Messy Thoughts

MESSY THOUGHTS 29. Welcome back to Messy Thoughts! This week, Rihanna, Lady Gaga, stan culture, internet chaos, and “hills we’re willing to die on” all collide in one gloriously messy episode. BJ and LeBron spiral from AI-generated celebrity voices and TikTok memes into a full-blown celebration of Rihanna’s legendary hit catalog, the evolution of fan bases, and the golden age of MySpace customization. The conversation takes a deeper turn when they debate Billie Eilish’s controversial comments about eating meat and whether respecting your elders should really be unconditional. From rude club encounters with older gays to cult leaders, social media addiction, cell phones ruining society, and Ticketmaster’s bot problem, absolutely nothing is safe from discussion this week. Plus: Gaga’s “Runway,” YouTube comment wars, phone-call etiquette, Apple Watch peer pressure, and why the internet has made everyone way too comfortable in comment sections. As always, the thoughts are messy… but the bottoms are not. #MessyThoughts #BlackPodcast #GayPodcast #LGBT #PopCulture

MESSY THOUGHTS 28. This week on Messy Thoughts, BJ and LeBron are taking a messy, funny, and surprisingly reflective trip back to 2020 — the year of quarantine, masks, Zoom happy hours, six-feet-apart stickers, empty Austin streets, PPP loans, unemployment chaos, cancelled birthday plans, and everybody suddenly becoming very aware of who was in their “pod.” Before the time machine really gets going, the episode kicks off with Drag Race finale thoughts, Myki Meeks' win, Nini Coco’s performance, All Stars 11 excitement, and a very important public service announcement: maybe ask people who they voted for before you hook up with them. Then the conversation turns deeper as BJ and LeBron reflect on the murder of George Floyd, the rise of Black Lives Matter protests, Blackout Tuesday, performative allyship, protest fears, and how 2020 created a rare moment where people had the time, attention, and collective outrage to actually respond. They also revisit the weird little details we’ve all half-blocked out: birthday parties alone, masks under noses, COVID tests, vaccines, work-from-home setups, looting your office supplies when the company told you to “take what you need,” Austin bars that didn’t survive the pandemic, and the strange intimacy of pandemic friend groups. To close things out, LeBron responds to a recent racist video involving a Houston police officer and delivers a pointed reminder about racism, accountability, and believing people when they show you who they are. Messy, nostalgic, political, chaotic, and deeply 2020 — this episode asks: what did we learn, what did we forget, and why does everything still feel so messy? Hosted by BJ Burgess and LeBron Huggins. Produced by Keller Davis. www.messythoughts.com #MessyThoughts #GayPodcast #BlackPodcast #QueerVoices #Pandemic

MESSY THOUGHTS 27. BJ and LeBron are back after a little break, and they’ve got a lot to catch up on. The episode kicks off with some very Messy Thoughts energy as BJ declares that 2026 is officially “the year of the top,” which leads into a hilarious and unfiltered conversation about topping, bottoming, labels, and dating dynamics. Then the boys recap their recent trip to Treefort and Drag Fort in Boise, including their thoughts on Idaho, the festival vibe, drag kings, their live podcast experience, and how the whole trip ended up being better than expected. From there, things get even messier with a story from Hippie Hollow in Austin that turns into a conversation about boundaries, fetishization, and consent after a truly wild encounter involving a man with “I Love BBC” tattooed on his thigh. To close things out, LeBron gives a full Coachella recap — from camping and porta-potties to crowd behavior, festival fashion, standout performances, and why Karol G and Becky G delivered one of the most powerful moments of the weekend. If you love queer culture, messy stories, festival recaps, and funny, honest conversation, this episode is for you. Like, comment, and subscribe — and let us know: would you survive Hippie Hollow or Coachella camping?

