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Mess On Me
by Valentina Geovanna
Femininity has always been rooted in wisdom. Mess On Me is a podcast for women who think deeply, exploring faith, femininity, and the way we think, with honest conversation rooted in Scripture and sharpened by reason. Hosted by Valentina Geovanna. valentinageova.substack.com
Episodes
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The First Q&A: Faith, Friendship, Heartbreak & Finding Yourself
Welcome to the first Mess On Me Q&A. You sent in your questions, and I answered them: how to change paths when you feel too old (you’re not), how to believe in your own writing, getting through a breakup, making friends, and restoring relationships that feel too far gone. I also talk about…
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Knocking Down My Wall of Jericho
This week I talk about the wall I’ve felt between me and other people my whole life, and why I’ve stopped making autism my identity. I go through Romans 9:21, and Ben Sira 11 on being careful who you let into your house. I talk about the friendships I had to walk away from this summer, and why…
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The Ache Beneath the Advocacy
As a 2e AuDHD woman and mental health advocate, I’ve spent much of my life helping, advocating, and showing up for everyone else. Being needed became a way to find purpose—and a way to avoid sitting with my own sadness.But in this season, God has been leading me into isolation so I can finally…
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Kill Your Fear of Being Hated
For years, I let the fear of being hated dictate how I showed up. I minimized myself, held back my opinions, and played smaller than I was because I didn't want to be seen as arrogant or "too much." I thought staying likable was the safest way to succeed.In this episode, I talk about the rumors...
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You Can't Copy Soul
In this episode, I’m sharing the truth behind why I walked away from being an influencer and what this new season of my life has been teaching me. I open up about the changes I’ve made, the people I’ve chosen to surround myself with, and how those relationships have completely shifted my...
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The Diagnosis That Saved My Life: Psychosis, Love, Healing, and Late-Diagnosed Autism
For most of my life, I knew I was different, but I didn't know why. After experiencing narcissistic abuse, a devastating psychotic episode, and years of confusion about my mental health, I finally received a late autism diagnosis that changed everything. In this episode, I share my journey…
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Is Goodness Subjective? Why Pure Souls Make People So Uncomfortable
This week I am sitting with something I have been thinking about for a while. Why do genuinely good people make others uncomfortable? Not in a provocative way, not in a confrontational way, just by existing. We get into the mirror effect and the idea that purity has a way of reflecting back what...
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The Truth Behind Christianity
We've been taught a lot about Christianity but how much of it is actually true? So much of what we've inherited from church culture is rooted in tradition, misinterpretation, and flat out religion rather than a real relationship with God and an understanding of His Word. This episode is about...
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Self-Love Isn’t Healing: Discernment, Connection & What It Means to Be Feminine
In this episode, I talk about the quiet fear so many of us carry: the fear of truly being seen. In a culture that glorifies hyper independence, self protection, and obsession with the self, I think we’ve been taught that healing starts and ends with “loving yourself more.” But what if constant…
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Being Beautiful Gives You Brain Damage
In this episode of Being Beautiful Gives You Brain Damage, I talk about the side of being “beautiful” that nobody really talks about — how isolating it can be, the abuse, projection, and constant gaslighting that can slowly disconnect you from yourself. I reflect on experiencing psychosis, being...
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Hater Culture Is Killing Us
This episode dives into the toxic rise of hater culture and why tearing others down has become a form of social currency. We unpack the shift toward valuing intelligence as the “new pretty,” and how that can be empowering—but also weaponized to make others feel small. I talk about the dynamics of...
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Your Niceness Is Making You a Bad Person
Being nice doesn’t make you a good person. In this episode, we unpack the difference between social approval and real virtue, explore reactionary “bird brain” energy versus disciplined thinking, and talk about forgiveness as power — not weakness. From performance-driven faith and hypocrisy to...
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Anti-Intellectualism & The Empathy Crisis
In this episode, I explore how anti-intellectualism may be shaping the way we treat one another today. I look at how growing distrust of expertise, critical thinking, and nuanced conversation can contribute to polarization, reduced empathy, and even self-destructive cultural trends. Rather than...
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My Testimony
In this episode, I share my testimony of surviving narcissistic psychological abuse and how the Lord met me in the midst of it. I open up about the hidden wounds of psychological manipulation, the long road of healing, and how surrendering to the Lord restored my identity, healed my heart, and…
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My Journey from Anxiety to Inner Peace: What Actually Worked
In this episode, I share my personal journey as an AuDHD oldest daughter who lived for years in a body that never felt safe, even when nothing was “wrong.” I talk about how perfectionism, hyper vigilance, relational trauma, and misunderstood anxiety shaped my nervous system, and why traditional...
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What It Means To Love Yourself & How
We throw around “self-love” like it’s a skincare routine, but most of us have no idea what it actually looks like in practice. In this episode, I talk about the unsexy side of it — accepting who you are without turning it into a performance, being honest about what you feel instead of pretending...
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Becoming Who I Needed
In this very first episode of Mess on Me, I open up about my journey with mental health and how it shaped me into the person I once needed during my hardest moments. Instead of the usual surface-level advice you see online, I’m sharing real stories and lessons from my own life. I talk about the...
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Femininity has always been rooted in wisdom. Mess On Me is a podcast for women who think deeply, exploring faith, femininity, and the way we think, with honest conversation rooted in Scripture and sharpened by reason. Hosted by Valentina Geovanna.
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Mess On Me currently has 17 episodes available on PodParley. New episodes are automatically indexed when they're published to the podcast feed.
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Femininity has always been rooted in wisdom. Mess On Me is a podcast for women who think deeply, exploring faith, femininity, and the way we think, with honest conversation rooted in Scripture and sharpened by reason. Hosted by Valentina Geovanna. valentinageova.substack.com
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Mess On Me is created and hosted by Valentina Geovanna.
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