also share many interesting stories about our wedding weekend. As always, I incorporate the life lesson I learnt from these unique circumstances. The main topic of...
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Ep.75 How To Deal With The Changing Seasons In Your Life
Life is not stagnant. It's always in motion, no matter how hard we try to keep it the same and familiar it will always be changing. The four different seasons bring drastic climatic changes (Especially in Canada). The same goes for different seasons in our personal life. In today's episode I...
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Ep.74 What To Think About Before Marriage
In today's episode I give my perspective on marriage. I recorded this episode just weeks before I got married. I was a man who had to go through many internal transformations to get me to a point where I was ready for marriage. I believe I have some powerful insights that will be helpful for any...
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Ep.73 How To Feel More Alive
I decided to do today's show based on my recent trip to a secluded cabin. Every time I leave that place I always feel more energized and alive. I wanted to break this topic down, in hopes that anyone who might be struggling, feeling in a slump, or simply wants to feel alive can benefit from my...
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Ep.72 Why We Tend To Focus On What We Don't Have
In today's show I break down why we frequently get caught focusing on the things in life we don't have, rather than what is already amazing in our life. I use a personal example of how this happens to me, in particular with my relationship. This episode includes three main topics to explain why...
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Ep.71 The Psychology Of Winning
There are many great benefits that can come from winning. Unfortunately we often overlook some of the downfalls associated with winning, especially in relationships. As a young kid growing up I developed a winning mindset, and slowly turned into a 'must win' type of person. Due to this must win...
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Ep.70 The Power Of Humility And Curiosity
Humility can be seen as 'knowing what we don't know'. Meaning not to pretend we know things when truthfully we don't know. Having humility to say we don't know, and to be curious about learning the things we don't know. This concept has truly transformed my life. I was locked into a period of...
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Ep.69 Why We Need To Feel Our Feelings
As a young man this is a topic I thought I would never be discussing with anyone, never mind with the open public. I used to hold in every emotion, burry it, and push it to the side. This led to MANY compounding internal issues that would lead to problems in my relationships. Since discovering…
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Ep.68 What Is Coaching?
In today's episode I discuss what coaching is, why I am so passionate about it, and why it works. I did not want to pursue another profession until I found something that I truly believed in and that would help and serve others. This episode will provide an explanation on what coaching can do in...
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Ep.67 How To Master Self-Doubt
Previously I was someone who frequently felt self-doubt. In fact, I still do at times but I can proudly say I've learned how to deal with it so it doesn't hold me back. *In today's podcast episode I describe situations in my life where I was faced with self-doubt. *I discuss the unhealthy coping...
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Ep.66 How To Become A Better Negotiator With Our Own Thoughts
Our mind can either be our strongest ally or our biggest enemy. That's why it's crucial to learn how to get it to work for us rather than against us. One of the most powerful ways of doing this is by successfully negotiating with our own internal thoughts. This is a skill that can be learned,...
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Ep.65 Fear Doesn't Go Away, We Become More Brave
In this week's episode, we talk about how fear will never fully be removed from our life. Once we can accept this we can learn how to become brave, in order to face the inevitable fear that will confront us when trying to level up in life. I will meticulously break down the 10 tips/strategies…
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Ep.64 Pt.2- Life Lessons From Real Estate Investing
I spent many years looking for the easiest way to achieve financial freedom. At that time, I thought there was a way to reach this without hardship or struggle. Once I realized this was wishful thinking, I decided to pursue real estate investing. Over the past few years, that decision has taught…
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Ep. 63 Pt.1- Our Real Estate Journey
In today's episode we go in a different direction. Part of my journey to surrendering my average life is to become financially free. Jess and I chose to pursue real estate investing to help us create long term wealth. In this episode I talk about why we chose real estate, our strategy, and some…
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Ep.62 Men In Relationships- Being Less Selfish
I believe most people are good at their core. If someone has developed selfish tendencies it might due to the fact they’ve developed bad selfish habits over the years. That doesn’t make someone a bad person, it simply means they have some work to do to get back on track. This is what happened to...
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Ep. 61 Men In Relationships- Balancing Masculine And Feminine Energy
We are surrounded by opposites in life. Good and bad, happy and sad, hot and cold, night and day. We only experience one because its counterpart exists. You wouldn’t know how good it feels when you are happy if you never experienced feeling sad. We also embody two main types of energies that seem...
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Ep.60 Men In A Relationship- Sharing A Life Vision
A relationship comprises two different individuals who had different upbringings. There will most likely be a difference of opinion and both people might perceive life slightly differently. I like to remind myself that a relationship does not complete you, rather there are two complete…
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Ep.59 Men In Relationships- Cultivating Trust Within Yourself And With Your Partner
Cultivating Trust within yourself and with your partner. What transpired in the past, frequently affects trust in a relationship. That might mean a past circumstance or experience left an imprint in your mind, affecting your perception of how you view your current partner. Or it might be the lack...
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Ep.58 Men In Relationships- Exploring And Articulating Emotions
This episode is part 1 of a mini-series about men in relationships. I found that I was living with a distorted vision of what it meant to be a man. Particularly in a romantic relationship. In the 5-episode mini-series, I vulnerably share my process of how I changed my perception of what it meant…
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Ep. 57 Foundation Alignment
Sometimes we all just need to check in with ourselves. Especially when setting big goals or a life vision. Our foundation is the base of our life. Essentially everything that is deeply important and necessary for us to live a fulfilled life. The ‘walls’ of our foundation are built by the...
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Ep. 56 State Change
In short, being able to change our mental state is what is necessary to break free from our undesirable auto programmed reactions and emotions. Learning to change our state can drastically improve our: -Energy levels -Regulating and controlling our emotions, especially when triggered. This…
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Helping men to break free from recurring arguments by changing their emotional habits, thus saving their relationship.This podcast will talk about how to improve your relationship and achieve holistic success at the same time. It is my firm belief that as men, we can have it all. Success and an incredible relationship. This podcast will help you accomplish this.As the world evolves, men must change. The old paradigm of what a man is supposed to embody has changed. It’s time to level up, and all the information to do so will be found in this podcast.
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