Messy Thoughts goes live from Boise, Idaho at Treefort Music Festival for a hilarious, chaotic, and unexpectedly heartfelt night with BJ Burgess and LeBron Huggins.In this special live episode, BJ returns to his hometown of Boise and brings the Messy Thoughts energy to the stage for a crowd full of queer joy, messy confessions, audience questions, and unfiltered commentary. The night kicks off with stories about Boise, identity, and what it feels like to come home, before quickly spiraling into conversations about dating disasters, app culture, bad plane turbulence, situationships, and whether the gays are mean everywhere or if that’s just a universal truth.The episode also features a very funny Idaho trivia game, audience participation, some truly wild bedroom and dating discussions, and one of the most memorable stories of the night: BJ sharing what happened after a scammer threatened to leak his explicit photos to his family. What could have been humiliating turns into a conversation about shame, confidence, support systems, and owning your story.There’s also a sweet and genuine section on chosen family, queer friendship, and the people who help carry us through life, plus an important audience conversation about language, identity, and the meaning behind terms in queer culture. It’s messy, funny, vulnerable, loud, and full of live-show magic.If you were there at Treefort, thank you for being part of such a fun night. And if you’re just tuning in now, welcome to Messy Thoughts — where no topic is off limits and things can go from ridiculous to real in a matter of seconds.Like, comment, and subscribe for more episodes, clips, and messy conversations.#MessyThoughts #Treefort #LivePodcast #QueerPodcast #LGBTQPodcast

MESSY THOUGHTS 25. BJ and LeBron are back with another wildly chaotic episode of Messy Thoughts, and this one truly goes everywhere. From allergy struggles and drag dreams to college Greek life, old school phones, cookout fantasy picks, and some truly unhinged dating-app behavior, the boys are in rare form.They kick things off recapping a recent panel appearance and showing love to Vivent Health, then spiral into stories about fraternity culture, sidekicks and BlackBerrys, and a hilarious celebrity cookout game that forces some impossible choices. Later, LeBron gets real about how rough dating has been lately — including one guy who revealed he voted for Trump, another who matched with him on Facebook Dating only to announce he is “not gay,” and a broader conversation about dating apps, flirting in real life, and why modern romance can feel fully broken.Somewhere along the way, they also talk about Janet Jackson, Michael B. Jordan, making out with strangers, and yes… remembering the Alamo.It is messy. It is personal. It is ridiculous. Just how we like it.In this episode:Recapping their recent panel event and community collabAllergy season chaos in AustinGreek life, college culture, and fraternity talkA celebrity “cookout” game with impossible choicesLeBron’s latest dating horror storiesFacebook Dating, Hinge, and real-life flirtingA little pop culture, a little mess, and a lot of foolishnessSubscribe, comment, and let us know: what is the wildest thing someone has ever said to you on a dating app?#MessyThoughtsPodcast #Podcast #GayPodcast #DatingApps #PopCulture

MESSY THOUGHTS 24. This week on Messy Thoughts, BJ and LeBron kick things off with a little life catch-up, some SXSW chaos, Sips & Sounds discourse, and the emotional devastation of missing Christina Aguilera. From there, the conversation spirals beautifully into hot people, Instagram boyfriends, breakup lurking, and the very specific pain of caring way too much about strangers online. Then they’re joined by the iconic Laganja Estranja (@laganjaestranja) for a wildly fun, thoughtful, and very Messy conversation about drag, travel, weed, performance, and building a career on your own terms. Laganja talks about touring in Thailand and across Asia with Aquaria, why Brazil has her heart, what it means to produce your own shows, and how she’s thinking about legacy at this point in her career. They also get into cannabis, her upcoming product line, fan interactions, dating, queer culture, ballroom influence, and the very important distinction between a dip and a death drop. It’s funny, chaotic, smart, a little horny, and all over the place in exactly the way we like it. This episode has: SXSW stories, social media spirals, drag excellence, international gig life, weed talk, hot men, ballroom discourse, and one very real conversation about what it means to keep evolving as an artist. #LaganjaEstranja #DragRace #GayPodcast #BlackPodcast #SXSW

