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Not As I Will…

by Brother James

Shifting from purely a podcast geared to help men get set free from sexual addiction. I am moving into what is God's will for your life. Basing it off of 1 Thessalonians 4:3, 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 and 1 Peter 2:15. In addition to sex, we will be discussing apologetics (to give an answer for why we believe) and the triumphs/issues with the modern church.

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  1. Cults and the 2nd coming

    Talking about Cults (specifically David Koresh of Waco). Along with a basic understanding of the revelation and the second coming of Christ. References: Kon Tweeten (masters of Theology), Eric Jackson, 2 Thessalonians 2:1-10 NKJV

  2. Service and Entertainment

    Comparing service as what people are really looking for to be fulfilled. Entertainment and stimulation as the current state of our hearts as an American church and America as a whole. References: Mark 10:45 NKJV, Matthew 6:16-18 NIV

  3. Debunk: You can be anything you want to be

    Addressing the statement: "You can do anything you put your mind to." or "You can be anything you want to be." References: Romans 12:3-6a (NKJV) Older men should be calm and temperate with patience. Reference: Titus 2:1-2 (NKJV)

  4. There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end leads only to death

    Financial crisis and causes. references (Revised Standard Version, 1953) Scales and Title: Proverbs 16:11, 25 Warning to the dishonest rich: James 5:1-6 Do not fret for those who do wrong: Psalm 37:1-2 Discipline: Hebrews 12:10-11

  5. I want my child to have it better than me and Scripture memory segment

    Biblical References: Matthew 19:21-24 (KJV) Psalm 90:10 (NKJV) Scripture memory verse: 1 Thessalonians 4:5 (NKJV) other references: Bible hub for the greek word "Eido" and its meaning

  6. The Way You Live Your Life Matters

    A Monologue over having a level of disgust for society, The Social Church, Law vs. Grace teaching, and how you live matters. Biblical references: Matthew 8:22 NKJV (...Let the dead bury their own dead.), Matthew 16: 24 NKJV (Take up your cross...), Matthew 19:21 NKJV (Go and sell all you have...)

  7. Scripture memory Segment: 1 Thessalonians 4:4

    Brief Reflection of verse 4 Going through how to effectively memorize 1 Thessalonians 4:4 (NKJV)

  8. Scripture memory: 1 Thessalonians 4:3

    Quick commentary over sexual immorality. Reference (1 Timothy 4). Then scripture memory segment (1 Thessalonians 4:3 NKJV).

  9. The Cities The Churches and The Heart

    Cities and churches and the comparison to the heart of someone. Commentary of Revelation 2 and 3. As someone who speaks into the lives of other's, you can't do it alone. There has to be multiple people in the lives of those in your ministry. Biblical References: Revelation 2 and 3 (NKJV), Ezekiel...

  10. Scripture memory segment: 1 Thessalonians 4:2 (NKJV)

    Memorizing the chapter of 1 Thessalonians 4. This is our verse 2 segment courtesy of the New King James Bible

  11. The Truth about Homosexuality

    What is the truth about homosexuality? What does God think about homosexuality? does Jesus change that? Homosexuality is not the unforgivable sin. References: Leviticus 18:21-23 (NKJV), 1 Corinthians 6:9-10 (NKJV), Hebrews 12:11 (NKJV)

  12. Keys to understanding christianity

    1. Money: Be aware when you are being asked for Money. Matthew 10:9 (NKJV) is pretty clear about what God wants his disciples to do and how he wants them to do it. Reference a story in Acts 16 where the girl is making her masters money because of her fortune telling. 2. Discipline masks…

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  13. Scripture Memory Episode: 1 Thessalonians 4:1 NKJV

    The process of embedding the word in your heart.

  14. The past has brought you here and cultural views of Christ

    Talking about how Gods expectation of us is to thank Him, and we will not be anxious. Phillipians 4:6-7 (NKJV). Cultural comparison to the Jews of Jesus time and our current culture.

  15. Vexations of The Modern Church

    Personal Vexings: 1. Social dilemma (Older White Males, Young Black men) 2. Expectations of unbelievers 3. Class Systems 4. Sexual Distortion: A symptom of "The Love of Money" (1 Timothy 6:10) Ezekiel 16:49-50 (NIV) 49 “‘Now this was the sin of your sister Sodom: She and her daughters were...

  16. Divorce Part 2

    Divorce and God's Requirement of us Micah 6:8 NKJV. Priority List Causes of divorce and hope even if divorce does happen. Personal testimony on intimacy.

  17. Divorce and In Marriage non negotiables part 1

    Part I Addressing divorce and non negotiables. Putting yourself in bad situations ahead of time mentally so you can praise God when it doesn't happen. But if it does, you may have already been there and will be more at peace when it comes. Biblical References: (NKJV) Matthew 5:27-28, 31-32 (NKJV)...