Messy Thoughts – Episode 23 This week on Messy Thoughts, BJ and LeBron are back with another chaotic, hilarious, and surprisingly deep conversation about pop culture, concerts, money, friendship, and the messy realities of adult life. The episode kicks off with a wild tangent about the viral Dr Pepper TikTok jingle, TikTok fame, and how creators get paid (or don’t) for their work. From there, the conversation spirals into pop music and concert culture, including LeBron’s experience seeing Lady Gaga in Austin and why Gaga’s impact on the LGBTQ+ community still means so much today. But the messiness doesn’t stop there. BJ and LeBron dive into some real-life dilemmas: • What do you do when someone borrows money and never pays you back? • Is it fair to split the dinner bill evenly when some people order way more than others? • Why do people leave concerts early after paying hundreds for tickets? Later in the episode, producer Daddy Keller jumps in for a chaotic new segment called “Fast and Messy,” where the hosts answer rapid-fire questions about sexuality, culture, relationships, and identity—while trying on wigs and completely losing their composure. Expect debates about bisexuality, cookout invites, gay culture, gentrification, and the kinds of questions that only Messy Thoughts could turn into a hilarious conversation. If you like messy conversations, pop culture debates, and unfiltered takes about life, friendship, and queer culture—this episode is for you. Leave us a voicemail with your own messy thoughts and you might hear yourself on a future episode. MESSY THOUGHTS Hosted by BJ Burgess and LeBron Huggins, Produced by Keller Davis. www.messythoughts.com #LGBTQPodcast #GayPodcast #BlackPodcast #GayCulture #PodcastClips

This week on Messy Thoughts, we’re bringing you a chaotic, hilarious, and heartfelt Austin–San Antonio podcast crossover with the hosts of the JK But Gay Podcast — Jake Reyna-Casanova and Kendrick Vela. From the moment these four get in the room, the energy is pure mess (in the best way). We talk about how both podcasts started, navigating the intersection of Latino and LGBTQ identities, and what it’s like building community in spaces that sometimes don’t feel built for you. Jake and Kendrick share the story of how they met, how their friendship turned into a podcast, and why they felt a Latino gay voice was missing in podcasting. The conversation goes deep — from racism and microaggressions in queer spaces to the emotional realities of fostering children and the complicated relationship many of us have with family, identity, and culture. We also get into some lighter chaos: ✨ Kendrick spills the tea on his Emmy-winning meteorologist husband ✨ We debate gay spaces vs Latino spaces ✨ We play the iconic “Who’s Invited to the Latino Cookout?” game ✨ And of course… we end with a passionate breakdown of Beyoncé, Bad Bunny, Selena, and the cultural impact of Latino icons If you love messy conversations, big laughs, and real talk about culture and identity — this crossover episode is for you. Go show love to JK But Gay Podcast and subscribe to both shows! Messy Thoughts. Hosted by BJ Burgess and LeBron Huggins. Produced by Keller Davis. www.messythoughts.com #MessyThoughts #JKButGay #GayPodcast #LatinoLGBTQ #QueerLatino

MESSY THOUGHTS EPISODE 21. “I could’ve been rich and stupid… I would’ve been good at it.” 💅🏾 Episode 21 kicks off with BJ and LeBron trying to decode an iconic funeral movie quote (shoutout to the real ones who know 👀) before spiraling into Beyoncé conspiracy theories, candy apple green aesthetics, and the possibility of Act III dropping right before LeBron’s birthday. Mother has posted THREE times, and we are not okay. Also talked about this week: ✨ Valentine’s Day confessions (including a surprise wig reveal) 🎥 Thoughts on the America’s Next Top Model documentary and Tyra’s non-apology era 🗳️ Early voting in Texas and what we’d actually do if we were U.S. Senators 🎓 A Black History Month deep dive into the Divine Nine (and who we’d pledge if we had to) 👑 A love letter to EGOT icon Whoopi Goldberg 🧠 A nuanced (and very real) conversation about slurs — what they are, who uses them, reclaiming language, and whether eliminating certain words erases history or protects people This episode is funny, messy, political, nostalgic, and surprisingly thoughtful — all at once. We close things out with Cardi B tour appreciation (because joy matters in 2026), plus a reminder that we’re on the road to 1,000 subscribers — so hit that subscribe button and tell your group chat. www.messythoughts.com Hosted by BJ Burgess and LeBron Huggins Produced by Keller Davis #GayPodcast #BlackPodcast #MessyThoughts #AustinTX #LGBTPodcast

MESSY THOUGHTS – Episode 20: Bad Bunny Backlash, Serena Supremacy & Wendy Williams Chaos The girls are OUTSIDE this week — brunches, drag shows, Lady Gaga sweepstakes wins, and a whole lot of opinions. In Episode 20, BJ and LeBron dive headfirst into culture, controversy, and chaos. 💥 Bad Bunny’s Super Bowl halftime show sparks a bigger conversation about language, representation, Puerto Rico’s American identity, and why some people are STILL confused about what “America” actually means. The set design? Iconic. The symbolism? Deep. The haters? Loud (and wrong). 🎾 It’s Black History Month, so we’re spotlighting two absolute powerhouses: Serena Williams — the GOAT of modern tennis, fashion innovator, and global icon who changed the game forever. Wendy Williams — radio shock queen, daytime drama pioneer, and the original “ask the messy question on live TV” legend. The debate: Who had the bigger cultural impact? We also get into: -- Ozempic discourse -- Jake Paul hypocrisy -- Drag nights at Highland & Rain -- Austin brunch energy at De Nada -- Gaga ticket bloodbaths -- Why Ticketmaster deserves jail time -- And why you NEED to leave us a voicemail 📞 Want your messy thoughts on the pod? Call us at (512) 953-3084 and leave your name, age, location, and what’s on your mind. — Drop your favorite Serena outfit in the comments. Tell us if you watched Bad Bunny’s halftime show. And most importantly — help us get to 1,000 subscribers. Grab your cousin’s phone if you have to. This is Messy Thoughts — where the thoughts are messy and the bottoms are not. HOSTED BY BJ BUGESS AND LEBRON HUGGINS, PRODUCED BY KELLER DAVIS. #MessyThoughts #BadBunny #SerenaWilliams #BlackHistoryMonth #WendyWilliams #SuperBowl #PopCulture #LGBTQPodcast

Messy Thoughts Episode 19. This week on Messy Thoughts, we are ALL over the place… in the best way possible.BJ kicks things off with a truly cursed Monday: dentist cancellations, a blown-out tire on I-35, Discount Tire chaos, and a reminder that sometimes you just have to laugh before you spiral. From there, we dive into the internet’s latest parasocial obsession — the TikTok breakup of Brin & Mario — and unpack what happens when your entire brand is built on being a couple.Then it’s Black History Month, and we’re honoring two icons:📚 E. Lynn Harris – the groundbreaking openly gay Black author who shaped a generation of readers. 🏛️ Shirley Chisholm – the first Black woman elected to Congress and the first Black woman to run for President in 1972.We also play a chaotic tournament-style game: Who’s the Most Trustworthy White Person to Invite to the Cookout? The bracket includes Meryl Streep, Britney Spears, Dolly Parton, Adele, Miley Cyrus, and more. The final winner? You might be surprised.And yes… we go there.We get into fetishes, kinks, blindfolds, ropes, sensory play, gym cruising, roleplay fails, and whether your kink translates into your real-life personality. It’s messy. It’s honest. It’s slightly unhinged.We wrap up with a listener voicemail asking:What belief did you have 5 years ago that embarrasses you now?What’s the most unhinged thought you had this week?Let’s just say… the gym stories alone are worth it.📞 Call the Messy Thoughts Voicemail: (512) 953-3084 Leave us your name, age, where you’re calling from, and your messy thought — we might feature you in the next episode.🎥 Subscribe on YouTube – Help us get to 1,000 subscribers by Pride Month! 💌 Email: [email protected] 🌐 All links: messythoughts.comThe thoughts are messy… but the bottoms are not.