  18. Abstain From Idol Pollution and Sexual immorality

    Acts 15:19-20 Behind every idol is a demon: 1 Corinthians 10:14-22 Putting regulations on: Collosians 3:20-23

  19. Not As I Will… (Trailer)

  20. God's Will Introduction Part II: Apologetics

    Addressing the questions of Meaning (What is true Love?), Purpose (Why am I here?), Destiny (why do good things happen to bad people and bad things happen to good people?) Different words for love in the greek: Agape-Unconditional (selfless), Phillia-Deep friendship (Love for a brother or…

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  21. God's Will introduction Part I: Testimonial and the modern church

    References (All NKJV): 1 Thessalonians 4:3, 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18, 1 peter 2:15, Galatians 2:20, Romans 8:1, Romans 8:28-30 Testimonial and the Christian Spectrum: in order from right to left: Calvinism, Baptists, Eastern Orthodox, Episcopalian, Protestant (Methodists, presbyterians, lutherans,...

  22. If I Had a Son Finale: The Lust Of The Eyes

    Finishing up the series of If I had a son and transitioning into a remastered pornography series from an earlier podcast series that I created over a year ago. Reference: 1 John 2:14-17 NKJV

  23. If I Had A Son: Part 3 (Controversy and The Abortion Dilemma)

    What are controversial things we see in the church today? Why is abortion so hated, when sleeping with our significant other is accepted? Using biblical references to help understand abortion and what happens to the unborn. Why we can trust Jesus to settle our mis-understanding. Jesus is above...

  24. If I Had A Son: Part 2

    Keys to Peace and your mind and your families mind. Do you want the war in your mind to end? Come see a few things that we have experienced growing up that shaped us. Whether good or bad and how we can change how our kids are brought up. What do we need to hang on to from past generations and…

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  25. If I Had a son: The Framework for Spiritual health

    "I would tell him: your whole life may not be seen by anyone but God, and that is all that matters. Because in the end we will all be exposed for who and what we are. And it will be clear, if we knew, God was watching the whole time." We are looking at non related external symptoms to one…

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  26. Scripture memory Episode: 1 Corinthians 6:20

    Finishing up 1 Corinthians chapter 6. After, essentially a year.

  27. Preparation for Marriage with scripture memory of 1 Corinthians 6:19

    As my marriage progresses. I noticed three key points prior to being married that have helped make the transition easy. Referencing Isaiah 58:3-6 NKJV, 2 Timothy 4:19-22 NKJV.

  28. 3 post marriage reflections with our scripture memory segment: 1 Corinthians 6:18

    After being married for 2 months as a single man who had been praying and eagerly waiting for a spouse. Using Matthew 10:26 as reference, these are three key reflections I have found: 1. Who you were before marriage will come with you into your marriage (fortunately we are able to grow with the...

  29. Sexual restraint and Being equally yoked with 1 Corinthians 6:17 memory segment

    What does it mean to be equally yoked? Using the verse in 2 Corinthians 6:14 (NIV). We talk about a real world example of being equally yoked and what it means to maintain purity prior to marriage. What does it mean if you aren't pure before marriage? God Can still heal this in your relationship...

  30. Boundaries in relationships with our Scripture memory segment: 1 Corinthians 6:16 NKJV

    Talking about boundaries in relationships prior to marriage. (reference Hebrews 13:4 NKJV) Be specific. Do you know yourself enough to set up realistic boundaries? Do you know the truth of God's word? Do you know the enemy? ("the devil sleepeth not and neither is the flesh as yet dead, therefore...

  31. Aspirations Of The Dead

    Referring to Galatians 5:17-21 NKJV before the fruits of the spirit and Matthew 8:21-22 NKJV. We are highlighting the fruits of the flesh and Jesus calling us to follow Him and let the dead bury their own dead. I compiled a personal list of what dead people do and are caught up in. 1. Sex that...

  32. Can you explain your salvation? With a healing testimony and Scripture memory 1 Corinthians 6:16 NKJV

    Helping to align those who are spirit led believers in Jesus Christ with understanding your salvation. Something I recently have been aligned with using Galatians 2:20 NKJV and 1 John 4:17b NKJV to support our salvation as Christ Living his life through us. Not by trying to live morally but...

  33. Scripture memory segment: 1 Corinthians 6:15 NKJV

    Going through the process of memorizing scripture. With an emphasis on verse 15.

  34. Online dating and Internet Safety with Andrea O Hara MA

    What are the platforms for online dating? How do we navigate them in general as a society? What causes people to date online? Biblical references to generational issues regarding sexual behavior (Genesis 14-19 summarized). Looking at the process to meeting someone today safely: Emotionally and...