Messy Thoughts Episode 18. Season 2 of Messy Thoughts kicks off exactly how it should: loud, unfiltered, wildly funny, and just a little bit educational.BJ and LeBron are back after a brief hiatus and immediately spiral into chaotic catch-ups — from blackout brunches and dangerous margaritas to messy New Year’s Eve parties, near house fires, and avoiding people in shared social circles. From there, things escalate quickly. The duo introduces an instant classic game: “Is It Gay or Is It Straight?” — rating everything from Chili’s on 45th, TJ Maxx, Beyoncé concerts, and Fourth Street in Austin to Puerto Vallarta, Miami, and even the Republican National Convention on a very scientific 1–5 “gay scale.” In honor of Black History Month, the conversation shifts to personal memories, first Black teachers, school experiences, and hilarious childhood stories — including a truly unforgettable Black History Month play gone wrong. BJ and LeBron also give flowers where they’re due, spotlighting legends like Loretta Devine and civil rights strategist Bayard Rustin, while unpacking how queerness has always existed in the movement, even when it was pushed into the background. Then… it’s time to get into the real mess. The second half of the episode dives deep into gay culture discourse: jockstraps. Are they an outfit? A tool? A lifestyle? The hosts debate ratings, origins, locker room trauma, dark rooms, thong vs. jockstrap politics, Andrew Christian’s downfall, lingerie on men, and why gays are somehow both hyper-sexual and deeply practical at the same time. It’s funny, raunchy, thoughtful, nostalgic, and exactly the kind of chaos you expect when the thoughts are messy — but the conversation is very real. 🎧 New episodes drop weekly. 📞 Call in with your own messy thoughts at 512-953-3084. 📺 Subscribe, comment, and tell your messy friends. Hosted by BJ Burgess and LeBron Huggins. Produced by Keller Davis. www.messythoughts.com

Messy Thoughts Episode 17. It’s the most wonderful (and chaotic) time of the year on Messy Thoughts! BJ and LeBron kick off the Christmas special exactly how you’d expect—by exchanging extremely questionable gifts, roasting each other’s families, debating whether Christmas is religious or just culturally gay now, and spiraling through a holiday buffet of stories that only these two could tell. From family drama and unconventional Thanksgiving meals (ribs? Mexican turkey? sugar on rice??) to the politics of gift-giving, ugly sweaters, casino hookups, and the eternal quest for the perfect holiday movie—this episode has everything except peace on earth. And then… The holiday glam moment arrives. Austin drag superstar Celia Light makes a dazzling entrance in a Christmas-Playboy-Bunny fantasy, ready to talk wigs, costumes, her show TDRL: Total Drag Request Live at Oilcan Harry’s, and what it takes to shine through the holiday madness. She brings warmth, humor, and a whole lot of sparkle—truly the Christmas angel this messy season needed. Whether you’re hiding from your family, wrapping gifts you’re not sure you like, or sweating through an ugly sweater in Texas December heat, this episode will keep you laughing all the way. Messy Thoughts, Hosted by BJ Burgess and LeBron Huggins. Produced by Keller Davis.

Messy Thoughts Episode 16. We close out Season 1 with one of the funniest and most chaotic episodes yet. BJ and LeBron open the finale by introducing their ever-growing family of wigs — including BB, Sharonda, Aaliyah, and even a “sports wig” — while swapping stories about robes, wine nights, and Amazon’s increasingly disrespectful return policies. From late-night Temu purchases to handcuffing yourself to the bed to avoid midnight snacking, the episode wastes no time diving into peak-mess territory. Keller joins the second half with a question that sends the conversation spiraling in the best way: would you ever date someone who’s DL or still in the closet? What follows is a funny, honest, and deeply candid discussion about identity, shame, queer growth, the impact of The Velvet Rage, and why some men still refuse to post a real photo on dating apps. The trio breaks down whether it’s ever worth getting involved with someone hiding who they are — in love, in hookups, or anywhere in between. From there the episode swings through memories of Black Friday battles, the trauma of group-photo profiles, the ethics of homewrecking, the mystery of gas-price fluctuations, and the chaos of Six Flags closing half their rides without warning. BJ reflects on how Noah’s Ark shaped his coming-of-age experience, LeBron shares his proudest moment of the entire season, and the group celebrates the incredible audience that showed up, commented, debated, and turned Messy Thoughts into a fast-growing community. It’s heartfelt, unfiltered, irreverent, and wildly funny — the perfect finale to a season full of big laughs, bigger opinions, and the messiest thoughts imaginable. Hosted by BJ Burgess and LeBron Huggins, Produced by Keller Davis. Promotional: "Hold Me" by Zoe the Virgo (song used with permission by the artist)

Messy Thoughts Episode 15. The Messy boys are back—and this time, it’s a full house. BJ and LeBron are joined by the iconic Dillon for a chaotic, hilarious, and surprisingly educational episode covering everything from Halloween hangovers to concert etiquette to bachelor party drama in Miami. They kick things off reminiscing about Halloween costumes, Cosmigos-fueled nights, and why teaching someone spades always ends in violence. Then things heat up as LeBron wonders: “Are gay people better concert fans than straight people?” That sparks a full dive into the difference between Maroon 5 crowds and Beyoncé’s Beyhive, why straight people leave concerts early, and the nightmare that is a corporate group at a live show. From there, the trio swaps stories about mosh pits, Cheetah Girls, and the true meaning of being a redbone, before diving into Dillon’s recap of his Miami bachelor party—the good, the messy, and the bathhouse-bound. Expect tea on drunk brunches, Airbnb ghost stories, and Esteban shutting down a trip to Wilton Manors. Before closing, they clock a few things: microplastics, the U.S. education system, family drama at the holidays, and people who can’t tell the truth—plus a random shout-out to Wendy Williams (“Free Wendy!”). As always, it’s loud, it’s chaotic, and it’s a little too honest. Welcome to another episode of Messy Thoughts—where the thoughts are messy, and the bottoms are not. Hosted by BJ Burgess and LeBron Huggins. Produced by Keller Davis.

Messy Thoughts Episode 14. BJ and LeBron are back from a short break with plenty of mess to unpack! 💅 BJ recaps his Miami trip for Dillion's bachelor party and the chaos at Palace Bar’s iconic drag brunch, while LeBron shares a wild story about being recognized mid–“adult gymnastics.” The crew dives deep into the Austin gay scene—are the gays here really that catty, or are we all just shy? They talk cliques, friendship, Splash, and how to actually meet people in Austin’s LGBTQ+ community (spoiler: start the Messy Thoughts Mixer!). Later, Keller joins in for a nostalgic Pokémon rant, and things get hilariously off-track.✨ Featuring:BJ’s Miami trip + Palace drag brunchBeing recognized at awkward times 😂The “Austin gays are messy” TikTok debateFriendship, cliques, and gay social lifePokémon nostalgia meltdownDreams of a Messy Thoughts Mixer🎧 Follow us on socials @messythoughtspod and visit messythoughts.com for full episodes, clips, and updates.Hosted by BJ Burgess and LeBron Huggins. Produced by Keller Davis.

Messy Thoughts Episode 13. Sponsored by Vivent Health. BJ and LeBron bring all the chaotic nostalgia in this Halloween Special of Messy Thoughts—costumed as Fred Flintstone and Chucky Finster while taking us on a hilarious ride through childhood cartoons, candy heists, and haunted movie memories. From debating whether Nightmare Before Christmas is a Christmas or Halloween movie, to reminiscing about Rugrats, Flintstones, Hocus Pocus, and Twitches, the hosts unpack how spooky season shaped their inner child. They also relive Wendy Williams’ unforgettable Statue-of-Liberty faint, debate trick-or-treat etiquette (how many pillowcases of candy is too many?), and share real talk about growing up, aging out of Halloween, and keeping the spirit alive as adults. Of course, it wouldn’t be Messy Thoughts without a little sex, shade, and pop-culture chaos—featuring everything from Flintstone adultery theories to LeBron’s iconic Tuxedo Mask costume and BJ’s Hallelujah Night church memories. 👻 It’s a nostalgic, hilarious, and candy-filled mess—perfect for your spooky-season playlist. Hosted by BJ Burgess and LeBron Huggins. Produced by Keller Davis

Messy Thoughts Episode 12. In this episode of Messy Thoughts, BJ and LeBron serve up a hilarious and heartfelt conversation that bounces from sports to Bad Bunny to interracial dating. The duo kicks things off with their weekend pickleball showdown (featuring court drama, Brazilian rivals, and very specific balls 👀), then spiral into a chaotic love letter to Bad Bunny and the Demon Slayer movie.The heart of the episode dives into interracial dating and race dynamics — from online discourse around famous Black queer figures to personal stories of growing up mixed, dating outside your race, and navigating cultural nuances in relationships. Producer Keller joins in to share his perspective as a white partner in an interracial marriage, leading to an honest, funny, and vulnerable roundtable.Hosted by BJ Burgess and LeBron Huggins. Produced by Keller Davis.