  35. Scripture memory: 1 Corinthians 6:14 NKJV

    Going through the process of memorizing scripture with emphasis in verse 14 of 1 Corinthians 6. Instructions to combat those who believe sex outside of marriage is ok. If someone does believe something isn't written for them (Reference Hebrews 13:1-6 NKJV, focus in verse 4), then they do not...

  36. Scripture memory: 1 corinthians 6:13 NKJV

    Going through the tedious process of memorizing scripture. But "yields the peaceable fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it."-Hebrews 12:11b. Mentioning the correlation in Verse 13 of 1 corinthians 6 of the scientific comparison of sex addiction and food addiction as having…

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  37. A woman's perspective part 5: Discussion With Brooke

    A single woman's perspective and her experience with Married couples and the pornography issues that arise in marriages.

  38. Opposite sex Friendships Part 2 with Baby bear

    Part 2 to the last segment regarding opposite sex friendships. Talking primarily about older positive relationships with the opposite sex that yield much fruit. Brief strategy for what your looking for in someone. Long term is the key, using Isaiah 40:6-8

  39. Scripture memory episode: 1 Corinthians 6:12

    Going through the process of learning how to memorize whole chapters of scripture. Emphasizing Verse 12. Brief devotional after.

  40. A woman's perspective part 3: Opposite sex Friendships Part 1 with Baby bear

    Talking about different points of view of opposite friendships. Two polar opposites in approach and situations when it comes to opposite sex friendships. Living with non romantic opposite sex friends? Could leave you up for emotional disturbances and issues. But coming from my sister Baby bear's...

  41. Scripture memory episode: 1 Corinthians 6:11 NKJV and Gods will

    Covering the process to memorize a chapter of scripture in 1 Corinthians 6, focusing on verse 11. Then having a brief reflection and underlying thoughts on Gods will for our life. References: 1 John 2:14-17NKJV, 1 Thessalonians 4:3NKJV, James 1:12-17NKJV, Matthew 8:21NKJV, Mathew 16:24-27NKJV.

  42. Scripture memory episode: 1 Corinthians 6:10

    Walking through the process to memorize a full chapter of scripture. “Your word I have hidden in my heart, that I MIGHT not sin against you.” Psalm 119:11. Emphasizing might: I pray we do all in our power to combat the enemy. Leave nothing out as means for victory in this life.

  43. A woman’s perspective part 2: Consensual relations with Andrea O Hara, MA

    Defining consensual relationships and what we can do to identify how to have consent even in the confines of marriage. However for those who may be outside of marriage, this is definitely something you want to listen to. For further questions and therapy if needed. Please contact Andrea O Hara:...

  44. A woman’s perspective part 1 with Andrea Ohara psychotherapist, MA

    Discuss the clinical practice and tools for those who have porn and/sex addiction with a professional on the field of psychology. On psychology Today and can be contacted via email: [email protected]

  45. Scripture memory episode: 1 Corinthians 6:9b

    Emphasizing a different word as we focus in 1 Corinthians 6:9b.

  46. 3 warnings and strategies for freedom

    3 warnings: justification of sin, “this is who I am” statements, and formulas set out by trusted council. Strategies: writing down frustrations and sexual frustrations in detail, getting mad at God is not bad, it brings him into your pain, and attraction to women is not bad. A thought of sex is…

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  47. To rid ourselves of all vices so that we can be used at capacity.

    My prayer is that we remove all vices and control the controllable’s in our lives. “This is the will of God for your life, your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality.” 1 Thessalonians 4:3. Do not be deceived God uses everyone in every state. But our goal should be to be used by...

  48. Discussion with brother Cyrus: champion of fasting

    Insight into fasting practice in an extreme way that can also be dangerous health wise. Be aware of health risks but if God calls you to fast, trust he will sustain you.

  49. Discussion with Billy Horton: Personal recollections and fasting advice.

    Discussing personal past with sex and pornography. Also the regular practice of fasting that leads to spiritual discipline. “The 7 day fast” by: Billy Horton. Scripture memory from 1 Corinthians 6:7a NKJV

  50. Fasting part 1: biblical references to fasting, spiritual and health benefits.

    Going over foundations of fasting as means to control your flesh after all strategies have been exhausted to this point. Noted: also to help other people in your life with their afflictions that God places in your path. Covering the health benefits from an article by Rachel Link, MS, RD “8 health...

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Shifting from purely a podcast geared to help men get set free from sexual addiction. I am moving into what is God's will for your life. Basing it off of 1 Thessalonians 4:3, 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 and 1 Peter 2:15. In addition to sex, we will be discussing apologetics (to give an answer for why we believe) and the triumphs/issues with the modern church.

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Shifting from purely a podcast geared to help men get set free from sexual addiction. I am moving into what is God's will for your life. Basing it off of 1 Thessalonians 4:3, 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 and 1 Peter 2:15. In addition to sex, we will be discussing apologetics (to give an answer for why...

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