Messy Thoughts Episode 11. BJ and LeBron are back with another unfiltered conversation—this time joined by Keller—for a wild mix of stories and hot takes. From petty park drama (calling the cops on a tennis match gone wrong, volleyball court politics, and strangers trying to crash the vibe) to hilarious reality TV and music tangents (Escape, Adele possibly doing the Super Bowl, Bad Bunny concerts, and Nicki Minaj mispronunciations), nothing is off limits.The heart of the episode dives deep into open relationships and polyamory—what they mean, how they work (or don’t), and the messy realities of jealousy, rules, and communication. The trio swaps personal stories, friend drama, and community observations, unpacking how queer relationships push boundaries (and sometimes push buttons).They round things out with anime fangirling over Demon Slayer, frustrations about pricey Ariana Grande tickets, and plenty of side commentary that only Messy Thoughts can deliver.If you’ve ever wondered about the difference between an open relationship and polyamory, or just want to laugh through messy truths, this one’s for you.Hosted by BJ Burgess and LeBron Huggins, Produced by Keller Davis.

Episode 10. In this week’s episode of Messy Thoughts, BJ and LeBron show up in matching jerseys and immediately spiral into stories about Coachella fashion, Wendy Williams sightings, and Monet X Change’s engagement. From there, the conversation bounces to their sweaty introduction to pickleball (complete with Brazilian opponents and BBL distractions), before diving into a deeper discussion on bullying—from childhood experiences and family dynamics to how media figures profit from hate. Along the way, they revisit pop culture chaos like Will Smith at the Oscars, Kanye at the VMAs, and even T.S. Madison’s timeless advice: step your pussy up, honey.Equal parts hilarious and heartfelt, this episode serves sports commentary, shady banter, and a thoughtful call to stop bullying—delivered, of course, with messy flair.

Messy Thoughts Episode 9. This week on Messy Thoughts, LeBron is away and BJ is joined by special guest and friend Dillion and producer Keller. Together they dive into the messy magic of friendships, wild group trips, and unforgettable Miami and New Orleans stories. From volleyball courts to nude beaches, stolen bags to guzzled cokes, nothing is off-limits. They swap tales about racism on the hookup apps, messy group dynamics for trips, and why alcohol both bonds and breaks friendships. Expect laughter, chaos, and a little heartfelt real talk about what it means to ride for your friends—even when they accidentally leave you naked at the beach. #GayPodcast #QueerVoices #BlackPodcast

Messy Thoughts Episode 8. BJ and LeBron are back with another delightfully chaotic episode of Messy Thoughts. This week, the conversation travels far and wide—starting with family weddings in Detroit (and a grandma sipping Casamigos), destination wedding surprises in Greece, and why Dubai and Russia are firmly off their travel list. They get candid about the highs and lows of group trips, spill tea on festivals like Folsom and Dore Alley, and debate whether phones are ruining concerts. Later, they tackle the age-old question: would you tell your friend if you caught their man on Grindr? The episode wraps with LeBron’s Beyoncé pilgrimage plans and some classic “grown-age” reflections. Expect laughs, side-eye, and plenty of messy wisdom.Hosted by BJ Burgess and Lebron Huggins. Produced by Keller Davis.

Messy Thoughts Episode 7. In this week’s chaotic and hilarious episode, the Messy Thoughts crew dive deep into diva worship, queer icons, and messy pop culture moments. From Mariah Carey and Grace Jones to Lady Gaga’s inspirations, they unpack the power of larger-than-life women who shaped their identities. Pride weekend stories mix with volleyball and pickleball confessions, plus a heated debate over Ozempic, Serena Williams’ catsuits, and the eternal “song of the summer” debate (spoiler: Sabrina Carpenter still reigns). Things get extra messy when Cardi B’s courtroom antics are dissected play-by-play, Crumbl Cookie’s CEO gets outed on TikTok, and the guys play a chaotic round of Black Card Revoked that exposes just how much LeBron doesn’t know about Black movies and music. It’s an episode full of laughter, shade, and the kind of conversations that make Messy Thoughts what it is. Hosted by BJ Burgess and LeBron Huggins. Produced by Keller Davis.

Messy Thoughts Episode 6. This week on Messy Thoughts, LeBron and BJ dive headfirst into a messy mix of hot takes and hilarious stories. The episode kicks off with summer updates, Domino’s orders, and why The View’s return feels like a national holiday. From Whoopi Goldberg’s perfect casting to Ariana Grande’s Wicked dreams, the hosts dish on pop culture nostalgia—including Clueless, King of the Hill, and even concert price outrage (Doja Cat and Kali Uchis, we’re looking at you). But the real mess hits when the duo break down Jubilee’s fiery new episode featuring Amanda Seales debating 20 Black conservatives about reparations. They unpack the arguments, call out misinformation, and reflect on what reparations mean in America today. Along the way, you’ll hear stories about edibles gone horribly wrong, Bobby Hill growing up in Dallas, sneaky parking-garage concerts, and why companies laying people off deserve to be treated just like fuckboys. Funny, sharp, and unapologetically real, this episode serves up laughter and insight in equal measure—because nothing is off-limits when it comes to messy thoughts. Hosted by BJ Burgess and LeBron Huggins. Produced by Keller Davis.

In this week’s episode of Messy Thoughts, BJ and LeBron are back with their signature mix of laughs, hot takes, and unfiltered stories. They unpack a wild night out that ends with Street Fighter battles, dive into Nicki Minaj’s ongoing feuds and the chaos of “Gag City,” and debate whether rappers really need beef to thrive. Beyoncé’s Renaissance fans also catch some side-eye for demanding Act 3 too soon. The guys share what it’s like being “little celebrities” as coworkers and strangers recognize them from the pod, plus we get a peek at BJ’s mom becoming a loyal fan (and low-key critic). Keller drops in with some random questions about traveling long distances for love, and whether outing people is ever justified. They also get messy with talk of deodorant, dance classes, Living Single nostalgia, and Pride weekend in Austin. Episode 5 of Messy Thoughts. Hosted by BJ Burgess and LeBron Huggins. Produced by Keller Davis.

It’s a scorcher in Austin, and BJ and LeBron are feeling the heat—literally. Between near heat strokes and sweaty tennis matches, they unbox a surprise Labubu collectible live on air, naming it (after some debate) and diving into the weird world of cute-but-creepy toys. From there, the conversation takes a sharp turn into identity, as LeBron opens up about being biracial and white-passing, navigating assumptions, confronting ignorance, and the unexpected “superpower” of hearing what people really say when they think no one’s listening. The two swap stories about awkward encounters, race play oversteps, and the wild comfort strangers sometimes have with crossing lines. They wrap with local drag queen love, Halloween memories, and a shoutout to Austin’s upcoming Pride and Black Pride ATX events—plus, a lube recommendation you didn’t know you needed.

BJ and LeBron are back—this time at a table, giving full-on cable news drama and discussing everything from surviving Austin heat to surviving Gen Z. They talk bougie ski fantasies, their current calorie-counting journeys, and the chaos of Crumbl cookies. Also on the docket: generational rants (yes, we’re looking at you, Gen Z), a surprise H-E-B crush, public pool etiquette disasters, and a full airing of grievances with the Austin City Council. Oh, and if something’s not serving you? Leave it. Quit it. Divorce it. Tune in for the messiest thoughts yet.

BJ and LeBron are back and extra messy this week! They kick things off with sore muscles and gym talk, then dive into nostalgia over Aaliyah and Left Eye, the myth of Beyoncé’s career trajectory, and the tragic fall of Keri Hilson. The two unpack the complexities of cohabitating with a partner—do you need your own space, or do you want cuddles and shared pancakes? Plus: stinky hookups, the trauma of forgetting deodorant at DragCon, nosy neighbors, and a rage-inducing MAGA hat sighting at H-E-B. You already know—it’s unfiltered, hilarious, and deeply queer.

In the hilarious and heartfelt debut of Messy Thoughts, BJ Burgess and LeBron Huggins catch up on summer plans, flights, Beyoncé concert fashion etiquette, sidewalk showdowns, and the nuances of queer identity. From debating Spirit Airlines to clashing shoulders with sidewalk hogs, they don’t hold back. The second half dives into a juicy, unfiltered conversation about whether Black people can be considered “twinks” in gay culture, tackling internal biases, representation, and community language with humor and depth. It’s the mess you didn’t know you needed.